My transparency with Deaf Community on Deaf U remarks and my videos
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- Опубліковано 27 сер 2024
- I wanted to address a few things that have been on my mind lately after reflecting, listening to others' perspectives. I appreciate those healthy conversations that are being held of, and I wanted to share about this.
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Deaf, hearing , “elite”, or not .... the girls that bullied you were assholes. PERIOD.... and they now have to live their lives with everyone knowing what’s assholes they are. You’re awesome 👏
They were totally jealous of YOU! The Elite proved to the world how truly mean, shallow and UGLY they are. The show wasn’t about them so they did what a spoiled child would do when they weren’t the center of attention... Be their true selves. YOU GO GIRLFRIEND! God bless you.
Especially Tessa. She was a straight up judge mental, jealous BITCH! I hope she has grown up a little since then.
During Deaf U the Elites:
Mocked you to others right in front of you.
Watched your videos and insulted them.
Talked shit about how you sign (which non-Deaf people might not understand is like insulting who you are, your background and even family, it's very cruel).
Hurt you physically. That horrible girl at the party who insulted you and then shoved a lollipop in your mouth wasn't kidding around. She wanted you to feel pain and humiliation. You were classy and brave about it and said/did nothing to retaliate. But it obviously hurt you.
In my experience bullies who know they can't justify their behavior turn it around to make it the victim's fault. So instead of addressing their actions toward you and the prejudices that do exist in the community, they blame you. If you hadn't said "elites" or "not Deaf enough" they would have been angry about any other wording you did choose and use it against you.
I really hope this opens up a truthful dialog about these issues so that other Deaf people don't go through the same bullying. You are strong and honest and deserve all good things to come your way. And that includes a sincere apology.
^Some Google keywords are Victim Blaming, Gaslighting, and Mindfucking. You can also read The Narcissist's Prayer. Instead of acknowleding what happened or apologizing, there are people who want to make you question and doubt yourself.
I'm not deaf so I have no idea but what is "wrong" with the way she signs?
In the show one of the "Elites" indicated Cheyenna moves her lips too much and her target audience is hearing people which apparently is a bad thing now lmao
Brilliantly said. Assholes are assholes. They are in EVERY community and you deserved better.
@@lucysrz3496 Kinda like an accent thing, for hearing people.
I honestly felt like the so called "Elite" were jealous that you are pretty and also popular on youtube. Envy makes monsters. You seem genuine, so I wish you nothing but the best in your future
I literally thought the same thing. No other reason why they’d be hating so hard lol
You’ve hit the nail on the head. Tessa has the type of personality that likes gossip, focuses on relationships and where people fit. She is concerned with hierarchy, pity’s others and envy will come up for her.
This is it entirely. Tessa and the girl at the party were using deaf community stuff as an excuse to cover that they’re really just jealous of her.
It was ugly af and they won’t make it far once they’re out of school life with attitudes and nastiness like that.
I don't feel like you need to apologise for anything. What you said and your feelings are valid. They were obviously bullying you and treating you differently at school and no one deserves that. I hope you are doing well and in a better place now.
I am deaf person and I can have both hearing and deaf are equal and I watched About the “Deaf U” I am so proud of you did good job and not need apologize anything . You are follow your heart !! Take care yourself 🤟
I searched for you after I watched “Deaf U” on Netflix. Even tho I’m not deaf, I could relate to you in many ways. I just want to say I commend you for doing what’s BEST for U. I wish you the best of luck in your Journey which I’m sure will be GREAT 💕
Me too! I really liked her and how she was true to herself! I really want to learn to sign tho.
Just finished watching the whole Deaf U series, you have no need to apologise or give explanation for your comments. We get it. Many of us Deaf people feel the same way.
If I were in the deaf community I would beat the elites ass. Fuck you elite!
We Love and support you 100% Cheyenne!!!!
Yes Chy, you’re fan’s know your ❤️ heart! Pat is right 100%
Here here!!..
I think a lot of “minorities” or marginalized communities can identify with that “not enough” terminology. I’ve always been “not Asian” enough. But what does that mean? Groups of people, cultures, sub cultures, are not monolithic and include ranges of what it means to identify with a certain group of people.
yes!! As a black woman I felt the same.
As a black woman I agree. Those ppl were being bullies and she should NOT havE to apologize for being herself.
@@ghostie7790 i still feel the same
A dear friend of mine was shunned by a self proclaimed "lesbian community" because she identified as a person first, then a woman, then a musician, then a gay women. She was chastised for not being lesbian enough. It hurt her to be ostracized in that way by the same community she loved being part of but she is now a known artist who is extraordinarily talented and also happily an out lesbian, but it's not the alpha and omega of who she is.
@@keshiamcentire9843 im blasian and i look fully asian with curly hair and people often invalidate my race or tell me im not black enough. and you even see online where mixed girls are getting judged for claiming their black. this girl i follow has blue/green eyes and shes mixed, but everyone says "she talks like a white person" and shes "not black enough". society's fucked
First let me say I thought you were one of the most “real” and honest in the series. As a Gallaudet Alumna G’95, I thought your feeling and words were spot on to those who were being “elitist”, and feeling not deaf enough. Deaf U was more than I hoped for - for hearing people to see the deaf community as it is- same as any other “community” in America that faces bully’s from their own race, religion or sexual orientation. For ANYONE in the Deaf Community to make YOU feel that you used the wrong “words” to express your feelings is hypocritical to say the least. THEIR BEHAVIOR showed the world that those actions were elitist and showed their community in a negative way - NOT YOU! I have to say I am surprised that you are from a deaf family because I didn’t catch that in Deaf U but your ASL was on par so makes sense. I saw a number of my classmates that identified all their lives with hard of hearing came to Gallaudet and had the hardest time. Students actually said to them, “Deaf or Hearing, which, pick one”. I understand the fight of the deaf community to be seen as a regular person who just happens a to not hear. I had a great experience and was personally “accepted” even though I was a HEARING PERSON! yes, I am not even a CODA bit a “SODA”. I grew up in the deaf community with unique experiences (hearing being mainstreamed in a deaf school for the first Pre school to 3rd grade) but what I witnessed is unfortunately what is reality not only at Gally but all schools. Do you think there are not students at neighboring Howard who felt not black enough or at GeorgeTown who did not feel smart or privileged enough. That goes on everywhere. But it is people like you who share and discuss these issues in a positive manner. But NEVER apologize for WHO you are as long as you are kind to others and believe in your journey! All the best in all your goals and accomplishments - I am now a subscriber to an amazing positive INFLUENCER! 😉!
Wait there are schools where hearing kids can be mainstreamed with deaf students here in the US? I have been looking to see if there were any of that kind here in the US. The only other country that has a school where deaf and hearing kids go to and sign during the school sessional is in Australia. But other then your school experience I have hear similar things about Gallaudet from folks in my local Deaf community. Not a lot but a lot of bullying, racism, and elitism.
Lets just say, I watched the first episode of the show and was like: Oh wait, its 20 years later and these idiotic animosities are still going strong AF? .. so your statements are totally valid. Both the Deaf and hard-of-hearing community seems to just continue to repeat history over and over again, and NOT evolve. Such a sad thing :(
One way to interpret the phrase "not Deaf enough" is that the person saying it doesn't feel they are accepted in the Deaf community. Over time, the Deaf person can attract and form their own friends who accept them as they are. I can understand how people feel that way, I've SEEN people say that another person "isn't Deaf enough" so that phrase is used to judge another.
I agree. I don’t think Cheyenne was wrong at all. It was a valid feeling and she didn’t really attack anyone else just expressing her experience and feelings
Just finished watching Deaf U in one sitting 😂 LOVED IT and you were my absolute favorite person to watch. You have such an authentic state of being and watching you grow over those episodes was beautiful. I’m not deaf but I learnt so much and remember you’re young you’re not supposed to have it all figured out yet! And one place isn’t supposed to give you all the answers and maybe going there was enough for you to learn you DIDN’T need to go there to figure that out! Good luck at your next college. I look forward to following more of your videos. ❤️
Agree with this. Be GENTLE with yourself and don't beat yourself up for not knowing everything.
I just finished the season and immediately found you on UA-cam just to say this: While the show opened my eyes to a lot, you yourself did so as well. In the black community we often deal with the concept of someone being “black enough”. I think I’ve been trapped in my own bubble when it comes to the statement as being someone that falls into being the attacked in that conversation. I just finished this video and you did an excellent job explaining your position on what you said. So much so that it has helped to shape how I feel about some of the things that I’ve regularly encountered in my community and will use that molding you contributed to to hopefully be a better force for my culture. I guess I could have just said thanks and let it go, but I like typing 😂
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wow - very powerful - I had a similar experience as yours, tho I am not from any traditionally marginalized "community" - but it seems to happen everywhere - and it is a falsehood perpetuated by those whose identities hinge on their being higher in whatever hierarchy...
Hey girl! :) just ended watching the TV show and I have to tell you something : you are funny, talented, smart, beautiful and honest. Don't let anyone take that away from you!! Ever! Don't doubt in yourself just because some part of the community thinks they are better than you. They showed the world how disgusting they are. Minority people, of any kind, should know what is like to be bullied, make fun of and marginalized. If they want to be the "Elite" good riddance, but one day, when you have built a strong bridge with all sorts of people, they will stay and rot in their little hateful circle.
Sending love from all across the world!!
Stay excellent ❤️❤️
I whole heartedly agree.
The whole "elite" thing going on during Deaf U is mind-boggling and disturbing. Generational hearing loss makes them better than other deaf people? That is just...insanity. And frankly, something that no one would see as a bragging point outside of the people in that bizarre bubble. I have seen the prejudice that comes with hearing loss up-close. You would think that experiencing that on a generational level would make people more compassionate and understanding. Instead, these kids are flat-out *bullies*. I am absolutely unimpressed and appalled by the behavior and attitudes that went on and I am certain I am not alone in these feelings. Some of these clips will come back to haunt some of these kids. If I were considering hiring the girl who insulted you then shoved a sucker down your throat and saw that clip? She would receive a hard NO from me. And frankly, I don't think that Tessa's problem with you has anything to do with what school you went to or how you use ASL. She is used to being the prettiest girl at the party and then you showed up and completely outshone and out styled her. Anyone who humble-brags about how much money their parents make has some big self-esteem issues covered in an inflated ego. Outside of her little following, I doubt there are many (any?) who think better of her after watching her ridiculousness on-screen.
Totally agree. I am totally behind cheyenna had she punched that girl.
Alexis-jean Noble oh hell yes!! I mean I don’t like the ugly stuff but if a bitch shoved a sucker down my throat would have got an black eye!!!! I hope everyone who watches this remember this girl and won’t do nice things for her!! Karma is not pretty either! She will get bad a karma for it!!’
I'd also like to know what is Gallaudet doing about this. Anything? Because this group and what they do seems to be common knowledge and exclusion like this is something they should ABSOLUTELY be pro-active at fighting against. I get that you can't stop some things of this nature but there are definitely things that they could be doing to fight these attitudes and prejudices. Or are they encouraging it?
@@loraleechoate637 Totally agree with this.
@Pai May Wow. That is really sad. Something that causes kids to be systematically bullied and drop out of school and they just ignore it? Terrible. I thought really well of them until now.
I binge watched the entire season last night. Those girls were JERKS.. clearly jealous of you and were straight up bullies!!!
I found you thru Deaf U, and I was amazed by your resilience and I related to you so much. That's what I felt during school. I'm so happy that you're doing better and def going to watch more of your videos. :)
Your story made me remind of my experience into the deaf and hearing world, but I grew up in the hearing world because I went to mainstream school and I graduated HS. I agreed with you that I wasn’t enough to be a deaf because I don’t have many deaf friends that they lived in different city in WA. Only I had 3 deaf people at my high school, they had ASL program that my teacher was taught to these hearing students. I’m not usually to hang out with many deaf people when I see their signs were different with my ESL. Mostly, I’m struggled with ASL and ESL because of writing structure. Right now, I’m into deaf world because there are lot of opportunity has helped me a lot that I decided to change who I am into the community that I love or hate it depends on my moods. I love your personality on deaf U. You made me little tear in the end..wow. You’re not only one! I did the same thing in the past.
Really sounds like they've been gaslighting you and/or projecting their own shitty behaviour onto you. They were awful to you and somehow you're still the one apologising. You were honest about what you were feeling and I don't think you need to be sorry about that
I was not deaf enough now I'm proud to be deaf. You don't own anyone apology neither do I.
This is why I LOVE watching you. You have always been OPEN AND HONEST. I really admire you for that. As I probably have told you before, I also grew up mainstream and never knew anything about the Deaf schools until after I graduated. Now I do remember my teachers telling my parents not to EVER sign to me. I thought it was normal. Now I know it isn’t. I do feel hurt. Thanks for your HONESTY and being YOU!
I’m not deaf so I’ve never heard of this “Elite” thing. Seems very strange to me that there is a hierarchy in the deaf community. Sad that every group finds a way to discriminate against their own.
It is mind blowing isn't it?
There will always be infighting so long as there is oppression.
There is hierarchy in EVERY community, people who think they're above, people who think they belong most due to family history, people who struggle with identity ... it's in EVERY culture, and every community.
What does it mean??
Fully agree with you.. an "elite" group of deaf ppl??
Sounds to me as weird as an elite bunch of blind ppl who consider themselves better tha other blind ppl lol.
So strange, from a perspective of someone who can hear and speak.. Instead they should support one another
Girl you were the best thing about that show! You didn’t hurt anyone they are just haters!
Good job! Keep up the amazing work you do! And continue to shine and sparkle! Dont let anyone tear you down. People will be nasty and mean and say unkind things all the time. You be the powerful woman you are and stand with your head held high no matter what!
Just watched the show. You were a shining light to everyone around you, you're a lovely person. Your feelings about being bullied and excluded are valid, don't let it stop you. xoxo
I binged "Deaf U" on Netflix today and I really liked it. I enjoyed seeing the deaf community represented and the fact that you guys got to show it to all of us is amazing. I am hearing but I know sign language from members of my family who are deaf so seeing this on TV and watching the culture is awesome and I loved it ❤ 🤟🤟
You got this Chey! You are still amazing no matter how much you have been through.
I wish you’d put subtitles in your videos. I really admire your style since I’ve known you from the deaf u. Wish you the best! ❤️
@Audrey Kelly omgggg thank youuuuuu 🙏
So I watched the show and fell in love with how sweet and down to earth you were. I’m not deaf but I loved you. You’re the only one on that show with class and I had an experience like yours as a child so when you talked about it I felt every emotion. And the whole elite thing was ridiculous kinda funny cause they seek attention and behave like 5 year olds crying for attention it’s unattractive. Anyways love you hope one day I can meet you I’d love to have you as a friend. Well God bless you pretty girl. Love from California 🖤
I am not deaf but I can relate. If someone was watching Deaf U and didn't understand that you were hurting, shame on them.
I am Mexican American and at times I don't feel Mexican or USA enough; like your community, our is very close- both physically and figuratively- and both sides are very blunt on calling out for not know EVERYTHING about, each, the culture(s).
Sending you love and good vibes. Make sure to take care of yourself FIRST!
You have nothing to apologize for. At all. You’re a beautiful soul and don’t let anyone take that away from you. Who cares what they think, honestly? This is your life, and you have the right to feel how you feel. Keep your head up.
Just watched the trailer for Deaf U and now I get a lot of what you were saying a lot more. I completely see where you are coming from. Not sure if that matters coming from me because I am a hearing person but it helped me connect the dots more. I stumbled on your channel when I was testing my sign knowledge. I took it in college but hadn't used it so I was trying to brush up. Truth be told I'm not great but I found your content interesting so I've kept up with your channel. Your feelings make perfect sense to me. Can't wait to watch Deaf U now. Just added it to my list. You're doing a great job. Keep pushing forward 💪 🙂
Cheyenne, you did great! Like you.. I didn’t go to Gallaudet because I know I will be in the same situation like you... screw deaf elites! They are jealous of your success.. you broke all barriers that they want to tell others not to try.... Keep growing big and be successful in
Your own way.
Loved you in Deaf U, out of the students you have a lot of integrity. The fact that the other students were so judgmental towards you was so ridiculous. I wished you had not dropped out, but having a degree doesn’t define you. You were seeing the bigger picture beyond university ,when the rest were living in the moment which only lasts for a fraction of your life. Your channel is growing and continue to create content your way.
It is such a honor to watch you continue to grow into the individual you are Cheyenna. This video touched my heart to see how you are healing through this process. I look forward to watching Deaf U!! All the best to you!
Be strong Cheyenne, Don't let them
Feed their superiority because they're not worth it... You have so much potential and you are capable!!! Don't let them!
Stand up for yourself and for your dreams
But thank you for opening up
I really like you from deaf u
You don't need their validation, they think their so mighty and stuff but in reality they're full of shit and
They're just insecure of how successful you are and for being so unapologetically yourself
I'm proud of youuu
You’re an amazing human being. I’ve followed you on here for a good while, and I’ve enjoyed your videos but getting to see you on Deaf U was amazing because I felt like I could connect with your feeling of not fitting in. Your honesty, transparency, openness was great to see. I sent you a video response on IG on this topic (if you don’t see it, perfectly ok) but thank you for taking part in this show. Thank you for being you. You will always be enough. Know that. Take care. 🤗🤗
I watched the show and was thinking “is this even real? They’re acting so judgemental and mean for no reason!”.
I just finished watching DeafU and loved seeing you shooting the social media videos on fashion etc. You also seemed a very interesting person who articulates herself and her journey very well. I came to UA-cam to see whether you still had a channel and what you're doing now. I was sad at the end of the series that you left DC/college, and hope you finish up school somewhere--it just makes things easier, generally, in life, even if it's hard and you don't really feel like it now. I have told so many people (including my 85 year old Mom) about DeafU and how fascinating it was, as a person who knows very little about the deaf and hard of hearing community, and just generally. The sociology of it was riveting.
And seeing your situation was eye opening. I have struggled my whole life being among elites--where I grew up and went to school and which part of Society I am "supposed to" be in. And I had always internalized their looking down on me and having more power than I. I have wondered for decades what I could do differently--in the past what could I have done differently, and now in the present and into the future.
My mother has always said people of whatever "Elite" don't matter--that they have self-appointed that status and in real reality their status and hierarchy is a false construct of their own making that they try to force others to kowtow to, often successfully.
I have always insisted, even at my advanced age now, that unfortunately people like that DO matter and what they say about you DOES matter. But watching Deaf U and your struggle, I found myself saying "This woman is so talented, interesting, bright, singular, clear-sighted, motivated, driven, funny, obviously physically beautiful--how could she POSSIBLY care for one split second what these bitter, emotionally ugly, unoriginal, fearful, mean-spirited, small-minded, twisted, PAROCHIAL conformists would EVER say or think about her?! They completely lack the capacity even to begin to get who and what you are and what you have to offer the world and humanity! They cannot possibly grasp it because they are fundamentally unimaginative, uncreative, sheltered, dull, and dependent on their 'role' in deaf society such that they are not their own persons!"
And I realized then how many times people have said things like that to me, but I never listened. I thought the people saying those positive things I just wrote about you above simply did not understand how and why these people had actual power over me--and that, in the context we all grew up in, they are correct: that I am not _______[whatever] enough.
But they don't. I finally realize this, seeing Deaf U. I hope you realize this. There are always people in this enormous sea of humanity who fall outside those boundaries. And who are always on the lookout for others who don't conform to any particular identity group---people who have made it. And then look to people like you, like me, to help---and we do that for younger people coming up. People have always seen my potential---regardless of those disapproving Elites, who have sometimes literally warned me that I would be banned, or blackballed, or never work again blah blah blah, and it's BS. But even tho that has worked for me throughout my life--and I have hired and otherwise helped others who aren't toeing the line but who are talented and wonderful and whose voice and work deserves to be seen and heard---I never 100% saw the Elites in my life and lifetime as the cartoon characters they are. Seeing the group in Deaf U....the disapproving elite people I am talking about are hearing but otherwise exactly the same---and I finally now DO see them as cartoon characters.
They mean nothing, Cheyenna. Their power is infintessimally smaller than they imagine it to be. Don't reward them by believing it. They are small, small people with big status in a tiny self-referential and self-congratulatory world.
I loves what you said on the show about pressure to be a DEAF social media influencer, rather than a social media influencer who happens to be deaf. I will tell you, as a hearing person, or simply as a person---that I can "hear you" better as a person, as a creative person who happens to be deaf. I am blown away by the fact that you are deaf and what you are doing far more than if you were supposedly a poster child FOR some cause. Don't do that. Don't be that. It is suffocating.
As cliched as it is: be yourself, keep your head up, and do your best.
And....I just watched your video. I don't mean to be unkind but it reminds me of those videos of hostages or politicians who made some terrible blunder and someone is pointing a gun at the, off camera or threatening never to fund them again and to tarnish their reputation and their family. Throwing yourself in front of a bus you don't have to throw yourself in front of. Backpeddling what you said and did, when what you said and did was NOT wrong. Nothing you said or did was wrong or weird or harmful or toxic or out of line, or unfair, or mean, or even "because you were angry and hurt."
You spoke (a) your truth and (b) truth to power. You looked this false god that is the classist elite straight in the face and you unmasked it. This was enormously truthful. And truth and light and transparency is always good.
All this ish about privilege etc etc. Yes, sure, of course, much of that is true---but you do NOT need to wear the hairshirt for any reason due to who you are or what you did or said. You don't have to be a warrior or spokesperson for one or another "Cause" which people would want to claim you for. Those "Causes" will always betray and/or ultimately compromise of silence you. You don't need them. Keep going straight to The People, and we will embrace you and pay for your content. And look for those slightly off beat people who are also successful through their own means, not beholden to others--because we're here.
Thank you so much for being truthful, joyful, creative, and vulnerable--as well as allowing us to share that with you! Go girl!!!
You seem like a kind And genuine person with a solid moral compass. You shined on the show and treated everyone better than they treated you. Rock on! 🤘🏻
Hi Cheyenna You dont owe them apology. It is your own journey. I enrolled Gallaudet 1986 from mainstreamed and I was not Deaf enough. It is an ongoing tradition where they need to break the isms. Everyone SHOULD feel welcome regardless the signing. I am almost 52 years old, I will never be fluent in ASL and I learned ASL for the past 10 years.. I looked back.. I was signing SEE (total communication) and just learned that it is not language, just system communication. It makes sense. We should not feel bad for not meeting their expectations and should have never been treated differently. I watched Deaf U, I enjoyed your journey and Renate Rose's journey because it is reality. You are not alone. You do not owe anyone explanation or apology.
I absolutely know where you are coming from cause I am you in a way... you should never ever apologize for anything! At all! I was born dead into hearing family... I was alone pretty much! But grew up in both deaf and hearing world... to be honest with you I’d pretty much rather live in the hearing world than in the deaf world cause like u said you felt that you didn’t fit... same here I felt that I didn’t belong there as well... feelings are completely valid regardless! That word elites... I’ve came across that word before but didn’t really care to know the true meaning of it till I saw Deaf U and was interested in why it was used... I’ve met a lot of dead elites in my lifetime but I can never fit into their world cause their view is soo different than mine! But do have few friends who are but I didn’t realize how it really made me feel till I saw that series and it brought up old wounds that I never understood cause I could never find the words for that... Girl... don’t ever apologize for anything cause I never did.... cause I am not responsible for how other people feel or what they do cause it has nothing to do with u! You do you! Don’t ever let the world tell you otherwise!
Hi sweetie I understandy u very completely. I'm sorry what u have been going thur very hard time not easy for deaf say a words so bad hurt u or everyone and me too. One of day u will find the way be solve it and peaceful but take little time not moments yet so please hanger in there be strong 💗🤟.
I am looking forward to watching Deaf U!
i really enjoyed you sitting in depth processing with this community. though you were on a show, you don’t act stuck up and i love that the most about you. im highly into ASL and am taking it at my school in riverside. your videos are really helping me understand the community and just sign in general. i really appreciate your authenticity and consistency with posting.
They were bullying you for being yourself and belittling your status as a valid deaf person. I hope that you’re healing and coming to find that it isn’t true. It’s sad that even college-age adults can’t treat each other with respect and kindness, especially when you face so many challenges in a world that holds a majority of hearing people. Everyone should be welcoming to anyone in the deaf community, not just those that act above everyone or try to be more deaf than the other. It’s appalling! In the show you came off as someone who just wants to achieve their dreams even if there may be obstacles and I think it’s super amazing! You’ll go far!!:)
Cheyenne, I'm a fifth generation of deaf from a very large and strong deaf family. I am what you would consider elite deaf.
But I was horrified and disgusted with how those girls treated you. You did NOTHING wrong. Your "deaf enough" video brought awareness to many deaf individuals and it was amazing! You have NOTHING to apologize for. I'm going into gallaudet and I made a promise to myself to never, ever judge anyone and to be kind to everyone. I made this promise because of how they treated you.
Awe girly you did wonderful don’t worry about it anymore!! I support u 100% I’m deaf too so I understand exactly how u felt. I very proud to be deaf and all deaf and hard of hearing should embrace that!!! Bcuz we are unique and sign language is so cool ❤️❤️💯
You did so well in Deaf U; to try and go on and not let it phase you. You are human, you have a right to feel and say whatever you want in those moments. I commend you and your strength for deciding enough was enough and leaving. You were targeted and bullied by others and that was evident. Do not let anyone tell you how you felt, what you said etc was not and is not valid. You have shown great character in this video with how you have gone about explaining yourself (although, you shouldn’t have to really) and the acknowledgments you have made. You do you 💜
Thank you for doing subtitles ❤️I’m learning asl and I love watching videos without captions then turning captions on to see how much I understood
You don’t have to apologize. I just finished watching Deaf U, and your statements were totally valid. Yes, it may be hurtful to the Deaf community, but they should not use the excuse that they are a marginalized group to be judgmental and exclude others.
I can't watch the show because I don't have Netflix I totally agree with what you're saying though I hate people like that it's funny for the people who call themselves a marginalized group for those exact same people to turn around and bully and belittle someone for no reason anytime I hear those terms being used I'm like well you should know how it feels then what you're doing is not right and you know it
No one is perfect and just be yourself I always told people “I don’t care what people think “ most important is love yourself
Like u said we all are humans...When I subscribed your UA-cam, I fully recognized and loved you as a true deaf person!! We all did changed during college years and learned things in right or wrong way. Time and growing up will heal ya in the long run. I am 62 years old and have been through many good or bad experiences. Those have taught me to get better along the years. I believe ya will do fine as a true deaf beautiful lady and be yourself 😊👍🏼. Keep up the cool vlogs u have done in the past and still looking forward to see your new videos as long as I am alive hehe 😜. God bless you and hugs 🤗
You are FABULOUS, whatever you want to express, you are valid to it! Take no notice of some people who are appalled about it because I think it could be their defensive mechanism. I wish I could give you tight hugs. You are amazing, beautiful, role model, inspirational, more to name! I can really empathy you that you are still healing, I was bullied badly too and still healing too!
You have absolutely NOTHING to apologize for. Never let those jealous, judgmental people get to you again. They act that way out of their own insecurities because you are absolutely beautiful and genuine inside and out!
I just watched this after I finished watching Deaf U, and I honestly think you are an amazing person. Although we all make mistakes and are not perfect, you should not blame yourself for the ignorant actions and words that were done against you. In this situation, I don’t see any reason why you should have to apologize. You did nothing to harm anyone. I honestly feel as though the only reason some of the “elites” did not like you are because you’re a gorgeous and smart woman and they wish they had what you have, you have a glow to you. Keep being you and striving to be a better person for yourself 🙏🏽
Favorite cast member of Deaf U! You're beautiful inside & out. I don't understand how people can be so mean to you. You do not deserve that at all. I hope you go far in life! Keep pushin'!
You are loved and supported. You inspire me with your strength and vulnerability. I'm excited to see where you go, I know it will be far. Holding you up in our thoughts and hearts. Love and Light.
I just finished the last episode of season 1 of Deaf U and I want you to know that you are my favorite person on there. I had to come on UA-cam and find you right away. I am not deaf but you have inspired me as a woman and as a minority. I commend you for not allowing the elites to stop you. They see the light that is within you and how you connect to everyone and they are jealous that they aren’t able to shine as brightly as you do. That is what bullies do - try to keep you from doing what they feel they cannot and which usually stems from their own deeply embedded fears. You are amazing and I cannot wait to see all of the wonderful achievements you will make in this world. I have always wanted to learn ASL and you have motivated me to do so because of your gorgeous personality and the beautiful way you sign. Part of your purpose may be to bridge the gap between the deaf and hearing worlds. When you are living your purpose out loud, someone will always claw at you to stop you. Keep pressing on! You have tons of supporters who love you and are cheering you on! 💖💖💖💖
I know that DEAF U was filmed about a year ago, but I came here to say that you are valid and you are awesome. I know first-hand that minorities in every form need to be around to support each other inside and gain allies from the outside. That group aspired to neither. Their name alone is a red flag within this group. It excludes and demeans. Why the need to feel superior by creating pain within a group that already experiences so much pain from the outside? It was appalling. Not just because of your experience, but we can only assume that they've bullied others exactly the same - and it's not right.
I wish you the very best and hope that you know that you're not lacking anything by now. You are you. And you represent people like you with inner grace and inner beauty. You belong, and you will find your tribe in your immediate life if you haven't done so already.
And your sign-singing performance was so BAD@SS!!!💕
Don’t ever lose your sparkle. You’ve inspired me to do the same.
Hey girl, keep doing you. Those other girls are clearly jealous of the platform you've created for yourself and others. I'm not deaf, but I've learned so much about deaf culture and community because of you, which in return has helped me be a more aware person. Continue to be your beautiful self and thrive!
Cheyenna. I watched DeafU knowing full well it was a reality show that was heavily edited, etc etc. But I very much related to you and your struggles about feeling "deaf enough". I'm newly diagnosed hard-of-hearing and am scared of not belonging in either world, the deaf or hearing.
Don't ever apologize for how you feel, because in the moment your emotions are your reality, and that's valid.
Having this platform to express yourself is challenging I'm sure, especially now being a well-known representative for the deaf/hh community.
Hang in there, don't listen to the haters. Your real self shined through, and you're inspiring. 🤟🤟🤟
You are famous now!!! If you are hearing or you are deaf IS THE SAME! people don't like other people shine!!! Don't feel bad about it. Keep with your life. Hugsss from Colombia.
Hi beautiful. I’m writing because I watched deaf u and absolutely love you. I was watching UA-cam videos learning to sign, it was a deaf man and a hearing girl, and literally thought “wow Cheyenne should do this” follow ur dreams. And don’t let anyone stop you. Sending u lots of love and prayers.
Just watched the show and came to say; you're amazing! Your strength and resilience is inspiring. Never let the haters get you down. You will achieve amazing things in this lifetime.
Sis, you were the best part of that show and about to seriously blow up on social media. Those jealous "elite" chicks are about to get even more green eyed. They should be the ones on here apologizing to you.
Hmm, I never saw those words as bad. I'm not Deaf enough has empowered many Deaf to stand proud and educate various communities. A lot of us feel frustrated with people. Yes it a a group of Deaf but as you mentioned it not all of Deaf community. People love putting us into boxes ”hearing impaired” ”hard of hearing” etc ”mutes” it was important to let others know you know what's inside your soul which is Deaf. We may feel differently all the time but that doesn't make it ok when people treat us badly and makes us feel horrible when clearly we know who we are. PerhapS you are overthinking... I am going to watch Deaf U but am nervous coz that program will impact Deaf communities good and bad.
You are brave and honest and vulnerable. I think your word choices helped other people who felt the same way as you.
I am surprised that you have gotten so much flack for this when one of the guys on the show admitted to committing reproductive assault (trying to get a girl pregnant without her consent or knowledge) and no one batted an eye.............
Exactly!
Although he WAS an asshole for that...... she was NO SAINT SHE SHOULDVE PROTECTED herself as well...we all saw how busy she was
@@mskmosley15 having sex doesn’t make her at fault wtf…sounded like he lied about pulling out or could’ve poked a hole in the condom for all we know. She had sex with her boyfriend and he lied to her and tricked her. Period.
@@fibonaccisequins4637 you are so entitled to your opinion, but he didn't force her so she had just as much responsibility as him. whether if you admit it or not the only method of "safe sex" is no sex. Just being realistic....
@@mskmosley15 she trusted her boyfriend and he stealthed her, which is considered rape in some states, but by all means keep making excuses for that kind of shit
hi, Chey I'm here to support you and ur beautiful family you have!! smile. don't be a pain in urself ok here angel with you everyday smile hugssss
I wish that in all communities accepting and loving differences was a default. But too often it is not. I think most people who show hate are those that are the most insecure and immature and they do it because they have been hurt. I hope those that hurt you heal from their hurt and learn to better themselves. They need to look inwards. Thank you for the honesty and genuineness in this video. Take care in your part of the US Cheyenna.
We love you Cheyenna 🤟🏻🤟🏼🤟🏽🤟🏾🤟🏿❤️💕💞🤗
Don't be sad Cheyenne I can't see you like this... We all are just humans we make mistakes and learn from that so heal up my beautiful angel ❤️
Hi chey no matter how much and also you amazing and i get it how you feel and i hope you feeling better
You are an absolute class act. Even though you were the one hurt, here you are trying to make sure you don't hurt anyone. You and the people who hurt you are galaxies apart.
You are human. I watch Deaf U. It good to share your experience. No one is perfect
You are awesome and brave and have every right to talk about your experiences and feelings. You do not need to apologize. The elites should apologize for their outrageous bullying.
I am always on your side and support you!!! 👊🏼✊🏼👊🏼✊🏼👊🏼❤️
i will never ever make fun or mocking you because you are amazing person in the world you deserve the best
I watched Deaf U today. I had to come & find your UA-cam channel. To be honest, you don’t have to apologize. I was a student at model secondary school for the deaf & I used to hangout with people from Gallaudet U. I totally GET it. I related to you in many ways. I’m so proud of you & im definitely 💯support you, CHEYENNE!
NEVER apologise or explain, such opponents will exploit it anyway.
I loved you in "DEAF U" just wanted to let you know.
She was my favourite
Hello Cheyenna! I found your channel after watching the Deaf U series on Netflix. I am saddened to find this video. The way you were treated was really unkind and unfair. Unfortunately many girls are catty and make fun of other women when they are jealous to make themselves feel better. I hate that you feel you need to apologize for your comments on the show. Your feelings are valid. It is great that you are trying to better yourself and reflect on your previous decisions and words, but don't beat yourself up and don't have regrets. I hope you find supportive women friends like your deserve. I wish you all the best and keep doing you.
I binged all of Deaf U in one sitting and loved you in it. Even though I am not deaf I really identified with your journey to find a community and acceptance. You are so brave and very inspiring for sharing your story.
You responded honestly to constant bullying. Hopefully people can be compassionate enough to understand that.
Honestly, it's completely valid to feel like you're not "deaf enough" and I understand being careful with your words, but if you were being honest in how you felt, I think it's okay to say it.
The Deaf community can feel really exclusionary and no one likes feeling like an outsider or being bullied. I'm a CODA and I know that my place will always be wedged between the hearing and Deaf communities. It's okay with me, but it does sting sometimes, and I'm not Deaf or at Galludet, where the pressure is extra intense. It's hard because protecting your community makes sense, but it's hard to do that without hurting people sometimes. So it's important to balance respect towards the culture and respect towards individual people, right?
Side note: I love your makeup in this video
You are more than what those certain elite people think of you or say to. You are so enough, so loved, so valued, & so much appreciated, Cheyenne! Keep being you girl, shining your beautiful light & doing what makes you happy....Love & aloha, all the way from Hawaii!🤙🏽💛
Keep being YOU and don't change for anyone Cheyenne
The elite are a bunch of losers
Just leave them
Love you Cheyenna❤️❤️❤️
Just watching Deaf U and I decided to search for your videos! Yay! I found you! You’re such a sweet girl!
Cheyenna you are beautiful inside & out and I just want to say thank you for sharing your story on DeafU! Don't beat yourself up about things you said a year ago that you have since learned from! We all understand & people who don't are just petty!
I just binge-watched the entire season of Deaf U and I thought you were incredibly graceful in the face of real shitty behavior ! Those girls were obviously jealous of you and mean-spirited. They come off as the bullies they are while you stand out as a beautiful person, inside and out :)
Cheyenne I understand what your feeling and I maybe part that in your shoes. I don’t blame you No one is perfect, let God judge them who hurt them and God will take care of them who did wrong. We should not judge them and support them. We get to problem that we feel weak, but it will become strong. Stay strong and stay save from coronavirus.
You have nothing to apologize for. People will always be jealous of your success and your beauty, your life etc. the only sign they need to see is the middle finger while you're driving away and looking at them in the rear view mirror. Don't let social media and the toxic people get you down. You're a bright light and none of us want to see it go out. Looking forward to more vids! _\m/
yeah, no matter what words are used, bullying sucks in all its varieties (which you pretty much encountered). feeling "not disabled enough" is a similar thing but it also has to be talked about sometimes because the reason it comes up is *people being made to feel that way* - whether it's from inside or outside the group, & feelings like those are always valid enough to work thru, which implicitly means talking thru them. banning words or phrases for the comfort of those who uphold their use for others' discomfort just ain't on. the language slips away once it stops being a problem pressing enough to need talking about
everything you felt and said during the show is 100% valid and you shouldn't be too hard on yourself about it. Your self-reflection and change of prospective truly shows a natural growth and it feeds to the idea we are not the same person we were yesterday, last month or the year before.
By the way, will you consider getting one or two members from the show to discuss their views about the show and how they have grown evolve since? The first guest should be Rodney, that guy is too funny...
The funny thing is we as an individual will never be enough for someone or enough for a particular group. No matter what our background is or how we currently live, we will never be “enough” or know enough to be part of somebody’s standards. You will always be singled out because of you didn’t “fit in” to someone’s standards which is bullsh*t. You don’t have to apologize to anyone Cheyanne about what you said or didn’t say or what you did or didn’t do. People are jealous and will hate because they don’t have the platform or positivity you have
That great say!! I agree with you. I support you!
The fact that you acknowledge this with such poise and elegance is awesome! Your feelings will always be yours and 100% valid as you were hurt and bullied, that is a fact, but you are so strong and an amazing person! You are gonna go so far in life! Keep it up, sis! :)
Cheyenna, I cant tell you how much you inspire people. You are unique and strong. Unfortunately, there will always be people who fear that and are jealous of you. As someone else in the comments said, you are so much classier than those mean girls. You just keep being you....we see YOU and we love YOU.