7 Types of People You Can’t Help

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  • @davidanderson3586
    @davidanderson3586 3 дні тому +16

    When asked " who then can be saved" Jesus said " what is impossible for man is possible with God" . I pray all are saved.

  • @salescustomer-service2050
    @salescustomer-service2050 4 дні тому +57

    You are so right about those self righteous people. I had this pastor's wife who tells me not to seek justice against those who are harming people. She tried to tell me God doesn't want us to take people to court. I told her that applies to a fellow Christian; not to a government agency at fault. LOL!!

    • @ShandaP018
      @ShandaP018 4 дні тому +16

      This how you know they might harm someone. I know someone who told me they didn't report being hit by a car because it would ruin someone's life. They too were a reckless driver. We have a righteous judge on our side and will apply mercy where he sees fit.

    • @AngelaGovin-o3o
      @AngelaGovin-o3o День тому

      That's crazy

    • @AngelaGovin-o3o
      @AngelaGovin-o3o День тому

      Judge righteous judgements as God would

    • @mwxyz828
      @mwxyz828 5 годин тому

      Can’t take people to court?! Baby is she sleep?! You absolutely can seek justice both in the physical and spiritual realms! You can ask God to arrest demonic spirits and plead your case before him!
      Some people expose how much they’re not walking in the spirit when they have the audacity to give people advice that would keep them from communing with God and asking him for what is owed to them,

  • @istandinawe6319
    @istandinawe6319 4 дні тому +29

    #1 reminds me of being a “professional victim” they enjoy the attention that comes with victim hood. You can give a million solutions to a practical problem and yet none applies to them.
    Already 2 minutes in the video and I’ve identified 3 people in my life 😢

  • @stephanniekotalik9339
    @stephanniekotalik9339 4 дні тому +11

    I have been married to a narcissist for 27 years. I was naive and double minded when I married him. Now that I know marrying him was a sin, I am praying for guidance in how to leave before more damage is done.

  • @JESUSCHRIST91126ad
    @JESUSCHRIST91126ad 4 дні тому +8

    Thanks Marc, praying for you, your family and channel.

  • @ElecPrizyy
    @ElecPrizyy 4 дні тому +6

    I have someone in my life that shows multiple of these points… it’s hard to let go but some people are not going where I’m going.

  • @bridgettedavey4422
    @bridgettedavey4422 4 дні тому +7

    Yes , they take your kindness for weakness!! Facts

  • @donnadaniels5095
    @donnadaniels5095 4 дні тому +21

    This is my Ex family Of narcissist They never want to take Accountability , in There behavior So I had to walk away🙏🏽

  • @Thejolleygreengiant7
    @Thejolleygreengiant7 4 дні тому +5

    You also have to realize these people are demonized and need self deliverance or a deliverance ministry.

  • @brianminus6114
    @brianminus6114 3 дні тому +4

    In other words watch who you try to help.

  • @davidanderson3586
    @davidanderson3586 3 дні тому +3

    I can be negative due to life trauma experiences but I must see the hope for me in Christ and a future with him.

  • @avisionthroughchrist
    @avisionthroughchrist 4 дні тому +8

    Sometimes the LORD will place us in certain peoples life to plant a seed in their heart. That seed may not grow and be nourished in our presence because everyone’s journey is unique. Though it is important to use discernment when those people have to be loved at a distance. Our spirit through Christ plants a seed, however we are not obligated to take care of and water the plants in other’s garden. (Marriage is the exception)
    Jesus is the only one who can save. He is the only one 🙏☀️

  • @SCRIPTURE_111
    @SCRIPTURE_111 4 дні тому +11

    We just plant seeds and be the watchmen and he causes the increase💯

  • @tamiratv5817
    @tamiratv5817 4 дні тому +13

    Thank you so much for posting this video! Hard truth we have to accept as people.

  • @TroiSimmons
    @TroiSimmons 4 дні тому +22

    Great video, straight truth! I knew I wasn’t tripping, I dealt with these people and my energy was being drained and the devil tried to condemn me for not helping them. Thank you Jesus this video is confirmation! 🙏🏾✝️

  • @Atmamma
    @Atmamma 3 дні тому +4

    Thank you for making this video I was just talking to God about it and was feeling convicted because of these type of people. Now I am clear on it.

  • @RinaldoHarris5539
    @RinaldoHarris5539 4 дні тому +10

    What's up brother Marc peace and blessings keep going forward and spreading the word of God it's beyond well needed for show 🙏🏿🙌🏿💯 no playing around

  • @naturallyawesomefitness1738
    @naturallyawesomefitness1738 4 дні тому +3

    Excellent video, Mark!! I have encountered these 7 types as well, and the frustration from such negative tares is not worth one’s energy, time, or repeated hamster wheel efforts. Lastly, another variation of number 5 I experienced is when someone becomes angry, bitter, or resentful because you can or want to help them succeed. Run for the hills and never contact them again!!

  • @shirleywebber8843
    @shirleywebber8843 4 дні тому +12

    Lettttts Go Mark! Many Blessings to you and your family. Respect 💯

  • @PropereinsteinTMG
    @PropereinsteinTMG 4 дні тому +2

    Jehoshaphat in 2 Chronicles is a great example of why light has no fellowship with darkness.

  • @AshleyRose-r4d
    @AshleyRose-r4d 3 дні тому

    This is all so true, Marc. Thank you for this great message.
    I’ve been trying to help my mother who shows every single one of these narcissistic traits. She doesn’t have a relationship with any of her other 4 children or any of her grandchildren (including my child) because of her negative victim mentality. I’m the only one in her family that hasn’t cut her off. I still continue to try to help her even though she continually drains my energy. Every single time we speak on the phone, I feel miserable afterwards and always ask myself why I even called her/answered when she called me. I would feel very guilty if I cut her off like everyone else has. I don’t know if I have it in me to do so.
    I’m really at a crossroads on what to do.

  • @jeromemurdock2455
    @jeromemurdock2455 4 дні тому +5

    Thank you sir, right on time brotha, I been fighting this thought in my head with the mother of my children. I help her when I can but it becomes toxic and my spirit doesn't sit right. God is amazing and impeccable with his timing

  • @cecedrictremble
    @cecedrictremble 3 дні тому +2

    I'm not slothful ,I've been out of work since July, I've been looking for work, not just any type of work. I have 55 applications in with indeed. .. until I find one, I've been going to school to be an electrician. I pray that this is going to work out, but I'm not lazy. .... I'm a forklift operator

  • @discerningtruth6848
    @discerningtruth6848 4 дні тому +4

    We're all inundated with problems each day but ; God is our refuge and strength a very present help in trouble.

  • @Davidtheservant1997
    @Davidtheservant1997 4 дні тому +9

    Here before this vid goes viral 😊. Good work brother Mark

  • @cmking774
    @cmking774 4 дні тому +6

    #3 sounds like a narcissist who I had to cut off, which was my birth mom and #2 half brother who lives with #3 i moved out 3 yrs ago. I was their neighbor

  • @The317bosslady
    @The317bosslady 4 дні тому +6

    Amen keep preaching❗️You always deliver 🙌🏾👏🏾

  • @ohboygoodeats
    @ohboygoodeats 3 дні тому

    Whooo 1:42 minutes in and my soul is already jumping! Thanks Marc for this message! The LORD GOD has blessed me with so much knowledge, I pray for the strength and ability to began making videos on YT.

  • @joycelyn1747
    @joycelyn1747 4 дні тому +6

    Thanks Marc..🕊️ God's peace to all 💪🏾💚

  • @Carey-whut
    @Carey-whut 4 дні тому +3

    I like this video! The "energy!"
    Reminds me of...
    "Be The Fountain, NOT the Drain!"
    God Bless You! 😇❤👑

  • @ruimteschipYT
    @ruimteschipYT 4 дні тому +4

    True true i walk away from people that talks only negative keep up the good work godbless Ruim

  • @TamekaBuckley-h8e
    @TamekaBuckley-h8e 4 дні тому +2

    Love this message Bro, everything mentioned is Pure Facts. I am praying to God over a certain bond that Me and My Children have with a certain person ❤️ I don't won't to be in the wrong at all about it 😔🙏🏾🩸 It's been so hard and alot of years involved with this. I do go to God about this and i will continually until He tells me different through My Discernment.

  • @1111spiritualone
    @1111spiritualone 4 дні тому +2

    You just described my ex to the T. I’m glad we aren’t together. It’s true, you can’t help these people.

  • @Poppi-Poppa-Socky
    @Poppi-Poppa-Socky 4 дні тому +3

    I can't help my mother. She refuses to give herself to God. It's sad to listen to the hate and negativity that comes out of her mouth everyday. But then complains that things are constantly going wrong in her life. Smh.

    • @Matthew_008
      @Matthew_008 4 дні тому +2

      For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places.” Ephesians 6:12 NKJV

    • @Matthew_008
      @Matthew_008 4 дні тому +2

      This may be a demonic influence. Because I’ve been dealing with this in my own household too. By the grace of the Lord He is leading, guiding, and supporting me through His Holy Spirit

    • @Matthew_008
      @Matthew_008 4 дні тому +3

      …let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart. Galatians 6:9 NKJV

  • @sarahgracetruth
    @sarahgracetruth 4 дні тому +10

    Sadly my narc ex has ALL of these negative traits- all of them!

  • @Pneuma77
    @Pneuma77 3 дні тому

    I got family who are a mixture of both of the categories you mentioned. Sometimes I feel I'm wasting time praying for them.

  • @bernardscottcrohnswarrior3868
    @bernardscottcrohnswarrior3868 3 дні тому +1

    Timing of this is DIVINE

  • @DevotionalDoodles
    @DevotionalDoodles 2 дні тому

    I was a bit scared about the slothful part, but realize that's not me because i work and im going to be volunteering soon too. I want to spread God's goodness to others. ❤

  • @Thadopeera
    @Thadopeera День тому

    All seven equal a Fool! When you have a fool on your hands you can’t reason with it, you can’t speak logic to it. You’re dealing with a fool..

  • @Thejolleygreengiant7
    @Thejolleygreengiant7 4 дні тому +1

    The timing of this video is wild bro! I needed this.

  • @TheLJMix
    @TheLJMix 4 дні тому +1

    Facts! the greatest teacher is from ones own experience.

  • @Shettikka-s9v
    @Shettikka-s9v 3 дні тому +1

    Too God be the glory 💪🏾🙏🏾🌻

  • @angelajohnson3426
    @angelajohnson3426 4 дні тому +1

    Marc Thank you so much for this teaching. I have in the past dealt with individuals with these characters, I just dropped a few of them in 2024 & present I deal with one from a distance

  • @MacHawk-x5m
    @MacHawk-x5m 2 години тому

    Do a video on why an empath should not get revenge on a narcissist even though the narcissist doesn’t stop the attacks and insults

  • @BrotherMarioLCalloway
    @BrotherMarioLCalloway 4 дні тому +3

    God bless u my brother I really appreciate this Encouragement

  • @tupacjawan69
    @tupacjawan69 3 дні тому

    Absolutely true message man, thank you for this video!

  • @nathanthegreat3750
    @nathanthegreat3750 4 дні тому +2

    Amen and Amen I am careful of who I help or advice someone I could study people pretty easy I would like to work with people anytime it just depends on what .

  • @johnmooney4983
    @johnmooney4983 4 дні тому +2

    So true marc thank you for making this video 2 is so true god bless you piece and blessing

  • @Ahava-Sophia-Maeve
    @Ahava-Sophia-Maeve 3 дні тому

    I have learned that you also cant give your money to the wrong ones even if you think they need it, because if you do you will find out that even your bank account become red Aldo there was money safed you will find out that it will be gone..

  • @arnetriceo.9540
    @arnetriceo.9540 3 дні тому

    Peace and Blessings Marc and family. 🙏🏽🙏🏽📖

  • @lisacarroll6984
    @lisacarroll6984 3 дні тому

    Great video Marc the Messenger, I had to learn the hard way that not everyone can be helped 😮😮😮👏👏👏

  • @Tissy94
    @Tissy94 2 дні тому

    As Always Thank You MARC 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @bridgettedavey4422
    @bridgettedavey4422 4 дні тому

    Thank you Marc for this message ❤ you are on point, it is much needed..love you brother , Peace and Blessings ❤

  • @ToyaWilson-o9w
    @ToyaWilson-o9w 4 дні тому +4

    Can’t help the wicked people that do black magic and voodoo they evil

    • @Matthew_008
      @Matthew_008 4 дні тому +3

      Not all of them are evil. Some are deceived and being used by the kingdom of darkness because of their vulnerabilities, weaknesses, traumas, etc. Please pray for them to have eyes to see, ears to hear, and a welcoming and inviting heart to the Lord. “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.” John‬ ‭14‬:‭6‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

    • @ToyaWilson-o9w
      @ToyaWilson-o9w 4 дні тому +1

      @ some are some are not

    • @Matthew_008
      @Matthew_008 4 дні тому +1

      @@ToyaWilson-o9w “But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust.”
      ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭5‬:‭44‬-‭45‬ ‭NKJV‬

  • @lolmephophorrie9316
    @lolmephophorrie9316 4 дні тому +1

    Word up 🐱 like this message 👏

  • @cam-dasmartman
    @cam-dasmartman 4 дні тому +5

    If some of these traits apply to me does that mean I can’t be saved

    • @adannaP
      @adannaP 4 дні тому +3

      No Ask the Lord to change you

    • @brandynicolecommodore45
      @brandynicolecommodore45 4 дні тому +4

      If you recognize them change them! Jesus is here to help you

  • @bridgettedavey4422
    @bridgettedavey4422 4 дні тому

    Peace and Blessings ❤

  • @stilesjohnson1745
    @stilesjohnson1745 3 дні тому

    Why I just go. I stopped waiting and living for people along time ago.

  • @marvinervin1337
    @marvinervin1337 4 дні тому +1

    Real talk

  • @saucoze2851
    @saucoze2851 2 дні тому

    Number 7 it makes sense now how could I be so blind

  • @carolmaplesden916
    @carolmaplesden916 День тому

    You just described everyone I know
    And I want to not be like anything what you just described
    SO NOW WHAT

  • @TopKnot-di1bg
    @TopKnot-di1bg 4 дні тому

    God bless you brother

  • @rj6658
    @rj6658 4 дні тому +1

    Pray for me

  • @UrgentVoice88
    @UrgentVoice88 4 дні тому

    AMEN AMEN 🙏 BROTHER

  • @bridgettedavey4422
    @bridgettedavey4422 4 дні тому

    Matured

  • @RealnameisKaylani
    @RealnameisKaylani 4 дні тому

    All 7 don't want better

  • @bridgettedavey4422
    @bridgettedavey4422 4 дні тому

    Exactly 💯

  • @yoitsyourmannatefromupstat1317

    Aman facts God is good

  • @gavinogarcia1590
    @gavinogarcia1590 4 дні тому +1

    Taking Notes 📓✍️ Hello 🤗 BROTHER.... Thank you !! Bro, For sharing your spiritual wisdom and your knowledge of the word of God 🕊️📖❤..... I totally 💯 agree with you of everything your sharing on your teaching platform channel..... Notes 🖋️ LET'S GET RIGHT INTO IT 🔥🕊️🔥.... AMEN 👌😁👌.... I FEEL SO BLESS FOR MY CHRISTIAN CONTENT PLATFORM FAMILY SPEAKERS 🔊🕊️🔊 IN UA-cam VIDEO CHANNEL...... MAN !!! I'M GROWING 🌴🪴🌴SO MUCH SPIRITUALLY IN JESUS !!!! ❤️🙌✝️🙌❤️ AMEN 👏👏👏👏

  • @nathanthegreat3750
    @nathanthegreat3750 4 дні тому

    I’d help unknowns if they are friendly people and giving advice to people who fall short in there daily for them to start or keep going.

  • @marcuscurry4823
    @marcuscurry4823 4 дні тому

    The description in number 2 reminded me of Bill Carson.

  • @windygriffith6217
    @windygriffith6217 4 дні тому

    Thanks Marc, l have a couple in my family....

  • @kentondevine489
    @kentondevine489 3 дні тому

    HD this realization last night

  • @JesusIsGod906
    @JesusIsGod906 2 дні тому +1

    Marc. I love you because of Jesus. Can you look at some of Pastor Gino Jennings teachings on long hair. “Doth not even nature itself teach you, that, if a man have long hair, it is a shame unto him?”
    ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭11‬:‭14‬ ‭KJV‬‬
    Much love and respect. Sampson had a period to where he couldn’t cut his hair. After that period, he would have cut his hair. He couldn’t do a lot of things while he was dedicated himself to God. Look into that teaching. Pastor Gino Jennings from THE FIRST CHURCH TRUTH OF GOD. ❤❤❤

    • @JesusIsGod906
      @JesusIsGod906 2 дні тому

      ua-cam.com/video/dNfdsnZC8IQ/v-deo.htmlsi=quwRKUs_QqayYZnN

    • @JesusIsGod906
      @JesusIsGod906 2 дні тому

      I added the link on long hair teaching. Strictly from The Bible. ❤

    • @JesusIsGod906
      @JesusIsGod906 2 дні тому

      Fast forward to 6:05 in the video. But the entire video is biblical. ❤❤

  • @dennismclaurin1487
    @dennismclaurin1487 4 дні тому

    Marc, the accuser of the brethren Rev.12:10) don't give a **** about any sins/ faults you've made
    Mat.1:21; Rev.19:2

  • @gissie391
    @gissie391 4 дні тому

    Forced adoption.

  • @Pinky22222
    @Pinky22222 4 дні тому +2

    Question: Are racist people Christians? I need clarification if I want to be claiming Christian

    • @beckalee4966
      @beckalee4966 4 дні тому +5

      Any group of people can be racist
      Being a christian is having a relationship with God 😑😑😑

    • @Free-q7s
      @Free-q7s 4 дні тому

      Racism is straight from the devil

    • @Matthew_008
      @Matthew_008 4 дні тому +4

      “If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me. For whoever desires to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake will find it.” Matthew‬ ‭16‬:‭24‬-‭25‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

    • @Pinky22222
      @Pinky22222 4 дні тому

      Thank you

    • @MichelleLovesJesus4ever
      @MichelleLovesJesus4ever 4 дні тому +1

      Jesus says that people will know we are His followers by our love for one another. So if someone is having hatred for people, that is not the fruit of following Christ.

  • @AngelaGovin-o3o
    @AngelaGovin-o3o День тому

    We r only allowed to love people yo God amd God will do the changing if necessary.we r nit allowed to Judge. Ye without sin cast the first stone. We can correct them in the bible as God Would.

  • @seanmick3093
    @seanmick3093 4 дні тому

    I trusted in the Lord of Jesus Christ as my personal savior into my heart through faith alone, and not of works, by accepting his free gift of salvation, by his grace on February 16, 1996, each day, I confess sins for process of sanctification, to receive Jesus Christ as your personal savior, please refer to Matthew 10:28, John 3:16-18:36, 5:24, 6:37:47, 10:27-29, 14:6, Acts 2:38, 10:44-48, 16:30-31, Luke 15:10, Romans 1:16, 3:23, 4:5, 6:23, 10:9-10:13, Ephesians 2:8-10, and Titus 3:5. God bless the world, and thank you for sharing.

  • @salescustomer-service2050
    @salescustomer-service2050 4 дні тому +1

    But what about where Jesus says to help your enemies?

    • @Matthew_008
      @Matthew_008 4 дні тому +3

      “But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust.” Matthew‬ ‭5‬:‭44‬-‭45‬ ‭NKJV‬

  • @AnathiMzolo-w7s
    @AnathiMzolo-w7s 4 дні тому

    I got a few of these traits (changing it tho)

  • @Rosy-r4r4m
    @Rosy-r4r4m 4 дні тому

    Could you talk about the people that has something tied to there feet people???

  • @chermagnewright5517
    @chermagnewright5517 2 дні тому

    💙 🙏

  • @jessicarodriguez6276
    @jessicarodriguez6276 4 дні тому

    💯💯💯

  • @bridgettedavey4422
    @bridgettedavey4422 4 дні тому

    I wanna know if im wrong, so i can correct it

  • @saviour1jesus
    @saviour1jesus 4 дні тому

    Yah

  • @saviour1jesus
    @saviour1jesus 4 дні тому

    Mood

  • @Kwabgives
    @Kwabgives 4 дні тому

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @joshuaholmes5096
    @joshuaholmes5096 4 дні тому

    Marc what happened to the subs? Did you get hacked? The last video I saw you had 800k now you have 78k?

  • @LoganB-g4q
    @LoganB-g4q 4 дні тому +3

    These are symptoms of deeper issues. Stop being lazy and help your "friends" instead of talking about them on youtube. Smh

  • @LoganB-g4q
    @LoganB-g4q 4 дні тому +1

    Ok lets see if a "christian" on this channel can give me some wise advice. The Va said theres nothing wrong with me. But i cant breath at night. I went to a doc gor blood work and he said nothing. Im pretty sure my heart is messed up bc of many reasons personsl to me and there is history thru my family of heart failure. Im not sleeping enough to work healthy at my job. I do a job and my body gets run into the ground. I quit because i either have pain in my neck or chest or im just so tired to do anything. The besr thing i do is try to get peace b4 but i still am tired even with decent sleep. I also live where i have severe cptsd. Everythings getting worsd. Im only 27. Ive worked my butt off with little to show spending my money on things i need or try to fix me it doesnt work. Tell me genius. If your so smart marc give me a damn solution. I have no money health. No one gives a damn about anyone.

    • @LoganB-g4q
      @LoganB-g4q 4 дні тому

      You just got it EEEAASSYY Brother. Smh

    • @Matthew_008
      @Matthew_008 4 дні тому

      @@LoganB-g4q ​​⁠ Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time, casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you. 1 Peter 5:6-7 NKJV

    • @Matthew_008
      @Matthew_008 4 дні тому +2

      @@LoganB-g4q “And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.” Romans‬ ‭8‬:‭28‬ NKJV‬‬

    • @Matthew_008
      @Matthew_008 4 дні тому +1

      @@LoganB-g4q “Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time, casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you.” 1 Peter‬ ‭5‬:‭6‬-‭7‬ ‭NKJV‬

    • @LoganB-g4q
      @LoganB-g4q 4 дні тому

      @Matthew_008 great another bible verse. 🥷would you say that to a child with cancer? Don't say that to me. Or someone with leprosy would you say that with someone with no hope and leprosy? Don't ever do that again...

  • @MarekSzmidt-o7j
    @MarekSzmidt-o7j 3 дні тому

    what about fog

  • @nathanthegreat3750
    @nathanthegreat3750 4 дні тому

    Amen and Amen I am careful of who I help or advice someone I could study people pretty easy I would like to work with people anytime it just depends on what .