Ericka was so excited it was hard for her to be quiet. He made her feel human and gave her a safe space to be herself. Shot out to Cam for his patience, and honesty. What I gathered from the interview was, at the end of the day, just like all of us, Ericka just wants to be loved.
@@RobbieLeww Love starts from within, she needs to learn to love herself first and stop looking for in others. She wasn't just "excited" like you claim she was erratic and belligerent.
Cam giving relationship advice is wild. He told her he’s not missing anything because he came from a strong family background with both parents and a grandmother but he’s obviously lacking something. Several baby mamas and not married to any! I don’t care how much he tries to dress it up and make it “funky!” SOMETHING IS MISSING!
Exactly!! i said the same thing!! "He standing on business about his low functioning behavior"... Nobody's perfect , but all I here is excuses, about being the way he is.... Its like he feels as though as long as he's communicating and upfront about his weaknesses, Its Enough... when really you being faithful and honest in a relationship is "BASIC" its the least you can do as a decent human... #CrazyWork
@ This man is the reason why I’m staying single and celibate. A high value man has nothing to do with your pockets alone it’s one thing but a lot of it has to do with your mindset and this man’s mindset is in the dustbin😩😂.
Erica has deep rooted pain, and it's out there for all to see, I wish for her and anyone who has this kind of pain, to at least start a journal, on to a journey of healing, we all have had or have some kind of unresolved issues in this life time, because this is a cold cold world!!. I wish everyone inner peace 😊 ❤
And it is so sad, but we all know where she get this deep, rooted pain from the music industry! at a young age. They ran through her🤦🏾♀️and destroyed her🥹That’s why she is the evil menace that she is today!
Cam brings the natural energy of conversation. No sugar coat, no false bottom of what the interview looks for. It just flows the way it needs to and you as the person who watches the show builds your own interpretation of what u want others to see.
I love how comfortable Erica is. Having a man know how to talk to you is really all us women be needing. Even tho Erica talked a lot and sometimes cut him off, Cam didn’t once make her feel bad about it. And still led the conversation very well.
Cam she's telling she's done everything she could do to save her marriage. When Erica said im still constantly praying for this man because of my kids that should've been the end of any other question.
It’s not her job to stick around and try to help him get better. She’s not a therapist. People need to learn to heal before getting into relationships.
Thank you for this comment. A person has to meet you at least halfway when they want to move forward as a couple. Forced help with no desire to change leads to a broken relationship.
She is an aggressive talker, she was talking over him so much it made me frustrated. But he maintained his composure throughout the interview (much respect to you Cam)
Cam most women can handle the TRUTH, but most men aren't mature enough to realize it's best to be Honest. Cam, I respect you more now because of your honesty and putting the bs aside for your children. Until the day my dad died, he didn't make things right with my brothers and I. To this day, it still affects me. Thank you for being a Great dad!! Much Love! #THEWHISONANTS
I love Cam to def, BUT he seems to want women to put in so much work to fix these broken men. That can be so frustrating. Men need to grow up and put in the work.
How can a woman in this time not hate that man if she is dating a fixer upper? You will resent him for his short comings or lack of accountability for what choices he's making with his life. Stuff will have you feeling like your not wire right. I wish Cam will just thank god some one took a chance on him and let that ship sail for the rest.
@@paulaz0904 So broken men / broken women? Cause more than less women have Daddy and Mommy issues and ain’t never went to therapy or been healed. Yet have a checklist for a high value healed spiritually and emotionally mature man, and want him to provide and not present to her 50/50. So how sway? Cam is telling women how to deal with the man they are with, cause nobody taught them, or they haven’t learned. Sorry if that comes off harsh, but elders stayed married cause they stood together and through brokenness. They created and raised families. Women these days can’t even get married, before being a BM. Truth is all the unbroken men , MAY show you a good time, but won’t waste much time on a broken woman, cause she ain’t did the work. Cute and a career ain’t always enough for a man.
Interviewing Erica Mena wasn’t easy but Cam kept his poise and remained consistent. However there were times when I saw the exhaustion on his face. 😢🎉👏🏾👍🏾
Omg right?! I do like her, a lot actually but throughout this whole interview I just kept wanting her to stop cutting him off, shut tf up and truly listen.
“How has mother hood influenced the women you are today” has to be such an underrated question cause it truly changes our lives drastically. And not enough positive conversations are had about motherhood. Well done CAM ❤❤❤
I love Erica and I’m rooting for her successful comeback. Touché to her first son’s father for reminding her that she’s strong and she did it before and she can do it again. A failed marriage makes you feel like a total failure especially if you are left wanting to fix your marriage but the other person wants out. I’m going to watch her Tubi movies again. I hope her therapist helps her learn to quiet her spirit and learn the importance of really listening and being in the moment
Cam’s interview style is next level. Erica Mens has a lot of energy and she doesn’t listen. At times this was hard to watch but overall a good interview.
The ill placed laughter is sending me... CaM... you are THAT GUY‼️‼️‼️... because the way you maintained your poise and grace... the way you equalized the energy with your masculinity, intellect and professionalism... is unmatched...
@verda7856 the talentless OVER ACTING... the over emphatic energy and over talking... the non existent vocals... the lack of social etiquette... and THAT OVERT, ILL-PLACED, FORCED LAUGHTER... I JUSTTTTTTTTT‼️‼️‼️‼️😩😒😫😮💨😵💫
Intimacy is more than just sex. I really enjoyed this conversation. When women say, “hey, we need to fix this or we’re gonna get a divorce” It is a scream for help.
Erica is beautiful and a true Scorpio! When she said the truth turns her own she’s not lying!!! Ppl hate on her but God blessed her because of her honesty just my opinion.
Everyone makes mistakes throughout life . Erica Mena is beautiful and I’m glad she was able to get out of that depression to be there fully for her babies . Great interview!
Safari is just a walking bill board "TOTAL WASTE OF TIME" !!!! Went in hard then couldn't/wouldn't bk it up!!!! Awakening the love n not holding a space 4 it. He's seriously absolutely a sad excuse 4 a man. The way he conducted himself the whole relationship was grimy n nasty......he absolutely knew what he was doing throughout , no1 can tell me any different 🙄 He's a SORRY excuse of a partner/father n friend. He's 4 the trash never mind the street's . Just throw him away n be done with it......NEXT. He done Erica n the kids so wrong He committed a mortal sin on2 his wife.....that then projected on2 his children. Just so very sad that she took him serious n brought life with him in2 this world Just really so very sad. 😔
Believe me when I say she truly heard him.. I tend to overtalk that's the only reason why I say this. At the end of the day we listen even when you think we don't.
Yes why is she still talking about the same thing her ex husband did to get her attention...yet it didn't work out but want the same thing done again.Oh Chile
erica's honesty about safaree is so pure ,because the yrs between her first son and her two kids in marriage tells me she was waiting for marriage and family and that man did her worse than she expected ,plus post partum depression. i understand her too well now
Erica Mena is a toxic female that no man should marry or have as a girlfriend. Can't believe safari married this woman. What the hell was he thinking about
I'm not a huge Erica fan but she is such an interesting person and very entertaining. Very impressed with Cam for having her on his show, it adds to the diversity of the guests and also it was clearly good for Erica's self esteem to be on the show. So all in all a great episode.
Cam, I enjoyed the conversation you had with Erica Mena. She was comfortable talking to you. When Erica started talking about her children, she was passionate. Cam was patient and honest with Erica on all levels. Cam allowed her to have her space. 😊❤.
This is one of the best interviews I have seen and I love Erica’s growth. I feel her with not being there with her oldest missing time does create trauma as a mom. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This interview is a good look inside of why Erica is not married. She doesn’t listen to hear, she isn’t subservient at all in any way and she is just all over the place. She has a lot of growing up and maturing to do; and I pray it happens sooner rather than later for her kids sake.
@@19Kryss85 that and the fact that she very gladly would be with either women or men, all depends on the "connection" she feels, it was only a matter of time before she cheated on Safaree, imagine being a husband to that no wonder he dipped 🤷🏻♀️
What Spice said to Erica about her own child not liking her would trigger ANY mother. That was wayyyyy below the belt. Yet, women didn’t seem to be about what Spice said to trigger her. Crazy!
I agree what she said was triggering, but Erica has said It more than once’s on tv that her and her son don’t get along, as well as spice don’t want that man but to Erica she thought spice was enabling him but on the real she was telling him about himself but i think both Erica and safree aren’t fully honest about what there doin when It comes to them co parenting
*I personally love Erica I think she’s so down to earth, funny & she has a real big heart and a out going personality. I don’t get what people don’t like about her. And I agree with Erica honesty is a turn on even if it hurts because you’re showing you care and you respect me by being honest people don’t understand honesty is loyalty to us*
When he asked where is she from and pondered on the right wording while looking at her complex face I immediately thought she is from a broken, dark, chaotic place.
I can still hear the hurt in Erica voice when she talks about loving Safari , and wanting things to work for them . We might see the tough , rowdy side of her because that’s what the cameras want us to see . She prayed for that man and did what she could for him to no avail and that hurts . I pray for her healing and I pray that everything works out in the end ❤
@@bucketlistbeauty9584 she has a call and response style of communication. It’s how she takes on information. As a therapist I see people with this style of interaction/communication.
I know it will forever be difficult for some to believe anything she says or believe her when she shows emotion because of the “character” she played on love and hip hop as well as the shenanigans she shows on social media 😂 like they say nobody is interested in the reality when a lie and facade is way more entertaining! She created a character like most celeb and non celeb, that she will forever be known for no matter what improvements she makes and I think ppl like her who want the attention are ok with that because she has ppl in her life that know her real side. We don’t know her real side and frankly most ppl don’t care about her real side and that’s how a lot of ppl feel about “celebrities”.
Regardless if you think Cam has any nerve to give relationship advice, I commend him for exhibiting patience during this interview. This was a hard listen, but Cam did well to keep things on track
Erica YOU ARE A MOTHER!!!!! When will your kids be FIRST? It's more to you than your body. I pray you soul search heal and find yourself. If not for you at least for your children. ALL prayers and love sent your way.
This ended up pretty good!!yes he was very patient with her.and we also got to know something’s about cam❤❤I’m sure this was the longest funky Friday ever!!
All the little parts where she start sanginnn 😂😂 now we see why Liv took that record “December” so easily on LHHNY. Rich said “NOPE, not on my watch” 💀
Well I’m 1 hr in and I just can’t connect with the conversations, Erica remind me of that one lady in the bar that just be talking by the end of the convo you feel like what did I just engage in????
😂😂😂😂 yesss omg Erica is annoying to listen too, too hyper and thirsty, I bet she wanted Cam to say he was gonna hook her up with one of his friends 😂😂😂but she too dramatic
She’s had a lot of trauma in her life in the past. Not that I’m trying to justify. But she probably suffers from PTSD and that can make a person hyper like that. I have it and my mom be telling me to calm down at times cause I be all over the place at times too. I hope she continues therapy. 🙏🏽
I'm so glad he spoke to her about the co parenting and what she does can affect the kids even if they don't know it so keep everything off the Internet Erica everything doesn't need a reaction it's all about the kids
This is why I loved when KS would ask women, “If I called up your ex right now, what would he say about you?” 3 sides to every story. Erica does not take accountability too well.
She’s very different when she’s not talking I’m trying to be kind, but she’s so animated. It changes her whole look and energy into a different person.
@@ShakiaCunningham I’m only 9 minutes in and I see she dances around a lot of questions. Just answer them as truthfully as possible if you’re going to come on the show. And this interview is over 2 1/2 hours long. Lol 🫣😂 I’m sure she’s endured a ton of hurt/disappointments from her upbringing and from former relationships. At some point, she really has to heal, forgive and no longer repeat the toxic cycle of conflicts and behavioral outbursts. And I’m glad she’s realizing here in some ways she can see her mom in herself. That’s a huge starting point. Alright… let me get back to watching this. Let’s see if I finish it in entirety. Lol
But she’s created so much karma for herself on reality tv, imagine in real life and other years… what did she do to get famous cause she protects her own… very weird girl. Beautiful but very broken. And it’s sad.
This interview was beautiful to me! I got to be honest I never really cared for Erica because of the portrayal of how she carried herself on TV. But I have different respect for her and just the way she is. Cam this is one of your best interviews yet! I loved this. This interview was special!
I’m praying for Erica. She is super thin and doesn’t look healthy. And I really hope that she gets to a totally mental and physical healthy space. Her babies need her to be better and she needs to be better for herself. It’s clear she was very hurt and gave till there was nothing left. I truly hope this is a healing time for her. ❤️🙏
She defenitly lying about she aint never cheated on no1. We saw that with cyn n rich dollars. She has even said on multiple occassions she s garden tool n wants multiple partners and she open to open relationships. Cut it out Erica, u are not real fr..
Facts let safaree come up there and speak his piece cuz it’s very one sided she lied about him not being at the hospital when legend was born safaree was there and his mom so she cappin about that
@@karimamarshall7460 she cheated on Cyn Santana with Lil’ Bow Wow, to make it worse it was televised on TV!!! 106 and Park when he was hosting, possibly, don’t quote me on the 106 and Park part tho…💯💯💯
@@karimamarshall7460 Had the audacity to say she hates liars, and how men just can’t stop lying! Like ma’am, are you foreal? You’re a professional liar! Lmao We literally watched you lie every season of Love & hip hop while dating Rich & Cyn! 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️…..And didn’t have a care in the world about hurting anyone’s feelings or breaking their hearts with all those lies! lol smh
Being married to a Muslim isn’t for the weak. A woman has to cover.. how will that work. Etc. that’s oppressive for lots of women. Religion and believing in the most without religion is two different things.
@@kaleenajean Plus converting for marriage is completely different than converting for yourself. Especially since her entire lifestyle would be considered a sin in the Muslim world she would have to change her entire life and how she generates her income.
Erica you and the dad did a great job with the oldest and it's ok that you worked to provide. You did great! His dad made sure he was good so it's ok your son loves you regardless just hug him, love him
Man, this was hard to watch and get through. Erica was on 10...thousand! The dancing, antics, being loud AF, and constant interruptions were cringe worthy. Like a car accident, I just couldn't look away though. Respect to Cam for keeping his composure and also exhibiting a LOT of patience.
Erica made interview cringe af 💀 she kept cutting that man off and wouldn’t let him finish a sentence most of the time. Could only imagine being in relationship with her. 🤷🏽♂️ she also didn’t soak in nothing he said, she was to busy trying to debunk it or explain it. Cam was definitely annoyed. 95% of what he said went over her head. She was also to loud and animated, literally the opposite of feminine. 🤷🏽♂️
You are correct. Most men don't say baby this is how I'm feeling, or I'm going through something right now, or baby I need this from you. You can't nurture the emotions of a mate when they hide emotions and arw not honest.
I didn't know what to expect from this interview. But this was really a Great interview on you Cam as the interviewer I think it brought the best out of you. And She was really Great. This was on Kat Williams Level. Awesome
@@tmw710 it is a hustle tho whether you respect it or not. Im certainly no fan of Erica but she is a hustler. She utilized her looks & reality tv to make millions thats hustling. Once again it might not be respected by most but it is indeed a hustle
Erica Mena one of my favorite actresses. I seen her in a Tubi movie directed by Chris Stokes, and ended up watching every movie she had on Tubi. I had no idea how good she was. There are a lot of people that are talented in multiple areas but because there are so many haters out there most never get an opportunity. Big up to Chris Stokes, for giving her that opportunity and Big up to Cam Newton for allowing her to be on his platform.
lol good actress? Lol most of the movies she starred in shr was playing herself, there’s no difference from her character and who she is in person. A good actress is diverse and can adapt to many different roles and they are entirely different from who they play. So your comment is slightly off.
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Ericka was so excited it was hard for her to be quiet. He made her feel human and gave her a safe space to be herself. Shot out to Cam for his patience, and honesty. What I gathered from the interview was, at the end of the day, just like all of us, Ericka just wants to be loved.
Yes, thank you for honestly saying the truth. I really wish people like Tasha K would be cancelled.
Yes I believe that as well.
@@RobbieLeww Love starts from within, she needs to learn to love herself first and stop looking for in others. She wasn't just "excited" like you claim she was erratic and belligerent.
And we all deserve grace
She's cooked.
I cracked up when he asked "Where you from?" and she went on a rant about her mind, manifestation, etc. Girl, that's not what he was asking! LOL
“Where are you from?”….
“A place of dreams ❤️”
😂😂😂😂
Girl cuz WHERE ARE YOU FROM,?! lol
@@paige4128 Erica is dumb ass hell
She def. not from the Bronx why she lying
Skipped right past that part. Timestamps would be great
You can tell Erica be at home with her kids and this was a night out and she enjoyed herself.
Why she so skinny.. now?
@@ElaineKi shut up
@@diamondscloudznizcream9839thank you
She's finally being forced to enter a mother.
She at home playing with that buga suga. She need arm lipo..now
Cam giving relationship advice is wild. He told her he’s not missing anything because he came from a strong family background with both parents and a grandmother but he’s obviously lacking something. Several baby mamas and not married to any! I don’t care how much he tries to dress it up and make it “funky!” SOMETHING IS MISSING!
Well said. Totally!
@@ericaepps4960 he did mention that he was longing for something.
@@ericaepps4960 I agree
Absolutely
Get married for what? As long as both parents have the best interest for the kids and get along marriage is just but a moniker
After watching Dr Bryant’s interview with Cam, watching Cam give advice to Erica is wild
@@yasminmabaso3931 I couldn't watch that whole interview lol
Honey you ain't never lied😂I thought it was just me like how's he giving advice 🤦🏾♀️
Exactly!! i said the same thing!! "He standing on business about his low functioning behavior"... Nobody's perfect , but all I here is excuses, about being the way he is.... Its like he feels as though as long as he's communicating and upfront about his weaknesses, Its Enough... when really you being faithful and honest in a relationship is "BASIC" its the least you can do as a decent human... #CrazyWork
@ This man is the reason why I’m staying single and celibate. A high value man has nothing to do with your pockets alone it’s one thing but a lot of it has to do with your mindset and this man’s mindset is in the dustbin😩😂.
Erica has deep rooted pain, and it's out there for all to see, I wish for her and anyone who has this kind of pain, to at least start a journal, on to a journey of healing, we all have had or have some kind of unresolved issues in this life time, because this is a cold cold world!!. I wish everyone inner peace 😊 ❤
And it is so sad, but we all know where she get this deep, rooted pain from the music industry! at a young age. They ran through her🤦🏾♀️and destroyed her🥹That’s why she is the evil menace that she is today!
Peace and blessings to you❤
I agree she needs to go to the dark places she’ll be a lot more free for it. You can see she hasn’t done the work.
Cam is so gentle, but direct. I love and respect him ❤️
@@bandieebee4997 sooo gentle!
If course he’s a Taurus.
Erica did a good job opening up. I pray she gets healing.❤
Cam brings the natural energy of conversation. No sugar coat, no false bottom of what the interview looks for. It just flows the way it needs to and you as the person who watches the show builds your own interpretation of what u want others to see.
I love how comfortable Erica is. Having a man know how to talk to you is really all us women be needing. Even tho Erica talked a lot and sometimes cut him off, Cam didn’t once make her feel bad about it. And still led the conversation very well.
Cam she's telling she's done everything she could do to save her marriage. When Erica said im still constantly praying for this man because of my kids that should've been the end of any other question.
You believing this is weird
I agree 💯
AMEN♥
@@carolkeith8572 she cheered when she got solo custody
Lawddddd Jesus watching this interview has taught me to listen and not talk over people.
@@MiaNixon-n1l me tooooo....I can barely make it through the interview with her talking over him.....
Yeah, rough watch for surrrre
Looking at these comments yall don’t know how to listen to a POV you don’t want to hear
gave me anxiety
@@MiaNixon-n1l this is her interview tho, I learned so much about Cam by him asking questions he wanted her to answer. I don’t get it
It’s not her job to stick around and try to help him get better. She’s not a therapist. People need to learn to heal before getting into relationships.
Agreed 100%! Men wants a second mama not a girlfriend/wife.
@@juanjuan2xwomen can’t tell the difference
@@juanjuan2xThank you!! It’s absolutely ridiculous.
Thank you for this comment. A person has to meet you at least halfway when they want to move forward as a couple. Forced help with no desire to change leads to a broken relationship.
Exactly he wasn't getting it.
DAMN ERICA girl I was rooting for you. you kept talking over him and not letting him give you gems.
She is an aggressive talker, she was talking over him so much it made me frustrated. But he maintained his composure throughout the interview (much respect to you Cam)
Very aggressive that’s a turn off ew 😵💫 he was so annoyed but def kept his composure. She was hiiii like she gave cokey vibes😂😂😂
All over the place
Cam most women can handle the TRUTH, but most men aren't mature enough to realize it's best to be Honest. Cam, I respect you more now because of your honesty and putting the bs aside for your children. Until the day my dad died, he didn't make things right with my brothers and I. To this day, it still affects me. Thank you for being a Great dad!! Much Love! #THEWHISONANTS
I love Cam to def, BUT he seems to want women to put in so much work to fix these broken men. That can be so frustrating. Men need to grow up and put in the work.
Yesssss! Geez
Indeed
🤣🤣🤣yall dont have respect for yall self or men. Exactly why yall single bm
How can a woman in this time not hate that man if she is dating a fixer upper? You will resent him for his short comings or lack of accountability for what choices he's making with his life. Stuff will have you feeling like your not wire right. I wish Cam will just thank god some one took a chance on him and let that ship sail for the rest.
@@paulaz0904 So broken men / broken women? Cause more than less women have Daddy and Mommy issues and ain’t never went to therapy or been healed. Yet have a checklist for a high value healed spiritually and emotionally mature man, and want him to provide and not present to her 50/50. So how sway? Cam is telling women how to deal with the man they are with, cause nobody taught them, or they haven’t learned. Sorry if that comes off harsh, but elders stayed married cause they stood together and through brokenness. They created and raised families. Women these days can’t even get married, before being a BM. Truth is all the unbroken men , MAY show you a good time, but won’t waste much time on a broken woman, cause she ain’t did the work. Cute and a career ain’t always enough for a man.
Delusion, substance abuse, narcissistic behavior, attention seeking, ignorance, toxic environments, Anger, lack of accountability, victim, sexuality. Mental health is important.
BINGO!!!!
👀🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
It’s this ☝🏼 spot on!!
All of this!!!
@@JaneDoe-iw8un FACTZ!
Interviewing Erica Mena wasn’t easy but Cam kept his poise and remained consistent. However there were times when I saw the exhaustion on his face. 😢🎉👏🏾👍🏾
I respect Erica for speaking and standing up for Palestine 🇵🇸 👏🏽 🙌🏽 👌🏽 💪🏽 💯 love you!!!
When Erica is comfortable she doesn't shut up. Thats her downfall. She just need to listen more so that her responses are consistent
@@nysejace868 she reminds me of Sky from black ink crew New York.
Omg right?! I do like her, a lot actually but throughout this whole interview I just kept wanting her to stop cutting him off, shut tf up and truly listen.
I also think it’s sorta funny and very ironic that she is playing a deaf woman in her upcoming project
I needed to read this. Thank you ❤
its bc she is clinically mentally ill, bipolar and she is probably not on her meds
Erica needed this interview, she still has things to work on but who doesn't, Erica you gonna be alright just keep pushing through
“How has mother hood influenced the women you are today” has to be such an underrated question cause it truly changes our lives drastically. And not enough positive conversations are had about motherhood. Well done CAM ❤❤❤
It couldn't have change her that much... On how she's still publicly behaving. It reflects on her child poorly.
I love Erica and I’m rooting for her successful comeback. Touché to her first son’s father for reminding her that she’s strong and she did it before and she can do it again. A failed marriage makes you feel like a total failure especially if you are left wanting to fix your marriage but the other person wants out. I’m going to watch her Tubi movies again. I hope her therapist helps her learn to quiet her spirit and learn the importance of really listening and being in the moment
I like that she's just herself Erica never be what people want you to be because I see a lot of critics just be you we're all growing and learning❤
Cam’s interview style is next level. Erica Mens has a lot of energy and she doesn’t listen. At times this was hard to watch but overall a good interview.
It was definitely hard to watch!!
That's that cocaine 😳 😂😂😂😂 one Hell of a drug 😅😅😅..
That's BIG Scorpio ♏️ energy. 💪🏾
@@SincereGiggles Spot On❗
This is the comment I came to write...wheeeeeewwwww she does NOT listen lol
Erica needs to make therapy a lifetime investment . The entire interview is a 7, but Cam 10 out 10 . Great questions and feedback
No fr😂😂❤
The ill placed laughter is sending me... CaM... you are THAT GUY‼️‼️‼️... because the way you maintained your poise and grace... the way you equalized the energy with your masculinity, intellect and professionalism... is unmatched...
The misplaced laughter and hair touching is weird. Its like a bad acting job
@verda7856 the talentless OVER ACTING... the over emphatic energy and over talking... the non existent vocals... the lack of social etiquette... and THAT OVERT, ILL-PLACED, FORCED LAUGHTER... I JUSTTTTTTTTT‼️‼️‼️‼️😩😒😫😮💨😵💫
@verda7856 Omg! So glad I'm not the only one. My facial expressions would've been everything because she's too much
@@Mahogonykisses 😭😭😭 I am getting second hand embarrassment
Cringy
Intimacy is more than just sex. I really enjoyed this conversation. When women say, “hey, we need to fix this or we’re gonna get a divorce” It is a scream for help.
Erica is beautiful and a true Scorpio! When she said the truth turns her own she’s not lying!!! Ppl hate on her but God blessed her because of her honesty just my opinion.
Everyone makes mistakes throughout life . Erica Mena is beautiful and I’m glad she was able to get out of that depression to be there fully for her babies . Great interview!
I still can’t believe Safari was so persistent and wasn’t serious
That's because he had an agenda. Mission accomplished. Erica is no longer needed. Sad but true.
That's usually how it go ❤ persistent to waste your time.
@@stewartforeal1079 but to marry someone and have kids is crazy as hell. Trying to get pum pum is one thing 🤦♀️
Narc
Safari is just a walking bill board "TOTAL WASTE OF TIME" !!!!
Went in hard then couldn't/wouldn't bk it up!!!!
Awakening the love n not holding a space 4 it.
He's seriously absolutely a sad excuse 4 a man.
The way he conducted himself the whole relationship was grimy n nasty......he absolutely knew what he was doing throughout ,
no1 can tell me any different 🙄
He's a SORRY excuse of a partner/father n friend.
He's 4 the trash never mind the street's .
Just throw him away n be done with it......NEXT.
He done Erica n the kids so wrong
He committed a mortal sin on2 his wife.....that then projected on2 his children.
Just so very sad that she took him serious n brought life with him in2 this world
Just really so very sad. 😔
Erica is in the same toxic mental space when she was with Safari. Cam dropped some gems on her but she was too busy over talking Cam she missed it.
I don’t think she would have caught it or understood what he was saying😂If she wasn’t over talking him 😂
Believe me when I say she truly heard him.. I tend to overtalk that's the only reason why I say this. At the end of the day we listen even when you think we don't.
@@elissacooperJustice 🧢
Per usual 🤷🏾♂️
Yes why is she still talking about the same thing her ex husband did to get her attention...yet it didn't work out but want the same thing done again.Oh Chile
Funky has such an amazing Aura! I definitely love him and his persona. His patience, his transparency, his honesty. Love it all !!
erica's honesty about safaree is so pure ,because the yrs between her first son and her two kids in marriage tells me she was waiting for marriage and family and that man did her worse than she expected ,plus post partum depression. i understand her too well now
Erica is an agent of chaos.
😂😂😂😂 you may be right
A lot of people are whether on tv or apart of our everyday life 😂😂😂
@@lumell33 exactly! Well said…
Love her 😂😂
Erica Mena is a toxic female that no man should marry or have as a girlfriend. Can't believe safari married this woman. What the hell was he thinking about
Mena still has her guard up so she can’t receive all this real spill Cam spittin. Heal baby heal. Then you can get with a real one.
Exactly! I'm like Erica girl how are you confused on what Cam is saying, yall the same age!!
I'm not a huge Erica fan but she is such an interesting person and very entertaining.
Very impressed with Cam for having her on his show, it adds to the diversity of the guests and also it was clearly good for Erica's self esteem to be on the show. So all in all a great episode.
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@@user-eu6wp6ws7c😂😂😂 big facts 💯
Super healthy take...seriously ❤
Totally agree, I enjoyed it!
Cam, I enjoyed the conversation you had with Erica Mena. She was comfortable talking to you. When Erica started talking about her children, she was passionate. Cam was patient and honest with Erica on all levels. Cam allowed her to have her space. 😊❤.
This is one of the best interviews I have seen and I love Erica’s growth. I feel her with not being there with her oldest missing time does create trauma as a mom. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Cams advice is inapplicable to her situation. Safaree is immature, and she has to focus on her kids.
This interview is a good look inside of why Erica is not married. She doesn’t listen to hear, she isn’t subservient at all in any way and she is just all over the place. She has a lot of growing up and maturing to do; and I pray it happens sooner rather than later for her kids sake.
She was and divorced
@@19Kryss85 that and the fact that she very gladly would be with either women or men, all depends on the "connection" she feels, it was only a matter of time before she cheated on Safaree, imagine being a husband to that no wonder he dipped 🤷🏻♀️
He knew her for years before he married her. They both played a part in their divorce
It’s none of that yall are weird if you’re not hearing how
Narcissistic her husband was
@@bcherise2520 exactly
Why are men so scared to hold each other accountable especially when it comes to fatherhood. You made excuses for that grown man this whole interview
Its crazy, she can only do so much
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Cuz he cheated and had a baby on the side. He ain't no different
And yet don’t hardly feel the way a mother would if her parenting was attacked or critiqued. So yeah ain’t no reason to be scared MEN
I’m sure it would be the same for her if he was interviewing Safaree
What Spice said to Erica about her own child not liking her would trigger ANY mother. That was wayyyyy below the belt. Yet, women didn’t seem to be about what Spice said to trigger her. Crazy!
Facts
There’s crazy and there’s RACIST!!!
I agree what she said was triggering, but Erica has said It more than once’s on tv that her and her son don’t get along, as well as spice don’t want that man but to Erica she thought spice was enabling him but on the real she was telling him about himself but i think both Erica and safree aren’t fully honest about what there doin when It comes to them co parenting
Triggered or not! She said what she said smh
Spice was out of line
*I personally love Erica I think she’s so down to earth, funny & she has a real big heart and a out going personality. I don’t get what people don’t like about her. And I agree with Erica honesty is a turn on even if it hurts because you’re showing you care and you respect me by being honest people don’t understand honesty is loyalty to us*
Is it me or was she shooting her shot at Cam indirectly this whole interview while fake cheering on his lady.
@@marcelsmith1018 I so agree!
@@marcelsmith1018 most definitely!!!
Hmmm. That crossed my mind for millisecond. Damn! I’m toxic.
I noticed too but I was thinking she is bi too ... she's probably down to be a "throuple" 😂🤷🏽
😂😂😂
This interview with Mena was way better than the one she did with Carlos King. This was raw & authentic.
@@mizzraiford I agree
@@mizzraiford lol there’s nothing “raw” or “authentic” about Miss Mena performing for the cameras. Get real
@@chan2009ifyexactly she's so Fake.
@@chan2009ify Exactly!!!!!
@@charlie4006 very fake
When he asked where is she from and pondered on the right wording while looking at her complex face I immediately thought she is from a broken, dark, chaotic place.
that’s exactly what the bronx is.
No she thought she was doing her big one to get another Tubi movie. 😂
@@Bob-rh4zbnot true
@@Justachigirlexactly ! Cause girl answer the question .
This’s a great interview, Erica has gone through a lot. Well done girl for keeping it together for your children. Take care of yourself ❤️
This was very in depth interview full of gems that can be used in different aspects of life
She didn’t get not one!
She is annoying me … like chill out relax … how many drinks did she have
Thts tht powder candy. 🤣🤣🤣
@@shaiisom6458 lmaooo I was going to say that! I’m like sheeeeeesh, what has she been DRANKIN!!!?!😅
Her movements and actions look more like a drug of choice not the alcohol
@@shaiisom6458 U mean how many powdered donuts did she snort? Allegedly!!!!! 🤦🏽♀️
I can still hear the hurt in Erica voice when she talks about loving Safari , and wanting things to work for them . We might see the tough , rowdy side of her because that’s what the cameras want us to see . She prayed for that man and did what she could for him to no avail and that hurts . I pray for her healing and I pray that everything works out in the end ❤
Being with a narcissist is the worst
You have no idea how their relationship was love …. Clearly he saw something in her that was too much for him.
I pray for her healing too❤
@espon2112 what did he see in his kids that made him be a deadbeat??
@@RayOfLetsatsi what lol
if yall dont like erica why the hell u watching the video 😂
@@nolabihlove I like Erica but she really really did too much. She didn't even listen and let Cam talk. Lol
@@bucketlistbeauty9584 she has a call and response style of communication. It’s how she takes on information. As a therapist I see people with this style of interaction/communication.
because of what she said she got something that still got people watching and hating bad.
Cam drops gems no matter WHO he's interviewing. Erika is annoying as hell and doesn't know how to listen.
They watching to criticize and hang people just like they saying she listens to respond...this is a conversation about her let her talk to us.💐
JUST WANTED TO DROP POSITIVE VIBES CAM YOUR DOING A GREAT JOB AT INTERVIEWING ❤
Yoo.. absolutely LOVED this interview. Watched the whole thing and enjoyed it ❤
This man was stressed cuz the cigar was the third character respectfully 😂
lol it really was. I gave it more attention, respectfully.
I think she acting a scene where she gets interviewed instead of living in the real and knowing she’s getting interviewed
@@giovannifigueroa618 omg yes!!! Even the crying seemed disingenuous.
@@giovannifigueroa618 😂😂😂 omg I was thinking the same thing lol
I was thinking the same thing , a show from Tubi . Kinda narcissistic. 😕
Thank you, she bought her tubi skills right to the couch.
I know it will forever be difficult for some to believe anything she says or believe her when she shows emotion because of the “character” she played on love and hip hop as well as the shenanigans she shows on social media 😂 like they say nobody is interested in the reality when a lie and facade is way more entertaining! She created a character like most celeb and non celeb, that she will forever be known for no matter what improvements she makes and I think ppl like her who want the attention are ok with that because she has ppl in her life that know her real side. We don’t know her real side and frankly most ppl don’t care about her real side and that’s how a lot of ppl feel about “celebrities”.
Regardless if you think Cam has any nerve to give relationship advice, I commend him for exhibiting patience during this interview. This was a hard listen, but Cam did well to keep things on track
Erica not letting him talk or get his point across without interrupting was a good reflection piece for me as a Scorpio 😂
Nah but Scorpios I know listen intently she’s an unevolved one.
I love honesty , transparency & vulnerability. Don’t take away my option on what I will & will not be willing to deal with
Erica YOU ARE A MOTHER!!!!! When will your kids be FIRST? It's more to you than your body. I pray you soul search heal and find yourself. If not for you at least for your children. ALL prayers and love sent your way.
This ended up pretty good!!yes he was very patient with her.and we also got to know something’s about cam❤❤I’m sure this was the longest funky Friday ever!!
All the little parts where she start sanginnn 😂😂 now we see why Liv took that record “December” so easily on LHHNY. Rich said “NOPE, not on my watch” 💀
For her wearing that shirt i respect her so much.
Well I’m 1 hr in and I just can’t connect with the conversations, Erica remind me of that one lady in the bar that just be talking by the end of the convo you feel like what did I just engage in????
😂😂😂😂 yesss omg Erica is annoying to listen too, too hyper and thirsty, I bet she wanted Cam to say he was gonna hook her up with one of his friends 😂😂😂but she too dramatic
😂😂😂
LITERALLY
Once the alcohol got her she was lost
She was all over the place! I was like girl shut up !!!
Right!!!! She has a problem listening.
Right, I was dang let the man talk and stop cutting him off
She’s probably adhd
It's the white candy
She’s had a lot of trauma in her life in the past. Not that I’m trying to justify. But she probably suffers from PTSD and that can make a person hyper like that. I have it and my mom be telling me to calm down at times cause I be all over the place at times too. I hope she continues therapy. 🙏🏽
I'm so glad he spoke to her about the co parenting and what she does can affect the kids even if they don't know it so keep everything off the Internet Erica everything doesn't need a reaction it's all about the kids
This is why I loved when KS would ask women, “If I called up your ex right now, what would he say about you?” 3 sides to every story. Erica does not take accountability too well.
She’s very different when she’s not talking I’m trying to be kind, but she’s so animated. It changes her whole look and energy into a different person.
She was so irritating this whole interview, Cam was very patient he’s the GOAT
facts
High af
@@ShakiaCunningham I’m only 9 minutes in and I see she dances around a lot of questions. Just answer them as truthfully as possible if you’re going to come on the show. And this interview is over 2 1/2 hours long. Lol 🫣😂
I’m sure she’s endured a ton of hurt/disappointments from her upbringing and from former relationships. At some point, she really has to heal, forgive and no longer repeat the toxic cycle of conflicts and behavioral outbursts. And I’m glad she’s realizing here in some ways she can see her mom in herself. That’s a huge starting point. Alright… let me get back to watching this. Let’s see if I finish it in entirety. Lol
Every time she asks him a question, she cuts him off when he's responding, but swears she wants answers! 😂
She's from the Bronx, what else u expect??
VERY GOOD INTERVIEW MENA AND THANK YOU FOR BEING VENERABLE❤ AND GOOD LUCK ON YOUR JOURNEY AHEAD👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤️
ALSO GOOD JOB CAM THIS WAS MUCH NEEDED❤
Girl.... those shoes are extreme for an interview 😂
I thought so too!
@@hdeniro1106 I was very shocked wen she started twerking infront of him,all was missing was a pole
She loves them so what
SAY IT AGAIN 4 THE PEOPLE IN THE BCK LMBO😂..
She looks like a model she could pull it off
I really want Erica to have her happy ever after because you can tell that all that she wants is to be loved by a good man.
But she’s created so much karma for herself on reality tv, imagine in real life and other years… what did she do to get famous cause she protects her own… very weird girl. Beautiful but very broken. And it’s sad.
She ain’t innocent…you get what you give…
I want that for her too❤
SHE JUST WANTS TI BE LOVED....I CAN SEE THE LITTLE GIRL IN HER....I HOPE SHE GETS THERAPY TO HEAL AND BE BLESSED TO EXPERIENCE HEALTHY LOVE💕
@Leah_Jolie Do you have or experience healthy love? If so, can you give some pointers please and thank you.
@@ameenahbradbury9562 I do experience a Healthy Love 🌹send me your email I am more than happy to share boo! 😘god bless
This interview was beautiful to me! I got to be honest I never really cared for Erica because of the portrayal of how she carried herself on TV. But I have different respect for her and just the way she is. Cam this is one of your best interviews yet! I loved this. This interview was special!
I like how Cam be keeping it a thouwow with his guests🎩
Very Unexpected Great Interview!! Taurus and Scorpio vibe is something!!Go Cam keep it vulnerable and honest!!
I’m praying for Erica. She is super thin and doesn’t look healthy. And I really hope that she gets to a totally mental and physical healthy space. Her babies need her to be better and she needs to be better for herself. It’s clear she was very hurt and gave till there was nothing left. I truly hope this is a healing time for her. ❤️🙏
"Your perception may not be the counterpart's reality" is a profound statement for relationships. Great job Cam!
She defenitly lying about she aint never cheated on no1. We saw that with cyn n rich dollars. She has even said on multiple occassions she s garden tool n wants multiple partners and she open to open relationships. Cut it out Erica, u are not real fr..
I sure was thinking about that time right there 😂. Yeap she lied
Facts let safaree come up there and speak his piece cuz it’s very one sided she lied about him not being at the hospital when legend was born safaree was there and his mom so she cappin about that
@@karimamarshall7460 she cheated on Cyn Santana with Lil’ Bow Wow, to make it worse it was televised on TV!!! 106 and Park when he was hosting, possibly, don’t quote me on the 106 and Park part tho…💯💯💯
Don’t think she takes accountability for her actions in failed relationships, marriages and friendships
@@karimamarshall7460 Had the audacity to say she hates liars, and how men just can’t stop lying! Like ma’am, are you foreal? You’re a professional liar! Lmao We literally watched you lie every season of Love & hip hop while dating Rich & Cyn! 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️…..And didn’t have a care in the world about hurting anyone’s feelings or breaking their hearts with all those lies! lol smh
She say religion is not one of the things, she don't need in a relationship, but getting married to a person God didn't put you with, will never work.
Being married to a Muslim isn’t for the weak. A woman has to cover.. how will that work. Etc. that’s oppressive for lots of women. Religion and believing in the most without religion is two different things.
The truth!
Amen!
@@kaleenajean Plus converting for marriage is completely different than converting for yourself. Especially since her entire lifestyle would be considered a sin in the Muslim world she would have to change her entire life and how she generates her income.
I'm loving all the realness Cam and Erica was hitting all them points.
This whole interview was cringy
Stop beating yourself up! I am Proud of you Erica❤❤
Shut up!! 🤫
Erica you and the dad did a great job with the oldest and it's ok that you worked to provide. You did great! His dad made sure he was good so it's ok your son loves you regardless just hug him, love him
lol she didn't raise her oldest though her mama did
Man, this was hard to watch and get through. Erica was on 10...thousand! The dancing, antics, being loud AF, and constant interruptions were cringe worthy. Like a car accident, I just couldn't look away though. Respect to Cam for keeping his composure and also exhibiting a LOT of patience.
She's human.
Right I had to turn the volume
Amazing interview 🔥❤, so natural.
She couldn’t be my friend twerking in front of my man like that ain’t no way
Seemed to be flirting and maybe had an edible too.
Yeppp. I think she should’ve stayed away from the alcohol. She got lost once the alcohol kicked in
@@catherineholliday304or was it the booga suga??☃️❄️😭
@@StillAlive-t8e 🤣😂im dying
Erica made interview cringe af 💀 she kept cutting that man off and wouldn’t let him finish a sentence most of the time. Could only imagine being in relationship with her. 🤷🏽♂️ she also didn’t soak in nothing he said, she was to busy trying to debunk it or explain it. Cam was definitely annoyed. 95% of what he said went over her head. She was also to loud and animated, literally the opposite of feminine. 🤷🏽♂️
Erica isn't feminine at all, she's masculine, erratic, emotional and unclothe
And let me guess you are the type to call yourself an alpha
@@Thedeso18 she was definitely TOO loud and animated….like you grown with 2 kids
You are correct. Most men don't say baby this is how I'm feeling, or I'm going through something right now, or baby I need this from you. You can't nurture the emotions of a mate when they hide emotions and arw not honest.
Made they should just know how they expect us to do. 💀
@@Thedeso18maybe you should go back to school.
I love how you addressed the issue of parenting. I 100% agree. Love and move on. It is hard but it is so doable.
I love Erica. I pray she continues to mature and grow and attract the right person.
He made sure her drink wasn’t straight alcohol 😂😂😂
I didn't know what to expect from this interview. But this was really a Great interview on you Cam as the interviewer I think it brought the best out of you. And She was really Great. This was on Kat Williams Level. Awesome
@@TimothyWheeler-j9f this in fact was not on Kat’s level
What you need to execute is a genuine apology, she explained who she is and she is ALL over the place.
This was a good interview ❤
I’m so happy she is in a better place and was able to recognize she was wrong I love it
Don’t matter how rich you get , if it came from selling your body you’re not a hustler your a 304. PERIOD
You just wanted to call her a "304", cool.
But you CLEARLY don't know the definition of hustling to make this comment
He or she is right though. Opening your legs isn't a hustle
@@tmw710 it is a hustle tho whether you respect it or not. Im certainly no fan of Erica but she is a hustler. She utilized her looks & reality tv to make millions thats hustling. Once again it might not be respected by most but it is indeed a hustle
@@millionz8047 it’s not hustling, it’s ho3ing. Period.
@@millionz8047 it’s not hustling. Period. It’s literally prostitution
Jazz is going to end up pregnant again if Cam listens to Erica and goes home singing Jodeci🎶🎶🎶
YUP 2024 ✔️
@@angelagriffin6125 can already said six flags he want more kids lmao
Erica Mena one of my favorite actresses. I seen her in a Tubi movie directed by Chris Stokes, and ended up watching every movie she had on Tubi. I had no idea how good she was. There are a lot of people that are talented in multiple areas but because there are so many haters out there most never get an opportunity. Big up to Chris Stokes, for giving her that opportunity and Big up to Cam Newton for allowing her to be on his platform.
@@rashardstallworth209 same. She’s a VERY good actress and I was pleasantly surprised.
Yes I love her in these movies
lol good actress? Lol most of the movies she starred in shr was playing herself, there’s no difference from her character and who she is in person. A good actress is diverse and can adapt to many different roles and they are entirely different from who they play. So your comment is slightly off.
@@chantellemarcu for her to be one of his favorite actresses 🫠