If he doesn't want you and it can't work no matter what you tried...then he was never meant for you...so don't focus your energy on what was but on what could be...I used to think just like you when my wife left. I am still single and that's my daughter in the pic with me, but I have not given up on love. ...one day when it happens it will be real. Keep faith.
I remember I would always listen to this song when I was so young, never thought I would ever relate to each and every words so soon. Life's crazy like that
If the person loves you they wouldn’t let go easy. Relationships aren’t perfect. People have their own flaws but you gotta keep trying. If you think it’s worth it.
This song is exactly what I'm going through right now. I miss my ex so much. We broke up 2 days ago and my heart hurts so much. 7 years down the drain. This man was my bestfriend he's the father to my child. I wanted things to work but we kept hurting eachother & said hurtful things we shouldn't have said. I know I'll get through this but damn it's so hard. I grew up with this man I was 16 when I met him I'm 23 now. I know we will always be friends and be good parents to our child, but it sucks knowing that our little family is broken.
I was married young and was with the person I loved dearly. Gave him everything and got hurt in the end. We have kids together and now we can co parent and be friends. We both moved on . Even tho I am in love with this man, I'm still not fully healed. Mental , and emotional damage never goes away
Two years for US &ALL THE TERRIBLE HURTFUL SHIT SAID NEVER GOES AWAY... ITS slowly diminishing my love 4U. It's becoming a reality of mine just getting that through this thick skull. But U are HEARTLESS & I THINK U LOVE HURTING ME. MY HEART IS CONFLICTED. I don't wanna do this anymore... set U free. I know u wont come back to me... if it doesn't return it's not love
I hurt him so much. It's sad when you spend years together, hurt each other to the breaking point, but still love each other. Knowing there's no fixing the damage or getting past it.
I'm still healing n fighting my pain n hurt for 7 years i try n every night I still cry about this relationship I had no choice but to leave him thank you for sharing your story
Sitting here thinking and this song is helping me eaze my mind. ..When you love somebody I feel like you shouldn't give up but it's 2015 and people isn't the same how they use to be back n da ...
this song is still the shit no matter how old it is.. . definitely goes with my situation... I'm tired of hurting over you... I don't deserve it... I'm not perfect but I am not a horrible person either... I'm done trying... especially when I'm the only one who's committed to the relationship... Sad story... 💔😥😭
Sara Rivera I feel your pain.... I just keep letting him hurt me over and over again..... I don't wanna love him but I still do....😢😢 I just wanna RIP my heart out of my chest!!! I hate this feeling......😢😢
God does things for a reason but until we start looking at what put us there in the beginning it the going back thats killing us keep the faith and fall down
Been thru many heartache and pain for far too long and now he want to do right now. And its far too late 😢I love him but i can't be with him anymore. Don't wanna try no more about just had enough its been a rough road baby just let it go 😢😢😢
I have been hurt so many times by just one person....Now I'm really drained , I'm really tired , I'm so fed up and listening to this song gives me the strength to continue to carry on by myself 😊😢😢2024 I'm greatful to God for all I'm going to get through 😢😊😊❤
glad I stopped trying a long time ago because you put me through so much I can't believe I ever fell in love with u because of u I cried day and night for months so now don't try to come back to me because our love is out the door and been gone for a while now I'm a better person done with the shit I put myself through if it weren't for u I would've still been finding people like you who hurt me to the maximum 👏✌
yaritza marie amen! i just left my husband for the same reason. im done trying, he kept insisting that he would change and it always went right back to the same bullshit. im done..
Yaritza Marie same here, years and years of broken promises. It so fkd up that loving women like us get taken for granted and dumass men wana play with our minds. I regret not staying gone the first time I left him. It's been monts this time and I'm a better stronger independent woman doing it all for my kids.
I have been taught the most valuable of lessons about love --- The way you did me in the end and just took off and left with I loved - it hurt enough to have kept me single for this long - I have grown customed to it now being alone - and I've got so much just starting, I won't have time to be with anyone ! What I felt for the past 5yrs, I never wanna go through or feel again ! I used to say "I fear dying alone" ! Now I say "I'd rather be alone and die without a soul by my side, then to let another person have me feeling the way I did when half of my family walked out of my life to never be seen or heard from again" !
One mans trash is another mans treasure. That says so much I've experienced it and some people just never know what they have. Then when someone get fed up and walk out they see what they had. But at the same time if you have a girlfriend or boyfriend that is there with you and is loyal I don't see the reason to have another girl like it's not a game choose who you want to be with and if you gonna cheat let him or her go and don't be a bit*h. Sometimes peoo OK we got to put theirseoves in others shoes like what if they cheated on you how would that make you feel
This song really helped me with my life and I love someone who has my heart and break my heart and this song realize that they love me and forgive me already I will reunite with her in 2 months she have no idea that I going to see her again wish me luck
Damn Frankie, got me in tears I felt every word... so accurate to my previous relationship. I finally had the courage to leave him. It wasnt easy but I finally did it !!
This song fits so perfectly. We were together for 4 years. We had a beautiful daughter together. But things didn't work out. He ended up hurting me in the end. We've been broke up for almost a week now and he keeps asking for me back everyday. I can't keep putting myself through pain. It's not healthy for me and not healthy for my baby girl to be around. So if you have a kid with someone and aren't happy with that person don't be afraid to leave. If you stay any longer it will make everything worse. I didn't want to leave because I loved him at one point and we had a daughter together. But then I realized that just because we had a kid together don't mean I have to stay. If you are unhappy that's what your kid/kids are going to grow up and see. Don't do it to urself or your children.
Alyssa Faye baby Girl you got it on this passage. I have a son and his mom was always on the drama fighting trying to put my parents out the way. I tried continuously to make it work. But seeing the hurt in my son's eyes because it was always an argument over the dumb shit. We been split almost three months going through divorce and full custody battle I DoD not want to leave because of him. I always wanted him to have his parents at home together. Your right bae don't be afraid to leave it hurts for a long time but hopefully it will heal in the long run.
If you really love someone you won't stop trying but there is a time where enough is enough if your other half isn't trying and making an effort than you have to just break away...
So true ! I've tried making things work with a man I was with for 10 years but he wasn't putting forth and effort in it so I let him go. The hardest thing to do in my life. But I'm here alive and moving forward.
Stephanie Elvira I am going through this right now. She ignores my texts calls...so I stopped hoping she would miss me...but I guess it was not meant to be. ..she changed and says it is my fault. ...there is always two sides to a story and a monkey does not look at its own tail.
8 years & I'm finally moving on. Im tired of being the only one trying. It hurts, but as long as i have god by my side i know everything will be okay :)
So true nobody really knows the pain you go through when they play with your emotions this song has helped me so much realize a lot of things are reading everyone's comment my ex every year just keep playing around and playing around and I finally just had enough had to close the door as much as I love her it's just not healthy and good relationship and it's just wasting time
Funny how this song of course is old but how most of us feel due to infidelity, trust issues, etc. but even after the time passed and mistakes made; knowing we are human I still can’t help but keep her close to my heart even knowing us together was toxic and bad.. when you want to be with someone so bad but you know it isn’t good.. self inflicted pain physically and emotionally just to have that happiness for the time being. That’s how we know we are human even if it may seem foolish.. our hearts can make us seem foolish but being caught up in that moment just seems perfect..
Given a woman my all and tried to make us happy for 4 years......its been talks of the end but I just don't want it to happen, I don't want to be alone........but it has to happen and I have to realize I will find someone else in the future that will make it better......
The worst part is realizing that u were so deep in love and would give anything for someone who lied and played with ur head for so many years. Just kept breaking promises and using you. FUCK LOVE
Never knew how many people are truly depressed deeply in their heart until coming across these songs. I can definitely say materialism don't bring true happiness!! :-)
I have been through hell and back and I made it out alive but Depression takes over and I met one amazing young man and he listens to everything I have to say and never cuts me off unlike the guy I have an understanding with but I can't love him like I used to everything is different I understand completely he lost his sister and 2 months later lost his dad I have lost to my dad shot his self and I was there and I can never get that off my brain but it gets easier but I have been married 2times and both were mentally physical and emotional but my kids seen a lot and I am picking up the pieces hell it is and I'm tired of depression and trust issues and being belittled and I just need a God to guide me and put a Good man in our lives if its meant to be! Amen
Throw back but how I feel today 2016 and listening to this heavily tonight 👏🏻👏🏻 .......... Six years down the drain and finally don't wanna try no more with you (DONE)
I was married to someone who abused me every way he could... after the last thing that happened I finally had enough.. I tried for over a year to get a divorce and finally he's giving me one after I became pregnant by my boyfriend.. now my boyfriend is a real man!!! so glad God sent him to me
I send this to you. This song reminds me of you . I would have been there for you and loved you more than anyone in the world. I don't want to try anymore . Where did it ever get me . Disrespect ,lies ,and much more. You gave nothing to hold on to. You gave me no choice but to walk away. Cuz I want somebody in my life that I can love and they can love me and they're not afraid to say that to my face. I wish you happiness and all the things in life that doesn't cost anything, because that's what's important. God bless you
when you realize you never really been inlove. when you sit back and see how you let them treat you. you wouldnt hurt someone you love nor would want to see them cry. finally can say im happy alone.
sometimes songs speak so well to you .... 5 years of being with someone who made you feel like the only woman in the world no worry butterflies head in the clouds but all the time that u are loving this person they were loving someone that they worked with coming home with lies beyond lies telling me its only you but the whole time he was buliding a realtionship with the lady at his job we had a child who is now 8 at the time she was only a few months old sometimes i wonder what if but thats the past xoxo
This song really hits home what else can you do when the other person is not working with you I have been in a relationship for 6 years with my last kid's father it was a battle with him with no understanding i suffer mental physical verbal abuse and then life took a toll he got locked up and Still was by his side through the whole process came home changed on me started doing the things that he was doing before he went to jail and what can you do when you are tired and the pain is burying inside of you I pray everyday to God to take the pain away and he's doing just that but going back will never be an option the only thing that really affects me is my kids not really having that true father that they need but I am praying God remove that feeling too🙏💔😔😢
listening to this in my bathroom crying cause I put 5 years in for nothing I kept trying to make it works it just not worth it anymore this relationship is killing me everywhere possible
💔💔 I got tired Of trying , the more I showed you I love you the more You Hurt Me , you took my love for granted because you thought I'll Always come back , I enjoyed the times we shared and the family we made , But I Couldn't take the pain anymore I'll Always Love You Tiara I Just Can't Let You See Me Sweat I Have To Act Like I Don't Care Now 😔 I Wish You Nothing But Happiness I Don't Wanna Try No More Its To Much Pain ! PS My First Love
Bicellous Higgs exactly they keep treating u so bad and doing the same shit over and over because they think you will never leave. well I don't want to try anymore and one day he will wake up and his family will be gone
3 years. 3 years of my life I devoted to my last relationship. I looked into her eyes every morning. As time went by, she started looking somewhere else. Everytime I hear this song, I tear up. The pain is unbearable when I hear this song. But I need to. it reminds me that things can always get better.
I had to let go of a man that i was truly in love with and it was one of the hardest thongs i had too do. Thru out a year i took him back over 20 times and it never changed, so i had to sit back and realize my self worth and my happiness. So god showed me that he was not one for me no matter how much i was in love with him,so now i must listen to my higher power Lord jesus christ and remove myself away from him. I think about him all the time day and night but i chose my self worth over how much i loved him. I will always love him but i pray he gets help so he can have a healthy relationship one day with someone else.
He walked away I wish I woulda faced the fact that he never truly loved me a long time ago I let my guard down and I regret that. I trusted him and he hurt me more than anybody I know. But I still pray that he finds what he wants in life, but ultimately I hope God is on that path and if not here I wanna see him in heaven I don’t hate him I’m just hurting a lot. I pray God keep on being my strength and helps me move forward I’m trying to let go. I wanna heal and be a mom one day and I don’t wanna keep feeling this hurt. Keep being my strength God🙏 Forever Gd
Never stop trying, never give up on love. Some spend a lifetime looking and never get to experience the joy, pain, everything that a person goes through when they give their heart to another. In today it's so rare for love to last so few realize just how precious it is to be given the chance to experience love. True love, the kind that makes you breakable. More times than not you'll find yourself in the worst pain imaginable. Folks just don't take care of what they were blessed with, never appreciating this gift until it's walking out the door. It's too late, don't wait till then to salvage what you'll die without. Don't wait till it's over and your in a panic trying to figure out what happened, trying to save what's gone. You'll set alone in regret and remorse and some never make it back. They fall victim to heartache and pay the ultimate price. Don't wait, grab hold of what you have and Don't let go. Fight like hell to keep it. If it's real and from God then don't let go so easily. Fight for love it's so worth it.
It sucks nikki😢but like job marley said you have to be strong when your only choice is to be strong . We don't deserve this b.s. we deserve better . Damn it
this song reminds me of my son's bio dad.. dang we were hella young..our son will be 24 in May..dang..where does the time go?? i miss you Dominic Suazo. Keep yo head-up baby doll..ur in my heart and prayers always...
This song is so depressing, I cry every time I hear it. I can't take back what I've done. All I can say is sorry && Move on. . He's the one that got away.. I miss you
10 years invested and my hubby and I are finally at the end of the road. Breaks my heart. Never try again!!!
I feel like that right now
If he doesn't want you and it can't work no matter what you tried...then he was never meant for you...so don't focus your energy on what was but on what could be...I used to think just like you when my wife left. I am still single and that's my daughter in the pic with me, but I have not given up on love. ...one day when it happens it will be real. Keep faith.
10 years??? 😢 that hurts!! I can't imagine losing someone after 10 years!! I'd hurt too much after all we've been through 😭
@@Eyes_26 💔💔😩
Same girl, us 5 years.
I remember I would always listen to this song when I was so young, never thought I would ever relate to each and every words so soon. Life's crazy like that
Yup...
Stop looking for love in all the wrong places and DO YOU
Me too....me too
Stop letting brutha Smash
@@alanlabriola3810she A BOp
If the person loves you they wouldn’t let go easy. Relationships aren’t perfect. People have their own flaws but you gotta keep trying. If you think it’s worth it.
I agree with you
I agree 💯
But it's not always worth it
If u had a relationship like mine, after 4 years, like the song says, the hardest part is letting go... not holding on.
This song hit different when you understand what he's feeling!!
Brittany Kilby girl yes! 🙌🏽
7yrs 😔 & it hurts so bad I never thought loving someone so much can hurt so bad .. Yes God is giving me clear sign this person isn't the one for me 😓💔
Lizzy Paris does it still hurt a year later
Aaliyah Harris I've been there, I'm still in love with this woman who gave up on me long ago.
I'm right there with you 9 years...time to let go
Im still here 7 years later, and its killing me
Try wasting 9yrs 🤦🏾♀️
music really has helped me through some really dark times in my life
Such a true and powerful statement! Back when more music was left open to the listeners own interpretation
That voice....Frankie Js voice is soothing!
Thank god for internet, this brings back memories❤️ 2021
This song is exactly what I'm going through right now. I miss my ex so much. We broke up 2 days ago and my heart hurts so much. 7 years down the drain. This man was my bestfriend he's the father to my child. I wanted things to work but we kept hurting eachother & said hurtful things we shouldn't have said. I know I'll get through this but damn it's so hard. I grew up with this man I was 16 when I met him I'm 23 now. I know we will always be friends and be good parents to our child, but it sucks knowing that our little family is broken.
😢❤
Who’s still listening in 2024
Unfortunately 💔😔
My heart is still hurting I can't do it no more as God 😢
Meeeeee❤🎉
@@krystallee6767You look like Kissie
Last day of 2024 comment to hopefully bring you all back for 2025! Happy New Year!
I’m still jamming to in 01/22 And Frankie J was always in amazing singer and I will forever love this song #classicofalltime❤️
I was married young and was with the person I loved dearly. Gave him everything and got hurt in the end. We have kids together and now we can co parent and be friends. We both moved on . Even tho I am in love with this man, I'm still not fully healed. Mental , and emotional damage never goes away
sometimes a simple.."I'm sorry" could prevent a lot of pain!!
yes yes it could
not everytime
facts
that's right!!!
Two years for US &ALL THE TERRIBLE HURTFUL SHIT SAID NEVER GOES AWAY... ITS slowly diminishing my love 4U. It's becoming a reality of mine just getting that through this thick skull. But U are HEARTLESS & I THINK U LOVE HURTING ME. MY HEART IS CONFLICTED. I don't wanna do this anymore... set U free. I know u wont come back to me... if it doesn't return it's not love
Always here...cant wait to find a love so beautiful 😢
I hurt him so much. It's sad when you spend years together, hurt each other to the breaking point, but still love each other. Knowing there's no fixing the damage or getting past it.
I don't know where to go from here
I hear ya girl
Start over help each other grow but you both have to want to grow and change together.
Hilary Price so sad but true
Sick see all things but it's very said
I love this song so much babe ❤
12 years down the drain and I don't wanna try any more!
essie lao his loss cuz your beautiful
Oh shut up
KLac Quack stfu
💔 damnn
I feel ya... mine was 11 years
I'm still healing n fighting my pain n hurt for 7 years i try n every night I still cry about this relationship I had no choice but to leave him thank you for sharing your story
its so hard
Sitting here thinking and this song is helping me eaze my mind. ..When you love somebody I feel like you shouldn't give up but it's 2015 and people isn't the same how they use to be back n da ...
You have to want it comunacation 🔑
My current situation only thing he truly is a good man, good person and I know he loves me 😢💔 Pray 4 us Pray 4 me...
this song is still the shit no matter how old it is.. . definitely goes with my situation... I'm tired of hurting over you... I don't deserve it... I'm not perfect but I am not a horrible person either... I'm done trying... especially when I'm the only one who's committed to the relationship... Sad story... 💔😥😭
i feel that. 😢
Yes very Sad love is pain
Sara Rivera I feel your pain.... I just keep letting him hurt me over and over again..... I don't wanna love him but I still do....😢😢 I just wanna RIP my heart out of my chest!!! I hate this feeling......😢😢
Rachel Feliciano.
Sara Rivera I can relate!
R&B used to be so good!
Yup
God does things for a reason but until we start looking at what put us there in the beginning it the going back thats killing us keep the faith and fall down
Been thru many heartache and pain for far too long and now he want to do right now. And its far too late 😢I love him but i can't be with him anymore. Don't wanna try no more about just had enough its been a rough road baby just let it go 😢😢😢
I have been hurt so many times by just one person....Now I'm really drained , I'm really tired , I'm so fed up and listening to this song gives me the strength to continue to carry on by myself 😊😢😢2024 I'm greatful to God for all I'm going to get through 😢😊😊❤
glad I stopped trying a long time ago because you put me through so much I can't believe I ever fell in love with u because of u I cried day and night for months so now don't try to come back to me because our love is out the door and been gone for a while now I'm a better person done with the shit I put myself through if it weren't for u I would've still been finding people like you who hurt me to the maximum 👏✌
yaritza marie amen! i just left my husband for the same reason. im done trying, he kept insisting that he would change and it always went right back to the same bullshit. im done..
Yaritza Marie same here, years and years of broken promises. It so fkd up that loving women like us get taken for granted and dumass men wana play with our minds. I regret not staying gone the first time I left him. It's been monts this time and I'm a better stronger independent woman doing it all for my kids.
+Valeria Villarreal I feel the same way y'all I done trying
Yaritza Estrada 😣💦
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I have been taught the most valuable of lessons about love --- The way you did me in the end and just took off and left with I loved - it hurt enough to have kept me single for this long - I have grown customed to it now being alone - and I've got so much just starting, I won't have time to be with anyone ! What I felt for the past 5yrs, I never wanna go through or feel again ! I used to say "I fear dying alone" ! Now I say "I'd rather be alone and die without a soul by my side, then to let another person have me feeling the way I did when half of my family walked out of my life to never be seen or heard from again" !
I totally feel this song right now ... going through my 4th year with this amazing how pride and double standards can destroy a beautiful relationship
Love. It's a powerful and passionate feeling but it comes with so much pain.
One mans trash is another mans treasure. That says so much I've experienced it and some people just never know what they have. Then when someone get fed up and walk out they see what they had. But at the same time if you have a girlfriend or boyfriend that is there with you and is loyal I don't see the reason to have another girl like it's not a game choose who you want to be with and if you gonna cheat let him or her go and don't be a bit*h. Sometimes peoo OK we got to put theirseoves in others shoes like what if they cheated on you how would that make you feel
This is a beautiful song brought tears to my eyes
Who is listening in 2024/2025?
all the way from Zimbabwe, I just love it
This song really helped me with my life and I love someone who has my heart and break my heart and this song realize that they love me and forgive me already I will reunite with her in 2 months she have no idea that I going to see her again wish me luck
Me cuz my baby momma left me for taller dude.lmfao.
2020 lol
Meeeee
Damn Frankie, got me in tears I felt every word... so accurate to my previous relationship. I finally had the courage to leave him. It wasnt easy but I finally did it !!
Omg Taeyang
NaYu
The Red Dolsot ac
Still listening to this song ♥️♥️
This song fits so perfectly. We were together for 4 years. We had a beautiful daughter together. But things didn't work out. He ended up hurting me in the end. We've been broke up for almost a week now and he keeps asking for me back everyday. I can't keep putting myself through pain. It's not healthy for me and not healthy for my baby girl to be around. So if you have a kid with someone and aren't happy with that person don't be afraid to leave. If you stay any longer it will make everything worse. I didn't want to leave because I loved him at one point and we had a daughter together. But then I realized that just because we had a kid together don't mean I have to stay. If you are unhappy that's what your kid/kids are going to grow up and see. Don't do it to urself or your children.
Alyssa Faye baby Girl you got it on this passage. I have a son and his mom was always on the drama fighting trying to put my parents out the way. I tried continuously to make it work. But seeing the hurt in my son's eyes because it was always an argument over the dumb shit. We been split almost three months going through divorce and full custody battle I DoD not want to leave because of him. I always wanted him to have his parents at home together. Your right bae don't be afraid to leave it hurts for a long time but hopefully it will heal in the long run.
Sorry fam but I rather just stay single.
If you really love someone you won't stop trying but there is a time where enough is enough if your other half isn't trying and making an effort than you have to just break away...
So true ! I've tried making things work with a man I was with for 10 years but he wasn't putting forth and effort in it so I let him go. The hardest thing to do in my life. But I'm here alive and moving forward.
Stephanie Elvira how do u get the other person to give it another chance like u
very sad
Stephanie Elvira I am going through this right now. She ignores my texts calls...so I stopped hoping she would miss me...but I guess it was not meant to be. ..she changed and says it is my fault. ...there is always two sides to a story and a monkey does not look at its own tail.
You can only work on a relationship alone for so long before you realize love isn't always enuf.
8 years & I'm finally moving on. Im tired of being the only one trying. It hurts, but as long as i have god by my side i know everything will be okay :)
Feeling you on that. Hope you're doing well
everything's going to be Alright hang in there😊❤❤❤❤
So true nobody really knows the pain you go through when they play with your emotions this song has helped me so much realize a lot of things are reading everyone's comment my ex every year just keep playing around and playing around and I finally just had enough had to close the door as much as I love her it's just not healthy and good relationship and it's just wasting time
This is how I feel right now,it hurts when you love someone and they don't love back,it hurts even more when their heart belongs to someone else.
Yes it hurts so much i wish he knew how much i love him
Love this song ❤❤❤
Funny how this song of course is old but how most of us feel due to infidelity, trust issues, etc. but even after the time passed and mistakes made; knowing we are human I still can’t help but keep her close to my heart even knowing us together was toxic and bad.. when you want to be with someone so bad but you know it isn’t good.. self inflicted pain physically and emotionally just to have that happiness for the time being. That’s how we know we are human even if it may seem foolish.. our hearts can make us seem foolish but being caught up in that moment just seems perfect..
Given a woman my all and tried to make us happy for 4 years......its been talks of the end but I just don't want it to happen, I don't want to be alone........but it has to happen and I have to realize I will find someone else in the future that will make it better......
One year and felt like a lifetime when I was with her but I'm grateful to have the memories I have
The worst part is realizing that u were so deep in love and would give anything for someone who lied and played with ur head for so many years. Just kept breaking promises and using you. FUCK LOVE
this is true
Cindy Rodriguez . I know right,i don't like liers
Cindy Rodriguez omg you took the words right out of my mouth.
Cindy Rodriguez I agree
FeliciaRodriguez
Never knew how many people are truly depressed deeply in their heart until coming across these songs. I can definitely say materialism don't bring true happiness!! :-)
Some people are just not meant to be.
Zuleima 😔. I am understanding this now. I'm trying to move on.
me too
Yeah my ex is proof of no effort
Come to me babe
I'm going through some things right now
I have been through hell and back and I made it out alive but Depression takes over and I met one amazing young man and he listens to everything I have to say and never cuts me off unlike the guy I have an understanding with but I can't love him like I used to everything is different I understand completely he lost his sister and 2 months later lost his dad I have lost to my dad shot his self and I was there and I can never get that off my brain but it gets easier but I have been married 2times and both were mentally physical and emotional but my kids seen a lot and I am picking up the pieces hell it is and I'm tired of depression and trust issues and being belittled and I just need a God to guide me and put a Good man in our lives if its meant to be! Amen
💔 You know it's best for us both. I hope I find a love like I had for you. I won't look though. It will find me if it's meant to be.
Love Haze
shirrie evans yes
Love Haze 844-1224 I hope I do
Love Haze I'm sorry
Still listenin in 2020. Still love this song 😍😍💕💯
2024 😭 who listening
Never give in! Never give up! Always look up with thanksgiving in your ❤️. If I didn't TRY 15x's to clean. I could be dead.
Throw back but how I feel today 2016 and listening to this heavily tonight 👏🏻👏🏻 .......... Six years down the drain and finally don't wanna try no more with you (DONE)
I remember this!!!! 🔥
Finally letting go after 6 years thank u for our beautiful kids though 😩😄
This intro is better than the other versions of this song.
I feel exactly like this.....I've bin through too much crap...almost five years n not being appreciated. Sigh :(
I stoped trying....you took me for granted...loved your kids like my own...gave you my heart and you threw it away.
2 years 😥🖕🏼no more chances god is telling me he's not the one 🙌🏽
my current situation...I feel u on that one
Miss music like this🥹 beautiful vocals❤️
I was married to someone who abused me every way he could... after the last thing that happened I finally had enough.. I tried for over a year to get a divorce and finally he's giving me one after I became pregnant by my boyfriend.. now my boyfriend is a real man!!! so glad God sent him to me
Amanda Marie I was in a similar relationship
Amen
I send this to you. This song reminds me of you . I would have been there for you and loved you more than anyone in the world. I don't want to try anymore . Where did it ever get me . Disrespect ,lies ,and much more. You gave nothing to hold on to. You gave me no choice but to walk away. Cuz I want somebody in my life that I can love and they can love me and they're not afraid to say that to my face. I wish you happiness and all the things in life that doesn't cost anything, because that's what's important. God bless you
when u tried enough and the relationship has taken it's toll it's time to let go stop trying 😢
when you realize you never really been inlove. when you sit back and see how you let them treat you. you wouldnt hurt someone you love nor would want to see them cry. finally can say im happy alone.
Everyone has had someone that they wanted to keep pushing for and trying so hard. But sometimes it can cause more damage to desperately hold on.
Dis jam got me in me feels 😢
sometimes songs speak so well to you .... 5 years of being with someone who made you feel like the only woman in the world no worry butterflies head in the clouds but all the time that u are loving this person they were loving someone that they worked with coming home with lies beyond lies telling me its only you but the whole time he was buliding a realtionship with the lady at his job we had a child who is now 8 at the time she was only a few months old sometimes i wonder what if but thats the past xoxo
This song really hits home what else can you do when the other person is not working with you I have been in a relationship for 6 years with my last kid's father it was a battle with him with no understanding i suffer mental physical verbal abuse and then life took a toll he got locked up and Still was by his side through the whole process came home changed on me started doing the things that he was doing before he went to jail and what can you do when you are tired and the pain is burying inside of you I pray everyday to God to take the pain away and he's doing just that but going back will never be an option the only thing that really affects me is my kids not really having that true father that they need but I am praying God remove that feeling too🙏💔😔😢
listening to this in my bathroom crying cause I put 5 years in for nothing I kept trying to make it works it just not worth it anymore this relationship is killing me everywhere possible
Allissa Lamp that's exactly what I'm doing, crying in my bathroom while my kids are asleep and he's passed out drunk
Just let it go. God will take care of it.
😭
I'm in the same spot he calls me the worst names ever.and he's a tweeker 😔10 years of hell.
Going on 16 years later. Still think of her every now and then. But its in the past and she moved on
💔💔 I got tired Of trying , the more I showed you I love you the more You Hurt Me , you took my love for granted because you thought I'll Always come back , I enjoyed the times we shared and the family we made , But I Couldn't take the pain anymore I'll Always Love You Tiara I Just Can't Let You See Me Sweat I Have To Act Like I Don't Care Now 😔 I Wish You Nothing But Happiness I Don't Wanna Try No More Its To Much Pain ! PS My First Love
Bicellous Higgs love hurts!!! sorry you went through so much PAIN!! you'll find someone who deserves you one day.... count on it !! blessings !! 🙁🙁🙁💔
Bicellous Higgs exactly they keep treating u so bad and doing the same shit over and over because they think you will never leave. well I don't want to try anymore and one day he will wake up and his family will be gone
Bicellous Higgs I know wT you mean 32 yrs of marriage IV given up so I'm single for 3 months now. Happy just it hurts in time..
I’m Happy Now Letting The Hurt Go Was The Best Thing That EVER Happened To Me !!!!!!! Thank You God
Rachel Feliciano I Found Somebody ❤️❤️❤️ My Daughter And She Means The WORLD To Me . Thanks For The Advice !
3 years. 3 years of my life I devoted to my last relationship. I looked into her eyes every morning. As time went by, she started looking somewhere else. Everytime I hear this song, I tear up. The pain is unbearable when I hear this song. But I need to. it reminds me that things can always get better.
Comes a point where they give a reason to quit trying, so we have no choice to stop.
Going into 2020 and still jam out to this song
this is how I'm feeling but I love him n been thru so much it's dumb to give up. I hope we work out our differences.
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am adored...yet I wanted it to be him that adored me...sooooo DONE
I had to let go of a man that i was truly in love with and it was one of the hardest thongs i had too do. Thru out a year i took him back over 20 times and it never changed, so i had to sit back and realize my self worth and my happiness. So god showed me that he was not one for me no matter how much i was in love with him,so now i must listen to my higher power Lord jesus christ and remove myself away from him. I think about him all the time day and night but i chose my self worth over how much i loved him. I will always love him but i pray he gets help so he can have a healthy relationship one day with someone else.
Noelia Arkansas the same thing happened to my mom stay strong❤
I miss songs like this. Some of the best music was made in the 90s
He love Drugs more than me I miss him but i just can't anymore
I feel ya!!
damn all bad
missbetbanks I feel you. Time to let go
missbetbanks mine too I cry everyday we have a baby girl I love him seven years but he hot disrespectful to make me feel like shit
missbetbanks I am in the sammmme boat. Over four years . Never ends I wish u the very best . I had to let go
amazing how these songs came out before we even knew what they really meant now we see !
Crazy I'm still in love with him but I have to let it go
Kimia Nation this made me cry I'm going through same thing right Now
Kimia Nation I'm going through that now just a few minutes ago
Kimia Nation been there n now how you feel
Same n im 2 months pregnant :/
Kimia Nation same here
Thank you the lord for bringing her back to me I was lost without you thank you again 😃👍
When u try, n try, n the other person dont wanna try anymore thats when you just let go..... n say duces im Done!"✌👋
and that's when they begin to try
if onlyyy brooooo.
He walked away I wish I woulda faced the fact that he never truly loved me a long time ago I let my guard down and I regret that. I trusted him and he hurt me more than anybody I know. But I still pray that he finds what he wants in life, but ultimately I hope God is on that path and if not here I wanna see him in heaven I don’t hate him I’m just hurting a lot. I pray God keep on being my strength and helps me move forward I’m trying to let go. I wanna heal and be a mom one day and I don’t wanna keep feeling this hurt. Keep being my strength God🙏 Forever Gd
November 2017..who still listening?
Never stop trying, never give up on love. Some spend a lifetime looking and never get to experience the joy, pain, everything that a person goes through when they give their heart to another. In today it's so rare for love to last so few realize just how precious it is to be given the chance to experience love. True love, the kind that makes you breakable. More times than not you'll find yourself in the worst pain imaginable. Folks just don't take care of what they were blessed with, never appreciating this gift until it's walking out the door. It's too late, don't wait till then to salvage what you'll die without. Don't wait till it's over and your in a panic trying to figure out what happened, trying to save what's gone. You'll set alone in regret and remorse and some never make it back. They fall victim to heartache and pay the ultimate price. Don't wait, grab hold of what you have and Don't let go. Fight like hell to keep it. If it's real and from God then don't let go so easily. Fight for love it's so worth it.
love this song.
Everytime I listen to this I feel it more and more.
How do I even begin to compare the heartbreak I'm having I tried to fight for you for us...and it's like a dead end I can't suffer any longer😒😢😢😭
Tiffany rubia im going threw that now
It sucks nikki😢but like job marley said you have to be strong when your only choice is to be strong . We don't deserve this b.s. we deserve better . Damn it
One of the best throwback songs. I use to have this song on repeat.
damn this song hits home way to close tonight....... wish I understood how we got to this point......
this song reminds me of my son's bio dad.. dang we were hella young..our son will be 24 in May..dang..where does the time go?? i miss you Dominic Suazo. Keep yo head-up baby doll..ur in my heart and prayers always...
This song is so depressing, I cry every time I hear it. I can't take back what I've done. All I can say is sorry && Move on. . He's the one that got away.. I miss you
no matter how old ANY of these songs are, I still live them... they always get me in feelings tho 😂
love this song but sad😢
Still listening to in 2018 😢😢
I love this song
Now feeling like this song!
damn I felt that
Don’t want to try no more!!! Into this song 🎤🎧🎼 right now ! All we do is fight !!! Let it go ! Don’t want to try no more !!!!
People are breaking down in these comments lol.Every relationship is a lesson (good or bad).
Exactly !
Jovanni Barinas your kids want you
My last relationship was so bad
That's right but peoples need to understand things first, cuz we're all unique in different ways 😆
J B yes so truthb