Limiting the validation I seek from my parents is the biggest thing I am aiming to do in 2024. Constantly having worry/anxiety about disappointing them as an adult has been wild. I’m over it!
asha thank you for the parents talk, the absent father,the validation from men, from parents when they are toxic, narcissistic, thank you for considering the people who are suffering, the control over what we watch and listen and thanks a lot ❤
This came right on time! Asha, the Holy Spirit has been telling me it’s time to go get my blessings. ❤ I don’t know what’s on the way but I know it’s going to be beautiful
Wow!! This is great food for thought! Thank you so much! I think I’ve found there are ways I still kind of seek validation from my parents. And maybe in other ways. Thank you for sharing. This is SO important. And I love that you’re not judging, but firm correction, etc!
You’re the first person I subscribed here on youtube a year ago, and I still love you endlessly! Thank you for always guiding me in working out my character development. Come to the Ph 🇵🇭 I wanna hug you. 🤗
I'm so jazzed you are sharing your spiritual journey. Your content has a certain maturity now that it was missing before. I am on my own journey, and I am glad to have someone to walk with. Peace and Blessing. Miranda
finished watching asha, asha in 2024 i want to get prepared to be able to be ready to meet Allah anytime, for that I'll have to become my ideal self and do my worship, gain knowledge, be kind and clean heart and do lots of good deeds Insha'Allah, i want to become my ideal self before i die Insha'Allah and really not take my life for granted, since the day we are born it's like we can die any moment, i just want to be more sincere with my actions and stop being lazy, it's just that depression often becomes a hurdle in the way and it gets hard to get out of the things we are stuck in but Insha'Allah I'll try to not get into perfectionism and seek help through patience and prayer and remember Allah is the most Merciful and forgiving and kind. I know you don't believe in Islam but I do know you respect everyone and I wished to share this in response to your 2024 question, I'm trying asha,life if tough and i love you so much❤ take care
you're sooooo gooood for helping all the younger girls with the covering body clothes talk ❤❤❤❤ I'm so glad to hear your thoughts asha! as a woman who wears hijab and covers the body with modest clothes, and finds beauty respect & class in covering not revealing clothes..you gave me much happiness ❤asha i wonder how many young girls you're helping ❤❤❤
I see you as a positive, older, feminine influence in my life. As a young lady, I deal with a constant battle of wanting to be sexier vs being modest, and this video affirms my constant effort to present myself as a young lady who dresses to validate MYSELF 🩷
I have been following you since 2019. You have always felt like online big sis to me, you are so wise. 🙂 Also, i am not from English speaking country, so i have learned much from you, because you speak English very clearly, professionally and understandably. ( sounds maybe little weird but it is easy to take notes from you. :--) You are doing an amazing job!😇
Hey Asha, great episode ( I listened to the podcast this morning). Could you maybe expound on or do an episode on why you stated that we shouldn’t be feminists? I was shocked to hear that considering your previous videos but I do understand that your content is changing and will reflect your faith and spiritual journey. Is this something you’ve always felt? Thank you.
Thank you! 🤍 I am actually working on my next video topics and was thinking that I should possibly deep dive on why I am not a feminist! This may be coming!!
asha I have a feeling that me stopping the video and spamming comments to thank you might burden you 😅😅if so please tell me.. I'll try to stop myself from the next video.... it's just so so much on point i feel like you should be thanked, just finished the friends talk the validation and genuine friendships no judgement and grace looking still out for them and supporting them and thank you for your honest genuine intentions for your viewers ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Feminism just means equality and equity between men and women. That has nothing to do with disrupting family values? I’ve been following you since 2016…. I support you so please stop bashing feminism because it makes you look insubordinate to men which is creepy
Feminism for me is about political/social/economic equality, not "the eradication of a family home." Women's household labor is hard WORK and I think feminism does an excellent job of validating that labor and expanding women's choices. I find your content to be overall really empowering and have been inspired by you becoming more open about your faith! I know you said "end of story" on that topic, but if you ever decide to dig into it, know you have an audience ;)
Omg I just discovered your channel through Hailey Gamba and whattt. Someone here said tis fuelled her fire to move forward and that is exactly how I feel. 📝
First Wednesday with Asha! Happy New Year. I definitely remember when you COULD NOT be caught dead wearing leggings with something covering your behind! Long shirt, skirt, dress, something lol 😅 As you’re sharing and being more open with your spiritual journey, do you have any advice, books, podcasts, etc that you would suggest for others who are looking to build their relationship with GOD?
I love your videos ! Don’t change my love you are inspiring and you were made for this! I love your voice and realness!! This year I planned on changing my wardrobe to full classy and conservative. This is another sign 🙏🏾😘❤️♥️
Thank you , really needed this. Just woke up feeling sad because I’m away from home and I switched on my phone and expected to see messages from friends and family but there was absolutely nothing. I dont want to be in a relationship been there done that and honestly it doesn’t interest or excite me anymore but loneliness can just make you think you just need someone when you dont as in in a romantic dynamic .That is why it is important not to rely on feelings because feelings are not always reliable.
My father wasn’t in my life and yet I’ve had one solid relationship and I’m 30 that I’m still in. The thought of sleeping around has never been my personality and never will. The stereotype that we are attention seekers that don’t love ourselves and will just let any man in our life is not only offensive but extremely judgmental. But I guess that’s just built into being a Christian. I urge you to get different perspectives and not paint everyone with the same brush even if their background differs from yours, because you could be closing the door on so many good people. That attitude is off putting. How are you going to give advice when you have zero evidence that you’ve succeeded at it?
Limiting the validation I seek from my parents is the biggest thing I am aiming to do in 2024. Constantly having worry/anxiety about disappointing them as an adult has been wild. I’m over it!
You're a needed voice in the generation Asha! DONT GIVE UP!
asha thank you for the parents talk, the absent father,the validation from men, from parents when they are toxic, narcissistic, thank you for considering the people who are suffering, the control over what we watch and listen and thanks a lot ❤
Thank you so much for being you!! I don’t trust alot of words on UA-cam but I trust yours!
🥹That means so much! I am ALWAYS here to help! 🤍
This came right on time! Asha, the Holy Spirit has been telling me it’s time to go get my blessings. ❤ I don’t know what’s on the way but I know it’s going to be beautiful
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It's going on 5 years of watching you and I continue to LOVE you and your content. Thank you for being you and doing this for us ❤❤
Wow!! This is great food for thought! Thank you so much! I think I’ve found there are ways I still kind of seek validation from my parents. And maybe in other ways. Thank you for sharing. This is SO important. And I love that you’re not judging, but firm correction, etc!
You’re the first person I subscribed here on youtube a year ago, and I still love you endlessly! Thank you for always guiding me in working out my character development. Come to the Ph 🇵🇭 I wanna hug you. 🤗
I’m trusting God more in 2024!
Yes! 2024 and beyond! 🤍
I'm so jazzed you are sharing your spiritual journey. Your content has a certain maturity now that it was missing before. I am on my own journey, and I am glad to have someone to walk with. Peace and Blessing. Miranda
finished watching asha, asha in 2024 i want to get prepared to be able to be ready to meet Allah anytime, for that I'll have to become my ideal self and do my worship, gain knowledge, be kind and clean heart and do lots of good deeds Insha'Allah, i want to become my ideal self before i die Insha'Allah and really not take my life for granted, since the day we are born it's like we can die any moment, i just want to be more sincere with my actions and stop being lazy, it's just that depression often becomes a hurdle in the way and it gets hard to get out of the things we are stuck in but Insha'Allah I'll try to not get into perfectionism and seek help through patience and prayer and remember Allah is the most Merciful and forgiving and kind. I know you don't believe in Islam but I do know you respect everyone and I wished to share this in response to your 2024 question, I'm trying asha,life if tough and i love you so much❤ take care
you're sooooo gooood for helping all the younger girls with the covering body clothes talk ❤❤❤❤ I'm so glad to hear your thoughts asha! as a woman who wears hijab and covers the body with modest clothes, and finds beauty respect & class in covering not revealing clothes..you gave me much happiness ❤asha i wonder how many young girls you're helping ❤❤❤
Your content and quality of conversation has been TOP TIER
Thank you Angel❤
I can't stop thanking you🙌🏻👍🏻💯
Thank you❤✝️
ty for your upload asha i was looking forward to a new video everyday
I love your videos so much! Always on point❤️
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Heyy Asha❤
Did you miss me😂? I missed you and a happy new year to you.
Now what's happening here???let's get into it!!!😊❤
Happy New Year!! I sure did I am sooo happy to be back! What - is - happening!!! 🤍
I pray that everyone God allows to view your videos gets the message that he wants them to receive in Jesus' name Amen !
I see you as a positive, older, feminine influence in my life. As a young lady, I deal with a constant battle of wanting to be sexier vs being modest, and this video affirms my constant effort to present myself as a young lady who dresses to validate MYSELF 🩷
I have been following you since 2019. You have always felt like online big sis to me, you are so wise. 🙂 Also, i am not from English speaking country, so i have learned much from you, because you speak English very clearly, professionally and understandably. ( sounds maybe little weird but it is easy to take notes from you. :--) You are doing an amazing job!😇
Awww I'm so glad! Thank you! 🤍
Hey Asha, listening to this helped me fuel my fire for moving forward in my life. Thank you
You help me a lot ❤love from Nepal 🇳🇵 ❤
All the way from Nepal!! 🤍🤍
Hey Asha, great episode ( I listened to the podcast this morning). Could you maybe expound on or do an episode on why you stated that we shouldn’t be feminists? I was shocked to hear that considering your previous videos but I do understand that your content is changing and will reflect your faith and spiritual journey. Is this something you’ve always felt? Thank you.
Thank you! 🤍 I am actually working on my next video topics and was thinking that I should possibly deep dive on why I am not a feminist! This may be coming!!
asha I have a feeling that me stopping the video and spamming comments to thank you might burden you 😅😅if so please tell me.. I'll try to stop myself from the next video.... it's just so so much on point i feel like you should be thanked, just finished the friends talk the validation and genuine friendships no judgement and grace looking still out for them and supporting them and thank you for your honest genuine intentions for your viewers ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ thanks for the part where you talk about getting validation from God.
Feminism just means equality and equity between men and women. That has nothing to do with disrupting family values? I’ve been following you since 2016…. I support you so please stop bashing feminism because it makes you look insubordinate to men which is creepy
Feminism for me is about political/social/economic equality, not "the eradication of a family home." Women's household labor is hard WORK and I think feminism does an excellent job of validating that labor and expanding women's choices. I find your content to be overall really empowering and have been inspired by you becoming more open about your faith! I know you said "end of story" on that topic, but if you ever decide to dig into it, know you have an audience ;)
You are the best podcast I've ever heard!!!! Periodt!! I've never heard someone speak like you. You bomb. God speed!! I support you!! 🎉😂 frfr.
You are making my day!!! Oh my goodness thank you so much and thank you for watching!! 🤍
@@AshaChristinaFoster my pleasure!!
But what if the guy invites you over to his place to cuddle for the first meet up 😭 and you think he wanna do all that but he just wants to cuddle
Nvm girl … we shouldn’t even at each others place for the first link up 😭
Yes love. Never meet someone for the first time at their place or anywhere too private. Thats at least 3rd date. We gotta stay safe. 🩷
It’s a trap, boo-boo
Omg I just discovered your channel through Hailey Gamba and whattt. Someone here said tis fuelled her fire to move forward and that is exactly how I feel. 📝
Awwww that’s so sweet and Hail is amazing 🥰
First Wednesday with Asha! Happy New Year.
I definitely remember when you COULD NOT be caught dead wearing leggings with something covering your behind! Long shirt, skirt, dress, something lol 😅
As you’re sharing and being more open with your spiritual journey, do you have any advice, books, podcasts, etc that you would suggest for others who are looking to build their relationship with GOD?
Happy New Year! I will put together a list and create a video with some of my fav books and podcasts in the next few weeks!
@@AshaChristinaFoster would love that! Thank you ❤️
Showing luv ❤
I love your videos ! Don’t change my love you are inspiring and you were made for this! I love your voice and realness!! This year I planned on changing my wardrobe to full classy and conservative. This is another sign 🙏🏾😘❤️♥️
I've never had a good relationship with my dad and it really did affect me until I learned that was the issue.
I’m glad you cultivated that awareness to understand how it affects you 🤍
Thank you , really needed this. Just woke up feeling sad because I’m away from home and I switched on my phone and expected to see messages from friends and family but there was absolutely nothing. I dont want to be in a relationship been there done that and honestly it doesn’t interest or excite me anymore but loneliness can just make you think you just need someone when you dont as in in a romantic dynamic .That is why it is important not to rely on feelings because feelings are not always reliable.
Im really proud of you Asha. Keep it up with the marvelous content Super Starra 😇!!
My father wasn’t in my life and yet I’ve had one solid relationship and I’m 30 that I’m still in. The thought of sleeping around has never been my personality and never will. The stereotype that we are attention seekers that don’t love ourselves and will just let any man in our life is not only offensive but extremely judgmental. But I guess that’s just built into being a Christian. I urge you to get different perspectives and not paint everyone with the same brush even if their background differs from yours, because you could be closing the door on so many good people. That attitude is off putting. How are you going to give advice when you have zero evidence that you’ve succeeded at it?
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