nah, it is about channeling your emotions in relation with your past existence as a child, most people have emotions that go back to their upbringing, so if you want to control your emotions you have to understand that inner child that you have within you and go from there. Hope this helps.
I have an addition to the video. You still have to unlock them shortly afterwards. Otherwise your body stores it as trauma, and this is not good. It usually leaks out nefariously and unconsciously.
Very much agreed. Repression and suppression will eventually lead to some psychodynamic illness. However, they are talking about mentally preparing yourself to build up a huge safe room, kinda like we the bank, where all the money is. That will become your dumping ground should you choose or be chosen for this path. Chanel it correctly, fortify your mind. You know in the job you visit your huge safe with a gigantic spinning lock on it. Go in for a minute, it's cool in there. Spend some time in meditation and consciously release it. Walk out and leave those thoughts inside your safe. Don't talk it back. YOU CONTROL YOUR MIND, NEVER LET IT CONTROL YOU.
@@IntelJungian I *think* I understand what you're saying. I try to not ruminate, it's often pointless, as for meditation to release that which has been compartmentalized, that's good advice! So you're also interested in personalities I see? Hmmm. Personalities and development was the most interesting psychology courses that I took, so much I took it again, and paid for it 10 years later. Lol.
I am soooo glad that the agent cried afterward. Bravo. Now to embracing the living. There is soon much we do not have Full control over.. just some influence that is granted to us for a time.
What is not said here is at some point you have to unlock that locker and deal with the feelings. If you don't deal with your feelings, your feelings deal with you, ex. burn out, road rage, abuse on others, etc.
This is a survival skill that is absolutely needed to survive and to thrive in some communities around the world. I developed the ability to compartmentalize as a child and realized about 30 years later that my emotional compass was off. It took a couple of months of therapy to realize that I had an emotional experience that shook me so much that I adapted the skill to compartmentalize at the age of 13. Still working on balancing my emotions appropriately several years after coming to this realization. I think this is more common than some people realize. It's a learned response to crisis.
This is not compartmentalization. It’s an avoidance strategy. Compartmentalization is the ability to be 100% present & focused in the moment/at the task at hand. Essentially it’s the ability to have tunnel vision as a posed to having funnel vision.
Dear Sir. Your experience more closely matches dissociation. Dissociative Amnesia is a survival mechanism of trauma And major component of PTSD & CPTSD. Intrusive memories and disruptions usually occur 18-22 years after the "precipitating event". Book recommendation 4 u: "Keep Pain in The Past" by Walden & Cortman 🗽
I wasn't allowed to have emotions as a child. They were squashed by my parents and I became very quickly an angry kid who held all of my anger in at school and raged in very specific ways at home.
This is quite an admirable level of professionalism, but she has to remember she did not kill those people. She didn’t kill two people. She saved the others. The likelihood of you dying increases the moment you’re taking the hostage.
This is more common than you think. I almost was knocked off a 6th floor landing by an errant crane delivery and continued for two hours landing the rest of the materials. Afterward I sat down and nearly went into shock. No training involved, just instinct.
Your channel is not only informative but it gives us civilians a glimpse into the realistic, less glamorous side of what our agencies deal with in the field. 🙏🏼🇺🇸
I didn't know this was classed as a 'skill.' I've utitlised this skill a couple of times in my life. I just thought of it as 'doing the right thing at the time.' The first time this happened I was working in a bank when a robbery started. I had a customer in front of me and a couple more waiting to be served. I talked to them quietly and calmly. I told them that this would be over soon; the thieves are only interested in money and are not interested in us if we stay calm and are not a threat. I managed to keep this small group calm and quiet for those few minutes. After it was all over I felt the impact of the incident. It was just a delayed reaction. It's never occurred to me that I was doing something differently to what others might do. I'm usually pretty quick to jump into a situation that needs some control. This includes an attempted rescue of a child who had drowned. It has also been used to come up with a simple solution to stop an argument becoming a fight. I don't think about who I am or what is right for me in that moment. That just goes right out the window and I just do my thing. I think I might be on the autism spectrum. I see what is practical without an emotional reaction in that moment.
I have so much respect for people like yourselves and others and what you have done. Obviously, I have no idea but, I have watched some TV shows which, I know is not real or what really actually happens, but when I watched the Special Ops Lioness show, the Zoe Saldana's character and Nicole Kidman's character finding out that her husband was involved with some dirty dealings and she still had to accept that and keep herself together. Also, she was always trying to make sure Zoe Saldana kept it together and had to compartmentalize her husband and her children and then compartmentalize her job and what she had to do.
This guy has next level top knowledge 🙌I just watched the podcast about narcissistic and sociopaths it was like a miniature educational course 🙌 I had to show my wife this asap 👍
Wow; who knew. I have the skills of an FBI agent! I’ve been forced to compartmentalize my feelings for decades! I guess I did get some beneficial insight from my narcissistic mother after all!
Hahahaha ❤ nailed it! And personally I put a pin in it thank myself for having them because it’s a great indicator that I am a good person, and then when I’m alone and it’s safe to do so I open the locker and let myself feel all of them so I have a empty locker for the next time I need to be able to get through it. It’s a daily thing nowadays lol 😂
I needed this. What about this scenario. My husband cheated on me and I’m 99% sure he did. I’m a model and I was at a hotel full of models. One who is a Victoria secret model. Long story long. They did something in the room while I was in a mandatory meeting. I’ve stuffed these feelings down. I have hearsay, I have some other proof but, he won’t admit it. I truly need the answer. He won’t budge. I’ve now went completely numb. I would rather him just say he’s done whatever they did. It broke me. I stopped eating healthy, stopped laughing, stopped listening to music, stopped talking to friends. If he would’ve just been honest. How would you recommend I get the truth I need so I can move forward happily?
Most children learn that skill at a very young age. It is unfortunate that we as a species need that defense mechanism. None the less, it is a survival tool. Use when necessary!
I needed this. What about this scenario. My husband cheated on me and I’m 99% sure he did. I’m a model and I was at a hotel full of models. One who is a Victoria secret model. Long story long. They did something in the room while I was in a mandatory meeting. I’ve stuffed these feelings down. I have hearsay, I have some other proof but, he won’t admit it. I truly need the answer. He won’t budge. I’ve now went completely numb. I would rather him just say he’s done whatever they did. It broke me. I stopped eating healthy, stopped laughing, stopped listening to music, stopped talking to friends. If he would’ve just been honest. How would you recommend I get the truth I need so I can move forward happily? But, while on my buisness trip I acted as if everything was fine. I even acting as if I were fine on a 2 hour drive home with him. It’s a mess. Have any advice?
It's oke thing to do this while active in a situation. Maybe a fire, negotiation, hostage situation etc etc. But doing this with lifes problems is called running. That locker doesnt ever empty. Maybe u upgrade it to a storage facility. Now u can shove more in there than a locker. Even that gets full. Reaks at the seams and u randomly act out, from no where. Its called breaking point. Some ppl drink and or drugs to "run" from a problem. It changes ur mood so ur not thinking about said issue. Addicts on skidrow do this. Then they keep taking drugs to avoid withdrawals at that time. Maintenance use they call it. Dont even get high anymore, they just take it to keep physical issues away. I think it needs to be stated this is a TEMPORARY fix. Something for a situation and not a permanent fix as it can cause havoc on ur life. Processing emotions is important so u EMPTY OUT that locker / storage facility.
I have done this for nearly 20 years since I came back from the Army. I used skills similar to what you teach avoiding getting set up and forced into working for a mob (no The mafia but, an organized criminal element of dirty cops and their criminal family in West Virginia) family in West Virginia. I know soldiers with decades of doing this, that can trace their PTSD to compartmentalize their emotions. At some point you have to address and express those emotions. I don't think that she contributed to the people who the group leader killed. She was taught a script to work by and she folowed it.
How do you compartmentalize emotions when you're a people pleaser empath? Please provide some strategies... there are so many of us out in the world being manipulated by narcissists.
I remember an instructor telling us that you put your emotions in a box and put a big red ribbon on it and put it on a shelf in your brain. I did this for many years. Unfortunately, it would go on to haunt me later in life and the damage it caused. Now, at 50, I still deal with those boxes.
The terrorists often project the 'blame' on those with 'human' empathy and simpathy. Sometimes we make our own tools and find workarounds. Could it be that we sometimes project the 'solution' on a serogate
@@MarshallMathers-s8c basically yes and while we do not get to control the actions of others we can influence others so it's not necessarily saying others don't have a responsibility and should not be held accountable for their part specifically for this reason there was nothing she could do in this situation nothing is her fault for sure
Well, compartmentalization works great to get through a crisis in the hero and now. But once that crisis is over, you're supposed to observe and feel those feelings. If you just stuff away / suppress trauma forever, then eventually it will start messing with you psychologically no matter how "stoic" you are.
Who knows; sometimes it Helps when you show your true emotions because you can sometimes convince someone to do or not do something when they communicate/connect with someone being 'authentic' Either way sometimes nothing can b done in a given situation like that . . . . I would imagine
I completed 29 years in LE and found this technique, without any doubt, served me perfectly. I will add, I think it is innate and you either have it or you don't. I recall a male with a large Wiltshire knife moving towards a group of people outside of the local methadone clinic. I was first on scene, positioned my vl on an angle and had my gun pointed at the male and I was calculating when to shoot based on the impact factors presented. The call worked out, I was returning to my vl and a citizen whose car was involved but no damage, the driver looked at me and she was shaking and crying uncontrollably...I couldn't understand in the moment why. My reasoning is that I had experience in similar situations, and was focusing on the current tasks. She said "how do you do this?" I think we all have skills in certain areas, and we should learn how to improve them whatever they may be. If you choose to open the file, that's fine, and it's okay to leave it closed. There is no perfect response, its very personal.
If you look up UA-cam channels on Stoicism, you'll find a lot of good info. Stoicism is misunderstood by many people. It is actually an entire philosophy and lifestyle.
We may be able to help others and do things four others that can help but we cannot control the actions of others and whether they are going to take a life away or not and I would definitely say in that situation there was nothing she could probably do and I'm sure if she had the option to do something she would have if she could have gave them their demands right then and there to get those people free I'm sure she would have
That's cute... CIA agent comes out and spells the beans on CIA secrets and of course he's left to roam, freely attending every podcast imaginable. lol YEs, sounds totally legit. LMFAO
Did that ... U just have non Choice something bigger is at stake , but IT f... A Man took me years to recover and u never really comeback from it Im showing this tricks to my babies
Compartmentalization is very similar. But Premeditated. This story describes "Deliberate Dissociation" It's an acquired talent resulting from a high A.C.E.S. score. Big Fan
Still not worse than Jan 6th. The DARKEST day of our democracy. I tremble at the thought of that fateful day and yes, I am the sole survivor you’ve heard about. The guilt of surviving has been tumultuous at times but I trudge forward for democracy.
I wonder what kind of mental issues you got that claiming youre a jan 6th survivor means so much to you. Is this your whole personality? you made an account by name and the pic and everything. I feel sad for you, please seek proffesional help.
Ok this is wrong. Take a person who's always positive and never like a talking about tough issues or stuff like death and what they personally think about religion or life after death. They don't touch it because they can't give up their security and so will one day have be forced to grapple with it and if its too much or too weak minded it destroys them and the girl only crying over what happened that day is natural. When we are alone with our thoughts like when yiur trying to sleep or alone your mind is scared of losing the people or what use to be tribe long ago. Being alone anywhere for the rest of your life would break anyone but it's comforting having atleast one trust worthy person who cares for you probably as much you do fir them. Soldiers trying to replace a guy who's about to leave soon and has kids and showing compassion because knowing something that you might of had a chance to prevent h8s kids from having a dead daddy is too much for for some people. We long for each other but our perception can hinder us if not constantly questioning what bothers us and that in itself is similar or to me at least I think is the true danger of compartmentalizing situations that we might have to face again. Her crying only at the end if the day is only natural and is at minimum self control.you don't cry when confronted with a situation like that. Even if someone did shove stuff in the back for later they don't instincly cry. If they do then it's a fair to say it's broken them beyond what most people can tolerate without questioning their own safety.
to kill a million in Iraq based on a lie and then should compartmentalize the feeling . Are we glorifying these things ? May be I need to think more like a westerner
It's not... people who work in stressful environments are trained to not get emotional in the heat of the moment because when you start to get emotional, bad things happen. You have to be able to think clearly because lives are at risk if you don't.
It's about seeing the bigger picture and seeing that giving in to your own emotional pain could cause pain and suffering for others. A psychopath or sociopath wouldn't have had that moment afterwards where their emotions caught up with them.
Avoiding acting out the emotions seems to be the key here.
Yep lol its called Self Control
nah, it is about channeling your emotions in relation with your past existence as a child, most people have emotions that go back to their upbringing, so if you want to control your emotions you have to understand that inner child that you have within you and go from there. Hope this helps.
And have a hair like this dude is essential to work in CIA
It’s more than that, you can’t allow yourself to feel anything in that moment.
@@edram1909 you can do that by doing drugs too lol
I have an addition to the video. You still have to unlock them shortly afterwards. Otherwise your body stores it as trauma, and this is not good. It usually leaks out nefariously and unconsciously.
Very much agreed. Repression and suppression will eventually lead to some psychodynamic illness. However, they are talking about mentally preparing yourself to build up a huge safe room, kinda like we the bank, where all the money is. That will become your dumping ground should you choose or be chosen for this path. Chanel it correctly, fortify your mind. You know in the job you visit your huge safe with a gigantic spinning lock on it. Go in for a minute, it's cool in there. Spend some time in meditation and consciously release it. Walk out and leave those thoughts inside your safe. Don't talk it back. YOU CONTROL YOUR MIND, NEVER LET IT CONTROL YOU.
Psychosomatic
@@IntelJungian I *think* I understand what you're saying. I try to not ruminate, it's often pointless, as for meditation to release that which has been compartmentalized, that's good advice! So you're also interested in personalities I see? Hmmm. Personalities and development was the most interesting psychology courses that I took, so much I took it again, and paid for it 10 years later. Lol.
Yes, unlocking them shortly after is key. I tend to hold off for days and weeks and that’s where I get in trouble.
I am soooo glad that the agent cried afterward. Bravo. Now to embracing the living. There is soon much we do not have Full control over.. just some influence that is granted to us for a time.
What is not said here is at some point you have to unlock that locker and deal with the feelings. If you don't deal with your feelings, your feelings deal with you, ex. burn out, road rage, abuse on others, etc.
Well Said!
This is a survival skill that is absolutely needed to survive and to thrive in some communities around the world. I developed the ability to compartmentalize as a child and realized about 30 years later that my emotional compass was off. It took a couple of months of therapy to realize that I had an emotional experience that shook me so much that I adapted the skill to compartmentalize at the age of 13. Still working on balancing my emotions appropriately several years after coming to this realization. I think this is more common than some people realize. It's a learned response to crisis.
This is not compartmentalization. It’s an avoidance strategy. Compartmentalization is the ability to be 100% present & focused in the moment/at the task at hand. Essentially it’s the ability to have tunnel vision as a posed to having funnel vision.
Dear Sir. Your experience more closely matches dissociation.
Dissociative Amnesia is a survival mechanism of trauma And major component of PTSD & CPTSD. Intrusive memories and disruptions usually occur 18-22 years after the "precipitating event".
Book recommendation 4 u:
"Keep Pain in The Past" by Walden & Cortman 🗽
I wasn't allowed to have emotions as a child. They were squashed by my parents and I became very quickly an angry kid who held all of my anger in at school and raged in very specific ways at home.
That is the whole truth. You put yourself into survival mode.
This is quite an admirable level of professionalism, but she has to remember she did not kill those people. She didn’t kill two people. She saved the others. The likelihood of you dying increases the moment you’re taking the hostage.
This is more common than you think. I almost was knocked off a 6th floor landing by an errant crane delivery and continued for two hours landing the rest of the materials. Afterward I sat down and nearly went into shock. No training involved, just instinct.
I here you ,been there .
Your channel is not only informative but it gives us civilians a glimpse into the realistic, less glamorous side of what our agencies deal with in the field. 🙏🏼🇺🇸
It’s important to build resilience with controlled and uncontrolled stressors using tools that serve each stage of a situation.
Your videos pop up right time and always influence a more efficient perspective
I didn't know this was classed as a 'skill.' I've utitlised this skill a couple of times in my life. I just thought of it as 'doing the right thing at the time.' The first time this happened I was working in a bank when a robbery started. I had a customer in front of me and a couple more waiting to be served. I talked to them quietly and calmly. I told them that this would be over soon; the thieves are only interested in money and are not interested in us if we stay calm and are not a threat. I managed to keep this small group calm and quiet for those few minutes. After it was all over I felt the impact of the incident. It was just a delayed reaction.
It's never occurred to me that I was doing something differently to what others might do. I'm usually pretty quick to jump into a situation that needs some control. This includes an attempted rescue of a child who had drowned. It has also been used to come up with a simple solution to stop an argument becoming a fight. I don't think about who I am or what is right for me in that moment. That just goes right out the window and I just do my thing. I think I might be on the autism spectrum. I see what is practical without an emotional reaction in that moment.
I think I naturally already do exactly this. Good to know it’s an asset.
I’ve never seen my trauma responses as an asset before. Thank you for opening my mind. ❤
This dude aged 20 years in the last 5. Keep up the fight!!
Late thirties to early forties is a rough transition.
I have so much respect for people like yourselves and others and what you have done. Obviously, I have no idea but, I have watched some TV shows which, I know is not real or what really actually happens, but when I watched the Special Ops Lioness show, the Zoe Saldana's character and Nicole Kidman's character finding out that her husband was involved with some dirty dealings and she still had to accept that and keep herself together. Also, she was always trying to make sure Zoe Saldana kept it together and had to compartmentalize her husband and her children and then compartmentalize her job and what she had to do.
This guy has next level top knowledge 🙌I just watched the podcast about narcissistic and sociopaths it was like a miniature educational course 🙌 I had to show my wife this asap 👍
Wow; who knew. I have the skills of an FBI agent!
I’ve been forced to compartmentalize my feelings for decades!
I guess I did get some beneficial insight from my narcissistic mother after all!
Very touching life story. God bless that woman - she did well
I do that way too often. Until u are past the event. Until you are in a safe place. Then you can melt
Same here. Did this one time and few people thought that I was crazy...You release the emotions when you feel safe.
Same here
We need more women like the one in this story🇺🇸
A Woman should not be In a Position negotiating with terrorist in the first place A Male would have saved 2 Americans lives
...this is good , help a person to make decisions with your feelings. Etc ❤❤
Yup.
Hahahaha ❤ nailed it! And personally I put a pin in it thank myself for having them because it’s a great indicator that I am a good person, and then when I’m alone and it’s safe to do so I open the locker and let myself feel all of them so I have a empty locker for the next time I need to be able to get through it. It’s a daily thing nowadays lol 😂
Yep.. except now I can't remember the code to unlock them.. or which items are even locked
I needed this. What about this scenario. My husband cheated on me and I’m 99% sure he did. I’m a model and I was at a hotel full of models. One who is a Victoria secret model. Long story long. They did something in the room while I was in a mandatory meeting. I’ve stuffed these feelings down. I have hearsay, I have some other proof but, he won’t admit it. I truly need the answer. He won’t budge. I’ve now went completely numb. I would rather him just say he’s done whatever they did. It broke me. I stopped eating healthy, stopped laughing, stopped listening to music, stopped talking to friends. If he would’ve just been honest. How would you recommend I get the truth I need so I can move forward happily?
Why does the coach class seat matter though? 😂 There's more to this that's not being said.
Right! I noticed that, too.
Because the work they do is First Class, then, they go home quietly and humbly, blending in, among the masses- hence, in coach.
You see them again. You make a mental note of time &date you will revist them.
Most children learn that skill at a very young age. It is unfortunate that we as a species need that defense mechanism. None the less, it is a survival tool. Use when necessary!
If you're lucky enough to have narcissistic parents, you learned this as a tactic as a child. Also dissassociation is another good one😅🙃
When you are trying to compete with troy polamalu for shampoo commercials
I needed this. What about this scenario. My husband cheated on me and I’m 99% sure he did. I’m a model and I was at a hotel full of models. One who is a Victoria secret model. Long story long. They did something in the room while I was in a mandatory meeting. I’ve stuffed these feelings down. I have hearsay, I have some other proof but, he won’t admit it. I truly need the answer. He won’t budge. I’ve now went completely numb. I would rather him just say he’s done whatever they did. It broke me. I stopped eating healthy, stopped laughing, stopped listening to music, stopped talking to friends. If he would’ve just been honest. How would you recommend I get the truth I need so I can move forward happily? But, while on my buisness trip I acted as if everything was fine. I even acting as if I were fine on a 2 hour drive home with him. It’s a mess. Have any advice?
It's oke thing to do this while active in a situation. Maybe a fire, negotiation, hostage situation etc etc. But doing this with lifes problems is called running. That locker doesnt ever empty. Maybe u upgrade it to a storage facility. Now u can shove more in there than a locker. Even that gets full. Reaks at the seams and u randomly act out, from no where. Its called breaking point. Some ppl drink and or drugs to "run" from a problem. It changes ur mood so ur not thinking about said issue.
Addicts on skidrow do this. Then they keep taking drugs to avoid withdrawals at that time. Maintenance use they call it. Dont even get high anymore, they just take it to keep physical issues away.
I think it needs to be stated this is a TEMPORARY fix. Something for a situation and not a permanent fix as it can cause havoc on ur life. Processing emotions is important so u EMPTY OUT that locker / storage facility.
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lol lmfao.
I can make these guys go completely emotional in a dozen ways.
I have done this for nearly 20 years since I came back from the Army. I used skills similar to what you teach avoiding getting set up and forced into working for a mob (no The mafia but, an organized criminal element of dirty cops and their criminal family in West Virginia) family in West Virginia.
I know soldiers with decades of doing this, that can trace their PTSD to compartmentalize their emotions. At some point you have to address and express those emotions.
I don't think that she contributed to the people who the group leader killed. She was taught a script to work by and she folowed it.
Ironically during a catastrophy or emergency I'm completely at my best. It's when life is kind of ok or things are well when I fall apart.
For for any advice ❤
Infante power from the creation of it all. . . No hard feelings. No matter what happens there will be no hard feelings when it is all known
How do you compartmentalize emotions when you're a people pleaser empath? Please provide some strategies... there are so many of us out in the world being manipulated by narcissists.
Sometimes I think re-spinning the lock and walking away is the better option
Never Walk away .
Look towards the 1/3rd
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I remember an instructor telling us that you put your emotions in a box and put a big red ribbon on it and put it on a shelf in your brain. I did this for many years. Unfortunately, it would go on to haunt me later in life and the damage it caused. Now, at 50, I still deal with those boxes.
I'm not able to do that. I always cry right away/ maybe too soon?
Wow😮
The terrorists often project the 'blame' on those with 'human' empathy and simpathy. Sometimes we make our own tools and find workarounds. Could it be that we sometimes project the 'solution' on a serogate
Like business
We do not get to control the actions of others
Free will
@@MarshallMathers-s8c basically yes and while we do not get to control the actions of others we can influence others so it's not necessarily saying others don't have a responsibility and should not be held accountable for their part specifically for this reason there was nothing she could do in this situation nothing is her fault for sure
Never repress your emotions for the good of the world. Thats people pleasing.
Be emotional and proud.
What situation was this?
It’s just interesting how for most people who they are while working and who they are while they’re not are obviously completely different 🤷🏽♂️
So the same exact thing you learn to do as a kid when you grow up trapped in an abusive home. Got it.
Stoicism 101
Well, compartmentalization works great to get through a crisis in the hero and now. But once that crisis is over, you're supposed to observe and feel those feelings.
If you just stuff away / suppress trauma forever, then eventually it will start messing with you psychologically no matter how "stoic" you are.
Who knows; sometimes it Helps when you show your true emotions because you can sometimes convince someone to do or not do something when they communicate/connect with someone being 'authentic'
Either way sometimes nothing can b done in a given situation like that . . . . I would imagine
I completed 29 years in LE and found this technique, without any doubt, served me perfectly. I will add, I think it is innate and you either have it or you don't.
I recall a male with a large Wiltshire knife moving towards a group of people outside of the local methadone clinic. I was first on scene, positioned my vl on an angle and had my gun pointed at the male and I was calculating when to shoot based on the impact factors presented.
The call worked out, I was returning to my vl and a citizen whose car was involved but no damage, the driver looked at me and she was shaking and crying uncontrollably...I couldn't understand in the moment why. My reasoning is that I had experience in similar situations, and was focusing on the current tasks.
She said "how do you do this?"
I think we all have skills in certain areas, and we should learn how to improve them whatever they may be.
If you choose to open the file, that's fine, and it's okay to leave it closed. There is no perfect response, its very personal.
Where can I learn
If you look up UA-cam channels on Stoicism, you'll find a lot of good info. Stoicism is misunderstood by many people. It is actually an entire philosophy and lifestyle.
It's to have none.
Hair
It’s called dissociation from emotions 😂
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I do that almost every day at work. 😢
Our CIA is in trouble because of people like this dude
I hope they are splintered into a 1000 peices like JFK wanted them to be.
Sure. As long as you can find the key later. Otherwise you just become a traumatized robot…
Is that Andy’s real hair or a wig attached to the wide headbands he always wears? Doesn’t look like it belongs on his head imo, just curious.
It's different with men, mainly because sometimes they break you don't want to be there when they do.
We may be able to help others and do things four others that can help but we cannot control the actions of others and whether they are going to take a life away or not and I would definitely say in that situation there was nothing she could probably do and I'm sure if she had the option to do something she would have if she could have gave them their demands right then and there to get those people free I'm sure she would have
That's cute... CIA agent comes out and spells the beans on CIA secrets and of course he's left to roam, freely attending every podcast imaginable. lol YEs, sounds totally legit. LMFAO
I'm not able to do this 😔
Everyone in the medical field.
No, training is over.
That hair isn’t it 😂😂😂
Yes you have to compartmentalize. I've done this all my life and it is extremely unhealthy. I am autistic so it comes natural to me
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Did that ... U just have non Choice something bigger is at stake , but IT f... A Man took me years to recover and u never really comeback from it
Im showing this tricks to my babies
My kingdom for a pair of scissors
Compartmentalization is very similar. But Premeditated.
This story describes
"Deliberate Dissociation"
It's an acquired talent resulting from a high A.C.E.S. score.
Big Fan
So.... Did any kidnapped survive?
Is he serious with the headband and long curls?
He has sad, sad feelings😢
It sounds you guys still work for CIA 😮
trying to put a relatable face on that pig agency.
Ms. Bustamante is sooo much smarter than her husband. I feel bad for him because ain't no doing normal guy bs my boy.
Still not worse than Jan 6th. The DARKEST day of our democracy. I tremble at the thought of that fateful day and yes, I am the sole survivor you’ve heard about. The guilt of surviving has been tumultuous at times but I trudge forward for democracy.
I wonder what kind of mental issues you got that claiming youre a jan 6th survivor means so much to you. Is this your whole personality? you made an account by name and the pic and everything. I feel sad for you, please seek proffesional help.
Ohhhhh the cognitive dissonance
The most righteous head of hair
Ok this is wrong.
Take a person who's always positive and never like a talking about tough issues or stuff like death and what they personally think about religion or life after death.
They don't touch it because they can't give up their security and so will one day have be forced to grapple with it and if its too much or too weak minded it destroys them and the girl only crying over what happened that day is natural.
When we are alone with our thoughts like when yiur trying to sleep or alone your mind is scared of losing the people or what use to be tribe long ago.
Being alone anywhere for the rest of your life would break anyone but it's comforting having atleast one trust worthy person who cares for you probably as much you do fir them.
Soldiers trying to replace a guy who's about to leave soon and has kids and showing compassion because knowing something that you might of had a chance to prevent h8s kids from having a dead daddy is too much for for some people.
We long for each other but our perception can hinder us if not constantly questioning what bothers us and that in itself is similar or to me at least I think is the true danger of compartmentalizing situations that we might have to face again.
Her crying only at the end if the day is only natural and is at minimum self control.you don't cry when confronted with a situation like that.
Even if someone did shove stuff in the back for later they don't instincly cry.
If they do then it's a fair to say it's broken them beyond what most people can tolerate without questioning their own safety.
Yeah but come on she's got to know that was not her fault
Broke your heart???? You even have a heart?? As much as I’ve heard your interviews, you’re a stone cold opportunist!
Heads up democratic party.
Adhd people do this
people talking nonsense. 2 people just died. ffs.
What she said in the beginning has 100% nothing to do with his story. Wasted my time
The reason why women should not be and any armed forces
to kill a million in Iraq based on a lie and then should compartmentalize the feeling .
Are we glorifying these things ?
May be I need to think more like a westerner
Yeah, thats being a psycho
It's not... people who work in stressful environments are trained to not get emotional in the heat of the moment because when you start to get emotional, bad things happen. You have to be able to think clearly because lives are at risk if you don't.
u Say that because you never had that moment ... It's all but that.
It's having an more important issues, then your're feelings
It's about seeing the bigger picture and seeing that giving in to your own emotional pain could cause pain and suffering for others.
A psychopath or sociopath wouldn't have had that moment afterwards where their emotions caught up with them.
for some people i suppose it is. for some others its ptsd years after the incident
Dude is a snitch
He looks like a poodle, CIA poodle.
This dude was never a CIA agent. Give me a break, hairdo.
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