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Why Do Others Get Upset When I Don't Drink?
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- Опубліковано 22 гру 2015
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They get upset cause misery loves company.
I feel that most people want to drag you down to their negative, unhealthy level rather than let you inspire them to become more healthy and more happy.
My son is so happy i quit drinking and thats all that matters to me
The truth is that you usually need to make new friends who value and respect sobriety.
Gone sober last month due to chronic anxiety triggered by binge drinking. Watching these videos really helps.
Can I ask how you are going have you stopped or relapsed
My sis is the only one that know I quit. She was just surprised like ... I didn't know you were quitting completely. I thought you were just taking a break... because she had offered me some vodka. I said oh no,no! Alcohol!Than she threw a slur saying. Well I'm going to have a drink at least. After a hard day of work. I just looked at her like so what. That's just her, I'm not for it . She know she will be more bored now. So she keep making ignorant remarks. Like how good drinking make her feel.
Trying to reel me but she don't know. I'm not even paying attention lol. She act like I haven't been there lol. I have been drinking for eleven years
The worst thing you can do is brag about having quit Alcohol to others who still drink.But don't be ashamed about it and don't let people downgrade you.They're the real losers. (N they know it deep down)Now,encourage people who want to quit by giving your testimony.
That my friend, as old as that video is and you'll probably not even read this, was exactly what I needed to hear..i just dropped the news to my closest friend via text today about not drinking anymore and he didn't respond to it but responded to another topic we were discussing..it was a bit expected but upsetting too for me..I wanted him to say " good for you" or something of that nature but im guessing he's a bit unnerved by it..we may get together in the next few days and I'm sure it'll be hashed out but I'm nervous to be honest, I'd hate to see a bad result at the end of it😔 your talk helped, thx!
I stopped drinking 2 months ago and no one even knows about it :P That's how wild my social life is ;)
Excellent videos!! All makes a lot of sense. I'm one month into sobriety and I'm realising that quitting drinking is the easy part of the journey!!
When you stop drinking, you don't serve the same purpose to the party crowd. They don't know how to handle the change that they see in you. Deep down, they know that they can not stop, and it stirs them up emotionally. The easy route for them is to behave as if you're the problem or too good for them.
Because you start to take care of your incomes and outcomes , and you will be a entrepuer in a car , and others cant get money from you to rise their kids
I love to stand with tallest persons in world
Great video and topic covered Kevin. You touched on some very key points and used a great metaphor with "The Biggest Loser". Continue the great work and service, I see the maturation of you as a person, spokesman and with your video skills as well. Onwards and upwards!!!
I enjoy the philosophy in your videos. I feel some of these are applicable to behaviours in general.
Really good video Kevin thank you so much great analogy
Thanks Kevin! I'm at a crossroads now with a lot of friends. Very helpful.
Fantastic video. Thanks for the content
Thanks for posting this - it's a marvelous video worthy of several viewings and SO spot on.
great video like always Kevin! Thank you for the upload. your videos seem to get better and better
Great video! You are a very thoughtful man.
great video as usual Kev. Merry Christmas. Onwards and Upwards!
Hola... from Costa Rica .... Grea video Kevin.... keep it up...
Kevin's the Man!!! You're saving lives mate. Thanks from China.
Liked. Thanks Kevin. I really appreciate what you are doing.
+Aris Bildas I just found out about his videos. Inspirational.
Holistic approach
Looking good bro
Thank you for another wise, informative video. When I stopped drinking I didn't realize the "ripple" effects it would have in my family. After a few months I think I'm beginning to resent a little others I live with who drink consistently
It's ju1st not part of my life anymore and creates a bit of a divide in our relationship.
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You are so right
I remember feeling like my party wasnt complete if a non drinker was there...or like they take a bit of "fun" away from my delusion of fun. Haaa. So weird. Like it was a chapparone hanging around....or jesus watching us and smiling in all his glory. 😂 so dumb...I'm now that person who is hanging out with the boozers feeling good and actually having real fun that continues thru the next morning . !
Those transformations also take some time (after you stopped drinking), maybe some years
And free
How about when people hate when you drink. Story of my adult life so far.. 2nd day sober. Tired of this poison . So done
Nobody told me to stop, though there were some concerns raised by my couple, but on new years day, I said this ends here, I was fed up of the hangovers etc. 3 weeks now. reading books, watching youtube videos, podcasts... I think I am regaining control of my life. So happy I did take the step.
@@willneverforgets3341 doing the exact same thing friend. Have gone to a few aa meetings. Its helped. But yea I'm on my 19th day sober and I'm loving life more then ever before. Keep it going forever
@@carlospina9818 It's not that it's completely out of control but I just got fed up! I feel a lot better , I sleep well, got more time for family and fun stuff!!
@@willneverforgets3341 yea that's cool but hey just be completely honest. If it's a problem then it is no other way around it. There is nothing but positivity that comes out when we finally drop this shit. It's already happening. Let's keep it going
@@carlospina9818 sure!!!!
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Am I the only one actually scared by the fact that some people have a baseline state of inebriation?
I quit for 3 weeks. then went to the beach and in two days I had 16 beers. I can go for two months without a drink, but when I drink i overdue it. I don't want to stop completely when I go camping ever couple of months I want to drink like 8 beers .i like the buzz and watching the camp fire... But Im comflicted
8 beers in one day at the beach? Thats fine bro
You don't have the will power to just drink once in a while so quit. Sorry that probably hurts but I've been there 🤷♀️ if not drinking and numbing yourself concerns you that much you have a problem. And I disagree with the "8 beers isn't a lot". Maybe for someone who drinks a tonne.
Yeah i was like u. Altho i drank 6 beers when i chose to drink. Even if u don't drink everyday it's still extremely bad for ur health. So i quit. Best decision.
I mean drink 8 in one night