Like I always say… Being single is a 1000 times better than being in a bad relationship. On the other hand, being in a great relationship is a 1000 times better than being single. Continue to be open for a great relationship! 😊❤
Good to see the desk and the magic word is back! Relationship is also a responsibility. It needs both sides to put a great effort into. Sometimes it is hard but it will give you sweetness. Do hope you could find one that could share life together.
I just visited Taiwan to see relatives after 13 years for 3 weeks (I am 26 yrs old). I just came back from the vacation and man I already miss how active the city is, the culture and busy vibes. Now back at home, everything is so quiet and mundane back here in USA California. I learned so much about myself while visiting Taiwan again and I can’t stop thinking about the Taipei city lifestyle 💔
Don't stress it. Didn't get married till I was 48. (wife was 50) My wife is from Tiawan. We're planning on moving to Tiawan at the end of the year. Then I retire, going to give Tiawan a try. Love the county. Often I heard, when your burned out searching, you give up, then you will find your true partner. There is a old proverb that is so true, "desperation is the worst cologne" Biggest turn off to ladies is a desperate guy. Took me many years to figure it out.
I always enjoy the desk and your personal opinion approach! As you already knew, it takes time and some luck to connect to a right person. As long as you’re open to the idea, you have a good chance to meet someone suitable for you. Cheers!
I don't know how you could be single here man. I've been here 3 years and I'm still in the same relationship since the first week I got here. And meanwhile I've gotten so much attention during that time. There's a lot of really great girls here(especially compared to the West!), so don't waste your time alone. Get on the apps, be interesting, and set a goal for what you want. Put in the time and effort and get it.
I disagree with you about the language part for reasons that I’ve already explained to you during our bro date but here’s a comment for your video’s engagement🥰
Same, the arguments I have had with my own non-native English speaking gf have transcended any potential language barrier and was resolved with self-reflection, laughter and lots of apologies from both sides.
Agreed, language barrier shouldn’t be the main reason for arguments or misunderstandings. In other words, arguments or misunderstandings could exist even without the language barriers.
I think being single in Taiwan is fun , because there is so many beautiful taiwanese woman to possibly date/ no longer be single for. Higher quality options imo
Single for 10 yrs. Never been happier. People nowadays are too codependent. They see having a partner as their solution to life instead of relying on themselves. That's just way too much burden to bear.
Do you think a male Taiwanese marry a female westerner is a good idea? Will there be any cross culture problems? Could you film a video about this kind of issue or sharing cases or experiences ? Thanks.
The 11/Nov Bachelor Day was actually created by people in China. Maybe just to make single people feel bad and have an execuse to waste their money.😂😂 To me, it's actually easier to be single in Taiwan than in other western countries. In the western culture, people tend to be more independent and if you are single, not many other people care. But in Taiwan, there are so many people around and so easy just to talk to people around you it's harder to feel lonely. Like you can always talk to and go out with Prozzy, why bother finding a girl?😂 Also, if you tell some older ladies around you that you are single then they would try and match you with people they know.😂 That's if you like it that way. Whether you can meet someone, I think it partly depend on what your idea of an ideal partner is. It's whether you are suitable for someone, not whether someone is suitable for you. You can look around you at any time for a suitable candidate if you actually feel lonely. Not to mention, it's already harder for a divorced man to find a new girl friend.
Your making to many excuses for not having a woman, I don’t care who you are and what race you are every couple has arguments. I met my wife in China 2008 knew almost no English got married in 2009 she came to Canada in 2010 and still married. If you’re single it’s your own fault.
看到那書卓,仿佛穿越了時空,
單身萬歲,一個人生活更自在,
希望帥倫找回年輕時那份自信!👍😄👌
其實兩個同是台灣人也會因生活習慣而爭執
這不是語言的問題
在每個國家
只要兩個人長期相處都會有爭執
我覺得啦😊
Like I always say…
Being single is a 1000 times better than being in a bad relationship.
On the other hand, being in a great relationship is a 1000 times better than being single.
Continue to be open for a great relationship! 😊❤
你真的想太多了,不管是哪個人,相處之間都會有些需要磨合的過程,這是大部份的人都會遇到的,然後如果是要說國籍問題,我也覺得根本就沒有問題,這個世界上什麼人都有,這是不分國籍的啊,放開你的心接受另一個人進入你的心,我相信如果你是我的選擇,我也會將小朋友愛他如同愛你,希望你早日找到自己的另一半❤
I'm hurt that I had you in my "single in Taiwan" video but I'm not in yours. My heart is broken
You were sleeping when I filmed it
@@lifeintaiwan well it was hard not to on my brand new EMMA MATTRESS AVAILABLE NOW AT A 10% DISCOUNT TO ALL YOU LIFEINTAIWANERS
Were you the 2nd love in Allan's life that he was referring to in this video???
不管一個人有沒有進入婚姻,我覺得人生在世,只要能一直有人樂於與你相互分享各種喜怒哀樂,不管是什麼身分的存在,你都是幸福的、都是不孤獨的,畢竟人類是群居動物,無法不與人交流情感。
Hello Desk, I missed you so much....
Hello!
你要不要考慮轉換跑道,跟酷或prozzie交往好了🤣
😂😂😂可是⋯酷有盧卡斯了
好久不見的小時候學校上課桌👏👏👏👏
終於,又看到這張桌子了,好久不見了!最初,我就是被這張桌子吸引,看英國叔叔的影片!🤣🤣🤣
soooooo ,glad saw the table again.
單身也可以過得幸福快樂! 尤其夜夜有 emma 溫柔的陪伴.
阿嬤最可愛! Desk is back... and the most important! SOOO is back!
My biggest desk and sooooo fan
Good to see the desk and the magic word is back! Relationship is also a responsibility. It needs both sides to put a great effort into. Sometimes it is hard but it will give you sweetness. Do hope you could find one that could share life together.
😂😂單身很好,就是心情看開點就好。
😅 沒看開的話,可能看到情侶就想拆散……
情侶或夫妻吵架,往往都是需要另一方認錯才能收場。
兩者各有利弊,只是愛情像是月老手中的一條條紅線。
造就出人們許許多多的感情線~
(  ̄▽ ̄)σ
單身不可恥,結婚不可怕。
只是前者會容易孤單,後者會容易柴米油鹽醬醋茶折腰罷了。
自在-快樂-就好❤沒有正確答案😆
Agree!
哈哈,開頭好可愛的阿罵~~~笑死~`~
Always love your storyline!
I just visited Taiwan to see relatives after 13 years for 3 weeks (I am 26 yrs old).
I just came back from the vacation and man I already miss how active the city is, the culture and busy vibes. Now back at home, everything is so quiet and mundane back here in USA California.
I learned so much about myself while visiting Taiwan again and I can’t stop thinking about the Taipei city lifestyle 💔
Don't stress it. Didn't get married till I was 48. (wife was 50) My wife is from Tiawan. We're planning on moving to Tiawan at the end of the year. Then I retire, going to give Tiawan a try. Love the county. Often I heard, when your burned out searching, you give up, then you will find your true partner. There is a old proverb that is so true, "desperation is the worst cologne" Biggest turn off to ladies is a desperate guy. Took me many years to figure it out.
I always enjoy the desk and your personal opinion approach! As you already knew, it takes time and some luck to connect to a right person. As long as you’re open to the idea, you have a good chance to meet someone suitable for you. Cheers!
謝你的分享
祝福你
心想事成~!
I miss Desk. You should bring him/her out more often.
Miss your videos in this style. Especially the changing scene when saying So~. Good old memory from the covid stay-at-your-home period
More to come!
Epic table. Epic video.
Good to see the desk again!
Good to see your comment too Jorge!
Wow, this is the style of the video that made me click to subscribe to the channel.
miss videos in this style so much🎉🎉
I wish more people enjoyed it then my job would be so easy!
Great video Allan. Fun segue from being single to Emma. LOL
Glad you enjoyed it
i love that Desks is long time no see hahaha
After Minthia (and Wes?), I have to say that Emma is indeed my favorite thing to cuddle here in Taiwan :)
The best! 😝
看英國叔叔的頻道好幾年了,謝謝Allen愛台灣。請Allen喝杯啤酒。
Wow! Thank you!!
祝福你早日找到真命天女🎉
I don't know how you could be single here man. I've been here 3 years and I'm still in the same relationship since the first week I got here. And meanwhile I've gotten so much attention during that time. There's a lot of really great girls here(especially compared to the West!), so don't waste your time alone. Get on the apps, be interesting, and set a goal for what you want. Put in the time and effort and get it.
I like this table
8:15 Allan gets honked at by a hot single truck driver. It's gotta be hard being that good looking
#toosexy
😂😂 阿媽… 可愛。
As long as two people are happy together, marriage is just a piece of paper😅
Agree 👍🏼
@@lifeintaiwan But freedom is something that money can’t buy. It’s very precious. I wish you a happy single life.👍
Return of the So-Desk!
hey bruv
Emma…caught me off guard!
I disagree with you about the language part for reasons that I’ve already explained to you during our bro date but here’s a comment for your video’s engagement🥰
Same, the arguments I have had with my own non-native English speaking gf have transcended any potential language barrier and was resolved with self-reflection, laughter and lots of apologies from both sides.
u guys should get together. Perfect solution lollll
Agreed, language barrier shouldn’t be the main reason for arguments or misunderstandings. In other words, arguments or misunderstandings could exist even without the language barriers.
Personality and compatibility are the main issues.
Not all of us are multi linguists like you !! But as you know…. If I did have a baby with a Taiwanese woman, he’d be half Taiwanese
This is a good topic though
阿倫如果在另一邊 會是很多人的天菜 哈
英國叔叔 生日快樂~~~~
Sometime language can be the communication tool and sometime can be the barrier to prevent fight and argument (?)😂😂😂
Let it be !
Thank you for sharing, as long as you are happy, it's all good ;D
Absolutely!
Being single is easier. Marriage was a nightmare.
Just got to get used to the loneliness and try and see friends when you can.
💯
Single in the UK🙋🏾
You should move to the US, so many single woman here.
I think being single in Taiwan is fun , because there is so many beautiful taiwanese woman to possibly date/ no longer be single for. Higher quality options imo
孤獨會變成習慣~
自由也是!
如果想要有“家”~不要習慣‘’孤獨‘’,否則•••••
所以艾倫真的是把桌子搬到每個地方拍攝😮???厲害......😅
Yep yep
不要跟別人比...
你喜歡單身就單身... 你喜歡男 喜歡女 喜歡不男不女,都是你自己的事...
人比人只會氣死人~
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有伴侶在 當然會增加生活上的色彩,
而且有時候吵架或爭執也是一種溝通,更能讓雙方了解對方的想法和底限...
但我還是得說,決定和新對象交往時,記得不要和前任牽扯不清...
帥倫有孩子欸,沒辦法不跟前任牽扯啦😅
今年邁進第15個光棍節~ya
😀
😎❤️🇹🇼‼️
Single for 10 yrs. Never been happier. People nowadays are too codependent. They see having a partner as their solution to life instead of relying on themselves. That's just way too much burden to bear.
Being in a relationship is great, if you can find the right partner, otherwise it's even more torturous than being single.
00:41 1111光棍節是中國淘寶自創的商業話術,非台灣的節日。
Do you think a male Taiwanese marry a female westerner is a good idea? Will there be any cross culture problems? Could you film a video about this kind of issue or sharing cases or experiences ? Thanks.
單身沒關係 三不五時約個跑就好 出外人吃粗飽
🧐
單身沒有不好,艾倫離婚、女友分手、現在單身,那一個階段你覺的不好受😅🤔
給最近才來的觀眾說明一下,
在這張"so桌"的世界線中,
只要說到"so"這個字,
就會產生空間跳躍。
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根據數學模型,
95%的一般人,
前三個戀愛對象中,
有67%的機率,
將有一個是你這輩子所能遇到最合拍的對象。
The 11/Nov Bachelor Day was actually created by people in China. Maybe just to make single people feel bad and have an execuse to waste their money.😂😂
To me, it's actually easier to be single in Taiwan than in other western countries.
In the western culture, people tend to be more independent and if you are single, not many other people care.
But in Taiwan, there are so many people around and so easy just to talk to people around you it's harder to feel lonely. Like you can always talk to and go out with Prozzy, why bother finding a girl?😂
Also, if you tell some older ladies around you that you are single then they would try and match you with people they know.😂 That's if you like it that way.
Whether you can meet someone, I think it partly depend on what your idea of an ideal partner is. It's whether you are suitable for someone, not whether someone is suitable for you. You can look around you at any time for a suitable candidate if you actually feel lonely.
Not to mention, it's already harder for a divorced man to find a new girl friend.
Could tell us what 11 of Novembre means in Taiwan?
Because the numbers 1111 all look like a single stick rather than a branch of a tree with a family
Filmin a little viddy yea?
For a second, just a second, I thought Emma is a real girl 😂.
可能是因為你們是外國人來到別的國家,所以感到比較孤單!就像你昨天唱歌的朋友,那麼快又交女朋友了喔😂😅😅單身萬歲🎉
我一直在納悶,那位阿媽為何會問「你走錯了....」🤔
阿嬤熱心,以為外國人走錯路了,想報路給他知吧~😂
@@joykao437 原來,還以為是「你是老外,你不應來這裡」''你走錯了''的本意勒😁
結婚好,小孩也要至少生兩個,一個人吃飽,不如兩個人一起挨餓。一個人歡樂,不如兩個人互相安慰,....找一個願意跟你一起挨餓的即可不用考慮其他雜七雜八的。
相同語言“似乎”也是由語言優勢勝出。
但!!!是語言優勢的人勝出?還是語言弱勢的人逃避?沒共識假裝認同是好事?假裝沒有分歧?不願意找出問題,想辦法與伴侶對話拉近彼此的價值觀?
I thought platonic meant that you don't touch butt, not that you don't disagree and argue.
Yup, I'm prying. Why did the girl in Taiwan not want to be with you? You've obviously expressed your feelings for her.
How come you don't find the boyfriend?
Wanna volunteer ?
單身很辛苦囉 在台灣找個女友吧@
it's not a race, i guess you've heard it a million times but when your'e not looking guess what?
yep, you walk into a lamp post. 😁
Just a suggestion … stay fit, quit drinking and have a healthier lifestyle.. too much pub junk :-)
Your making to many excuses for not having a woman, I don’t care who you are and what race you are every couple has arguments. I met my wife in China 2008 knew almost no English got married in 2009 she came to Canada in 2010 and still married. If you’re single it’s your own fault.
No sympathy coming from Mr Lover Lover Bob!! Congrats on the 14 year marriage! ✌️
No sex at all?A 41 years old perfect normal male.
😝
Just let you know I also sleep with EMMA.
What?!?!? That cheating *******