When I moved to Germany to study and at some point decided to get out of the comfort zone of my expat community, I quickly realised that not many people are interested in a friendship with someone who isn't fluent in their mother tongue. I did know German quite well before coming to the country but I was taught a very academic form of it and couldn't understand any of the slang and had difficulties with the local accent. Apparently, when you take 5 minutes to formulate a sentence, many get tired before you finish it :D They were polite about it but were certainly not receptive to my attempts to befriend them. What helped a lot, was finding a hobby I was good at and making friends within that circle first. Since I was good at that hobby, people wanted to communicate with me, exchange ideas and gossip about others. And therefore, they were willing to wait till I get my words together. Particularly, when having a one on one conversation. And once the fluency was there, I had no trouble communicating with anyone. It doesn't mean that attending social events doesn't make sense, if you can only smile and nod. I made a point of going out to almost any such event and meeting people even if it was awkward as hell and even if I did not manage to move past "hello" and "goodbye" during the whole evening. Listening to many different people helped me get used to the accents and the slang. It is exhausting (especially for an introvert like myself) but it's worth it in the long run. If you frame it as "I have a wonderful opportunity to work on the language and maybe meet interesting people", it helps a lot to lift the burden of "I'm a lonely expat and the locals don't like me" ;)
Ich vermisse Deutschland >< yeah It's better to be first a "social butterfly" where interactions are shorter at first to have time to adapt before moving in deep conversation when you just arrived. I remember when half of my sentences were mimics. People were doing jokes to me and i had to pretend to understand them to not break social momentum xD
As French, I can tell you I LOVE discussing with foreign people, I find it so interesting to learn their story and to help them learning our language and our culture ! So I totally agree with you on the "you have to make French friends" part. We are very curious, so this difference you can feel like a weight is actually the reason we're drawn to you in the first place ! Don't be shy guys 💪🏼
more than being shy or naive, don't pretend to be it (even if you are). Frenchs are not kind with people who don't seem to have an "opinion on how live should be lived " xD. That's why they're scolding ! As a french guy i feel shame for sexual, administration and opinion harass ! >< PS: And always remember, Paris is not France...
ahah that's not that hard ^^ it's like hot and cold you get atuned to the climate of the country xD it's like everything downside are what i mentionned but there also good things like curiosity, openessity and lot of deep intelectuals conversations. they're a lot of difference too in france itself. Paris is not like the south, and same for old french and young french differences. We're more chill we don't "scold". a typic french quote is "i don't agree with you but i'm ready to die to let you say what you think" ^^ c'est la vie. We just like to go deep into things. where are you from ?
@@etistyle96 I was born in Florida and now reside in Washington D.C. I have travelled all over my country (it is huge) and the world (except Asia). I am here because I had many good experiences visiting all over the EU and when I arrived in Paris, was so disappointed & confused by so many things. Rosie's channel has helped me understand that many of the things I was observing & experiencing were authentic. I am learning a lot! And you?
@@jnewmark41 Ahah i understand ! To be fair, i don't mean "Paris is not from France" but i mean Paris is not the "all" France. It's a very specific atmosphere that i personnaly don't like it and i just imagine a foreigner that come first in france and stay only in Paris to taste France, i prefer to warn him. ^^ I have family in Paris and i have traveled in a lot of country too (i've even lived in germany for a while) and i know for sure that i could live almost everywhere where i'm gone but not Paris. I've learn a lot on Rosie's channel. Particulary about why we're grumpy and about differences like our great curiosity. Because i'm french, there is so many things that i didn't noticed on my country and discovered here. In france we have poor education on specific subjectif at school and more a general learning. That's why we don't have a good level on average but we're realy open minded on so many subjects. France is a pyramidal country. We try to be better than each other. Sometimes it's good because of healthy competition but sometimes not. The problem is our "low-risk mentality". We rely a lot on "safety" like socials helps and a lot on safety-mentality movement and that's a good point on one hand and in the other one we're "poor risk-taker". We couldn't have things like a "French Elon Musk": Too much social pressure, too poor margin for errors and liberties. I would like to go in USA ^^ me and my brother should have gone there but it was canceled because of the global situation with the virus. what did you learn on france ? were you on Paris ?
As a French person, I do think the French are too comfortable with scolding strangers and passing judgement. I definitely think there are times when it's appropriate to tell someone they're doing something wrong or inconviniencing others, but there's often a bit too much of a sense of entitlement attached to it
très bien dit. Je pense que la raison pour laquelle tant d'Américains n'aiment pas les Français est parce que beaucoup de ces choses, ici, sont considérées comme grossières, inappropriées et méchantes. Nous sommes des gens très différents.
I met my french boyfriend in Australia and I noticed how organized and on point he was with his documents, i thought that was just him. We live in France now and I finally get it.
Weird to say that but.... i'm a french citizen from New-Caledonia currently studying in Paris, and your videos does help me to understand the mentality and cultural gap between France's mainland and its overseas territories. So thank you very much for that.
As a French guy I can say that this is spot on. Rosie you did a great job here. These are all so true, especially the "know general facts about your country" one, I would definitely ask these kind of questions 😅
Reminds of the time when I did my military service in Germany through a NATO exchange (I'm Dutch ), whenever I had a night shift and the cleaning lady came in the morning I asked her if I could practice my German with her. That proved to be a masterstroke because through her I could escape the Dutch 'bubble' and my introduction into German society.
The point about "no doesn't always mean no" is *so true* . I have lived in Paris for almost 18 years and one thing I have noticed about French people, particularly those in positions of some sort of power like postal workers, immigration clerks, customer service agents, etc, they absolutely LOVE telling people, "no" and refusing people things. And not only that, they all make up their own rules about policies so one person might say one thing and another might say something completely different even though they work at the same company or organization. I have finally gotten used to the fact that how you get information or get things done in France can totally depend on who you have to deal with that day. But yeah, they defintiely love telling me people, "no". Refusal is an automatic reflex that many French people have for some reason.
@@jnewmark41 Même les français se plaignent de cette characteristique chez les français. C'est uniquement en France que j'ai entendu les français qui décrivent leur propre pays comme, "la France: le pays qui dit 'non' " les français ont une réputation pour dire "non" tout de suite et puis ils discutent pourquoi. On peut toujours reconnaître ce trait chez les français et être aussi francophile. Le monde n'est pas noir et blanc. Il y a plein de belles choses en France et je trouve formidables les français mais cela ne veut dire pas qu'on ne peut pas discuter les points qui ne sont pas très agréables.
@@christopherdieudonne Je pense que vous avez fait un excellent point. Merci d'avoir partagé ça! Cela nous donne quelque chose à discuter au lieu de nous appeler les uns les autres. Pouvez-vous comprendre mon français? Est-ce très mauvais?
Loved what you had to say about just spending the money to master French. I struggled for the longest time to hire a tutor and have someone as a support to guide me through it because I wanted to be "self-taught", but in all honesty, that route would've taken me years instead of months and brought along so much uncertainty and confusion if I was doing all I could to progress. Seeing your "get fluent fast" video with your tutor was what pulled the trigger for me to get a tutor, because if you did it with help and got C1, I could too. You're right--just spend the money--it gave me so much peace of mind and gave me assurance I was on the right path!
I have moved six times as an adult - mostly within Canada. In each case, I have found that it takes on average 2-years before you are really comfortable - you know where everything is located, you are comfortable with community lingo and traditions, you know more people than the staff at the stores where you shop, where you begin to have lunch with people. All of these things are easier if you have a spouse or small children, or the language is the same... even then, you might have a coffee with them but it can still take years before you are invited into peoples homes. Its hard work and you are the one that has to make the effort - you have to get out there and get involved in the community - join sports/social clubs, got to the coffee shop, join book clubs, take classes, meet the expats, make professional connections. Its a lot of work. Personally I enjoy the process.
I moved to paris almost three years ago now to do my undergraduate degree, and i wish i knew how difficult and slow administrative tasks were and that it’s really your responsibility to figure out what you need to do/have and no one is going to sit you down and explain it nicely and clearly haha. I love the french don’t get me wrong, but any official administrative process is exhausting!
@@NotEvenFrench you know the expression, "hurt people hurt people?" Maybe it is related to that. It sounds like there are a lot of people on the autistic spectrum....facts, data, being rigid....maybe it is genetic??
@@NotEvenFrench Rosie, je suis vraiment désolée que vous ayez dû vivre ça! Vous avez vécu tellement de choses pendant votre séjour à Paris. Vous devez être très heureux d'être chez vous dans la belle Nouvelle-Zélande!
@@NotEvenFrench you know what I would do Rosie? I would study like crazy to memorize every detail about French facts so I could get into a heated debate and win every point....just for fun!! It sounds like arguing is an art...
I met my French boyfriend in my home City of Toronto Canada and he was so socked that I didn’t know the population of Toronto and of Canada. He thought I was so bizarre not knowing any of this. I told him that most ppl dont know this here. He didn’t believe me so he actually went up to complete strangers and asked them. All 4 ppl he asked had no clue as well. He was not impressed at all.
Les français vont vous faire remarquer votre manque de connaissance, alors qu'eux-mêmes ne sont pas toujours très au point sur l'histoire de leur propre pays!
@MrTherealpad Non pas tout le monde. j'aurais dû dire "certains" français, pas "les" français en général. Loin de moi l'idée de "Basher" mon pays. Détester la France c'est dommage.
It's interesting to see my own country through your eyes, 'cause as I've always been living here (I confess, I'm a French male), I have grown up with some of these elements as "normal". You begin with administrations (& La Poste has been built & managed like an administration itself) where (some) people don't feel they have to serve the general public, they just do their job but don't need to roll up their sleeves to do it right. So, before starting procedures, I make my own research so that I don't request people to help me, I just ask the forms I need to fill, I tell them what to do with them... so that I don't take the risk they just say "c'est pas possible", 'cause it would be the easiest answer they can give me. To be honest, most of those who work in administrations are goodwill people and make their best to help. Being a stranger makes you an ambassador for your country, in our eyes, indeed. As we learn many details of France geography & demography in school, it's understandable we show our interest in other's country by asking these so we have elements of comparison. And as we are often taught not to speak loud, not to disturb others in public places, French people have a tendency to feel like "educating" strangers as soon as they spot they are aliens. Sorry... Not every place is safe, especially in large cities, especially in Paris. Walking alone in the metro, especially late, is not advised. As a male, I've never had issues but: - female friends reported they had issues or felt they could have had issues - I probably never put myself in "dangerous" situations - I've certainly been lucky Always keep an eye (and a hand) on your belongings in the metro. If you genuinely want to learn French, make activities (not having a drink, true activities) in French-only groups. People will enjoy sharing their passion and forgive your lack of vocabulary (& your broken French), as long as you show a true interest in the activity. International groups may be good for finding similarly expatriates, which can be needed to have a break; but focus on living the French lifestyle with French people if you want to benefit truly from your stay in France.
Great advice about not becoming overly dependent on your French spouse/significant other. It's important to acquire a degree of self-reliance so you can have a life outside of your couple, it makes for a healthier relationship.
Oh My God as a language learner I can relate to so many aspects of your content. You inspire me to continue with my French language learning. Thank you so so much for all your kind, funny, informative words. You are one of my favorite UA-camrs!! So much love from Canada :)
I dont know why but watching this moved me to tears! You sure so encouraging and yet you are telling the hard truths! I’m moving to France for the second time in my life (10 years later) and I’ve been trying to watch videos just as a refreshment to my move and your is by far the best one!! I really loved especially the last piece of advice to not take it for granted. I have worked really hard and have waited so patiently to make this dream a reality, so despite the hardships I may or may not face, I’m so excited to be going back! Thank you for this! 😊
I'm Belgian and I started colouring my hair crazy colours as a teen which everyone found odd and my Catholic school hated (they even threatened to expell me over it) I moved to Scotland nearly 3 years ago and it really surprised me how normal it is here and how little people care about how people present themselves, very refreshing.
Loved this video! I know what you mean about the general knowledge thing! And also what you said about problems and geographical location, which you put so well: come across someone rude in your home country and they're just an individual being rude, same thing in your adopted country and you immediately generalise it to the population at large lol!
Love this, Rosie! Really true about having to insist sometimes for people to check again in their computer, or mail room, or wherever when you know what you're asking for is legit. So much gold here! xx
P.S. One difference between your and my experience that I remarked on in an old video of yours -- In my 15 years in France, *nobody* has ever asked me what is our "national dish" --- or the height of our highest mountain, or the population of the U.S. I guess they all feel they know a lot about my country -- you're the one who hails from an "exotic" locale. (Cela dit, when I was 20 years old and moved to California with my older-and-wiser boyfriend, he told me, "When you meet someone new, don't ever ask them a question you could look up in an almanac." I guess the French have never learned that rule!)
When people go to Asia they often return from their superficial vacation feeling a bit spiritual. They saw shrines and monasteries and alternative religious practices, etc. When people go to Europe, especially France, they realize there is no way they can return feeling superior. Instead I usually come back feeling how much more I need to learn, about languages, history, philosophy, art, etc. Which is a great thing. That is why Europe has changed my life.
I am an Aussie and have lived in France for 9 years, only returned to Australia this year in March. Most of your points are valid, but your experience is Paris, it is very different when living in the country, as I did. Good on you though for assimilating x
Kia Ora! This is the first time ever I right down a comment on UA-cam, but I just want to say that your videos, your analysis are amazing! I am in the opposite position: I am french, my husband is a Kiwi and followed me in France. I have just started watching your videos and it is amazing how you point out true facts about our french culture, and it helps to understand what my husband can feel like about it, as for me, it is obviously my normality. Also, I must say that the video about french men, is very for french women aswell as I just felt like I was like your husband! So thank you very much! I hope I will find as good quality videos for when I will move to your beautiful country :)
Hi Rosie if you love the pastry just eat one after work I love them also they are small as long as you eat lots of veggies good piece of meat well balanced meal NYC is not safe on subway just go on subway not on rush hour
The French love telling people off but they don't like following rules at all. You get everything spot on. I've been living here for 30 years and I can count my close French friends on one hand.
cela me rend très triste de savoir à quel point votre culture est froide et peu accueillante pour les nouveaux arrivants. Nous, Américains, sommes généralement très différents. Collectivement, notre nature est d'être ouverte, chaleureuse, compréhensive et généreuse. Pas de faute, mais déménager à Paris, surtout seul, et avoir de la «chance» si je trouve un ami est tellement déprimant. Cela ne peut pas être tre. How bad is my French? So-so? Au revoir.
@@jnewmark41 Combien de commentaires allez-vous laisser sur cette vidéo pour dire que vous détestez la France ? On a compris au bout d'un moment. C'est culturel chez vous de toute façon. Les Américains passent leur vie à vomir sur la France et à encourager le reste du monde à en faire de même. Pas étonnant du coup qu'on ne vous accueille pas les bras ouverts. Pour couronner le tout, vous ne vous remettez jamais en question. Vous croyez que votre culture devrait être la norme mondiale et vous refusez catégoriquement de vous adapter aux pays dans lesquels vous vous installez (et je ne parle pas que de la France). C'est à se demander pourquoi vous vous expatriez, franchement ! La preuve, dans chacun de vos commentaires, vous ne cessez de clamer haut et fort que votre pays est le meilleur et que le nôtre est horrible. Pas étonnant que vous ne vous fassiez pas d'amis avec une mentalité pareille. Peut-être que c'est à vous d'ouvrir un peu votre esprit, comme vous aimez si bien le dire aux autres avec votre petit air condescendant. Se faire des amis en France prend du temps, mais en général, ceux que l'on se fait sont loyaux et sincères. Peut-être que si vous montriez un peu plus de respect pour la culture des gens que vous rencontrez, ils auraient davantage envie de faire votre connaissance. On ne peut pas considérer quelqu'un comme un ami quand il nous méprise ouvertement. Je dis ça, je ne dis rien…
@@DarkIsatis je ne parle jamais de HATRED ... Je parle d'expériences. Vous générez et recherchez un débat. Je ne suis pas d'humeur pour ça. Je voyage beaucoup et je me fais facilement des amis. J'ai l'esprit très ouvert, je parle plusieurs langues et je n'ai jamais eu aucun de ces problèmes jusqu'à mon voyage à Paris. Maintenant, sur la page de Rosie, je vois que ce n'était PAS MON IMAGINATION. D'autres disent les mêmes choses. AU REVOIR.
@@jnewmark41 Quelle mauvaise foi ! Si vous n'êtes "pas d'humeur" à justifier vos propos haineux, il ne fallait pas commenter du tout. A partir du moment où on émet des avis si négatifs et tranchés sur un peuple, il faut s'attendre à un "backlash". De même, vous jouez les innocents maintenant en prétendant que vous ne détestez pas la France, mais vous continuez à spammer ce mur avec des propos tous plus incendiaires les uns que les autres. Il y a un moment où il faut arrêter d'être hypocrite et assumer ses opinions, quoi… Je me fiche de savoir si vous avez voyagé et si vous avez appris des langues étrangères. Quel est le rapport avec la choucroute ? Vous pensez peut-être être le seul dans ce cas ? Quoi qu'il en soit, permettez-moi de vous renvoyer à l'un des commentaires que vous avez laissés plus haut, dans lequel vous chantiez les louanges de votre pays et que vous dénigriez le nôtre. Quand on compare des cultures différentes et qu'on en vient à la conclusion que la sienne est supérieure, on ne peut pas se vanter d'être ouvert d'esprit, cher monsieur. Je suis désolé. Bref, je ne saisis pas bien le but de vos interventions. J'ai l'impression que vous cherchez des commentaires négatifs pour justifier votre propre ressenti. Or, si certains n'aiment pas la France, d'autres s'y plaisent. Tout dépend des circonstances qui les y amènent et des gens qu'ils y rencontrent. Comme partout, en somme. Il arrive aussi que ceux qui, comme vous, ont eu de mauvaises expériences, ne se rendent pas compte qu'ils ont une part de responsabilité dans l'histoire. C'est tellement plus facile de dire que c'est la faute des locaux. Mais bon, parler avec vous, c'est un peu comme pisser dans un violon. Vous avez décidé que la France était un pays pourri, et rien ne vous fera changer d'avis. Aussi, la solution est simple : ne mettez plus les pieds dans ce pays et passez à autre chose au lieu de déverser votre frustration et votre haine sur internet. Ca fera du bien à tout le monde, y compris à vous-même.
Hi there! I just moved to France about 2 months ago, and I can totally relate to much of what you said - especially about being naive and standing up for yourself against administration. I have a French friend who told me to be careful at the Lyon station in Paris because of pit pocketers. I just assumed that he meant pay attention to weird people, but no. I now know that he literally means diligently watch your back and literally each and every item that you're carrying. I was so naive that I thought that I was fine putting my stuff down on the bench next to me because "it's right next to me. Who would dare even try to steal anything from me?" Luckily, no one wound up stealing anything from me, but it came very close. There was a very aggressive man who came out from no where from behind me, and in theory definitely could have grabbed my backpack off the seat. He wouldn't take my no for an answer when I denied his request for money multiple times, so I grabbed my stuff and left. He was this aggressive even in a very populated area with signs saying that we're under surveillance. It makes me wonder what could've happened had we been in a less populated part of the station. From now on, I hold my things tightly and pay attention to my surroundings. Thank you for sharing your experience. It's important. It's also important, like you said, to not give up at "no"! Try again. Justify your case, and if need be, try a different representative or company.
The same thing happened to me in Montpellier...i relax, just the first tran travel...they pick my new cellphone...we went to the police, they couldn’t do anything but i was amaze that they really tried everything...very good police office
Omg, that’s so damn true, every single point you mentioned and thank you so much for sharing it! I come from Croatia and spend 4-5 years in France and I cannot continue living here, it’s just too much of fight and negativity, it’s horrible. I miss warmth and nativity 😅 which is so hard to find it in France actually..
Will you move to a different country? If yes, to which country? Croatia is gorgeous, the architecture is beautiful, the scenery and nature is stunning, I’d love to live in Croatia for a few years.
I'm Australian, and honestly, I've never been sexually harassed. I think if a man said something to you here in Australia, the other men would try to kill him! And this is probably the same in New Zealand. I don't think we realise how woman-friendly the NZ and Australian culture is. We have a very relaxed culture, but it's also very respectful. And petty crime like stealing wallets is so unheard of here. I was mugged in Paris but in Melbourne a guy ran after me to give my purse back which I had accidentally left in a cafe.
Oh la poste I've had 3 items worth alot of money sent back to New Zealand, all because they never sent the pickup card or they claim ,they lost the package, yet somehow they sent it back to New Zealand.
Funny how you mention the food over there. I remember watching something on TV (we have Travel Channel over here) and in this one show, the host was in Paris and asked "How is it that everyone stays in shape when you all all of this good food?" A Parisian there helping her legitimately said, "It's because we don't eat it all the time and portion control." lol. Because this man said, they'll just eat ONLY a croissant with a drink. That's always stuck with me over the years. While I have NO plans of moving to France, I would still love to visit it for several reasons- 1. My ancestors came from Normandy so I want to visit that location, 2. I LOVE French art, especially Impressionism since Monet had a huge influence on my own art skills so visiting places like the Louvre is on my bucket list. Here's praying that Notre Dame is getting rebuilt too, my heart broke for the French people when I heard about the fire there. 3. For some time I've also wanted to see Le Tour De France there too since in recent years I've gotten into watching it on TV for 10 years now.
all true lol especially depending on your partner to do it all for you at a point my husband just said "you are on your own" and though i was pissed he was absolutely right. Thanks Rosie
Such a great video! Sexual harassment and cat calling in France can be pretty horrible, I think it's good that you got warned. And I have never lived in Paris, but I heard it's worse than the province... I was amazed by New Zealand, and I now live in Canada, and feel very safe. I find the party anglo-saxon style quite fun and I have changed some of my habits. I love these crazy star-like dresses even if I don't do heels. I hope that if you come back to France you will live in a different city/region, so you could tell us how different it feels from Paris. It would be interesting from a foreigner's point of view. Also honestly fighting the administration system has "bucked me up" (unsure if this is good english there). But it can be a pain in the ass.
hi Perrine: excellent English! You did a good job. Why do you think France is so messy & unorganized? Imagine how much better it would be for everyone if this was fixed? It does not make sense. You are on the border with Germany, yes? Voila! Watch how they are!!! :-)
I had the same experience when moving to Germany where everyone asked me all these specific questions about the US (where I'm from) and I'm like dude I don't know!! Happy to know I wasn't the only one who experienced that 😂
Hi, I'm French and wanted to tell you I like your Australian accent and your attitude. It's interesting to learn what you think of France. That's why I subscribed a long time ago.
Hi Rosie. Yes we have the same problem here in Bklyn ny with Post office they just dint want to look for it brush a person off !? Why just awful !not nice at all just depends on who's at the window. Not all like that 😘🍰☕️
I'm sorry for this random, personal question but did you cry before making the video? or its just the bright light reflected on your eyes. Anyways I send you a hug From a Mexican living in Japan.
Je trouve que le surnom "la petite gourmande" n'est pas très sympa. Certaines personnes ont tendance à te faire remarquer que tu manges "trop". Par exemple : "tu vas manger TOUT CA? " . Je trouve que ce n'est pas très gentil!
A lot of banks are transitioning to online statements. We just applied for a bank loan to buy a house here in France and the banks are accepting the statements from our online account because we never received them via mail 🤣🤣🤣 But yes keep all paper and organize it!!!
@@skaoon4553 No shit Sherlock Holmes that the Parisians are French. You won the prize for the day! La culture est vraiment différente entre vivre à Paris et en "Province". J'ai eu la chance de vivre dans le 16è ainsi qu'en Provence et ce sont deux mondes totalement différents. Je ne crache pas sur les Parisiens. Je ne fais que stipuler que lorsqu'elle fait ses vidéos elle semble inclure tous les français ce qui est fallacieux et démontre un manque de connaissance de la culture française en général. Point.
@@SN-cv9rz La France (Paris) devient de moins en moins populaire en tant que destination européenne, PAS à cause de la VILLE, mais à cause des PERSONNES. Vous savez où a gagné en popularité? Portugal, Italie et Espagne. Pouvez-vous deviner POURQUOI?
@@SN-cv9rz elle a deja expliquer quelle vivait a paris et parlait de son experience a PARIS regarde ses videos avant de faire des commentaires debiles.
@@skaoon4553 putain t'es con ou quoi? Elle mentionne tout le temps French people. Elle devrait spécifier the Parisians et non The French. Comme si Paris avait le monopole de la culture française.
Hi Tosie. I agree with the French to Nabeel classy always I like your nature hair your too mature now to color your hair like that and nail polish also Keep it classy not punk 😘💃
@@ddsbread5673 nice feeling? It is rude and in bad taste! Regarding the Spanish, you cannot compare! They are wonderful & warm...give you the shirts off their backs...
I love the way that u answering coz really if u see one bad that doesn’t mean all the people of this country are bad, and the way that u dnt like that doesn’t mean all the people will hate it too! For me tha doesn’t happened to me in paris but i like this way that they r using and really its show that they are caring and i saw that most of the countries have the same way except neweland and usa coz i saw only from these countries who complaining about differences that doesn’t mean they r bad! But they have there own ways to deal with each other different than the other countries, and i saw a lot of Americans love living in paris and there were journalists for ny love living in paris
J'ai adoré le spectacle ... même s'il contenait des erreurs. C'était très divertissant, magnifiquement filmé et a fait beaucoup de bonnes observations. Souvenez-vous que c'était de la fiction et juste une histoire.
pour la poste quand il te laisse le papier c est que le coli est dans la voiture du facteur et quil a la flemme de monter le poser alors il faut au moins une journee pour que ça retourne au burreau de poste deriere le guichet .pour moi le pire c est l administration l urssaf et les impots
Hi I'm planning to do an engineer master in Cote d'Azur, inside what they call Sophia-Antipolis tech park, do you have any experience related to their Universities or Echoles if they are good or how the life is in the south of France, I haven't found too much videos about it. Additionally, Great video and awesome tips. Thanks :)
Oh I've been working there (just a 2 days mission) I'm not sure I can talk much about life here since I live in north of france but I'm sure you'll like it... just the weather is worth it :)
No doesn't always mean no 😂 I am Italian and I agree with your French boyfriend 😂 We Europeans are really good at fighting for our rights. I used to argue so badly about this with my Peruvian boyfriend. He didn't get it xD
I used Duolingo to learn Russian (I'm French) but I'm pretty sure it applies for all languages: it's a decent app for beginners because it gives you a structured learning curve. However, you should see Duolingo as a tool to practice your grammar and theory and not an all-inclusive learning tool that will take you from zero to fluency. It's also important not to get caught in the "Duolingo addiction". The app has a streak system, points, exp. There's going to be a point where you need to move on to real content like small text, podcasts, and videos instead of stucking to Duolingo out of habit. Finally, since the app uses pre-made sentences and answer, it will sometimes make you think you are progressing faster than you are. Because you're not answering open questions with a blank page but rather choosing answers from a list, and reviewing questions you already saw several times. So I'd advise picking up a French grammar book and use duolingo to practice and cement the basics. However, as soon as you can start working with real content, ideally with audio and text, you should drop it and move on.
@@PatatasCuitas ok thank you so much because I want to move to france (paris) when I get older I just want to make sure i learn french properly so I can understand and learn.
@@lillianvestal4037 Memrise or Anki are nice for Flashcards. LingQ is amazing once you become intermediate but it's more of a tool and you provide the content. On UA-cam, InnerFrench and Français Authentique are also good channels.
just the thought of living like this gives me a lot of anxiety.....Rosie's stories about the beauracracy in France makes me not curious about living there...that kind of stress can really ruin one's experience
pour l administration en france il y a les mediateurs de la republique pour les obliger à faire leur job avant que ça arrive au proces.bref l emploi à vie qu ils travaillent bien ou mal il on un job jusqu a la retraite et font ce qu ils veulent
I've actually noticed that the french are more lawless around things like lines, taking seats etc. Cutting in line is not seen so much as rude. It's kind of like, if you don't try to fenagle your way ahead, you're just not doing it right and there's almost a respect for people who succeed at it. Anyone else agree, or is it just me?
It's actually rude to cut in line. People usually tell the "culprit" off when it happens, and if they don't, it's because they don't want to waste their time and energy fighting strangers.
Really? I’ve noticed the opposite. There was actually an incident getting on the bus where a lady felt that my party had cut in front of hers and she vocally expressed her dissatisfaction. La Poste near me frequently has a line out the door, and nobody tries to cut. I would advise people to make sure that they’re not cutting, but also to pay attention, because people will get annoyed and may cut in front of you if the line has moved up and you haven’t.
Rosie...if ANYONE is "hard to be friends with"...it is not worth it.... no offense, but a LOT of these things you talk about sound stressful and awful. You deserve more than this....we all do. I like authenticity and intimacy.....all of these rules are very exhausting & a bit too much for moi
Eh. Screw denying yourself the pleasures in life like amazing desserts. You live once. “Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming "Wow! What a Ride!” - Hunter S. Thompson
I think a French person would judge your food and tell you how many calories you are eating....I am SURE that quote is NOT from a French philosopher.....it is too happy
It seems like in France, there’s no accountability system in customer service situations. People have no incentive to really work. Part of their socialist culture. The quality of service you get just depends on the workers mood at that particular moment.
Paris or France women attitude and like complain, kid or dress. For me hate them, but paris city or France country i like place, 20 years been paris study for couple years, my ex boyfriend America mixed paris blood teach me before, score them back, for my dress colour dont like parisian.. You live paris you create own world be yourself, you will be happiness live paris....don't copy france women dress..
When I moved to Germany to study and at some point decided to get out of the comfort zone of my expat community, I quickly realised that not many people are interested in a friendship with someone who isn't fluent in their mother tongue. I did know German quite well before coming to the country but I was taught a very academic form of it and couldn't understand any of the slang and had difficulties with the local accent. Apparently, when you take 5 minutes to formulate a sentence, many get tired before you finish it :D They were polite about it but were certainly not receptive to my attempts to befriend them.
What helped a lot, was finding a hobby I was good at and making friends within that circle first. Since I was good at that hobby, people wanted to communicate with me, exchange ideas and gossip about others. And therefore, they were willing to wait till I get my words together. Particularly, when having a one on one conversation. And once the fluency was there, I had no trouble communicating with anyone.
It doesn't mean that attending social events doesn't make sense, if you can only smile and nod. I made a point of going out to almost any such event and meeting people even if it was awkward as hell and even if I did not manage to move past "hello" and "goodbye" during the whole evening. Listening to many different people helped me get used to the accents and the slang. It is exhausting (especially for an introvert like myself) but it's worth it in the long run. If you frame it as "I have a wonderful opportunity to work on the language and maybe meet interesting people", it helps a lot to lift the burden of "I'm a lonely expat and the locals don't like me" ;)
Ich vermisse Deutschland >< yeah It's better to be first a "social butterfly" where interactions are shorter at first to have time to adapt before moving in deep conversation when you just arrived. I remember when half of my sentences were mimics. People were doing jokes to me and i had to pretend to understand them to not break social momentum xD
In reality, you are the one getting the learning experience of a new language, while they are in their language comfort zones. :)
Ich wäre gern mit dir befreundet :D
I had the same experience with learning Spanish in New York. There’s a huge Spanish speaking community here.
As French, I can tell you I LOVE discussing with foreign people, I find it so interesting to learn their story and to help them learning our language and our culture ! So I totally agree with you on the "you have to make French friends" part. We are very curious, so this difference you can feel like a weight is actually the reason we're drawn to you in the first place ! Don't be shy guys 💪🏼
@@NotEvenFrench I wish too ! You should have come to the countryside, we're more welcoming than the Parisians ahah
more than being shy or naive, don't pretend to be it (even if you are). Frenchs are not kind with people who don't seem to have an "opinion on how live should be lived " xD. That's why they're scolding ! As a french guy i feel shame for sexual, administration and opinion harass ! ><
PS: And always remember, Paris is not France...
ahah that's not that hard ^^ it's like hot and cold you get atuned to the climate of the country xD it's like everything downside are what i mentionned but there also good things like curiosity, openessity and lot of deep intelectuals conversations. they're a lot of difference too in france itself. Paris is not like the south, and same for old french and young french differences. We're more chill we don't "scold". a typic french quote is "i don't agree with you but i'm ready to die to let you say what you think" ^^ c'est la vie. We just like to go deep into things. where are you from ?
@@etistyle96 I was born in Florida and now reside in Washington D.C. I have travelled all over my country (it is huge) and the world (except Asia). I am here because I had many good experiences visiting all over the EU and when I arrived in Paris, was so disappointed & confused by so many things. Rosie's channel has helped me understand that many of the things I was observing & experiencing were authentic. I am learning a lot! And you?
@@jnewmark41 Ahah i understand ! To be fair, i don't mean "Paris is not from France" but i mean Paris is not the "all" France. It's a very specific atmosphere that i personnaly don't like it and i just imagine a foreigner that come first in france and stay only in Paris to taste France, i prefer to warn him. ^^ I have family in Paris and i have traveled in a lot of country too (i've even lived in germany for a while) and i know for sure that i could live almost everywhere where i'm gone but not Paris. I've learn a lot on Rosie's channel. Particulary about why we're grumpy and about differences like our great curiosity. Because i'm french, there is so many things that i didn't noticed on my country and discovered here. In france we have poor education on specific subjectif at school and more a general learning. That's why we don't have a good level on average but we're realy open minded on so many subjects. France is a pyramidal country. We try to be better than each other. Sometimes it's good because of healthy competition but sometimes not. The problem is our "low-risk mentality". We rely a lot on "safety" like socials helps and a lot on safety-mentality movement and that's a good point on one hand and in the other one we're "poor risk-taker". We couldn't have things like a "French Elon Musk": Too much social pressure, too poor margin for errors and liberties. I would like to go in USA ^^ me and my brother should have gone there but it was canceled because of the global situation with the virus. what did you learn on france ? were you on Paris ?
As a French person, I do think the French are too comfortable with scolding strangers and passing judgement. I definitely think there are times when it's appropriate to tell someone they're doing something wrong or inconviniencing others, but there's often a bit too much of a sense of entitlement attached to it
très bien dit. Je pense que la raison pour laquelle tant d'Américains n'aiment pas les Français est parce que beaucoup de ces choses, ici, sont considérées comme grossières, inappropriées et méchantes. Nous sommes des gens très différents.
I met my french boyfriend in Australia and I noticed how organized and on point he was with his documents, i thought that was just him. We live in France now and I finally get it.
Weird to say that but.... i'm a french citizen from New-Caledonia currently studying in Paris, and your videos does help me to understand the mentality and cultural gap between France's mainland and its overseas territories. So thank you very much for that.
When you actually are French and keep on watching all these kind of videos on UA-cam to see what people think about you and your country!
country - pretty
bread-excellent
architecture - unique
tech/efficiency - ****
people - "it's complicated" (I'm being nice)
êtes-vous allé aux états-unis?
@@jnewmark41
Oui bien sûr quand il s'agit de défendre notre civilisation et la démocratie.
As a French guy I can say that this is spot on. Rosie you did a great job here. These are all so true, especially the "know general facts about your country" one, I would definitely ask these kind of questions 😅
Reminds of the time when I did my military service in Germany through a NATO exchange (I'm Dutch ), whenever I had a night shift and the cleaning lady came in the morning I asked her if I could practice my German with her. That proved to be a masterstroke because through her I could escape the Dutch 'bubble' and my introduction into German society.
The point about "no doesn't always mean no" is *so true* . I have lived in Paris for almost 18 years and one thing I have noticed about French people, particularly those in positions of some sort of power like postal workers, immigration clerks, customer service agents, etc, they absolutely LOVE telling people, "no" and refusing people things. And not only that, they all make up their own rules about policies so one person might say one thing and another might say something completely different even though they work at the same company or organization. I have finally gotten used to the fact that how you get information or get things done in France can totally depend on who you have to deal with that day. But yeah, they defintiely love telling me people, "no". Refusal is an automatic reflex that many French people have for some reason.
et cela vous intéresse? Je ne comprends pas pourquoi quelqu'un serait un «francophile» après avoir vécu tant de négativité. Peux-tu expliquer?
@@jnewmark41 Même les français se plaignent de cette characteristique chez les français. C'est uniquement en France que j'ai entendu les français qui décrivent leur propre pays comme, "la France: le pays qui dit 'non' " les français ont une réputation pour dire "non" tout de suite et puis ils discutent pourquoi. On peut toujours reconnaître ce trait chez les français et être aussi francophile. Le monde n'est pas noir et blanc. Il y a plein de belles choses en France et je trouve formidables les français mais cela ne veut dire pas qu'on ne peut pas discuter les points qui ne sont pas très agréables.
@@christopherdieudonne Je pense que vous avez fait un excellent point. Merci d'avoir partagé ça! Cela nous donne quelque chose à discuter au lieu de nous appeler les uns les autres. Pouvez-vous comprendre mon français? Est-ce très mauvais?
Loved what you had to say about just spending the money to master French. I struggled for the longest time to hire a tutor and have someone as a support to guide me through it because I wanted to be "self-taught", but in all honesty, that route would've taken me years instead of months and brought along so much uncertainty and confusion if I was doing all I could to progress. Seeing your "get fluent fast" video with your tutor was what pulled the trigger for me to get a tutor, because if you did it with help and got C1, I could too. You're right--just spend the money--it gave me so much peace of mind and gave me assurance I was on the right path!
I have moved six times as an adult - mostly within Canada. In each case, I have found that it takes on average 2-years before you are really comfortable - you know where everything is located, you are comfortable with community lingo and traditions, you know more people than the staff at the stores where you shop, where you begin to have lunch with people. All of these things are easier if you have a spouse or small children, or the language is the same... even then, you might have a coffee with them but it can still take years before you are invited into peoples homes. Its hard work and you are the one that has to make the effort - you have to get out there and get involved in the community - join sports/social clubs, got to the coffee shop, join book clubs, take classes, meet the expats, make professional connections. Its a lot of work. Personally I enjoy the process.
I am moving to France to get my master's so I am so glad you made this video!
Welcome
Welcome ! If you need to practice (earlier) french, you can search me on Instagram : Tony Brn
Great video Rosie (hope i wrote it well 😚)
Well welcome in our country then! Hope you'll like it and feel good here, good luck for your master! xx
@@NotEvenFrench I will be getting my master's in french lol
I made $7k in total from d a i l y w e b e a r n on Instagram legitimately and I’m so supervised such still exists?
I moved to paris almost three years ago now to do my undergraduate degree, and i wish i knew how difficult and slow administrative tasks were and that it’s really your responsibility to figure out what you need to do/have and no one is going to sit you down and explain it nicely and clearly haha. I love the french don’t get me wrong, but any official administrative process is exhausting!
@@NotEvenFrench you know the expression, "hurt people hurt people?" Maybe it is related to that. It sounds like there are a lot of people on the autistic spectrum....facts, data, being rigid....maybe it is genetic??
No the french people are so kind!
I am sorry a stranger violated you that way! That sounds absolutely horrifying!
@@NotEvenFrench Rosie, je suis vraiment désolée que vous ayez dû vivre ça! Vous avez vécu tellement de choses pendant votre séjour à Paris. Vous devez être très heureux d'être chez vous dans la belle Nouvelle-Zélande!
Such a lovely video. I almost cry with the last 2 points. I have 9 months in France and sometimes it can be very overwhelming. Thank you for sharing.
ok the tip about knowing as much as possible about your own country: golden!
@@NotEvenFrench you know what I would do Rosie? I would study like crazy to memorize every detail about French facts so I could get into a heated debate and win every point....just for fun!! It sounds like arguing is an art...
I met my French boyfriend in my home City of Toronto Canada and he was so socked that I didn’t know the population of Toronto and of Canada. He thought I was so bizarre not knowing any of this. I told him that most ppl dont know this here. He didn’t believe me so he actually went up to complete strangers and asked them. All 4 ppl he asked had no clue as well. He was not impressed at all.
Les français vont vous faire remarquer votre manque de connaissance, alors qu'eux-mêmes ne sont pas toujours très au point sur l'histoire de leur propre pays!
@MrTherealpad Non pas tout le monde. j'aurais dû dire "certains" français, pas "les" français en général. Loin de moi l'idée de "Basher" mon pays. Détester la France c'est dommage.
What Was he thinking about?
It's interesting to see my own country through your eyes, 'cause as I've always been living here (I confess, I'm a French male), I have grown up with some of these elements as "normal". You begin with administrations (& La Poste has been built & managed like an administration itself) where (some) people don't feel they have to serve the general public, they just do their job but don't need to roll up their sleeves to do it right. So, before starting procedures, I make my own research so that I don't request people to help me, I just ask the forms I need to fill, I tell them what to do with them... so that I don't take the risk they just say "c'est pas possible", 'cause it would be the easiest answer they can give me. To be honest, most of those who work in administrations are goodwill people and make their best to help.
Being a stranger makes you an ambassador for your country, in our eyes, indeed. As we learn many details of France geography & demography in school, it's understandable we show our interest in other's country by asking these so we have elements of comparison.
And as we are often taught not to speak loud, not to disturb others in public places, French people have a tendency to feel like "educating" strangers as soon as they spot they are aliens. Sorry...
Not every place is safe, especially in large cities, especially in Paris. Walking alone in the metro, especially late, is not advised. As a male, I've never had issues but:
- female friends reported they had issues or felt they could have had issues
- I probably never put myself in "dangerous" situations
- I've certainly been lucky
Always keep an eye (and a hand) on your belongings in the metro.
If you genuinely want to learn French, make activities (not having a drink, true activities) in French-only groups. People will enjoy sharing their passion and forgive your lack of vocabulary (& your broken French), as long as you show a true interest in the activity. International groups may be good for finding similarly expatriates, which can be needed to have a break; but focus on living the French lifestyle with French people if you want to benefit truly from your stay in France.
Great advice about not becoming overly dependent on your French spouse/significant other. It's important to acquire a degree of self-reliance so you can have a life outside of your couple, it makes for a healthier relationship.
I loved the last one!! Very encouraging now that I will be starting from scratch there. Thanks for all the tips!
Oh My God as a language learner I can relate to so many aspects of your content. You inspire me to continue with my French language learning. Thank you so so much for all your kind, funny, informative words. You are one of my favorite UA-camrs!! So much love from Canada :)
When living in France I had a "real relationship" with La Poste as well 😂😭
I dont know why but watching this moved me to tears! You sure so encouraging and yet you are telling the hard truths! I’m moving to France for the second time in my life (10 years later) and I’ve been trying to watch videos just as a refreshment to my move and your is by far the best one!! I really loved especially the last piece of advice to not take it for granted. I have worked really hard and have waited so patiently to make this dream a reality, so despite the hardships I may or may not face, I’m so excited to be going back! Thank you for this! 😊
I'm French, and quite frankly I like your colored hair 😁👌 So many people are a little... Stuck up ... 😅
a little?
I'm Belgian and I started colouring my hair crazy colours as a teen which everyone found odd and my Catholic school hated (they even threatened to expell me over it)
I moved to Scotland nearly 3 years ago and it really surprised me how normal it is here and how little people care about how people present themselves, very refreshing.
What a great video and tips Rose! Thank you for sharing it!!!
Loved this video! I know what you mean about the general knowledge thing!
And also what you said about problems and geographical location, which you put so well: come across someone rude in your home country and they're just an individual being rude, same thing in your adopted country and you immediately generalise it to the population at large lol!
Love this, Rosie! Really true about having to insist sometimes for people to check again in their computer, or mail room, or wherever when you know what you're asking for is legit. So much gold here! xx
P.S. One difference between your and my experience that I remarked on in an old video of yours -- In my 15 years in France, *nobody* has ever asked me what is our "national dish" --- or the height of our highest mountain, or the population of the U.S. I guess they all feel they know a lot about my country -- you're the one who hails from an "exotic" locale. (Cela dit, when I was 20 years old and moved to California with my older-and-wiser boyfriend, he told me, "When you meet someone new, don't ever ask them a question you could look up in an almanac." I guess the French have never learned that rule!)
I was mistaken for being french twice - once when speaking and once on the bus. I was quite flattered as French women have it just right, imo :. )
When people go to Asia they often return from their superficial vacation feeling a bit spiritual. They saw shrines and monasteries and alternative religious practices, etc. When people go to Europe, especially France, they realize there is no way they can return feeling superior. Instead I usually come back feeling how much more I need to learn, about languages, history, philosophy, art, etc. Which is a great thing. That is why Europe has changed my life.
Thank you. This was so helpful and interesting. ☮️
I am an Aussie and have lived in France for 9 years, only returned to Australia this year in March. Most of your points are valid, but your experience is Paris, it is very different when living in the country, as I did. Good on you though for assimilating x
Kia Ora! This is the first time ever I right down a comment on UA-cam, but I just want to say that your videos, your analysis are amazing! I am in the opposite position: I am french, my husband is a Kiwi and followed me in France. I have just started watching your videos and it is amazing how you point out true facts about our french culture, and it helps to understand what my husband can feel like about it, as for me, it is obviously my normality. Also, I must say that the video about french men, is very for french women aswell as I just felt like I was like your husband! So thank you very much! I hope I will find as good quality videos for when I will move to your beautiful country :)
Hi Rosie if you love the pastry just eat one after work I love them also they are small as long as you eat lots of veggies good piece of meat well balanced meal NYC is not safe on subway just go on subway not on rush hour
The French love telling people off but they don't like following rules at all. You get everything spot on. I've been living here for 30 years and I can count my close French friends on one hand.
I'm french and let me tell you that's actually a lot of friends you have by our standards! Good job!
cela me rend très triste de savoir à quel point votre culture est froide et peu accueillante pour les nouveaux arrivants. Nous, Américains, sommes généralement très différents. Collectivement, notre nature est d'être ouverte, chaleureuse, compréhensive et généreuse. Pas de faute, mais déménager à Paris, surtout seul, et avoir de la «chance» si je trouve un ami est tellement déprimant. Cela ne peut pas être tre. How bad is my French? So-so? Au revoir.
@@jnewmark41 Combien de commentaires allez-vous laisser sur cette vidéo pour dire que vous détestez la France ? On a compris au bout d'un moment. C'est culturel chez vous de toute façon. Les Américains passent leur vie à vomir sur la France et à encourager le reste du monde à en faire de même. Pas étonnant du coup qu'on ne vous accueille pas les bras ouverts.
Pour couronner le tout, vous ne vous remettez jamais en question. Vous croyez que votre culture devrait être la norme mondiale et vous refusez catégoriquement de vous adapter aux pays dans lesquels vous vous installez (et je ne parle pas que de la France). C'est à se demander pourquoi vous vous expatriez, franchement ! La preuve, dans chacun de vos commentaires, vous ne cessez de clamer haut et fort que votre pays est le meilleur et que le nôtre est horrible. Pas étonnant que vous ne vous fassiez pas d'amis avec une mentalité pareille. Peut-être que c'est à vous d'ouvrir un peu votre esprit, comme vous aimez si bien le dire aux autres avec votre petit air condescendant. Se faire des amis en France prend du temps, mais en général, ceux que l'on se fait sont loyaux et sincères. Peut-être que si vous montriez un peu plus de respect pour la culture des gens que vous rencontrez, ils auraient davantage envie de faire votre connaissance. On ne peut pas considérer quelqu'un comme un ami quand il nous méprise ouvertement. Je dis ça, je ne dis rien…
@@DarkIsatis
je ne parle jamais de HATRED ... Je parle d'expériences. Vous générez et recherchez un débat. Je ne suis pas d'humeur pour ça. Je voyage beaucoup et je me fais facilement des amis. J'ai l'esprit très ouvert, je parle plusieurs langues et je n'ai jamais eu aucun de ces problèmes jusqu'à mon voyage à Paris. Maintenant, sur la page de Rosie, je vois que ce n'était PAS MON IMAGINATION. D'autres disent les mêmes choses. AU REVOIR.
@@jnewmark41 Quelle mauvaise foi ! Si vous n'êtes "pas d'humeur" à justifier vos propos haineux, il ne fallait pas commenter du tout. A partir du moment où on émet des avis si négatifs et tranchés sur un peuple, il faut s'attendre à un "backlash". De même, vous jouez les innocents maintenant en prétendant que vous ne détestez pas la France, mais vous continuez à spammer ce mur avec des propos tous plus incendiaires les uns que les autres. Il y a un moment où il faut arrêter d'être hypocrite et assumer ses opinions, quoi…
Je me fiche de savoir si vous avez voyagé et si vous avez appris des langues étrangères. Quel est le rapport avec la choucroute ? Vous pensez peut-être être le seul dans ce cas ? Quoi qu'il en soit, permettez-moi de vous renvoyer à l'un des commentaires que vous avez laissés plus haut, dans lequel vous chantiez les louanges de votre pays et que vous dénigriez le nôtre. Quand on compare des cultures différentes et qu'on en vient à la conclusion que la sienne est supérieure, on ne peut pas se vanter d'être ouvert d'esprit, cher monsieur. Je suis désolé.
Bref, je ne saisis pas bien le but de vos interventions. J'ai l'impression que vous cherchez des commentaires négatifs pour justifier votre propre ressenti. Or, si certains n'aiment pas la France, d'autres s'y plaisent. Tout dépend des circonstances qui les y amènent et des gens qu'ils y rencontrent. Comme partout, en somme. Il arrive aussi que ceux qui, comme vous, ont eu de mauvaises expériences, ne se rendent pas compte qu'ils ont une part de responsabilité dans l'histoire. C'est tellement plus facile de dire que c'est la faute des locaux.
Mais bon, parler avec vous, c'est un peu comme pisser dans un violon. Vous avez décidé que la France était un pays pourri, et rien ne vous fera changer d'avis. Aussi, la solution est simple : ne mettez plus les pieds dans ce pays et passez à autre chose au lieu de déverser votre frustration et votre haine sur internet. Ca fera du bien à tout le monde, y compris à vous-même.
Hi there! I just moved to France about 2 months ago, and I can totally relate to much of what you said - especially about being naive and standing up for yourself against administration. I have a French friend who told me to be careful at the Lyon station in Paris because of pit pocketers. I just assumed that he meant pay attention to weird people, but no. I now know that he literally means diligently watch your back and literally each and every item that you're carrying. I was so naive that I thought that I was fine putting my stuff down on the bench next to me because "it's right next to me. Who would dare even try to steal anything from me?" Luckily, no one wound up stealing anything from me, but it came very close. There was a very aggressive man who came out from no where from behind me, and in theory definitely could have grabbed my backpack off the seat. He wouldn't take my no for an answer when I denied his request for money multiple times, so I grabbed my stuff and left. He was this aggressive even in a very populated area with signs saying that we're under surveillance. It makes me wonder what could've happened had we been in a less populated part of the station. From now on, I hold my things tightly and pay attention to my surroundings. Thank you for sharing your experience. It's important. It's also important, like you said, to not give up at "no"! Try again. Justify your case, and if need be, try a different representative or company.
The same thing happened to me in Montpellier...i relax, just the first tran travel...they pick my new cellphone...we went to the police, they couldn’t do anything but i was amaze that they really tried everything...very good police office
The adults telling adults or children off on public transport never fails to crack me up!
while it is unlikely I'll get to France, I enjoy your videos so much.
Rosie, I think your manager was rude to lecture you about dessert, it was none of her business!
Thats the French for you!
@@kween3546 I'm French myself - but still, that was rude
Excellent video !!! Full of excellent information and advice delivered in a lovely, charming and positive manner!!! Merci 😃🙏🏽👏🏽
You always have such good insights. Thank you for sharing!
Omg, that’s so damn true, every single point you mentioned and thank you so much for sharing it! I come from Croatia and spend 4-5 years in France and I cannot continue living here, it’s just too much of fight and negativity, it’s horrible. I miss warmth and nativity 😅 which is so hard to find it in France actually..
Will you move to a different country? If yes, to which country? Croatia is gorgeous, the architecture is beautiful, the scenery and nature is stunning, I’d love to live in Croatia for a few years.
I'm Australian, and honestly, I've never been sexually harassed. I think if a man said something to you here in Australia, the other men would try to kill him! And this is probably the same in New Zealand. I don't think we realise how woman-friendly the NZ and Australian culture is. We have a very relaxed culture, but it's also very respectful. And petty crime like stealing wallets is so unheard of here. I was mugged in Paris but in Melbourne a guy ran after me to give my purse back which I had accidentally left in a cafe.
Oh la poste I've had 3 items worth alot of money sent back to New Zealand, all because they never sent the pickup card or they claim ,they lost the package, yet somehow they sent it back to New Zealand.
Funny how you mention the food over there. I remember watching something on TV (we have Travel Channel over here) and in this one show, the host was in Paris and asked "How is it that everyone stays in shape when you all all of this good food?" A Parisian there helping her legitimately said, "It's because we don't eat it all the time and portion control." lol. Because this man said, they'll just eat ONLY a croissant with a drink. That's always stuck with me over the years.
While I have NO plans of moving to France, I would still love to visit it for several reasons- 1. My ancestors came from Normandy so I want to visit that location, 2. I LOVE French art, especially Impressionism since Monet had a huge influence on my own art skills so visiting places like the Louvre is on my bucket list. Here's praying that Notre Dame is getting rebuilt too, my heart broke for the French people when I heard about the fire there. 3. For some time I've also wanted to see Le Tour De France there too since in recent years I've gotten into watching it on TV for 10 years now.
Great video as usual. Your follower from London. A PLUS 👍
I'm really loving this pink hair!!!
@@NotEvenFrench fine fine you’re forgiven!!
Ben voilà quoi !
I like it natural, not into pink hair.@@NotEvenFrench
I would say chestnut-coloured, naturally chestnut-coloured of course.
@@phillisik4426 she did not ask you, Phil!
Love your honesty ❤!
all true lol especially depending on your partner to do it all for you at a point my husband just said "you are on your own" and though i was pissed he was absolutely right. Thanks Rosie
Great discussion and points!!!
Video starts at 3:50
vey helpful especially who are moving to france.
Awesome video!!
I better get learning more random facts about America, I did not expect that part.
13:06 : XD
Je nous reconnais tellement !
I love her candor.
Such a great video! Sexual harassment and cat calling in France can be pretty horrible, I think it's good that you got warned. And I have never lived in Paris, but I heard it's worse than the province... I was amazed by New Zealand, and I now live in Canada, and feel very safe. I find the party anglo-saxon style quite fun and I have changed some of my habits. I love these crazy star-like dresses even if I don't do heels. I hope that if you come back to France you will live in a different city/region, so you could tell us how different it feels from Paris. It would be interesting from a foreigner's point of view. Also honestly fighting the administration system has "bucked me up" (unsure if this is good english there). But it can be a pain in the ass.
hi Perrine: excellent English! You did a good job. Why do you think France is so messy & unorganized? Imagine how much better it would be for everyone if this was fixed? It does not make sense. You are on the border with Germany, yes? Voila! Watch how they are!!! :-)
I had the same experience when moving to Germany where everyone asked me all these specific questions about the US (where I'm from) and I'm like dude I don't know!! Happy to know I wasn't the only one who experienced that 😂
Hi, I'm French and wanted to tell you I like your Australian accent and your attitude. It's interesting to learn what you think of France. That's why I subscribed a long time ago.
@@NotEvenFrench La bouletteeeeeeeeeee !!!!!!!!
You are right, I do have a lot of opinions and a lot of useless general knowledge on a wide range of subjects lmao
whatever makes you happy
Hi Rosie. Yes we have the same problem here in Bklyn ny with Post office they just dint want to look for it brush a person off !? Why just awful !not nice at all just depends on who's at the window. Not all like that 😘🍰☕️
Eat the pastry yum yum eat half at a time French make the best ever natural ingredients healthy
I loved your video as always 😍
Great video!
I'm sorry for this random, personal question but did you cry before making the video? or its just the bright light reflected on your eyes.
Anyways I send you a hug
From a Mexican living in Japan.
Men Prefer The Round Women
( c'est un film , un nanard avec Josiane Balasko actrice)
Je trouve que le surnom "la petite gourmande" n'est pas très sympa. Certaines personnes ont tendance à te faire remarquer que tu manges "trop". Par exemple : "tu vas manger TOUT CA? " . Je trouve que ce n'est pas très gentil!
C’est la même chose dans la culture sud-asiatique... sigh 😔
What was your favorite museum to visit in France?
A lot of banks are transitioning to online statements. We just applied for a bank loan to buy a house here in France and the banks are accepting the statements from our online account because we never received them via mail 🤣🤣🤣
But yes keep all paper and organize it!!!
You seem to associate Parisians with French people all the time. Just stating a fact.
Les parisiens sont francais
Les non parisiens aiment bien cracher sur paris mais ils sont pareil.
@@skaoon4553 No shit Sherlock Holmes that the Parisians are French. You won the prize for the day! La culture est vraiment différente entre vivre à Paris et en "Province". J'ai eu la chance de vivre dans le 16è ainsi qu'en Provence et ce sont deux mondes totalement différents. Je ne crache pas sur les Parisiens. Je ne fais que stipuler que lorsqu'elle fait ses vidéos elle semble inclure tous les français ce qui est fallacieux et démontre un manque de connaissance de la culture française en général. Point.
@@SN-cv9rz La France (Paris) devient de moins en moins populaire en tant que destination européenne, PAS à cause de la VILLE, mais à cause des PERSONNES. Vous savez où a gagné en popularité? Portugal, Italie et Espagne. Pouvez-vous deviner POURQUOI?
@@SN-cv9rz elle a deja expliquer quelle vivait a paris et parlait de son experience a PARIS regarde ses videos avant de faire des commentaires debiles.
@@skaoon4553 putain t'es con ou quoi? Elle mentionne tout le temps French people. Elle devrait spécifier the Parisians et non The French. Comme si Paris avait le monopole de la culture française.
Home IS where the heart is.....not a piece of land
Rosie in the Embassy ! Lol
Kisses
Where is your wedding ring?
Hi Tosie. I agree with the French to Nabeel classy always I like your nature hair your too mature now to color your hair like that and nail polish also Keep it classy not punk 😘💃
I can't understand why someone should tell another what to eat! How nanny-ish? 😂
@@ddsbread5673 nice feeling? It is rude and in bad taste! Regarding the Spanish, you cannot compare! They are wonderful & warm...give you the shirts off their backs...
it is terrible manners
I love the way that u answering coz really if u see one bad that doesn’t mean all the people of this country are bad, and the way that u dnt like that doesn’t mean all the people will hate it too! For me tha doesn’t happened to me in paris but i like this way that they r using and really its show that they are caring and i saw that most of the countries have the same way except neweland and usa coz i saw only from these countries who complaining about differences that doesn’t mean they r bad! But they have there own ways to deal with each other different than the other countries, and i saw a lot of Americans love living in paris and there were journalists for ny love living in paris
Please react to Emily in Paris!!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
J'ai adoré le spectacle ... même s'il contenait des erreurs. C'était très divertissant, magnifiquement filmé et a fait beaucoup de bonnes observations. Souvenez-vous que c'était de la fiction et juste une histoire.
can you talk about your internship at LVMH, please? Thank you
pour la poste quand il te laisse le papier c est que le coli est dans la voiture du facteur et quil a la flemme de monter le poser alors il faut au moins une journee pour que ça retourne au burreau de poste deriere le guichet .pour moi le pire c est l administration l urssaf et les impots
I wish I had known that.
Thank you for explaining why French people are not shaped like beach balls!
hein? je ne comprends pas
Hi I'm planning to do an engineer master in Cote d'Azur, inside what they call Sophia-Antipolis tech park, do you have any experience related to their Universities or Echoles if they are good or how the life is in the south of France, I haven't found too much videos about it.
Additionally,
Great video and awesome tips. Thanks :)
Oh I've been working there (just a 2 days mission) I'm not sure I can talk much about life here since I live in north of france but I'm sure you'll like it... just the weather is worth it :)
No doesn't always mean no 😂 I am Italian and I agree with your French boyfriend 😂 We Europeans are really good at fighting for our rights. I used to argue so badly about this with my Peruvian boyfriend. He didn't get it xD
I love your videos. I have a question? I'm learning french on duolingo, is that a good app to learn french on?
I used Duolingo to learn Russian (I'm French) but I'm pretty sure it applies for all languages: it's a decent app for beginners because it gives you a structured learning curve. However, you should see Duolingo as a tool to practice your grammar and theory and not an all-inclusive learning tool that will take you from zero to fluency.
It's also important not to get caught in the "Duolingo addiction". The app has a streak system, points, exp. There's going to be a point where you need to move on to real content like small text, podcasts, and videos instead of stucking to Duolingo out of habit.
Finally, since the app uses pre-made sentences and answer, it will sometimes make you think you are progressing faster than you are. Because you're not answering open questions with a blank page but rather choosing answers from a list, and reviewing questions you already saw several times.
So I'd advise picking up a French grammar book and use duolingo to practice and cement the basics. However, as soon as you can start working with real content, ideally with audio and text, you should drop it and move on.
@@PatatasCuitas ok thank you so much because I want to move to france (paris) when I get older I just want to make sure i learn french properly so I can understand and learn.
@@PatatasCuitas also do you have any good recommendations?
To learn a language on?
@@lillianvestal4037 Memrise or Anki are nice for Flashcards. LingQ is amazing once you become intermediate but it's more of a tool and you provide the content. On UA-cam, InnerFrench and Français Authentique are also good channels.
What about your french husband ?
Do you remember you went to France for joining him
She met him there I'm pretty sure, she didn't go to France to be with him
@@greenLimeila No, she met him in NZ. She is speaking about Paris not France
I’ve only recently started subscribing.. have you moved away from France now?
Yes, she went back to New-Zealand
@@greenLimeila did they ever call her for French nationality?
How did you meet your husband?
kinda weird your manager told you want to eat LMAO
Ah yes you have to keep all paperwork forever in France or you'll be in trouble one day
just the thought of living like this gives me a lot of anxiety.....Rosie's stories about the beauracracy in France makes me not curious about living there...that kind of stress can really ruin one's experience
Are you sure it was a good idea to go there?
pour l administration en france il y a les mediateurs de la republique pour les obliger à faire leur job avant que ça arrive au proces.bref l emploi à vie qu ils travaillent bien ou mal il on un job jusqu a la retraite et font ce qu ils veulent
I've actually noticed that the french are more lawless around things like lines, taking seats etc. Cutting in line is not seen so much as rude. It's kind of like, if you don't try to fenagle your way ahead, you're just not doing it right and there's almost a respect for people who succeed at it. Anyone else agree, or is it just me?
It's actually rude to cut in line. People usually tell the "culprit" off when it happens, and if they don't, it's because they don't want to waste their time and energy fighting strangers.
Really? I’ve noticed the opposite. There was actually an incident getting on the bus where a lady felt that my party had cut in front of hers and she vocally expressed her dissatisfaction. La Poste near me frequently has a line out the door, and nobody tries to cut. I would advise people to make sure that they’re not cutting, but also to pay attention, because people will get annoyed and may cut in front of you if the line has moved up and you haven’t.
great fun! NOT.
Lool i didnt see any one not following the que in paris!
Rosie...if ANYONE is "hard to be friends with"...it is not worth it.... no offense, but a LOT of these things you talk about sound stressful and awful. You deserve more than this....we all do. I like authenticity and intimacy.....all of these rules are very exhausting & a bit too much for moi
Things should not have to be that difficult in a 1st world vountry.
She spent the first 10 minutes of this video promoting commercials and ads. Smh
Did you gain weight or are you menstruating?
Eh. Screw denying yourself the pleasures in life like amazing desserts. You live once. “Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming "Wow! What a Ride!” - Hunter S. Thompson
That looks like what a french person would say ;)
She's not saying you should deny yourself eating them, just don't do it at every single meal or you obviously will end up obese
I think a French person would judge your food and tell you how many calories you are eating....I am SURE that quote is NOT from a French philosopher.....it is too happy
Paris is NOT France. It’s the worst city in France. Don’t go there.
No fake tan? Brigitte Macron is ORANGE
It seems like in France, there’s no accountability system in customer service situations. People have no incentive to really work. Part of their socialist culture.
The quality of service you get just depends on the workers mood at that particular moment.
Paris or France women attitude and like complain, kid or dress. For me hate them, but paris city or France country i like place, 20 years been paris study for couple years, my ex boyfriend America mixed paris blood teach me before, score them back, for my dress colour dont like parisian.. You live paris you create own world be yourself, you will be happiness live paris....don't copy france women dress..