Shaykh conducted my nikaah at CICT almost 9 years ago Allaahumma Baarik. Glad to see these kinds of discussions with him. I was wondering if it's possible to do a sit down discussion with Shaykh on polygamy. I know it's a touchy subject but would like to see his insights.
22:00 Mothers have a lot of jealousy with their sons' wives, similar to the fathers' jealousy for his daughters. 1:05:00 I think married couples donˋt talk as much about the beauty in marriage, and single people only hear about the problems, so we develop a lot of fear in commitment, due to the fear of failure. 1:18:15 For myself, I had to approach my parents and say, "A brother approached me and wrote down these things about himself. I like these things. May I speak with him and find out more about him?" And this was where my parents stepped in. 1:19:50 Just remain stern with your family that you won't have music played at your wedding. There is no obedience to people where there is disobedience to Allah.
One thing also if you don’t know how her father would react you should get an older person you know (an uncle for example) and tell the uncle to get on board as well just in case to talk to him.
I have 2 son's now in their 30's still looking for a girl for marriage the problem with the girls is too fussy, to many conditions too high expectations and don't want to leave the area where they live.
@@chagzyahya My son's been trying for about 10 years he's now almost 36 years and still most of the girls/women want guys who are tall and mostly doctors or in that category, actually he's given up now sick of being let down which has obviously bothered his health.
You guys at the start of every video be lowering your heads & holding your laughter😂. It is adorable; one can def tell you are young knowledge seekers. The older sheikh was sitting there calm & still while y’all couldn’t contain yourselves. That being said, there are some things that this sheikh mentioned that I have major disagreements with. Some are rude and not true; he overgeneralized in certain points.
Praise be to Allah. Firstly: It is permissible for a woman to take part in public chat rooms, if she adheres to the following guidelines: She should only participate as much as is necessary, so she should pose a question or state the topic, then leave, and not comment unless there is a need for that, because the basic principle is that she should avoid speaking to men or mixing with them. There should be nothing in her words that could provoke fitnah (temptation), such as joking, speaking softly, or laughing, such as writing “hahahahahaha”, as mentioned in the question, or using smiley emojis, because that could lead to coveting on the part of those in whose hearts is disease, as Allah, may He be glorified, says (interpretation of the meaning): “O wives of the Prophet, you are not like anyone among women. If you fear Allah, then do not be soft in speech [to men], lest he in whose heart is disease should covet, but speak with appropriate speech” [al-Ahzaab 33:32]. She should avoid giving out her email address or corresponding via private messages with any man, even if that is for the purpose of seeking help, because of what such correspondence often leads to of attachment and temptation. See the answers to question no. 34841 . It is preferable and better for a woman to participate only in all-female chat rooms. This is safer for her. There are many such chat rooms, and that is better and sufficient. But if she needs to participate in public chat rooms, then it is better for her to choose a screen name that does not indicate that she is female. And Allah knows best. Source:IslamQa
More episodes with ustadh in shaa Allāh
Yeah I agree
The episode we’ve been waiting for 👀
Mashallah the Ustad is a very interactive positive role model to these youth.May Allah perserve him.
GREAT topic to be discussed andd EVERYONE is on the panel plusssss Ustadh Abdulwahid is there can’t wait to watch this
This will be of benefit to all In’Sha’Allah!
I think everyone has been waiting for this episode🤭
just a reminder to lower the gaze throughout the video women are walking by in the background
👍🏽what a reminder
Allahumma barik.💪💪💪💪💪
Masha’Allah, seems to cover lots of sub-topics, looking forward to watching this!
Levelss! Masha’Allah! Such a beneficial video
Shaykh conducted my nikaah at CICT almost 9 years ago Allaahumma Baarik. Glad to see these kinds of discussions with him.
I was wondering if it's possible to do a sit down discussion with Shaykh on polygamy. I know it's a touchy subject but would like to see his insights.
22:00 Mothers have a lot of jealousy with their sons' wives, similar to the fathers' jealousy for his daughters.
1:05:00 I think married couples donˋt talk as much about the beauty in marriage, and single people only hear about the problems, so we develop a lot of fear in commitment, due to the fear of failure.
1:18:15 For myself, I had to approach my parents and say, "A brother approached me and wrote down these things about himself. I like these things. May I speak with him and find out more about him?" And this was where my parents stepped in.
1:19:50 Just remain stern with your family that you won't have music played at your wedding. There is no obedience to people where there is disobedience to Allah.
may i ask in what way did the brother approach you as in social media/work/etc. جزاك الله خير
One thing also if you don’t know how her father would react you should get an older person you know (an uncle for example) and tell the uncle to get on board as well just in case to talk to him.
Getting married through social media it's a easy way to get divorced
Allah knows best but it defo isn't the smartest method especially with how easy it is to create a fake persona.
جزاك الله خيرا !!!!
Can you post these videos as audio only on audea? would really appreciate just the audio! love your stuff btw, keep pushing out content!
They're on podcast platforms
السلام عليكم
Can I ask where is this garden?
Omar is the best one there
I have 2 son's now in their 30's still looking for a girl for marriage the problem with the girls is too fussy, to many conditions too high expectations and don't want to leave the area where they live.
@@chagzyahya My son's been trying for about 10 years he's now almost 36 years and still most of the girls/women want guys who are tall and mostly doctors or in that category, actually he's given up now sick of being let down which has obviously bothered his health.
You guys at the start of every video be lowering your heads & holding your laughter😂. It is adorable; one can def tell you are young knowledge seekers. The older sheikh was sitting there calm & still while y’all couldn’t contain yourselves.
That being said, there are some things that this sheikh mentioned that I have major disagreements with. Some are rude and not true; he overgeneralized in certain points.
I’m interested to hear what those major things that you don’t agree with are
even from those people liking her comment
Praise be to Allah.
Firstly:
It is permissible for a woman to take part in public chat rooms, if she adheres to the following guidelines:
She should only participate as much as is necessary, so she should pose a question or state the topic, then leave, and not comment unless there is a need for that, because the basic principle is that she should avoid speaking to men or mixing with them.
There should be nothing in her words that could provoke fitnah (temptation), such as joking, speaking softly, or laughing, such as writing “hahahahahaha”, as mentioned in the question, or using smiley emojis, because that could lead to coveting on the part of those in whose hearts is disease, as Allah, may He be glorified, says (interpretation of the meaning): “O wives of the Prophet, you are not like anyone among women. If you fear Allah, then do not be soft in speech [to men], lest he in whose heart is disease should covet, but speak with appropriate speech” [al-Ahzaab 33:32].
She should avoid giving out her email address or corresponding via private messages with any man, even if that is for the purpose of seeking help, because of what such correspondence often leads to of attachment and temptation. See the answers to question no. 34841 .
It is preferable and better for a woman to participate only in all-female chat rooms. This is safer for her. There are many such chat rooms, and that is better and sufficient. But if she needs to participate in public chat rooms, then it is better for her to choose a screen name that does not indicate that she is female.
And Allah knows best.
Source:IslamQa