What a toxic friend looks like
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As an Erik I am very offended
Erik Toland Man pinned comment and it only has 18 likes...
Killian doesnβt matter
only like if you are erik
Ah yes
Erik Toland yo 69 likes
Eric watching this vid: I wonder who heβs talking about
Yah from my experience they donβt realize itβs them
@@elenarexach9236 ikr
@@elenarexach9236 exactly, they will always defend themselves
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βEricβ is probably in the comment section rn and we donβt know
That's just what I was thinking.
Is it you?
Yeah Iβm right here , why did he have to use my first name lol
Are you Eric?
SomeThing tells me its you...
I think it's important to identify not only toxic people, but toxic groups as well. I've seen both.
It's like the old saying goes "birds of a feather flock together". You can have a good group that becomes polluted by that one douchenoodle, and on the other side of the coin, you can have that one good person who accidentally falls into the wrong crowd. I've learned the hard way.
Used to chill and mingle with a group that seemed really cool on the surface, but really enjoyed talking garbage about others behind their back. Like "this person smells", or "that person is dumb", or "this person is this, that, and the other thing." I even found myself contributing to the conversation and agreeing with these douchenoodles, just so I wasn't "that guy". Overtime I just started slowly building resentment for the kind of people they were, and distanced myself from them more and more each time, until finally I didn't have to deal with them anymore, and it's been great ever since. I still see them around occasionally, but I keep convos extremely short, sometimes only saying "hi" and "bye". Usually acting like I'm too busy to chat, and "I gotta jet outta here".
What that said, I just want to point out that it's perfectly possible for a group to be just as toxic as an individual. The whole "pack mentality" can be a very bad thing. I keep and eye out for that crap now. Anyone, or any group acting the fool/fools, I distance myself from now, before it even starts. Stay safe out there all! Avoid those toxic douchnoodles! Lol
I love this comment as I've been there. Knew this girl who seems cool but I made her mad once on accident she they showed me her group of friends who were very rude, toxic telling me lies about who I am. They just met me. A bunch of trash talkers. I'm glad I kept my distance and she left and I went my own way...I don't miss her either.
I was in a group like that. One half was chill and smoked weed and we did cool things together, the other were emos. I was unproblematic as hell and overfriendly so the emos didn't like me. They all turned on me one day and cut me off and I was so upset. In the end I never spoke to any of them again and hung out with the other half of the group that was cool asf.
just say douchebag bro
No offense but i ain't reading alat
I used to have a roommate at university who was pure toxic and guess what, she made all friends turn away from one of the girls in our circle of friends. She turned everyone against her with lies, just because she was jealous to her. It took a while until we all found out what was going on. She is still toxic. She stole another woman's husband and made the stupid man's life hell too.
I knew a toxic person who was so high functioning they did some crazy shit that for some reason no one else even acknowledged. They wanted to date another person, and that person said they were not into them. So they sabotaged their entire social life and made them a laughing stalk. Isolated and alone, the butt of every joke. It took a concerted campaign to make this happen, and I remember just how down and isolated that person was.
I remember going up to them and being like "This isnt you. Someone is trying to destroy you and your self confidence. I dont know what they have in mind, but its more than casual". In those moments, they really appreciated the support because I swear everyone else cared so much about politics they forgot to be decent.
Then that person, having successfully isolated and destroyed the self confidence of this person, moved in. They then became "The only source of support" that person had. The only one lifting them up. I dont count because when I did it, I was just doing it to be decent. This person had an agenda, and they made the person they isolated FEEL that they were alone in the world and only had them. They then transitioned it to a relationship in that "One step at a time" kinda way that doesnt require you actually make a decision. The same way you get addicted to drugs.
At that point they then went the other way, lifting this person up and blaming everyone else for attacking them because they were jealous. They made sure they never got too close to their friends after that. Always second teir, leaving early kinda stuff. Keeping them dependant.
Sometimes when we were just alone in the room for whatever reason, it would all stop and we would just look at eachother and say nothing. They couldnt get me with their games and I refused to play, so we just existed around eachother. The lack of pretense in those memories still freaks me out, even though at the time I recognized it was a predator face off an I had to make sure they knew I was not prey.
They strait isolated that person from the pack, hunted them, and claimed them. They made the political landscape such that everyone had short memories about it. Then they went about consuming others. Shit was scary. Especially the short memories part.
Is anyone else afraid that they're toxic and just don't know?
Y E S omg that's what i've been thinking
Same
Yeah
Precisely my dear watson
Yeeesssss omg
because like- almost all of my friends are super the opposite of self absorbed, meanwhile I care for myself quite a bit, and I know it's probably way better to care for myself than not but I can't help but think am I selfish? also, my friends buy me gifts n stuff but I can't do the same for them because I don't have any money so most of what I do is handmake things or draw, but I worry that's not good enough. I'm afraid that maybe someone is gonna snap at me one of these days.
"Toxic people only hit you up when they need somethingβ
*Me contemplating my relationship with God*
@@socials1687 facts... sadly
@@socials1687 what he say?
God? He told me u are shady
@@xuan.1611 damn God sounds kinda toxic
Humans invented God
I love how he puts all colors/races into his animations :)
hes just drawing his friends..
This really makes me feel more confident in my decision of leaving my friend group. For years we've been great friends but I was someone who wasn't very confident about myself. I was also someone who was suffering with anxiety and depression. These friends were twins and there parents weren't the greatest but basically every argument that we had it felt as it was always my fault, that I was the problematic one, or that they were the victim, and they practically gaslighted me and took advantage of my self-consciousness to make them feel good about themselves probably. They were always the ones trying to get me into things, and when we did stuff together, they always seemed to be bored with my ideas rather than there's. Of course, I was naive and not in the right mindset but neither were they. When I finally said my goodbyes in the nicest way possible, they just kept being bitches and saying that it's my fault and that anxiety has nothing to do with the way I act which, spoiler alert, mental health does a lot. I was a supportive friend, even in my worst times, and they never did much for me so seeing this makes me realize how similar this Eric was. For those who are struggling, please be careful with the friends you choose, otherwise, they might make your life even worse. Thankfully I'm in better spot in my life and recovering better with the support of my mom so I can honestly say, I made the right decision and even gained a lot of self confidence in myself.
Why is this comment so long
Be safe and I'm proud you did the right thing for a better mental health and life positively in short, ignore the haters and do what you love as long with your true friends support you 100% with happiness! πππ
I had a very similar experience with twin girls, I wonder if theyβre the same people?
Everyone in the comments talking about his message at the end but can we talk about the amazing new art style itβs fire
Yessss mannn π₯π₯π₯ love the style Iβm definitely gonna try to do the same with my own stories
U mean firr not fire
It is legit the best style he's
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Faaacts
Fi-re. Once again straight up fi-re
βToxic friendβ is a code word for narcissist. Simple
Yesss I've always thought that
anixxxxxxxxxx
No sociopath
And i ask my co-worker what does narcissist mean, and she is like, "theres many different types" UGH WROOONG
Toxic friends are usually narcissists due to probability. But not all narcissists are toxic (just 99%). The difference is whether you take advantage of others or not.
I had a toxic friend who was an attention seeker. It got to the point of where she started faking depression and DID, and thats' where I crossed the line and cut her off. She'd always guilt me and my friends, she was hypocritical, tried to basically become me, and was disrespectful to others. So glad I cut her off
toxic guy: there is no war here, in ba sing se, yall are the problem.
*omg swoozie commented on my new video*
I see you are a man of culture
@@riskyy2657 Imma do what swoozie did in his last video when somebody said something this stupid
"HuH"
Peep the reference. Nice one ππΎ
Lol
Haven't you noticed that everybody who is toxic is always angry, always stressed, and never progresses in life? Like they are literally always in the same area talk in the same shit about the same people. I take joy in knowing this.
LOJIXX so in otherwords your a toxic person because you take joy in knowing people have problems lol
@@awaiting_YHWH_return no he take joy in the fact that he can see signs before its bad
I in joy it to
Penny OoooOoohh
@@awaiting_YHWH_return I take joy in the fact that people who manipulate and people who are generally toxic, get what they deserve. keep in mind I did NOT say that everyone who had problems is toxic, I said everyone who's toxic have problems.
I like how you said your protective of your friends. A true sign of a truly nice friend :)
Putting that smile on my face like the helpful friend you are, thanks sWooZie.
I imagine "eric" watching this and being so toxic he thinks "nah hes not talking about me"
lmaoooo that's def what's happening he prolly thinks he's talking about omar
Or being like. "Man, who is he talking about? That guy sounds like a jerk"
βWith a group of friends tryna pick a movie and that personβs seen it and those two people havenβtβ. SO RELATABLE!!!
Logo mmuvu,
Logo bc I i99 dzikir yg
THIS LITERALLY DESCRIBES MY βfriendβ π¨
I love how real you keep it in your videos. It's good vibes, and helps a lot of people (including myself) process different things going on in their lives through relatability. I love your videos. Keep up the amazing work π
the fact that he animated himself positioning the camera in the beginning is everything.
he hired animators
@@RecordToDeathToBoredom Still pretty dope though :P
Lol. Yh. And immediately fell of the ladder and had a band aid on his head in the next frame.
βtoxic people only reach out to you when they need somethingβ *realization sets in*
Good for you
Toxic women only date girly, artsy "men" who they can control and use and marry men just to divorce them to take half of their assets. They accuse us alpha males of "toxic masculinity" because they know we won't fall for any of that and that the world was a tougher and better place when we were in control. Very selfish
@@Zenigundam lemme introduce chad as a counterargument
Yo
IK
Just discovered this channel today and I'm in love. Very charismatic and engaging storytelling. Love itβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ
I've been watching this video since it came out... I find myself coming back to it because I feel like I've had a lot of epiphanies when it comes to toxic people and need to be reminded that I'm not crazy I am seeing the signs they are just gaslighting. Right now I'm dealing with my cousin who is just being nasty and my whole family is struggling because she is family but it's gotten to the point where it's just impossible to be around her without something being a problem because she's always portraying herself as the victim like you said. This video has been very eye opening and I hope you know that you're really helping people out here who struggle with the little things. Thank you Swoozie.
Watching this right after breaking a friendship with a toxic friend-this was extremely validating. Thank you!
When you cut off toxic friends or people from your life, a huge weight is lifted off from you. It feels great
Word, i cut off my dad and im literally so happy that i dont have to pretend to like or respect him anymore.
@@littleinfinitie4146 damn
its like expelling a demon from your house
Does anyone have any tips I have a toxic friend and none sees it but me.
The thing is isnt everyone toxic at times?
bro itβs actually crazy how much swoozie evolved and the animation is just incredible π props to you swoozie
Itβs because he doesnβt animate anymore π
Am here thinking the same thing
Yes! I noticed!
He donβt animate his vids no mo
ok but still how swoozie has grown so much is still pretty amazing, even if he doesnβt do ALL the work
this is why I always ask why someone is "shady" cuz once they gotta explain why they don't like someone and neither should you everyone else starts picking up on how shady the toxic friend is
thanks for helping me break off so many people. and improve myself. W swoozie
I feel bad for the people watching this and realizing theyβre the toxic friend
NOOOOOOOOO
Thatβs how they *want* you to feel!!!!
You think Eric saw this?
They most likely wonβt π
Narcissists canβt be called out. They donβt have the brain chemistry to have feelings for other people.
Don't feel bad for them. They need to see stuff like this. Realize that's them, and grow as a person. If they don't they're going to be like that to other people.
"Limit their access to you." is the BEST advice ever. YES!
i have said my peace. i have voiced my concerns. i have spoken
Thatβs actually making things worse. They will obsess over contacting you and they will be worse. Just say, hey! Here are the things that I donβt think are good traits.
Goes for Family too
This is so great - a subject a that needs a little levity! It does suck that if you point out someone is toxic, people raise and eyebrow at you. Iβve learned to just take actions on boundaries and wait for people to find out themselves. OR just tell stories with facts - no labels or judgment-and then let other people come to their own conclusions. Be an ear and source of validation when theyβre ready.
There will always be this toxic in society, you are so right !, what I knew so far that they are at least in a big social circle such as Classes and so on.
What I understood today, is that they do not stop there but find a way to crawl into a normal social circle,
I had a friend who always kept an eye on my actions - feels almost a kind of parent - I'm kind of successful in school, thank God, and he would get upset every time I missed or did not show up for one reason or another, Not to mention that when he was missing out, it's usually because he spent all night at the bar or went to At sea or to the pool, and that guy, feels the need to criticism me,
Nice to know that more people understand this kind of people and are careful about it...
Really love your content By the way!!!!
Swoozie: I have spoken.
My mind: THE MAN HAS SPOKEN EVERYONE
πππ
This is a sign. i was thinking about what to do about a toxic friend of mine, you da goat ngl
wavy Christina it never came to your mine to cut them off lol
Penny donβt judge you donβt know what others go through
He has said his piece.
Tbh, I'm glad he's out of my life now
SAME
I love how he just sits here and throws a fit about his backstory itβs so funny and awesome
I wish I had seen this video before I had a toxic friend, SERIOUSLY that shit lasted for over three years and luckily I cut off contact with him and from now on whenever I feel guilty about it, I'll watch this video and remember why I cut ties with that dude, you're absolutely incredible and I wish I was your friend irl, you seem like an incredibly fun guy to be around
Everyone needs a Swoozie in their friend group.
yessir
Unfortunately there isn't enough in the world
bruh didn't even have a car
Facts!!
I appreciate u and everything u do for this country
I love how when swoozie is at Ericβs party and heβs carrying the dog while arguing with Eric. Lmao thatβs such a mood
What's a mood?
@@Noah-hx9oi Something all the "cool" kids say til they find a different trend lol
Noah I donβt understand either.. as far as I know βmoodβ is a state of mind.. I must be too old to understand kidsβ slangs
@@dwatsonj93 I dont do trends, but carrying a dog at a party issa mood
Meaning, you dont wanna deal with people, so you only care about the dog there. Not sure if you been to a party, but some people have dogs, and I chill with that dogπ€·π½ββοΈπ€·π½ββοΈ
@@keroro2611 I'm not even that old it's just that I don't spend my day looking at memes all day and creating new words with existing words xD
toxic people are toxic, they cannot maintain friendships or love because they are immature but they have a talent for passing their problem on to people who have never asked for it, but the point is that if you are too naΓ―ve or too protective, it's the same as toxic people
you should be able to let your friends learn their own lessons
I love this guys animations they are so funny and smooth π
I had a toxic friend once. He was always jealous of me and thought I was holding him back. And when his wife saw he was having problems he totally flipped out! He started yelling at her and then got mad at me! He claimed that I "turned her against" him and the psycho got so mad he actually tired to kill me!
Needless to say I had to end our friendship there is then. I *_cut_* things off with him both literally and figuratively. Word is he's still _smoldering_ about the entire confrontation.
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Was he the chosen one
Emphasis on the word βcutβ π€£
Obi Wanβs talking about Anakin (episode 3)
You had to do what you had to king
I hate you!
The βtoxic friendβ I think we should instead call them the βCharmingly manipulative victimβ
True shit
Sounds like Tati Westbrook π
....Self Proclaimed Victim"
yhyh
Thanks for the likesπ this is a first time for me
5:57 the face, mixed with the quote, mixed with the tone makes this perfect
I had a toxic person in my groupβ¦tip 1 and 2 were spot on. Always played the victim and their original friend group of yrs cut her offβ¦this video was spot on. I have said my piece, I have voiced my concerns, and my real friends and I removed her from our lives after that. Good video Swoozie. You never miss!
I need an βEVERYBODY STAP!β friend... maybe I should be the βEVERYBODY STAP!β friend...
be what u seek
Bro you know I have tried this and unfortunately, my toxic friend was so manipulative that it sort of backfired. So like be careful and keep distance when thatβs the only sensible thing to do.
He sounds like a narcissist. When he canβt manipulate you, he tries to manipulate everyone around you.
@@cornloin9732 talk to someone about it, professionally.
cornloin yeah cause for some people its a BIG problem
@@cornloin9732 You should always think in the other person's perspective and be open-minded to where they are coming from. You don't have to agree with everything they say, but you should still respect their boundary and just leave as that. Understand that the world does not revolve around you, and most people honestly don't care about you or what you do because they have their own problems to worry about. It doesn't mean you aren't important; it just means you just need a couple true friends that are there for you when you need it. Relationship is a both way. You need to be there for them when they are going through a rough time just like they would for you. Those are the ones that's worth your time to reach out to; otherwise, don't bother.
so true..
@@cornloin9732 /Troll
Love the small details in the animation Good work!
SWooZie you r amazing
Ur content is awesome
And I love how you give these simple animations so much life and expression.
βI have said my, peace I have spokenβ bout to be the ending line to any argument I get into in the future ππ₯
Love your videos dude.
Bro I love your videos to give me a shout out
I love your animations
DANG ITS STANLEY BRO I LOVE YOUR VIDS MAN KEEP DOING WHAT YOU DOOOOOOOOO!
AEOMATIONZ I also love your videos too
Having only toxic friends is helluva much worse than have no friends at all. I have learned that lesson the hard way.
imagine having a friend who is genuinely a good person, but is also toxic.
"I have said my peace, Ive voiced my concerns, I have spoken." love that
*I H A V E S P O K E N*
Literally gave me chills, dude
complete wiv mando guy
I know right. It's perfect, know where and when to speak and when to stop speaking and when to choose silence.
β@Catherine Ling THIS IS SWEAZIE! instead of Sparta kick its sweazie spoke.
SWooZie talking about βwe all have a group of friends.β Iβm over here like βyeah, sure we do.β
My only friend this year is my face mask :(
JoshBoop Vlogs 'n' Stuff now this is a mood i can relate to
@@erickbarraza3580 Ong
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God, I just got out a group with someone like this, and the worst thing is that thinking back on it, I probably could've avoided things getting as bad as they got if I had only spoken my peace when he showed his first signs of being toxic, and probably wouldn't have had to leave a now mostly toxic friend group
sWooZie so wholesome always love rewatching the vids
This not only was an interesting story, this also helped me recognize AND deal with toxic people. Thanks!
In an hour?
*omg swoozie commented on my new video*
Bruh maybe I'm getting wooshed but you commented less than an hour after he posted, how tf are you dealing with people that fast
βToxicβ in this case is basically just extreme narcissism
I'm pretty sure I know a few people like that, and the majority of those people are in my family
Narcissistic people are NOT inherently toxic. Narcissism is a disorder. And obviously, you shouldn't be ableist and say "everyone with this disorder is like this". People can be toxic WITHOUT having disorders.
@@oofuwu2666 βA disorder in which a person has an inflated sense of self-importanceβ. Can you explain to me how thatβs NOT a toxic trait?
@@oofuwu2666 fair enough, and that's true, but they can tie into each other
me but I did a personality test and it came out as ''egoistic, dominant, leader, signs of narcissism'' so I might actually BE the toxic one lol
also it said I am mildly depressed :(
I have had a friend who constantly talks down on me. He keeps disrespecting everything he can about me and end up making me feel guilty for things i am not guilty for. Then i apologize for things that aren't my fault and the cycle continues. Been like that for more than a year now and i finally cut him out.
I wrote a song about toxic friendships and the feelings you go through when you get let down by a close friend.
itβs called friend and my name is Jolina if you want to hear it on Spotify (or wherever you listen to music).
maybe the song can help you heal the way it helped me.
YOU DESERVE BETTER.
@@jolina942 Thanks i will check the song out!
@@jolina942 Just listened to the song and its way better than i expected! You should have more views its amazing!
Yeah it's like you apologize to smooth things over but it just makes it worse and worse. Because the wrong person is taking responsibility.
Ikr? Swoozie is a great friend.
I had a toxic friend in middle school but I didnβt realize she was toxic until Highschool.
I didnβt have middle school but I did have a story like that until we annoyed him
I had one in elementary school
Same but in elementary I realized at 4th and 5th
Likewise. Been friends with a girl since elementary school, but her dark side wasn't made obvious to me until my 16th birthday party. She wanted nothing to do with me the entire day, instead spending a majority of her time on my computer chatting on Facebook. Two years later, she didn't even invite me to her 16th. Her parents felt guilty because they assumed we were very close, and so they were the ones that came to my house to apologize, even giving me a slice of her cake.
Come to think of it, her parents were better friends than my "best friend" was...>
@@nancychun2395 4th and 5th grade is still elementary school
This man be teaching life lessons don't sleep on swoozie
Everyone needs a friend like you
Changed my friendship with someone to an ex-friend after this video. Toxic people arent worth it especially if they dont want to change after informing them
ITS ALWAYS THE βThanks for the inviteβ text π π
OHMYGOSH i know right ? ?
On godπ€¦π»ββοΈ
I dont get it
I get that text when itβs actually somebody that fw u but in this instance itβs annoying asf
Bruh I carnt I have nobody I can text thanks for the invite ππ
I once had this toxic friend who talked bad about everyone so one day she was βtesting meβ saying
βHow do you go to bed knowing you talk bad about everyone?β
And I was like
βShouldnβt you know?β
we stan you for having a good comeback ππ π½β¨
Oof girl almost the same thing happened to me this one friend I had started talking bad about one of our other friends in front of a bunch of us like βever since she went to college all she does is have sex and smoke weedβ and I snapped back with βisnβt that you? Oh wait no you donβt smoke weed, you vape, which is addictive so itβs worseβ Havenβt been good with her since, and she tells everyone I called her a drug addicted whore (even the sister of the girl she was talking bad about, who of course took my side) π€·ββοΈ didnβt need that in my life anyway
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The volume inside of this bus...... IS ASTRONOMICAL
And then?
Can some please count the amount of times he has said βI have spokenβ
Four times
Itβs sad that thereβs actually people like this in the world
Y boy LEAFY thatβs good bruh donβt get roped into toxicity
I honestly donβt think he can control it
Thereβs much worse than this in the world
No duh
My mom is that kind of person toxic as hell.
Yo this movie sucks, Iβm leaving - Eric
Alright, imma head out
@@geco2567, GIMME YO KEYS
Htf you gonna pick at a movie at ahouse that isn't even yours (Fair go, they did give first refusal but, still!) only to bail not even β way in (assuming this a 2hr picture) and get prissy when someone Flatly REFUSES to give you THEIR keys.
Swoozie telling his stories on his bed is very entertaining on its own, but with the right exaggerated animation, it goes PAST being perfect! Hope I get to be an animator for someone who tells stories like these one day but I need to get my act and work together first.
Just came back to this vid 2 years later. Still just as funny and as good as when I first watched it. This is actually the first vid of yours I've ever seen and it's what had me sub.
Notice how he's slowly moving up the trending board
It honestly scares me that this many people need to know what a toxic friend looks like
@yee haw itβs not thatβs itβs just a good vid
Eric be like "guys he's so shady"
Amazon: Dear Eric, ur umbrella that u purchased is now ready to be picked up
This is the best π
SunOnShine Defunding the Police makes it worse
I like how swoozie draw and colour shade and everything :)
This hits different now that I've actually socialized with people.
"I have said my peace,
I have voiced my concerns,
I have spoken."
- Adande "sWooZie" Thorne
for future reference, it's piece :)
The dislikes are the toxic people getting called out on their bullshirt
Hey dont be dissing peoples bullshirts. Thats rude.
Wow I own a bullshirt, you really making fun of me rn?
Bullshirt
Clean people: 𧼠𧽠π§Ό
Hey not everyone is like you, some of us actually take pride in our bullshirts
YES BULLSHIRT.
I actually really like these kinds of videos because now I know like what not to do or what to do with toxic friends or how u would not be one
Something to remember is that if you like that person or genuinely don't feel bad about being a toxic persons friend, that's okay! I've been told I was being manipulated before, even though I was doing a lot for them and not for my self, I was tired of working on me and I enjoy acts of services for others even if there's not visible return, conversations with them were amazing and their still my friend right now. Although if you feel like your being hurt it's unhealthy to stick around, but if you feel like you want to stay (don't let hat urge push you to) but its okay to talk to them about altering. No one wakes up and says "I'm gonna be a horrible person today!" and if they do its for the lols, keep in mind that the most annoying, toxic and/ or rud people are the ones that need the most help and probably need a lot of therapy of just someone who understands them, most toxics are broken, not villons. I didn't mean to get all deep like that bc its a partially silly video, and that's just my opinion so please don't hate
I watched the βinner thugβ scene like 7 times. Thats a cool animation if Iβve ever seen one.
5:44
@@devoid4661 thanks bro i actually needed this
Heβs a stand user
FRFR
I actually clicked because I wanted to know if I had some of the toxic traits or if I'm a toxic friend! Thanks for making the video man
Ditto, though in hindsight, I suppose if we actually were that toxic friend, we never would have cared enough to click it in the first place. ^.^;
My friend say im a phsycopath but im not im sad :(
Wish they were dead
@@tudeslildude that's very true man
@@inbd157 damn, that's dark!!
I know what a toxic friend is, a toxic friend is a person who like to take advantage out of you
bro how this man so wise yet so chill
"they're very self serving - they only want you to do stuff for them" OMG the relatability
Very true
*omg swoozie commented on my new video*
βI feel my inner thug jump, I catch him and sit him back down.β - the Animation there was impeccable
*omg swoozie commented on my new video*
I just really like watching this video over and over again once a month
I just started to watch and I'm already in enjoying the stories
Anxiety: What if you're actually toxic?
Me: *Acts overfriendy to my friends now*
I felt that no cap.
Yep, I felt that-
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yu dont accidentally be toxic, you be toxic with malicious intent
@@zeebeeplayz that's not true but ok. Not all toxic people are aware they are toxic. A lot of the time it can be someone who grew up in a toxic household and just think it's how everyone should/will act.
Yoooo this video just made me kinda realize I got a toxic ass homie. Iβve thought about it, but this has confirmed it. This man always complaining about how all his other friends left him, and always trying to make me feel shitty if he ever thinks I do him wrong in the slightest. Heβs always the victim. Whenever I call him he talks for like 90% of the time, barely asks about me. Idk if he even realizes it. He has his moments of being a real homie, but fits the description of a toxic friend quite well. Damn, Iβm kinda sadππ
It ainβt worth it trust
He is toxic bro. Iβve dealt w the same people. I would tell you to talk about it with him, and itβs worth a try, but usually the problem with those people is even if they know theyβre in the wrong they will do leaps and bounds in their own head to make themselves believe that theyβre not. Thatβs much easier for them than actually going through a realization that theyβre being toxic
Bruh i remember i passed out first thing at school and went to the hospital
I got discharged about 6 hours later
And he called me while i was laying down at home (turns out i had pneumonia i dont even wanna get into that situation cause that involves him too more than you would think)
The first thing this man asks me was if I checked his snap cuz he screen recorded a fight he was in
And bragging and shit
And we were on the phone for about 3 hours and not once did this man ask what was up wit me and whyd o pass out.
So yea im just like eyup 90% of the convo cuz im starting to realise this man for himself and dont give af about me
And hes supposedly my best friend
He wasnt always like that but he started actin like i wronged him greatly and if did he never said nun
And then on top of that
My grandma died last year in april
And when i was feeling like shit
He hugged me an said
And i quote
"Dont worry im going through tougher things than you"
I wouldve chopped that bad social etiquette
So i said i get the gesture but thats no something you say to people
Cuz people who dont know you might take it a different way which wont always be positive
And he follows that up with
Wow i try to be nice to your ass and youre being a judgemental asshole
I honestly dont know why were still friends
But i think im still gonna try
*omg swoozie commented on my new video*
felt brooo
"Its important to not just have people come in and exit your life, and you learn nothing"
π£ PREACH SWOOZIE βΌ
The animation is SOO good
These videos have actually helped me realise that I can be pretty toxic sometimes so I've actually started improving as a person thank you Swoozie
Props to you dude you reconized it and DO SOMETHING about it. Some really don't care men
so glad you've admitted it, unlike some people who always wanna be the victim
First step is always being self aware. Good for you( and your friends ) dude
Good 4 u
respect
literally no one:
swoozie: βi have spoken.β
Jaylen Easter no they didnt
Jaylen Easter you act like a comment is like stealing your million dollars
@Jaylen Easter I mean great minds think alike lol
that's from the mondolorian
Funny and sad that the whole thing that is pointed out happened to me.
I had what I was considering to me the Closest friend (almost like a brother) and the person was similar to an "Erik" in this situation (my apology to all Eriks in the whole world).
We cut ties eventually and I felt depressed for years until I've decided to do some research, looking for answers if I was the problem and if everything that I've done was not being a good friend. I took some time to reflect plus reading about toxic/false friendship and this video was the tip of the ice cream for me to cement the conclusion. My "Friend" was Toxic as F and he acted the same way this video have shown. I've distanced myself to the person and move on with my life.
Toxic friends are bad and Thanks for the video :D
It helped me a lot.
As someone who is like a toxic βfriendβ magnet, this is accurate. Painfully accurate.
Swoozieβs channel animation has evolved
Also, this is really relatable because I had a toxic friend, even in the 5th grade
Check the description for the ones that worked on the animations lately. Theyβre some pretty hard working people and the system them and Swoozie set up is pretty interesting
When toxic people canβt control you they try to control how everyone sees you. Iβve had to cut off a few toxic friends myself and they did that same stuff. Keep it real swoozie.
100% facts
Yes! They like to do that! I HOPE THIS YEAR OF SCHOOL NOBODY IS GONNA BE THAT PERSON! or Iβma warn my bffs because YOU CAN DO ANYTHING BUTME AND MY BFFS WILL STAY LOYAL TO EACHOTHER!
South Wales narcissist
For me it was my friend's toxic friend that they did not want to like get a handle on or recognize their bullshit because how long they've been friends with the toxic prick. So I had to drop my friend. Toxic friend muted me on discord, for no discernible reason, friend won't confront toxic asshole about it. Tells me even that toxic friend has done it to other ppl and they didnt care nearly as much as I did, so I should just deal. Yeah, bitch bye.
Yea
Toxic friends? You mean entirety of a Class when you pull out a snack
Iβm literally going through this. My best friend for over two years, literally we called each other siblings, got really pissed when me and another of our friends started dating and began talking shit behind my back to the rest of the friend group. He had been toxic all the years but Iβd just forgave and forgot everythingβ¦. Until that point. The things he said went so far over the line and heβs not even sorry. I have since cut him completely out of my life. He still talks to everyone else but not as much and idk what his friendship with my boyfriend is like atm.
Who rewatched Swoozie sitting his inner thug down ππ
multiple times