Helping your wife with house work doesn’t mean she’s disrespecting him. That’s how it’s supposed to be. She’s not a maid. Me I am a man and helping a woman I love is a must.
I do everything at home, cleaning, paying rent and buying groceries /foods, i have nothing i can't do at home but i have found it that ladies take you for granted once you open up to help these ladies
Claire and Santa, surely you've nailed it. He and she got to work jointly and totally complement each other in this capitalism era. Naffe abasajja tusilika naye ebimu bitumenya nnyoooo
Claire (lady in black at the back) very well said I like the fact that your impartial unlike your other friends... nandi kuwereza ka xmas present wabula.. electronic gift card oba👏👏🤙🤙
This is really good to educate Ugandan couples.they don’t know that they have to be on the same page like invensting for themselves and their generation.women have a say (akasente kekyikyala) which makes men helpless and hopeless in marriage.ending up to everyone doing on her or his own.
The way am enjoying the show😘😘🔥🔥 OMG It's a matter of understanding each, banange nze omusaja eyosobola I don't have problem with him, but if we are sharing bills my dia don't even think of okusajalata .tweyambe yambe ekyo kigwe .
I’m enjoying the conversation with these Beautiful Souls..Have seen Brains here 👌👌 Even Next time Madam #Flavia we need these ladies bateseza bulungi 😊👌 Naye waliwo ankubye patange ☺️
The ladies are balanced in their reasoning. i think the behavior of men and women in marriage is hell bent on the culture shocks that each of them faces in America as opposed to Uganda.
loved these ladies when they were giving their views by the way start bringing such topics, thanks so much there was something to learn out of it but those men who like women to hell with them.
Good show Flavia! Please invite African women and men on MS Teams or Zoom for a deep discussion or debate. Things are far more different abroad than in Uganda.
Flavia, greetings and much love to you and all that you do. Back to topic. The answers to your questions are 2 basic things:: 1. Bwogenda ebulya mbwa, …. 2. Self understanding and self appreciation 3. Man and wife MUST create their own culture in their home. Ebya “Supposed, supposed, supposed.” Bisudde amaka manji. What works in one home does not necessarily work in another.
i passed through the worst wen the man brought me to the US, i was not supposed to work,he paid his bills but remember i have a family at home that i used to care for,abakazi ssi babbi naye nabasajja sibangu,i started working by force,is that nkujogga, men here are bad
@@namubiruhope4175 Yes,i got a group of ladies that where passing through the same but staying in different states,we helped each other out,i had to go back to uganda ad rest abit then came back with i know my rights slogan, many women keep quite for the sake of culture naye the men ohhhh
@@DIASPORACONNECTUG We worked out on the issues when i went back home then came back with the i know my rights slogan,women are suffering out there ad i wonder wen bloggers come out ad say abakazi bebulaya bajoga abasajja
Very true, there men who are women, omusajja akuzalamu a banna nga tasobola kubalabilira, tayagalo kola, talina mukwano yadde nga amagezige gonna gagwera mu bigere. And those are the one that complain inti abakazi babajoga. There few men these days Flavia.
Our Mothers ..Grands.. the work ..the responsibility..the fetching of water in villages..collecting firewood..digging and management of farms..etc..means even in Uganda a woman plays around 60 to 70%.contribution for the wellbeing of the family...Namulindwa ...The Topic is..""Why Women runaway"..??...its very bad for either a man or a woman to ran away ??
I want to give more clarification on this topic flavia.There are three types of relationship.(1)is where a man and a woman peacefully agrees to share responsilities 50/50 i mean, if awoman breastfed in the morning a man bottle-fed in the night, if a woman washes dishes, the man has to do the same.they have to pay rent together and the list goes on...the duration of this marriage me and you i don't know.... (2) is when a man takes responsibilities of everything to his family which has everything what that man desires from his family without complaining and living together peacefully.....this allows a woman to have time for her family and respect to her husband and even if this woman is working she will not strain to hard to provide for her family but only to give a helping hand to her husband.... (3)is when a woman works too hard to provide for the family. In hear the man is the helping hand to this woman so this turns out that a woman is the head of the family and i assure you this man will never gain any respect as a man.Men suck to take care of, they are like babies so with this working woman will never fulfil both or if she trys so hard her soul will bleed filled with anger,sadness and so on and that's where the war begins so,these are men putting blame to women mbu they are bad, don't respect men and more.So,my advise goes to both Men and women know yourself and what you want before any relationship to avoid these unnecessary complains and harming each other.And my last word to men, please, stop being so lazy, work so hard to retain your respect in a relationship or before embarking on that journey.you are mean't to look for money.You have all the chances, time, energy than a woman to look for money.Money and respect is everything to a man..
This topic has made rounds on different channels lately, I like how the ladies balanced the discussion,,, not talking for one side.. My view: when you relocate to a new environment, HAVE AN OPEN MIND AND BE READY/WILLING TO ADAPT TO THE NEW ENVIRONMENT. That way you will have less challenges in the new place. For instance:if in Uganda men don't participate in domestic chores coz that's how culture is, when you go to a new place where you as a man are required to participate in domestic chores don't be rigid, adjust... Unless you are going to provide for the family (the biggest part/pay all bills) but if the woman has to take care of the bills approximately same as you or even more, then things are not going to go well.
When a man and woman live together as a couple and both are working, it's fine to support each other financially. Forget about the treatment back home. Please organize a zoom meeting for men and women.
Flavia mukwano praise God, Flavia mukwano I would like u to help me and get me a contact of Miss Chief Mable in Michigan thanks as am waiting for ur reply mukwano
To me I think , some men naturally bajozi , just like how they enjoy there life home with multiple women, here we share the bills we save the money together and the man goes around to sleep with different girls and giving out our savings which is very disrespective, on top of that men are very rigid because if we all go and work the same hours omusajja kimujjako ki to come back and help you with house cores and kids , we all come back home very tired and he sits at the table to wait for food , shower and sleep and he leaves all the work with kids to the wife
Hi dear Flavia greeting u, 4m I hated love coz women if they get money oh they changed their behaviors so I don't know that love is still there in the world this day byakutemesa nosiikamu maso I mean just get lady for one day and move on obuffumbo bwebulaya tebusoboka 4me I made trusted ladies but kyebatusizako I don't think nti love ekyaliyo in this world I love you, dear thanks
Lots of love Mirembe Suzie my fashionist. All I can say about the topic is ; men should know women are born of the same womb as them. They grow same so I wonder why men think they are above women yet we are all the same. A part from the sex. They are energetic compared to women. Meaning they would be the ones doing a lot.
BANANGE BAKAZI BANANGE OBUFUMBO MUKISA ABANTU BELONDALONDANYO BWOLIBERA OMUKAZI OMUKOZI ENYO ABASAJJA BAKUTYA BWOBA OMUNAFU NAKYO KIBAMENYA NAYE OMUNTU BWABA ALINA KYAYAGALA ALINA OKUFIRILILA POINT EBERE AMERIKA OBA AFRICA TWO PEOPLE MET ON THE WAY ITS GODS MERCY TO MAKE IT
I cook better than my wife, funny thing she's from Africa and got her from Africa but even her she was surprised that I could almost by myself and that I was self sufficient. Her parents came to visit and were very surprised how self sufficient I was but it's tiring sometimes and wish I had an African lifestyle where everything is done for me especially breakfast and all I have is to go out to work and provide for the family but here in diaspora it's hard to have such a life because we don't have maids and time. Men in diaspora need to be patient and understanding but also proactive otherwise your marriage won't survive. Another thing most women taken from diaspora have financial commitments to their own family back home and men need to accept that I guess
There’s also stay at home moms in the western world. Depends on every individual family’s arrangement. It’s usually a sacrifice one partner has to give. Or sometimes it’s cheaper for a mother for example to stay home and raise the kids than pay so much in daycare and some parents don’t want someone else raising their kids.
Lady in black has great maturity n the best thing is, she's really cute !!!!!
The lady in black has a mature reasoning capacity I love the way she reasons
That black beautiful lady behind has mature reasoning
The lady in back is on point her reasoning is very good
That lady in black has a well balanced mind. There are always two sides to the coin.
Lady in black has balanced maid bambi God bless you.pastor Herbert
Helping your wife with house work doesn’t mean she’s disrespecting him. That’s how it’s supposed to be. She’s not a maid. Me I am a man and helping a woman I love is a must.
I do everything at home, cleaning, paying rent and buying groceries /foods, i have nothing i can't do at home but i have found it that ladies take you for granted once you open up to help these ladies
I really love Claire Santa's comments the lady in black at the backseat big up
We men we need to be flexible, helping your partner with house work doesn't mean disrespecting
Well said Joseph
👍👍
Another feminism victim. Thats y you paid dowry to wash plates in your home. Aaaah woman sorry man
Well said
Some men are fools
I like that Lady in black 🖤🖤🖤. Thank you
Claire and Santa, surely you've nailed it. He and she got to work jointly and totally complement each other in this capitalism era.
Naffe abasajja tusilika naye ebimu bitumenya nnyoooo
The lady in black is the best with smart minds 👏
Both partners need to be open to each other , help yo partner share everything that brings peace in your relationship
The presenter's thinking and mentality is so myopic . The lady guests are upright and with good intent
Nalina omukazi e Uganda 🇺🇬 yali akola,nganange jiya nganfuna olusifuna kinene lumunangenda nenfumva emere ,nejoza ebintu nengenda okuyiya, olwadako nalina okugenda, okuyiya,safumba nesuwani sazoza,ngabwomanyi nezinja nakafera, netise yangamba kimukamwake owaye ebintu wabireke ani?okuva olwo sadayo kumuyamba, bweyafulumanga tugendafena, netwukanira kupaka,nengenda kubyange,natandika okubyeyoleza,kati abana abo kyebogera ebimubitufu,nsinga nafuna omukazi omukwabo obufumbo bwanditerede,mbakonedemu!!!!!!!I love you ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡☆☆☆☆☆☆☆♧
Claire (lady in black at the back) very well said I like the fact that your impartial unlike your other friends... nandi kuwereza ka xmas present wabula.. electronic gift card oba👏👏🤙🤙
Her reasoning capacity is at high level ❤❤
Omukazi yanjoogela e Chicago😢 Irene wanjooga!
🤣🤣🤣 sori bruh
Gals lots of love so happy 100% with all yo points respect comes both ways
These ladies are so understanding..bt as a man personally helping ma woman is something i would love to do
Have these two beautiful ladies ❤
I also agree with Claire
Thnx u swt
This is really good to educate Ugandan couples.they don’t know that they have to be on the same page like invensting for themselves and their generation.women have a say (akasente kekyikyala) which makes men helpless and hopeless in marriage.ending up to everyone doing on her or his own.
baano bankolede,i wish my fiance can listen to this.
I have enjoyed and learn something thanks to you all
I really love the way these ladies analyze their issues concerning relationship. Thank you so much guys. I love you all.
good conversation but it makes more sense when one person speaks at a time.
The way am enjoying the show😘😘🔥🔥 OMG
It's a matter of understanding each, banange nze omusaja eyosobola I don't have problem with him, but if we are sharing bills my dia don't even think of okusajalata .tweyambe yambe ekyo kigwe .
I’m enjoying the conversation with these Beautiful Souls..Have seen Brains here 👌👌 Even Next time Madam #Flavia we need these ladies bateseza bulungi 😊👌 Naye waliwo ankubye patange ☺️
Aliwa hajji?? Webale kusiima ssebo
Wamma nze bwemba silina manyi gafumba my hubby can cook ,he can do everything ngasazeewo naye tebamulagira,,,i just thank the lady who raised hım 🙏🙏
I like the way these ladies express their views.
BUT Claire your dialect humbles any man
Nice to see Claire.
It's true some men, don't want to work and women work, earn and pay all bills but still respect eachother and husband and wife.
First here, am watching, I think it's all about want to be equal
The ladies are balanced in their reasoning. i think the behavior of men and women in marriage is hell bent on the culture shocks that each of them faces in America as opposed to Uganda.
loved these ladies when they were giving their views by the way start bringing such topics, thanks so much there was something to learn out of it but those men who like women to hell with them.
Those men love slay queens nebatamanya nti slay queen anonya way out to her destination.
But some women also get smart wires and spend their money on them😂
Indians are the richest and the most educated in every country they go to. This is because of their family unit.
Ate for all your safety bambi mwandituziiza this meeting nga temuli mu kuvvuga motoka. Katonda abakuume. bano abakyala abattelemu obwangu.
Thx for the show flavia❤️
Thanks for the show Flavia, am joying the show soo funny 😄 😆
Lady in black ure no.1
I have always been asking myself this question 😅
I love this program.. much love from home Uganda.. I hope am the first to comment
Point clear cic claire
Women earn alot of money abroad and become so excited it's their nature
Hello dia
Nze jangala kufumira muchala❤
Siri na mukazi
thank you guys for the discussion
Respecting each other!
Flavia, please come back to Uganda.....we miss you bambi...you're a class apart .
Flavor I wish am a friend to Klear, Bambi she is so understanding
I have fallen in love with these two claires cos they intelligent and objective. Though nze sileta ndibotta from Uganda 😏Thanks for the show guys!
😄😅🤣🤣ndibotta indeed
@@cathyally8365 okitegera?? Those ndibotas are just users😏😏😏😏😂
am in love with the conversation for sure## thanxs to u flavior
Thank you Flavia and your girls
Flavia Okoze ekibozibozi mu motoka. Naye Women in diaspora are not easio.
These ladies are tough
My agreement with my partner is that whoever is at home does every errands including dropping and picking.
I like your way of doing things.
Cleya nze Ndi ku side yo I have to sport my husband in everything ✍️✍️✍️✍️
Thank for the show 😂😂😂😂😂FLAVIA
Woow so beautiful ladies ❤
Good show Flavia! Please invite African women and men on MS Teams or Zoom for a deep discussion or debate. Things are far more different abroad than in Uganda.
Caire u are right.
Mukyala Matovu Claire,thank you oteseeza bulungi eri ffe abasajja.Flavia good job.Claire webare.
Bbanange Santa webare
Respecting each other
bambi ka Fanta Claire kalabika bulungi, koogela bulungi and she is humane. she sounds compassionate.
Flavia, greetings and much love to you and all that you do.
Back to topic. The answers to your questions are 2 basic things::
1. Bwogenda ebulya mbwa, ….
2. Self understanding and self appreciation
3. Man and wife MUST create their own culture in their home. Ebya “Supposed, supposed, supposed.” Bisudde amaka manji. What works in one home does not necessarily work in another.
Mazima bby gal
Wat of da culture u decently belong to from yo grand grand parents
Now I agree with caleir
Great episode. Keep up the great work.
The lady in black gave a better and balanced debate thank u.
Honestly some men not all of them have that ego “am the man” but not every man l think it’s all about communication and uu balance working shifts
This woman behind in black is very wise
Really wow
I like her alot
@claire #Keep winning gal. Looking great 👍
Thnx u so much pretty og carol 💓 you
Mwebalenyo mbakonedemu, nze Moses Bukenya Kazungu UK 🇬🇧
Abakyala bank mbagadde. Bogera mazima bambi
I hv loved Suzan she is smart look for me suzan
Flavia, please organize a debate between men and women of African origin to that we can exchange ideas.
Nice jazz Flaviana✌.
Banange Flavia noonyako nange nina emboozi neene
i passed through the worst wen the man brought me to the US, i was not supposed to work,he paid his bills but remember i have a family at home that i used to care for,abakazi ssi babbi naye nabasajja sibangu,i started working by force,is that nkujogga, men here are bad
Thanks for the aggressiveness ... working by force👍
Omg 😳. Do u mind sharing your story on camera??? Can locate u
Are you still married to him wabula such men batama
@@namubiruhope4175 Yes,i got a group of ladies that where passing through the same but staying in different states,we helped each other out,i had to go back to uganda ad rest abit then came back with i know my rights slogan, many women keep quite for the sake of culture naye the men ohhhh
@@DIASPORACONNECTUG We worked out on the issues when i went back home then came back with the i know my rights slogan,women are suffering out there ad i wonder wen bloggers come out ad say abakazi bebulaya bajoga abasajja
Very true, there men who are women, omusajja akuzalamu a banna nga tasobola kubalabilira, tayagalo kola, talina mukwano yadde nga amagezige gonna gagwera mu bigere. And those are the one that complain inti abakazi babajoga.
There few men these days Flavia.
Our Mothers ..Grands.. the work ..the responsibility..the fetching of water in villages..collecting firewood..digging and management of farms..etc..means even in Uganda a woman plays around 60 to 70%.contribution for the wellbeing of the family...Namulindwa ...The Topic is..""Why Women runaway"..??...its very bad for either a man or a woman to ran away ??
Marriage will always be analog mujakwerimba but u will never change anything okujako okudiba
truths
What is marriage?
The concept of perceiving a working ambitious woman as man is ignorant in itself. Thanks Claire.
Thnx u for watching Dear
Gals u look so amazing
Thank for bringing Suzan eyali omutunzi wange kutumideko
I want to give more clarification on this topic flavia.There are three types of relationship.(1)is where a man and a woman peacefully agrees to share responsilities 50/50 i mean, if awoman breastfed in the morning a man bottle-fed in the night, if a woman washes dishes,
the man has to do the same.they have to pay rent together and the list goes on...the duration of this marriage me and you i don't know....
(2) is when a man takes responsibilities of everything to his family which has everything what that man desires from his family without complaining and living together peacefully.....this allows a woman to have time for her family and respect to her husband and even if this woman is working she will not strain to hard to provide for her family but only to give a helping hand to her husband....
(3)is when a woman works too hard to provide for the family. In hear the man is the helping hand to this woman so this turns out that a woman is the head of the family and i assure you this man will never gain any respect as a man.Men suck to take care of, they are like babies so with this working woman will never fulfil both or if she trys so hard her soul will bleed filled with anger,sadness and so on and that's where the war begins so,these are men putting blame to women mbu they are bad, don't respect men and more.So,my advise goes to both Men and women know yourself and what you want before any relationship to avoid these unnecessary complains and harming each other.And my last word to men, please, stop being so lazy, work so hard to retain your respect in a relationship or before embarking on that journey.you are mean't to look for money.You have all the chances, time, energy than a woman to look for money.Money and respect is everything to a man..
This topic has made rounds on different channels lately, I like how the ladies balanced the discussion,,, not talking for one side..
My view: when you relocate to a new environment, HAVE AN OPEN MIND AND BE READY/WILLING TO ADAPT TO THE NEW ENVIRONMENT. That way you will have less challenges in the new place.
For instance:if in Uganda men don't participate in domestic chores coz that's how culture is, when you go to a new place where you as a man are required to participate in domestic chores don't be rigid, adjust... Unless you are going to provide for the family (the biggest part/pay all bills) but if the woman has to take care of the bills approximately same as you or even more, then things are not going to go well.
Suzan she is beautiful
When a man and woman live together as a couple and both are working, it's fine to support each other financially. Forget about the treatment back home. Please organize a zoom meeting for men and women.
☺️☺️☺️the last four minutes
Flavia mukwano praise God, Flavia mukwano I would like u to help me and get me a contact of Miss Chief Mable in Michigan thanks as am waiting for ur reply mukwano
To me I think , some men naturally bajozi , just like how they enjoy there life home with multiple women, here we share the bills we save the money together and the man goes around to sleep with different girls and giving out our savings which is very disrespective, on top of that men are very rigid because if we all go and work the same hours omusajja kimujjako ki to come back and help you with house cores and kids , we all come back home very tired and he sits at the table to wait for food , shower and sleep and he leaves all the work with kids to the wife
A man has a right to have more women. We are the seed not you. Law of nature and u can never change it
Hi dear Flavia greeting u, 4m I hated love coz women if they get money oh they changed their behaviors so I don't know that love is still there in the world this day byakutemesa nosiikamu maso I mean just get lady for one day and move on obuffumbo bwebulaya tebusoboka 4me I made trusted ladies but kyebatusizako I don't think nti love ekyaliyo in this world I love you, dear thanks
Love you ❤Flavi
Lots of love Mirembe Suzie my fashionist.
All I can say about the topic is ; men should know women are born of the same womb as them. They grow same so I wonder why men think they are above women yet we are all the same. A part from the sex. They are energetic compared to women. Meaning they would be the ones doing a lot.
🤣🤣mujooga
BANANGE BAKAZI BANANGE OBUFUMBO MUKISA ABANTU BELONDALONDANYO BWOLIBERA OMUKAZI OMUKOZI ENYO ABASAJJA BAKUTYA BWOBA OMUNAFU NAKYO KIBAMENYA NAYE OMUNTU BWABA ALINA KYAYAGALA ALINA OKUFIRILILA POINT EBERE AMERIKA OBA AFRICA TWO PEOPLE MET ON THE WAY ITS GODS MERCY TO MAKE IT
Is Christine Nampala single? Thank you.
Respect ts what matters
I cook better than my wife, funny thing she's from Africa and got her from Africa but even her she was surprised that I could almost by myself and that I was self sufficient. Her parents came to visit and were very surprised how self sufficient I was but it's tiring sometimes and wish I had an African lifestyle where everything is done for me especially breakfast and all I have is to go out to work and provide for the family but here in diaspora it's hard to have such a life because we don't have maids and time. Men in diaspora need to be patient and understanding but also proactive otherwise your marriage won't survive. Another thing most women taken from diaspora have financial commitments to their own family back home and men need to accept that I guess
Well said
Employee me as maid, 😊
There’s also stay at home moms in the western world. Depends on every individual family’s arrangement. It’s usually a sacrifice one partner has to give. Or sometimes it’s cheaper for a mother for example to stay home and raise the kids than pay so much in daycare and some parents don’t want someone else raising their kids.
A woman will never be a man and his respect period
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Naye cleyah 😂😂😂😂