Judge Lynn Toler you have made a difference to so many, thank you for your dedication to healing the broken...may you be blessed always as we have been blessed by your wisdom.
Some men think being the financial provider means being a dictator who commands his wife like she’s a servant. But, like Judge Lynn said in this age you’ll just get nothing if you act like a parent to your wife instead of treating her as an equal partner. If you’re not satisfied with her housewife skills tell her to find a job and do your own chores.
Men and women are not equal. Women don't even want equality like they say. Everytime it gets hard for a woman they blame men for thier own actions. Women thinking thier equal to men typically stay single n die alone struggling to death. Men run this world. The husband supposed be the head n the wife supposed to support him as in she is his neck. She should learn to do the chores because if she don't then she going to be a horrible mother to that kid because she can't do chores to clean up that kid especially if he working n paying the bills. Right now he the only one working so she should clean the house. Even if she was working then she still should do it because she not going to help shovel the snow fix the water pipes or fix the septic problems. Yes he should help here n there inside the home if both are working.
Grown ups in these comments stay saying that people are getting married way too young but fail to realize that yall (our parents) and society has been pushing marriage and children on us since we were kids 😪
Are we? Education, live life in your 20s isn’t something most younger folks aren’t told? I don’t think us old ppl are saying get married and have kids right out of high school
@@st3psp8 no, older people in the family will be like- when am I going to get grandkids- have you and so and so been trying- im getting older you know- when are you getting married you're not getting any younger. Maybe you have became blind to it our your family is not that way but a lot are
A women definitely should get married young because at 30 a woman is old if you want kids or the woman been partying her 20s away and end up with kids that no man want to take care of. 80 percent of the women eggs is gone by 35. Geriatric Pregnancy is not ideal. Yes some women have healthy babies after that age but alot less then a 20 year old. There more health issues with Geriatric Pregnancy and I tell the younger men I'm around don't put no baby in an women 30 years or older.
I don't think he is being honest. First of all I like how people are forgetting he just got a job....knowing she is pregnant with his child and he got mad because she told his parents they will be grandparents???!! Well Duh she's pregnant. Carrying a child is 24/7 job we have no idea what's going on with her pregnancy, she can be going through something. I was one of the people who would say "you pregnant not handicap" but if you have never been pregnant you have no say so because you have no experience. Those who have and had a smooth pregnancy good for you but some don't. Evey pregnancy is different.
I’m not saying he’s a saint by any means but y’all acting like she’s not a little nutty and childish too. She still goes through his phone dude isn’t cheating. Y’all feeding y’all owns insecurities. She sees him doing better and with a job and she’s constantly deflecting because of how she’s coming up short. He is coming up short too but again so is she. You might not be thinking but I think calling someone’s parents and telling them they’re gonna be a grand parent is kinda rude. If they are gonna be grand parents .... cool they can tell them together. There might be reasons why he didn’t say things to his folks. Someone’s SO should not be informing someone’s parents telling them that without that person unless that person is denying, dead, prison.
They both described puppy love, now their pregnant with adult issues and no communication skills. They do have more in common than some grown grown people I've seen on this show in the past ijs Great advise Judge Toler 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@Christine Pinder she's simply stating her opinion....she's entitled. This new judge doesnt have the experience to give insightful info as of yet. She just got married!
This defendant is obviously a cheater with his phone. He blames everyone for everything but himself. Take accountability for your actions! Both are way too young and need to grow up! I feel the baby will change the plaintiff by being a mom. The dad will continue to be an immature hot head until she gets sick of putting up with it. I would love to see an update of how they're doing. Something like Couples Court does.
They act more like friends then partners and also about to become parents. They need to grow up quickly and start acting like adults.. This isnt a relationship at all. Just a friendship with benefits.
I'm new to Divorce Court. I made the pleasant discovery looking for a court show to watch in addition to Judge Judy. What's this talk about comparing Judge Lynn to Judge Faith? Is she taking over Divorce Court?
@@aaliyah3833 Thank you for the reply! I'm saddened that Judge Lynn left. I'm binge watching both the new and old episodes and I agree that she gives great advice and is very relatable. I would rather see Mr & Mrs Cutler from Couples Court do Divorce Court rather than Judge Faith. I like her but she definitely isn't Judge Lynn. Edited for spelling
These two have no business being engaged I'm sorry! Too young judge Lynn always says 21 is for bring silly, finding yourself and exploring the world! Shitttt come on now it seems like the centenials (the generation coming up now) 😥🥺🥺🥺it's very disturbing though good grief! ,😫😫🙄🙄🙄🙄We not perfect as people but dang! She look like she got low self esteem and when the judge read all of the things he says to her which were negative? Why marry him then! I just don't understand at all! Make it make sense!
These two are BABIES themselves!!! Now she's pregnant! So what is wrong with this? A HELL OF A LOT!!! They are immature have no money and are way too young! What was the rush to get pregnant therefore no need to get married would be needed. What a MESS!!! Who knows if these very young people will make it they should have WAITED!!! Maybe Judge Lynn can help them they sure as heck need some!!°!!!
No personal responsibility on either part, not mature, not able to tell what it is that makes one another the ONE to marry. Don’t qualify to be married, but I’m not being asked, so... 🤷🏾♀️
I dont like that the judge put him down with his love pitch. It was meaningful and honest. She just punched holes into it. Yes he needs to grow up but she asked what he loved about her.
What experience judge Faith need, does she have to go through verbal physical emotional and all the abuses to have experience, Judge Lyn Toler started at age 27, why do people try to hold down a person, if its your relative you would go on social media and ask people to listen, can't please all the people all the time.
Is that "Tanya Pickens" behind the wife in the audience? Tanya played on above the rim. She has the gray jacket on, mushroom hairstyle,...it looks like her to me...
This is a young couple who are entering a relationship in a hurry because she's pregnant. They will need support to help their relationship become stable.
What do ppl think marriage is ? Oh god no, do not get married rn. & he keeps blaming everything on her ! Take responsibility! & her profession of love sucked ! She kept saying “use to be”
I'm not all the way in but, I hate when stay at home women say the reason they can't keep up with things is because I'm looking for a job or im pregnant or I have children to look after. Women have been taking care of their entire home since the beginning of time. There is no excuse not to clean your home or have some food for your man. Conversely, men not working have no excuse for not taking care of their home. People are just lazy and full of excuses on why they can't do the things that people have been doing forever!
Black folks love talking about being too young to get married yet are the least to be married. Waiting to long will ruin your chances for marriage if that's your goal and women after 30-35 are almost never to be married.
i’d marry him just to get the last name. anything to do w american horror story id gladly marry you. ESPECIALLY if your last middle or first name is JAMES, MARCH, CORTEZ
Judge Lynn Toler you have made a difference to so many, thank you for your dedication to healing the broken...may you be blessed always as we have been blessed by your wisdom.
I will miss u!! You can never be replaced
The entire time toler was explaining his shortcomings to him, he was nodding but you can tell hes literally just waiting for her to stop talking.
Some men think being the financial provider means being a dictator who commands his wife like she’s a servant. But, like Judge Lynn said in this age you’ll just get nothing if you act like a parent to your wife instead of treating her as an equal partner. If you’re not satisfied with her housewife skills tell her to find a job and do your own chores.
That's easy to say when the woman is only bringing a sharp tongue to the relationship...
Men and women are not equal. Women don't even want equality like they say. Everytime it gets hard for a woman they blame men for thier own actions. Women thinking thier equal to men typically stay single n die alone struggling to death. Men run this world. The husband supposed be the head n the wife supposed to support him as in she is his neck. She should learn to do the chores because if she don't then she going to be a horrible mother to that kid because she can't do chores to clean up that kid especially if he working n paying the bills. Right now he the only one working so she should clean the house. Even if she was working then she still should do it because she not going to help shovel the snow fix the water pipes or fix the septic problems. Yes he should help here n there inside the home if both are working.
Grown ups in these comments stay saying that people are getting married way too young but fail to realize that yall (our parents) and society has been pushing marriage and children on us since we were kids 😪
@@feitme 😂😂😂
Are we? Education, live life in your 20s isn’t something most younger folks aren’t told? I don’t think us old ppl are saying get married and have kids right out of high school
@@st3psp8 no, older people in the family will be like- when am I going to get grandkids- have you and so and so been trying- im getting older you know- when are you getting married you're not getting any younger. Maybe you have became blind to it our your family is not that way but a lot are
I felt that!!
A women definitely should get married young because at 30 a woman is old if you want kids or the woman been partying her 20s away and end up with kids that no man want to take care of. 80 percent of the women eggs is gone by 35. Geriatric Pregnancy is not ideal. Yes some women have healthy babies after that age but alot less then a 20 year old. There more health issues with Geriatric Pregnancy and I tell the younger men I'm around don't put no baby in an women 30 years or older.
I think she only wants to get married because they have a child. There’s no spark between them at all 😩 they seem very uninterested in each other
Fr
Judge Lynn Toler is a Lawyer, Judge and an Author..📚
Also a mom, a spouse, a friend and, most of all, a role model!
Been watching DC for years, don’t know if I can watch w/out Judge Lynn, will miss her wisdom for sure
It seems like Mr. Cortez wants a playmate, not a partner.
Because he's 21 playing house
The two are not mutuality exclusive
She got pregnant thinking things would change...wrong on so many levels now they both feel trapped.
th1smomentisfate kids are not born with jobs ppl don’t get that.
@@nickeynyce7137 duh kids cant work, but a child does deserve a household with both parents, if applicable.
I don't think he is being honest. First of all I like how people are forgetting he just got a job....knowing she is pregnant with his child and he got mad because she told his parents they will be grandparents???!! Well Duh she's pregnant. Carrying a child is 24/7 job we have no idea what's going on with her pregnancy, she can be going through something. I was one of the people who would say "you pregnant not handicap" but if you have never been pregnant you have no say so because you have no experience. Those who have and had a smooth pregnancy good for you but some don't. Evey pregnancy is different.
Sometimes being pregnant feels like a job 😂 I'm 7mo and can't wait to push this baby out.
I’m not saying he’s a saint by any means but y’all acting like she’s not a little nutty and childish too. She still goes through his phone dude isn’t cheating. Y’all feeding y’all owns insecurities. She sees him doing better and with a job and she’s constantly deflecting because of how she’s coming up short. He is coming up short too but again so is she. You might not be thinking but I think calling someone’s parents and telling them they’re gonna be a grand parent is kinda rude. If they are gonna be grand parents .... cool they can tell them together. There might be reasons why he didn’t say things to his folks. Someone’s SO should not be informing someone’s parents telling them that without that person unless that person is denying, dead, prison.
Yeah God. Try throwing up water for three months, nauseated by the smell of toothpaste, swollen feet, eating pickles and ice cream etc.
They don't have a relationship, they have an entanglement! 😂
They both described puppy love, now their pregnant with adult issues and no communication skills. They do have more in common than some grown grown people I've seen on this show in the past ijs
Great advise Judge Toler 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Who's still watching old episodes in 2021 😍
I'm watching in 2023
@@bihtazuh6601 YESSSS 💖💖
Well Said Mrs Toler, on point.
You're great if you can cook for your wife once in a while, you're Greater if you also do the dishes. 😘
@TheGamingStar I said once in a while can't you read???
@TheGamingStar you don't have a wife your wife left.
Judge Faith could never be Judge Lynn Toler.....
Never!!!
She has very little experience
@Christine Pinder she's simply stating her opinion....she's entitled.
This new judge doesnt have the experience to give insightful info as of yet. She just got married!
Christine Pinder 🤣🤣
You're absolutely correct, she can only be Faith. Don't try to compare.
Is @Christine Pinder your real name ?
“Can you help me....” translation “this isn’t my job so you should really be doing it”
The logic behind "hey let's turn this shitty relationship into a marriage so it gets better" is incomprehensible to me.
Pics of judge Faith means the transition smh
Great advice
I love you.
This defendant is obviously a cheater with his phone. He blames everyone for everything but himself. Take accountability for your actions! Both are way too young and need to grow up! I feel the baby will change the plaintiff by being a mom. The dad will continue to be an immature hot head until she gets sick of putting up with it. I would love to see an update of how they're doing. Something like Couples Court does.
When a dude says you bring out the worse in him... Best to leave.. cause he can't even own his own attitude
They act more like friends then partners and also about to become parents. They need to grow up quickly and start acting like adults.. This isnt a relationship at all. Just a friendship with benefits.
OMG they changed the profile picture. I thought I was ready for this but..its such a reality check. Goodbye Judge Lynn and good Luck Judge Faith.
Great advice Judge! I hope this couple makes it.
They're communicating well, they can be a good couple.
So many things to work on.
I’m gonna miss Judge Lynn! Judge Faith has some big footsteps to follow but i think she’ll do great. Nobody is Judge Lynn tho. nobodyyyyy.
Divorce Court has some amusing episode titles.
I'm new to Divorce Court. I made the pleasant discovery looking for a court show to watch in addition to Judge Judy. What's this talk about comparing Judge Lynn to Judge Faith? Is she taking over Divorce Court?
@@aaliyah3833 Thank you for the reply! I'm saddened that Judge Lynn left. I'm binge watching both the new and old episodes and I agree that she gives great advice and is very relatable. I would rather see Mr & Mrs Cutler from Couples Court do Divorce Court rather than Judge Faith. I like her but she definitely isn't Judge Lynn. Edited for spelling
These two have no business being engaged I'm sorry! Too young judge Lynn always says 21 is for bring silly, finding yourself and exploring the world! Shitttt come on now it seems like the centenials (the generation coming up now) 😥🥺🥺🥺it's very disturbing though good grief! ,😫😫🙄🙄🙄🙄We not perfect as people but dang! She look like she got low self esteem and when the judge read all of the things he says to her which were negative? Why marry him then! I just don't understand at all! Make it make sense!
Too young, too young, both of u!!
Go separate, and grow about 10yrs more!
Facts
These two are BABIES themselves!!! Now she's pregnant! So what is wrong with this? A HELL OF A LOT!!! They are immature have no money and are way too young! What was the rush to get pregnant therefore no need to get married would be needed. What a MESS!!! Who knows if these very young people will make it they should have WAITED!!! Maybe Judge Lynn can help them they sure as heck need some!!°!!!
Judge Lynn:
You Are Right & Exact!
Good lord, video games??? Omg she needs to run!!
2 adults how dirty can it be? Dang!
That's just man and woman with NO home training.
These kids aren't ready for parenthood, clearly but kudos to them for trying to do the right thing.
No personal responsibility on either part, not mature, not able to tell what it is that makes one another the ONE to marry. Don’t qualify to be married, but I’m not being asked, so... 🤷🏾♀️
21 in the UK seems so different to 21 in the US like these seem like immature 17 year olds. Lol
I love divorce court it really keeps me happy and single
Nooo they should not get married
He is not mature enought
This woman pick a boy to have children with & mary .. not a man 🤣😂🤣
Yikes. Everything flies over their head. Duh
I dont like that the judge put him down with his love pitch. It was meaningful and honest. She just punched holes into it. Yes he needs to grow up but she asked what he loved about her.
Judge faith doesn’t have enough experience. She just got married this year!
What does Judge Faith have to do with this case? And Divorce Court because this is Judge Toler.
Exactly!!!
K.A Williams she is replacing Judge Toler on divorce court
If you want more judge toler follow her to marriage bootcamp where her wisdom will work wonders🤷🏿♀️
What experience judge Faith need, does she have to go through verbal physical emotional and all the abuses to have experience, Judge Lyn Toler started at age 27, why do people try to hold down a person, if its your relative you would go on social media and ask people to listen, can't please all the people all the time.
Why is Judge Faith's picture on Divorce Court's Avi right now?!?
Can you help me wash some clothes?? Like i help you press the button on the machine? LOL people are too funny! XD
They were playing house and got caught up
Barely even able to legally drink and havin a child.
Such a shame. Also love how he said he loves her because she plays video games lol.
Don't say of course
👏 BRAVO!!👏👏
Do they understand there is more to marriage then sex.
I hate dishes in the sink
I am waiting for a woman to accept responsibility that they might be wrong.
Is that "Tanya Pickens" behind the wife in the audience? Tanya played on above the rim. She has the gray jacket on, mushroom hairstyle,...it looks like her to me...
This is a young couple who are entering a relationship in a hurry because she's pregnant. They will need support to help their relationship become stable.
Break up and co parent ok
It's like someone farted the face the guy behind her is pulling at 13:27 😂
😂😂😂 lmbo!
Most couples fight for power & control
What do ppl think marriage is ? Oh god no, do not get married rn. & he keeps blaming everything on her ! Take responsibility! & her profession of love sucked ! She kept saying “use to be”
These two are extremely immature. Since she is pregnant they need extreme counseling.
Please change the picture to the proper judge. Judge Jenkins has her own channel which I also watch.
We wan judge LYNN TOLERRRRRRRR😩
I'm not all the way in but, I hate when stay at home women say the reason they can't keep up with things is because I'm looking for a job or im pregnant or I have children to look after. Women have been taking care of their entire home since the beginning of time. There is no excuse not to clean your home or have some food for your man. Conversely, men not working have no excuse for not taking care of their home. People are just lazy and full of excuses on why they can't do the things that people have been doing forever!
They look like brother and sister. 😐
That’s what I thought,
they look related.
I was like is that her son? 😆
When does the new season start ?
Phillippe Jean-Marie august i think
She is stunning.
She’s really beautiful woman
Hope its a boy she will be raising 2 young boys ...
Why y'all ladies wanna check your mennnn cell phones??👩⚖💋😁
Black folks love talking about being too young to get married yet are the least to be married. Waiting to long will ruin your chances for marriage if that's your goal and women after 30-35 are almost never to be married.
How can a wife be a help mate if she isn't working?
If they can make baby they not too young. They are immature she is lazy and he is tired of her.
Agree. Only bc she is pregnant doesnt mean she is disabled. She can still wash dishes in a house of 2 even if she goes out to look for a job.
15 can make a baby.
They are too young.
Young and boring. NEXT CASE PLEASE
They are annoying
Is that takashi69 before the fame?
in front of me today i have two kid-
fUCK
Leaving dishes in the sink and keeping the house dirty, that's Nasty! Yuk!
i’d marry him just to get the last name. anything to do w american horror story id gladly marry you. ESPECIALLY if your last middle or first name is JAMES, MARCH, CORTEZ
Remind me of a 69 Before a Rapper.
This show is bloody terrible. Why is it called Divorce Court when they aren't even married??