Don’t Make These New Construction Mistakes

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  • @laura-cg7vl
    @laura-cg7vl 8 днів тому +14

    Very inexpensive engineered wood floors are not always able to be refinished. Please tell people to check the top veneer thickness when they buy. It’s the wear layer. Some are paper thin.

    • @homelikeyoumeanit
      @homelikeyoumeanit  8 днів тому +1

      Yes, true! In general, the veneer needs to be 1/8” minimum, but 3/16” is ideal. My husband has owned a GC business for nearly 20 years and has installed it all. In general, yes, real hardwood is amazing. That said, I have been very impressed with how well medium to higher priced engineered wood holds up. I love hardwood, but if you have pets and kids you will see more scratches compared to engineered hardwood in my experience. You can argue that the natural wear and tear of real hardwood is beautiful, but some people don't like that.

    • @laura-cg7vl
      @laura-cg7vl 4 дні тому

      @ Yes, there are excellent engineered wood floors out there and the finishes are not only durable but you can get colors and techniques that a typical crew could not do as well on site finished floors!

  • @disgruntled9296
    @disgruntled9296 Місяць тому +237

    You missed one "con" with the open concept. Noise! Especially with dishwashers and exhaust fans.

    • @oliphauntsneverlie6227
      @oliphauntsneverlie6227 Місяць тому +40

      I never liked the open plan concept.

    • @lindayoungwoolf
      @lindayoungwoolf Місяць тому +34

      Another con - trying to watch tv.. but the cackling in the kitchen gets annoying very quickly

    • @eddiefniii
      @eddiefniii Місяць тому +29

      I have open concept home. Brand new. 2600. 2.5 garage. All brick. Even patio posts. Huge closets. Tile floors that look like wood. That was a must. But I can’t even hear my dishwasher when it’s on. Soooo quiet.

    • @bv226
      @bv226 Місяць тому +23

      And don’t forget cooking odours. At least with some segregation you can contain them.

    • @eddiefniii
      @eddiefniii Місяць тому +19

      @ everything I cook smells great!

  • @tjbren576
    @tjbren576 22 дні тому +64

    Thank goodness black and white is on the way out!! Barn doors should go too! Everyone wants their home to be unique but then re-creates the same house that everyone else already has...

    • @warrenranstrom4462
      @warrenranstrom4462 15 днів тому +1

      Lol 100%

    • @toddgaak422
      @toddgaak422 14 днів тому +2

      I don't mind black and white if it's done right, but you are 100% correct about barn doors. Especially on bathrooms!!

  • @bv226
    @bv226 Місяць тому +130

    Two things I hate: sinks in islands, having dirty dishes and other clutter out in the open, plus I am skeptical about the efficiency if the vent and second, refrigerators up against and end wall so that the doors don’t fully open, making it difficult to get the drawers out.

    • @jayjones9219
      @jayjones9219 29 днів тому +22

      Me too, the island sink is in nearly every new build now and I hate it. I like to have people sit at the island and visit with me while I cook. I don’t want a sink there splashing them, or having people view dishes and clutter.

    • @laneyluneva
      @laneyluneva 27 днів тому +25

      Sinks and cooktops. I hate them both on islands.

    • @jayjones9219
      @jayjones9219 27 днів тому +14

      @@laneyluneva Exactly! Let’s sit at the island and gather around the flame or get splashed by the sink...said no one ever 😂

    • @sandrasuitt6439
      @sandrasuitt6439 26 днів тому +10

      I especially hate cooktops at Islands. Especially if little kids are around

    • @kathynewkirk683
      @kathynewkirk683 26 днів тому +10

      I like it. Makes you part of everything while you are working in the kitchen.

  • @robertashagam1599
    @robertashagam1599 26 днів тому +27

    You are very calming. It’s the voice, the speed and the colours you wear. It fits what you are speaking about- calm environments

  • @littlehouselife
    @littlehouselife 27 днів тому +25

    New builds for families are worlds away from my senior little house life, but it's fun knowing what is trendy. Good job with explanations. Thanks!

  • @meomy29
    @meomy29 26 днів тому +22

    5:48 Add a small closet so the room can double as an extra bedroom. Extra bedrooms are always good for home resale value.

  • @glendabanta4832
    @glendabanta4832 Місяць тому +51

    I live in Texas. A lot of people here put Austin stone on their houses which has a yellow or orange tone or undertone, and then they put a bright white or cool grey with it, and it looks terrible. Pay attention to undertones!

  • @tmention2235
    @tmention2235 21 день тому +22

    For me black is modern, love it

  • @jmpersic
    @jmpersic 14 днів тому +10

    I appreciate the talent of people like this who can pick colors. It's harder than it looks.

    • @mrssolomon3127
      @mrssolomon3127 14 днів тому

      If you can afford to have somebody do this for you that is money well spent. You never want to do a job twice = makes it very expensive.
      I did a 30-minute free Sherwin-Williams consultation and was pretty pleased with the results. But I should mention that I have enjoyed some business success as a small time house flipper.
      I'd recommend hiring a designer if you can afford it and then if you have any colors that you're on the fence about that they recommend get the 30-minute consultation from Sherwin-Williams for free to figure out which one would be the best. So you don't regret it

  • @KJSvitko
    @KJSvitko 21 день тому +27

    All homes should be built to accommodate the elderly and disabled. This will be better for everyone.
    Large wide doorways and hallways make using a cane, walker or wheel chair much easier.
    Bathrooms or wet rooms need to have flat floors and no shower hump or pan. A flat floor allows for easy access and drains need to provided.
    Easy to use lever door and faucet handles are easier for the elderly to grip and open.
    Main floors should include a master bedroom, restroom, shower, laundry and wide walk in closet with few steps to enter.
    Homes should be designed with aging in place in mind.

    • @karlakay
      @karlakay 18 днів тому +5

      Yes. Always.
      3' doors are also glamorous
      Higher outlets, too.
      Main floor full bath too

    • @ashdav9980
      @ashdav9980 11 днів тому

      As long as you are willing to pay the cost difference for these things go for it…….but the average person is not and already complains homes are too expensive. Just the zero curb shower you mention is one example of more expense than a curb shower. You have to water proof the entire bath floor and with curbless entries you generally need a larger shower to allow space for the water to flow and stay in designated shower space without a curb or glass to block it. Larger doors and hallways are more expensive also.

    • @KJSvitko
      @KJSvitko 11 днів тому +2

      @@ashdav9980 Short term thinking is what keeps people poor. The long term savings of an energy efficient house saves you money many times over. Short term thinking will keep your poor. It is a hard but necessary lesson to learn. Spending a little more upfront can pay dividends in the future.

    • @karlakay
      @karlakay 11 днів тому +2

      @ashdav9980 Have you priced interim care at a rehab facility? Which is where many HAVE to go because their downstairs bathroom door is too narrow for a wheelchair or doesn't have a regular shower on main floor? No need for extravagant Curbless showers. There are many other features that help one age-in-place. Such as various counter and window heights. And when building- a 36" door cost < $40 more than a 30" door.

    • @ballagh
      @ballagh 10 днів тому +1

      @@ashdav9980there is a cost difference but this about safeguarding the long term feasibility of the home. I have an aunt and uncle who retired about 12 years ago, building their dream home in the process. An amazing lakeside home on a hillside split over 3 levels. It was the third of fourth house they’d built so the vision was really clear. Both were active and fit but over the next seven or eight years later his knees and her hips had given up. Day to day their dream home was just not liveable.

  • @margieneary272
    @margieneary272 11 годин тому

    I knew it! I think black windows are a “ trend”, and that white will never go out of style. When it comes to a rather big expense, it’s important to be careful, unless, like you said, if you can afford it, then go with whatever you want. No all white paint for me. My opinion only. I do love white ceilings, and trim. I like the light taupes for main walls, like open concept kitchen, family room, and like those rooms to flow. I have a separate living room, and I love my Chocolate Mousse in there. Great video!

  • @JetsetterAve
    @JetsetterAve 26 днів тому +25

    Yes! The mismatched undertones is my biggest pet peeve with new builds!!

    • @Lovesapuzzle
      @Lovesapuzzle 25 днів тому +1

      Some spaces feel unsettling while others feel calm. I think that could be the reason.

  • @laneyluneva
    @laneyluneva 27 днів тому +17

    Wood stained cabinets all the way. White cabinets show dirt so easy.

  • @LilyBecca
    @LilyBecca 24 дні тому +23

    I've always liked the Office/Guest room combo. Unless you have guests all the time, it works out well. I work from home, but I can set up a temporary office in our study, family room, or craft room for a few days or a couple of weeks if we have guests. I like guests to have a private room when they stay with me.

  • @oliphauntsneverlie6227
    @oliphauntsneverlie6227 Місяць тому +28

    Ceilings! So many people forget about the 5th wall!

  • @margieneary272
    @margieneary272 11 годин тому

    I knew it! I think black windows are a “ trend”, and that white will never go out of style. When it comes to a rather big expense, it’s important to be careful, unless, like you said, if you can afford it, then go with whatever you want. No all white paint for me. My opinion only. I do love white ceilings, and trim. I like the light taupes for main walls, like open concept kitchen, family room, and like those rooms to flow. I have a separate living room, and I love my Chocolate Mousse in there. Great video! BTW: I hate my granite kitchen counter tops, but can’t afford to change it to quartz.

  • @katethegardener
    @katethegardener Місяць тому +47

    I'm working on my new build and I am choosing black windows inside and out. I don't have the money nor the time as I am a senior to change it up but after 60+ years of white windows I am looking for change. Also black windows inside looking out into a yard full of trees and flowers is like a frame on a portrait. I'm not going to put any blinds or drapes to cover my gorgeous new views. I did black faucets and handles on an off white kitchen but I can change those out anytime. I am moving out to country and so the black seems to fit and so I am taking the plunge. I am doing white oak flooring to help offset the black an make the house look bigger. Our home is brick and stonework on outside. I am having my whole home painted Chantilly Lace only because I want a blank canvas so I can live in the home for a bit and then decide what colours to paint. I don't like accent walls either. I was lucky to get small samples of cabinet/quartz countertops, flooring etc to bring along to help coordinate other colour choices. It sure can be overwhelming at times but it is also exciting creating a vision for your home. Thank you for the tips.

    • @lorraineedmond5921
      @lorraineedmond5921 28 днів тому +4

      Sounds wonderful!

    • @entnous53
      @entnous53 25 днів тому +3

      Agree about the black window frame “framing the exterior view”.

    • @dreamlife808
      @dreamlife808 18 днів тому +3

      You are absolutely correct! Black windows are gorgeous. They are like a frame for the view outside!! Love it!!

    • @donnajarockrealtor
      @donnajarockrealtor 8 днів тому

      Love the Black windows. Great choice!!!! They really make a home "Pop" Enjoy your new home.

  • @ben_pettit_4264
    @ben_pettit_4264 12 днів тому +8

    I have always loved the older homes where each room was its own space. Never been a huge fan of open concept.

    • @grateful7420
      @grateful7420 16 годин тому

      Same. They’re so loud! Cooking and cleaning in the kitchen while someone trying to watch tv is not fun.

  • @walkerb1734
    @walkerb1734 Місяць тому +46

    One suggestion for future videos…please consider time stamping the sections. It really helps the viewers. That said, really helpful video! Thanks!

  • @debiwilkins1016
    @debiwilkins1016 26 днів тому +56

    I feel black windows are just as timeless as white windows. They’re a beautiful esthetic.

    • @troyburlingame3303
      @troyburlingame3303 25 днів тому +3

      Black and white windows will never go out.

    • @entnous53
      @entnous53 25 днів тому

      Yep!

    • @LilyBecca
      @LilyBecca 24 дні тому +1

      I think they look more timeless.

    • @CCOREY5
      @CCOREY5 24 дні тому +7

      Disagree. They aren’t timeless because they aren’t historical. They are trendy.

    • @Linda-z3g3k
      @Linda-z3g3k 20 днів тому +1

      Ugh. I detest them. They add a foreboding feeling to a house. The modern day haunted house.

  • @mamaat5682
    @mamaat5682 23 дні тому +47

    One thing I requested in my new build showers is walk in shower with no glass door. I hate cleaning those doors. I love the convenience of taking a shower and walking out without having to clean the shower doors 😊

    • @aquablue02
      @aquablue02 21 день тому +4

      I have this and use a short bar to hang a shower curtain on which hides my shower completely. It also keeps cold air out as I shower. I love it.

    • @yakiraheyman7307
      @yakiraheyman7307 20 днів тому +14

      @@mamaat5682 I would be freezing w/o the shower doors!

    • @truthbetold6942
      @truthbetold6942 19 днів тому

      @@yakiraheyman7307- I use beautiful curtains with a waterproof shower curtain on the inside.

    • @andreesandahl300
      @andreesandahl300 17 днів тому

      @@yakiraheyman7307 we have a heat lamp and a very deep shower so it’s not cold in our open door less shower

    • @DrGail8
      @DrGail8 12 днів тому +1

      It is freezing had to put up a curtain….i was trying to avoid. Pretty but freezing

  • @ajf597
    @ajf597 Місяць тому +28

    Enjoy your homes.. Make it yours.

    • @itsjustmeVeraVera
      @itsjustmeVeraVera 24 дні тому

      ...only if it's actually yours, until then put the power tools down and only swap out your paint and curtains.

  • @jlanam
    @jlanam 14 днів тому +5

    I'm not sure if I've ever agreed with a decorating video more! I loved how you gave us ideas for being timeless instead of trendy if that's what we want. It seems like so many decorators want to create customers by making them dissatisfied with what they have right now. Bravo! I think you gave us great ideas!

  • @carla_hogan
    @carla_hogan 19 днів тому +8

    As someone who loves to decorate as a hobby, I really enjoyed this video!!

  • @diane4983
    @diane4983 12 днів тому +4

    Sherwin Williams Alabaster is THE white paint. Our entire house is this color and looks amazing everywhere in any light. Never pulls funny tones. Feels warm and bright and I pop color everywhere with decor so easy to change out

    • @sam12587
      @sam12587 11 днів тому

      In 2007 I did my bedroom in “vanilla sparkle” which is a creamy color. It’s so versatile it’s worked it’s way into other rooms. My boys want it in their room even.
      It just matches just about everything.

  • @MC-zm7ny
    @MC-zm7ny 16 днів тому +7

    I love the black! It's so elegant and timeless

  • @Lady_of_Ishpeming
    @Lady_of_Ishpeming 29 днів тому +14

    Open concept is good for people who need barrier free spaces.
    I would prefer to break up the space a bit. Not have a maze of walls, but just something to separate the rooms a bit. Also, I think open concept spaces are harder to heat, and the noise level can be too much. I like my quiet space.

  • @Dave-tz9zx
    @Dave-tz9zx 9 днів тому +1

    We have been remodeling our old home for over 20 years. We have nailed it! Everything you have mentioned we have done. Only thing we did not do that you mentioned was granite countertops. But I am hoping that comes back in 5 years! Great video!

  • @Virginia-vn7ud
    @Virginia-vn7ud 27 днів тому +12

    In Mexico we use stone a lot very durable, practical, very lasting , variety of colors . Very beautiful homes here

    • @ST52655
      @ST52655 26 днів тому

      Yes!

    • @sm3675
      @sm3675 10 днів тому

      Yes. Same in Texas.

  • @makb5354
    @makb5354 28 днів тому +27

    Another worse idea , as someone mentioned is sink in a island. Previous craze was even worse, they kept placing stove tops in an island with vent hanging down in the middle . Not only all grease going everywhere but vent hood getting filthy as well. This was mostly in higher range houses and now these houses keep showing back up on a market and losing on cost because new buyers need to calculate total kitchen remodel.

    • @lovemysmoothie9632
      @lovemysmoothie9632 27 днів тому +5

      I have had my stove top on the island for over 20 years now....loooove it. Clean up around the stove is so much easier, no leaning over the stove to clean the backsplash. My Jen-air has a downdraft which I barely use. I cook from scratch every day but I don't make fried chicken..the crease all over is not really an issue. Sometimes I cook in my friend's house her stove is against the wall with an overhead vent, I feel claustrophobic, constantly thinking I will hit my head, lol

    • @lillieberger2883
      @lillieberger2883 27 днів тому +3

      I have always had a small bar sink on my islands. I’m in my third home and love my island. It’s seats 4-6 people at a raised bar height on one side with regular counter height on the other for working. It’s very functional.

    • @Almitaskitchen
      @Almitaskitchen 25 днів тому +3

      We have an island cooktop with a downdraft vent. I wouldn't want it any other way.

    • @yakiraheyman7307
      @yakiraheyman7307 21 день тому +2

      There shouldn’t be a vent hanging over an island cooktop! A downdraft is what’s used.

  • @nogames8982
    @nogames8982 Місяць тому +53

    From the horror stories I’ve heard and the experiences that some of my friends have had I say the main caution is do not buy new construction to begin with.

    • @lukejohnson1274
      @lukejohnson1274 Місяць тому +11

      You have to know and understand construction AND check on the worksite every day to catch errors and shortcuts. If both those things are not possible I would buy an older home. It shouldn't be this way but it is.

    • @nogames8982
      @nogames8982 Місяць тому +3

      @@lukejohnson1274 the problem is if you knew that stuff well enough to be able to catch it you’d be building your own house. I built a house that wa I bought a house that was built in 1900. The electrical and plumbing had been updated. I’ve updated a little bit since then and I love it.

    • @ambergerhelper7852
      @ambergerhelper7852 Місяць тому +16

      Avoid D.R. Horton homes. Period.

    • @GovenorMcLovin
      @GovenorMcLovin 26 днів тому +1

      Speak for yourself. We built our own house.

    • @Magpie-1111
      @Magpie-1111 25 днів тому +10

      New production homes are cheaply and often poorly built. But if you can afford a custom home by a high-end builder, new construction is definitely the way to go.

  • @cl5193
    @cl5193 25 днів тому +9

    New build? My old build needed this information!

  • @jackzfun
    @jackzfun 20 днів тому +6

    When it comes to an island in the kitchen my new fave is a "half-circle" vs. a rectangular slab. Islands continue to increase in size. They are massive.The half-circle softens the bulk and makes conversation easier. Plus it blances all the rectangles in the kitchen. What do you think?

    • @homelikeyoumeanit
      @homelikeyoumeanit  19 днів тому

      I prefer clean lines in the kitchen, but I agree, it facilitates conversation better!

  • @TheThomasMom
    @TheThomasMom 29 днів тому +14

    I refuse to dedicate an entire room in my house to work, I did as you suggested, I have a small desk area, but the rest of the room is a relaxation area with books, and comfy chairs!

    • @nancyinthegarden3160
      @nancyinthegarden3160 15 днів тому +1

      I’m using my guest room for the winter as my craft room until the summer. Hoping folks will visit for the beach

  • @leigh6780
    @leigh6780 Місяць тому +7

    Love your videos! Clear and helpful. Would love a cottage/country palette video similar to the farmhouse palette you did a while back.

  • @anomamos9095
    @anomamos9095 9 днів тому +3

    The first things to consider are not how good it looks now or how much it costs but how livable is it?
    I had a very stylish black kitchen in a new place I bought.
    About three days after trying to live with the very stylish Black Kitchen I put another renovation project on hold to get a far less stylish White kitchen that I can see what I'm doing in and don't need to spend hours cleaning all the time.

  • @janicekambarn1163
    @janicekambarn1163 9 днів тому +2

    The limestone interior wall on the first home shown is beautiful, but the con of using limestone indoors is the Raydon off-gassing that is a product of this particular natural stone.

  • @garym1199
    @garym1199 27 днів тому +11

    My two cents, natural stone is truly timeless like travertine floors, granite counters, & stainless kitchen appliances. If you ever have a water leak or large spill, laminated floors are done. Nice video, thanks

    • @ang3432
      @ang3432 15 днів тому

      Leaks or large spills aren't common and it's not like you can't have water on laminate. Heck most bathrooms have laminated flooring and water gets on it. With tile, especially limestone, you have to worry about chipping or cracking, staining, and scratching. All flooring has some drawbacks.

    • @sam12587
      @sam12587 11 днів тому

      I have travertine and after 3-4 years of family traffic it’s terrible.
      I have skate in my entry and that’s been doing better.

  • @monicareynolds6768
    @monicareynolds6768 Місяць тому +13

    Hi Ashley, we're doing a reno on an old house from the 1930/40's, the window trim were originally black with a wavy (old)glass pic window! Replacing all with new blk windows but keeping the old picture window, the wavy glass is beautiful!!

    • @LilyBecca
      @LilyBecca 24 дні тому

      I believe it's wavy because there is lead in it. I agree, it is beautiful!! I'm so glad you are keeping it true to its original style!

  • @Lovesapuzzle
    @Lovesapuzzle 25 днів тому +6

    Rather than open concept, I want noisy and quiet spaces. Noisy = kitchen + casual dining + family room can be open to one another. Quiet = living room, formal dining, den, bedrooms/bathrooms (of course) should be walled off and preferably have doors.

  • @pmn2821
    @pmn2821 27 днів тому +40

    I will never ever build an "open concept" home. In addition, I will always have a separate dining room.

    • @lesliehunter1823
      @lesliehunter1823 24 дні тому +6

      Raising children is difficult. Raising children in open concept is a nightmare. Only private space is your bedroom.

    • @ndgrandma1818
      @ndgrandma1818 23 дні тому +8

      I’ve lived in many homes and feel completely opposite as you do! I hated all the separate rooms and felt alone preparing last minute stuff in my kitchen while guests were in the living room . I missed out on a lot of conversations and interactions . It’s interesting how different we all are, but for me, open concept living is the best!

    • @aquablue02
      @aquablue02 21 день тому

      @@ndgrandma1818same here. Lived in closed off forever decades and finally went open concept in 2020 and will never go back.

    • @janellet573
      @janellet573 12 днів тому +3

      Same we are renovating a ranch because all of our previous homes have not been open concept and u really are cut off

    • @dale3404
      @dale3404 12 днів тому +1

      It depends on how the open concept is designed. I’ve had one house where the design worked and one where it didn’t. We’ve been in this house a year, and I’m looking for another one because I hate the kitchen/dining/family layout.

  • @scorpnar
    @scorpnar Місяць тому +14

    I dislike vinyl floors (called luxury vinyl to make it sound better), lack or molding, microwave over the stove, electric fireplaces. If gas fireplace still make it look like it is a wood burning fireplace. Also do not install cabinet hardware until buyer is known. Most like pulls but if already drilled for knobs that is an issue. Also still like granite. Builders use only man made materials now, regardless of home price.

    • @Geronimo2Fly
      @Geronimo2Fly 21 день тому +3

      I'm getting vinyl floors in my new house. I'd prefer wood, but I have lots of pets and also want the same flooring throughout including the kitchen and bathrooms. Wood just won't stand up to water and claws. I'm also getting an electric fireplace, as gas is no longer allowed in new builds where I live. I'm getting the most realistic electric fireplace I can find, but it's true that it won't be as nice looking as gas. The good thing is that electric fireplaces are 1/4 the price of gas ones, especially when you factor in the cost of running a gas line and installing venting. Agree with everything else you said, although I'm going with marble countertops (I would have preferred granite, but I couldn't find any I like locally).

    • @scorpnar
      @scorpnar 16 днів тому +1

      @ Most people I know get vinyl because they have pets. I am certain your new home will be beautiful. Love the look of marble!!!

  • @Pipsterz
    @Pipsterz 28 днів тому +6

    Like your presence & personality. Thank you.

  • @thestickerfarm1254
    @thestickerfarm1254 3 дні тому

    Just bought a 3 bed, 2 bath, 1400 sf home. The kitchen, dining and living room are very small spaces. We are taking walls out and basically gutting down to studs. Open concept is really our only choice to have usable living spaces. We are elderly so we hope that an open concept and adding accessibility features will allow us to age in place.

  • @KJSvitko
    @KJSvitko 21 день тому +17

    All new buildings should be designed with large roof overhangs. The large overhang provides beauty and protection from the sun, rain and wind.
    Protection of the doors, windows and siding make for a more durable and comfortable home.

    • @ddeangelis6156
      @ddeangelis6156 20 днів тому +2

      Builders are designing kitchens that place a wall stove and refrigerator, next to one another. Very Energy inefficient and a bad design. Also, there is a trend for master baths to omit a soak tub. Shower only. Builders should make the tub an available option, rather than omit altogether. In addition, have noted that some tubs are installed up against drywall. Surrounding wall area should always be tiled.😊

    • @sheneedsme
      @sheneedsme 13 днів тому

      Not many small city lots have room for any bedrooms on the first floor.

    • @dale3404
      @dale3404 12 днів тому

      Especially in warm climates like Florida.

  • @donnajarockrealtor
    @donnajarockrealtor 8 днів тому

    As a Colorado Realtor, indeed every new home has main floor office and upstairs loft. Great Video!!!

  • @tamaragibson5659
    @tamaragibson5659 Місяць тому +59

    Everything is so gray. And cold and institutional. No more gray!!!

    • @WascallyWabbit-w8s
      @WascallyWabbit-w8s Місяць тому +3

      It's only paint though. That's not a true construction problem that's more of a color preference.

    • @deelehey2827
      @deelehey2827 27 днів тому +3

      Grey is classic

    • @sandrakendrick176
      @sandrakendrick176 25 днів тому +2

      Grey is calming for me

    • @teresabaston4503
      @teresabaston4503 23 дні тому +1

      The color combo that simply doesn’t look good or cohesive is gray wall with brown trim and a whitish floor. So common in offices. Not welcoming.

    • @imho5485
      @imho5485 23 дні тому +6

      Gray is so overdone. Gray LVP flooring, walls, cabinetry.

  • @cathleenaudrey7723
    @cathleenaudrey7723 26 днів тому +2

    I love to use a bit of black accent but white is my go-to. I repainted my whole home in it years ago to the horror of friends and I have never regretted it! Subway tile with charcoal grout has been amazing too.

  • @Mamakate2382
    @Mamakate2382 2 дні тому

    Thank you. This video helps me know in which direction I want to go in decorating/remodeling areas of my home: the opposite. For instance, if subway tiles are being seen in all kitchens, I know that I definitely do NOT want subway tiles! I steer clear of cookie cutter, copy cat decorating or fashion trends and stick to what is classic and timeless. That said, I do agree with you on white walls, which I call apartment white. Yuk.

    • @homelikeyoumeanit
      @homelikeyoumeanit  День тому

      Timeless fixed elements are the way to go. Inject personality with artwork, fabric, rugs, decor, etc. You should take a second look at the timeless elements I mentioned, especially subway tile. Subway tile has been around for over 100 years and comes in so many varieties, give it a try!

  • @mikerudd4943
    @mikerudd4943 11 днів тому

    I am on board with most of your takes. Not that we all have to be the same. One thing that wasn't mentioned and is a sore spot for me are kitchen cabinets that look cheap(but arent) it doesn't take much to make it look expensive. 1. use flush mount or inset if the budget allows, or with 1/4 reveal it looks 98% as good and the frames dont get chipped. Also do the stacked double wall cabinet with some glass. You will never regret it and looks like a movie stars home. Lastly...solid backsplash made from the same countertop material you use will NEVER go out, as long as you stay semi neutral. Put the crazy accent slab in the island. These tips have helped me differentiate my new builds from other builders.(ps...i always use a high quality RTA import cabinet and save tons)

  • @MajorIllustration
    @MajorIllustration 25 днів тому +1

    A quite young couple made all the choices for our house that I’ve lived in for two decades. They only lived here four months. Lots and lots of orange wood, silver cabinet knobs!, antique gold door knobs, chrome, bathroom, fixtures, gold, and brassy fans, and lighting fixtures. (Thankfully all was painted a warm white and almost matching carpet.) Slippery bath tile! Thankfully, they chose an exterior vinyl that hides the color of mold ? that grows on all the houses around here.

  • @eddiefniii
    @eddiefniii Місяць тому +10

    Black window frames fade. . Ask people with black faucets if they like them… they don’t. Hard water. Black is HOT !

  • @chrisb3902
    @chrisb3902 25 днів тому +5

    Just found your channel! Such a great video!!

  • @cynthiamcwhorter6721
    @cynthiamcwhorter6721 10 днів тому

    I inherited my parents house built in '59 and had to gut both bathrooms due to a leak upstairs and the downstairs due to a flood by Hurricane Harvey. I was so glad to get rid of the full avocado green bathroom upstairs even though it was expensive. Thankful my cousin is a designer and she helped me on both remodels but she had a hard time of talking me out of white walls but I'm glad I listened to her. We expanded the bathroom into my old bedroom which is huge and now I have a glass walk in shower with a bench instead of a green tub. Thankfully my parents had already remodeled the kitchen in the late '90s.

  • @cindysye8047
    @cindysye8047 24 дні тому +2

    Great video, new subscriber. I agree 100% with everything you said. As a realtor I saw some much pale cool gray ugh and everything farmhouse. So excited to see warmer tones coming back in. I have a small open concept home that we are renovating bit by bit. I'm considering a feature wall on our TV wall / not the FP wall because otherwise the big black box is drawing the eye and I'd rather incorporate some of the dark green from the island and brass sconces as the focal point.

  • @AllyM-kp8kg
    @AllyM-kp8kg Місяць тому +20

    I don’t like the open concept. We segregated the kitchen/dining from the great room. There is a big opening between the two but not like open space living. I am building now and yes…black windows and exterior French doors. I painted walls alabaster and love the look. I really don’t care about trends. I know what I like. I plan to use light colored roller shades to block sun when necessary along with drapes where needed. We are installing white engineered oak floors and oak doors. I’m not sure what color to stain doors yet. FYI- engineered hardwood is more expensive than hardwood. It is designed to avoid cupping or separation between the planks that can happen with hardwood due to temperature and humidity. . This will be the last home I build so just adding all the things I have seen and loved. One tip is to put your laundry room close to master suite. We currently have a one story that is quite long in terms of configuration. Laundry room is on one side and master on the other. What a pain. Dragging bed linens through great room and kitchen to get to laundry is just dumb. I don’t ascribe to laundry in closet. Not a good place for water and humidity. Plus I want it close; just not that close. So, it is just outside master suite. We have no children so no issues. I am probably the only person on the planet who said no to any sort of tub in master. I have one in current home that I have used very little yet have had to clean it weekly for 20 plus years. It looks pretty but not fun to clean. During my working years I really had no time to linger in a bath very often. While cleaning I fell and injured hip in fall so that ended tub love for me. Tubs are dangerous at any age but we are retired and need to avoid the hazard. You are spot on about ensuring coordination of painted cabinetry with floors and walls. I hadn’t thought that through and may end up having to repaint cabinets in powder room. I’m also doing a couple walls in powder with wall paper. So heed the warning to have it all together prior to committing to paint color. Excellent video and thank you for the information.

    • @homelikeyoumeanit
      @homelikeyoumeanit  Місяць тому +2

      Pre finished hardwood is cheaper than engineered, but unfinished hardwood (which is what most want) is not cheaper, unfortunately. Glad you liked the video!

    • @badongtagalog5737
      @badongtagalog5737 Місяць тому +2

      Open concept is a great idea. Anytime you can change layout for great area or kitchen you dont have to remove walls. Walls also make things feel smaller and tight.

    • @fayejordan175
      @fayejordan175 Місяць тому

      Real hardwoods finished on site is the most expensive

    • @jeannalichtenberg4944
      @jeannalichtenberg4944 27 днів тому

      You aren't the only person not wanting a tub in the master. We don't want one either! And it's rather difficult to find plans that have the laundry room with access from the master suite, but that's what we're looking for also. It seems rather silly to have the laundry room across the house from where the clothes are!

    • @itsjustmeVeraVera
      @itsjustmeVeraVera 24 дні тому

      We are currently remodeling our kitchen and my number one want was, "There has to be a wall between the rooms!" I tried open concept and I hate it so much.

  • @mianaomipost9885
    @mianaomipost9885 25 днів тому +12

    The reality is, home decor is as timeless as your love for your space! 💯😆 Just now updating my home after 12 years and people still think we just bought this house. The trick is to keep your space CLEAN 🧽 💦✨

  • @Selena9999
    @Selena9999 4 дні тому

    Black windows are timeless in my opinion! You see the outside nature instead of the window and they bring a whole look of lux!❤

  • @capricelove700
    @capricelove700 Місяць тому +12

    Off topic, but your skin looks amazing 😍

    • @homelikeyoumeanit
      @homelikeyoumeanit  29 днів тому +9

      How sweet. UA-cam can really be a very negative place for us sometimes. Thanks for watching and brightening my day!

    • @miajean352
      @miajean352 29 днів тому +3

      @@homelikeyoumeanitlol yeah you do have beautiful skin!

  • @SEK-COJO_inmyheart
    @SEK-COJO_inmyheart 12 днів тому

    Chose white oak hardwood for our renovation and I love it! Honestly, the cost was very close to engineered wood. Spend the extra and go for hardwood.

  • @whrider
    @whrider Місяць тому +9

    Our CBS House is now 20 years old and it has black windows and I am very happy with them. Our pool cage is also black. I hate white trim on anything and so there is none on the outside of my house. I won't use it for woodwork or door frames. Anything. If the time comes to sell my house, it'll be sold to somebody who feels the same way because I won't replace with white. Just how I feel about the colors.

  • @melindam2180
    @melindam2180 25 днів тому +4

    I liked the video and agree with you soo much! You are right on it! 😊

  • @deidradowning5009
    @deidradowning5009 23 дні тому +1

    I think paint colors are very specific to orientation of the house and whether it gets enough natural light. For example I’m in a north facing duplex. I share a wall with my neighbor. I get morning sun then just shadows starting at noon. When I first purchased the wall color was typical beige. I hated how dingy the walls looked all the time. When I remodeled I tried softer warm whites and I realized I needed the brightest white out there to give my home the life it was missing. Yes you see smudges here and there but touch up pens are great!

  • @christophercharles3169
    @christophercharles3169 5 днів тому

    Were putting an office in our new home and we were going to put a murphy bed in it so we could use it as an extra bedroom when needed. We decided to go with a sofa bed instead as this can be used when guests are visiting and the room can be used as an additional TV or movie room.

  • @lilone9621
    @lilone9621 9 днів тому +1

    Her advice is spot on for some things and totally off on others. Builders for the most part gives you the basics, plan and decorate your home to your preference but make sure if you want to sell, minimize and lose the personal touches.

  • @AllySa33
    @AllySa33 19 днів тому

    How refreshing to hear a professional verbalize my own (amateur) thoughts and instincts. I recently painted Manchester Tan for our main rooms and the cabinets Feather Down. I was afraid it might look like yellow cream but it’s more like a very pale greige. We have travertine floors that I have to work with but it is good to hear that engineered wood can be changed? The color we chose for a bedroom floor that flooded looks similar to your “Do” example photo. I’d love to mimic that.
    I’m so with you on how clinical white walls can appear. The “don’t” photo looks like a furniture store to me. Too many tables and chairs in one room. And all rectangles. My neighbor did the same exact thing, it lacks character. Everything looks cluttered as you said and purchased all at once. I will take my classic round pedestal breakfast table and separate dining room. However I’d like to upgrade my granite but quartz doesn’t fit the other materials in my home and I am really hesitant it will become as dated as grey wood floors will be. What countertop material do you recommend for those who want timeless but don’t want the upkeep of marble?

    • @homelikeyoumeanit
      @homelikeyoumeanit  17 днів тому

      @@AllySa33 sounds like you have a good design eye! Look into quartzite or leathered or honed granite that isn’t too busy.

    • @AllySa33
      @AllySa33 16 днів тому

      @ Thank you so much! 🥰

  • @LambentLark
    @LambentLark 14 днів тому +3

    Here is the trick with black. And it never changes. Black is a grounding color. It has visual weight. The more you use. The heavier it becomes.
    However, used sparingly, it can ground your pallet and keep it from visually floating away.

  • @laurieclarkson9180
    @laurieclarkson9180 25 днів тому +2

    When we were getting windows, the black ones were 3x the cost of white. We didn't feel it was worth it so we got white. Stone on walls collects dust and it's a pain to clean it.

  • @clannadgirl46
    @clannadgirl46 6 днів тому

    exterior of our home is all red brick! Timeless to me! No maintenance, just lovely!
    Matching huge red brick fireplace with 30’ ceiling

    • @homelikeyoumeanit
      @homelikeyoumeanit  6 днів тому

      Red brick is timeless! And I honestly wish people would stop painting over it so much. The stone that isn’t as easy to work with are ones that have undertones like taupe and violet. 😊

  • @azbuckeyegirl9523
    @azbuckeyegirl9523 12 днів тому

    I wish I had found you a couple of months ago.
    I've had a polar white color on my walls (whole house) since 1996! I was ready for something different. But oh my goodness! The warmer whites are back in. I went with SW Ivory Lace. A little less yellowy than what I had. It's nice. Very homey but bright and lifting too. (Without being stark.) I realized that I needed to stay warm because of my red oak floors and alder cabinets.

  • @fayejordan175
    @fayejordan175 Місяць тому +54

    I will be so glad when open concept is done!!!

    • @juverparadox
      @juverparadox Місяць тому +5

      Why?

    • @jeanettepugh6017
      @jeanettepugh6017 29 днів тому +4

      Just completed our new build retirement house. Huge ceilings, white grid windows, and open concept! The mud room, laundry are separate. We absolutely love it!

    • @kennethhughley1611
      @kennethhughley1611 29 днів тому +15

      I agree, if a real chef wouldn't like customers in the kitchen why would home owners? Most of the so-called (entertainers) cook before their guests arrive. I dislike the no cabinet open shelving, it's less storage, looks like you ran out of money, and your dishes collect dust. Don't let anyone tell you what you should like, (HGTV)!

    • @carriesmith7843
      @carriesmith7843 28 днів тому

      Does open concept affect your home?

    • @kennethhughley1611
      @kennethhughley1611 28 днів тому

      @@carriesmith7843 Effect your house in what way? Do you plan on selling your home. If not then it's yours to design. It depends on the buyers. I sold a house that didn't have the open concept however, it has the possibility of, some homes the open concept doesn't fit. For example it's too small, taking away from the design or causing you to move plumbing, gas and electrical.

  • @saltwaterpurl
    @saltwaterpurl 11 днів тому +2

    First off, the Parade of Homes is not necessarily where the innovation is. It often represents the middle of the market and products you can find in the big retail outlets. It is mostly “safe” choices and not the freshest ideas. It’s GREAT, but it’s only one note in the chord of trends.
    I agree completely about the warmer tones for longer-term surfaces (tile, cabinets, floors). The cool tones are beautiful and fun but I don’t think they will last, so sticking to paint and wallpaper for that makes sense.
    I agree about open concept. Open concept is fading but it’s going to take a generation. Also sliding/folding walls to allow convertible spaces and pocket doors are sprinkling in. Building a cafeteria/bowling alley into your home are devastating to work, school, sensory overload and mental health. Introverts and people with anxiety, autism, and ADHD represent WELL over half of the population now, and we are not designing for them. Flex space and cozy enclosures for intimate gatherings provide respite, and that is what a home is for.
    Flat wrong about black. Basic black is classic. If you go through history, cast iron ruled for centuries over many styles and continents, especially for windows and hardware. Within the post-war USA commercial home space, the palette is limited, and often white. Paint-grade wood is cheap for trim. It depends on what you like, and perhaps if you want a custom look, or a commercial look. If you want to resell, white is safe. If your home has design-based lines and appeal, you will have a different buyer no matter what you do. If you are using black, you need to get top quality materials though. Cheap black reads as plastic.
    I agree accent walls can be cheap. The accent walls that don’t work are thin (simple paint or pattern repeat wallpaper), and don’t feel “built in”. Texture walls and storage walls in stone, plaster or wood are trending in. The key is it cannot look arbitrary. Think of how a big stone chimney or big headboard can add drama and weight to a space. THAT is what an accent wall needs. Roots and weight.
    In kitchens, movable islands on casters, and central work tables that double as seating are bubbling up. I feel like bedroom office combos are still accidental afterthoughts right now, but we are heading towards innovation there… excited to see what we get!

  • @JFlower7
    @JFlower7 10 днів тому +3

    Had open concept...never again.

  • @valweh
    @valweh 7 днів тому

    I put in a kitchen island/cart on wheels, love it!

  • @christineincalifornia3293
    @christineincalifornia3293 12 днів тому +2

    I don’t like the over use of can lights in open concept. The problem is there are no walls with outlets to plug in a lamp! The overhead lighting is harsh. There is nothing cozy about it. For ambient lighting, nothing beats a lamp with a beautiful shade. Also, I agree that kitchen clutter is inevitable and who wants to display at everywhere?

    • @ShelleB
      @ShelleB 7 днів тому

      If you’re building the home you can have outlets placed where ever you want. That’s all decided in the electrical walk-through. Plus, code dictates a certain number of outlets in each room, some in specific areas. If you are purchasing a newly built home that you didn’t get any say in, your point is true. My pet peeve is not having floor electrical outlets to plug in a lamp when furniture is moved away from walls.

  • @Su-bp6zf
    @Su-bp6zf 26 днів тому +7

    I really really dislike open concepts, two story living rooms, and lofts that open to downtairs…waste of space and SO loud. Also, regarding color, I love how you said that “it’s the overuse of it”.
    One thing I love telling people as someone who has built 4x, don’t* let the design center people persuade you. Do what is timeless. I got talked into a backsplash years ago, I replaced it 4 months after closing!
    Ps. Accent wall=cringe!

  • @abehbod
    @abehbod 13 днів тому +1

    Please recommend the name of white you recommend for walls at Lowe's or home Depot. Thank you

  • @gailbenes
    @gailbenes 10 днів тому +1

    I’m happy to hear grey is going out.
    Why do we see more white couches. They get so dirty so fast

  • @compassandradio6261
    @compassandradio6261 Місяць тому +7

    4:47 Those curtains belong on the blooper reel. 😆

  • @amusingmyslf
    @amusingmyslf 26 днів тому +3

    I found stranded bamboo for 2.99 a square foot a couple years ago, its a med rusty brown, very hard stuff!

  • @Lynnpaperweight
    @Lynnpaperweight 18 днів тому

    I am building my forever/last home on family land. It will have board and batten in antique white with white trim, white windows. Brick foundation and steps, with a painted front door (yet to be determined). Inside, it is open concept, two bedrooms and baths. Paint colors will be darker trim and doors, lighter (warmer) walls. Kitchen cabinets will be the trim color. Island will be painted SW Empire Gold. Floors will be an LVP that will complement antique furniture pieces. Nothing black in the house...using antique brass pulls and same with hinges. Door knobs are glass with brushed brass backs. I want it to be homey and comfortable, and as light filled as I can get it, considering the few windows throughout.
    I am traditional, but it will be updated in contrast to my current home. Wallpaper in bathrooms and mudroom. Ceiling fans in both bedrooms (simple, nothing fancy, white) and in living area...because I live in the deep south.
    Kitchen sink will be below windows that look out the back. I've always lived where the window is above the kitchen sink.

  • @theynot4u
    @theynot4u 29 днів тому +3

    I enjoyed your video. I thought your advice was very helpful, as were many of the comments.

  • @jamieolivarez9083
    @jamieolivarez9083 29 днів тому +31

    Quartz is horrible! It’s boring and not heat resistant. I’m a professional here. I have had bad experiences with jobs on quartz. It’s better to go natural stone. It’s natural, heat resistant and has way more life to it compared to man-made one.

    • @jayjones9219
      @jayjones9219 29 днів тому +6

      Agreed! Quartz will melt because of the resin in it, and the stuff with the lightning bolt veining looks fake and cheap. Of the natural stones, Quartzite is great. It resembles marble but is harder and more durable.

    • @87Strong
      @87Strong 26 днів тому +2

      Ty. Everyone says Quartz is so great and I HATE (and I don’t like that word) HATE Quartz. It’s not been easy for me. 😅

    • @akrogirl32
      @akrogirl32 25 днів тому +1

      If I ever bought a new home with quartz countertops they would be the first things to go. I have seen a few in very modern kitchens that worked but, in most cases, it is usually a big no for me.

  • @nathalie_desrosiers
    @nathalie_desrosiers Місяць тому +10

    I love black, I accept white, but I *hate* grey.

  • @nathalie_desrosiers
    @nathalie_desrosiers Місяць тому +6

    The video title is misleading. It's not *New construction mistakes to avoid* , but rather *Trends To Avoid* .
    Because if you don't care for trends and know EXACTLY what you want, you won't learn anything.
    I would have preferred some practical things like "Don't paint the brick inside a house", "Don't have your exterior walls black", "Don't forget to add dimmers on ALL your lights", etc.

  • @johnlabus7359
    @johnlabus7359 27 днів тому +3

    Glad to see the black windows go. I think that they will be problematic as trends change in the future.

    • @jenborn5358
      @jenborn5358 16 днів тому

      Black windows are very expensive and not the first thing that my clients want to spend money on. If it’s a modern house like mine, black for sure, looks amazing! White windows are the most inexpensive and used 90% of the time.

  • @marjojohannasutinen406
    @marjojohannasutinen406 22 дні тому +2

    A great video! I noticed some of your reference photos have these tiny, non-functional curtain rods. I wonder why, is that a thing now? They look very silly as it's obvious they can't be used.

    • @homelikeyoumeanit
      @homelikeyoumeanit  21 день тому +2

      That’s because they were in model homes. General rule of thumb is that curtains should be 1.5 to 2 times the width of your window.

  • @CArmOrthoRN
    @CArmOrthoRN 17 днів тому +2

    I love cool grey. Warm grey looks dingy.

  • @Themonana7
    @Themonana7 13 днів тому +1

    Just found your channel! It’s great. I’m considering a new build and it has brown cabinets…is that something to avoid? Are brown cabinets out? Can they still give a modern warm feel to a home?

    • @homelikeyoumeanit
      @homelikeyoumeanit  12 днів тому

      Not at all. In fact, with the right stain color your wooden cabinets will be very timeless.

  • @moving2murrieta
    @moving2murrieta День тому

    I love black windows. We only have white windows in my area and wish we had more black options

  • @angiej4865
    @angiej4865 5 днів тому

    Just had black windows and doors installed throughout my UK renovation. The exterior brick is a variation of dark oranges/browns/black and the roof is terracotta so white windows would not look good. It was built with brown UPVC windows which are obviously very outdated. The black looks awesome!

  • @LilyBecca
    @LilyBecca 24 дні тому +12

    I think oil rubbed bronze is a timeless hardware choice. It goes with everything.

    • @suedietz2046
      @suedietz2046 21 день тому +2

      I have it and like it, but I call it oul rubbed off bronze as it is wearing off on all my door handles.

    • @debbiespann3988
      @debbiespann3988 17 днів тому

      I have oil rubbed bronze my nine year old house we built. Would never choose it again. Shows hard water stains and rubs off when you try to clean it.

  • @oliphauntsneverlie6227
    @oliphauntsneverlie6227 Місяць тому +31

    Islands are great but they are starting to get so big they're becoming clownish.

    • @deelehey2827
      @deelehey2827 27 днів тому

      My island is 8’ x 14’. Great for entertaining.

    • @willsx2
      @willsx2 17 днів тому +2

      Not to mention the double island trend 🤮

  • @fantasy6108-t7k
    @fantasy6108-t7k 12 днів тому +2

    I love my white walls. Just don’t get daylight lighting.

  • @KacyPaide
    @KacyPaide 25 днів тому +1

    Really helpful! Glad I found your channel.

  • @walkerb1734
    @walkerb1734 Місяць тому +22

    100% correct about the black windows. I don’t hate the look, but I do think it will add a dated element to a home at some point

    • @Holidaygal
      @Holidaygal 25 днів тому +1

      My parents had black trim on Windows back in 1960’s

    • @jenborn5358
      @jenborn5358 16 днів тому +1

      😂 black windows will never look dated.

  • @sidsid6380
    @sidsid6380 12 днів тому +3

    Subway tile is a bit tired these days

  • @SarahOct1980
    @SarahOct1980 25 днів тому +2

    I hate open concept. Kitchen and the dining room is the only thing I personally like together.

  • @LilyBecca
    @LilyBecca 24 дні тому +1

    I wish homes would go back to beautiful wooden windows instead of vinyl. It's one thing I would splurge on. You can stain them different colors as your taste changes over the years. You could even paint them, but I would spray some shellac on them first to preserve the wood so they can easily be sanded down and refinished in the future.