The Classic Girl's Guide To Being A BRIDESMAID! 💍 || FIRST RULE: It's not about YOU...

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  • Опубліковано 20 сер 2020
  • #ClassicGirlsGuide #ConservativeInfluencer #LetsBeClassic #ClassicCrew
    Welcome to another episode of the Classic Girl's Guide! Today we're talking about how to be a great bridesmaid - the classic way. It's so easy to forget who the wedding is really about, so I'm here to share how to be the bridesmaid the bride can totally depend on.To read more, head over to www.classicallyabby.com.
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    Hey! I'm Abby, the creator of Classically Abby, a commentary, opera, beauty, and lifestyle brand dedicated to looking at the world from a classic perspective. I'm the first #ConservativeInfluencer and an opera singer with three degrees in operatic performance from USC and Manhattan School of Music. Let's be classic.
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  • @jackiekreutzzz
    @jackiekreutzzz 3 роки тому +1798

    girl how much money do you pay youtube to keep bombarding everyone’s recommended with your ads

    • @curicosasr.dg.f9123
      @curicosasr.dg.f9123 3 роки тому +19

      She spends her money on whatever she wants or wants to control someone else's pocket

    • @curicosasr.dg.f9123
      @curicosasr.dg.f9123 3 роки тому +11

      @Generic Username She has sixty thousand followers so she will continue for a long time.

    • @Random_Person2023
      @Random_Person2023 3 роки тому +30

      Curicosas R. D G. F ...no she doesn’t? Maybe 58 THOUSAND...but not million?

    • @rowan6394
      @rowan6394 3 роки тому +10

      Curicosas R. D G. F 58 million? aha,what?

    • @daliagracia1658
      @daliagracia1658 3 роки тому +8

      Got more money than all the moron haters

  • @localbaddie_8438
    @localbaddie_8438 3 роки тому +362

    Hey there! I honestly like some of your videos but I don’t really like how you bash woman who don’t follow the traditional lifestyle. In your videos you sometimes go along the lines of, ‘Let’s stop dressing like garbage or trash.’ Just because some woman don’t really like the modesty lifestyle, they aren’t dressing as garbage? Just please respect woman who don’t exactly follow your ways or opinions.

    • @destiny3345
      @destiny3345 3 роки тому +6

      THAT PART!!

    • @sofiagarcia2892
      @sofiagarcia2892 3 роки тому +8

      I agree with you she has good points on some things but the reason why she gets hate is the way she shames people for not having a lifestyle like hers

    • @ed299
      @ed299 3 роки тому +2

      She doesn't care what you think lol

    • @localbaddie_8438
      @localbaddie_8438 3 роки тому +4

      Delusional Dreamer Huh? So respecting other woman is just so hard for you?

    • @lorenaaguilar8060
      @lorenaaguilar8060 3 роки тому +3

      I've seen videos where some people say "let's break and stop with the conservative ideas.. dont dress modest anymore" they see that as "opressed" isn't that shaming then too??? Because i have never see someone complain about this kind of videos... why it is only valid to attack a particular group of ideas? Because if you slightly question the opposite ideas people call you out.. saying you are shaming

  • @krsn-cj3zz
    @krsn-cj3zz 3 роки тому +486

    I miss her old videos, now she just tells people how to live their lives, and bragging about how she is married. Her old videos were makeup videos and like daily lifestyle, that’s why I stopped watching her...

    • @leonardoramos5846
      @leonardoramos5846 3 роки тому +7

      You can continue to see them or it is not your decision

    • @papij00nchulo98
      @papij00nchulo98 3 роки тому +57

      i agree,, now she advertises her ads alot 😒

    • @Nicole-rq8ix
      @Nicole-rq8ix 3 роки тому +1

      lol

    • @sakurahimari3627
      @sakurahimari3627 3 роки тому +15

      And, she thinks you can't be beautiful and sexy, and she has twisted opinions that have no support.
      Edit: I see video talking about her, but God bless. I never have seen a single ad from her, her content, but I got tired of her face and stuff once I see her content somewhere again.

    • @sakurahimari3627
      @sakurahimari3627 3 роки тому +15

      She thinks if you wear certain clothes, (since men apparently will look for visuals) he will think of you as an object, unless you wear fine clothes, he will then look for personality, Wich I find where she also messes up.

  • @greggately5782
    @greggately5782 3 роки тому +324

    Yea, definitely play the song ‘WAP’ at the wedding...gets all the females in the room gushy

    • @daliagracia1658
      @daliagracia1658 3 роки тому +6

      She is talking about the bridesmaids, and the dresses not about the wedding music.

    • @daliagracia1658
      @daliagracia1658 3 роки тому +7

      But if you want to play it at your wedding I think it's fine.

    • @federickalmonte8149
      @federickalmonte8149 3 роки тому +3

      If the easy ones are convenient for men and then marry the women who are really worth it

    • @kirstyvwilson
      @kirstyvwilson 3 роки тому +21

      Bro these replies...have they heard even WAP lmfaooo 😹

    • @greggately5782
      @greggately5782 3 роки тому +27

      federick almonte why does a girl having sex before marriage make them ‘easy’? Do you view guys who do that the same way? Marriage isn’t for everyone and some people just don’t want to get married (for their own different reasons)...so what, because they never plan on getting married they should never have sex then? I’m a guy and I honestly don’t see myself getting married or having children. Am I supposed to not have sex and feel pleasure? Goes same way for females. The whole idea of you ‘have to be married to have sex!’ is absolutely ridiculous if you take time to break it down and think about it. Not everyone lives the exact same life.
      And this is why I commented with the song WAP at weddings. They are the best place to meet good/attractive/nice girls who might want to hook up and have a good time. It could turn into a relationship or friendship. Or it could just be a great time and memory for the both of you.

  • @ellenbro1852
    @ellenbro1852 3 роки тому +231

    I honestly feel bad for this woman. She needs therapy. My parents never once instilled in me that marriage makes you a better or more interesting person.

    • @weeknd7245
      @weeknd7245 3 роки тому +6

      She seems happy to me, why would u feel bad for her? Get over your ego, get therapy

    • @ellenbro1852
      @ellenbro1852 3 роки тому

      Blue Heart Haha I also love how this person says “get therapy” like it’s a bad thing.

    • @weeknd7245
      @weeknd7245 3 роки тому

      Ellen Bro it’s not, your the only bad thing here, get therapy

    • @weeknd7245
      @weeknd7245 3 роки тому +1

      Ellen Bro Blue Heart everyone here is butthurt that this lady is living a happy life that it offend and threatens them. Ellen gotta say “I feel bad for her” like she knows what Abby wants in life. get over yourself, get therapy for that ego. Learn something

    • @ellenbro1852
      @ellenbro1852 3 роки тому

      weeknd 7 Her videos are just ads for antiquated conservative values, and I say this as a non-liberal.

  • @justalonelystreetlamp288
    @justalonelystreetlamp288 3 роки тому +341

    Uh oh! Are those your SHOULDERS I see!? Not very mOdEsT of you, Abby. 🧚🏻💫

    • @rensmurfetteisiconic5183
      @rensmurfetteisiconic5183 3 роки тому +48

      oH mY gOsH yOuR rIgHt! this is not oKaY smh😤😤😤

    • @stutim4950
      @stutim4950 3 роки тому +4

      rensmurfette is iconic looll

    • @Maya-ro1pt
      @Maya-ro1pt 3 роки тому +5

      Why does her head look smaller than her body?

    • @beni6533
      @beni6533 3 роки тому +6

      Maya Melody she does look dumb asf, but is *your* head bigger than your body?

    • @Maya-ro1pt
      @Maya-ro1pt 3 роки тому

      Bennygold 1324 idk

  • @jaylaangel9817
    @jaylaangel9817 3 роки тому +177

    bruh i blocked her and keep telling youtube to stop advertising her but here we are... smh🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @kkayli7592
      @kkayli7592 3 роки тому +4

      Me too!!

    • @rayneisdead
      @rayneisdead 3 роки тому +1

      Huh ? BAHAHAHAHHAA

    • @jamalpitts3601
      @jamalpitts3601 3 роки тому +1

      I mean, its like this, if you don't wanna watch her videos then don't click on them. Ain't nobody forcing you to watch it.

    • @andrewjacox4655
      @andrewjacox4655 3 роки тому +1

      Jayla Angel 😔

    • @rayneisdead
      @rayneisdead 3 роки тому

      Vincent Savoye same

  • @alissaburgan8579
    @alissaburgan8579 3 роки тому +289

    Imaging having so little personality your whole Chanel revolves around being marred or being in a wedding.

    • @mavisdom-animeonpiano
      @mavisdom-animeonpiano 3 роки тому +4

      Alissa Burgan marred lmao

    • @adelainemay
      @adelainemay 3 роки тому +9

      Why is that a big deal? Some channels are all about money, some makeup, some gaming. Why is it a big deal to focus on one thing on a channel?

    • @ghbbc4484
      @ghbbc4484 3 роки тому +4

      @@adelainemay It's a big deal when her brother pays for her dying UA-cam channel to be shoved down our throats and she actively shames people for not following the traditional lifestyle 👄🥰😍

    • @adelainemay
      @adelainemay 3 роки тому

      @@ghbbc4484 gotcha, this is the only video of hers I have watched so I was unaware 🤷‍♀️

    • @ghbbc4484
      @ghbbc4484 3 роки тому

      @@adelainemay That's alright! Honestly our problem isn't that she's hyperfocused on marriage, because marriage is a wonderful thing and it's perfectly okay to put everything into it, it's just that she shames people. Her fans also attack people in the comments, calling them lonely idiots who will die alone with their cats and tumblr :^)

  • @gorgalicious
    @gorgalicious 3 роки тому +90

    bruh is it just me or is this girl and trumps ads literally EVERYWHERE on yt

    • @taylorangelinaa
      @taylorangelinaa 3 роки тому +13

      yes and it’s making me insane

    • @gorgalicious
      @gorgalicious 3 роки тому +7

      @@taylorangelinaa same

    • @erens-basement
      @erens-basement 3 роки тому +10

      Same here, Daily Wire and other conservative ads. I've seen the why BLM is bad ad like 10 times already

    • @ghbbc4484
      @ghbbc4484 3 роки тому

      @gxlilea.d Girl 😭😭😭😭 I am so sorry.

  • @boostedboosted3088
    @boostedboosted3088 3 роки тому +268

    She literally gets more dislikes than likes that’s funny lmao

  • @chrisdankdaddy
    @chrisdankdaddy 3 роки тому +43

    Please... please just give me my recommendations back... stop paying for the ads

  • @dorothyknutson2295
    @dorothyknutson2295 3 роки тому +109

    Queen why is your only hobby being a wife? Like if every woman needs to get married and this is a full time thing, would that make women all the same?? You’re uninteresting????

    • @hismom5600
      @hismom5600 3 роки тому +2

      Who says this is her only hobby? She's not allowed to share about her married life and perspective?

    • @hismom5600
      @hismom5600 3 роки тому +2

      @Burnt Orange That's part of her brand though. She's also an accomplished woman. She happens to be a conservative wife. And that's something different that many people actually can relate to.
      It may not be your thing but it's narrow minded to assume this means she has nothing else to offer.

    • @chaoticnart9922
      @chaoticnart9922 3 роки тому +2

      His Mom You can stop digging yourself deeper into that hole now. Her only accomplishments are her piss poor opera performances on UA-cam and her idiot brother’s fame. Her “brand” is just being the normal, entitled upper class housewife that tells people how they should live their lives and making herself seem like she’s all for female empowerment when in actuality she just tears others down to please men. I.e. how to dress “classically” video.

    • @hismom5600
      @hismom5600 3 роки тому

      @@chaoticnart9922 The only holes being dug are the ones of those critiquing her every word and thought as though she makes videos about killing puppies.
      If what she's into isn't your thing then that's fine.
      But for her to receive consistent hate for living the life she chooses is ridiculous.
      All she's doing is sharing her perspective.
      What's interesting is if she were extremely liberal with her views I promise you we wouldn't even be having this convo.
      She sure isn't the norm on UA-cam, but she's a voice for others in her own way.
      Just because she isn't bleeding feminism and hatred for men doesn't make her opinions wrong. It just means they aren't for you.

    • @hismom5600
      @hismom5600 3 роки тому +1

      @@chaoticnart9922 And dressing classically is about preserving your own modesty. Claiming power over your body by feeling like you are the keeper of the key so to speak. That you don't have to show everything to feel feminine and empowered. That your beauty and strength exist beyond how much you reveal.
      She gave her viewpoint. But she never said a woman was a whore if she didn't dress modestly.
      Please tell me again how that's wrong now?
      Not how it's not your cup of tea.
      Tell me how it's actually wrong as her own opinion.

  • @AA-mf2uh
    @AA-mf2uh 3 роки тому +73

    ben shapiro in a wig

  • @coclarkis
    @coclarkis 3 роки тому +66

    shoulders are showing not modest enough
    edit: this comment is ✨a joke✨

    • @cristinasandoval7470
      @cristinasandoval7470 3 роки тому +6

      She looks beautiful

    • @adrianafrans5653
      @adrianafrans5653 3 роки тому +7

      I love how she dresses

    • @localbaddie_8438
      @localbaddie_8438 3 роки тому +2

      So?

    • @cakepops5940
      @cakepops5940 3 роки тому +19

      ThanosOhyeah _ because she talks about being modest, but she’s showing shoulders and stuff. So it’s kind of hypocritical. Not trying to take sides, but that’s what the comment was joking about

    • @daliagracia1658
      @daliagracia1658 3 роки тому +4

      @@localbaddie_8438 yes❤️

  • @rhyskarslake
    @rhyskarslake 3 роки тому +50

    honey can you leave us alone im just trying to listen to motion city soundtrack

  • @jacelyn3024
    @jacelyn3024 3 роки тому +11

    To all the people who are hating on her: If you don’t like her then don’t watch it. If you disagree, don’t watch it. If you don’t have something nice to say, then don’t say anything. Saying negative things is literally pointless.

  • @kirstyvwilson
    @kirstyvwilson 3 роки тому +54

    This girl is really trying to talk about supporting women when she’s a conservative... clownery luv

  • @emmalee615
    @emmalee615 3 роки тому +28

    ma’am it will do your channel some good to cut back on the ads ❤️

    • @daliagracia1658
      @daliagracia1658 3 роки тому +1

      almost sixty thousand subscribers

    • @strawbolita
      @strawbolita 3 роки тому +1

      no ❤️

    • @daliagracia1658
      @daliagracia1658 3 роки тому

      @Dylan McKendrick No

    • @daliagracia1658
      @daliagracia1658 3 роки тому

      @Dylan McKendrick Look at my comments I don't care if I have to write more times I do it with this account.

    • @nveletkoslin33771
      @nveletkoslin33771 3 роки тому +2

      do you wanna eat my ear wax?? uuuufff pweeeease

  • @laurynbell5778
    @laurynbell5778 3 роки тому +59

    Her laugh creeps me out. It seems so forced and fake!!!

  • @angelawhitehead2889
    @angelawhitehead2889 3 роки тому +31

    Please get a new opening statement, nails on a chalkboard

    • @angelawhitehead2889
      @angelawhitehead2889 3 роки тому +9

      brown bird no, “ hey Karen’s”

    • @nveletkoslin33771
      @nveletkoslin33771 3 роки тому +1

      do you wanna eat my ear wax?? uuuufff pweeeease

    • @angelawhitehead2889
      @angelawhitehead2889 3 роки тому +4

      nvelet koslin how would eating ear wax help with the horrible sound of her voice? You clearly weren’t blessed with intelligence, no wonder you support this channel 😂

  • @justadiamondwithinternetac3662
    @justadiamondwithinternetac3662 3 роки тому +26

    One minute you’re demolishing gender stereotypes and the next you’re pushing them

  • @katienoble908
    @katienoble908 3 роки тому +14

    UA-cam, please, I beg you, stop recommending these videos to meeee

  • @lovelylex3508
    @lovelylex3508 3 роки тому +27

    Girl, stop spamming us with your ads. Put that money into something more useful. If anything, you’re starting to make people annoyed with you.

    • @aleksandragrey6541
      @aleksandragrey6541 3 роки тому +6

      Starting to? She BEEN annoying af

    • @vanessat7758
      @vanessat7758 3 роки тому

      @@aleksandragrey6541 You're more annoying than she'll ever be.

    • @aleksandragrey6541
      @aleksandragrey6541 3 роки тому +1

      @@vanessat7758 that’s so cute 😂 you wish

    • @aleksandragrey6541
      @aleksandragrey6541 3 роки тому +1

      @@vanessat7758 see here’s the problem with that. 1. You don’t know me
      2. I don’t spam everyone with videos telling people how to act 💀
      You have nothing sweetheart.

  • @Asmrkiwiii
    @Asmrkiwiii 3 роки тому +32

    Please stop the ads, I don’t want it. UA-cam won’t stop even I report 10 times. Please stop I am emotionally effected...

    • @LizzAngelus
      @LizzAngelus 3 роки тому +1

      U do know that shes not going to stop bc even people who dislike it, are still going to come onto her videos and comment how much they dislike it which still gives her money right lmao. Just stop clicking on it ur literally enabling her lol. And no, im not siding with her. Its just dumb for u to say ur emotionally effected when ur the one who keeps clicking on the vids lol. Kinda assbackwards.

    • @Asmrkiwiii
      @Asmrkiwiii 3 роки тому

      Khalizzi Thank you! No I didn’t realize how this ad thing work but thanks for letting me know. Tho you call me dumb but I truly didn’t know haha. Ok I will stop click in the vid and see maybe one day it will disappear~ I was just trying to do something since I have not click the vid for months but it’s still here~ Hope you’re not angry anymore since I am so dumb. Have a great day.

    • @ghbbc4484
      @ghbbc4484 3 роки тому +1

      @@Asmrkiwiii Hey hon, not clicking the ads won't help xo. Previous person is dumb; I didn't interact with this channel until I hit 40-50 ads.

  • @spinchage
    @spinchage 3 роки тому +73

    How bout you stop contributing to sexism in the world 🤪

  • @user-ot6jh2vt1x
    @user-ot6jh2vt1x 3 роки тому +20

    This is literally the most boring content anyone could possibly think of

  • @kittyspo0ks465
    @kittyspo0ks465 3 роки тому +10

    First Rule: you need to have friends in order to be a bridesmaid

  • @samh8983
    @samh8983 3 роки тому +11

    This is just a suggestion Abby, these videos aren’t really my thing, and that’s okay I’m not here to hate on your channel, but I have a suggestion. I and a lot of others (as you can see by the comments) are here from ads which it seems as though me and many others can’t seem to stop seeing. And I think why most of your videos are more disliked rather than likes are because people literally can’t avoid your videos, so now ur comment section and your likes are damaged because of it. I understand wanting to get ur content across however I think it’s doing more harm then good. It’s targeting audiences that don’t seem that interested instead of people you want to reach out to, just a thought, maybe stop the ads?

    • @adelainemay
      @adelainemay 3 роки тому

      Yessssss. Get this to the top. There is 100% an audience for this, but it is most definitely NOT the people coming from ads.

  • @marinvameds
    @marinvameds 3 роки тому +69

    PLEASE DO A REACTION TO WAP

  • @k.k.6480
    @k.k.6480 3 роки тому +10

    How come when i block this user I'll still see the videos uhmmm

  • @kathrynwilliamson180
    @kathrynwilliamson180 3 роки тому +34

    The title makes me think some bridesmaids ruined her wedding by taking all the attention
    Edit: (I’m not trying to be hateful I was just thinking that it might be a future story)

    • @curicosasr.dg.f9123
      @curicosasr.dg.f9123 3 роки тому +4

      Every person who works at a wedding should take the subject seriously

    • @curicosasr.dg.f9123
      @curicosasr.dg.f9123 3 роки тому

      @愛HiImAmii no

    • @InTheNameOfLife1
      @InTheNameOfLife1 3 роки тому +2

      This video was so strange to me. I’ve been a bridesmaid more than once and it was NOT as “hard” as she’s making it out to be 😂 why would you need tips of your genuinely a good friend and have good friends? “Don’t ever say anything mean!” Um... yeah... I tend to not be mean to my friends 😂

    • @Nothingness1748
      @Nothingness1748 3 роки тому

      @@InTheNameOfLife1 I think she's talking to girls who are used to being the center of attention, or selfish. 🤷‍♀️

  • @truthissweet489
    @truthissweet489 3 роки тому +13

    I love your style Abby

  • @ChaseOGLP
    @ChaseOGLP 3 роки тому +43

    “On how I planned my own wedding”
    Aight imma head out

    • @ryanhampson5324
      @ryanhampson5324 3 роки тому +1

      Adios

    • @ChaseOGLP
      @ChaseOGLP 3 роки тому

      Ryan Nonya push the top button on the side of your phone a couple times 😉

  • @sarabrown2663
    @sarabrown2663 3 роки тому +34

    I’ve been a bridesmaid seven times. Two of those times I was the Maid of Honor. I could write the book. I’ve thrown a dozen bridal parties, and bachelorette parties. I also ended up throwing the baby shower for the majority of the women I threw the Bridal Showers, and Bachelorette Parties for. I love throwing the parties.

    • @tvelicia
      @tvelicia 3 роки тому +5

      You should seriously consider posting videos about the bridal and bachelorette parties that you have thrown.

    • @sarabrown2663
      @sarabrown2663 3 роки тому +5

      Tobi-Velicia Johnson haha! I don’t like being in front of the camera, but if you ever need any tips just ask!

    • @catherinecampbell1215
      @catherinecampbell1215 3 роки тому +2

      ​@Felicity Singleton Love you guys! Maybe you will be one day. I didn't think I was every going to be a bridesmaid when I was younger but now that I am older, I have been a bridesmaid three times now.

    • @nveletkoslin33771
      @nveletkoslin33771 3 роки тому +2

      do you wanna eat my ear wax?? uuuufff pweeeease

    • @Pearly915
      @Pearly915 3 роки тому +1

      Hey, what do they do for the bachelorette parties?

  • @mel-gz5ju
    @mel-gz5ju 3 роки тому +6

    Why tf she keep poppin in my ads

  • @daneishamccaskill1745
    @daneishamccaskill1745 3 роки тому +19

    Can you imagine the videos she’ll make when she has a kid

    • @ghbbc4484
      @ghbbc4484 3 роки тому +3

      He came out as gay?! [NOT Clickbait] [Teaching him CHRISTIANITY]

  • @Goat.Cheese
    @Goat.Cheese 3 роки тому +27

    Love this video, although I thought all this stuff was just common sense? Of course the big day is about the bride, not the bridesmaids! :) the only exception (imo) is if the bride tries to force you to buy a dress you cant afford to do something you dont want to at the bachelorette party. In those cases, a back and forth is needed.

  • @zachw3896
    @zachw3896 3 роки тому +50

    As a guy, I dunno how I ended up here, but seems like pretty solid advice! Also you're tremendously beautiful. Have a great day.

    • @MothChowder
      @MothChowder 3 роки тому +4

      Dude, it’s not ganna happen

    • @MothChowder
      @MothChowder 3 роки тому +1

      offbrandpunk she’s married dude

    • @zachw3896
      @zachw3896 3 роки тому +3

      @@MothChowder and that matters why? It was just a compliment man, don't read into it so much lol.

    • @MothChowder
      @MothChowder 3 роки тому +1

      Zach W nice save

    • @zachw3896
      @zachw3896 3 роки тому +3

      @@kelseys9536 If I could laugh react your comment, I would. Why is it that a simple compliment is suddenly turned into being a simp?

  • @leiakw3902
    @leiakw3902 3 роки тому +24

    What if I'm not excited about the wedding? I'm not great at pretending...

    • @curicosasr.dg.f9123
      @curicosasr.dg.f9123 3 роки тому +6

      How bad is a great experience

    • @sullysaints2337
      @sullysaints2337 3 роки тому +7

      leia kw say no to being a bridesmaid if youre just gonna bring negative energy to the table. if youre chill and can put the bride’s feelings before your own cuz it’s her wedding then stay as a bridesmaid

    • @mariosanchez-yp4up
      @mariosanchez-yp4up 3 роки тому +4

      Then go eat poop.

    • @jessicavarnell1014
      @jessicavarnell1014 3 роки тому +5

      leia kw Why would she ask you if you don’t want to be the bridesmaid? A bridesmaid is suppose to be the brides BFF, right...🤔😅

    • @leiakw3902
      @leiakw3902 3 роки тому +3

      @@sullysaints2337 thanks for the advice.

  • @yukicious2080
    @yukicious2080 3 роки тому +6

    abigail dance to wap for us ✨

  • @Gloria-ke1md
    @Gloria-ke1md 3 роки тому +37

    What colours do u think are best for bridesmaids to wear? to not steal the spotlight from the bride bt also looks beautiful and sophisticated at the same time💜💜💜

    • @jillianphillips344
      @jillianphillips344 3 роки тому +14

      personally i like muted colors, like dusty blue or dusty rose

    • @shin_kiyo
      @shin_kiyo 3 роки тому +7

      most weddings i’ve been to, there is a dress code (bridesmaids all wear red, purple, etc). but if there isn’t, don’t wear anything too bright/saturated that will draw the eye away from the bride. for the dress itself, wear something simple yet sophisticated. nothing too flashy in color or dress

    • @Chryslerdealership
      @Chryslerdealership 3 роки тому +7

      Never been a bridesmaid but I think light or dusty pink is gorgeous 😍

    • @Goat.Cheese
      @Goat.Cheese 3 роки тому +2

      I like black or crimson--but I prefer a more formal look in general, so it's preference

    • @angelbarajas9180
      @angelbarajas9180 3 роки тому +2

      Jillian Phillips The dusty pink would be great 💖💖💖

  • @sydneygehl445
    @sydneygehl445 3 роки тому +20

    i don’t know why you get so much hate!! i’m a big fan!!!💗

    • @adrianafrans5653
      @adrianafrans5653 3 роки тому +2

      I also love your videos

    • @cristinasandoval7470
      @cristinasandoval7470 3 роки тому +1

      I'm also a fan

    • @sydneygehl445
      @sydneygehl445 3 роки тому +1

      @@kelseys9536 okay, that's fair. the ads are a little much haha

    • @dipdip4322
      @dipdip4322 3 роки тому +5

      Sydney Gehl in her previous videos she puts down women whose views dont align with her. People aren’t hating her for talking about dressing modestly and stuff. It’s more when she says women are less if they don’t dress modestly get married and stuff.

    • @sydneygehl445
      @sydneygehl445 3 роки тому +2

      @@dipdip4322 i haven't heard her say anything that direct, but i also haven't been watching for very long. thanks for bringing that to my attention. but there are, actually, people who hate on her for talking about being modest and getting married and all sorts of things that they should just leave her alone about

  • @_yukixxkim3296
    @_yukixxkim3296 3 роки тому +12

    My uncle,is getting married soon and I’m attending. Not a bridesmaid. What colors you recommend?

    • @chloe-dt6yh
      @chloe-dt6yh 3 роки тому +4

      Rainbow girl 😻😻😻

    • @cristinasandoval7470
      @cristinasandoval7470 3 роки тому +3

      @@chloe-dt6yh You can send some links with the idea, I love that idea sounds different

    • @angelbarajas9180
      @angelbarajas9180 3 роки тому +3

      Dusty pink or white. Pastel pink or blue is cute too.

    • @Centerpiecegardens
      @Centerpiecegardens 3 роки тому +1

      I feel like it depends on the season!

  • @jademoran9992
    @jademoran9992 3 роки тому +26

    I absolutely love how you make sure to recognise that this day is about the bride! A lot of bridesmaids are just incredibly selfish and its so refreshing to see somebody truly appreciate the bride :) I feel like you're such a considerate person and I love that!

  • @Essielove33
    @Essielove33 3 роки тому +76

    Can you make a series about planning a very religious Jewish wedding? I want to have a very religious ceremony but am not that knowledgeable on customs/unsure where to start. thanks!

    • @ClassicallyAbby
      @ClassicallyAbby  3 роки тому +22

      Love this!

    • @shelby8364
      @shelby8364 3 роки тому +8

      @ガチャauralex lmaaaao

    • @datbrocorp8917
      @datbrocorp8917 3 роки тому +7

      @ガチャauralex Ah yes, anime profile picture questioning other's choice of role model. Classic.

    • @kind.a8702
      @kind.a8702 3 роки тому +30

      Datbro Corp ah yes, a person with no profile pic whatsoever questioning other’s choice of profile pic. Classic.

    • @von8786
      @von8786 3 роки тому +9

      Datbro Corp I know “datbro Corp” isn’t talking

  • @redoflife768
    @redoflife768 3 роки тому +5

    Classic is just code for ‘traditional’ and traditional just means taking a trip back to the 20s.

  • @basic_CeceRae
    @basic_CeceRae 2 роки тому +2

    Can you do a video on how to be a classic bride ? I’m already married but I would still love to see your advice and thoughts.

  • @taylor-_-1324
    @taylor-_-1324 3 роки тому +9

    That “Hello” is cringe worthy

  • @rayneisdead
    @rayneisdead 3 роки тому +24

    I’m surprised she got invited to NOT ONE BUT TWO weddings.

    • @siddarthreddy8755
      @siddarthreddy8755 3 роки тому +1

      I’m surprised she got invited to any wedding at all

  • @kimmyymmik
    @kimmyymmik 3 роки тому +25

    I love your content ❤️

  • @palomatorres6274
    @palomatorres6274 3 роки тому +36

    I SEE SHOULDERS. THAT IS NOT MODEST

    • @TayDoesCheer
      @TayDoesCheer Рік тому

      It’s ok. She’s an adult. Not 12.

  • @kaicohen1818
    @kaicohen1818 3 роки тому +3

    OMG HER SHOULDERS!!!

    • @kyeco
      @kyeco 3 роки тому +1

      It’s so scandalous🤬🤬

  • @angelbarajas9180
    @angelbarajas9180 3 роки тому +14

    Hello Abby! I was wondering is you could make a video on hairstyles and dressing up for the winter also a closet tour would be nice!

  • @AnnaMazingFusion
    @AnnaMazingFusion 3 роки тому +4

    This was really cute to watch! Makes me want to get married with my boyfriend but I’m only 21. 😂 Sadly, I’ve never been a bridesmaid... I was only a flower girl when I was in 2nd grade lol! My time will come, hopefully 💐

  • @taniafebles5984
    @taniafebles5984 3 роки тому +58

    I love this theme I have been a bridesmaid for three weddings and it is the best experience.

    • @ClassicallyAbby
      @ClassicallyAbby  3 роки тому +11

      It is so special!

    • @juice_1871
      @juice_1871 3 роки тому +10

      Classically Abby Why did you marry your brother ben shapiro

    • @elliotwatts2308
      @elliotwatts2308 3 роки тому

      @@juice_1871 Will you marry?

    • @itsme-mt2fo
      @itsme-mt2fo 3 роки тому +1

      @@juice_1871 bens wife is a dr. She isn't a dr

    • @juice_1871
      @juice_1871 3 роки тому +1

      it's me No her name is Dr classically abby

  • @raeannabastin
    @raeannabastin 3 роки тому +20

    All of her haters are just giving her more clout. Leave the girl alone and let her have her own opinion!! ❤️

  • @boredcheeseaddict5599
    @boredcheeseaddict5599 3 роки тому +17

    Never been a bridesmaid and I don’t know if I ever will be, but this is great advice!

  • @portugaltheman9717
    @portugaltheman9717 3 роки тому +30

    i love you abby 😊

  • @SaturnComet
    @SaturnComet 3 роки тому +3

    At this point, I'm starting to think this is a social experiement.

  • @feliciapeguero6826
    @feliciapeguero6826 3 роки тому +20

    I love this video

  • @classicalhomeschoolcorner4505
    @classicalhomeschoolcorner4505 3 роки тому +45

    Off topic, but I was watching one of your old videos when you were cooking dinner and you were discussing kosher guidelines and asked about vegetarian/vegan dishes. If you haven’t checked out minimalist baker I highly recommend their blog. We are Eastern Orthodox Christian and observe vegan fasts throughout the year and that site has been an amazing resource for us. They are simple meals that are either 10 ingredients or less/30 minutes or less to make/ one pot meals. Many (not all are plant based). We love the Thai carrot soup and the chocolate chia seed pudding recipes 😋

    • @classicalhomeschoolcorner4505
      @classicalhomeschoolcorner4505 3 роки тому

      IlluminatiMLG We do a lot of Thai/Asian meals as well. There is such variety available for vegan dishes and many times I prefer plant based dishes over a dish with meat. We really enjoy this sweet potato curry with spinach. So easy to make and so good!
      .elavegan.com/sweet-potato-curry-vegan/

    • @sunria3408
      @sunria3408 3 роки тому +1

      @@classicalhomeschoolcorner4505 Are you perhaps christian vegan?

    • @classicalhomeschoolcorner4505
      @classicalhomeschoolcorner4505 3 роки тому

      Sun Ria I don’t know if I would go as far to call myself as a Christian Vegan, as I don’t completely abstain from meat and dairy. I could drop meat completely with no problem, but dairy would be a harder transition. I do think Veganism would be considered the ideal diet in our tradition as our hierarchies and monastics eat an predominantly vegan diet (with fish allowed on non fast days) .

    • @sunria3408
      @sunria3408 3 роки тому

      @@classicalhomeschoolcorner4505 have you tried vegan dairy

    • @nveletkoslin33771
      @nveletkoslin33771 3 роки тому

      do you wanna eat my ear wax?? uuuufff pweeeease

  • @julianhoward3446
    @julianhoward3446 3 роки тому +3

    But what if some girls don’t want to get married?

    • @rosafebles7020
      @rosafebles7020 3 роки тому +1

      Es sobre damas de honor

    • @IluvAmerica
      @IluvAmerica 3 роки тому +1

      The title literally says “classic girls guide to being a bridesmaid” why would you click on the video if it doesn’t apply to you? Her channel is all got conservatism and helping girls that aren’t conservative become that. Stop coming here to say “what if some girls ---“ well if they don’t want to, then they should click off.

  • @JB-pi7ii
    @JB-pi7ii 3 роки тому +1

    It’s honestly so sad that everyone immediately disliked and left a rude comment when there is nothing wrong or controversial with this video. She’s not even really talking about being conservative, it’s literally just about being supportive of your friend during her wedding.

  • @biancarose1992618
    @biancarose1992618 3 роки тому +18

    Great topic as always 🤗

  • @yeahok9898
    @yeahok9898 3 роки тому +4

    I don’t care abt this I’m not even old enough to get married 😐

  • @cb2865
    @cb2865 3 роки тому +16

    Hey, I lean more towards the left side politically but I like to practice engaging in other perspectives which is why I love your channel! I was wondering what your opinions on social distancing/masks and their connection to politics/postering?

    • @angelbarajas9180
      @angelbarajas9180 3 роки тому +12

      I’m glad you’re respectful 😊

    • @strawbolita
      @strawbolita 3 роки тому +5

      A lot of us on the right welcome you into the conversation :)

  • @morgenmartin3363
    @morgenmartin3363 3 роки тому +2

    Watched this video because I was recommended your ad. I wanted to watch another video so that I didn't feel so diversive towards your viewpoint, and lo and behold, I've been asked to be a Bridesmaid. I definitely agree with your points on how a Bridesmaid should be. This will be my first role of support since transitioning, and any resource to help make my friend's wedding perfect, I will take.

  • @allisonrodriguez7979
    @allisonrodriguez7979 3 роки тому +12

    This is a lot of good advice! Would it be passive aggressive or helpful to send this to all my future bridesmaids?

  • @LauraParuzynski
    @LauraParuzynski 3 роки тому +22

    This is great advice!! Thanks Abby!

  • @treexit5997
    @treexit5997 3 роки тому +7

    hey can your ads pls stop popping up all over my youtube thanks

    • @daliagracia1658
      @daliagracia1658 3 роки тому

      Talk to UA-cam support, they are in charge of that, the content creator does not know where the ads arrive

    • @rosafebles7020
      @rosafebles7020 3 роки тому

      Go to UA-cam support

  • @chimmychong
    @chimmychong 3 роки тому +1

    Imagine conversing with this classic lady on a Friday night with a glass of wine... 🥱

  • @pockykoinu7417
    @pockykoinu7417 3 роки тому +1

    😂😂😂😂This is rich. Glad I clicked on this. Now I know how to be a classic lady.😅

  • @dazzlestheprequel4085
    @dazzlestheprequel4085 3 роки тому +58

    As I look through these comments, I tend to feel as though people don’t know that different lifestyles do exist. Even if you don’t agree with this woman, you have to give at least some partial credit to put herself out there and even have the courage to say how she likes to live. Many say that everyone is different and we have to accept that as human beings, and yet some are criticizing her content just because she is trying to hit a target audience and to find people who can connect with her.

    • @angelbarajas9180
      @angelbarajas9180 3 роки тому +29

      The same “Yass slay queen” girls hate on women who dress modestly, are Conservative, are feminine, live traditionally, and who actually act like a lady. Abby is not forcing any woman into traditionalism and femininity; she’s just making videos for women who want to live that way or already live that way.

    • @wii3willRule
      @wii3willRule 3 роки тому +20

      If she would leave me alone, I would leave her to do her thing. Alas...

    • @everythingellie9228
      @everythingellie9228 3 роки тому +12

      I completely agree. I have commented on several of her videos about the absolute irony of SO many women commenting negatively and disliking her videos so that the UA-cam algorithm sees her engagement and keeps prominently recommending her videos; the problem is that none of the women complaining know what irony means or how the algorithm works despite efforts to explain it to them. They complain she is PAYING for ads when in fact THEIR NEGATIVE ENGAGEMENT pushes her recommemdations farther and farther, lol!! Engagement is engagement, whether positive or negative. So I say let them come and dislike and comment!! Each time they do so, Abby's vids are recommended more and reach more people!!

    • @rubyred3580
      @rubyred3580 3 роки тому +20

      @@angelbarajas9180 Eh, not true. She specifically made a video called "why YOU should dress modestly" and repeatedly implied or even outright said that a woman doesn't respect herself if she's showing skin. If she was like "this is what I like to do but I respect people who want to live differently" then most people wouldn't have a problem with it. Not to mention all the outright sexism she has said.

    • @angelbarajas9180
      @angelbarajas9180 3 роки тому +8

      Ruby Red And guess what.... you don’t have to watch it! End of story.

  • @btsgot720
    @btsgot720 3 роки тому +41

    Love this abby❤

    • @emilyl7405
      @emilyl7405 3 роки тому +13

      how can you be an army and support this woman?

    • @btsgot720
      @btsgot720 3 роки тому +5

      @@emilyl7405 I just dont judge anyone for their views and beliefs just because I dont follow the same or agree with the same doesnt mean i should hate her or leave negative comments. She's a human like everyone else

    • @emilyl7405
      @emilyl7405 3 роки тому +7

      BTS & GOT7 If you hold beliefs that are discriminatory or sexist, those views deserve to be judged. Are you saying that if someone holds a racist belief, we should not judge them or leave negative comments? Her beliefs go against everything BTS stands for, but you’re still supporting her. You’re a disappointment.

    • @angelbarajas9180
      @angelbarajas9180 3 роки тому +2

      Emily L Just stop. You don’t need to have the same views as someone you listen to.

    • @emilyl7405
      @emilyl7405 3 роки тому +9

      Based Zoomer You don’t need to have the same views as someone you listen to, but sexism is more than just a view. If you knowingly support someone who is problematic, that makes you problematic. I’m just saying that this goes against everything BTS stands for and that she should be ashamed. I don’t think she should even call herself an ARMY.

  • @edwinlucianoalmarantegomez618
    @edwinlucianoalmarantegomez618 3 роки тому +6

    Love abby

  • @sharpayevans4356
    @sharpayevans4356 3 роки тому +16

    A classy and modest bride will always look stunning

  • @leloz29
    @leloz29 3 роки тому +6

    😐plz stop popping up on my ads. yk ur vids ain’t makin it nowhere with us so plz lay back and save your money

  • @choerryenthusiast3588
    @choerryenthusiast3588 3 роки тому +10

    no❤️

  • @ItzkendallRoyce
    @ItzkendallRoyce 3 роки тому +4

    WHY DOES SHE KEEP POPPING OUT ON MY UA-cam I BLOCKED HER AND ALL HER VIDEOS UA-cam TAKE A HINT

  • @hannahbradshaw7726
    @hannahbradshaw7726 3 роки тому

    This is a useful video! I do think being excited with your friend is the most important thing someone can do.Also so true it is not about you it is about the bride. P.S.You look so beautiful in white! Also I love your eyebrows!

  • @Captain_Olimar
    @Captain_Olimar 3 роки тому +26

    The best bridesmaids know how to POP their WAP if you know what I mean 👶🏼 #tradition

  • @nothinbutaspliff1234
    @nothinbutaspliff1234 3 роки тому +8

    taking a shot a shot everytime this woman says “classic” i finna be wasted

  • @lordfungus9664
    @lordfungus9664 3 роки тому

    Wait wait completely off topic but like where did you get your necklace? It’s really cute :3

  • @infinityandmore6438
    @infinityandmore6438 3 роки тому +1

    I actually really liked this video !!

  • @ruthangomas9903
    @ruthangomas9903 3 роки тому +6

    💚💚💚💚

  • @zayragonzalez9495
    @zayragonzalez9495 3 роки тому +29

    I love this video Abby for this video I hope I can be a bridesmaid for a friend of mine or for my wedding for my future bridesmaids. I was a bridesmaid for my cousins but I was the youngest i was not involved clueless. I was maid of honor last minute I had to use a beach dress to go for the wedding of my cousin.

  • @claire969
    @claire969 3 роки тому

    are we NOT GONNA TALK ABOUT THE END THAT SHITS HILARIOUS

  • @anonbobanon7320
    @anonbobanon7320 3 роки тому +4

    This is perfect timing! I was recently asked to be a bridesmaid in a wedding, thanks for posting this! Keep ignoring the haters and keep being you!

  • @alexisoutt1428
    @alexisoutt1428 3 роки тому +13

    Awesome advice! You’re so helpful and pleasant. But I don’t have any friends so that takes care of that 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @queenexplosionmurder1329
    @queenexplosionmurder1329 3 роки тому +5

    weddings are a ✨scam✨

    • @vanessat7758
      @vanessat7758 3 роки тому

      You're just pressed cause you'll never have one OR you did have one but things didn't go well, so now you'll end up with a bunch of cats. :)

    • @queenexplosionmurder1329
      @queenexplosionmurder1329 3 роки тому

      @@vanessat7758 this is just my personal opinion, i get that they are for some people, they just aren't really my thing. i love cats, and i am in a perfectly fine relationship with someone else who thinks the same as me. besides there are some people who can't even legally be married. thanks tho

    • @vanessat7758
      @vanessat7758 3 роки тому

      @@queenexplosionmurder1329 Got it. :)

  • @chrisgoodier6825
    @chrisgoodier6825 Рік тому

    Good advice, thanks Abby :)

  • @schrdngrskat3847
    @schrdngrskat3847 7 місяців тому

    I dont understand people who are bridesmaids and get annoyed hearing the bride talk about the wedding? Brides have SO much to plan and think about and need people to bounce ideas off of and get suggestions from. I absolutely *love* talking about wedding stuff with people, and I would talk wedding stuff with a bride for hours 😅😅

  • @zenaidaaaaaaa
    @zenaidaaaaaaa 3 роки тому +17

    Does this girl get on any of y’all nerves too ? 😃✌️

    • @jules5904
      @jules5904 3 роки тому +1

      ✨💞🧚🏼‍♂️She’s clearly never been held back due to Conservatives🧚🏼‍♂️💞✨

    • @zenaidaaaaaaa
      @zenaidaaaaaaa 3 роки тому +5

      Lady Ackerman idk but something about her is annoying 😂😭😭😭

    • @cristinasandoval7470
      @cristinasandoval7470 3 роки тому +6

      And you're going to put up with it because it has fifty-eight thousand people and counting like that, it will continue for a long time on the internet

    • @crystalp6076
      @crystalp6076 3 роки тому +2

      Yes!!!! Really wish her ads would stop popping up!!! 🤮

    • @mariosanchez-yp4up
      @mariosanchez-yp4up 3 роки тому +8

      @@zenaidaaaaaaa Racist

  • @danny8284
    @danny8284 3 роки тому +26

    Hey can you stop spamming your ads everywhere they’re annoying and I can’t get rid of them no matter what I try.
    ok thx bye

    • @leonardoramos5846
      @leonardoramos5846 3 роки тому +7

      You can look for help on youtube support they can help you with the problem

    • @dipdip4322
      @dipdip4322 3 роки тому +5

      Leonardo Ramos I said I was not interested in her channel a shitload of times and still see it. Yt isn’t doing anything especially when she spends so much on ads

    • @elliotwatts2308
      @elliotwatts2308 3 роки тому +2

      @@dipdip4322 The problem is UA-cam content creators do not decide who receives ads

    • @strawbolita
      @strawbolita 3 роки тому +5

      Just don’t click on them it’s so simple LOL

    • @dipdip4322
      @dipdip4322 3 роки тому +3

      BeddyByeBunny thank you for that mind blowing idea. I usually don’t, just wanted to see how’s she’s putting down women who don’t align with her views today :)

  • @TheBestLovatic
    @TheBestLovatic 3 роки тому +21

    You’re so cute Abby! 🥰🥰🥺 and you inspire me so much. Thank you for being who you are

  • @rosafebles7020
    @rosafebles7020 3 роки тому +4

    Eres maravillosa gracias por tus vídeos

  • @adrianaraffa597
    @adrianaraffa597 3 роки тому +35

    Girl, I am so here for you and this community. I think it's great even though these videos aren't necessarily for me. I'm a fan. Please don't ever stop. You're filling a white space that is truly truly needed in media and the influencer world. So thank you.

    • @cr2969
      @cr2969 3 роки тому +4

      Please go find someone else to watch please don’t give this sexist conservative woman any more ✨hype✨

  • @selenespoiler
    @selenespoiler 3 роки тому +20

    It kind of feels like her entire reasoning is that a women’s life is supposed to be dedicated to marriage and children. Yikes.

  • @J5lover1
    @J5lover1 3 роки тому

    Love your videos ❤️

    • @Pearly915
      @Pearly915 3 роки тому

      Don’t lie ❤️

  • @miscellaneousjellyfish5634
    @miscellaneousjellyfish5634 3 роки тому +1

    Abby what do u think of your brother’s cover of WAP by Cardi B