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  • @joeprimal2044
    @joeprimal2044 Рік тому +16

    Bless the algorithm.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Рік тому +1

      Hello Joe, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @sunriseoftheheart
    @sunriseoftheheart Рік тому +8

    "It's not the evidence that we are not Good enough, It is the CONSEQUENCE of Holding that belief" LIVE CHANGING PERSPECTIVE!!!! ♥️♥️♥️

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Рік тому +1

      Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Yes, if you hold a belief that you're not good enough it will create a self-fulfilling prophecy and consequences to prove the belief true. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @normal3705
    @normal3705 Рік тому +2

    Hits the nail on the head for me. Recently I've retired and I find myself sucked back into that hole of inadequacy. Statements like 'I can't function well enough" and "I'm not good enough" rumble through my head. I put my self esteem into my education first, then my job. Now I have neither and the old I'm not good enough thoughts and feelings are arising. This video helped me to put a focus where it's needed and that's on early actions by my parents ( ie whippings for poor grades at age 8). That left a mark so to speak. Thanks for the guidance.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Рік тому

      Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @susans9014
    @susans9014 Рік тому +5

    I feel as if you have described me, you have an amazing understanding of a faulty mind. I’m 69 and my beliefs have become self fulfilling prophecies. I look for “proof” to confirm that I’m unlovable, etc. from others and comparisons. Even though I realize it, it’s very hard to stop.

  • @debifambro1039
    @debifambro1039 Рік тому +4

    This is exactly what i need to hear - the belief not a feeling.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Рік тому

      Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @hibiscusfreak
    @hibiscusfreak Рік тому +2

    I just found your channel about 20 minutes ago and I am so grateful I did! You both present your knowledge with so much caring and compassion it's incredible. David, what you started talking about at 18:20 (inner child beliefs) is SO true and I've never heard anyone else mention it. No matter how much you know that these beliefs come from damaging things your parents did, your brainstem or monkey brain or whatever KNOWS that you're worthless anyway! So much therapy has not made my inner child let go of this belief. It's like a permanent label or taint.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Рік тому

      Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. You cannot be tainted!!!! Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @PC-ds6zk
    @PC-ds6zk Рік тому +8

    So grateful for your videos, they are life changing ❤❤❤ thankyou David and Alex 🙏

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Рік тому +1

      Glad you like them! Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @humanpersonne
    @humanpersonne Рік тому +6

    This couldn't have come at a better time. I can't thank you enough. You're both God send❤. Thank you

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Рік тому +2

      So glad! Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @kbell1418
    @kbell1418 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you. I can see my faulty belief of constantly checking over and ruminating on what I have said to look for evidence that I am not able to be a perfect person. I hope to build more confidence in myself as this is just my belief, not that of others

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  3 місяці тому

      Hi,
      You’ve made a wonderful realization here! Recognising this pattern is a crucial step towards changing it. Remember, it’s not about being perfect, but about embracing your true Shen spirit and trusting in yourself. Others see you through their own beliefs, so focus on building inner confidence and acceptance, and you’ll naturally radiate that to those around you.
      Keep going-you’re doing great!
      Kind Regards,
      David
      facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/

  • @sashmaharaj5054
    @sashmaharaj5054 Рік тому +4

    This was on point!
    I've experience all of this with my
    parents.
    I feel like I have no value.
    And no self worth.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Рік тому +1

      Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

    • @stacielivinthedream8510
      @stacielivinthedream8510 Рік тому

      OMG, you are of great worth, Sash!!! You are special and needed in this world!!!

  • @jenna_rem
    @jenna_rem Рік тому +1

    I almost cried when he said that you could actually tell someone that you never received a hug or didn’t hear «I love you » from parents, and you won’t be pushed away. My rooted belief that « it’s me », something is wrong with me when since 2y.o. I went through physical and emotional abuse, and when my parents sold everything and left with my brother to another country, when I was 16, and left me behind. In my subconscious mind I thought I died, I still have this fear of abandonment that equals to fear of death. He is right about constantly looking for external validation, it’s not the low self esteem, it’s « no value » at all. My every day affirmation will be « I’m forever conscious of my true worth. »

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Рік тому

      Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,500 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @mariekarole1621
    @mariekarole1621 Рік тому +5

    Dealing with very nasty parents. I left home at 18 when I was legal age married my high school sweetheart and adopted my in laws have been together for 39 years with one child.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Рік тому

      Hello Marie, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @rm26367
    @rm26367 Рік тому +3

    Great teaching! Thank you very much!

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Рік тому

      Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @Babysoft-t8h
    @Babysoft-t8h 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank you both so much

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  9 місяців тому

      Hi @BroundhildaMande,
      You're very welcome! We're delighted to know that you found value in our content. If there's ever a topic or question you'd like us to explore, feel free to share. We're here to support your journey and provide insights that resonate with you. Remember, you're not alone in this journey, and we're thrilled to be a part of it with you.
      Kind Regards,
      David

  • @nancythran9353
    @nancythran9353 3 місяці тому +1

    This is how I feel cause of growing up in a disfunction family

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  3 місяці тому

      Hi,
      Growing up in a challenging environment can shape our beliefs and reactions. Understanding this is the first step in choosing a different path for yourself. By gently questioning and redefining these beliefs, you can begin to align with your true nature and live with more clarity and peace.
      Kind Regards,
      David

  • @lindasherman3998
    @lindasherman3998 Рік тому +4

    My mom did not believe that she was good enough so passed that vow onto me as her mom did with her...this vow does not have to be mine. Hard to accept that Mom lied to me and herself. A belief only. Need to constantly question my vow belief until I am able to believe a new vow. I am good enough I can cope, I am loveable.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Рік тому

      Hello Linda, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

    • @lindasherman3998
      @lindasherman3998 Рік тому

      @@WuWeiWisdom I am a member of Facebook group.

  • @Kenter-hr3yo
    @Kenter-hr3yo Рік тому +2

    This is fascinating information. We have negative thoughts that can drive our lives in a way that sabotage us from being successful in love, work, in life. A wounded inner child can dictate how good or bad ones life is. I am interested in viewing more of these videos. Very useful.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Рік тому

      Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @sunriseoftheheart
    @sunriseoftheheart Рік тому +2

    Very strong Video!!!! So well put into words. Thank you so much for it!! And yes: Realizing the consequences of when we keep believing those self destructive beliefs and how they keep us stuck. Sending you my best wishes from Germany ❤ Thank you for your work!! Isabelle

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Рік тому +1

      You are so welcome! Kind regards, David.

  • @hamboneentertainment8498
    @hamboneentertainment8498 Рік тому

    You guys are great👍

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Рік тому

      Hello, Pleased the teaching are helping on your journey. Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @DJSTOEK
    @DJSTOEK Рік тому +1

    ❤❤

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Рік тому

      Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Kind regards, David.

  • @kaniapaulas899
    @kaniapaulas899 Рік тому

    Thank you!!

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Рік тому

      Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Kind regards, David.

  • @michelleg1076
    @michelleg1076 Рік тому +1

    Awesome!

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Рік тому

      Glad you think so! Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @FreedomGallery
    @FreedomGallery Рік тому +1

    Absolutely horrible how damaging verbal degradations to child can be, destroying their self worth and causing life long struggles with CPTSD. Love yourselves…🙏🏼

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Рік тому

      Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. I agree it is a life-changing challenge but I disagree it cannot destroy your worth and value - Shen. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023. Kind regards, David.

    • @FreedomGallery
      @FreedomGallery Рік тому

      Thank you David. It was no trouble at all. I find your calm voice and presence soothing. Taoism was my minor in the way back college days. Really nice work you're doing. Cheers.@@WuWeiWisdom

  • @millacolic
    @millacolic Рік тому +1

    Well, when I say I have be a low self esteem. Where does that knowledge come? We hear people around us through words like “low self esteem”. And then we say, I “feel” something like that, that’s probably what I have “low self esteem”. But all of that is so vague that until we can no longer bear to feel those feelings, we begin to look for help, for solutions.

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Рік тому

      Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023 Kind regards, David.

  • @lozb1631
    @lozb1631 Рік тому +2

    Hi David have you done any teachings on how to cope with on going health issues that are causing red light feelings due to enduring the illness, not having and endate and it affecting quality of life etc? Many thanks

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Рік тому +1

      Hello Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. We have a health meditation coming up soon. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

    • @lozb1631
      @lozb1631 Рік тому

      @@WuWeiWisdom thankyou. Will you let the Facebook group know when the health meditation is available? Just don't want to miss it!

  • @AlmightyAnt300
    @AlmightyAnt300 Рік тому +3

    Imo low self comes from physical appearance. Imo that's the root cause of it. People leave out physical appearance when talking about low self-esteem

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Рік тому

      Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

  • @mariazamora4595
    @mariazamora4595 Рік тому

    What is love? … what is Love yourself? . Does love creates the bases of a person? Does believe in yourself, love yourself, self confidence comes from love?

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  Рік тому +1

      Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Love is an emotional feeling you create. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.

    • @mariazamora4595
      @mariazamora4595 Рік тому

      Hello, Thank you! Kind regards.

  • @catherinemanuele8352
    @catherinemanuele8352 8 місяців тому

    🩵

    • @WuWeiWisdom
      @WuWeiWisdom  8 місяців тому

      Hi @catherinemanuele8352,
      Thank you for sharing your love and support! It's wonderful to have you as part of our community.
      Kind Regards,
      David