THE 3 RULES TO LIVE LIKE A CHAP | LIFE ADVICE FOR MEN
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- Опубліковано 21 гру 2023
- In this video your host discusses his 3 life rules to ensure solidity in daily life.
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1) Treat others how you wish to be treated yourself.
2) Always do your best but embrace the learning that failure can provide.
3) Be grateful for what you have and make time to give back.
Five years ago I was 66 yo and acquired a GSD puppy, to force me to walk. And each day since then, we have walked once or twice a day for a mile or two. This is my "reset" time. I have found it very rewarding to record my thoughts on my cell phone on the way. Often on the way back, I listen to the recording. This acts as a personal diary. I review my goals and problems and emotions about everything. These are things that would bore, or maybe even shock, anyone else, but working things out has helped my mental health enormously.
Your comment about care of one’s self to be there for others really speaks to me- thank you!
Passion and true friends the two most difficult things to find and have. What if we never find them? one cannot have everything in life.
We can merely strive to achieve our best.
Some people are too busy to live, I was there once, God rescued me from myself, sad we can be our own worst enemy.
So true on life’s journey I find true friends are extremely rare , I can count them on one hand and I don’t need all my fingers !
And passion or to be passionate about something finding this is a journey x
1. Be respectful to others irrespective of how they treat you.
2. Everyday go for a walk which is not a journey to work or shopping.
3. Make time for family and friends
I like 2 and 3 , number 1 is the realm of saints 😊
A gentleman puts more back into the world than what they take out , great great thoughts !
This setup is exactly like the one I have at home! It's wonderful to see a mirror in others and find likeminded folks. 🤭
I see why your channel is doing so well, you're a very likeable chap!
HI Ash, you have literally helped me from head to toe over the last year. I am a lot poorer but happier after taking your advice on personal dress/care. I have bought some good hats, gone back to wet shaving and have a fine selection of Loake shoes/boots which are all mirror shined. Wishing you and your a very happy Christmas and good New Year.
Merry Christmas to you too sir
Merry Christmas and happy new year Ash , thank you for helping to make me a better version of the man I was .
You have a great spirit and I am very grateful you do this. Merry Christmas from Massachusetts
Thank you! You too!
I enjoy your talks , wise words , knowledgeable yet humble
1. Never neglect service for others, be it as simple as civility or as much as driving a friend to the airport or helping clean up a stranger's mess, when it can reasonably be provided.
2. When doing something, be it speaking, dressing, working, writing, eating, dancing, driving, or socializing, do it properly as best as you can.
3. One is never complete. There's always more literature to have read, more talents to be had, more philosophy to know, more games to be good at, better social skills to be gained, a better wardrobe to be had, and so on. That part of one's brain that insists on their personhood being insufficient is best listened to! One's personhood should never be complete.
I like this, particularly your #2 rec.
The SAS motto may be Who Dares Wins, but its ethic is "THE RELENTLESS PURSUIT OF EXCELLENCE", that sets these men apart.
Fully agree - your number 2 is a cracker!!
Literally for me, it's Religion, the Arts, and Quality Attire. Metaphorically as for others, hot dogs, hamburgers, and pizza.
At 9 minutes you said something quite true, but you should learn that it mimics almost perfectly the 1970s Schlitz beer ads. "You only go around once in life, so reach out a grab all the gusto you can." I think if you look these commercials up on UA-cam, you'll see how close you are to that message.
The thought is true, of course, and I only point this out so that you can either rephrase or embrace the commercials (whichever helps you spread the message). What I suggest you avoid is being compared to slogans from beer commercials.
*Also. Your suggestion to do something that makes you feel uncomfortable was sound advice. Sound and well suggested. Your example was excellent. Opening yourself to ideas that are new to you is a fantastic way to spur personal growth. Good advice.
Make new friends but keep the old one is silver and the other gold. I have found that whenever I do something I thought was going to be uncomfortable it usually turns out to be a good experience in the end. Overcome your fears. Cheers Ron
Good day, I have been following you for a couple of weeks and I just want to thank you for your wonderful advices. I am going through a difficult professional and personal moment but your advice gives me guidance. From Mexico, I send you a brotherly hug.
Hug right back at you my chap brother - hope things pick up for you soon - just remember, the path to Chap Nirvana is a series of peaks and troughs, when you find yourself in a trough, just keep going and you will find yourself on a peak soon enough!
Excellent video again.
My hobby are
Walking,motorcycle and
Exercise.keep up the good work ❤
The family has a half dozen
1) Don't Get Angry. 2) Don't get involved 3) Don't get stupid 4) Don't get caught. 5) If what you're doing works and is enjoyable, keep doing it but If what you're doing doesn't work, Stop doing it 6) planning prevents poor performance (edited)
This Channel has helped me in ways i never thought i would need. I tip my hat to you sir.
Glad to help
Wise words from a wise man.Great video Ash and May I take this opportunity to wish you and your family a merry Xmas and a happy new year.
Thank you sir - and a Merry Christmas to you too.
The first and second rules map nicely onto Jordan Peterson's second rule, from "12 Rules for Life", "treat yourself like someone you're responsible for helping." If you approach your life with the critical eye that you would for a beloved child, sibling, or cherished friend, there is a tendency towards better facilitating the actualizing of your maximum potential. You have to have a sufficient love and respect for yourself to demand that you do what you must to achieve what you are capable of.
Thank you so much for this, Ash! My fiancée was shocked when I showed her this video. You’ve reminded me of the importance of journaling (something I used to be great about but have neglected for too long) and just simple goal setting. Today’s the first day of putting these rules into action! You’re the man!
Good luck sir. I hope your new regime is helpful
A late friend of mine had three rules he lived by.
1. Never bet on another man’s trick.
2. It is a mortal sin to allow a fool to keep his money.
3. In God we trust, all others pay cash.
He was quite a character. Died of kidney failure at age 46.
This is just wholesome. Excellent stuff.
Totally agree it took me time to realise this I would burn myself out to look after everyone else first , I realise now I keep myself fit I eat well very important keep myself focused and then I can look after everyone else
Hi Ash, ich danke Ihnen von Herzen für Ihre hervorragende Arbeit, und wünsche Ihnen und Ihrer Familie Schöne Weihnachten
Merry Christmas sir.
You cannot beat a good Journal entry. Helps one think and clarifies thoughts.
Hopefully i will have a new journal for Christmas.
Great video, Ash. Hearty greetings and Merry Christmas from across the pond! 🇺🇸 🇬🇧
Happy holidays!
New to the channel, working on catching up on past episodes. Great work! So helpful.
Welcome aboard!
Very well said !
Wise words. Prepare, prepare and prepare.
Mr. Chap, wishing you & family a Merry Christmas . My 3 rules are 1) A Chap should always carry a Swiss Army knife in his pocket.2) A Chap should always do up his flies before leaving the washroom 3) A Chap should never pass wind in the presence of Ladies. ATB Steve the English Chap in Tel Aviv.
Festive salutations good sir.
@@TheChapsGuide Happy Sunday. You will be pleased to know that this chap has subscribed to your channel
I am really enjoying your content. The three rules are a useful guide. Personally I have always thought that the addition of always tell the truth and always be honest in your dealings have served me well.
Thank you!
Merry Christmas and a happy new year!
Same to you sir. Best wishes.
I would rather have one great friend, than a dozen friends.
Good discussion.
Looking forward to doing something outside comfort zone and expanding my network by meeting you in London in February 😊
Can't wait! See you there.
My dad's were unspoken but boiled down to
1) trust no one. Be cynical. Every one has their own agenda
2) be your own man. Speak up. Don't follow the rules. Challenge what you don't agree with.
3) have a plan a, a plan b, plan c. I am still on plan a, but there were always at least 3 other plans ready and waiting should my career, then my business have failed
Thank you for confirming what I knew deep down but was until recently unable to do . Look after myself first in order to look after others. Priority.
You are so welcome
Passion started painting during covid bit more time on my hands still don’t the time I would like life is busy but I make some time to apply paint to canvas 🎨🖼️
The journal is a great great life tool
Great videos Ash 🎄
Welcome to Fight Club. The first rule of Fight Club is: you do not talk about Fight Club. The second rule of Fight Club is: you DO NOT talk about Fight Club! Yes, rules are very important! Happy Christmas to all of you chaps! 🕐⚙️🍸
Amazing style you have in the thumbnail
Trying something uncomfortable: I tried Yoga whilst on holiday in October. Always couldn’t see the point but am now converted! Even tried ‘flying yoga’. Look it up it’s quite out of one’s confit zone! Nice summary as usual Ash.
As a personal trainer, I must agree with the regular exercise.
Always a rich content. thank you
A very wise advice Ash, thanks once again for a special video. I have been into Scandinavian literature for the last couple of years and I came across Jante Love which is a set of 10 rules introduced by the author Aksel Sandemose basically variations of a theme: Ikke tro at du er noe, don't think you are special. Very interesting to see that these rules seems still important in Scandinavian countries. I wish you and your family a very Merry Christmas and a wonderful New Year.
Merry Christmas to you too sir.
I really related to no. 3
It would be great if you could put this on a podcast, like for Apple play, it's already recorded, so it shouldn't be that difficult.
That is an idea I was pursue in 2024.
How about a video on 2024 goal setting. Thanks Ash!
Coming very soon.
There are three things you can do in any situation you are in.
1. Control the situation.
2. Influence the situation.
3. Accept the situation.
Remember noumonic CIA.
Hi Ash, great video as always, a quick video request if I may; do you have any tips for starting up a new business? I appreciate this may not be a field of expertise for you, but I’d be interested to hear your thoughts on things like networking, advertising, approaching potential customers etc. I’d be happy to discuss further if needed.
Great suggestion! I will give it some thought.
1 - Don't waste money.
2 - Don't be a dick.
3 - Don't be afraid to be ruthless when the situation demands it.
Dearest Ash, do you like to be considered Welsh or English ?
British first. Welsh second
Let's be honest you only get one life cause then hell . Why not make the most of it with a religion of self and flesh
Whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is of good repute, if any excellence, think on these things continuously. Phil 4:8
A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones. Prov 14:30
1) find your purpose in life and everyday live into that purpose as much as you can. 2) Don't just appreciate others but let them know it and support them regardless of whether or not they support you. 3) Take tasks one step at a time or you will easily be overwhelmed.