Cold Approaching Is a Waste Of Time

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  • Опубліковано 20 вер 2023

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  • @jamesmorton5017
    @jamesmorton5017 10 місяців тому +23

    I never approach women. I am never lonely. Let women approach you. Be attracted to women who are attracted to you.

    • @djeanpierre
      @djeanpierre 10 місяців тому +8

      Attraction is not a choice, man. C'mon. And it won't work unless the attraction is mutual.

    • @hansw7878
      @hansw7878 10 місяців тому +2

      that doesnt happen

    • @moveone9013
      @moveone9013 10 місяців тому

      You will die waiting. It’s not in our nature to approach men. Even male animals understand this

    • @dontrustwhiteyevery1
      @dontrustwhiteyevery1 10 місяців тому

      Depends on where you are.

    • @mrlij6534
      @mrlij6534 10 місяців тому +3

      you are talking about choosing signals. thats popular in latin america and eastern europe and parts of east africa. the women will let u know if they like u with their eyes . in the west , they like to play the games , that's why they are single and lonely with their dogs

  • @RemoteAdminJayJay2
    @RemoteAdminJayJay2 10 місяців тому +19

    Men like Austin know the deal it's easy to spot a well travelled man

  • @TheBlackManMythLegend
    @TheBlackManMythLegend 10 місяців тому +12

    It's all about how you approach things, folks! You can meet your future spouse in so many ways - through cold approaches, networking with friends, hanging out with attractive friends, or even dressing up in certain styles to make things less nerve-wracking for everyone involved. When you see aggressive behavior in women, it can often be linked to insecurity and anxiety, but sometimes it's just plain disrespect, and hey, we're not therapists! As AHollman wisely put it, sometimes you gotta say, 'Forget that noise,' and go find a place where people aren't driving you crazy. It's totally fair not to put up with nonsense and look for better connections elsewhere. 👍

    • @edwingross9778
      @edwingross9778 10 місяців тому +1

      That the main reason l left the USA because I'm not to about to settle with anyone.

  • @shadowbanned7357
    @shadowbanned7357 10 місяців тому +9

    Not a waste of time if u got confidence and don't worry about being rejected. Just keep it pushing to the next chick

    • @martoking
      @martoking 10 місяців тому +9

      You know that there are better things to do with your time, right?

    • @shadowbanned7357
      @shadowbanned7357 10 місяців тому

      @@martoking as in ?

  • @Dentsun4228
    @Dentsun4228 10 місяців тому +5

    its not worth pursuing it if she's acting not interested or if she's giving you that halfway energy. I think a lot of women convince themselves that the guy approaching them is lesser than them...but look at who they end up with and it shows who they really were all along.

    • @stevesteve7162
      @stevesteve7162 10 місяців тому

      Yep

    • @stevesteve7162
      @stevesteve7162 10 місяців тому +1

      Most women like men who are good for notting especially in the urban community

  • @ubaachieng4668
    @ubaachieng4668 10 місяців тому +9

    Being rejected is not a bad thing only rude interactions are bad. You would want a woman who is in a committed relationship to reject you because you would want the one you choose to reject other men. How else will you get faithful women if those who are taken don't get to reject other men?

    • @maxk5831
      @maxk5831 10 місяців тому

      sound talk

    • @user-xy4mo3nu7c
      @user-xy4mo3nu7c 10 місяців тому

      Don't be a sucker tho, lots of ran through females act like good girls, unless your green u can see and won't fall for a bird. Class dismissed

  • @marcusthegreat3653
    @marcusthegreat3653 10 місяців тому +3

    I agree with Auston 1000 percent

  • @Alton_Roundtree
    @Alton_Roundtree 10 місяців тому +1

    He does not any game. You go for the ones who are looking at you.

  • @peterkimani3364
    @peterkimani3364 10 місяців тому +2

    I was quite the player back then and my success rate was 90%. I was so good that I could lay the girl right off meeting her. I approach her, ask her name then tell her she's beautiful and you wonna lay her. most will ask you are you serious then answer in the affirmative then ask her if she is willing to follow you to a quiet place. I guarantee you 50% success on this cold calling, the rest you will lay within a week.women love confidence.

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  10 місяців тому +3

      A week is too long, I need same day results

    • @peterkimani3364
      @peterkimani3364 10 місяців тому

      @@AustonHolleman you'll improve with practice but I'm hoping you don't do this, don't turn out a player coz life is not a game.

    • @stevesteve7162
      @stevesteve7162 10 місяців тому

      ​@@peterkimani3364bro don't listen to him he maybe privilege. I live near privilege ppl. N it's easy for them

    • @stevesteve7162
      @stevesteve7162 10 місяців тому

      Just because how they look .in the us certain ppl will tell its easy for me n stuff but when you look at them women will sleep with them because they want thst privilege .

  • @dominichoward4833
    @dominichoward4833 10 місяців тому +1

    There is a lot that goes into it but yeah, mostly its a numbers game/ confidence/establishing some connection in that moment. Direct doesn't often work and they have to be led along to a situation that they can lie to themselves and say happened organically. Any women of value i had took some work, most arent worth it in the long run.

  • @brianmoore3063
    @brianmoore3063 10 місяців тому +2

    I've been cold approching since high school. Its my go to. 90% success rate. Im sure my height and looks help out big time. Its wayyyy less competion cold approching because most dudes are scary asf. Dating online is hell for me tho. I stopped yearssss ago. I like running game/rizz. Its fun to me. Lol

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  10 місяців тому +5

      I hate online dating but running up to women that pretend like you don’t exist is a waste of time

  • @slabelle315
    @slabelle315 10 місяців тому +2

    😂😂😂 Auston , I start watching you on UA-cam, because you are not fake.Boy let me tell you, You are actually like me open mind. You tell the truth . I learned something when a open mind person will get rejected because most people don't want to hear the truth. . I am a female , I do understand your point view. But I also understand women who rejected guys. The truth some man or woman using a good woman, now when a good guy trying to talk when women are rejected because we got hurt . Sometimes we missed good man or women because we picture everyone are the same. But because they ex 🙄 now back in our minds we think all guys or women are the same. I asko feel your point view. 🎉🎉🎉

  • @StickMan1316
    @StickMan1316 10 місяців тому

    I've experienced that 2 times, guess what, Im not doing it anymore

  • @hesohit
    @hesohit 10 місяців тому +1

    Austin you the only one who keeps it a buck.
    I get it “as a man…” life suppose to be hard. Dude fought war, work 16 hours in coal mines, took 30 day ship voyages, etc so this is easy mode but I’m not trying to put women on a pedestal.

  • @tedhall7533
    @tedhall7533 10 місяців тому +1

    Cold approaches is a number game. Look maxing is a for sure game! You heard it first!

  • @BluePillDelusions-dx8yf
    @BluePillDelusions-dx8yf 9 місяців тому

    he says this then he cold approach some escort in thailand and claims he dated her on his recent vlog lol

  • @reallll2778
    @reallll2778 10 місяців тому +4

    Cold approaching can help you get used to talking to women which eventually gives you game

    • @stevesteve7162
      @stevesteve7162 10 місяців тому

      Yes when it comes to confidence but lol brobro . Game I needed wit the Girl who you trying to convince

  • @Masterteacherofattraction
    @Masterteacherofattraction 10 місяців тому +5

    Austin... You hand her your number. How you start is how you finish. You started off by chasing and giving her your number. That's how they view it.
    Put your contact number on a business card and hand it to them.
    Now they have to contact you. The izm never taught to chase something that's running

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  10 місяців тому +4

      Hmm. No I’d rather go for women who show interest

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  10 місяців тому +1

      So you’re right

    • @dictarchelsea
      @dictarchelsea 10 місяців тому

      @@AustonHolleman hoes you mean? This is Africa women don't show interest unless they're up to something like money

    • @travelnsolovlogs
      @travelnsolovlogs 10 місяців тому +1

      Good point🙌

    • @michaelross2385
      @michaelross2385 10 місяців тому

      Generally speaking it is a complete waste of time, however, if you're going to do it this is the way to do it, puts the Leverage back on your side, if she was intrigued and attracted to you she'll text you that day.

  • @AmericanMGTOW
    @AmericanMGTOW 7 місяців тому

    What country were you doing this in?

  • @Megaliberator-mt4dc
    @Megaliberator-mt4dc 10 місяців тому

    In Africa Just get a nice saloon car, play music and turn on your AC & the girls are yours

  • @manlykramo
    @manlykramo 10 місяців тому +1

    I respectfully disagree, I met my wife by cold approach. How else was I meant to exchange numbers ect

    • @stevesteve7162
      @stevesteve7162 10 місяців тому +2

      You just got lucky

    • @manlykramo
      @manlykramo 10 місяців тому

      @@stevesteve7162 fate not luck

  • @PassportG
    @PassportG 10 місяців тому +6

    Cold approach works for men that are handsome. Most men aren't. Hence simping and pay for play.

    • @shadowbanned7357
      @shadowbanned7357 10 місяців тому +3

      Not true. Confidence and masculine assertion mean a lot

    • @poloststyles2669
      @poloststyles2669 10 місяців тому

      ​@@shadowbanned7357💯💯💯💯

    • @moe808
      @moe808 10 місяців тому +1

      Not 100% true. Working a social circle or social circle game is supreme for quality.

    • @williamaderin6765
      @williamaderin6765 10 місяців тому +1

      I'm a good looking guy, cold approaching works 50/50 for me but its jarring and draining tryna arrange a date and take it somewhere. You have to convince her to be interested in you. Tbh I prefer social circle or naturally. I don't do cold approach anymore.

    • @stevesteve7162
      @stevesteve7162 10 місяців тому

      ​@@shadowbanned7357not Even that for sum ppl

  • @stoneyislandranch9783
    @stoneyislandranch9783 10 місяців тому

    try not approaching women the man in the room that is just chill and not all over the women draws more womens attention.. women will go after the man that excites their curiosity

  • @user-xy4mo3nu7c
    @user-xy4mo3nu7c 10 місяців тому

    Good job austin never simp, once u text a chick she is suppose to be vey engaging,not one word sentence or lines, if she does this dont waste your time leave her where u found her, she is pookie status only.

  • @andrewevans7992
    @andrewevans7992 10 місяців тому

    Always make sure she smiles at you n gives you long eye contact.. thats minimum otherwise dont bother

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  10 місяців тому

      My point exactly

    • @andrewevans7992
      @andrewevans7992 10 місяців тому

      @@AustonHolleman dudes dont seem to get that here.. they just are spewing nonsense or no idea wtf they doing

  • @persephone2268
    @persephone2268 10 місяців тому

    Stop going to clubs for nice ladies. The park, functions in the neighbourhood, etc.

  • @LadiDee
    @LadiDee 10 місяців тому +1

    Here I am boo

  • @danielp5317
    @danielp5317 10 місяців тому

    Who is Paul lol? A commenter in one of Austons live streams?

    • @maxk5831
      @maxk5831 10 місяців тому +1

      lol. wondered

    • @anonymous6594
      @anonymous6594 10 місяців тому

      Travel Time With Paul. He’s another UA-camr

  • @Thegalacticgeneral
    @Thegalacticgeneral 10 місяців тому +1

    U talking bout in africa?

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  10 місяців тому +2

      Anywhere

    • @Thegalacticgeneral
      @Thegalacticgeneral 10 місяців тому

      @@AustonHolleman well that's fucking lame. How u was talking africa wasn't like that