Sorry about the jarring switch to loud R&B music for the dance battle. We got copyright claimed for the original song and this is the best we can do with UA-cam's editor. Next time we'll pick sweet royalty free music beforehand. Thanks for watching :-)
@@theradiantknight9771 1st and foremost : Values his own life far less than that off other people. Even before he became Cap and its also the reason he was chosen as a candidate for Super Soldier Serum (Grenade Test scene). Also shown by his signature tool : A friggin shield. He's the shield which protects everyone (not caring about religion, race or upbringing). 2. His general character is built on the basic values of an "honest man" archetype. Values honesty, loyalty, hard work, commitment, passion, love and peace. 3. He's a guy who does not want to lead. He's always chosen by someone to take the mantle of leader. 4. Always improving his skills on any level. Fury teaches him strategy for example, because he chose him to lead the Avengers. 5. Not hiding his failures, moreso honestly takes them as reasons to give up his position as a leader, because he does not think he would follow himself until the failure is fixed. Basically the poster image of a romanticized knight in shining armour.
Is this really a revelation though? I get that it's phrased poetically but is it not common sense that when you know who you are and are comfortable and happy with who you are that you tend to develop genuine confidence in yourself and people's opinions tend not to matter by then?
When my brain knows I'm in an awkward situation it will do everything in its power to make sure I don't forget it. It's as if there's a little CD player up there that's only got one track. As soon as the confidence breaks it hits the play button. "You're awkward. You're a mess. You're a failure. You're awkward. You're a mess. You're a failure. Everyone's judging you. Never go out in public again." (Replay). In reality, most people don't even notice our anxieties, and if they do they usually couldn't care less 🤷♀️ One day I will conquer my brain.
You have at first to fake, and then when you'll get use to faking it, you won't even need to fake it anymore, you'll be different. Your brain will have been trained.
Michael Olawoye you don’t have to have something specific to talk about, people talk about anything and everything. talk about memories, hobbies, something that interests you, something you bought. talk about something significant that happened in your day, talk about the things that are happening around you. even talk about problems. it doesn’t have to be complicated :] you never run out of things to talk about!
@@lynnieebeaniee yea that's good and all, but I have a problem with keeping the topics fluent. I could talk about the best part of my day, but once it's stated, where do I go after that. That's where I struggle most, and I'm sure many more feel the same. You seem to know what you are talking about, plz halp. I deal with this every day in school.
This is a good point. I used to always make awkward situations more awkward, and that didn't help my relationship with friends at all. Sometimes you just got to read the room and not go through with whatever you're thinking.
@@WesleyWhiteside that just shows lack of confidence. The only reason why you'd make an awkward situation more awkward is to show other people that it doesn't faze you and that they don't have to be faze by it either. And more often then not, you can break the awkwardness by putting other people at ease with your comfort around those situations.
Some girl: aww man, that joke made we want to kms Me: yes, I have wanted to kill myself too... HaHahA *shoves palms in her face and stares at her for three seconds* CHa cha real smooth
Because of the you word. It's a blaming word by nature recomindation by me try to watch it again. But replace that word, in the head with I or me enstead. That is an adiea by nature the words judgemental. As well as very very disorientating and addictive. Takes a strong mind to listen to big ideas. And especially comprehend think slow aka be patient and especially being very active and writting ideas and thoughts out or talking to others about them. I hope that was helpful to someone here.
Well, you know, Tom does it naturally. Its just the way he is. He was raised that way by intelligent, cultured and sociable people. He comes from a very good family. In an interview he said that his parents made the children had to tell stories at dinner. And I assume they, parents, told the stories too and his father is stand up comedian. Can you imagine how lucky this guy is? And besides, when he was a little boy, his parents always made him talk with other adults, their friends etc., to look in the eyes and talk. He said, therefore he had no problem working with adults. And he has been working since early childhood.
Of course, Tom being comedian's son probably has an innate comic and presentation talent in him. Plus the observation his parents' behavior, plus the propper upbringing, plus a lot of experience. I repeat, he works in the industry - performs on stage, gives interviews, communicates with a variety of people from childhood. But still that is very good analysis, thank you. Many of us can use this advises, i guess. They are quite available. I think, the main thing is not to be too strict and demanding to yourself. Be kinder to yourself. But move constantly step by step, little by little and never lose hope.
My fave quote ever goes something like this: "if you can't control something why are you worried/stressed about it? If you can control something why are you worried/stressed about it?" -- whenever I think this I feel a lot more calm and confident. Imagine you are stressed talking and its awkward -- there's nothing you can do anyways. Then your body will naturally relax itself a bit when you realize you are locked in anyways and you will actually be more confident in the moment. This has helped me before exams, interviews, dates, etc..
I love how I’m watching these videos like I am alien in disguise trying to assimilate into human society. Edit: this is my first top comment ever, and i must admit i feel nothing. I definitely am an alien.
@Ayor a mm you dont know what you're talking about. i have nothing to make excuses for and im productive and i am very social. yet anxiety and adhd still overwhelm me, and i never used them as excuses. its just mental pain i deal with all by myself. so your point is?
@Ayor a some people out there cant control these things, do you think you're making things better? you're only gonna make them feel more guilt and lean towards never talking about their problems, and have them constantly struggle all by themselves. i personally dealt with such problems. nobody ever acknowledged my mental problems, so i just never talk about them again, never mention them, even when it was clear that its taking over, i never mentioned it and i took responsibility. no matter what i did, i always look up solutions, the struggle is always there, if i ignore it it gets worse, if i give it attention i feel more struggle, best i can do is warp my life to fit these struggles. there is nothing else i can do.
In the meantime, it's worth pointing out that the BEST "deadpan" isn't actually deadpan... There's always a visible "cue" to the audience (whoever) that it's sarcastic... Among the best studies for this principle is "Fawlty Towers", a series by (and starring) John Cleese. He's an expert on the style... In Basil Fawlty, there's two parts to the humor to consider (just so you know going in)... 1. The "cue" to his deadpan style is "the blank stare", a pause during which you just KNOW that it's comedy... antics... However seriously "THE CHARACTER" means the line (or not), that's the point... it is still comedy. 2. The true fun isn't just watching Basil losing his mind every episode. It's about watching the other people AROUND Basil, who are bearing witness to Basil losing his mind every episode... What makes it a great study is the consistency, not just in fun... but in delivery. The jokes get varied, and the Characters introduced are relatively different. Even the precursors to disaster are different for the show, but the style is consistent, which makes it easier to functionally (independently) study so you can focus on the element(s) you want to learn most at the time... hope this helps. ;o)
Hhhhha for me it isn't.. i just laugh and say "take 2" and we hand-shake again.. sometimes i even say "and now a cool handshake" and we act EXTRA weird and laugh it off. It's HOW u react when the handshake wasn't right.
Yep tried to give a handshake to a guy one time because I thought it would be a pretty standard thing to do but he didn’t follow through with the handshake so we just ended up holding hands... so awkward lol
Twan Willems Yeah every time something awkward happens I just say “Well that was awkward!” And we usually both laugh and then can move the conversation without an awkward pause
1. Adjusting your body language (3 Second rule of eye contact) 2. Reveal your palms ( makes you seem more trustworthy) 3. Rendition (embrace awkwardness fully) 4. Take up more space 5. Laugh with the group 6. Double down on the joke 7. Tell your own embarrassing stories 8. Activate common body language tips( when you tell stories) 9. Choose high impact words 10. Embody the characters in your story (voice,accent, etc.) 11. Let go of managing people’s opinions of you 12. Just embrace the truth You’re welcome:)
Thousands of years from now humans will look back on this and transmit telepathic vibes across the entire population mutually agreeing "we were such apes back then"
gen·u·ine if anything these videos will be even more needed in the future as people will get more closed in,these videos wouldn’t have been needed 50 years ago.plus as the population increases more people will need these videos.
Learned a lot from watching this video intermittently over this past year. Honestly feel like I've gained some confidence just from watching it. I've had friends "tease" me, and rather than take offence, I joked back at my expense and laughed along with them; the jokes against me soon died. I've been sharing more and more eye contact in groups of people. And just the other week when I arrived at work, there were about 4/5 people that were happy to see me and they all proceeded to chant my name; usually I would curdle myself and shy away awkwardly not knowing what to do. Instead I dropped my bag and started dancing, hahah. Honestly can't believe what this video has done for me.
(In my _very_ best 'TV game show' narrator voice...) You certainly build _something!_ LIKE.... your very own: _Personalized_ strains of various bloodborne pathogens! 😆😆😆
Tom Holland is Tom Holland and Im sure he is just acting out of instinct not because he is putting forth a 'technique' or 'skill'. He's just being himself.
He may be more inclined to be this way, but it doesn’t mean he’s not also making conscious choices. I was a homecoming candidate (as a nerd) in high school. We had to dance in front of the entire school (1,000 people) on the spot. I did NOT want to do it. All the other guys looked super terrible, stuff, and awkward. They were all better dancers than me too as the nerd who didn’t dance. Soooo I just decided to get super into it and was just totally ridiculous and the school just loved it. Same thing with a karaoke contest in college. I just did queen songs and was ridiculous as people loved it even though I actually was uncomfortable in my head. So I’m not inclined to be super extroverted and confident but I learned pretty early on to just act super confident and when a moment got awkward just roll with it and it turns out better
You can observe someone subconsciously doing things well and create a technique from their actions. Just because he's not consciously thinking about it doesn't mean there isn't a method to learn
It's a technique and skill that his personality already acquires. It's like some people have more empathy. It's a skill people could learn to use better but some people have more empathy just because it's part of their personality
I figured all of this out by myself. Although I never defined the specifics to myself, these are the exact actions I use in a group to communicate properly. Finding this video, and watching it, then realizing what it was felt a little odd. I think of awkwardness in a very specific way. It's a little hard to explain, but the key is to remember that embarrassment and awkwardness are things that are decided by you. If you don't want to feel awkward or embarrassed, you simply negate that feeling. Forcefully, or by easing yourself into it. It's not hard to find out these little tricks by yourself. After all, as long as you look for it, it'll be right there. Think of a way you want to communicate, and who you want to be. Then simply be that person, and be proud of it. Force that personality out and it will naturally merge itself with the conversation. Then everything after that is just you being you, without restraint.
Minnie Mouse prompt other people to talk about themselves. maybe ask about how they felt in a certain situation maybe one that just happened or last nights storm. People love to talk about themselves (and it takes the weight off you as the conversation holder) Or look around the room and talk about something in the room. (Seriously anything. You see a faucet.. ask about water. Do they only drink RO? Do they notice different tastes? Have they ever turned on the faucet and it came out brown?) It’s all about just finding common ground. Hope that helps 🍀
I F Small talk sucks tho Us introverts like to talk about topic topics not the fucking weather for the 100th time of the day And small talk literals usually lasts around 10 seconds max And I know this because I work at a restaurant and my coworkers love talking and I’m just not so good at it yet But I am improving, just learning to be myself and its kindve working I’ve also recently figured out how to handle my awkwardness without watching the vid at all My technique is just to not be hard on your self but instead use positive affirmations and tricking the mind into thinking nothing is wrong and nothing bad happened so that I do not build anxiety when I talk again It’s a simple but very effective strategy because the mind lives off habits and if I keep doing this eventually I’ll just be social anxiety free And that will be awesome because I have been the quiet kid in the class for 90% of my classes for 5 years now
@Layla Izumi not really, you come off as shy or introverted and women and men find that "cute" because they get to break you in and see you when youre fully expressive. if youre ugly no one cares.
Thanks your channel I literally put myself in awkward situations every single day to practice. I go to places where I don't know anyone that don't matter much and try to converse with random strangers at every opportunity. It helps to practice thanks man this channel has helped me immensely.
Timothée Chalamet is very awkward and shy, but he’s still very likeable. Could you perhaps do a video on why he remains popular despite his awkwardness? With kind regards, A fan
jesse can you believe people speak different languages and you are not superior to anyone for correcting one Typo they made? who's the childish one here?
8:37 I've been doing this my whole life and it's my favorite! Everytime I'm telling a story to my friends, family or strangers, and I make the switch from my normal voice to an impersonation of someone in my story it instantly catches their attention and makes em laugh. 💯
When I was 7/8 years old I was going to private school, and I was selected from the 2nd grade class (I was chosen because my academic levels were the highest in my grade) to say a part in the program put on for the birthday of the school's founder, and Administrator. Mine was the first part, so I got up, and I wasn't the slightest bit worried. I knew my piece forward and backward, inside and outside, and it didn't occur to me to be nervous. I began to speak, and my teacher, from the front row told me to step closer to the mic and start over. So I did. I began again, and she told me to wait a moment, and someone came and lowered the mic. (I was very short.) I started for the third time, when someone from the sound booth came out and said something was wrong and we'd be delayed 15 minutes. 15 minutes later I got up to speak and I looked out at the group of about 1,700 people, and I could not speak. I opened my mouth, but I could not make the words come out. I just stood there, getting more and more frightened, and I could tell the nervous silence was my fault, but I could not speak. I could see my mom smiling at me from about halfway back, trying to encourage me, and the embarrassment on my dad's face as he tried to encourage me too. I. Could. Not. Speak. Finally, my teacher stood up, came up on the stage, knelt by me, put her arm around me and said my part. Then she walked me off the stage. I knew my parents were disappointed, but they never said anything. No one ever brought it up again. (At least not until I was 19) But I remembered. I stopped volunteering in class. I got anxiety when I was called on for an answer that I had to say out loud. I would physically shake anytime we had any kind of assembly. I did grow out of a lot of it, but not entirely. I always feel awkward in groups. I'm afraid people will hear me, but terrified that they won't. But thanks to charisma on command, I've actually been able to get past some of these things. And I might not be "charismatic" yet, but at least I'm somewhat normal. So thank you.
Examine E.F.T. and how it can help. Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) is an alternative treatment for physical pain and emotional distress. It’s also referred to as tapping or psychological acupressure.
"Let go of managing other people's perceptions of you." *Runs a channel teaching people how to manage other's perceptions of them.* Love you bro, but you confuse me sometimes.
The point is not to force it. In several of his videos, he says to follow what feels most natural to you. Basically, it's enhancing the good qualities that are already there, not being someone you aren't.
0:30 he is very skilled at turning those more difficult moments around. 0:50 3 second rule of equally gaze. makes people feel included. 1:40 he shows his palms. shoes open and comfort. 2:40 more commitment: otherwise, it would show everyone feels uncomfortable. 3:40 by embracing awkward situations fully, you show more confidence than every person on the sidelines. this is when awkwardness is forced on you. for i.e. the friends are teasing you. 4:00 when you're a guy and your friends are gonna tease you and it's not out of malice. if you handle properly, then you can be a leader in the group. take up more space: fill or occupy a certain amount of volume, often specified through the use of modifiers. 4:40 pile on/onto (someone): 1. (of a group of people) to jump or climb on top of someone: 2. (of a group of people) to attack 被欺負的 4:50 a simply technique is to laugh with the group. 5:05 you can seperate from the aspect you being teased and who you are. because those things dont define who you are. and put you back in control of the conversation 6:00 show good humor and confidence. 6:40 tell your own embarrassing story. you are in charge of your own story. 9:30 99% of the awkwardness is going to be worse if you're going to fight back. 10:00 you are not perfect. there's always going to be place that other teases. that is in recognizing those less than perfect facts and liking yourself anyways. the true confident is generated! Social blunders are inadvertent violations of normative standards of behavior. Although blunders can be embarrassing and unpleasant, most people view them as relatively fleeting and inconsequential.
Charisma on command ... I hope this reaches you. This is necessary info to what I'm about to say. I'm a Christian, so I was (and am) wary of certain philosophical outlooks on life. When I came to your channel I was a bit cynical.. that's me! I was a nihilist before I was a Christian and even as a Christian I know that life (and human nature) is far from roses. My point is.. I underestimated you and your intentions. I am grateful for this channel and content. I have ptsd and all the fun stuff that comes along with that, at times my loneliness and isolation is absolutely crippling. From just a cpl of these videos, I've already been able to have more fulfilling social interactions. That means alot to me. I can see you really want to work on yourself and I enjoy your kindness. I'm just grateful.
@@twizted8469 are you familiar wuth jps work? He's always talking about Pinocchio and he talks quite a Birk about the transformation of the boy into a developed independent real adult.
sheepgray08 sorry, that was dumb of me ahaha yes i love jp but havent watched much of him in a while, i kinda remember what youre on about now ahaha sorry i fully missed that connection though, also sorry cos my first reply was a bit unnecessarily passive aggressive
Learn from other ppl and apply some of it on yourself while still being yourself and boom! You just made a better version out of yourself. Always develop, never settle (while still being your true self ofc).
Imagine going on youtube and seeing a video of how to not be awkward in conversation and its about you, imagine how much CONFIDENCE you would exude after that
As someone who's autistic, the eye contact thing is really hard for me. I basically have to force it in certain situations, but it's exhausting to keep up for an extended period especially in high stress situations.
*AWKWARDNESS* - low self-esteem, a person who doesn't prioritise him-/herself Confidence is a trait that you get from without, practicing same stuff over and over
@@winstonchurchill624 If you are not the #1 person in your life, unconditionally, you have to work on your self-esteem. A person cannot love someone purely, unintentionally, if there is a slight void within.
@@GarnetsWeb Think about what awkward means. It implies interaction with other people, which means caring about how others (unknown people) perceive you (you are not awkward with your relatives), thus having a low self-esteem.
This was actually helpful and using them display confidence. Just review them often, turn them into a habit, and keep going, and be content with yourself - and you got it.
Sorry about the jarring switch to loud R&B music for the dance battle. We got copyright claimed for the original song and this is the best we can do with UA-cam's editor. Next time we'll pick sweet royalty free music beforehand. Thanks for watching :-)
Charisma on Command hi
Hey man would you consider making a video on what makes people want to follow Captain America? Not Chris Evans the actor but the actual character.
Charisma on Command You always give great advice! Big fan of your channel! I’m always looking forward to see them. 👍🏼
Charisma on Command: you are, hands down, my favorite UA-camr
@@theradiantknight9771
1st and foremost : Values his own life far less than that off other people. Even before he became Cap and its also the reason he was chosen as a candidate for Super Soldier Serum (Grenade Test scene).
Also shown by his signature tool : A friggin shield. He's the shield which protects everyone (not caring about religion, race or upbringing).
2. His general character is built on the basic values of an "honest man" archetype. Values honesty, loyalty, hard work, commitment, passion, love and peace.
3. He's a guy who does not want to lead. He's always chosen by someone to take the mantle of leader.
4. Always improving his skills on any level. Fury teaches him strategy for example, because he chose him to lead the Avengers.
5. Not hiding his failures, moreso honestly takes them as reasons to give up his position as a leader, because he does not think he would follow himself until the failure is fixed.
Basically the poster image of a romanticized knight in shining armour.
This is the kinda video you watch late at night
Literally doing that now
@@Redbikemaster same
Lol yep- I'm watching it at 12:45AM
MENDO 2:11 am
1:38AM rn
I love how we all came together to show we have no personality.
i feel attacked but sadly ure right ;___;
@@pogger4878 youre cute julia
@@abdihassan7208 thank u!!
@@pogger4878 alright im gonna follow you :)
What the f*ck is going on here?
"Your deepest confidence is not based in controlling the perceptions of others, but embracing the truth of who you are"
This is amazing!
Emmanuel Díaz didn't expect such good advice
Truer words have never been spoken....
BARS!!!!!
Is this really a revelation though? I get that it's phrased poetically but is it not common sense that when you know who you are and are comfortable and happy with who you are that you tend to develop genuine confidence in yourself and people's opinions tend not to matter by then?
Literally read this as he was saying it.
Imagine being Tom, discovering that he has been analyzed this well
Tom: 👁👄👁
hi
@@NomTom hi Tom
@@roseover340 🧿👄🧿
@@NomTom 😂
I have a feeling Tom doesnt even know that he is doing everything right, he just does it right
i mean i feel like he’s probably just learnt overtime what hits and what misses from experience
I liked your comment because of how I totally agree with you, and also your profile picture and name!
Liked because of the picture
he is lucky
Typical Tom
Everyone add +1 Charisma on your character sheet.
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Somehow this added +10 for me.. must be a bonus level up.
done
*HELP MY CHARACTER SHEET DOESNT HAVE A CHARISMA STAT*
You seem to think I can think clearly in an awkward situation.
Niels Jansen How bold of him
When my brain knows I'm in an awkward situation it will do everything in its power to make sure I don't forget it. It's as if there's a little CD player up there that's only got one track. As soon as the confidence breaks it hits the play button. "You're awkward. You're a mess. You're a failure. You're awkward. You're a mess. You're a failure. Everyone's judging you. Never go out in public again." (Replay).
In reality, most people don't even notice our anxieties, and if they do they usually couldn't care less 🤷♀️ One day I will conquer my brain.
Make a point to adopt better body language and your thoughts will follow
You have at first to fake, and then when you'll get use to faking it, you won't even need to fake it anymore, you'll be different. Your brain will have been trained.
Just means you have to make your behaviors automatic, so you don't have to be thinking clearly.
It's ok, some people - never - think clearly.
I feel like an alien learning to be human watching these
True, true
Welcome to being socially awkward
I felt like a loser searching up for this 😭😭
lmfao
@@pls-gg3fy same
when he went "If you're ever feeling awkward, just ask yourself:" my mind immediately completed the sentence with: "What would Tom Holland do?"
Good advice! If you're in an awkward situation, just start spoiling movies!
Probably do a backflip or spoil the next marvel movie
Do a back-flip while you spoil the next Marvel movie, haha
@@guicaldo7164 😂
Spoil the new avengers movie
My dad walked in and asked what I was watching. I told him porn.
Dodged a bullet right there.
Underrated comment 😂😂
my dad told me this video would help me...
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Did you show him your palms?
WAIT what
the only 3 second rule i know is picking something off the floor and putting it in my mouth
I think that's 5 second rule
@@SoDamnMetal No u dead
If you’re hungry 10 secs is also ok
Persobe yeah everyone is so damn picky
Its kept you alive and in the game!!!
I'm only awkward because I never have anything to talk about, ever. Even with good friends and family
have a hobby other than gaming and anime maybe
Same. It's pretty sad.
Michael Olawoye you don’t have to have something specific to talk about, people talk about anything and everything. talk about memories, hobbies, something that interests you, something you bought. talk about something significant that happened in your day, talk about the things that are happening around you. even talk about problems. it doesn’t have to be complicated :] you never run out of things to talk about!
@@lynnieebeaniee yea that's good and all, but I have a problem with keeping the topics fluent. I could talk about the best part of my day, but once it's stated, where do I go after that. That's where I struggle most, and I'm sure many more feel the same.
You seem to know what you are talking about, plz halp. I deal with this every day in school.
@@kestanecihasanpubg I feel personally attacked
*Awkward moment*
My brain : *let's make it extra awkward*
This is a good point. I used to always make awkward situations more awkward, and that didn't help my relationship with friends at all. Sometimes you just got to read the room and not go through with whatever you're thinking.
since we're here might as well go all the way or like the video says COMMIT
@@WesleyWhiteside that just shows lack of confidence. The only reason why you'd make an awkward situation more awkward is to show other people that it doesn't faze you and that they don't have to be faze by it either. And more often then not, you can break the awkwardness by putting other people at ease with your comfort around those situations.
Meanwhile palms: 'Lets begin the real show'
Some girl: aww man, that joke made we want to kms
Me: yes, I have wanted to kill myself too... HaHahA *shoves palms in her face and stares at her for three seconds*
CHa cha real smooth
Me: He makes a lot of good points. I'll start doing this.
Me 5 seconds later: No memory of what was just said in the video.
Write down what you understand. This helps me a lot
Your pfp matches well with your comment lol
Yesss
Memorize it if you can't remember it fully
Because of the you word. It's a blaming word by nature recomindation by me try to watch it again. But replace that word, in the head with I or me enstead. That is an adiea by nature the words judgemental. As well as very very disorientating and addictive. Takes a strong mind to listen to big ideas. And especially comprehend think slow aka be patient and especially being very active and writting ideas and thoughts out or talking to others about them. I hope that was helpful to someone here.
*awkward silence*
me: *shows my hands and starts talking about that time when i pissed my bed when i was 16*
Again awkward silence
you made laugh so much 😂 omg
lmao
At least you showed your palms so that means you’re not awkward 👌
maybe you have to be more confident while talking about pissing your bed :D
Introverts : oh I see
oh i see
Lol exactly
Well, you know, Tom does it naturally. Its just the way he is. He was raised that way by intelligent, cultured and sociable people. He comes from a very good family. In an interview he said that his parents made the children had to tell stories at dinner. And I assume they, parents, told the stories too and his father is stand up comedian. Can you imagine how lucky this guy is? And besides, when he was a little boy, his parents always made him talk with other adults, their friends etc., to look in the eyes and talk. He said, therefore he had no problem working with adults. And he has been working since early childhood.
Of course, Tom being comedian's son probably has an innate comic and presentation talent in him. Plus the observation his parents' behavior, plus the propper upbringing, plus a lot of experience. I repeat, he works in the industry - performs on stage, gives interviews, communicates with a variety of people from childhood.
But still that is very good analysis, thank you. Many of us can use this advises, i guess. They are quite available. I think, the main thing is not to be too strict and demanding to yourself. Be kinder to yourself. But move constantly step by step, little by little and never lose hope.
This sis such a true and perfect comment. His life experiences led him to be the person he is today and he’s lucky
In a cult? Im curious
Hes also so fine and baby boy
I like that-‘the inner extrovert’-good way to put it. I suppose we all have one!
Every time i watch your videos i feel like an alien trying to learn how to be hooman
Hey, at least there are videos!
You're not the only one.
I always felt like that.
You’re one step ahead of Zuck
Hard same.
this man has watched a lot of tom holland cute moments compilations
LOL
That means you probably did too
@@robertrallo3905 We all did...
LMAOOO
@@LisaHall1014 i don't lol
Tom Holland really is one hell of a wonderful individual! So charismatic and confident at such a young age. It really is admirable!
What does age have to do with being charismatic and confident? I was the same when I was 5 because I wasn't scared of judgment.
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@@Artur-r7h thank you for the launch codes
My fave quote ever goes something like this: "if you can't control something why are you worried/stressed about it? If you can control something why are you worried/stressed about it?" -- whenever I think this I feel a lot more calm and confident. Imagine you are stressed talking and its awkward -- there's nothing you can do anyways. Then your body will naturally relax itself a bit when you realize you are locked in anyways and you will actually be more confident in the moment. This has helped me before exams, interviews, dates, etc..
I love how I’m watching these videos like I am alien in disguise trying to assimilate into human society.
Edit: this is my first top comment ever, and i must admit i feel nothing. I definitely am an alien.
Of course you're not... or are y-... no way.
well dude you stole this comment :)
Ha-ha, that would be hilarious, fellow human being
Haha, as a real human being i find this sentence comical, I must laugh. Haha
Still can’t do it tho, I have my hands in my pockets am sweating shaking and can’t keep eye contact for more than 3 seconds
I thought this was a Tom Holland interview, but instead I learned how to be confident. Love it
Didn’t realize Tom Holland was a damn legend.
He’ll be
Neither did i lol
"give everyone 3 seconds of eye contact"
Anxiety and ADHD: you know the rules, and so do i.
*Looking into the ground* I have no idea what you are talking about
@Ayor a mm you dont know what you're talking about. i have nothing to make excuses for and im productive and i am very social. yet anxiety and adhd still overwhelm me, and i never used them as excuses. its just mental pain i deal with all by myself. so your point is?
@Ayor a some people out there cant control these things, do you think you're making things better? you're only gonna make them feel more guilt and lean towards never talking about their problems, and have them constantly struggle all by themselves. i personally dealt with such problems. nobody ever acknowledged my mental problems, so i just never talk about them again, never mention them, even when it was clear that its taking over, i never mentioned it and i took responsibility. no matter what i did, i always look up solutions, the struggle is always there, if i ignore it it gets worse, if i give it attention i feel more struggle, best i can do is warp my life to fit these struggles. there is nothing else i can do.
@Ayor a pretty sure you're respectable human being tho ♡
@Ayor a guess i fell for the trap
*shows palms*
why are your palms so sweaty?
*stares for 3 seconds*
What the hell is wrong with this guy?
*laughs at self*
No one else laughs
I can relate. It pisses me off when people misunderstand meaning of
my words and behavior.
@@seriousperson2065 it's so anoying ikr...
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
underrated comment!
😂😂😂
You should definitely take a look at Aubrey Plaza 🤔
How does she get people to take so well to her deadpan delivery and sarcasm?
In the meantime, it's worth pointing out that the BEST "deadpan" isn't actually deadpan... There's always a visible "cue" to the audience (whoever) that it's sarcastic...
Among the best studies for this principle is "Fawlty Towers", a series by (and starring) John Cleese. He's an expert on the style... In Basil Fawlty, there's two parts to the humor to consider (just so you know going in)...
1. The "cue" to his deadpan style is "the blank stare", a pause during which you just KNOW that it's comedy... antics... However seriously "THE CHARACTER" means the line (or not), that's the point... it is still comedy.
2. The true fun isn't just watching Basil losing his mind every episode. It's about watching the other people AROUND Basil, who are bearing witness to Basil losing his mind every episode...
What makes it a great study is the consistency, not just in fun... but in delivery. The jokes get varied, and the Characters introduced are relatively different. Even the precursors to disaster are different for the show, but the style is consistent, which makes it easier to functionally (independently) study so you can focus on the element(s) you want to learn most at the time... hope this helps. ;o)
Charisma on Command: how to turn awkwardness into confidence
me: * cries * *FINALLY! THANK YOU GOD*
Tbf he has already made a couple of videos abt it
Hahahhahahah so true
You're crying?....... Awkward.
omg literally😂😂😂😂😂😂
I don't understand how this made sense to you I feel like a goddamn alien
Instructions were unclear, now im in a relationship with my grandma
Riich. Lmao
Hahaha 😂
Awkward..
You always were. A family relationship.
Sweet home alabama
Nothing, absolutely nothing can be more awkward than a *handshake fail*
I'm laughing coz I've had plenty of those.😂😂
Hhhhha for me it isn't.. i just laugh and say "take 2" and we hand-shake again.. sometimes i even say "and now a cool handshake" and we act EXTRA weird and laugh it off. It's HOW u react when the handshake wasn't right.
Yep tried to give a handshake to a guy one time because I thought it would be a pretty standard thing to do but he didn’t follow through with the handshake so we just ended up holding hands... so awkward lol
Just mention its awkward. Chances are the other person finds it just as awkward
Twan Willems Yeah every time something awkward happens I just say “Well that was awkward!” And we usually both laugh and then can move the conversation without an awkward pause
Tom is a perfect example, I’ve always thought how good he is at handling potentially awkward situations
1. Adjusting your body language (3 Second rule of eye contact)
2. Reveal your palms ( makes you seem more trustworthy)
3. Rendition (embrace awkwardness fully)
4. Take up more space
5. Laugh with the group
6. Double down on the joke
7. Tell your own embarrassing stories
8. Activate common body language tips( when you tell stories)
9. Choose high impact words
10. Embody the characters in your story (voice,accent, etc.)
11. Let go of managing people’s opinions of you
12. Just embrace the truth
You’re welcome:)
Cheers
Thank you
Thanks for saving 11 minutes of my life:)
I stopped right here.
Juan BTL soooooo everything I can’t do. GREAT!!!
Use the 3 second rule enough to where it becomes automatic and you’re always “ON” like Ryan Seacrest.
Cool since I can only remember one rule at a time lol .
And I'm a Ryan Seacrest Type
Zachary Laid Finding Freedom I’ve seen u in like 5 comment sections today
ok elisha long
Fellow Elisha fan I see
Thousands of years from now humans will look back on this and transmit telepathic vibes across the entire population mutually agreeing "we were such apes back then"
gen·u·ine We always have been.
The difference between us and our predecessor is that we have managed to put on rags and call it suits.
gen·u·ine if anything these videos will be even more needed in the future as people will get more closed in,these videos wouldn’t have been needed 50 years ago.plus as the population increases more people will need these videos.
Roger that
I doubt the internet will exist considering Y2K will happen again and the internet will be destroyed and invented agian I hope
Lmao @ implying people or the world will exist in thousands of years.
Learned a lot from watching this video intermittently over this past year. Honestly feel like I've gained some confidence just from watching it. I've had friends "tease" me, and rather than take offence, I joked back at my expense and laughed along with them; the jokes against me soon died. I've been sharing more and more eye contact in groups of people. And just the other week when I arrived at work, there were about 4/5 people that were happy to see me and they all proceeded to chant my name; usually I would curdle myself and shy away awkwardly not knowing what to do. Instead I dropped my bag and started dancing, hahah. Honestly can't believe what this video has done for me.
Hey!!! How are you now?
Nobody:
UA-cam: Hey, we think you might just be awkward enough to like this video recommendation.
Me: 👍🏿
Hahaha true
😄
Ok youtube
You right
👍🏻
👍🏿
Just bite all people in the room and build your own confidence 🍃
I think that's showing dominance
i like that plan
*_It'S COroNA tiME!_*
(In my _very_ best 'TV game show' narrator voice...)
You certainly build _something!_ LIKE.... your very own:
_Personalized_ strains of various bloodborne pathogens! 😆😆😆
i think you forgot that we are humans, not lions
Tom Holland is Tom Holland and Im sure he is just acting out of instinct not because he is putting forth a 'technique' or 'skill'. He's just being himself.
He may be more inclined to be this way, but it doesn’t mean he’s not also making conscious choices.
I was a homecoming candidate (as a nerd) in high school. We had to dance in front of the entire school (1,000 people) on the spot. I did NOT want to do it. All the other guys looked super terrible, stuff, and awkward. They were all better dancers than me too as the nerd who didn’t dance. Soooo I just decided to get super into it and was just totally ridiculous and the school just loved it.
Same thing with a karaoke contest in college. I just did queen songs and was ridiculous as people loved it even though I actually was uncomfortable in my head.
So I’m not inclined to be super extroverted and confident but I learned pretty early on to just act super confident and when a moment got awkward just roll with it and it turns out better
Doesn't actually matter, though. Anyone can learn to become better at body language, eye contact etc.
You can observe someone subconsciously doing things well and create a technique from their actions. Just because he's not consciously thinking about it doesn't mean there isn't a method to learn
That’s true but they’re using him as example for people who want to appear less awkward
It's a technique and skill that his personality already acquires. It's like some people have more empathy. It's a skill people could learn to use better but some people have more empathy just because it's part of their personality
I figured all of this out by myself. Although I never defined the specifics to myself, these are the exact actions I use in a group to communicate properly. Finding this video, and watching it, then realizing what it was felt a little odd. I think of awkwardness in a very specific way. It's a little hard to explain, but the key is to remember that embarrassment and awkwardness are things that are decided by you. If you don't want to feel awkward or embarrassed, you simply negate that feeling. Forcefully, or by easing yourself into it.
It's not hard to find out these little tricks by yourself. After all, as long as you look for it, it'll be right there. Think of a way you want to communicate, and who you want to be. Then simply be that person, and be proud of it. Force that personality out and it will naturally merge itself with the conversation. Then everything after that is just you being you, without restraint.
Charlie, I owe you my job. Honestly! I was so introverted and anxious, now I finally feel confident working and talking to ppl. Thank you so so much!
Tell me ur ways!!! My main problem is I don't know how to continue a conversation cause I don't know what to say when the topic at hand dies out.
Minnie Mouse prompt other people to talk about themselves. maybe ask about how they felt in a certain situation maybe one that just happened or last nights storm. People love to talk about themselves (and it takes the weight off you as the conversation holder) Or look around the room and talk about something in the room. (Seriously anything. You see a faucet.. ask about water. Do they only drink RO? Do they notice different tastes? Have they ever turned on the faucet and it came out brown?) It’s all about just finding common ground. Hope that helps 🍀
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Small talk sucks tho
Us introverts like to talk about topic topics not the fucking weather for the 100th time of the day
And small talk literals usually lasts around 10 seconds max
And I know this because I work at a restaurant and my coworkers love talking and I’m just not so good at it yet
But I am improving, just learning to be myself and its kindve working I’ve also recently figured out how to handle my awkwardness without watching the vid at all
My technique is just to not be hard on your self but instead use positive affirmations and tricking the mind into thinking nothing is wrong and nothing bad happened so that I do not build anxiety when I talk again
It’s a simple but very effective strategy because the mind lives off habits and if I keep doing this eventually I’ll just be social anxiety free
And that will be awesome because I have been the quiet kid in the class for 90% of my classes for 5 years now
feel like youre lying, pretty people arent awkward
@Layla Izumi not really, you come off as shy or introverted and women and men find that "cute" because they get to break you in and see you when youre fully expressive. if youre ugly no one cares.
tom holland’s american accent in homecoming was so great that when i heard his real voice i was genuinely shocked
I never realized how good he is at public speaking wow
Me: sends an awkward text to a girl
UA-cam recommendations:
Do I want to know what you sent or no
Shamim Khan its was obviously.. ‘hey um toy story 4 just came out wanna um come watch it with me’ ngl I’m 19 and went and watched it alone mad movie
@@dadeee7776 ♥️
Dad Eee haha my dog
@@dadeee7776 if she dont wanna see Toy Story 4 she aint the one for u dawg lol 😂
Thanks your channel I literally put myself in awkward situations every single day to practice. I go to places where I don't know anyone that don't matter much and try to converse with random strangers at every opportunity. It helps to practice thanks man this channel has helped me immensely.
When you’re get caught stalking your favourite celebrity and say it’s just “research”
Thats very me
You’re just very observant
2:00 “Less trustworthy”
Shows Mark Zuckerberg
Bravo👏🏽
these videos inspire me to go out and socialize, but covid's a bish
That awkward moment when you recognize every single one of these interviews with Tom Holland... 😂
I feel like I'm learning how to behave like a human.
Me at a job interview
interviewer: why do you want this job?
me: *place hands face up on the table* i like money.
interviewer: ...
😂😂😂
Honestly I would have gave u the job
This literally made me lol 😂
@@majakajtaz6120 even if you do, you still won't. Because you would lose your job if you do that lol
😂😂😂😂
Your channel should be taught in high school curriculum everywhere. Thank you for teaching me skills that I never managed to learn before.
Timothée Chalamet is very awkward and shy, but he’s still very likeable. Could you perhaps do a video on why he remains popular despite his awkwardness?
With kind regards,
A fan
Embrace awkward situations by laughing about it ! It transforms the moment, spreading laughter :)
simple, yet very effectful!!! :3
or people just think your psicotic
Yeah, I usually do that if I’m being awkward
@@ecliptik8020 psychotic? there should be an age limit for comments
jesse can you believe people speak different languages and you are not superior to anyone for correcting one Typo they made? who's the childish one here?
Can you do one of these with Timothée Chalamet. I find his behavior so incredibly interesting.
I’m not awkward around outgoing people but quiet ones, it’s hard to carry a conversation :/
8:37 I've been doing this my whole life and it's my favorite! Everytime I'm telling a story to my friends, family or strangers, and I make the switch from my normal voice to an impersonation of someone in my story it instantly catches their attention and makes em laugh. 💯
When I was 7/8 years old I was going to private school, and I was selected from the 2nd grade class (I was chosen because my academic levels were the highest in my grade) to say a part in the program put on for the birthday of the school's founder, and Administrator. Mine was the first part, so I got up, and I wasn't the slightest bit worried. I knew my piece forward and backward, inside and outside, and it didn't occur to me to be nervous. I began to speak, and my teacher, from the front row told me to step closer to the mic and start over. So I did. I began again, and she told me to wait a moment, and someone came and lowered the mic. (I was very short.) I started for the third time, when someone from the sound booth came out and said something was wrong and we'd be delayed 15 minutes. 15 minutes later I got up to speak and I looked out at the group of about 1,700 people, and I could not speak. I opened my mouth, but I could not make the words come out. I just stood there, getting more and more frightened, and I could tell the nervous silence was my fault, but I could not speak. I could see my mom smiling at me from about halfway back, trying to encourage me, and the embarrassment on my dad's face as he tried to encourage me too. I. Could. Not. Speak. Finally, my teacher stood up, came up on the stage, knelt by me, put her arm around me and said my part. Then she walked me off the stage. I knew my parents were disappointed, but they never said anything. No one ever brought it up again. (At least not until I was 19) But I remembered. I stopped volunteering in class. I got anxiety when I was called on for an answer that I had to say out loud. I would physically shake anytime we had any kind of assembly. I did grow out of a lot of it, but not entirely. I always feel awkward in groups. I'm afraid people will hear me, but terrified that they won't. But thanks to charisma on command, I've actually been able to get past some of these things. And I might not be "charismatic" yet, but at least I'm somewhat normal. So thank you.
Xizi Reed I felt this. Idk who you are but I’m happy for you :)
Examine E.F.T. and how it can help. Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) is an alternative treatment for physical pain and emotional distress. It’s also referred to as tapping or psychological acupressure.
wait you only lived for 8 years?
I feel like awkwardness turns into a more full and better form of confidence then just flat out confidence
Why is this 3 second trick 11 minutes long
Money
@Slade Wilson r/whoooosh
Tjhodskins that not r/wooooosh dude
@@billclinton2094 it was a joke he got all serious about it so r/whoooosh
Tjhodskins no it’s not a joke r/facepalm
"Let go of managing other people's perceptions of you."
*Runs a channel teaching people how to manage other's perceptions of them.*
Love you bro, but you confuse me sometimes.
Lmao
The point is not to force it. In several of his videos, he says to follow what feels most natural to you. Basically, it's enhancing the good qualities that are already there, not being someone you aren't.
Remy LeBae Enhancing, and embracing.
@@remylebae3395 we all human
@@spitzkopf2128 no we are all elephants
0:30 he is very skilled at turning those more difficult moments around.
0:50 3 second rule of equally gaze. makes people feel included.
1:40 he shows his palms. shoes open and comfort.
2:40 more commitment: otherwise, it would show everyone feels uncomfortable.
3:40 by embracing awkward situations fully, you show more confidence than every person on the sidelines. this is when awkwardness is forced on you. for i.e. the friends are teasing you.
4:00 when you're a guy and your friends are gonna tease you and it's not out of malice. if you handle properly, then you can be a leader in the group.
take up more space: fill or occupy a certain amount of volume, often specified through the use of modifiers.
4:40 pile on/onto (someone): 1. (of a group of people) to jump or climb on top of someone: 2. (of a group of people) to attack 被欺負的
4:50 a simply technique is to laugh with the group.
5:05 you can seperate from the aspect you being teased and who you are. because those things dont define who you are. and put you back in control of the conversation
6:00 show good humor and confidence.
6:40 tell your own embarrassing story. you are in charge of your own story.
9:30 99% of the awkwardness is going to be worse if you're going to fight back.
10:00 you are not perfect. there's always going to be place that other teases. that is in recognizing those less than perfect facts and liking yourself anyways. the true confident is generated!
Social blunders are inadvertent violations of normative standards of behavior. Although blunders can be embarrassing and unpleasant, most people view them as relatively fleeting and inconsequential.
Thank you
It’s actually illegal for me to look anywhere near a person when talking to them. I tend to stare at the floor. It’s very cool
*Playing your weaknesses makes them your strengths!* 👍
Nice quote!
Daniel Iles - Small Business tea!
I feel more confident now. I can't wait to try this at school, but I bet I'll forget most of these.
how about a video explaining what makes Zuckenberg so weird? id watch that :)
He has done it already actually
lack of social skills, obviously
@@true7251 best person to be responsible for a social media platform
It's the eyes man, I wouldn't even last 3 seconds looking at those things in person
Because he is super intelligent and hence there is a iq gap between him and the audience ..
You used Tom Holland as your thumbnail and I now feel obligated to watch this video rather than running from my problems...gosh darn it
I don't think even he knows all these. 😂 it's just naturally comes for him
Maybe one or both of his parents have these skills, if so they are just literal first nature to Tom Parker
How to turn Awkwardness into Confidence:
*Be Tom Holland*
I think you missed the point
@@Erik20766 I think you missed the joke
How to become a president of the USA? Be DT.
r/woooosh
@@Erik20766, no that's the enitre point of this video
This video should be renamed as 'Why Tom Holland is the most amazing man to ever exist.'
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**shows palms**
“I pissed on your couch.”
It works
Tom was raised the way he is. I wish I was too 😢 He's so lucky
Remember fellas, Tom didn't learn this from watching a video like this. It's experience and or talent and we can all get one of em
It’s amazing a dude as young as Tom could be so confident and charismatix
Those qualities are actually way more common when you're young
Opening yourself in general gives more confidence.
Charisma on command ... I hope this reaches you. This is necessary info to what I'm about to say. I'm a Christian, so I was (and am) wary of certain philosophical outlooks on life. When I came to your channel I was a bit cynical.. that's me! I was a nihilist before I was a Christian and even as a Christian I know that life (and human nature) is far from roses. My point is.. I underestimated you and your intentions. I am grateful for this channel and content. I have ptsd and all the fun stuff that comes along with that, at times my loneliness and isolation is absolutely crippling. From just a cpl of these videos, I've already been able to have more fulfilling social interactions. That means alot to me. I can see you really want to work on yourself and I enjoy your kindness. I'm just grateful.
Great! Now I can comfortably give an Oscars speech.
When Tom shows his palms you tend to get sprayed with web fluid.
Other times its the "other" web fluid
@H M _The other web fluid_
@H M *_The other other web fluid_*
Darren Ross Tears.
@@megavore97 *The other other other web fluid*
the amount of analysis and contemplation you see in these videos is remarkable.
Im like pinnochio hoping if i watch all these videos i’ll turn into a real human boy 🤓
Good one hahah)) Same though
Someone needs to go watch Jordan peterson
:v
sheepgray08 i do. Dont see what thats got to do with the joke though lol
@@twizted8469 are you familiar wuth jps work? He's always talking about Pinocchio and he talks quite a Birk about the transformation of the boy into a developed independent real adult.
sheepgray08 sorry, that was dumb of me ahaha yes i love jp but havent watched much of him in a while, i kinda remember what youre on about now ahaha sorry i fully missed that connection though, also sorry cos my first reply was a bit unnecessarily passive aggressive
"Committing fully" = making fluid, big, deliberate movements
Or he's just a cool guy who's just being himself and doesn't waste his time trying to learn how to act human
He was an example, no one said he learnt the ways of acting like a human. How do you take offense so easily lololol, humans these days
He is naturally charismatic, that doesn't mean we can't learn from his natural charisma.
Learn from other ppl and apply some of it on yourself while still being yourself and boom! You just made a better version out of yourself. Always develop, never settle (while still being your true self ofc).
Oh yeah ha huh couldn't be me
Tom Holland really is one hell of a wonderful individual! So charismatic and confident at such a young age.
I’m actually pleasantly surprised how helpful the philosophies and tips in this video are.
3:26 Jack Black is the most outgoing person ever. It’s amazing.
Ikr. He's the best
this is cute, but here’s the thing: I’M NOT FUNNY!
NOW THAT WAS FUNNY.
See, you already passed the 1st step. 🤣
A Harvey Specter video needs to be made because he is incredibly charismatic and confident.
Imagine going on youtube and seeing a video of how to not be awkward in conversation and its about you, imagine how much CONFIDENCE you would exude after that
You should do a breakdown on Audrey Plaza, that would be AMAZING
Zendaya's bf is kinda cool
I'll forget all this advice when I'm in the middle of conversation :/
This was genuinely so helpful for someone who comes up with the best comebacks for taunts about 2 years later :)
that laughing one is great! I find it so attractive when people can laugh at themselves
Please do a video on Rami Malek's personality
Omg yes
Sindhu D. YES!!! and ben hardy
Yes!! Rami Malek is insanely charismatic on many levels.
and Paul Rudd love em both
Sindhu D. he got none
As someone who's autistic, the eye contact thing is really hard for me. I basically have to force it in certain situations, but it's exhausting to keep up for an extended period especially in high stress situations.
*AWKWARDNESS* - low self-esteem, a person who doesn't prioritise him-/herself
Confidence is a trait that you get from without, practicing same stuff over and over
True words man
O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me I would say that there is a difference between low self-esteem and not prioritizing yourself.
Really? My self esteem isn't low ( anymore, thank God) but I'm still "awkward" it's hard to carry a conversation
@@winstonchurchill624 If you are not the #1 person in your life, unconditionally, you have to work on your self-esteem.
A person cannot love someone purely, unintentionally, if there is a slight void within.
@@GarnetsWeb Think about what awkward means. It implies interaction with other people, which means caring about how others (unknown people) perceive you (you are not awkward with your relatives), thus having a low self-esteem.
This was actually helpful and using them display confidence. Just review them often, turn them into a habit, and keep going, and be content with yourself - and you got it.
You should do a video on Richard Ayoade! He pulls off intelligent, awkward charisma to a tee!
How To Turn Awkwardness Into Confidence
Step 1: be Tom Holland
I took a break to work on mindset. “Perception of you…” very powerful
I want to have a conversation with this dude to see if he’s actually living up to his preachings
He would probably seduce you
You have the greatest username in UA-cam right now, can't even lie bro lol
he's probably reading his script from his room ^^'