“people wouldn’t remember the hurtful things they said to you” His words hits me hard. Jinyoung is such a sweetheart with beautiful personality that’s why he’s my bias. Happy Birthday jinyoung ah💗
It's Khairul it’s really true tho...that’s why people should be careful what they say because you might forget but someone else might be hurt by it for a lifetime
I think among all the members of Got7 his wisdom is beyond his age. He also reads a lot of books and he is old fashioned, doesn’t dye his hair or wear any piercings/earrings compared to the rest in his group.
When you realized this isn't just about this girl.. This is a good example of talking to other people effectively and keeping the conversation longer even if you are a stranger to them with almost no information about them. This helped me a lot as a person whos not exactly good at socializing
idk what his background study. i’m amazed that he did this like a set up of psychology counseling as psychology student i might say he did very well comforting people. Put himself like he was in that condition, acceptance of what she’s been through then the way he talked without prejudice and his gesture while listening to her is such a good example! i hope people will more understand how to hear someone’s when they need a support properly in the future.
@@albabyahya Hi, i just want to add information about jinyoung since i have been fan since 2014. In my observation jinyoung is introvert and caring person. He also like a mom in his group. He also has good dicipline and soft heart. He also a good listener. That's why in a variety show, jackson wants to have a long talk with him because he feels so comfort when he is talking to jinyoung.
you probably walk by a lot of "perfect" men with that mindset, because there are plenty of men like him. he did it for the camera , like he mentioned. he is a shy person himself. i dont think he would've walked up to her without it being documented. lots of men are warm hearted human beings, myself included. i love little things, conversations or watching movies alone etc. but he is only "perfect" because he has fame sadly. people only get these compliments when they're famous. watch around you a little. there a many kind people not only him. hes not the definition of "perfect" trust me
Honestly, she looks very depressed. And i know that no matter how much you talk to people, and no matter how much people want to help you, depression is something you face alone and you must fight alone. If she hasn't decided to feel better, she won't feel better no matter how many people are there for her and tell her they love her. I myself go through depression and it's really not that easy to comprehend and to deal with. I just hope she'll get better and she'll find a way out of it. Talking about it can make you feel good for like a day or two but it comes back inevitably... It's a path that she must walk alone to get out of.
Rosalie B this is true. For her to be able to get out of depression, she should have a strong motivation to be out of it, a strong emotional support from family and friends. I pray for her to be better soon
I've myself been struggling with depression for 5 years now and to be honest when I saw her I knew immediately she was not doing ok. I felt like we share some common vibes. I hope she will find some professional councellor to talk to and to help her and/or a new job to give her some confidence and so encouraging her to fell better and to finally to be in peace with herself. I wish her the best ❤
My best friend is having a depression, I tried to console her like thousand times.. I'd cried with her even if it's just me and her talking in phone.. She tried to slit her wrist that one time and my heart ache so much.. Idk anything about depression.. But I can tell that depression is killing someone deep from inside.. How can I help her? How can I heal my bestfriend ? What can I do? Even if I can't help too Much.. I still want to help ..
@@natasha.l.a842 how old is your friend? You should tell her parents if shes a minor, or a doctor in any case, I hope it will be OK. Thank you for being there for her
"Those who hurt other's feelings with their words, they don't even remember that they said such things." It sucks, right? How hurtful things people say in passing - intentionally or not - stick with you for a long time, if not, the rest of your life.
CJ mhm when i was 15 my dad asked me why i was so fat and why he was skinny. Korean family so skinny meant looks good. I barely ate and only grew to 5’8 ik for a fact i couldve gotten taller i asked him why he said that when i was like 20. Told me he didnt remember and it pissed me off more. Like how tf do you say that to your one and only son.
ChuChuTrain I’m sorry that anyone made you feel that way. I feel you, and it hurts that much more when it’s someone you love a lot. People throw words like they don’t know the power they hold or the power that we give words. I imagine that memory in your life made a big impact on you, made you insecure about the way you look, made it hard for you to love yourself and understand why people love you. But always remember that there will be someone out there who appreciates you just the way you are, people who realise it’s what’s inside that really matters. I don’t know if the way you see yourself has changed since then or how things are now, just remember beauty is subjective. We live in a society where everyone expects you to be the same but if we really were that way, imagine how mundane this world would be. This probs sounded cringey but this came from the bottom of my heart. I hope you learn to love yourself, slowly but surely.
Sneha Fernando ty yea im more confident now it made me realize to stop caring so much what other ppl say and funny thing is im fit/healthy and my dad currently is too skinny where it looks unhealthy of course im not gonna say anything im more American than Korean so knowing its rude in my main culture im not gonna say it ty for your kind words
dingo admin said in the comments section in original video, she(sora) doesn't like iced americano so jinyoung made her latte too. and he said "sweet drink makes you feel better."^^
He’s using legit therapeutic methods of questioning, listening, and advising. He must have done really good research or he’s just naturally a good listener
I want to give her the biggest hug in the world. She's an introvert and don't like big crowds yet she still has the courage to work multiple jobs. She gets put down and not taken seriously bc of how young she looks. I feel so bad for her, u can tell she was really kept bottling things up until now. I'm glad she got this chance to talk to Jinyoung. I hope things get better for her in the future.
CmUsIc4U You know I’ve noticed something quite odd in this thread but in the best way possible. Many of us tuned in to see Jinyoung but most of the comments speak about her first and in a kind way.
It's interesting how each country is so different, she started working at the age of 19 and it's called young, in my country it's normal to work from the age of 16... I worked from the age of 14. She's so sweet and gentle, and I hope she'll be happy❤️
@@heeyizzy I think she meant working full time. Its normal for people to work part time whilst they study but she said she gave up on education so i'm assuming she meant working full time.
I was confused for a minute too until I thought "maybe she meant she started working FULL TIME at 19" which would've made more sense. Unless she actually meant she started working at 19 which wouldn't be necessary a bad thing. Education is very important in Korea. I started making money at like 13 before getting a retail job. ~ends long rant~
She's working full time after she graduated in high school. As usual in korea, students go to the university after graduation. But she doesn't. That's why, she said "i'm working when i'm young in 19"
jinyoung was such a good listener to her :’)) the way he validated her feelings and reminded her that she’s not alone was so smart and kind of him. this video was perfect ❤️
When Jinyoung said that he cried himself to sleep after someone said he wasn't good like the other members, it really goes to show that you can have millions of followers, millions of dollars, millions of riches and love of all kind, but it only takes ONE person and one sentence to completely break you down. I'm SO SO glad he fought through and is still with us today. We've lost too many angels to hate. 😞🤍💜
I know me too. I really dunno why people choose to be mean like that 😞And it applies for me too, everytime I get hurt coz of someone, I just replay his advice over and over. It helps a lot
@@3wydreamer147 It's easier to to be negative and judgmental than positive. There's a lot of envy in this world. She is so beautiful, She looks at her age and she will get 50 yrs old, she will look even younger and then people would say wow she looks good for her age. Theya re just jealous because she's strong lady. I'm glad she met Junior, he is such a sweet and lovable soul.
Her friend made this possible!!! Whoever named Taehyun that made her to be with Jinyoung, you're such a great true friend, i hope i can find someone like you!👏👍화이팅 소라 씨!😊
I felt so comforted just by watching JinYoung comforting the girl. I felt the same way as her. But after watching this I decided not to give up and try harder. I'm rooting for her!
Yess..because people hurt unintentionally too. We also might have hurt many people in our lives, and maybe if they bring that up now, we would be shocked to hear how they took our words. Fact is, we sometimes mistake the words of other people, and other people do the same. So we don't know when to actually take their words seriously. This brings us to the solution that don't take it seriously at all. U never know if they misjudged u, or u misjudged them.
I like Jinyoung. After watching the tv series by him “He is Psychometric” and listen to GOT7, I like him even more. After watching his video, I totally admire his personality.
Jinyoung is probably like that real life Kdrama lead actor, handsome, cute, tall, mysterious, mischievous, humorous, at times shy and at some times confident, he’s the man yknow, he’s not a boy, not some guy, he’s THE MAN
i love how Jinyoung listened to her very carefully and really gave such a meaningful advice. not many people can pull that off. i wish i could meet someone like that and comfort me with words that actually means something..
Same I will be talking to family and friends... they will be trying to give me advice. When most times I just someone to listen. I never have someone who can just listen.
I admire Sora a lot! She has had a lot of crap in her life and had to give up college because of lack of money which a lot of us take for granted. Since then she has had to work many jobs as well as face prejudice against her. I really do pray she finds her happiness cause she honestly deserves it. Plus I love that Jinyoung did this. Some people do just need an safe and comfortable outlet like this. He spoke to her calmly and with love as well as showing his own maturity and intelligence. That's an idol! I hope to see more episodes like this. Almost like a counselling session for random individuals with idols who also need someone to talk to cause they are human too. I really like this concept and hope it continues.
I Stan the right guy, he is the most sincere, genuine & sweetest guy on earth. You can see from his eyes & facial expressions when he speaks with her. I love how Jinyoung listened & empathise with her, passing her tissues, comforting her with wise words & encouraging her by giving an example of his own. I love how he explained why he gift her the books & he tried to make her relax at the photo taking. The big hug at the end is the biggest comfort a human being can give another. Everything he did here is daebak! I hope Sora is doing fine. Jinyoung is a matured & intellectual man. He is a good counsellor!
The girl had pure honest and painful words, the guy had warm, nervous and comforting words , pure example of talking comforting and having conversations can lighten and feel you ease
What a nice person jinyoung is. The thing about jinyoung that i love the most is he's a deep thinker that speaks really well and he knows how to express himself well. Thats why sora can open up to him easily. To sora ssi, cheer up. You're beautiful inside out, and i know someday you'll successfully walk on the flower path :)
OMG he is generally so sweet like when he told her such things about not to worry and take care of herself it literally comforted her and she was so comfortable with him like even though she was an introvert she totally spoke everything that was in her heart Ps :She is so lucky
Ahhh people like her are so strong. She's having a hard time but she's made it this far. Hopefully, she'll succeed very soon. Jinyoung is good at comforting too!
jinyoung is so thoughtful and caring, people misunderstand him as cold and mean because he is quiet, but in reality he is a gentleman and a great person😭❤
I feel like she still trying to keep her tears inside..i feel like i just wanna let her cry as loud as she wants because i feel her..i've been there in some ways.. Be strong, sister! *sending lots of loves and hugs* 💚
I honestly love that Jinyoung agreed to this, he loves his fan and tries to help people who don't have confidence in themselves. Jinyoung is a great choice for boosting your confidence. She is really pretty and whoever judged her is disrespectful and doesn't deserve her. Jinyoung is #HusbandMaterial & #BoyfriendMaterial because when you talk down about yourself, he'll tell you that you aren't ugly, stupid, fat, he'll tell you that you're beautiful in any shape, you're beautiful and perfect. He makes you feel special like no one can't. He puts his personal expirence with yours, he cares and loves. I'm glad we some people in the world like this, Thank you Park Jinyoung we love you so much
Oh my heart 💞 this definitely solidified Jinyoung as my ultimate bias. Not only is he handsome and charming, but he has such a good heart. He just knows the right things to say to comfort someone who's hurting. Sora is so strong, I admire her spirit. Ah I'm so jealous though!
Some people tell me that Jinyoung was too fake in this video, but I don’t think so, he is like that, he doesn’t have to many expressions but if you look well in this video, you can notice the little things that show that Jinyoung is worried, even nervous.
Nobody says that, actually its only you... These days kpop fans tend to say "many are saying" or "why is everybody saying" when nobody really does... Don't do that.
lily I said some people tell me, not I saw people saying. Some of my friend told me that he looked fake. I should have said that, sorry but I’m not lying. (Also, I’m not actually the kind of people that look at the comments)
Manu J. A Tbh he's always been a straightforward deep thinking type of person. He's not fake bc u can see he's genuinely concerned about her. And that's just one of the reasons why I love him so much
“there’s so many questions to be answered during a tough phase. but the most important thing is to take care of yourself. to love and be gentle to yourself is very important.” i felt that
2019 tears!!!! I have a master's degree and I'm a licensed therapist. *Jinyoung has me beat* Omg this is so beautiful. He's so patient and understanding with her. Something he said is what I tell my clients and that's to be *gentle with yourself* In life, we are our own worst critics, being gentle and loving to ourselves is a must. This way even during hard times, we remember that we MATTER and are deserving of the best. Affirmations are a positive tool as well. Okay enough with therapist talk. Jinyoung is my bias for a reason and this just confirms it even more. *Hes amazing*
Enlightened Sista - totally agreed with you . This conversation is so beautiful. Whenever I have a tough day , I would come here . Jinyoung is amazing person - inside out 💚
@@zaheerahmotala4371 feels like somebody's driving a bus over your chest...sucks... but there's a reason why we have anxiety. It's not random. You have anxiety because you're unhappy with some facet of your life. Find out what it is, and change it. Anxiety is real, but it's not permanent, I don't care what anybody says. You can fix it. You have control over your own life.
She's exactly like me. Going through a lot, not being happy around people, being alone a lot, not believing in myself, crying a lot... I hope I can fight in the future just like she does. ♡
i love this kind of idol and ordinary people sit down and talk only both of them about them and the hard days they had and support each other to keep strong and fighting.. there is always a bright side in every day and every experience we had in it
Ik I'm late. But I just wanna say for the people scrolling through comments. I love you. You are a beautiful person inside and out. Please take care of yourself. 💖💖EDIT: thank u for the likes and sweet comments
Nope. Shes lucky because she was comforted when she needed it the most. No matter who the person is if you are being helped when you needed it the most is the best thing that will happen to you. Yes he is an idol ofcourse so its a plus
WHO SAID MY HANDSOME AND TALENTED JINYOUNG WASN'T GREAT?! DO YOU LIVE UNDER A ROCK OR SOMETHING?! WE LOVE YOU, JINYOUNG! ❤️ YOU ARE AMAZING AND GIFTED! DON'T EVER STOP! 💚
100% agree with u. Not one of them has a bad heart. Each of them makes sure to have fun, goof around but make sure they show their love for their fans. When BamBam said that he was worried that by the time they made a comeback (in 2022) he feared that people would leave GOT7's fandom or forget about them, it really warmed my heart. They truly care for their fans and admirers and value their support. ❤🌟💕💜💚
I like how Jinyoung tried to relate his own experience to the painful experience of the girl and not just give random words of encouragement. That's empathy and most of the time that's all we need.
I love how Jinyoung was so comforting towards her, he seems like the type that even if you aren't great at talking to people you can truly tell how you feel, and he'd just be there to listen to you and comfort you the best way he can
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU JINYOUNG OPPA 😘💖❤💕🎂🤩😊🎇🎆🎈🎉🎊. GOD BLESS YOU AND ESPECIALLY ON THIS SPECIAL DAY. KEEP SMILING❤. AHGHASES [ OR IGOT7 ] LOVES YOU AND WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU . WE WILL ALWAYS SUPPORT YOU OPPA💖😊 . TODAY I'VE SEEN THE SOFT , CARING AND NICE SIDE OF JINYOUNG OPPA . THAT DOESN'T MEAN I THOUGHT OF JINYOUNG OPPA AS A BAD PERSON. NO!! IT'S JUST THAT I'VE NEVER SEEN HIM COMFORTING SOMEONE . THIS VIDEO REALLY MELT MY HEART . JINYOUNG OPPA IS REALLY GOOD AT COMFORTING [ PEOPLE ] . I HOPE EVERYTHING GOES WELL FOR KIM SORA❤💖💕. I WISH HER ALL THE BEST IN LIFE . THANK YOU JINYOUNG OPPA FOR HELPING SORA💖💕❤ . AFTER SEEING HOW LOVING YOU ARE , MY LOVE FOR YOU IS GROWING💖💕❤😘😍😉 Edit : Thanks guys for the 421 likes.❤ LOVE YOU GUYS❤. I didn't expect to get soooo many likes❤❤
@@melanie-gd8gv i'm not a koreaboo, you know i can't write Oppa in korean 'cause most people won't be understanding what i wrote. Anyways thanks for the advice😊. THANK YOU❤ FOR THE COMPLIMENT.
When they were having their converstion After jinyoung took her a picture i noticed that jinyoung really wanted to hug her but looks like he was finding the right timing😂 i love jinyoung😗
this is sad and at the same time cute i have almost the same problem like her im not comfortable being surrounded by people especially when trying to converse with them cause after like simple greetings, "hello whats up? How you doin' today?" questions like that,it gets uhm awkward i find it hard to talk with people especially when you have nothing in common. Anyways shes such a strong person. Someday she will overcome all of her problems. Im happy for her because shes not giving up no matter what other people say and thats good. 💚
I started crying right away because I know her feelings so well because I feel the same. I keep thinking it’s normal to feel like this because I never got support from my family but I guess you could call it depression
Hey don't be sad. U can talk to me if u want. It's okay to feel sad and unhappy. It is also one emotion that we have to feel. Feel free to ask for my time
This video is the reason why I am I get to knew GOT7, I really admire how Jinyoung talks and persuade people and it looks so comfortable to have a deep conversation with him.
This girl is so pure! And I relate to her struggles so much! I just hope she's doing well cuz she really is so so so strong! And jinyoung's words are so soothing and therapeutic! Such a kind soul!
To our sister ahgase Sora please avoid those words from that people, you are not alone. Jinyoung oppa thanks for comforting our ahgase Sora. You are doing well. 💚
This is such a heart warming video to watch. Jinyoung is someone who comforts someone at a bad time and he is so nice. I hope Sora is doing well these days.
We need more people like Jinyoung in our world.. His words were so comforting and they really came out of his heart. He even made me feel better about my own struggles.. Thanks.
now i remember why jinyoung was my ult bias for so long. he’s such a loving and caring gentlemen. i love that he did this for her. this is such an important topic. i find it amazing how different humans can be. some people find joy in being alone and some people find that joy in being surrounded be people they love and if you don’t have what makes you happy you feel depressed. for some people being around others is emotionally draining and for others being alone is deteriorating for their mental health. it’s amazing to think about. i fell even more in love with jinyoung after watching this. edit: also that iced americano looks amazing lmao it’s no different than the United States but somehow everything in korea looks better haha
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*Get you a man who'd listen and comfort you like Jinyoung..*
Maaaaaan....... he is so rare, he's an amazing listener.
I am Miss why do i need to get a man LIKE jinyoung?? I already have him😂😂😂😂
I am dreaming dont mind me
What a Virgo Man
He looks so sincere here. He is totally a rare person to find.🤩
no finding a guy who listens is not hard its just peoples standards are too high. We do listen.
Bruh I can't even have a deep conversation like this with my *family* without them laughing
seouled haha me too sometime theythink im stupid or idiot
*Me too... it's so hard.*
Yeah me too
It's probably hard for them to sympathize.. my dad is the only one I can talk to who will listen, and help me.
My parents would listen but if I start laughing it goes down hill
I wonder how Sora is doing now. I hope and pray she has found the perfect job and is very happy!
@Loelle Mellergaard Plz if you get info I wanna know about her!
anyone have update about sora?
i hope shes okay
I gave u ur 1k like and I feel very satisfied bc It’s my first time
Ur welcome
Appreciate me
Any updates guys?
*I'm not saying he's perfect, but he's perfect*
Jimin Jeongyeon he’s perfect.. ❤️
His only imperfection is being too perfect 😂😂
No he is not perfect, he is way to perfect to be perfect cause he is too perfect than a perfect person...
Yes I agree
This is so tender
“people wouldn’t remember the hurtful things they said to you”
His words hits me hard. Jinyoung is such a sweetheart with beautiful personality that’s why he’s my bias. Happy Birthday jinyoung ah💗
It's Khairul it’s really true tho...that’s why people should be careful what they say because you might forget but someone else might be hurt by it for a lifetime
@@npcimknot958 so true
Hello jinyoung fanboy 💚
InstaBlaster...
You dont add -ah to the end of someone's name unless you have a personal relationship with them
Jinyoung looks so concerned about Sora, His looks and his pure heart is the only evidence I have to justify this.
ikr i was tearing up hes so sweet 😭❤
I think among all the members of Got7 his wisdom is beyond his age. He also reads a lot of books and he is old fashioned, doesn’t dye his hair or wear any piercings/earrings compared to the rest in his group.
Mockingjay 2.7 he cant dye his hair or have a piercing or tatoo because he should look clean for he is the visual or face of got7
@@LeviePajo That doesnt make sense? Why cant a visual dye their hair?
@@LeviePajo i guess it's because he should look clean for just incase there's a new offer of kdrama that he will star into.
I wish I can have conversation like that to people I care the most
Sadly when i care for people they don't seemed to care for me that much :(
indeed.. :')
@@Chuggyeom maybe you should tell them how you are feeling.
@@lowca6457 haha nice idea but meh no one gives a crap :)
me too. If I try to then all they say is that "there are people who are dying in wars and starving"
"bu i hope you don't force yourself to do things to fit in"
-Got7 Park Jinyoung
Jay why pee.
after those words I began crying.
I wanna hug her so badly. I feel her pain about people's prejudice when they see you young
Ikr.. her story resonated a lot with me even though ibstarted to work younger
Tudawg ya me too
It's hard the other way too. I look older than I am and it gives them a different view of who I really am
😔
I'm 14 and people assum , I'm 18/19, it makes me feel so bad :(
When you realized this isn't just about this girl.. This is a good example of talking to other people effectively and keeping the conversation longer even if you are a stranger to them with almost no information about them. This helped me a lot as a person whos not exactly good at socializing
He probably had some knowledge about her problem tho. But I'll give it to him for comforting a complete stranger. He's a King.❤️
idk what his background study. i’m amazed that he did this like a set up of psychology counseling as psychology student i might say he did very well comforting people. Put himself like he was in that condition, acceptance of what she’s been through then the way he talked without prejudice and his gesture while listening to her is such a good example! i hope people will more understand how to hear someone’s when they need a support properly in the future.
he's really open
@@albabyahya Hi, i just want to add information about jinyoung since i have been fan since 2014. In my observation jinyoung is introvert and caring person. He also like a mom in his group. He also has good dicipline and soft heart. He also a good listener. That's why in a variety show, jackson wants to have a long talk with him because he feels so comfort when he is talking to jinyoung.
Yes it is more easy talking to stranger about your problems because there is no fear of judgement..
This man is the definition of a perfect man
Absolutely
Obviously, you haven't met me but it's okay.
Lalo Villa it’s good your confident enough to say that :)
yeah perfect for you because he's famous
you probably walk by a lot of "perfect" men with that mindset, because there are plenty of men like him. he did it for the camera , like he mentioned. he is a shy person himself. i dont think he would've walked up to her without it being documented. lots of men are warm hearted human beings, myself included. i love little things, conversations or watching movies alone etc. but he is only "perfect" because he has fame sadly. people only get these compliments when they're famous. watch around you a little. there a many kind people not only him. hes not the definition of "perfect" trust me
She can even smile when she is crying, she's a very strong and hardworking person
Wow thanks for the likes! I hope all of you to be strong too
She's definitely a strong woman
Most of girls are stronger than men. Not by strength but by heart
She is!!!!!
@@mohamada4460 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂 , i m strong by both , cause i dont give a shit to any ones comment except my own family 😏😏😏😏😂
Honestly, she looks very depressed. And i know that no matter how much you talk to people, and no matter how much people want to help you, depression is something you face alone and you must fight alone. If she hasn't decided to feel better, she won't feel better no matter how many people are there for her and tell her they love her. I myself go through depression and it's really not that easy to comprehend and to deal with. I just hope she'll get better and she'll find a way out of it. Talking about it can make you feel good for like a day or two but it comes back inevitably... It's a path that she must walk alone to get out of.
Rosalie B this is true. For her to be able to get out of depression, she should have a strong motivation to be out of it, a strong emotional support from family and friends. I pray for her to be better soon
hard but true :/
I've myself been struggling with depression for 5 years now and to be honest when I saw her I knew immediately she was not doing ok. I felt like we share some common vibes. I hope she will find some professional councellor to talk to and to help her and/or a new job to give her some confidence and so encouraging her to fell better and to finally to be in peace with herself. I wish her the best ❤
My best friend is having a depression, I tried to console her like thousand times.. I'd cried with her even if it's just me and her talking in phone.. She tried to slit her wrist that one time and my heart ache so much.. Idk anything about depression.. But I can tell that depression is killing someone deep from inside.. How can I help her? How can I heal my bestfriend ? What can I do? Even if I can't help too Much.. I still want to help ..
@@natasha.l.a842 how old is your friend? You should tell her parents if shes a minor, or a doctor in any case, I hope it will be OK. Thank you for being there for her
"Those who hurt other's feelings with their words, they don't even remember that they said such things."
It sucks, right? How hurtful things people say in passing - intentionally or not - stick with you for a long time, if not, the rest of your life.
And they just go on with their life without ever think about that their word hurt other people.
CJ mhm when i was 15 my dad asked me why i was so fat and why he was skinny. Korean family so skinny meant looks good. I barely ate and only grew to 5’8 ik for a fact i couldve gotten taller i asked him why he said that when i was like 20. Told me he didnt remember and it pissed me off more. Like how tf do you say that to your one and only son.
ChuChuTrain I’m sorry that anyone made you feel that way. I feel you, and it hurts that much more when it’s someone you love a lot. People throw words like they don’t know the power they hold or the power that we give words. I imagine that memory in your life made a big impact on you, made you insecure about the way you look, made it hard for you to love yourself and understand why people love you. But always remember that there will be someone out there who appreciates you just the way you are, people who realise it’s what’s inside that really matters. I don’t know if the way you see yourself has changed since then or how things are now, just remember beauty is subjective. We live in a society where everyone expects you to be the same but if we really were that way, imagine how mundane this world would be. This probs sounded cringey but this came from the bottom of my heart. I hope you learn to love yourself, slowly but surely.
This is mostly in Asian people!!!
Sneha Fernando ty yea im more confident now it made me realize to stop caring so much what other ppl say and funny thing is im fit/healthy and my dad currently is too skinny where it looks unhealthy of course im not gonna say anything im more American than Korean so knowing its rude in my main culture im not gonna say it ty for your kind words
dingo admin said in the comments section in original video, she(sora) doesn't like iced americano so jinyoung made her latte too. and he said "sweet drink makes you feel better."^^
underrated comment here
Oh man. Jinyoung keeps getting better and better! 😂😂❤❤❤❤
He’s using legit therapeutic methods of questioning, listening, and advising. He must have done really good research or he’s just naturally a good listener
In my opinion he is good listener..
JB did always say he always vents and likes talking about his worries to Jinyoung because it makes him feel better. So, I think he is a natural 😂
I want to give her the biggest hug in the world. She's an introvert and don't like big crowds yet she still has the courage to work multiple jobs. She gets put down and not taken seriously bc of how young she looks. I feel so bad for her, u can tell she was really kept bottling things up until now. I'm glad she got this chance to talk to Jinyoung. I hope things get better for her in the future.
CmUsIc4U You know I’ve noticed something quite odd in this thread but in the best way possible. Many of us tuned in to see Jinyoung but most of the comments speak about her first and in a kind way.
Is there a another I can communicate with you
It's interesting how each country is so different, she started working at the age of 19 and it's called young, in my country it's normal to work from the age of 16... I worked from the age of 14. She's so sweet and gentle, and I hope she'll be happy❤️
Yeah that’s why I was kind of confused, since I’m 16 and I’m working, but I guess it’s different in Korea
@@heeyizzy I think she meant working full time. Its normal for people to work part time whilst they study but she said she gave up on education so i'm assuming she meant working full time.
I was confused for a minute too until I thought "maybe she meant she started working FULL TIME at 19" which would've made more sense. Unless she actually meant she started working at 19 which wouldn't be necessary a bad thing. Education is very important in Korea. I started making money at like 13 before getting a retail job. ~ends long rant~
She's working full time after she graduated in high school. As usual in korea, students go to the university after graduation. But she doesn't. That's why, she said "i'm working when i'm young in 19"
I’m 13 and my school offers me a job so yeah I’m working
jinyoung was such a good listener to her :’)) the way he validated her feelings and reminded her that she’s not alone was so smart and kind of him. this video was perfect ❤️
me: *bored on quarantine*
youtube: oh let’s put this on recommendations
my bored ass: *sobbing*
Lol 😂 me too
i was about to like it but it's 665 likes already🤡🔫
I don't know but these emoji makes me cringe
this is exactly how it it went for me too
pls sameeejjvjsjc
His such a gentleman even tho his a mini savage ❤️😍😩 such boyfriend material
Am I the only one who noticed that this has been re-uploaded? But I still cried😭
Edit: So this is for his birthday! Happy Birthday Jinyoung!!🎂🎈
yaaaas huhu
no wonder I felt like I've seen the girl before lol plus it's 'white day' and that's way back in March
yes same here i still cried
Jinyoung has everything you want in a man. He’s got the looks, the talent, the personality. *He’s the whole package*
He can bully me all day, I’ll feel blessed
When Jinyoung said that he cried himself to sleep after someone said he wasn't good like the other members, it really goes to show that you can have millions of followers, millions of dollars, millions of riches and love of all kind, but it only takes ONE person and one sentence to completely break you down. I'm SO SO glad he fought through and is still with us today. We've lost too many angels to hate. 😞🤍💜
I know me too. I really dunno why people choose to be mean like that 😞And it applies for me too, everytime I get hurt coz of someone, I just replay his advice over and over. It helps a lot
@Best Slime ASMR lmao, fr?
yea, because negativity tends to hit people harder than positivity. its frustrating...
I wonder who that person is
@@3wydreamer147 It's easier to to be negative and judgmental than positive. There's a lot of envy in this world. She is so beautiful, She looks at her age and she will get 50 yrs old, she will look even younger and then people would say wow she looks good for her age. Theya re just jealous because she's strong lady. I'm glad she met Junior, he is such a sweet and lovable soul.
Her friend made this possible!!! Whoever named Taehyun that made her to be with Jinyoung, you're such a great true friend, i hope i can find someone like you!👏👍화이팅 소라 씨!😊
That's why jackson stay close to jinyoung everytime 😁😁😁
Uno Diones yeah it’s a boy name
@@uno.3661 teahyun is at bts hes one of the members V
Divine vlog Taehyung is in BTS. Taehyun is the name of one of the members of txt, I think. I doubt it's the same person though.
@@rosest768 oh I thought its from bts
When she began talking in shaking voice, it hits hard.
Yes omg, that would be me too
I felt so comforted just by watching JinYoung comforting the girl. I felt the same way as her. But after watching this I decided not to give up and try harder. I'm rooting for her!
I'm rooting for you
"Those who hurt other's feelings with their words, they don't even remember that they said such things." I FELT THAT.
Yess..because people hurt unintentionally too. We also might have hurt many people in our lives, and maybe if they bring that up now, we would be shocked to hear how they took our words. Fact is, we sometimes mistake the words of other people, and other people do the same. So we don't know when to actually take their words seriously. This brings us to the solution that don't take it seriously at all. U never know if they misjudged u, or u misjudged them.
I like Jinyoung. After watching the tv series by him “He is Psychometric” and listen to GOT7, I like him even more. After watching his video, I totally admire his personality.
omfg sameee zzzz
He became ny bias ever since I saw this episode.
Jinyoung is probably like that real life Kdrama lead actor, handsome, cute, tall, mysterious, mischievous, humorous, at times shy and at some times confident, he’s the man yknow, he’s not a boy, not some guy, he’s THE MAN
GJC n LRC omg same
Same here
i love how Jinyoung listened to her very carefully and really gave such a meaningful advice. not many people can pull that off. i wish i could meet someone like that and comfort me with words that actually means something..
Same I will be talking to family and friends... they will be trying to give me advice. When most times I just someone to listen. I never have someone who can just listen.
Yes someone who will listen those who listen give usually the best advice.
I admire Sora a lot! She has had a lot of crap in her life and had to give up college because of lack of money which a lot of us take for granted. Since then she has had to work many jobs as well as face prejudice against her. I really do pray she finds her happiness cause she honestly deserves it. Plus I love that Jinyoung did this. Some people do just need an safe and comfortable outlet like this. He spoke to her calmly and with love as well as showing his own maturity and intelligence. That's an idol! I hope to see more episodes like this. Almost like a counselling session for random individuals with idols who also need someone to talk to cause they are human too. I really like this concept and hope it continues.
I Stan the right guy, he is the most sincere, genuine & sweetest guy on earth.
You can see from his eyes & facial expressions when he speaks with her.
I love how Jinyoung listened & empathise with her, passing her tissues, comforting her with wise words & encouraging her by giving an example of his own. I love how he explained why he gift her the books & he tried to make her relax at the photo taking.
The big hug at the end is the biggest comfort a human being can give another. Everything he did here is daebak!
I hope Sora is doing fine.
Jinyoung is a matured & intellectual man. He is a good counsellor!
I'D BE CRYING EVEN MORE IF HE COMFORTED ME.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, JINYOUNG
I thought the same about myself
The girl had pure honest and painful words, the guy had warm, nervous and comforting words , pure example of talking comforting and having conversations can lighten and feel you ease
What a nice person jinyoung is. The thing about jinyoung that i love the most is he's a deep thinker that speaks really well and he knows how to express himself well. Thats why sora can open up to him easily. To sora ssi, cheer up. You're beautiful inside out, and i know someday you'll successfully walk on the flower path :)
Aww Jinyoung is a natural counselor! He’s very respectful and tries to relate himself with Sora’s concerns. 😭 Love him!!!
I clicked on this video ready to envy the fan but left feeling so happy jinyoung spent this time with Sora.
Do you love me I love you music you make me happy Tobi try out kill you I'm a murderer
Omg same I was getting ready to be jealous and upset with her but after watching I can relate to her SO much and now I’m crying 😭 😭💜
I only liked because u have bts girl suga for your picture
I need help on that
His voice is so soothing and he speaks so well oh my god mom I'm in love
its the girl who got comforted by jinyoung but i was the one who’s crying
LOOOOL awww - he's boyfriend goals?
Same.. its so sweet
SAME!!
OMG he is generally so sweet like when he told her such things about not to worry and take care of herself it literally comforted her and she was so comfortable with him like even though she was an introvert she totally spoke everything that was in her heart
Ps :She is so lucky
I'm not even a got7 stan, but this was the sweetest thing ever!!
c h i a r a you should be a GOT7 stan 🙆🏻♀️ all members are super sweet and funny 💞
Ahhh people like her are so strong. She's having a hard time but she's made it this far. Hopefully, she'll succeed very soon. Jinyoung is good at comforting too!
I think Jinyoung looks 10 times more handsome up close and personal! He has good personality too in addition to his good looks and talent!
Yeah..because he read a lot and that make he a clever men and hishas a kind heart...
baby kunkun and jackson wang : Jinyoung loves to read? Whoa! That's good to know. I like guys like that
baby kunkun and jackson wang : I learned something new and pleasant about Jinyoung today. Thanks to you! 😊
jinyoung is so thoughtful and caring, people misunderstand him as cold and mean because he is quiet, but in reality he is a gentleman and a great person😭❤
I feel like she still trying to keep her tears inside..i feel like i just wanna let her cry as loud as she wants because i feel her..i've been there in some ways.. Be strong, sister! *sending lots of loves and hugs* 💚
I honestly love that Jinyoung agreed to this, he loves his fan and tries to help people who don't have confidence in themselves. Jinyoung is a great choice for boosting your confidence. She is really pretty and whoever judged her is disrespectful and doesn't deserve her. Jinyoung is #HusbandMaterial & #BoyfriendMaterial because when you talk down about yourself, he'll tell you that you aren't ugly, stupid, fat, he'll tell you that you're beautiful in any shape, you're beautiful and perfect. He makes you feel special like no one can't. He puts his personal expirence with yours, he cares and loves. I'm glad we some people in the world like this, Thank you Park Jinyoung we love you so much
shes 24?!?! She looks like 14 i was so surprised to see that whoahhh shes so cute
FIGHTING KIM SORA ❤️👍🏻❤️👍🏻❤️
ARMYJIN But 24 probably is in Korean age.. So she is probably 22/23. Still she looks young
I'm so touched by what Jinyoung did to the girl. He is such a warm-hearted guy!
Oh my heart 💞 this definitely solidified Jinyoung as my ultimate bias. Not only is he handsome and charming, but he has such a good heart. He just knows the right things to say to comfort someone who's hurting. Sora is so strong, I admire her spirit. Ah I'm so jealous though!
Wow
I'm so impressed. Jinyoung told her a lot of things that can help not only her but also other people.
Thank you Jinyoung for being yourself 💗
Some people tell me that Jinyoung was too fake in this video, but I don’t think so, he is like that, he doesn’t have to many expressions but if you look well in this video, you can notice the little things that show that Jinyoung is worried, even nervous.
He is very good at listening to her and talking her through her problems though! Whether he truly care or not, he gave her many sound advice
Wait i did not see anyone say that about him tho
Nobody says that, actually its only you... These days kpop fans tend to say "many are saying" or "why is everybody saying" when nobody really does... Don't do that.
lily I said some people tell me, not I saw people saying. Some of my friend told me that he looked fake. I should have said that, sorry but I’m not lying. (Also, I’m not actually the kind of people that look at the comments)
Manu J. A Tbh he's always been a straightforward deep thinking type of person. He's not fake bc u can see he's genuinely concerned about her. And that's just one of the reasons why I love him so much
"To love and be gentle to yourself is very important" -2018 Park Jinyoung
“there’s so many questions to be answered during a tough phase. but the most important thing is to take care of yourself. to love and be gentle to yourself is very important.” i felt that
2019 tears!!!! I have a master's degree and I'm a licensed therapist. *Jinyoung has me beat* Omg this is so beautiful. He's so patient and understanding with her. Something he said is what I tell my clients and that's to be *gentle with yourself* In life, we are our own worst critics, being gentle and loving to ourselves is a must. This way even during hard times, we remember that we MATTER and are deserving of the best. Affirmations are a positive tool as well. Okay enough with therapist talk. Jinyoung is my bias for a reason and this just confirms it even more. *Hes amazing*
Enlightened Sista - totally agreed with you . This conversation is so beautiful. Whenever I have a tough day , I would come here . Jinyoung is amazing person - inside out 💚
What should be a good words to comfort a friend?
Anxiety is my biggest problem.
@@ikz8439 how do you know if you have anxiety. I'm not attacking you or something lol but I'm genuinely asking. I dont know what to define anxiety as
@@zaheerahmotala4371 feels like somebody's driving a bus over your chest...sucks... but there's a reason why we have anxiety. It's not random. You have anxiety because you're unhappy with some facet of your life. Find out what it is, and change it. Anxiety is real, but it's not permanent, I don't care what anybody says. You can fix it. You have control over your own life.
The way she looked at him like she really took his words by heart 😢
Hi
watching this makes me cry a lot, thinking about the problems i face at the same time. jinyoung is a great comforter and a great listener.
I was supposed to get jealous of the girl but after hearing her story I can totally relate and got inspired by her I'm cryingggg
moood
She's exactly like me. Going through a lot, not being happy around people, being alone a lot, not believing in myself, crying a lot... I hope I can fight in the future just like she does. ♡
life will get better soon. ❤
Fighting ❤
Same, but never loose hope ;)
Me too Bianca 😭
Bianca Smith are you feeling better now?
Jinyoung is one of the most mature idol
Jinyoung Seems quiet and shy but his heart is so wide.
this video is so sweet.
i love this kind of idol and ordinary people sit down and talk only both of them about them and the hard days they had and support each other to keep strong and fighting..
there is always a bright side in every day and every experience we had in it
Ik I'm late. But I just wanna say for the people scrolling through comments. I love you. You are a beautiful person inside and out. Please take care of yourself. 💖💖EDIT: thank u for the likes and sweet comments
love ur acc's name haha
Awwn❤❤❤🥰🥰🥰
Joliissa_ C ily too 💕
Same to you. 😍
Specially in the Corona time.
Love from Germany.
I love you
Jinyoung you are such a Healer, I'm not a fan of yours but after seeing this I feel like, you are a gem that anyone wish to have. Long live
I love how maturely he handles difficult emotions with such acceptance and understanding. He’s like a safe place. I admire that. XD
I LITERALLY CRIED WITH HER BECAUSE OF HIM- GOD SHE'S SO LUCKY TO BE COMFORTED BY JINYOUNG
Nope. Shes lucky because she was comforted when she needed it the most. No matter who the person is if you are being helped when you needed it the most is the best thing that will happen to you. Yes he is an idol ofcourse so its a plus
She really deserves this. I feel so bad for her 🙁 Hope she's okay now honestly😞
i think shes lucky for getting comforted. ranks dont matter when ur human
This young woman is beautiful and has a lovely personality, this was recorded 2 years ago? I wonder how she is doing?
I come back here when I need to be comforted. His words and his way of talking are so reassuring and sweet.
I love how genuine jinyoung is.
Jinyoungs such a sweet guy I wish that there were more guys like him out there lol
WHO SAID MY HANDSOME AND TALENTED JINYOUNG WASN'T GREAT?! DO YOU LIVE UNDER A ROCK OR SOMETHING?!
WE LOVE YOU, JINYOUNG! ❤️ YOU ARE AMAZING AND GIFTED! DON'T EVER STOP! 💚
what do u think of Jinyoungs Dive - love song or wedding song? plz leave a com. on song we are trying to hear what people think of the text.
Got7 seriously have the realest men out there. They have the biggest hearts
100% agree with u. Not one of them has a bad heart. Each of them makes sure to have fun, goof around but make sure they show their love for their fans. When BamBam said that he was worried that by the time they made a comeback (in 2022) he feared that people would leave GOT7's fandom or forget about them, it really warmed my heart. They truly care for their fans and admirers and value their support. ❤🌟💕💜💚
I like how Jinyoung tried to relate his own experience to the painful experience of the girl and not just give random words of encouragement. That's empathy and most of the time that's all we need.
just imagine when the members start to date and jinyoung being like this to his girlfriend honestly how is he so perfect
I love how Jinyoung was so comforting towards her, he seems like the type that even if you aren't great at talking to people you can truly tell how you feel, and he'd just be there to listen to you and comfort you the best way he can
WHO IS CUTTING ONIONS OMG
namjoon :")
I KNOW WTF
Alex Dun omg you read my mind
omg im sure its namjoon
It’s namjoon
He was raised so well, such a warm personality and gentle manners
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU JINYOUNG OPPA 😘💖❤💕🎂🤩😊🎇🎆🎈🎉🎊. GOD BLESS YOU AND ESPECIALLY ON THIS SPECIAL DAY. KEEP SMILING❤. AHGHASES [ OR IGOT7 ] LOVES YOU AND WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU . WE WILL ALWAYS SUPPORT YOU OPPA💖😊 . TODAY I'VE SEEN THE SOFT , CARING AND NICE SIDE OF JINYOUNG OPPA . THAT DOESN'T MEAN I THOUGHT OF JINYOUNG OPPA AS A BAD PERSON. NO!! IT'S JUST THAT I'VE NEVER SEEN HIM COMFORTING SOMEONE . THIS VIDEO REALLY MELT MY HEART . JINYOUNG OPPA IS REALLY GOOD AT COMFORTING [ PEOPLE ] . I HOPE EVERYTHING GOES WELL FOR KIM SORA❤💖💕. I WISH HER ALL THE BEST IN LIFE . THANK YOU JINYOUNG OPPA FOR HELPING SORA💖💕❤ . AFTER SEEING HOW LOVING YOU ARE , MY LOVE FOR YOU IS GROWING💖💕❤😘😍😉
Edit : Thanks guys for the 421 likes.❤ LOVE YOU GUYS❤. I didn't expect to get soooo many likes❤❤
take a shot every time she says oppa
@@fleur8793 What do you mean by I better pour it up?
@@fleur8793 ok but you could have at least say it nicely. Nevermind it's ok.
♡ジミンだいすき♡ thank you for the challenge I just died from alcohol poisoning
@@melanie-gd8gv i'm not a koreaboo, you know i can't write Oppa in korean 'cause most people won't be understanding what i wrote. Anyways thanks for the advice😊. THANK YOU❤ FOR THE COMPLIMENT.
When they were having their converstion After jinyoung took her a picture i noticed that jinyoung really wanted to hug her but looks like he was finding the right timing😂 i love jinyoung😗
*TF WHY AM I CRYING WHEN SOMEONE'S CRYING LIKE OHMYGAD HOPING SHE WOULD CONTINUE WITH A STRONG HEART HWAITING UNNIE* 😭💕 ughhh can I like hug her? 💕😢
I am watching a kdrama that Jinyoung is in...& I have absolutely fell in love with him in it! ❤ He is truly amazing & so talented & handsome! ❤
this is sad and at the same time cute i have almost the same problem like her im not comfortable being surrounded by people especially when trying to converse with them cause after like simple greetings, "hello whats up? How you doin' today?" questions like that,it gets uhm awkward i find it hard to talk with people especially when you have nothing in common. Anyways shes such a strong person. Someday she will overcome all of her problems. Im happy for her because shes not giving up no matter what other people say and thats good. 💚
I started crying right away because I know her feelings so well because I feel the same. I keep thinking it’s normal to feel like this because I never got support from my family but I guess you could call it depression
I think all the girls her age feel the same I'm 24 and feel lost
Hey don't be sad. U can talk to me if u want. It's okay to feel sad and unhappy. It is also one emotion that we have to feel. Feel free to ask for my time
I feel the same way. It’s hard, but I guess the fight makes us stronger in the end. I hope you’re doing well! 💜
Aww he's so sweet, this made me fall in love with him even more
This video is the reason why I am I get to knew GOT7, I really admire how Jinyoung talks and persuade people and it looks so comfortable to have a deep conversation with him.
3:24 i feel so bad for her, she's trying so hard at life and those people make her feel terrible.
The fact that just by talking to him she felt so comfortable to tell him about her life. I love Jinyoung ❤️
I feel so sad hearing about this young lady. She has had to go through a lot. God bless her may she have a better life.
Jinyoung is so pure and sincere :(( Had I been the girl I don't think I could even speak in front of him I'd literally met away loool
this is why i love got7.
they are mature, polite, respectfull, manly and gentleman.
i sobbing my eyes out.....
This girl is so pure! And I relate to her struggles so much! I just hope she's doing well cuz she really is so so so strong! And jinyoung's words are so soothing and therapeutic! Such a kind soul!
To our sister ahgase Sora please avoid those words from that people, you are not alone. Jinyoung oppa thanks for comforting our ahgase Sora. You are doing well. 💚
This is such a heart warming video to watch. Jinyoung is someone who comforts someone at a bad time and he is so nice. I hope Sora is doing well these days.
Jinyoung's facial expressions are that of an older brother listening to his little sister's troubles... He's so genuine 😌
From this I just wanna say if Jinyoung got a girlfriend then she is so lucky to have him
We need more people like Jinyoung in our world.. His words were so comforting and they really came out of his heart. He even made me feel better about my own struggles.. Thanks.
Jinyoungie has the healing power, so comforting and he's the sweetest and perfect
its already 2020 and im still appreciating How GENUINELY KIND Park Jinyoung is.. i mean his words are so thoughtful
now i remember why jinyoung was my ult bias for so long. he’s such a loving and caring gentlemen. i love that he did this for her. this is such an important topic. i find it amazing how different humans can be. some people find joy in being alone and some people find that joy in being surrounded be people they love and if you don’t have what makes you happy you feel depressed. for some people being around others is emotionally draining and for others being alone is deteriorating for their mental health. it’s amazing to think about. i fell even more in love with jinyoung after watching this.
edit: also that iced americano looks amazing lmao it’s no different than the United States but somehow everything in korea looks better haha
I came to see Jinyoung being sweet, ended up crying because it's like he's talking to me, giving me advice too 😭💕💕💕
2:14 Usually people tell not to cry, but I like the way he tells to cry.