Why Black gay men END UP ALONE | why 🏳️‍🌈 guys don't DATE TO MARRY

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  • Опубліковано 10 гру 2024

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  • @rogieherman6202
    @rogieherman6202 11 днів тому +5

    I love your channel...I am not of your culture but finding love is universal and your channel highlights the need for us gay men to find and be loved. Keep up the amazing work Jai❤❤

    • @dearblackgaymen
      @dearblackgaymen  11 днів тому

      Thanks for your support. You’re always welcome

  • @kingjames9363
    @kingjames9363 2 дні тому

    Very nice couple! This episode is a 💎. Great conversation.

  • @salpritalian81
    @salpritalian81 11 днів тому +5

    Great show. Love your shows. The realness. God bless 🙏

    • @dearblackgaymen
      @dearblackgaymen  11 днів тому

      Thanks for watching with us. We love bringing some positivity to the culture.

  • @george4u1960
    @george4u1960 11 днів тому +8

    I’m not alone. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 42 years. I started out as the gay boy and now I’m transgender and I’m still with the same person you don’t know how to work your shit not all about muscles. All those things that you black brothers do who got the biggest butt who’s got the biggest penis all that mess start looking for love Who you are and you will have a successful relationship❤

    • @newagehero9605
      @newagehero9605 9 днів тому

      Even when you do tale away those things it’s STILL hard 😂

  • @StLBlknight
    @StLBlknight 10 днів тому

    This was a great episode. Loved the guests

  • @jamesmason2605
    @jamesmason2605 7 днів тому

    Great interview

  • @DarylWalter
    @DarylWalter 11 днів тому +1

    Great show very enlightening

    • @dearblackgaymen
      @dearblackgaymen  10 днів тому +1

      Thank you so much. What was your favorite part?

    • @DarylWalter
      @DarylWalter 10 днів тому

      Honestly I loved the whole interview but I especially loved the appropriate or off base game.

  • @tonyrossbackinthedaymusicv3107
    @tonyrossbackinthedaymusicv3107 10 днів тому

    I really enjoyed this couple, Thanks for sharing.

  • @martinsinnerbrink
    @martinsinnerbrink 11 днів тому +1

    Great show, loved the guests 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤😀😀😀

  • @kommetkhan2979
    @kommetkhan2979 8 днів тому

    @15:30 100% agree. Same take for me. I love a girly man. But that attraction is not always mutual. About 9 of of ten guys I find attractive don't feel the same way about me. I don't want to say I'm an equal opportunity person because of course the attraction has to be mutual and of course.
    But I definitely agree, many of these guys don't want any of the guys that want them.

  • @aleebell1
    @aleebell1 7 днів тому +1

    I'd like to see older men as well (seniors)

  • @kommetkhan2979
    @kommetkhan2979 8 днів тому +1

    @48:30 the story of how they met, it can happen. But to Jai's pount, people in general are obsessed with the idea and don't want to do the work behind the scenes to keep each other engaged. Specifically with black men, not many guys are willing to be that vulnerable and actually be that honest with another man. If he was white maybe. But black...i wouldn't hold my breath.

  • @Bobby-4200
    @Bobby-4200 11 днів тому +2

    Love this fucking channel ❤ thank you jai and everyone who makes it possible I can’t wait to see it get bigger and jai please always remember to take care of your mental and know you have people who actually care for you

    • @dearblackgaymen
      @dearblackgaymen  11 днів тому

      Thank you so much. I am excited to make this content and comments like these are just the inspiration we need to keep going.

  • @rogieherman6202
    @rogieherman6202 11 днів тому +1

    Omg...me and my fiance are Libra and Scorpio. And we just fit! This couple is IT...they speak truth

    • @dearblackgaymen
      @dearblackgaymen  11 днів тому +1

      I know I learned a lot from them

    • @newagehero9605
      @newagehero9605 9 днів тому

      I swear every time i hear of a loyal gay libra i be soo surprised lmao

  • @CortezTheKyng
    @CortezTheKyng 11 днів тому +1

    Preach pastor!

  • @robinr.n.416
    @robinr.n.416 11 днів тому

    The honesty part ❤ 👌🏾

  • @pyscez93
    @pyscez93 10 днів тому +4

    Why someone being a total top or bttm being issue, is something I never understand, what’s wrong with that if someone gets off a certain way when it comes to sex 🤷🏿

    • @dearblackgaymen
      @dearblackgaymen  10 днів тому

      Are you a total something?

    • @pyscez93
      @pyscez93 10 днів тому +1

      @@dearblackgaymen I consider myself a total bttm

  • @milesbell11
    @milesbell11 6 днів тому

    Love this and love them 🥹🥲 it’s possible 💚🤞🏾💛

  • @claudewashingtonkevinthoma6527
    @claudewashingtonkevinthoma6527 10 днів тому +1

    While they did have some insight there are things that are nuanced for this couple. It would be great to see a panel of multiple couples and multiple singles at different stages of singledom and coupledom

  • @steph060286
    @steph060286 11 днів тому +2

    What’s the prom code for the bags?

  • @jerryanthonygrigger
    @jerryanthonygrigger 11 днів тому +6

    Real love like soulfully felt love is deep, so it will be difficult. But I only want real soulfully felt love. This is powerful to see a married couple speaking. Def need more of this. It's the glimmer of hope.

    • @dearblackgaymen
      @dearblackgaymen  11 днів тому +2

      Gave me some hope too. Thanks for sharing this

    • @jerryanthonygrigger
      @jerryanthonygrigger 11 днів тому +1

      @ most def yo. Thank you for this podcast. A podcast to learn & listen from.

  • @CortezTheKyng
    @CortezTheKyng 11 днів тому +3

    They are the cutest 🥰

    • @jaithegentleman
      @jaithegentleman 11 днів тому +2

      Ain’t they. It’s exciting to see them on the show

  • @andrewyoung9202
    @andrewyoung9202 14 днів тому +5

    In Gay America 🇺🇸. It exists elsewhere!

  • @user-yj2em2wi2s
    @user-yj2em2wi2s 11 днів тому +15

    The host like generalized a lot. Your personal experience within the community does not apply to everyone

    • @justgojustdoit3363
      @justgojustdoit3363 11 днів тому +2

      A lot.

    • @dearblackgaymen
      @dearblackgaymen  11 днів тому +1

      Understood. Thanks for adding this

    • @TonyaD77444
      @TonyaD77444 11 днів тому

      Both Jesus and Elijah returned as women and will marry each other.
      Matthew 19 12 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ says God prefers same-sex marriage and confirms transgender people are born that way.

    • @doctordl7757
      @doctordl7757 9 днів тому

      ​@@TonyaD77444😅😅😅 are you serious 😂😂😂

    • @TonyaD77444
      @TonyaD77444 9 днів тому

      @doctordl7757
      You're allowed to be taken with the wicked if you want. If you want to make a decision to choose your own death and if you want to continue rejecting the truth you're allowed to. It's your own free will to make a decision that dumb. There's nothing I can do about it.
      It's your choice.

  • @thomasdahl2232
    @thomasdahl2232 10 днів тому +5

    My goodness, you guys live in a bubble. Get out of the gay dating scenes and you'll see that gay people all over the world live like everyone else.

  • @user-yj2em2wi2s
    @user-yj2em2wi2s 11 днів тому +3

    The host really has an issue with this whole fem vs Masc topic and it’s giving insecure.
    People are allowed to have preferences and that’s ohk. So what if you fem and nobody wants you, it’s still ohk

  • @willionaire4204
    @willionaire4204 10 годин тому

    Higher vocabulary please 😅

  • @justgojustdoit3363
    @justgojustdoit3363 11 днів тому +1

    I normally don't click on rhese gay wanna be channels. But I really thought this would be a good topic but Im out after rhe first 6 minutes because of the host and his already stupid, bias and ignorant comments....i the first 5 minutes. And lots of interruptions injecting HIS bias not actually interviewing. Im out, from Thailand.