My husband and I had this very conversation this morning. Almost 26 years of marriage and I think we've shared a blanket twice. We agreed sharing blankets/comforters is a recipe for disaster.
The candid photos are especially a thing when you have a baby. It is always a bunch of pictures of Dad and baby and mom only gets selfies, or formal photos with the baby/ kids.
My current girlfriend and ex-girlfriend both at one point in each relationship sat me down and said they wished I’d take more candid photos of them because it makes them feel loved and attractive. So I understood why that question was in this episode immediately. lol.
I'm the opposite. I'd be uncomfortable constantly wondering when a camera was going to be on me but I do enjoy agreed upon photos of both people together
5:04 Link’s brain: Pretending to listen is bad. Listening is good. I don’t pretend to listen, sometimes I just happen to look like I am listening. I’m not trying to look like I am listening bc I really am not listening😂
No cute candid is where, for example, he is admiring you weeding the flower bed and snaps a shot of you when you aren’t paying attention and then later tells you how beautiful you looked and shows you. And you think”holy cow I’m so lucky - after all these years he is still a little smitten”
The picture taking thing is often a complaint of moms because their homes & social media will be filled with candid pics of the kids and dad making memories/having fun together but the husband rarely thinks to do the reverse & take pictures of mom & kids.
Yes! I was just going through my pics from Christmas 2 years ago and I was thinking “where was I?” I remember being there, and clearly I was taking pictures.
Theres an idea that mums tend to take more photos of the kids with dad (as some sort of a mum being sentimental/emotional/prepared sort of thing) but there are few photos of kids and mum because the dads tend to live more in the moment of the experience not worrying about wanting to look back on it.... that's how I heard the photo question anyway.
11:00 the problem is we live in LA where everything is super expensive including cost of living so we can’t afford to be eating out on a Tuesday or Wednesday 😂
I try to be understanding of people who "don't listen" . Some people do it because they are selfish and don't care but some people just have attention problems or brain fog and need more stimulating communication techniques
16:59 I agree with Link there, how/why would that be a “Heterosexual Thing” 🤨 I’m sure there are other (gay, lesbian, couples in general) that have this sort of dynamic…
I've always said I don't understand why couples fight over blanket stealing when you can have your own separate blankets and ppl say to me what if we're snuggly sleepers it still works guys my husband and i have been doing this for 14 years and we're snuggly sleepers
My husband and I started using separate sheets just a few months into our marriage. Never came back to sharing, each person with their favorite blanket is great.
My husband and I have seperate blankets. It's so much better than fighting over the blankets. Well worth it. We do two throws because you will get hot lying next to each other, and you can just flip that blanket up for struggle snuggles😂❤❤❤. Best thing i ever insisted we try.
My husband and I have separate bed covers, and have for years.. He is like a furnace. Even in the coldest nights he will have his shoulders uncovered. I will have 2 more blankets and the sheet over my head. We've been married 40 years. And have had separate bed linens for probably 30 . A king size bed makes a huge difference also. XD
Being a bad spouse can't be measured with a universal test. What works for one couple might not work for another. But I think that taking candid photos thing because your partner looks cute would probably work for anyone.
I agree with the first part of your comment, but disagree with the second part. I absolutely loathe having my picture taken and avoid cameras at all costs. I would be mad if my partner took pictures of me.
I thought the little shot glass that looked like a big shot glass was going to be a giant glass with a really small inside. I guess this is why my investment failed.
At dinner with my parents for their 20th wedding anniversary, the server goes "20 years, that's no joke" which is now how we describe every anniversary. So Link is right - 25 years is no joke! 😊
They were surprisingly confused by the candid photo question lol Maybe it's a millennialism, but it has always been a thing for people my age, that people like when their partners take random pictures of them, capturing a memory, just because they were taking photos. It's absolutely not about posed, planned photos; quite the opposite. I wouldn't want to fully claim it ORIGINATED with polaroids, but certainly that's the point of popularization.
Exactly, it's about capturing the little, inconspicuous reasons why you love someone that don't always come up when you talk about the significant things.
OMG NO. I literally try to explain the LIFT and ROLL thing to my husband every other day! He pulls the sheets with him whenever he turns and I’m always saying “LIFT AND ROLL!!! LIFT AND ROLL!! It’s not hard!” 🤣🤣
The best thing ever is separate blankets! My husband and I have basically done this ALL our married life. King sized bed with full sized blankets and flat sheet.
12:38 that’s Crazy 😂 I’ve had 1 relationship. I’m 28, not in a relationship rn but even I know I would want a separate duvet cover cuz it really does sort the problem of stealing the cover 😂 and now Rhett’s saying it. I guess I’m just wise haha
I definitely agree with Link about asking someone questions. You have to be looking at me and make sure I am not doing something else before you go through a whole question.
The cute candid pictures is important, especially as a mom. We're usually the ones to do this and we don't have enough photos of ourselves but especially with our kids.
Get the separate comforters! It’s been such a game changer for my husband and I! He sleeps cooler and I need all the blankets, so it’s been great for us.
I would love to know what Rhett uses on his hair. Curly hair can be challenging to keep frizz and tangle free without making it too heavy or greasy. Rhett's hair looks great!
My partner and I have our own blankets and we lift them up for skin to skin cuddles. Then when we're ready to go to sleep, we roll away from each other, wrap ourselves in our respective blankets, and scoot back so our butts are touching. 😂😂
My boyfriend does the cute spontaneous photo thing when I'm trying something for the first time or like petting a cute animal, he always knows when I'm not looking and having the time of my of my life to take a photo. It's amazing because it's something I would never think of doing, and those pictures are really precious to me!
We use three blankets! Ome for both of us, and they overlap eachother just a little bit in the beggining for sleep cuddles. The third blanket is around our feet because we are taller than our blankets xD
For any astrology lovers: had a random urge to look up their signs mid-video and it makes so much sense, especially Rhett as a Libra and when I started the video again Rhett said “to be fair” 😂
I feel like a little shot glass that looks likes big shot glass could be great for people who want to look like they like to take big shots but like to take little shots
I may be weird but i even consider accompanying my boyfriend for his groceries without his kids as a little date. We also have online dates once a week or 2 where we watch a tv show streaming on discord.
they should have asked Christy and Jessie these questions to verify R&Ls answers
I was thinking of the same thing!
I feel like that's more gmm type commitment lol.
Why.
@@trolo127floridaare you saying that they wouldn’t do it or you’re surprised they didn’t do it?
@@baddaytrader I meant that they wouldn't put that much effort into a more.
My husband and I have used separate comforters for years. Best thing ever.
120% Agree ... My husband and I do the same
Same! He's 6'3", I'm 5'1". It just works better
Same! Individual sheets/blankets/duvets saved nighttime fit my husband and me! I recommend it to everyone!
My husband and I had this very conversation this morning. Almost 26 years of marriage and I think we've shared a blanket twice. We agreed sharing blankets/comforters is a recipe for disaster.
1000% agree! He is a classic blanket HOG, I got tired of it and one day years ago bought two twin comforters for our king bed
I understand the “do I have to go?” So hard 😂
this is my favorite kind of MORE: mellow, funny, chill, interesting and calm.
It could be more lively
@@Grrreeeeeeeeeeeewnice to get a break from link being a total spaz
@@nicsxnin6786 agreeeeee
@@Grrreeeeeeeeeeeew I think having these kinds of Ear Biscuits type talks but with the whole GMM staff is very interesting tbh
Big Dad Energy
I didn't know you guys got married. Best wishes.
😂
Funny
I knew 😏, I got them a blender.❤
glad to see you again after 25 years!
The candid photos are especially a thing when you have a baby. It is always a bunch of pictures of Dad and baby and mom only gets selfies, or formal photos with the baby/ kids.
this, and its painful making the baby books and asking him for pics he's taken of you and the baby and he doesnt have any at all.
To be fair, some moms don’t want to be in photos right after pregnancy. Even if encouraged :p
YES!!!
We call those “proof of mom” photos 😂
@@192tyleryea but a baby isn’t only a baby “right after pregnancy” 🤣
My current girlfriend and ex-girlfriend both at one point in each relationship sat me down and said they wished I’d take more candid photos of them because it makes them feel loved and attractive. So I understood why that question was in this episode immediately. lol.
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ah yes, thats exactly why i installed all these hidden cameras around the house! candid photo galore ;)
I'm the opposite. I'd be uncomfortable constantly wondering when a camera was going to be on me but I do enjoy agreed upon photos of both people together
Photos = love? Feels a bit self-involved.
@@reallydeadguy Its not so much the photo but the fact that the guy was thinking or appreciating them in that moment and wanted to save it.
5:04 Link’s brain: Pretending to listen is bad. Listening is good.
I don’t pretend to listen, sometimes I just happen to look like I am listening. I’m not trying to look like I am listening bc I really am not listening😂
“You still sleep with reckless abandon?” Haha
No cute candid is where, for example, he is admiring you weeding the flower bed and snaps a shot of you when you aren’t paying attention and then later tells you how beautiful you looked and shows you. And you think”holy cow I’m so lucky - after all these years he is still a little smitten”
yessss
The picture taking thing is often a complaint of moms because their homes & social media will be filled with candid pics of the kids and dad making memories/having fun together but the husband rarely thinks to do the reverse & take pictures of mom & kids.
Yes! I was just going through my pics from Christmas 2 years ago and I was thinking “where was I?” I remember being there, and clearly I was taking pictures.
I’m with link on the take pics while they don’t know so they’re cute to look back on later in life.
Theres an idea that mums tend to take more photos of the kids with dad (as some sort of a mum being sentimental/emotional/prepared sort of thing) but there are few photos of kids and mum because the dads tend to live more in the moment of the experience not worrying about wanting to look back on it.... that's how I heard the photo question anyway.
Moms *
@@nick.100non-US countries exist, my guy. Mums.
@@LiteraryAccidents they can learn the better pronunciation lol
@@LiteraryAccidents but also the US isn't the only country to use "moms" lol
@@gabriellas_fan But also, non US people aren't the only ones to say mum either lmao
“It seemed like a good idea 3 years ago in the hot tub”😂😂😂
11:00 the problem is we live in LA where everything is super expensive including cost of living so we can’t afford to be eating out on a Tuesday or Wednesday 😂
I try to be understanding of people who "don't listen" . Some people do it because they are selfish and don't care but some people just have attention problems or brain fog and need more stimulating communication techniques
yes its hard sometimes specially if partners also are slow talkers, my ADHD needs some stimulation to be able to follow
16:59 I agree with Link there, how/why would that be a “Heterosexual Thing” 🤨 I’m sure there are other (gay, lesbian, couples in general) that have this sort of dynamic…
I absolutely cannot STAND backseat drivers! 😂 I get visibly so mad
I've always said I don't understand why couples fight over blanket stealing when you can have your own separate blankets and ppl say to me what if we're snuggly sleepers it still works guys my husband and i have been doing this for 14 years and we're snuggly sleepers
My husband and I started using separate sheets just a few months into our marriage. Never came back to sharing, each person with their favorite blanket is great.
"you dont take enough pics of me being cute" is absolutely something I'd say lol
I really wish they’d start putting these in the playlists in chronological order
Great episode as I’m preparing to get engaged to my partner 😂
Congratulations
Engagement septum rings?
Congratulations 👏🏽
How do you prepare to get engaged?
Someone asks, and someone says yes or no. No big deal.
@ I’m trying to choose a ring and a location to ask etc
My husband and I have seperate blankets. It's so much better than fighting over the blankets. Well worth it. We do two throws because you will get hot lying next to each other, and you can just flip that blanket up for struggle snuggles😂❤❤❤. Best thing i ever insisted we try.
My husband and I have separate bed covers, and have for years.. He is like a furnace. Even in the coldest nights he will have his shoulders uncovered. I will have 2 more blankets and the sheet over my head. We've been married 40 years. And have had separate bed linens for probably 30 . A king size bed makes a huge difference also. XD
"It seems more gay actually" Rhett 2024
I don't understand people who share blankets overnight. I can not
Being a bad spouse can't be measured with a universal test. What works for one couple might not work for another. But I think that taking candid photos thing because your partner looks cute would probably work for anyone.
Honestly I'm not even sure if the "cute candid photo" thing is nearly universal either
Good thing this is a comedy show
I agree with the first part of your comment, but disagree with the second part. I absolutely loathe having my picture taken and avoid cameras at all costs. I would be mad if my partner took pictures of me.
Good mythical morning to both of these lucky husbands hahaha
A haiku:
I rotate under
The elevated bedsheets
To not disturb you
I thought the little shot glass that looked like a big shot glass was going to be a giant glass with a really small inside. I guess this is why my investment failed.
in love these episodes, its fun to getting to know them outside the media
I'm up for two sets of blankets!!!
8:45 I worked at a few restaurants in southern California and I also noticed Tuesday's were by far the least busy day.
At dinner with my parents for their 20th wedding anniversary, the server goes "20 years, that's no joke" which is now how we describe every anniversary. So Link is right - 25 years is no joke! 😊
Goodmorning yall 😂😂
Noo my investment into the mini shot glasses that look big i thought I be rich 😅
Can't wait to see y'all at Dallas, TX today. November 15th.
Hope you have a great time.
Woooooo! Have fun! 🎉
@ Thanks! 😄😁
Are they on tour?
@ Yeah, but on Ticketmaster it only shows Irving, TX and Sugarland, TX.
They were surprisingly confused by the candid photo question lol Maybe it's a millennialism, but it has always been a thing for people my age, that people like when their partners take random pictures of them, capturing a memory, just because they were taking photos. It's absolutely not about posed, planned photos; quite the opposite. I wouldn't want to fully claim it ORIGINATED with polaroids, but certainly that's the point of popularization.
Exactly, it's about capturing the little, inconspicuous reasons why you love someone that don't always come up when you talk about the significant things.
17:08 How many dudes have said this same statement. 😂
My husband does things without me ALLLL the time and I’m totally fine with it. I’m a lot more introverted than him and I want him to have fun!
Good morning from Kansas City!!
Good morning from emporia.
It's all about the product placement lol 😂
OMG NO. I literally try to explain the LIFT and ROLL thing to my husband every other day! He pulls the sheets with him whenever he turns and I’m always saying “LIFT AND ROLL!!! LIFT AND ROLL!! It’s not hard!” 🤣🤣
The shot glass company should be called “Lil Shot Big Shot” 0:37
The standing date joke didn't get enough appreciation
I disagree with the candid photos. I would not like that.
Candid shots started as just a sentimental thing for people, not just couples and became more popular for social media
Chicken rice doesn’t disappoint Us🏆
The best thing ever is separate blankets! My husband and I have basically done this ALL our married life. King sized bed with full sized blankets and flat sheet.
41 years ago I married my best friend and did so for life, are you listening? We both have our flaws and that’s what make us ONE
For the covers, we use several bed sheet and covers when we sleep together, we set them being thoughtful of where i sleep and where he sleeps
15:02 I’m confused because Link says he does take cute candid pictures. So why does he get a point?
12:38 that’s Crazy 😂 I’ve had 1 relationship. I’m 28, not in a relationship rn but even I know I would want a separate duvet cover cuz it really does sort the problem of stealing the cover 😂 and now Rhett’s saying it. I guess I’m just wise haha
I definitely agree with Link about asking someone questions. You have to be looking at me and make sure I am not doing something else before you go through a whole question.
the technique that rhett wants to do is literally what my parents do they have their own blankets
Has anyone ever been more clearly neurodivergent than Charles Lincoln Neal III…
The cute candid pictures is important, especially as a mom. We're usually the ones to do this and we don't have enough photos of ourselves but especially with our kids.
Get the separate comforters! It’s been such a game changer for my husband and I! He sleeps cooler and I need all the blankets, so it’s been great for us.
I would love to know what Rhett uses on his hair. Curly hair can be challenging to keep frizz and tangle free without making it too heavy or greasy. Rhett's hair looks great!
Never had any girlfriends that wanted candid pics quite the opposite actually.
Well, today I learned that I am Link
I learned that I'm Rhett.😂
The Scandinavian/German method of a single mattress with two duvets is THE WAY TO GO.
My partner and I have our own blankets and we lift them up for skin to skin cuddles. Then when we're ready to go to sleep, we roll away from each other, wrap ourselves in our respective blankets, and scoot back so our butts are touching. 😂😂
the candid photos thing could be a younger generation thing
Or a narcissistic thing.
We each have our own blanket. Plus I don't like to sleep with a sheet over me.
They need a quarterly report that is actually positive
7:01 instantly said Link does this😂
Definitely can vouch for separate flat sheets/blankets. I like to burrito myself, and was always stealing the covers in my sleep. 😂
Separate blankets is the best thing ever
My husband is as tall as Rhett, he’d always steal it all, we’ve been doing separate blankets/duvets… it’s definitely the best
Why was it so easy for me to predict the outcome of this episode h
Good mythical MOREning my fellow beasties!
I'm 💯% positive I don't have to watch this video to know the answer, I can connect the obvious Link...
Link is right. I've worked in restaurants for 30 years. Unless it's a Mexican Restaurant, (Taco Tuesday). Tuesdays are most often the slowest night.
I don’t think it’s about looking cute 😂 it’s that I have 1000 pics of my husband and he has zero of me. It just means u care
You guys could sit in the back on the MORE's. Maybe on giant bean bags.
Good Morning Yall
I have the same "sheet" situation and technique as Rhett... I understand COMPLETELY!!! :D
For me it’s a parent thing. Candid photos of me with kids, Christmas, birthdays ect. I take pics of my husband and kids being cute together
My ex and I used two separate blankets, he liked a thick comforter but I like a thin blanket and it made us so much happier at bedtime
I'd like a version of this about them being work husbands lol
My boyfriend does the cute spontaneous photo thing when I'm trying something for the first time or like petting a cute animal, he always knows when I'm not looking and having the time of my of my life to take a photo. It's amazing because it's something I would never think of doing, and those pictures are really precious to me!
I believe having separate blankets saved multiple marriages/relationships
We use three blankets! Ome for both of us, and they overlap eachother just a little bit in the beggining for sleep cuddles. The third blanket is around our feet because we are taller than our blankets xD
They should do this again but as work husbands 😊
yesssssssssssssss
little shot glasses that look like big shot glasses? was that apart of sike?
I am the clothes around the house person it's so weird to me because I don't know how to not be😂
That’s not what candid means
For any astrology lovers: had a random urge to look up their signs mid-video and it makes so much sense, especially Rhett as a Libra and when I started the video again Rhett said “to be fair” 😂
Omg my husband does the same thing when he rolls to grab something or flips, I really want the 2 blanket thing too.
I feel like a little shot glass that looks likes big shot glass could be great for people who want to look like they like to take big shots but like to take little shots
16:31 Me and my girlfriend do this allllll the time, so I definitely don't view it as a straight thing
People don't use separate blankets? That's so weird...
its not candid if you are asking for the pic
So link has adhd lmao 😂
13:07 …and because Rhett is such a big guy, they can’t even just buy a bigger duvet. California King is the biggest they come in.
U can get things custom made
Yeah, but the sheet...
You can buy a super king! It’s humongous! I have one and it hangs to the floor of my cal king bed.
the two duvets is the ONLY way
I'm not a Husband yet
Link
I may be weird but i even consider accompanying my boyfriend for his groceries without his kids as a little date. We also have online dates once a week or 2 where we watch a tv show streaming on discord.