Journaling and Scrapbooking is a great alternative from social media. There you don’t have to be validated by others. If you wanna show your real friends your cool photos, show them your scrapbook. Or maybe even your journal. Receiving a card or a phone call from someone is so much better than all those fb birthday notification. Sometimes you have to let people go when their chapter has ended in your life, but social media is making it hard to let them go especially when they no longer care and you’re the one still wanting to hold on to them. Not seeing them with their lives on social media, really makes it easier for you to move on.
I like what you say about making it harder to let people go. I can definitely relate. Journaling has been very helpful for me! I find it helps me clear my brain.
I quit April 2020, because of covid I was using social media 6-9 hours a day..it was unhealthy.... the best thing I did, I feel so much better not being affected by people's political views and problems.. Now just focus on my life.
It's been more than 2 months since i quit social media. It really feels good to make ur mind free of unnecessary stuffs all the time and also enhances ur power to achieve ur goal. I'm in harmony now.
@ninja gg There is nothing good or bad....its upon u how u feel about it...so for me it was way more annoying and distracting so i decided to quit it and its been about 3 months since i quit social media and i won't lie to u that i have become so productive and bla bla but one thing that i have noticed about myself is i live in harmony now and my self restraint has improved much and also i don't miss posting pics and reading memes. I do take pics and selfies but just keep it to me and in addition to this i'll say Am happy😊
I have been off of all social media accounts except YT for 3 months and it has been wonderful. I don’t see myself going back. I am happier, more productive, more confident and I have been able to strengthen my real life relationships. To me, YT doesn’t really count as social media because I use it more from an observer perspective. It is crazy what drinking water and minding your own business can do for your mental health lol
I love that, "It is crazy what drinking water and minding your own business can do for your mental health." Because it's the simple things that really do make a big difference over time! Good for you. 😁
Well done to you! :) I’ve been off social media for 2 months now and I find that I don’t compare myself to others as much and I focus more on my life and goals. UA-cam keeps me inspired and I watch things that I’m interested in 💕
I just deleted instagram and snapchat instantly😂. Relationships totally are superficial. I struggled with it at first because it was a way for me to spread my photography. I realized that there are so many other resources to develop my art. My concentration and productivity have increased significantly!
So true about the superficiality of relationships. It’s like the only way I know what my social circle is up to is only on social media, which is super annoying. I purposely stop posting stories because it forces people to reach out.. that’s IF they truly care
I am SO glad you mentioned that. Initially, I was very worried that my channel would not grow BECAUSE I do not have social media. I wondered whether or not I should even bother making a channel because most UA-camrs grow using social media. My take on it was this: "If I am going to have a channel, then I I first and foremost have to be true to what I value and what I believe in. And if I provide value, then my content will speak for me." I started 3 months ago and now have 100 subs. Maybe it's small compared to those who use social media to promote their channel, but I don't compare myself to other channels. If you have a message to share and you add value to someone's life, then perseverance is all you need. Go for it! At least you will know you tried.
@@wearestories_ Thank you! It actually motivates me more to see that what I'm doing is helping someone. So plan that first video! I'd love to do a 'shout out' when you publish it. 😁
i quit my social media two months ago, and i don't have any intentions of going back, my anxiety decreased soo much, thanks for making this video, i needed to hear this
I quit my social media at the beginning of the year. I was planning to do it for three months but I have been so productive, I think I will never go back. I kept youtube because I use it as a search engine. So far so good.
You described me perfectly! I was comparing myself to other people and my self-esteem got lower and lower until I finally decided to just step away from social media for a while. It's been 9 days and I really don't miss all the gossip, political posts, and photos of other people's food.
Thank you for this! I stopped social media yesterday for being left on read too much and felt like I was being taken for granted so I quit.. maybe it isn’t for the right reason but now, it feels like I don’t even feel the need to be wanted anymore and can just focus on myself
Congratulations! It's HARD to quit social media because we all want to feel a sense of belonging and connection, but sometimes it does the opposite. I'm sorry for your experience. I've been there. Good for you for deciding to take the time to focus on yourself more. Best wishes to you!
This is truly inspiring! Social media has precipitated many problems in my personal life and marriage. The wife & I decided to go “against the crowd”! We are now perceived as “leaders” by friends, family, and relatives!!
I delete my facebook maybe almost 2 years now. I lost my interest also in Instagram. I deactivated my ig account almost a month now. And i dont have any interest to come back online and see cringey and superficial living a perfect life post of random people. I rather read books , watch documentary, go to gym everyday, learn new things and spend time in nature alone with my bike. Without seeking for any validation of other people online. Having social media is toxic. Even you do it moderately. But, Living without social media gave me peace. 😊☕
How did this video just come up at the right time?? I had been scrolling through social media comparing myself to other people and feeling crappy. Ty for this!
Always cracks me up how everybody is taking photos and selfies instead of enjoying themselves. Like they need validation that what they’re doing is fun. Do you think social media give you false interest? Im tied of messages about pyramid schemes 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️ oils and mum support teams, travel and make money while doing it blah blah it’s constant.
I quit Facebook today and other social media pages because of the toxic, hateful and narcissistic people on there. It was a waste of time and energy. The popculture groups on there especially the anime and manga ones are full of obsessive,addicted, delusional and generally unhealthy fans who sends threats over my opinion on a series being my favorite or not and my reasoning on leaving a group. You can't unfriend people without the backlash either. It's insane.
I'm gonna detox social media, I will finish my bachelor, masters and PhD without it. I've done it before and it paid me very well, gonna do it again, this time for a veryyyyy long period 🌼 Say No To Mental Stress 😃
You are so sweet and beautiful! I’ve watched a few of these social media detox/quitting SM videos and yours has been my favorite to date. Continue staying true to yourself and shining your light. Thanks for your inspiration and encouragement! I had a 5 month IG break in 2018, but decided recently that I’m ready for another break. Your video has helped solidify my decision. Thanks again and sending love and light to you! ✨
I did 30 day fasts from social media this year and loved it each time. A couple weeks ago I deleted all the apps from my phone and only get on through my computer. I found this keeps me off of it allot more and I really enjoy it actually. I don’t feel the pressure to check it and post all the time like I did previously. My main reason is to more present and productive. It’s definitely working for me
YOU ARE A GODSEND !! I’m deleting social media (I had almost 10K followers on IG and ran my business completely through social media, but for many reasons I realized I need to make this decision for me) & your videos are sooo helpful
How do you continue to maintain your business w.o it? I'm curious cos I hate SM but ppl make it seem as if it's necessary for running a successful business these days
Thank you Yesi. After viewing this I went outside to do some yard work in the cactus garden and immediately wanted to post...stopped...looked around...and was suddenly in the moment. I didn't HAVE to post. I was free to just enjoy the beauty. Thank you
I deleted all my social media accounts yesterday and I already feel so much more connected with REALITY. Thank you for this great video to help get over the addiction and never turn back.
I just don't why it has become such an addiction in today's world. A person without a social media is considered outdated and most of the times isolation and loneliness sweeps inside. It feels like whatever we are doing, whatever we are accomplishing , it is not for ourselves, it is just for people who don't care about us. Only if people could come forward and show their sad,depressing lives just like they show off easily their fake lives, it would have been a great platform.
I was not in social media for past 3 years and initially it was hard but now I am really comfortable with myself and those real people in front of me...
Also... some solid advice at the end! I have actually engaged in doing those things. Doing so has made a tremendous difference in my relationships with others! You truly know your audience! Kudos.
I love this! I’m on a 21 day social media detox. I’m honestly considering leaving it too. Thank you for sharing your experience. So happy to be subscribing! ♥️ I’m also a UA-camr 😀
Thanks for sharing. I just quit social media. I personally don’t feel like it adds any real value to my life. So many things you mentioned about it were the same for me. I really want to focus on being more present in life and also have real life relationships. Anyways, have an awesome day! 🙂💖
thank you !! I watched this video yesterday, slept on it and finally made the decision to delete Instagram ! Will be deleting Facebook as soon as I have the phone numbers and birthdays of everyone I cherish. Was very daunting looking through all my followers and realising that there was just over a handful out of the 500 that I actually wanted to make an effort. I feel like I can focus on those that truly matter and hopefully be more productive as a result. Excited to claim back my time and my mental space, I wonder how I will feel in 5 years time ! Thank you !
I had to let social media go. Because people are just so judgmental, whenever I post pictures of myself not smiling, people criticise it. life is not all about happiness. I am all about honesty. And that is how I am in real life. I felt like I had to change to be accepted by people. So I deleted all of them.
Social media gives you an overinflated sense of self importance. 90% of your followers don't care about you. Just try going off social media for a month without telling anyone and you'll realise that most of your followers won't even notice. Why? Because you're just another profile to look at or scroll past. If your profile's gone, they'll just look at all the other profiles and carry on. You really don't miss out at all. Yes, you might have less interactions but I guarantee the interactions will be far more genuine and real
I couldn’t agree more. I remember my birthday after leaving Facebook, only 2 friends actually called to congratulate me. They are still my friends to this day. Well said!
It’s actually funny 😆 after 2 months being off social media no one even contacted me 😂 that says a lot, only people who care they contact me on my phone number which they always have done.
I used to envy people who had confidence because I definitely did not. But, confidence is something you build with practice. I encourage you to step outside your comfort zone just a little bit at a time, and with time, you will improve! If you want to speak in front of people or a camera, maybe record yourself, talk to yourself in the mirror, or participate in live events, like a play for example. Don’t just wish it. You CAN do it!! 😁
I'm so proud of you hehe 5 years is really long, i already quit social media also for about 1 year and it's really satisfying I find peace, treasure your few friends who'll support what you really want for yourself and not only after of showing off what you have.
Yes, I actually had to change the title of the video to say "except UA-cam" because I did not realize it it considered social media. I personally don't find a need to quit using UA-cam because I use it to learn from motivational people or learn new things.. like how to clean your burnt pan 🤣 It can be problematic though when we start mindlessly scrolling through suggested. I guess the key is to be mindful of how you're spending your time and whether or not it's doing you any good.
@Yanni Rose From reading lots of other comments, you are not alone! I think a lot of us have felt that way. I definitely felt more insecure when I had it. I hope to post good info that may help, later this week. Thank you for sharing!
Hi.. this video was in recommended feed I also watched some of your other videos, the content is really good. thanks for sharing your story, keep up the good work .I wish you to have more subscribers because you are putting some real good stuffs. All the best
One thing I want to mention here that when you do the work legit and truly resonate with you it's obvious that you grow and learn a lot. And when you go a step further to share and add value to the world it gets even more meaningful and adds the extra value to which you already had . Thanks for replying , I respect your time and energy to reply to my comment😊
Super good video, I love the way you talk, it was a pleasure listening to you. And I couldn't agree more, I agree with calling people instead of just writing. This makes a TOTAL difference. Oh, and I quit Instagram and Facebook today ! I also want to have more focus on my youtube channel to make it grow ! Thank you !
I quit the toxic parts of social media (for me) which was mostly just facebook, and then using other platforms purely professionally! I was just getting so fed up but this video made me see so many parts of myself I wasn't noticing (like the addiction to likes etc ...) Now I'm definitely never going back!! Thank you :)
Awesome! That’s really the whole point, I think - to know how it affects ‘you’ so you can have balance with it. I’m glad you’ve found a happy balance. 😊
I quit Facebook years ago, people complain or say "dude you need facebook" thought about reopening it but only for connection benefits but honestly don't want to. This is an ongoing battle lol
I liked this video because I don't have any social media accounts too. Just youtube's app, for improving my skill and learn new things. Like learn a foreign language maybe, English actually, Because I am Indonesian who most of people here doesn't speak in english. And yeah that's amazing, and sorry about my english not as perpect a native english speaker. Hehe keep going on. 🤗🤗
Your English is wonderful! Thank you for sharing your insight. I do agree that UA-cam can be very helpful for learning new things. I especially love that we can learn many skills for FREE. 😁
Too much cyberbullying, Bandwagoning, judging, and fakeness. Never had a Facebook and I'm glad. Never had Twitter either. Everybody hungers for popularity and validation do much, that they'll step on complete strangers to do it. Social Media has caused too much division and mental damage to everyone.
Beautiful! I never was into social media. I found it an avtar of say, bimboism, so kept away from it not even having a personal fb page despite running a hospitality biz. Believe me, you don't need social media leverage when you have an original product to sell; the primary tools are more than enough. My extended family always, however, found it weird that I kept away from it. It didn't bother me what they thought but now I feel a need to educate them out of their bondage. Your video is very relatable and that perfect angle for a selfie haha. Thank you so much! More power to you n I have subscribed to your video.
Thank you for sharing! If you don't mind, I'd like to share your take on this in my next video where I'll answer questions and fears people have about leaving social media. Many people who have a business or want to start a business feel like they won't succeed without it. I love to see testimonies that we don't have to have it to do well. I completely agree!
Yes sure Yesi. Pl go ahead n thank you for asking. May I suggest you watch Dr Cal Newport's Tedtalk on this, if you don't know already? He articulates a scientific explanation for this n I was totally sold! If you want me to forward you the link pl do let me know. Cheers!
After my mother passed away i realised how prescious time is! Unfortantely i was a teen when social media became popular and came out (I'm 21) before quiting social media i was always saying "Sorry I can't make it because I'm busy" I wasn't busy I was just constantly on social media. Since quiting social media, I realised everyone who has my number is people I already talk to (under 50) I had hundreds of friends on social media. I don't miss it, time is prescious. Since leaving social media, i'm no longer stuck in my house scrolling, I'm always out and about visiting friends and family as well as work!
Your message is truly a beautiful reminder of the precious value of our time and the people around us. I am sure your experience has shaped who you are, and I hope you are doing well. Thank you so much for sharing this encouraging message! Best wishes to you.
Great video I’m working on quitting social media and this is so inspirational! I work in digital marketing so this is a bit of a struggle for me. Your job sounds so fulfilling ❤
I’ve not been on social media for the past 2 months and I feel a lot calmer, more focused on my own life and my goals. Being on social media makes me more anxious and stressed out because you’ve got people who pretend to have a perfect life and it makes me feel like my life is bad! But in reality people on social media only show you the good part and never the bad one! No one is perfect.
I have been ghosting social media for a while now since my life has been very hectic lately and I'll be honest in saying that I am greatful that it happened. I now realise how it stressed me out to see other people's lives that I was superficially friends with and how it stressed me to post because I gave people an opportunity to have a say/ question my life. I will not quit social media because of the benefits such as being able to save a multitude of videos in my memories in snapchat or following uplifting content on instagram with inspiring quotes. I am glad I watched this video because when I head back to social media I am muting so many people, unfollowing, blocking a lot of people. My peace of mind is my priority, not consuming content of other's lives or letting other's that are not close to me have access to my life. Thanks for breaking societal norms
0:56 This video is already relatable. I quit Facebook today and other social media pages because of the toxic, hateful and narcissistic people on there. It was a waste of time and energy. The popculture groups on there especially the anime and manga ones are full of obsessive,addicted, delusional and generally unhealthy fans who sends threats over my opinion on a series being my favorite or not and my reasoning on leaving a group. You can't unfriend people without the backlash either. It's insane.
Thank you so much after months of vacillation i finally feel liberated breaking off the shackles of the fakeness, after seeing your video, completely relatable. It does reveals the ugly side of our relationships. Thanks a lot🤗
Journaling and Scrapbooking is a great alternative from social media. There you don’t have to be validated by others. If you wanna show your real friends your cool photos, show them your scrapbook. Or maybe even your journal. Receiving a card or a phone call from someone is so much better than all those fb birthday notification. Sometimes you have to let people go when their chapter has ended in your life, but social media is making it hard to let them go especially when they no longer care and you’re the one still wanting to hold on to them. Not seeing them with their lives on social media, really makes it easier for you to move on.
I like what you say about making it harder to let people go. I can definitely relate.
Journaling has been very helpful for me! I find it helps me clear my brain.
I agree. And not giving people access to you who don’t deserve it, or value you. Life is do much more peaceful now.
YES
LOVE JOURNALING, will start scrapbooking again soon. Great suggestion!
This is such a good idea! Never thought of this before. Thanks!
30 days of quitting social media and thinking to do this for a year. Anxiety is real.
Good for you!! It is harder in the beginning, but it gets easier. You can do it!
I did one month without it and I feel less anxious! I think I'm going to do this for a year too.
@@alexandrapiers After a year, I would bet you probably won't want to go back 😁
Same here! 😊
Did you go for it Sofia? I’m thinking about doing a year off this year and wondering how your journey is going?
I quit April 2020, because of covid I was using social media 6-9 hours a day..it was unhealthy.... the best thing I did, I feel so much better not being affected by people's political views and problems.. Now just focus on my life.
That's amazing, thank you for sharing that. I agree completely.
Exactly !! Nothing worse than listening to a retarded leftist lol
It's been more than 2 months since i quit social media. It really feels good to make ur mind free of unnecessary stuffs all the time and also enhances ur power to achieve ur goal. I'm in harmony now.
Yes! Excatly! How great that it's been a positive change for you.
What about connecting with people you’ve never met?
@@maninedoow5895 I prefer connecting with people in real world rather than in virtual one.
@ninja gg There is nothing good or bad....its upon u how u feel about it...so for me it was way more annoying and distracting so i decided to quit it and its been about 3 months since i quit social media and i won't lie to u that i have become so productive and bla bla but one thing that i have noticed about myself is i live in harmony now and my self restraint has improved much and also i don't miss posting pics and reading memes. I do take pics and selfies but just keep it to me and in addition to this i'll say Am happy😊
I have been off of all social media accounts except YT for 3 months and it has been wonderful. I don’t see myself going back. I am happier, more productive, more confident and I have been able to strengthen my real life relationships. To me, YT doesn’t really count as social media because I use it more from an observer perspective. It is crazy what drinking water and minding your own business can do for your mental health lol
I love that, "It is crazy what drinking water and minding your own business can do for your mental health." Because it's the simple things that really do make a big difference over time! Good for you. 😁
@@YesiIbarra i love that saying too😂😂funny, but true.
Well done to you! :) I’ve been off social media for 2 months now and I find that I don’t compare myself to others as much and I focus more on my life and goals. UA-cam keeps me inspired and I watch things that I’m interested in 💕
I just deleted instagram and snapchat instantly😂. Relationships totally are superficial. I struggled with it at first because it was a way for me to spread my photography. I realized that there are so many other resources to develop my art. My concentration and productivity have increased significantly!
I literally started reading your comment and was thinking"but I share my photography.." :D then I finished your sentence haha
What are some ways you still share your photography and develop it without social media?
Yes, what ways have you used to share your photos? Without the clutter and superficial IG or Snap?
@@stepa3442 what are other ways to spread your photography
also curious about other ways to spread photography, please tell us!
I notice when I am not on social media, my real life relationships are much better bc I’m actually present fully!
Yes! That was exactly my experience when I deleted my Facebook account.
So true about the superficiality of relationships. It’s like the only way I know what my social circle is up to is only on social media, which is super annoying. I purposely stop posting stories because it forces people to reach out.. that’s IF they truly care
I can relate. In a way it helps you find out who your real friends are and who you can actually count on.
You inspire me to open a UA-cam channel without having other social media accounts
I am SO glad you mentioned that.
Initially, I was very worried that my channel would not grow BECAUSE I do not have social media. I wondered whether or not I should even bother making a channel because most UA-camrs grow using social media. My take on it was this: "If I am going to have a channel, then I I first and foremost have to be true to what I value and what I believe in. And if I provide value, then my content will speak for me." I started 3 months ago and now have 100 subs. Maybe it's small compared to those who use social media to promote their channel, but I don't compare myself to other channels. If you have a message to share and you add value to someone's life, then perseverance is all you need. Go for it! At least you will know you tried.
@@YesiIbarra that was very positive. I wish your channel would grow bigger and you spread positivity in pure way.
@@wearestories_ Thank you! It actually motivates me more to see that what I'm doing is helping someone. So plan that first video! I'd love to do a 'shout out' when you publish it. 😁
I did the same. take a picture post check the likes so freeing not to have this anymore comparing myself was so scary
i quit my social media two months ago, and i don't have any intentions of going back, my anxiety decreased soo much, thanks for making this video, i needed to hear this
I quit my social media at the beginning of the year. I was planning to do it for three months but I have been so productive, I think I will never go back. I kept youtube because I use it as a search engine. So far so good.
You described me perfectly! I was comparing myself to other people and my self-esteem got lower and lower until I finally decided to just step away from social media for a while. It's been 9 days and I really don't miss all the gossip, political posts, and photos of other people's food.
Glad to know it’s working out for you! 😊
Thank you for this! I stopped social media yesterday for being left on read too much and felt like I was being taken for granted so I quit.. maybe it isn’t for the right reason but now, it feels like I don’t even feel the need to be wanted anymore and can just focus on myself
Congratulations! It's HARD to quit social media because we all want to feel a sense of belonging and connection, but sometimes it does the opposite. I'm sorry for your experience. I've been there. Good for you for deciding to take the time to focus on yourself more. Best wishes to you!
Or find people on there who actually can relate to you
I can relate
This is truly inspiring! Social media has precipitated many problems in my personal life and marriage. The wife & I decided to go “against the crowd”! We are now perceived as “leaders” by friends, family, and relatives!!
That's amazing! It makes all the difference when couples do it together.
Wow I think I would like to try this. I miss the 90s and early 2000s when we didn't have all of this stuff.
Maybe try it out for a week or so and see how it goes! 😊
@@YesiIbarra Ok thanks!
@@thevegantitiansame here, the 90’s were the best
No social media here and I feel extremely happy and free 👍🏼
I delete my facebook maybe almost 2 years now. I lost my interest also in Instagram. I deactivated my ig account almost a month now. And i dont have any interest to come back online and see cringey and superficial living a perfect life post of random people.
I rather read books , watch documentary, go to gym everyday, learn new things and spend time in nature alone with my bike. Without seeking for any validation of other people online. Having social media is toxic. Even you do it moderately. But, Living without social media gave me peace. 😊☕
That's wonderful! Thank you for sharing that.
How did this video just come up at the right time?? I had been scrolling through social media comparing myself to other people and feeling crappy. Ty for this!
How awesome! I hope it was helpful. 😊
Never do that not even in real life
@@maninedoow5895 lol are u ok
Always cracks me up how everybody is taking photos and selfies instead of enjoying themselves. Like they need validation that what they’re doing is fun. Do you think social media give you false interest? Im tied of messages about pyramid schemes 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️ oils and mum support teams, travel and make money while doing it blah blah it’s constant.
Yes! I used to be that way! I always had to post about the fun/interesting things I did. 😆
Your last point is also Biblical: thinking of ways we can help others instead of only looking to help ourselves. 💖
Yes, and isn't the Bible full of wonderful advice. 😊
@@YesiIbarra are you born again? (John 3:3) 🕊
Just deleted my FB account, took 3 years off then been on for a year. It’s just too negative with all the recycled news media post and political rage.
I quit Facebook today and other social media pages because of the toxic, hateful and narcissistic people on there. It was a waste of time and energy. The popculture groups on there especially the anime and manga ones are full of obsessive,addicted, delusional and generally unhealthy fans who sends threats over my opinion on a series being my favorite or not and my reasoning on leaving a group. You can't unfriend people without the backlash either. It's insane.
I'm gonna detox social media, I will finish my bachelor, masters and PhD without it.
I've done it before and it paid me very well, gonna do it again, this time for a veryyyyy long period 🌼
Say No To Mental Stress 😃
Best wishes to you!
You are so sweet and beautiful! I’ve watched a few of these social media detox/quitting SM videos and yours has been my favorite to date. Continue staying true to yourself and shining your light. Thanks for your inspiration and encouragement! I had a 5 month IG break in 2018, but decided recently that I’m ready for another break. Your video has helped solidify my decision. Thanks again and sending love and light to you! ✨
I did 30 day fasts from social media this year and loved it each time. A couple weeks ago I deleted all the apps from my phone and only get on through my computer. I found this keeps me off of it allot more and I really enjoy it actually. I don’t feel the pressure to check it and post all the time like I did previously. My main reason is to more present and productive. It’s definitely working for me
YOU ARE A GODSEND !! I’m deleting social media (I had almost 10K followers on IG and ran my business completely through social media, but for many reasons I realized I need to make this decision for me) & your videos are sooo helpful
How do you continue to maintain your business w.o it? I'm curious cos I hate SM but ppl make it seem as if it's necessary for running a successful business these days
I just found a hidden gem here in YT. Gonna binge watch your other vids. Greetings from the Philippines.🇵🇭❤️
Greetings to you! 😊
I am fairly new to UA-cam, so I don't have many to watch, but there are more to come! Thank you for watching.
Thank you Yesi.
After viewing this I went outside to do some yard work in the cactus garden and immediately wanted to post...stopped...looked around...and was suddenly in the moment.
I didn't HAVE to post.
I was free to just enjoy the beauty.
Thank you
It sounds like an AH-HA moment! 😊
@@YesiIbarra
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I think I'm In love😌 this is the best video I've seen about this subject. Great content!
I deleted all my social media accounts yesterday and I already feel so much more connected with REALITY. Thank you for this great video to help get over the addiction and never turn back.
Great video - keep sharing this experience it's so important
I just don't why it has become such an addiction in today's world. A person without a social media is considered outdated and most of the times isolation and loneliness sweeps inside. It feels like whatever we are doing, whatever we are accomplishing , it is not for ourselves, it is just for people who don't care about us. Only if people could come forward and show their sad,depressing lives just like they show off easily their fake lives, it would have been a great platform.
I was not in social media for past 3 years and initially it was hard but now I am really comfortable with myself and those real people in front of me...
Also... some solid advice at the end! I have actually engaged in doing those things. Doing so has made a tremendous difference in my relationships with others! You truly know your audience! Kudos.
Awesome video, thx!
Thank you! Much needed. The addition was real and kept me isolated at home
I hope it’s still going well for you!
I can so totally relate!!! I am embarking on the same philosophy too!!! With love, Lilac 🌼
I wish you well! 😊
Great video...it is really to the point...this was the voice of my silence for me...almost same reasons...the key is to know and value time....
I love this! I’m on a 21 day social media detox. I’m honestly considering leaving it too. Thank you for sharing your experience. So happy to be subscribing! ♥️ I’m also a UA-camr 😀
That's awesome! Hopefully it will be a positive change for you. And I like your video topics! Thank you for sharing.
Thanks for sharing. I just quit social media. I personally don’t feel like it adds any real value to my life. So many things you mentioned about it were the same for me. I really want to focus on being more present in life and also have real life relationships. Anyways, have an awesome day! 🙂💖
I made the move a like 3 months ago. Never felt better. It's really not necessary. Good job and good luck!
It's been 5 months I quit.. bcoz I believe in living a life.
And I'm at better place where I should be..
Never gonna go back ❤💯
Good for you! 😁
I love your tips. Those are not easy but worth to try. May God bless you ❤️
thank you !! I watched this video yesterday, slept on it and finally made the decision to delete Instagram ! Will be deleting Facebook as soon as I have the phone numbers and birthdays of everyone I cherish. Was very daunting looking through all my followers and realising that there was just over a handful out of the 500 that I actually wanted to make an effort. I feel like I can focus on those that truly matter and hopefully be more productive as a result. Excited to claim back my time and my mental space, I wonder how I will feel in 5 years time ! Thank you !
That is really exciting! I hope it helps not only your social life, but your personal life too. Good for you! 😁
you’ve got a new subscriber. thank you for this video
Thanks for this and the article its really helpful as I'm just on this journey x
I wish you well!
Congrats !!!
I hope you get 1k subscribers by the end of the year. Your production is flawless. Keep it up
Thank you! I will take that as a blessing. I believe in blessings 😊
I hope you find value in the content.
Congratulations!! I hope I'll have that subscription too
@@YesiIbarra I spoke things into existence
@@sandilembatha3520 The words we speak are powerful. Thanks!
I just discovered your channel and it's amazing! Thank you so much for your content you've definitely inspired me. 🤗😊
I'm so glad to know that it's been inspiring for you! Thank you for watching. 😊
i quit social media (exept youtube, whatsapp and snapchat) three or four months ago. best desicion ever! love your video
How great that it worked out for the better for you! Thank you for watching. 😀
Love the way u talk....too much clarity.. thanks..
wow, this is such a valuable video and true speech thanks for sharing us this to make more awareness and truth about social media ...
I’m quitting social media today!
I wish you well! 😁
I quit almost 2 weeks ago and I feel so much better already. I don’t want to go back. Thank you for your videos!!
I’m glad it’s going well for you! 😁
I had to let social media go. Because people are just so judgmental, whenever I post pictures of myself not smiling, people criticise it. life is not all about happiness. I am all about honesty. And that is how I am in real life. I felt like I had to change to be accepted by people. So I deleted all of them.
Yes!! So true.
Thank you for this video!! ☺
And thank you for watching! 😊
I do hope it was helpful.
UA-cam knew what i need to watch right now.. I Love this recommend ❤️
I'm glad it was helpful for you!
Social media gives you an overinflated sense of self importance. 90% of your followers don't care about you. Just try going off social media for a month without telling anyone and you'll realise that most of your followers won't even notice. Why? Because you're just another profile to look at or scroll past. If your profile's gone, they'll just look at all the other profiles and carry on. You really don't miss out at all. Yes, you might have less interactions but I guarantee the interactions will be far more genuine and real
I couldn’t agree more. I remember my birthday after leaving Facebook, only 2 friends actually called to congratulate me. They are still my friends to this day. Well said!
@@YesiIbarra it's a good way to see who actually knows your birthday 😂😂😂
@@seanyshepfit Definitely! 😂
It’s actually funny 😆 after 2 months being off social media no one even contacted me 😂 that says a lot, only people who care they contact me on my phone number which they always have done.
@@YesiIbarra how long have u been using your flip phone?
Great video! I love the way you talk to the camera. I wish I had that confidence. You are awesome!
I used to envy people who had confidence because I definitely did not.
But, confidence is something you build with practice. I encourage you to step outside your comfort zone just a little bit at a time, and with time, you will improve!
If you want to speak in front of people or a camera, maybe record yourself, talk to yourself in the mirror, or participate in live events, like a play for example. Don’t just wish it. You CAN do it!! 😁
I'm so proud of you hehe 5 years is really long, i already quit social media also for about 1 year and it's really satisfying I find peace, treasure your few friends who'll support what you really want for yourself and not only after of showing off what you have.
Awesome! I love that.
Does this include UA-cam because I find myself watching UA-cam videos more than I am on social media apps...
Yes, I actually had to change the title of the video to say "except UA-cam" because I did not realize it it considered social media. I personally don't find a need to quit using UA-cam because I use it to learn from motivational people or learn new things.. like how to clean your burnt pan 🤣
It can be problematic though when we start mindlessly scrolling through suggested. I guess the key is to be mindful of how you're spending your time and whether or not it's doing you any good.
@@YesiIbarra exactly the answer I was looking for 😂😂. Thank you so much. I could relate to each and every reason.
@@YesiIbarra actually UA-cam is the only app essential to me too😅
But UA-cam isn't social media though
This compiles the whole facts of social media that it's reality already has impacted in the world lives...
I so like this video. Right now I'm deleting my accounts in FB and Instagram :D Thanks for inspiring me that!
Hey everyone! I'm working on a video to answer your questions or worries about quitting social media. What scares you about leaving it behind?
@Yanni Rose From reading lots of other comments, you are not alone! I think a lot of us have felt that way. I definitely felt more insecure when I had it. I hope to post good info that may help, later this week. Thank you for sharing!
@Godavari Joshi Maybe for a short time, but you would probably get used to it! 🙂
Hi.. this video was in recommended feed I also watched some of your other videos, the content is really good. thanks for sharing your story, keep up the good work .I wish you to have more subscribers because you are putting some real good stuffs. All the best
Hi. Thank you for the encouragement. I hope what I have shared has a positive impact. Thank you!
One thing I want to mention here that when you do the work legit and truly resonate with you it's obvious that you grow and learn a lot. And when you go a step further to share and add value to the world it gets even more meaningful and adds the extra value to which you already had .
Thanks for replying , I respect your time and energy to reply to my comment😊
Great video!!
Thank you!
The truth bombs in here!!!! Food for thought.
i just deactivated my twitter account, i had a fan club acc there and what you said about superficial relationships is so real.
This was such a good video, I’m motivated to decrease my time on social media and only be on it for valuable reasons.
That's an awesome goal! I hope it will make you happier to have better balance. 😊
Good words, I think the same way
Nice video. Good work!
Social media is terrible, seeing people commenting on others peoples lives all the live long day 🙄it is depressing.
Super good video, I love the way you talk, it was a pleasure listening to you. And I couldn't agree more, I agree with calling people instead of just writing. This makes a TOTAL difference. Oh, and I quit Instagram and Facebook today ! I also want to have more focus on my youtube channel to make it grow ! Thank you !
Thank you! It looks like your channel is growing. Keep it up! It can only get better with time.
I quit the toxic parts of social media (for me) which was mostly just facebook, and then using other platforms purely professionally! I was just getting so fed up but this video made me see so many parts of myself I wasn't noticing (like the addiction to likes etc ...) Now I'm definitely never going back!! Thank you :)
Awesome! That’s really the whole point, I think - to know how it affects ‘you’ so you can have balance with it. I’m glad you’ve found a happy balance. 😊
Great content dear. I myself is leaving social media.. it makes me feel anxious waiting for people to like my posts.
I hope you feel better as a result. 😊
I quit Facebook years ago, people complain or say "dude you need facebook" thought about reopening it but only for connection benefits but honestly don't want to. This is an ongoing battle lol
Lol I get what you mean about people trying to talk you back into it.
I quit social media, my mind is now fully convinced
I hope you find yourself feeling happier as a result. 😊
@@YesiIbarra Yes mam love from INDIA
I liked this video because I don't have any social media accounts too. Just youtube's app, for improving my skill and learn new things. Like learn a foreign language maybe, English actually, Because I am Indonesian who most of people here doesn't speak in english. And yeah that's amazing, and sorry about my english not as perpect a native english speaker. Hehe keep going on. 🤗🤗
Your English is wonderful! Thank you for sharing your insight. I do agree that UA-cam can be very helpful for learning new things. I especially love that we can learn many skills for FREE. 😁
Off topic, but your skin is AMAZING!!!
Well thank you! I must have good lighting 😁
Too much cyberbullying, Bandwagoning, judging, and fakeness. Never had a Facebook and I'm glad. Never had Twitter either. Everybody hungers for popularity and validation do much, that they'll step on complete strangers to do it. Social Media has caused too much division and mental damage to everyone.
Be glad cause in the end you really weren’t missing out on much.
Beautiful! I never was into social media. I found it an avtar of say, bimboism, so kept away from it not even having a personal fb page despite running a hospitality biz. Believe me, you don't need social media leverage when you have an original product to sell; the primary tools are more than enough. My extended family always, however, found it weird that I kept away from it. It didn't bother me what they thought but now I feel a need to educate them out of their bondage. Your video is very relatable and that perfect angle for a selfie haha. Thank you so much! More power to you n I have subscribed to your video.
Thank you for sharing! If you don't mind, I'd like to share your take on this in my next video where I'll answer questions and fears people have about leaving social media. Many people who have a business or want to start a business feel like they won't succeed without it. I love to see testimonies that we don't have to have it to do well. I completely agree!
Yes sure Yesi. Pl go ahead n thank you for asking. May I suggest you watch Dr Cal Newport's Tedtalk on this, if you don't know already? He articulates a scientific explanation for this n I was totally sold! If you want me to forward you the link pl do let me know. Cheers!
@@GinzaGeorge I found it, thank you! This will be very helpful. I love to use statistics and science to give a better explanation.
Social media is for grandmas and middle schoolers. If your like 30 and older. You don't need to be on social media
After my mother passed away i realised how prescious time is! Unfortantely i was a teen when social media became popular and came out (I'm 21) before quiting social media i was always saying "Sorry I can't make it because I'm busy" I wasn't busy I was just constantly on social media. Since quiting social media, I realised everyone who has my number is people I already talk to (under 50) I had hundreds of friends on social media. I don't miss it, time is prescious. Since leaving social media, i'm no longer stuck in my house scrolling, I'm always out and about visiting friends and family as well as work!
Your message is truly a beautiful reminder of the precious value of our time and the people around us. I am sure your experience has shaped who you are, and I hope you are doing well.
Thank you so much for sharing this encouraging message!
Best wishes to you.
Next week is my 1month without social media. Just only youtube. .. it's so good. . i have more time in work out.. i can sleep and wake up early...
Wonderful! I’m so glad it’s been a positive thing for you.
Great video I’m working on quitting social media and this is so inspirational! I work in digital marketing so this is a bit of a struggle for me. Your job sounds so fulfilling ❤
It’s tough but not impossible! It’s all about balance.
And yes, nursing has changed my perspective on life for sure.
This made me cry a little but I really appreciate this video❤ so honest
Aww 🤗
So informative thank you for this😊
I’m glad you found it helpful! 😊
I’ve not been on social media for the past 2 months and I feel a lot calmer, more focused on my own life and my goals. Being on social media makes me more anxious and stressed out because you’ve got people who pretend to have a perfect life and it makes me feel like my life is bad! But in reality people on social media only show you the good part and never the bad one! No one is perfect.
So true. It can be easy to lose sight of that. Thanks for sharing your encouragement for others! ❤️
love that reminder to call people
It's easy to forget! But it does make a difference.
I don't know if I would actually quit anytime soon but I am more aware of how I use social media.
Awesome! That's the key 😁
I have been ghosting social media for a while now since my life has been very hectic lately and I'll be honest in saying that I am greatful that it happened. I now realise how it stressed me out to see other people's lives that I was superficially friends with and how it stressed me to post because I gave people an opportunity to have a say/ question my life.
I will not quit social media because of the benefits such as being able to save a multitude of videos in my memories in snapchat or following uplifting content on instagram with inspiring quotes.
I am glad I watched this video because when I head back to social media I am muting so many people, unfollowing, blocking a lot of people. My peace of mind is my priority, not consuming content of other's lives or letting other's that are not close to me have access to my life.
Thanks for breaking societal norms
Wow! So wisely said. It sounds like you’ve found a happy medium. 👍
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This video is already relatable.
I quit Facebook today and other social media pages because of the toxic, hateful and narcissistic people on there. It was a waste of time and energy. The popculture groups on there especially the anime and manga ones are full of obsessive,addicted, delusional and generally unhealthy fans who sends threats over my opinion on a series being my favorite or not and my reasoning on leaving a group. You can't unfriend people without the backlash either. It's insane.
Wish my ex watched this, maybe we would have been together still.
Can totally relate to this
@@jaysouthmusic8230 in 8-9 months since my break up, I have bettered myself and realized some stuff is inevitable and supposed to happen.
@@JaiAuthenti That is true
Thank you so much after months of vacillation i finally feel liberated breaking off the shackles of the fakeness, after seeing your video, completely relatable. It does reveals the ugly side of our relationships. Thanks a lot🤗
I see that a lot of people have similar experiences. I hope it turns out great for you! Best wishes.
I'm in, great channel !
Thank you! I hope it's helpful info.
been 4 months away from it, lets keep it up guys!
Agree. Me too quit. Suddenly, all whatsapp me why i never upload my photos. Photos are now my private.
So good, so true. Going on Week 2 of no instagram and I don’t miss it at all. It was toxic for me. I’m relieved it’s no longer in my life. : )
Awesome! I bet after 1 month you won’t even remember you had it. 😁
You got yourself a new subscriber
My takeaway, it means I have one more person to work harder for. Thank you.
thank you for this. much love from Pakistan
Pure joy❤️
wow thanks for this that's really what i was feeling when i was so much on my phone but thank god im not like that anymore