7 Years Later: Our Love Story - The ETIM EFFIONGS
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- Опубліковано 13 гру 2024
- This is SEVEN YEARS!!! 🥰😭🥳🥳
Seven years of laughter, love, and learning of an Odukpani king and an Isale-Eko queen building a life together, one answered prayer at a time!
Marriage is a mystery, a covenant, a GOD-ORDAINED UNION… and we are still saying YES every single day!
To celebrate, we asked ourself 21 questions like we did when the journey started.
Toyosi Etim-Effiong is a seasoned media entrepreneur with a passion
for promoting authentic African stories to a worldwide audience. She is an Author, Speaker, Leader and the CEO of That Good Media, a Talent Agency, PR and Creative Solutions Company.
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Instagram: / the_toyosi
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I don't know what anyone else is thinking, but this is as organic as organic can be! I learnt so much and I am totally in awe. Y'all didn't have to do it, but you granted us the privilege of this snippet of your life to enlighten each one of us as consumers of Mr Etim-Effiong's movie characters versus his real life/world. Thank you Mr & Mrs Etim-Effiong. God bless your home always. Thanks with love.
Amen.
Amen
Amen
True
Thanks for sharing this video. Pls we are waiting for the concluding part.
God keep and bless your union.IJN
This marriage would keep blooming in Jesus name 🙏
Amen
Amen
Amennnnnn
My two favorite, may God continue to bless your union.
Amen in Jesus mighty name 🙏🙏🙏🙏
I love Toyosi’s diction, her childlike smile and dentition❤
i do too
Yeah
Yeah, she is great
Why do I feel like crying! Marriage is NOT a walk in the park. 😢
I had this emotions too as I listened
Mostly tears of joy seeing them being intentional
This was my thoughts exactly.
💯💯💯
Hmmn....
Yet You both Can Hold Hands get on the Yacht and Sail together and ride over Every Wave 🌊 and Surpass It with The STRENGTH OF THE LORD 🙏🏽💞🙌🏽🦾.
People have been saying a lot about how his acting is so good to the point you think he is really in love with the female lead but I'm seeing the way he's looking at her and talking to her. He is really in love with her♥️ May I get this some day♥️...and Toyosi, you're really beautiful, I've always thought that.
Likeeeeee 😊
Someone on Facebook said he looks like he's tired of the conversation and I just knew they didn't see the whole interview.
Every marriage should take a clue from this. We all need to re evaluate, it will reduce the rate of divorce in our society. Your home is blessed and highly favored. Beautiful to watch
True, but not every marriage is strong enough to come and do this on sm space
@oluchiuzo4727 yes I concur, you don't have to do it on sm space but it is something I see very necessary in all homes. I am a witness. I have never enjoyed my marriage of 15years as I do now cause recently we did the same thing. It helps to see ur strength and weakness in marriage.
But Some men are not as mature as this ,much later they use your words against you when you quarrel(vice versa)... May the Lord give all couple this maturity
@@VictoriaOmeruo this 💯💯👏
This is why you must stay away from blogs. Some blogs wrote nasty things about the honest conversation in this video but I decided to come and watch the entire thing. There’s nothing but realness and vulnerability here. Kudos to this couple. Thanks for sharing your journey with us!
Exactly what brought me here, am like I need to see the video myself. What those bloggers wrote is far different from what I see here
It's really sad to see that bloggers would say and write anything about people just for them to make money of it.
I can't believe people were actually criticizing this video instead of learning from it. There's so much to learn from. God bless you for sharing this video.
Cant believe this is the video ppl are forming a negative opinion on.
So refreshing to watch
Honestly. People don’t like good marriages and dy are d home breakers ooo
Even I don’t believe. People are just sad with their own lives and looking for who to drag along into their sad lives just to feel better about themselves. People that have been married for years will understand how organic this is.
I’m here thinking maybe there is another video, because all the questions are normal questions by couples who want to do better in their marriage. E reach for her to ask Twitter people wetin them drink. I guess the ladies calling her insecure are the one sending messages to her husband.
In all, marry a kind partner
Intelligent and a hardworking partner
Madam Toyosi is a 100 for me❤
Like premium top tier ...she just oozes it!!!
😢😢🎉 She is taking notes. This woman is special ❤❤
I noticed that too. An intentional woman🫡
Very special and I love her so much
this video is so timely. i celebrated my 7 years wedding annivesary on 1st Dec. We have never had such conversations and we are currently in a dark place and somehow God has just found a way of answering my question. God bless you and thanking God for using your story to help save my marriage
Such conversations are good.
My partner and I have a relationship review meeting every three months.
He takes them very seriously, prepares notes etc.
It's a nice thing
The man is a kind and respectful person. His body language can tell 👍
You can definitely tell.
Toyosi Etim - Effiong.... I dote on you. You’re smart and just graceful.
VERY GRACEFUL 💯
Mr. Effiong looks so different from how he looks in his movies. Makes it very evident that whatever they do on screen is purely work/professional life. Everything felt organic, real from where I sit. You didn't have to share the moment with us but you did anyway. Very lovely. God bless your home Mr. & Mrs. Effiong.
This one's are going to die old holding hands.
Amen
Amennnnnn
Amen
YES AND AMEN🙏
amen
I admire her genuineness. She clearly has her struggles, but she masks them gracefully to keep her home intact. Kudos, sis-you’re truly remarkable, a gift from heaven in his life. And most of all, I love the way you smile
14years in marriage I can tell you for sure this is realest question couples deliberately avoids to ask..And there lies the tiny issues that causes friction all the time..But when this questions are asked and answered sincerely with high dose of tolerance to each other.you then find out that your marriage can still be heaven on earth experience..
I love how honest they asked their questions, and how they answered sincerely but not defensive.
So much to learn.
" I learned Having authority over my head "that is deep. Any man that has authority over him is always easy to call him to order.
Now this is the real love movie featuring Toyosi and Daniel Etim - Effiong❤❤❤ love love you both
Part two pleaseee.
The vulnerability. The intentionality. The depth. The rawness.
Oh my!
I pray your love never wanes and the chemistry between you both that was so strong and visible, will never fade.
❤❤❤
Amen. I just love their openness, honesty, and commitment to make their marriage work.
“I’ve had to adjust my expectations” wow, marriage is truly not for the weak. It really requires you to make sacrifices. Thank you so much for this video.
It truly is, it takes a lot of sacrifice, strength, forgiveness but it’s a beautiful journey
This video is not for the ordinary married couple…. It’s not about showing off…. THIS IS FOR THE MARRIED COUPLE WHO ARE INTERNATIONAL ABOUT THEIR MARRIAGE!!!!! Thank you for sharing your sensitive moments with us. God bless you home.
Gather here if you kept looking at the red line getting closer to the end ,yet the eyes where still glued to the phone,love the vulnerability of this ,May God continue to bless your Union
These were deep questions.
May the Lord continue to uphold and keep your union in Him in Jesus Christ name.
You see why I love this duo!!!!!🥰🥰🥰 This content was so insightful and wholesome. Thank you for sharing ❤❤❤
I just admire this lady so much! She's so intelligent and cordinated. Yes! She's a force. In fact your husband described you so well
So refreshing to watch a couple have honest and important conversations. Happy 7 anniversary, thank you im not married yet nor in a relationship I decided to take a break just to learn more about myself and grow more and watching this I have learned a lot .❤
Great move... I did that, it worked greatly. Yours will turn out great by God's grace.
I saw Sincerity,Commitment,and Deep Love.
Thank You Dear "Etim Effongs"for Sharing.
In your Vulnerability,people like me are getting strength.
"THANK YOU" so much😢❤.
This man is really cool and calm even in his real life. When I saw him in the movie I thought he was acting
This is the real, we listen and we dont judge" 👏
You both should feature in a romantic movie❤
Create a love story to show the world how to build bond in marriage
She is so admirable how that she practices active listening. It’s very intentional. I hope the fire never burns.
This is pure and beautiful. What's the problem with people analyzing this interview as if it's bad.
Woow! My husband is the last of ten siblings and I'm the only child and we both studied journalism too.🥰
This is the realest couple's Q&A I've seen in the longest time.
When I heard they were coming Toronto in September 17th,2022 for a meet and greet. I moved my schedule to see them. They are so beautiful and fun to be with. Since then, each time their thoughts cross my heart I pray for them.
I love them with the love of God and I pray that God will continue to be their shield and strength in Jesus name. Amen 🙏
This woman is damn beautiful abeg❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😘😘😘😘😘🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
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Gorgeous ❤
I'm thoroughly inspired by Daniel's kindness, humility and firmness. The respect and trust he's built with his wife over their 7-year marriage is palpable. While marriage has its challenges, Toyosi brings intentionality and sustainability to their relationship - the secret spice that has kept them strong and will continue to do so until old age.
This lovely couple's willingness to share their story without pretenses is a beautiful portrayal of what a healthy relationship should look like. I've learned so much from their interview and eagerly anticipate part 2!
Toyosi is that girl!!!! She inspires me. This is so beautiful and the depth!!???? 🥹♥️
she is that girl for me too ,one day in this land of the living i will have an oppotunity to seat at her feet and just learn from her ,she's incredible this on .lord my wishhh
I love the fact that he recognised that part of him that can open him up to such entanglements.
Daniel looked stressed out in this video. I love this session for them
This couple's conversation is so natural, genuine, and inspiring. I really love it.
To be honest, love is beautiful, and experiencing it with the right person makes it feel flawless. However, both partners must be committed and dedicated to making the relationship work, as this devotion is essential to keep the fire burning. ✨️
To all haters in these comments pls shut it This was so good for any couple contemplating marriage & married couples As a married person for over 40 years it takes God to be that 3rd string to keep U tightly bound together
THIS is real marriage communicating having grace understanding being intentional about the covenant U made before God putting in work to do life together & be Godly examples for your children cause they ARE watching
Also 👏🏽👏🏽to beautiful Toyosi as being married to a fine actor like Daniel & the roles he plays takes a special someone to trust & understand likewise to Daniel for setting boundaries as the Devil wants U tempted
Continued 🙏🏽 for many more years together
I really love Toyosi i can’t lie ❤she’s such a wonderful person
This is the realest conversations I have ever had couples have publicly. I love you both and God will preserve this union❤️❤️❤️❤️
She is so much beautiful, her smile lifts my spirit.... She has this unique Aura! Graceful and peaceful
I love Toyosi.. She’s soo soft spoken and calm..☺️
I just love you guys and pray that your home will continue to soar high with lots of love and testimonies.
Wife: You shared my faith and are kind (top-notch necessity for a durable relationship)
Husband: Adjusting my expectations (top-notch maturity) ✌️
God Keep your home ❤
This is so beautiful 😍 I’m getting married soon and I look forward to doing this 7 years later ❤
Me too
Congratulations to y’all ❤
@ Thank you 😊
This has to be the most wholesome thing I have seen on the internet this year. I love love love this.
Thank you Tooyosi for being so vulnerable 🥺♥️♥️♥️. So powerful
This was very refreshing to watch, even though at some point, I was nervous a little bit watching you guys ask and answer questions couples don't like to ask. I really enjoyed watching you both being honest and open with each other. May God continue to strengthen your union. May he bless you both with unending bliss, laughter, peace, and love. Thank you for sharing.
One thing i'm learning is you love people the way they want to be loved. Second, you can't be answer to 'everybody's' prayers... again, love languages change as one evolves. This was refreshing to see. May you continue to experience God in your home Toyosi & Daniel. Lots of love from here🌹.
Congratulations guys. Glad that you both have Christ, that's my high point
You are a strong woman Toyosi. I watch a lot of your husband’s movies, l wonder if you do too.!
Daniel, you need to adjust much more.
This is what relationship is all about, the honesty, vulnerability, faith communication,intentionality amd genuine love. have learnt a lot from this short video cant wait for part 2. Thank u so much for this. May God continuously bless your marriage
I rarely comment, but this video is truly exceptional! I've watched it multiple times, and each time I'm struck by the authenticity and vulnerability of both couples. It's inspiring to see two people intentionally working together to build a strong marriage. Thank you for sharing your stories with us - it's truly admirable!
This conversation shows communication is a huge part of marriage. Love you guys and thanks for sharing this conversation!
There’s sth Toyosi said about how she’s changing to loving more quality time than it was during their first years. That’s where some marriages break. People go into marriage expecting that their partner would love the same things forever. Always find out when chicken and chips isn’t his favorite meal anymore and adjust accordingly. If you insist and keep reminding them they used to love that particular thing so much earlier and refuse to accept the new them, you may ruin your relationship. But marriage sha no easy. Sacrifice, tolerance and forgiveness must be present
That explains a lot.. Daniel, 1st time I saw you I would easily say you are kind, Toyosi both of you are so perfect for each other, cos yall are free spirited. And Daniel your sensitivity is true iv noticed that and it was so profound in you recent movie " Christmas proposal"..In short I'm so grateful for this real convo with your wife. I hope for more views. Cos it's a great lesson unlike the normal "fake things we see online. Both of yall are real!!! Kudos..
I love this
May we have men who are intentional about love and marriage
THE Mrs Toyosi Etim-Effiong, first time coming across your channel and I subscribed with the speed of light!
All your visible layers are admirable! But your childlike innocence, curiosity and vulnerability takes the cake AND are DEFINITELY worthy STRENGTHS!
I’m a straight female ….. I Love You 💕
Straight female 😂❤
He has earned my respect because the talent 🎉 can make most of them think people are disposable.
His willingness to listen and hopefully make a change is commendable.
To her lovely , confident, and sound wife.
Girllll, you are the best 👌
His wife is graceful and brave,
I would always admire this actor for his poise, love, and effort towards his wife.
Bro, well done 🎉🎉🎉
Those real, uncomfortable, necessary conversations we must have if we want our marriages and home to succeed, especially in times like this where there are too many voices and seemingly beautiful things competing for our attention. God bless and keep your home the Effiongs. Toyosi, you are very graceful ❤🎉
There is so much realness and depth to this . Your feelings are so well articulated. Looking forward to other parts .
I learnt a thing..."Saviour complex".
You can be so compassionate that you want to help and save everybody which is not possible.
I think i have that and need to work on it.
Great session.
Wish this family the very best.
Okay, I am definitely going to do this with hubby, yes after 25 years!. Thanks for doing this and may God continue to strengthen your relationship.😍
Am 13 years in marriage. I never thought of something like this before... as in I learnt a whole lot... God bless you both for this. May God continue to make your home Heaven on earth in Jesus' name
God is wonderful to bring 2 different people cohabiting and doing life together. Their personalities show so much in this video. Toyosi is sitting like a boss and Daniel sitting like a humble subordinate 😅 Love them❤
This is a learning exercise we need to draw from the things expressed
I never comment ever ever but this i have to...
I really want to say thank you for showing us the imperfections because I tend to idolize Mr. Etim-effiong as the perfect husband and human being ( through the lens of his movies).
I can definitely relate to being comfortable with authority being a last born myself and I am learning to see it as a strength whilst finding the balance to my independence. Let's not start with the sensitive aspect. Trust me it is also a "last born'' thingy. 😂
Lastly and importantly, as they say we save the best for the last. Mrs Toyosi Etim-effiong @the_toyosi you are the "Unsung Hero" please take your crown. I pray you ride the next cycle of 7 years with grace and resilience and most of all LOVE knowing that you draw your strength from God himself.
Thank you guys for this, waiting for Part 2
Part 2 please. A lot of couples will learn from this.
I love the fact that you both were very genuine and intentional ❤❤❤
This is so beautifully open and honest and I believe it will minister and help to so many people.
I wish so many people would open up and be real and honest about marriage, relationships, the good and the bad ❤🙏🏾
She's a light in his life ,she lights the room,that one alone is a great woman💕Always cheerful.
My wish and prayer for Daniel is to consider pure christian movie that depicts Christian values than take part in secular dramas that sometimes portray the contrary. That Christmas proposal was beautiful evangelism but the minus in it is the sex before marriage and then the lady getting pregnant and we say it's a Christmas proposal. The essence of Christmas is Jesus, the saviour of mankind and all there is about him. Pure love for God and mankind.🎉🎉🎉
Amen to that prayer as we wait for the HolySpirit to take over one day..His lifetime encounter & dealings with an individual brings permanent change & total surrender.
really like are u serious right ,y on this video though
Great input but maybe wrong timing
My thoughts, exactly
WRONG TIME FOR A COMMENT LIKE THIS!!!!
Wow so genuine and honestly I love this couple can't wait for the rest God bless your home
Love you both, this is amazing and refreshing to watch. May God keep you both together in Jesus name. Amen
A very intelligent woman ❤. Two good people
This is so healthy and advisable for married couples to do every anniversary. I wish them a much better, longer and peaceful marriage
Totally agree
We did something like this (a reality for couples called “After the Altar”
It’s on my channel
We are still looking for more couples to volunteer and be willing to be vulnerable openly for people to get inspired and learn from them.
The most real content I ever watch on internet
Your wife is beautiful and very tolerant being. You are a strong woman Toyosi. Mrs etim
I love her last question and I love his response too. Most men do not set boundaries and they blame it on women always flocking around them. It's simple! You cannot be their Lord and Saviour.
Wish you both many more years in happiness and love!
I loved this 🤩 Please the second part
He looks at her so deeply and intently and she loves and respects him. God bless your home❤
I love Toyosi, she’s strong and powerful ❤❤❤❤❤
I love the intentionality .
I've learnt alot.
Not all men can stand dis
One way or the other, you're one of the successful women I admire and look up to from afar. How you were able to balance work and family life is worth emulating. Seeing this again increase my love for you❤❤ like this is the realest content I've seen so far 🥰 😍 it's really packed with a lot of lessons to be learnt. God will continue to uphold your home ma'am
Toyosi you are so graceful… watching this video is like getting to know you more… thank you for being you
May your marriage be blessed. Daniel is indeed a good man. Toyosi is definitely a home builder. May God bless your home.
I’m truly grateful to have been here to witness and listen to this heartfelt conversation. Sending blessings to this beautiful union.
I mean on a good day Toyosi is my babe..
but this video i dont know why i am cryinggg, she was taking notes bruhhh.
i love you two so much. this is so pureeeee😍
We are in this together. My heart was in my mouth all awhile. I pray God helps this union till Jesus comes
Thís is what we need in our marriages ❤❤❤
This feels beautiful and I've learnt that your presence alone can change alot❤
This is a definition that marriage I work and needs intentionality. This was an honest and beautiful conversation😊
Wow!!! Older in marriage, learnt a lot.