You both are speaking my mind. Continue on this path. Our generation has suffered and is done with. To break the cycle is tough. I tried to do what I could. Alhumdulillah. But hearing this from a younger generation is very refreshing and hopeful. ❤ JazakAllah khair.
Really Loved it. Meri shaadi honY wali hai, aur start se he mein ye sochta tha "I will break the cycle". Finally Aj ap donu ko dekh kr bohat axha lga. Is podcast sY mein jo lesson le kr ja rha hOon wo ye k "Ap Jb bhi kuch Sahi krnY ki koshish kro gY apko relatively more challenges face krnY pren gY. But ap ko haar nhi maan'ni chahiYe. Despite all the challenges, you just have to do the right thing."
Aoa,bohat khoub jeety raho,khush raho ap log❤......ye jung mere ander b chal rahi hy...aap ki batain sun k laga k main aapny dil ki batain apki zuban se sun rahi hun...Allah pak asaniyan atta farmaye...
Bhai tu mard shariat ke mutabiq zindagi guzarein ghar ke kaamo mein haath btaein aurton ka Nabiﷺ tu apne saare kaam khud hi krte the ye hmary deen hi ki taaleemat hein
I have lived in abroad since beginning. After watching this podcast i dont know it has made me scared.i really wanted to have my MIL live with us whenever allah wants but what if it will cause problems 💔 because she had a v emotionally deficient relationship
honestly speaking I was following along but then the guy said that he doesn't believe that there are gender roles in islam with all due respect your opinion doesn't matter when there is a consensus amongst scholars
If you had not stopped listening and might be read a couple of books on Seerah, you would know that beside the provider role of man, all other life skills and roles are gender nuetral. Both men and women will be answerable to Allah fir their social, civic and religious duties
@@MOMKAST the fact that men are given the responsibility of qawwam dictates gender roles this doesn't mean that you box yourself within that role only, if there is a need for you to step out of that role and help out in other roles is not the problem, the problem is to confuse people by making it seem that there are no gender roles after all there is a reason why Allah appointed the men as the qawwam
Obviously Shadi khushi Kay liyay kartay hain. Shadi lafz ka matlab hai khushi. I am Masters in Business Studies but I don’t work. My husband doesn’t want me to work . I am very happy. Agar koi mard ghar ka kam nahi karta , koi masla nahi. My father , Chacha, Mamoon never did. Koi masla nahi tha, their wives never had any issues. Issues , divorces tou ajkal ki generation mein hai.
kyunke ajkal ki generation ko samjh agaya hai k shadi aqa or gholam ka rishta nahe hai balke shadi 2 logo ki unity ka companionship ka rishta hai or ek insan sirf gholam bana rahe or dosra aqa to yeh loveless rishta nahe chalega. alhomdolilah mere walid ne hamari parwarish mein poora kirdar ada kia hai subha se le kar raat tak business bhe sambhala hai or maine mohabbat, izzat or ahsaas ka khoobsurat rishta apne maa baap k darmiyan dekha hai to mujhe yeh aqa or gholam ka rishta jo hamari society mein prevail kar raha hai isko mein shadi nahe kahongi. masla ap k ghar k mardo mein tha jo kam karne ko gender roles samjhte rahe. jab hamare Nabi SAWW jin k ikhtiyar mein kya nahe tha woh apni azwaj e mutahirat k sath ghar k kam mein haath bata dete the toh aj kal k adna mard ko kyun taklif hoti hai maa, behan, biwi ya beti ka haath batane mein ya unki mardangi kum hojati hai?
You both are speaking my mind. Continue on this path. Our generation has suffered and is done with. To break the cycle is tough. I tried to do what I could. Alhumdulillah. But hearing this from a younger generation is very refreshing and hopeful. ❤ JazakAllah khair.
Thank you so much
Really Loved it. Meri shaadi honY wali hai, aur start se he mein ye sochta tha "I will break the cycle". Finally Aj ap donu ko dekh kr bohat axha lga.
Is podcast sY mein jo lesson le kr ja rha hOon wo ye k "Ap Jb bhi kuch Sahi krnY ki koshish kro gY apko relatively more challenges face krnY pren gY. But ap ko haar nhi maan'ni chahiYe. Despite all the challenges, you just have to do the right thing."
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What a lovely conversation. Thoroughly enjoyed it. Found many life instances to connect with. Thank you so much.
You’re welcome. Please share and spread the word
keep it up momkast
Valuable thought provoking realistic
Thanks for the appreciation
Very nice conversation. You have provided valuable information.
Thanks please share
Mind blowing really......dears, discussion about a sensitive topic of our society......great
thanks - please share the word
Amazing discusion. 👍
Thanks for listening
Aoa,bohat khoub jeety raho,khush raho ap log❤......ye jung mere ander b chal rahi hy...aap ki batain sun k laga k main aapny dil ki batain apki zuban se sun rahi hun...Allah pak asaniyan atta farmaye...
Ameen
What was the book you mentioned please share link
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جب تک میاں بیوی شریعت کے مطابق زندگی نہیں گزاریں گے اس وقت تک مسائل ہوتے رہیں گے ۔۔
Msail hoty hai is liye treeqay sikhai gay hai. Msail kbi khtm nai hoskty. Pakistani jazbati pan chordo.
Ap batay Kon C Aisi shariat Hai jissa masail ni hogay pls batay
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@@mianzarrar3796Agreed
Bhai tu mard shariat ke mutabiq zindagi guzarein ghar ke kaamo mein haath btaein aurton ka Nabiﷺ tu apne saare kaam khud hi krte the ye hmary deen hi ki taaleemat hein
I have lived in abroad since beginning. After watching this podcast i dont know it has made me scared.i really wanted to have my MIL live with us whenever allah wants but what if it will cause problems 💔 because she had a v emotionally deficient relationship
Every situation is different, hope Allah wills what is best for you , your family and your MIL
Different era different situations & difficult solution u both doing good work, motivation is important for new generation well explanation
Thanks for the support! You're right-every era has its own challenges.
I said same maan or bivi main balance nai hota bivion main kahan krna hai
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honestly speaking I was following along but then the guy said that he doesn't believe that there are gender roles in islam with all due respect your opinion doesn't matter when there is a consensus amongst scholars
If you had not stopped listening and might be read a couple of books on Seerah, you would know that beside the provider role of man, all other life skills and roles are gender nuetral. Both men and women will be answerable to Allah fir their social, civic and religious duties
@@MOMKAST the fact that men are given the responsibility of qawwam dictates gender roles this doesn't mean that you box yourself within that role only, if there is a need for you to step out of that role and help out in other roles is not the problem, the problem is to confuse people by making it seem that there are no gender roles after all there is a reason why Allah appointed the men as the qawwam
Great
Mian biwi ko waqt k taqazay k sath badalna hoga
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Obviously Shadi khushi Kay liyay kartay hain. Shadi lafz ka matlab hai khushi. I am Masters in Business Studies but I don’t work. My husband doesn’t want me to work . I am very happy.
Agar koi mard ghar ka kam nahi karta , koi masla nahi. My father , Chacha, Mamoon never did. Koi masla nahi tha, their wives never had any issues.
Issues , divorces tou ajkal ki generation mein hai.
Issue kaam ka nahi, izzat ka hai, khayal ka hai
kyunke ajkal ki generation ko samjh agaya hai k shadi aqa or gholam ka rishta nahe hai balke shadi 2 logo ki unity ka companionship ka rishta hai or ek insan sirf gholam bana rahe or dosra aqa to yeh loveless rishta nahe chalega. alhomdolilah mere walid ne hamari parwarish mein poora kirdar ada kia hai subha se le kar raat tak business bhe sambhala hai or maine mohabbat, izzat or ahsaas ka khoobsurat rishta apne maa baap k darmiyan dekha hai to mujhe yeh aqa or gholam ka rishta jo hamari society mein prevail kar raha hai isko mein shadi nahe kahongi. masla ap k ghar k mardo mein tha jo kam karne ko gender roles samjhte rahe. jab hamare Nabi SAWW jin k ikhtiyar mein kya nahe tha woh apni azwaj e mutahirat k sath ghar k kam mein haath bata dete the toh aj kal k adna mard ko kyun taklif hoti hai maa, behan, biwi ya beti ka haath batane mein ya unki mardangi kum hojati hai?
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Apka itna waqt nikal k ye mashwara denay ka shukriya. dono ka matlab aik hi hota hai
Marriage is a contract, deal in Islam.
It's sexual & economic relationship. 😐