At least he's man enough to admit he's lacking and that he couldn't stand up for Miyo. Then again, in circumstances such as his, there really isn't much that he can do especially considering how strict arranged marriages can be during these times. He was just unlucky. It was also revealed in ep2 that it really is Miyo that should have been arranged to be married to him, but Miyo's father backed out of the original arrangement. Also, I think it was just not meant to be. Think about it, if Koji did anything as bold as say, he ran away with Miyo - turning their backs against their families (and faced the eventual repercussions of this), then Miyo would not have met Kiyoka, the better man or rather the best man for her.
Best man no he’s just rich enough to keep her happy that’s not best man the other guy loved her just as much as the other guy but he wasn’t well of like him not his fault
I think myself as a woman, I still sympathize with the character Kouji. Social prejudice is on the one hand, family conditions are on the other hand to create a person. After all, kouji is kind and pitiful. The rate of women reporting depression is high, but the rate of men committing suicide because of depression is higher than women.
Despite it being a serious moment, I laughed when Koji was confronting Miyo about the arranged marriage, and Kiya called out for him, and he gives this visceral shutter. Poor guy is repulsed by his new bride.
Already read parts in the manga, he was able to help her in a way. *spoiler* when miyo was kidnapped, Koji knew who it was and told kudo where she was taken…even after that was resolved he said his farewell to miyo, in good terms with her and left town, he knew kudo is the right person to protect her
@@moonhunter982 wtf. If you are searching online you should be aware that you will be exposed to spoilers. Shit, it’s already a lot that people have to put the word in it of itselff. You don’t want spoilers don’t go online 👀 looking. Jesus the entitlement of some people.
@@moonhunter982 internet is a safe space for everyone to put their opinions and thoughts. So what if this person is spoiling the story? They are not insulting anyone, besides as they rightfully pointed out, this is the internet, expect spoilers. It's not their responsibility to sensor things for you. Decency has nothing to do with this. If anything you are being indecent for attacking a person who was just sharing their thoughts and expecting people will do whatever you want.
Guys, he has to be a coward for the story to work, if he fought for her he’d be more important and would cause conflict for the mc she’s obviously gonna end up with.
Well i liked this dude and i liked the fact that he accepted that he's a coward... If he had shown some courage then he could have gotten the greatest gift...
He isn't a coward..... he just had NO POWER. There is a difference. How could he fight against the system and their very "powered" families and end up peacefully with Miyo?? At least he helped when it was important and didn't let any type of jealousy get in the way. I respect him. He did what he could within the scope of influence/power he had. That's more than most do...... either ppl didn't watch the show or didn't TRULY understand the social construct he was operating within.
Even his own brother said he's too kind for his own good. The fact he got engage also because he took his brother place. It should be his brother turn but his brother is man of free will and refuse to be his dad pawn.
He could have run away with her. Have a humble life. Sucks but worth it for live. Plus. Maybe this is a lesson he needed to learn. To stand up for what he cares about. He’ll be okay eventually in my opinion.
@@viridianacortes9642 It's not as simple as you think, he's a young master and leaving home is not necessarily good for miyo. Like you said, Miyo could leave the clan and live on her own by cooking and sewing, but the harsh background of the nobility in the past was complicated.
I'm glad she doesn't married him coz he don't have the guts to protect a abused girl..... If the girl was like her sister then it's ok... That witch will be save by playing tricks... But our fl doesn't have the sane personality to play tricks after so many abusive incidents....
So many are quick to judge Kojis predicament when in reality the majority of you would probably do the same. This is not 2023. Consider all the complexities of the situation and keep in mind the societal norms, if you can… What would you do then..?
If I claimed I loved sb I would have fought for that person. I'm not the type to just get marriage to just anybody. I don't even like the thought of arranged marriages 😂
@@fatinamirah5305 and there were still people back then that went against stuff like that not all of them were obedient idc if I die I'm standing on what I said!😂
Am I gonna sound like a jerk when I say this was probably for the best? I like this guy and wish him good things, but her fiancé was the one who could help her the most
@@damonlam9145 never said it was easy. I said I value my respect. I don't care how hard it may be I said what I said I refuse to marry someone I don't want to.
That boy was an idiot!😠 Miyo was the best girl he could find.😊She’s sweet, angelic, pure and adorable.🥰And he didn’t even stood up to defend her from her stepmother and stepsister. ☹️☹️😢Now she has left to never come back to that horrible family (good for her) and she just went to the house of the man who would be her new fiancé (a man I hope doesn’t treat her as bad as her family did or least of all, worse than her family😖😖)
Miyo is a member of the Saimori clan (?). You're sure if he goes against the Saimori family, Miyo will be good or she will be treated worse behind his back.
At least he’s aware and takes responsibility for his cowardice. I’ll give him that
Episode 4 proves otherwise . He didn’t even move a single finger to defend Mio when she was being verbally abused by Kaya.
@@StrawMan1235 Episode 5 counters that.
At least he's man enough to admit he's lacking and that he couldn't stand up for Miyo. Then again, in circumstances such as his, there really isn't much that he can do especially considering how strict arranged marriages can be during these times. He was just unlucky. It was also revealed in ep2 that it really is Miyo that should have been arranged to be married to him, but Miyo's father backed out of the original arrangement.
Also, I think it was just not meant to be. Think about it, if Koji did anything as bold as say, he ran away with Miyo - turning their backs against their families (and faced the eventual repercussions of this), then Miyo would not have met Kiyoka, the better man or rather the best man for her.
No, not Koji, but Koji's older brother.
Best man no he’s just rich enough to keep her happy that’s not best man the other guy loved her just as much as the other guy but he wasn’t well of like him not his fault
@@Anonymous-jj9yuso if he is rich he doesn’t really love her? Makes no sense
@@moonhunter982 you dumb I said he has the finances to care for her while the other guy did not having money makes things easier
@@moonhunter982lol right? i am confused as well.
I think myself as a woman, I still sympathize with the character Kouji. Social prejudice is on the one hand, family conditions are on the other hand to create a person. After all, kouji is kind and pitiful. The rate of women reporting depression is high, but the rate of men committing suicide because of depression is higher than women.
Sometimes being nice is curse- after all not everyone plays nice. Often ignoring bullies wouldn't solve anythingif, if not making things worse.
Despite it being a serious moment, I laughed when Koji was confronting Miyo about the arranged marriage, and Kiya called out for him, and he gives this visceral shutter. Poor guy is repulsed by his new bride.
I personally hope he gets stronger with time and finds a better woman than Kaya. Given enough time, he will be able to perfect himself.
Already read parts in the manga, he was able to help her in a way. *spoiler* when miyo was kidnapped, Koji knew who it was and told kudo where she was taken…even after that was resolved he said his farewell to miyo, in good terms with her and left town, he knew kudo is the right person to protect her
Please say spoiler warning then space a lot!!!
@@moonhunter982 wtf. If you are searching online you should be aware that you will be exposed to spoilers. Shit, it’s already a lot that people have to put the word in it of itselff. You don’t want spoilers don’t go online 👀 looking. Jesus the entitlement of some people.
@@stargirl6659 wtf is your reply? manga ppl should say spoiler warning with space it is called "decency". Not sure you have heard of it tho.
@@moonhunter982 internet is a safe space for everyone to put their opinions and thoughts. So what if this person is spoiling the story? They are not insulting anyone, besides as they rightfully pointed out, this is the internet, expect spoilers. It's not their responsibility to sensor things for you. Decency has nothing to do with this. If anything you are being indecent for attacking a person who was just sharing their thoughts and expecting people will do whatever you want.
@@moonhunter982 I m not manga reader but people owe you nothing you are watching a clip then never read comments it's not there job not to spoil you
Guys, he has to be a coward for the story to work, if he fought for her he’d be more important and would cause conflict for the mc she’s obviously gonna end up with.
Well i liked this dude and i liked the fact that he accepted that he's a coward... If he had shown some courage then he could have gotten the greatest gift...
He isn't a coward..... he just had NO POWER. There is a difference. How could he fight against the system and their very "powered" families and end up peacefully with Miyo??
At least he helped when it was important and didn't let any type of jealousy get in the way. I respect him. He did what he could within the scope of influence/power he had. That's more than most do......
either ppl didn't watch the show or didn't TRULY understand the social construct he was operating within.
I'm with you!!
Yes coward dosen't try to stand up for his love
Even his own brother said he's too kind for his own good.
The fact he got engage also because he took his brother place. It should be his brother turn but his brother is man of free will and refuse to be his dad pawn.
I would say he is just useless under the circumstances, he has no means of opposing the clan unlike kudo.
He could have run away with her. Have a humble life. Sucks but worth it for live. Plus. Maybe this is a lesson he needed to learn. To stand up for what he cares about. He’ll be okay eventually in my opinion.
@@viridianacortes9642 It's not as simple as you think, he's a young master and leaving home is not necessarily good for miyo. Like you said, Miyo could leave the clan and live on her own by cooking and sewing, but the harsh background of the nobility in the past was complicated.
@@viridianacortes9642in my opinion, without the author, people like him wouldn't be ok
@@viridianacortes9642
Not as simple as you think.
I'm glad she doesn't married him coz he don't have the guts to protect a abused girl..... If the girl was like her sister then it's ok... That witch will be save by playing tricks... But our fl doesn't have the sane personality to play tricks after so many abusive incidents....
Sometimes you have to be bolder 👍
What about me, what about meeeee
So many are quick to judge Kojis predicament when in reality the majority of you would probably do the same.
This is not 2023. Consider all the complexities of the situation and keep in mind the societal norms, if you can…
What would you do then..?
If I claimed I loved sb I would have fought for that person. I'm not the type to just get marriage to just anybody. I don't even like the thought of arranged marriages 😂
@@freaksssssneed i remind you this is not 2023 and with the plot of having supernatural power I doubt you would do anything
@@fatinamirah5305 like I said I'm big on not marrying someone I don't want so yes I would do something I'm not a coward.
@@fatinamirah5305 and there were still people back then that went against stuff like that not all of them were obedient idc if I die I'm standing on what I said!😂
Am I gonna sound like a jerk when I say this was probably for the best? I like this guy and wish him good things, but her fiancé was the one who could help her the most
He is a big coward thats why he don't deserve her🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
bro has every reason to become a villain but choose not to
No, you're not ashamed of your cowardice. If he really loved her; he would fight for her.
Seems like he's from just less abusing enviroment. He shall first get out from his own toxic surrondings.
!! EXACTLY if he really loved her he would of fought for her .
Wait, are you a fan of Etra chan?
@@freaksssssit’s not as easy as you think especially back then.
@@damonlam9145 never said it was easy. I said I value my respect. I don't care how hard it may be I said what I said I refuse to marry someone I don't want to.
I really hope Koji find another happiness one day……he is really a good guy😢
Koji deserve women who like miyo than her little evil step-sister, kaya
Yeah 😒
Hope Kouji can find his happiness in new season
He's Just like me frfr
Don't promise the person you love anything.
@@cgamejewels yeah
Meiji Japan or inspired is brutal for these people.
He lost her and he know it
So deal with your life choice
That boy was an idiot!😠
Miyo was the best girl he could find.😊She’s sweet, angelic, pure and adorable.🥰And he didn’t even stood up to defend her from her stepmother and stepsister. ☹️☹️😢Now she has left to never come back to that horrible family (good for her) and she just went to the house of the man who would be her new fiancé (a man I hope doesn’t treat her as bad as her family did or least of all, worse than her family😖😖)
Miyo is a member of the Saimori clan (?). You're sure if he goes against the Saimori family, Miyo will be good or she will be treated worse behind his back.
I jus saw episode 1 and it made me mad
I dont think he lovese miyo . he just feels bad for her
I kinda agree and disagree of him being a coward
my reaction: this guy is such a wuss =='
What is the anime name?
Watashi no Shiawase Kekkon or English title is My Happy Marriage
r wird die Folgen seiner Feigheit tragen. Eine verzogene, sadistische Goere als Ehefrau,...
Isn't this too short ? Make videos atleast 5 min ...
hi, maybe it will be difficult , because they are copyrighted, I only share bits and pieces. but I'll give it a try