I USED to get hurt in love. I dated extremely successful men---all older than me.. and none of them wanted real commitment. I was hurt supremely, but never showed it on my face... i'd cry when i was alone. And trust me--I hate crying. So i started building a wall.. i was wary of people i dated. But i want to give you guys some light. After kissing a few frogs, i DID meet a prince charming. Except he's no prince. He's just a pauper. He's just an average guy.. with average goals. But he treats me with so much respect. He keeps things level headed and encourages me. He proposed to me... gave me an average ring... and i happily wore it. Why? because i saw he truly was in love with me. It wasn't for my looks, money, or anything else. I met him when i was 34. and he's only a year older than me.
Yo that’s amazing, My gf has a sag sun and cap Venus and she has left me because she believes my goals don’t match hers but on the flip side she said she has never loved anyone like me and I have brought so much support to her life that she wouldn’t be where she is now if it wasn’t for my drive and confidence building......... confused!
So happy for you and thank you for sharing your experience with us all. This tells us that love - Venus has ti abide by the rule of respect and reality - which is satruns rule. Since Venus is sitting in the house of satrun.
Another thing about Venus in Capricorn is that they fall in love really slowly,unusually slowly,they might give them the stars and still it takes a while.But once they fall in love it stays forever and this is when you get hurt.
You've given me so much new knowledge! I'm an Aquarius sun with soooo much Cap in my chart, Venus being one of them. Although I have been lucky enough to have a taste of love I've always felt cursed in the love department but would never accept that as a reality for myself (still won't). I look forward to growth and things turning around in the future
I’m an aqua with lots of cap placements.. after 13 years with my now husband we are finally a power couple making boss moves and it’s making our love deeper and easier now that we are aligned on the same mission. It’s amazing to finally be here and it does get better and better :)
TatianaBazan because its like conflicting wants and needs, having so much earth in a fire sign. I just feel like having cap. in love is the worse placement because it feels impossible trying to find someone and when you do they disappoint and its true I attract douchebags smh... who wants to be constantly learning lessons, I'm not trying to get married when I'm 50! lol
Im a venus in Capricorn with a saggitarian sun and aquarian moon.Mars in virgo.I can say that a few things did run very true for me.Im cautious about surrendering to someone if I can see that stability isn't there for a secure relationship where he isn't grounded in his job or if his mind isn't certain on what he is wanting in life.Nothing is a bigger turn off than someone who is unsure of themselves.At the same time I don't seek anyone that's an ass lol.I am attracted to a man that takes charge and that has power among peers and in the workplace but it ends there.For me its all about maturity,knowing what he wants and the stability that he brings to the table.Venus in Capricorn craves long term relationships and doesn't invest lightly.
I have cap sun and my chart is ruled by capricorn. This is really spot on for me. I find that comfortable relationships bore me, even if I find someone very compatible and nice. I like more aggressive people, even though they don't show me the care I want. The compromise I've made is focusing on my own self esteem and self worth. People take advantage less if we care about ourselves and we show confidence. I gravitate toward water signs but I also don't feel emotionally prepared for their mind games.
My mom is a quadruple Taurus, and thanks to your Taurus videos I was able to buy her the perfect birthday present! They really do love soft things, haha. Thank you Alyssa! :)
You know, I'm a scorpio woman and I have (I own him(and he owns me)) a saggitarious with venus in capricorn and I can tell you, it's a fantastic journey and it's a ride.
i'm a venus in scorpio and actually u describes exactly what i want in a partner lol so wierd. i love men who are in control, have goals for a bright future and i yearn for a relationship where we both only better each other, but together. I'm a venus in scorpio, would we be a good match?
I'm 21, and I think that a lot of people my age with this placement can relate to the feeling of "I don't know what the fuck I'm feeling", because if you have venus, sun or mars in capricorn, and you're my age, then those planets are also conjunct with uranus and neptune. I happen to have all of them. You also made a post about age gaps in dating; about how they are beneficial, otherwise someone else with the same type of "planet-conjunct-neptune" in their chart would just be more noise. Most of the time, I'm doomed to relationships with people who are my age that are loosely defined and easily broken. I find that my friends with opposing signs are my best friends. (I'm a capricorn best friends with a Gemini, Aquarius, Pisces, 2 Aries and a Leo)
I have Venus, Moon, Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn, Sun in Pisces and and Ascendant in Libra. I fell in love for the first time in my life couple of months ago. And this is the longest relationship I have ever had! btw I'm 21
@@fiorelaakciu3536 flirting consists of me roasting and never being serious but also hoping this person is future spouse material - if im in a relationship, i'm with you through thick and thin but i need consistent spontaneity 😂 this is how i dig a semi-toxic hole for myself
My mars is in cancer and venus in capri. I do have to admit that i am very attracted to mature, intelligent, ambitious, rich and tall men! But that doesnt often equate to GOOD men.
Love your videos, so dead on! Double whammy for me with both Sun and Venus in Capricorn with moon in Leo. Everything you said is/has been my life in love so far.
Hey Koko, i'm also Aqua with Venus in Cap. We are not hopeless. The best way to do it is trust your instincts, whilst also letting your guard down ( if you do that sometimes).
My Venus is in Cap. I am a Scorp 12th house, with Sag rising and a Leo moon. My Mars is also in Aries. It's crazy because I'm 39 now and have been single for 6 years. I know what I want and yes it must be built with a sound base. I am ready to create a life with someone and don't mind waiting.
Wow.. That explains a lot..!! Venus in Capricorn in 12th house you can understand the shit I go through.. And being an Aquarius Asc I get attracted to egoistic charming Leos all the time.. Wow I am screwed..
Tee Bee Having Venus in Capricorn myself (plus Mars, plus 3 of my outer planets) and having read some articles on this placement, I would construe 'Earthy Sex' to mean something like this: it's basically two bodies rutting against one another. Anything that is not the bare flesh & the physical drive of the two bodies need not be there. No elaborate props or costumes, no fantasy or daydream, which usually means no kinks or fetishes, either. It's basic. There is a lot of pleasure to be found purely in the force that is applied on the body, you know? Pressure, weight, friction - I think earthy people enjoy these very physical stimuli rather than, say, a beautiful atmosphere/feeling/emotion created by candlelight/flowers/sweet talk that may be enjoyed by Watery people in a sexual situation. For the earthy-sex type, all of that just feels so... frilly, and perhaps less than genuine. Personally, 'rutting' epitomises the act of for me, and it's about the only word I like that describes any sexual act, as it feels most honest and down-to-earth. Hope it helps :)
Lmao, Im Sagittarius sun, Aquarius moon, Leo rising. Mercury Venus and Mars in Capricorn, also having no water in my chart.. so yeah. Im kinda happy with my self. I know I still have to learn a lot but with the right mindset everything will be okay. I feel like I can achieve everything I want if I'm willing to work hard for it. But when it becomes to love.. it sucks. I may never find the right one. I was in a lot of karmic relationships that didn't go so wel.. but I learned a lot from it, so even that it were painfull relationships I'm stil glad I had them, because I am more grounded now and I know what I want and need. But it's just hard to find. I really want to have someone I can share my life with on a different level. Both individuals have to be independent. I wish al the people good luck with finding love!
they really are so dry, also they seem to really romanticize exes, like emotional infidelity, I feel like its such a power play. love your work Alyssa! You're awesome!
I think this is why Virgo women and Capricorn men work so well. Virgo women are usually intelligent, alpha females and leaders, we have that stuck up, standoff-ish vibe, that can attract a Capricorn but when we love we get into our more giving, people pleaser nature and that appeals to capricorns selfish needs. We seem like bitches, which they like but we're not.
cice0143 excuse me,I don't understand how earth signs run over cancers and Leos put them in their place? Last, I checked I wasn't running over any cancers. And trust me, no selfish douchebag is going to put me in my place. Since caps and Virgos (sun and rising) actually have a sense of humility, we know what is is to feel empathy and how to sacrifice for others. Which is what's really important. Unlike thinking the world revolves around me approach Leos AND cancers have.
Nala Chrela Cap risings aren't bad, I would know 'cause I am one. Very hard-working and serious people, can be cold and mean but I digress. Capricorns, especially the men are some of the most selfish and cheap people I have ever met. Virgo men can be generous and the women sometimes "helpful" but they always like to criticize others, and can be snobbish and mean. In fact, just yesterday my virgo cousin just saw me for the first time in months and the first thing out of her mouth to me was a critique. SMH
I have 3 planets in Capricorn and I didnt really relate to this but i guess that's a good thing cause I feel like an Aquarius in relationships (aquarius moon)
My Venus is in Capricorn and I have to object some of your claims. I don't think one's love life can be solely defined by one's Venus, instead you should also look at their placement of Mars and 8th house which will also strongly influence an individual's intimate relationship. Despite how much you made it seem as if Capricorn Venuses are having a hard time. But my Venus falls in my fifth house and my love life have been smooth as ever, even though my personal view on love is rather uptight, but Capricorn have been easy on me so far, I will even consider myself as fortunate in love. Yes It is true that I get attracted to successful, ambitious, stern looking disciplined males. They may be more controlling, more opinionated and self assertive, but it still doesn't make them douche-bags, certainly doesn't make me a bitch either (My SO has his Venus in Capricorn and we are very satisfied with each other.) PS: I can't relate to the "earthy sex" part. I prefer fancy and innovative sex that is full of fun. Sex like business? I rather not have it at all.
There will be more difficulties if Saturn is debilitated and/or challenging venus and mars like in my case. Your placement balances fun and practicality in the relationship.
if you look up your chart on astro dot com, it'll list out placements in planets, houses and all that with a sign in each of them. venus is the ruler of love. and depending where your venus is (where it landed when you were born), it falls into a sign. this video is for venus in capricorn. so the placement of the planet venus, falls capricorn for some. look up your chart with you birth details and you'll find out
Sun in Sagittarius, Moon in Leo, Venus in Cap and Mars in Scorpio. Part of me wants to run around smiling and being jolly while the other half wants to be regal and mysterious. So confusing.
You are really jamming a lot of info into this series of videos, bravo! I like how you stray from from western astrology at times to link it to your personal thoughts. I think you are a conceptual aka "big picture" thinker. Just something i learned about at school.
Yes, Capricorn is a pain in the ass sign. Both my Saturn (which happens to be in Libra) and my Venus in Capricorn are an epic pain in the ass, Alyssa. Love the "why Venus in Capricorns like douchebags." I just figured out why I have such reprehensible taste in men. Holy crap, this whole thing is so right on its not even funny, Alyssa.
So much me, apart from liking to be controlled (I'm Sag sun, so need equality in order to feel free) or wanting lots of money. I've only opened my heart to one guy, my late husband (of over 30 years). He was Cap sun with Venus in Aquarius so I guess his Cap and my Cap gelled, and his Aquarius appreciated my freedom loving Sag nature. It worked SO well - a deeply loving partnership of equals with the earthy sex you talked of. I was incredibly blessed to meet him - and we married within 3 months of getting together! The guy before him was a total douche, so I do guard my emotions - even more so after the relationship I was in for a couple of years recently with an even bigger douche! Why do we do it? We fall for the douches just like you said, heehee.
Me and my boyfriend both have our Venus in Capricorn and he is a bit dry and dull :P but I find myself being more needy than him because I have my Moon in Pisces and he has his Moon in Libra
Hey, what about Scorpio ascendant and Scorpio moon? Isn't that also considered a double Scorpio especially if ascendant aspects both Pluto and Mars not to mention moon conjuncts Pluto in my case.. I ask because the rising sign is usually given the most significance of the 3 then moon due to them being the faster moving planets. Ascendant is how a person comes off when they aren't really familiar to you but once you get to really know them personally then that's the moon personality correct?
I dated a Venus in Capricorn. He was attracted to my ambitious nature. BUT! he was abusive and not romantic. I tried again and again to forgive him but it didn't work out. I'm a Venus in Leo.
I have know alot of venus in cap they are all like this. hahaha they can look quite cold also sometimes as always like capricorn is.But this position i believe can be extremely rewarding it just needs attetion and patience and all that stuff which capricorn loves...hardwork over it haha.I have mars in virgo, sometimes venus in capricorn people trine my mars, hahaha they can be quite lusty in my opinion - u - hahaha
Cap/Aquarius sun w Cap venus ,Aquarius Mars and Mercury.. I generally like creative individualistic types. They had to have a certain amount of stability tho.
I have sun and moon in aqua and I've never cheated. I can't do it. You can't determine cheating just by venus or sun signs. You should look into whether this person has any Mars-Uranus aspects or transiting Neptune to Sun or Mars.
Sun in Capricorn, Moon in Aries and Venus in Capricorn. Now, I get it. Awareness is the first step because up until recently, I did not understand myself or my damned love life.
Aquarius w/ cap venus retrograde Many abuseive relationships stupid mistakes ive done many when it comes to love. Ive loved many arseholes- it takes me a long time to love. Younger years I would rather just have sex with people than commit (being honest). Dumped alot of lazy men. I like a man who works and isnt afraid of it. 22 now and even when I do love I constantly question it. Building on a relationship is very important. I do want that 'power couple'. Once im in love I can scare people because I want to BUILD and build quickly. Like the ram ill headbutt it until I get what I want even if the other person isnt ready(somthing to be mindful of and learn from). Its seriously so hard for us tho. We desire love so much but suck at it because of our lack of jugement or out lack of ability to open up fully straight away. We also pick up alot of 'scars' from the negitive people we love in our life. Working thru them difficulties are hard. We are willing to do ANYTHING for love though, many people take advantage of that (sexually/emotionally/materialisticly) especially if your younger and dont know your worth. We stick with idiots or people who are not for us for too long because we are so commited and driven. Man if I could change one thing it world be this placement.
I'm a pisces and I have Capricorn in a lot of my houses. I believe it when you say Capricorn is ruled by Saturn because, you know whats wierd? My life path number is 8. And 8 is ruled by Saturn too!
speaking of "earthy sex," (yes, i have selective anntennae) i'm hoping you'll get around to mars placements, too. sorry to diverge but this reminded me of a female MARS in capricorn i knew. (sits back down.)
Yep.And I did learn. I don´t say there isn´t yet more to come but I do think we can make beautiful relationships. (did I say "make"?- well a cap can say that)
I USED to get hurt in love. I dated extremely successful men---all older than me.. and none of them wanted real commitment. I was hurt supremely, but never showed it on my face... i'd cry when i was alone. And trust me--I hate crying. So i started building a wall.. i was wary of people i dated.
But i want to give you guys some light. After kissing a few frogs, i DID meet a prince charming. Except he's no prince. He's just a pauper. He's just an average guy.. with average goals. But he treats me with so much respect. He keeps things level headed and encourages me.
He proposed to me... gave me an average ring... and i happily wore it. Why? because i saw he truly was in love with me. It wasn't for my looks, money, or anything else.
I met him when i was 34. and he's only a year older than me.
Yo congrats
Yo love this!
That's what matters! I wish you both so much happiness!
Yo that’s amazing, My gf has a sag sun and cap Venus and she has left me because she believes my goals don’t match hers but on the flip side she said she has never loved anyone like me and I have brought so much support to her life that she wouldn’t be where she is now if it wasn’t for my drive and confidence building......... confused!
So happy for you and thank you for sharing your experience with us all. This tells us that love - Venus has ti abide by the rule of respect and reality - which is satruns rule. Since Venus is sitting in the house of satrun.
Another thing about Venus in Capricorn is that they fall in love really slowly,unusually slowly,they might give them the stars and still it takes a while.But once they fall in love it stays forever and this is when you get hurt.
Totally confirm
True.
You've given me so much new knowledge! I'm an Aquarius sun with soooo much Cap in my chart, Venus being one of them. Although I have been lucky enough to have a taste of love I've always felt cursed in the love department but would never accept that as a reality for myself (still won't). I look forward to growth and things turning around in the future
I am a Capricorn with many planets in Aquarius hehe
I’m an aqua with lots of cap placements.. after 13 years with my now husband we are finally a power couple making boss moves and it’s making our love deeper and easier now that we are aligned on the same mission. It’s amazing to finally be here and it does get better and better :)
Ugh this is meeee. aqua sun, virgo moon, rising Gemini with a cap Venus and a Leo mars. I feel impossible
most of my chart is in Capricorn and i'm a sag. this really is depressing
really? my girlfriend is sagitarius with almost all the planets in capricorn she es rising cancer. can you tell mo more about how is that?
TatianaBazan because its like conflicting wants and needs, having so much earth in a fire sign. I just feel like having cap. in love is the worse placement because it feels impossible trying to find someone and when you do they disappoint and its true I attract douchebags smh... who wants to be constantly learning lessons, I'm not trying to get married when I'm 50! lol
Me too!
yup I am a sag with rising Gemini and cap moon and pretty much every thing else.
yup I am a sag with rising Gemini and cap moon and pretty much every thing else.
I am a guy with Venus in Capricorn and I now know why I'm so attracted to women who want my money haha
@@maskedastrologyguy5602 why??
Wow on point!! Venus in Cap, Sun in Sag!! How doomed I am.
Sameee
+DoveTurtleDove Same :)
Me too
Hahaa.. Same here.. Venus in Cap Sun in Saggi..... But as icing on the cake I've Venus in 12th house.. Hurreyy.. Hahaaaa.
+DoveTurtleDove Me too! Why does the Sun in Sag make us more doomed?
Thank you in advance! :)
"Ambitchious".. :v
Truth 😀 if someone ain’t a bitch he or she is boring
Aquarius sun with Capricorn Venus...hmmm
Im a venus in Capricorn with a saggitarian sun and aquarian moon.Mars in virgo.I can say that a few things did run very true for me.Im cautious about surrendering to someone if I can see that stability isn't there for a secure relationship where he isn't grounded in his job or if his mind isn't certain on what he is wanting in life.Nothing is a bigger turn off than someone who is unsure of themselves.At the same time I don't seek anyone that's an ass lol.I am attracted to a man that takes charge and that has power among peers and in the workplace but it ends there.For me its all about maturity,knowing what he wants and the stability that he brings to the table.Venus in Capricorn craves long term relationships and doesn't invest lightly.
you understand me more than my family and friends do and you don't even know me. I LOVE ASTROLOGY.
40 it gets better eh, so when im half dead
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Venus in Capricorn SQUARED by SATURN.
KILL ME.
Schumadien Same. Pure torture.
I feel u
Same here
literal same. and saturn exalted in libra (and conjunct ascendant; and heading up my grand trine)
Yeah, same.
Also my Saturn is in fall in Aries AND it is retrograde IN THE FIRST HOUSE.
Oh and I’m a Pisces rising.
Super fun.
I have cap sun and my chart is ruled by capricorn. This is really spot on for me. I find that comfortable relationships bore me, even if I find someone very compatible and nice. I like more aggressive people, even though they don't show me the care I want. The compromise I've made is focusing on my own self esteem and self worth. People take advantage less if we care about ourselves and we show confidence. I gravitate toward water signs but I also don't feel emotionally prepared for their mind games.
old video now....I'm progressed.....capricorn....55...f start widow. idk if anyone can have any relationship with our base stories😅
The more I watch these astrology vids, the more I feel like a pokemon.
My mom is a quadruple Taurus, and thanks to your Taurus videos I was able to buy her the perfect birthday present! They really do love soft things, haha. Thank you Alyssa! :)
You know, I'm a scorpio woman and I have (I own him(and he owns me)) a saggitarious with venus in capricorn and I can tell you, it's a fantastic journey and it's a ride.
Still together?
Scorpio Sun, Gemini Moon, Libra Rising, Venus in Capricorn & Mars in Libra here 🙋🏽💕
i'm a venus in scorpio and actually u describes exactly what i want in a partner lol so wierd. i love men who are in control, have goals for a bright future and i yearn for a relationship where we both only better each other, but together. I'm a venus in scorpio, would we be a good match?
Earth goes with Water, Fire goes with Air. So yes.
Yes, both Venus in Scorpio and in Capricorn are serious about love life, with Scorpio's intensity included.
I'm 21, and I think that a lot of people my age with this placement can relate to the feeling of "I don't know what the fuck I'm feeling", because if you have venus, sun or mars in capricorn, and you're my age, then those planets are also conjunct with uranus and neptune. I happen to have all of them. You also made a post about age gaps in dating; about how they are beneficial, otherwise someone else with the same type of "planet-conjunct-neptune" in their chart would just be more noise. Most of the time, I'm doomed to relationships with people who are my age that are loosely defined and easily broken. I find that my friends with opposing signs are my best friends. (I'm a capricorn best friends with a Gemini, Aquarius, Pisces, 2 Aries and a Leo)
I have Venus in Cap and it's a fucking curse I swear to God
ikr :(
OMG!! I'm have a crush on this girl who is also an aquarian sun with venus in capricorn. any heads up!???
Do dope shit and ignore her.
hahaha best answer you could have given
same 😩
I have Venus, Moon, Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn, Sun in Pisces and and Ascendant in Libra. I fell in love for the first time in my life couple of months ago. And this is the longest relationship I have ever had! btw I'm 21
Khursadze what I her placements please
sag moon and cap venus have kept me single my whole life 😂😂 never satisfied and/or never interested rip
Same. Im also a Pisces Sun and Asc so I feel like I was put here completely for love but then keep myself from it lolol it sucks.
How is it to have fire moon and venus in cap?
@@fiorelaakciu3536 flirting consists of me roasting and never being serious but also hoping this person is future spouse material - if im in a relationship, i'm with you through thick and thin but i need consistent spontaneity 😂 this is how i dig a semi-toxic hole for myself
wow this is spot on. i find dominant/mean women to be highly attractive.
Wow, this is very accurate, great job, Alyssa!
My mars is in cancer and venus in capri. I do have to admit that i am very attracted to mature, intelligent, ambitious, rich and tall men! But that doesnt often equate to GOOD men.
Love your videos, so dead on! Double whammy for me with both Sun and Venus in Capricorn with moon in Leo. Everything you said is/has been my life in love so far.
Stop omggg!! I’m a cap sun & cap Venus with moon in Leo :,)
You're really talented at this
Hey Koko, i'm also Aqua with Venus in Cap. We are not hopeless. The best way to do it is trust your instincts, whilst also letting your guard down ( if you do that sometimes).
I have a Cap Venus and a Cancer Moon maybe that's why I'm easily 💔
My Venus is in Cap. I am a Scorp 12th house, with Sag rising and a Leo moon. My Mars is also in Aries. It's crazy because I'm 39 now and have been single for 6 years. I know what I want and yes it must be built with a sound base. I am ready to create a life with someone and don't mind waiting.
i just the love the way you talk tbh, it makes me wanna just keep listening!!
Wow.. That explains a lot..!! Venus in Capricorn in 12th house you can understand the shit I go through.. And being an Aquarius Asc I get attracted to egoistic charming Leos all the time.. Wow I am screwed..
I have this placement in Vedic, and it's pretty accurate.
Alyssa, you have no idea how true this is!!!! Very well said!
What is "earthy" sex? Can you give me an example of a type of sex that would be considered earthy? I've always been confused by this term.
I find your comment really funny haha...
Can you by chance explain why?
I don't know... I'm weird. I guess 'earthy sex' means really dirty sex...
Right, and how does that make you weird?
Tee Bee Having Venus in Capricorn myself (plus Mars, plus 3 of my outer planets) and having read some articles on this placement, I would construe 'Earthy Sex' to mean something like this: it's basically two bodies rutting against one another.
Anything that is not the bare flesh & the physical drive of the two bodies need not be there. No elaborate props or costumes, no fantasy or daydream, which usually means no kinks or fetishes, either. It's basic. There is a lot of pleasure to be found purely in the force that is applied on the body, you know? Pressure, weight, friction - I think earthy people enjoy these very physical stimuli rather than, say, a beautiful atmosphere/feeling/emotion created by candlelight/flowers/sweet talk that may be enjoyed by Watery people in a sexual situation. For the earthy-sex type, all of that just feels so... frilly, and perhaps less than genuine.
Personally, 'rutting' epitomises the act of for me, and it's about the only word I like that describes any sexual act, as it feels most honest and down-to-earth.
Hope it helps :)
venus cap, sun sag, moon scorpio .....fuckkkkkkkkkkk
omg same 😂💔💖
venus cap, sun aqua, moon in sco :/
Exactly the same!! With my mars in cap too
fu$#?? mines worse (lol? (!) )
sun sag venus sag/cap moon cap
saturn pisces saturn square jupiter
As a venus in capricorn, this is dead on.
Lmao, Im Sagittarius sun, Aquarius moon, Leo rising. Mercury Venus and Mars in Capricorn, also having no water in my chart.. so yeah. Im kinda happy with my self. I know I still have to learn a lot but with the right mindset everything will be okay. I feel like I can achieve everything I want if I'm willing to work hard for it. But when it becomes to love.. it sucks. I may never find the right one. I was in a lot of karmic relationships that didn't go so wel.. but I learned a lot from it, so even that it were painfull relationships I'm stil glad I had them, because I am more grounded now and I know what I want and need. But it's just hard to find. I really want to have someone I can share my life with on a different level. Both individuals have to be independent. I wish al the people good luck with finding love!
they really are so dry, also they seem to really romanticize exes, like emotional infidelity, I feel like its such a power play. love your work Alyssa! You're awesome!
Lol ohhh my Capricorn stellium has been teaching me lesssons upon lessons!!!
It's soooo true!! It's scary and I love it!
I think this is why Virgo women and Capricorn men work so well. Virgo women are usually intelligent, alpha females and leaders, we have that stuck up, standoff-ish vibe, that can attract a Capricorn but when we love we get into our more giving, people pleaser nature and that appeals to capricorns selfish needs. We seem like bitches, which they like but we're not.
cice0143 excuse me,I don't understand how earth signs run over cancers and Leos put them in their place? Last, I checked I wasn't running over any cancers. And trust me, no selfish douchebag is going to put me in my place. Since caps and Virgos (sun and rising) actually have a sense of humility, we know what is is to feel empathy and how to sacrifice for others. Which is what's really important. Unlike thinking the world revolves around me approach Leos AND cancers have.
Nala Chrela Cap risings aren't bad, I would know 'cause I am one. Very hard-working and serious people, can be cold and mean but I digress.
Capricorns, especially the men are some of the most selfish and cheap people I have ever met. Virgo men can be generous and the women sometimes "helpful" but they always like to criticize others, and can be snobbish and mean. In fact, just yesterday my virgo cousin just saw me for the first time in months and the first thing out of her mouth to me was a critique. SMH
Nala Chrela Earth signs like people they can boss around, mostly those Taurean bullies though.
I have 3 planets in Capricorn and I didnt really relate to this but i guess that's a good thing cause I feel like an Aquarius in relationships (aquarius moon)
My Venus is in Capricorn and I have to object some of your claims. I don't think one's love life can be solely defined by one's Venus, instead you should also look at their placement of Mars and 8th house which will also strongly influence an individual's intimate relationship.
Despite how much you made it seem as if Capricorn Venuses are having a hard time. But my Venus falls in my fifth house and my love life have been smooth as ever, even though my personal view on love is rather uptight, but Capricorn have been easy on me so far, I will even consider myself as fortunate in love. Yes It is true that I get attracted to successful, ambitious, stern looking disciplined males. They may be more controlling, more opinionated and self assertive, but it still doesn't make them douche-bags, certainly doesn't make me a bitch either (My SO has his Venus in Capricorn and we are very satisfied with each other.)
PS: I can't relate to the "earthy sex" part. I prefer fancy and innovative sex that is full of fun. Sex like business? I rather not have it at all.
There will be more difficulties if Saturn is debilitated and/or challenging venus and mars like in my case. Your placement balances fun and practicality in the relationship.
+Masked AstrologyGuy That's true, fyi my mars is also in Leo(and it falls right in my first house), which makes me very fiery in general.
Sun, Venus, Saturn, Uranus and Neptune in Capricorn...yay me!!!
if you look up your chart on astro dot com, it'll list out placements in planets, houses and all that with a sign in each of them. venus is the ruler of love. and depending where your venus is (where it landed when you were born), it falls into a sign. this video is for venus in capricorn. so the placement of the planet venus, falls capricorn for some. look up your chart with you birth details and you'll find out
Wow! Very insightful and deep. I can identify with most of it. Thank you x
Sun in Sagittarius, Moon in Leo, Venus in Cap and Mars in Scorpio. Part of me wants to run around smiling and being jolly while the other half wants to be regal and mysterious. So confusing.
This explains sooooo much. Thankyou! Loving your videos about all the zodiacs.
Thank you for this - finally understand my misery
I have so many conflicting placements in my chart
Aquarius sun Gemini moon, Virgo ascendant, capricorn mercury ,capricorn venus,capricorn mars,cancer jupiter,capricorn saturn,capricorn uranus, capricorn neptune,Pluto scorpio,lilith scorpio, ASC node aquarius
scary accurate!
:O accurate...my love life suck tho lol
You are really jamming a lot of info into this series of videos, bravo! I like how you stray from from western astrology at times to link it to your personal thoughts. I think you are a conceptual aka "big picture" thinker. Just something i learned about at school.
Yes, Capricorn is a pain in the ass sign. Both my Saturn (which happens to be in Libra) and my Venus in Capricorn are an epic pain in the ass, Alyssa. Love the "why Venus in Capricorns like douchebags." I just figured out why I have such reprehensible taste in men. Holy crap, this whole thing is so right on its not even funny, Alyssa.
Interesting! My sun and moon is sagittarius, my venus and Mars in Capricorn
So much me, apart from liking to be controlled (I'm Sag sun, so need equality in order to feel free) or wanting lots of money. I've only opened my heart to one guy, my late husband (of over 30 years). He was Cap sun with Venus in Aquarius so I guess his Cap and my Cap gelled, and his Aquarius appreciated my freedom loving Sag nature. It worked SO well - a deeply loving partnership of equals with the earthy sex you talked of. I was incredibly blessed to meet him - and we married within 3 months of getting together! The guy before him was a total douche, so I do guard my emotions - even more so after the relationship I was in for a couple of years recently with an even bigger douche! Why do we do it? We fall for the douches just like you said, heehee.
Love it 🌻
Sag Sun, Cap in Venus.. Thank you for this message. 😊
Him a cap, and everything you say is so true you definitely know what your talking about
Why are there so many aqua suns with venus in capricorn
Me and my boyfriend both have our Venus in Capricorn and he is a bit dry and dull :P but I find myself being more needy than him because I have my Moon in Pisces and he has his Moon in Libra
you're so good at this, it's unreal. like how to u know every placement so well? have u met people with every placement that exists?
true ??
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Im a capricorn with a venus in aquarius
My Mercury, Venus, Neptune, Saturn and Uranus are all in Capricorn ♑️ ♥️
I have a Capricorn mercury and Capricorn Venus with an intercepted libra in the 3 house
You really helped me ! I appreciate it ❤️
She's so funny .. But one of the top astrologers on here.. Top 3
Great explanation
Hey, what about Scorpio ascendant and Scorpio moon? Isn't that also considered a double Scorpio especially if ascendant aspects both Pluto and Mars not to mention moon conjuncts Pluto in my case.. I ask because the rising sign is usually given the most significance of the 3 then moon due to them being the faster moving planets. Ascendant is how a person comes off when they aren't really familiar to you but once you get to really know them personally then that's the moon personality correct?
I dated a Venus in Capricorn. He was attracted to my ambitious nature. BUT! he was abusive and not romantic. I tried again and again to forgive him but it didn't work out. I'm a Venus in Leo.
I have a lot of Capricorn in my chart.
im a cap venus with my saturn falling in my 5h
Hahaha! Best answer ever! :) I totally agree... they want to love everyone, literally!!
yeah righttt
I have know alot of venus in cap they are all like this. hahaha they can look quite cold also sometimes as always like capricorn is.But this position i believe can be extremely rewarding it just needs attetion and patience and all that stuff which capricorn loves...hardwork over it haha.I have mars in virgo, sometimes venus in capricorn people trine my mars, hahaha they can be quite lusty in my opinion - u - hahaha
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Cap/Aquarius sun w Cap venus ,Aquarius Mars and Mercury.. I generally like creative individualistic types. They had to have a certain amount of stability tho.
well this explains why i've had so many shitty relationships.
This is realyl accurate!! Well done Alyssa
I have sun and moon in aqua and I've never cheated. I can't do it. You can't determine cheating just by venus or sun signs. You should look into whether this person has any Mars-Uranus aspects or transiting Neptune to Sun or Mars.
I am one too and I'm seriously starting to think that "yep, totally conflicted and hopeless"
Sun in Capricorn, Moon in Aries and Venus in Capricorn. Now, I get it. Awareness is the first step because up until recently, I did not understand myself or my damned love life.
how would a capricorn in venus with a mars in scorpio work?
Ah this video was well worth the wait -3
This is scary.. I have a lot of Capricorn in my placement :'( and this is so true. Everything is just isn't suffice
Aquarius w/ cap venus retrograde
Many abuseive relationships
stupid mistakes ive done many when it comes to love. Ive loved many arseholes- it takes me a long time to love. Younger years I would rather just have sex with people than commit (being honest). Dumped alot of lazy men. I like a man who works and isnt afraid of it. 22 now and even when I do love I constantly question it. Building on a relationship is very important. I do want that 'power couple'. Once im in love I can scare people because I want to BUILD and build quickly. Like the ram ill headbutt it until I get what I want even if the other person isnt ready(somthing to be mindful of and learn from). Its seriously so hard for us tho. We desire love so much but suck at it because of our lack of jugement or out lack of ability to open up fully straight away. We also pick up alot of 'scars' from the negitive people we love in our life. Working thru them difficulties are hard. We are willing to do ANYTHING for love though, many people take advantage of that (sexually/emotionally/materialisticly) especially if your younger and dont know your worth. We stick with idiots or people who are not for us for too long because we are so commited and driven. Man if I could change one thing it world be this placement.
EXCELLENT!
I would rather be single then take so much stress to date anyone.
you can relate to their courtship style
i have 4 planets in capricorn, Mars,Venus,Uranus,Neptune
Well interpreted!
I'm a pisces and I have Capricorn in a lot of my houses. I believe it when you say Capricorn is ruled by Saturn because, you know whats wierd? My life path number is 8. And 8 is ruled by Saturn too!
I have
My sun in Aquarius
Moon in Virgo
Rising is cancer
And Venus in Capricorn
speaking of "earthy sex," (yes, i have selective anntennae) i'm hoping you'll get around to mars placements, too. sorry to diverge but this reminded me of a female MARS in capricorn i knew.
(sits back down.)
Degrees chart break down video do you have more
Explains a lot . Thanks
I have 4 Capricorn influences, Scorpio Moon, Aries Ascendant, Sagittarius Sun. I like it though!!
Britney Spears, Miley Cyrus, Mary Elizabeth Winstead, Laura Marano, and Karen Gillan have this placement.
Yep.And I did learn. I don´t say there isn´t yet more to come but I do think we can make beautiful relationships. (did I say "make"?- well a cap can say that)