There's a tiktoker who allegedly unalived his baby mama. Sorry I forgot his name but the guy is albino, he was taken in for questioning not sure how that story is going
A cautionary tale about spoiling a child. It’s so sad that she did everything to set him up for success and comfort in life. Yet, she forgot that spoiling a child could be just as damaging as neglecting a child. A balanced approach is critical. He lived in luxury, went to a private school, got a Merc AND an apartment when he went to college. He didn’t have to worry about food or how he was going to pay his tuition or struggle with public transport, etc. There’s an old proverb that says if you want to destroy a person give them everything that their heart desires. Struggle builds character and over-indulgence breeds boredom.
Not really, there's no formula in parenting. If your can afford to give your child a comfortable life u can, as long you see your child is driven. Whatever happened it looks like he was at some point an ambitious boy. I've seen many kids that come from comfortable life succeed, even though they were given everything. Because they would rather work hard than experience poverty.
@@ayandasam2269"Not really" but he killed his mother....the one that gave him so much...too much infact. He was handed everything on a silver platter. He never got to struggle and hence never really learned the value of anything. He was merely an overly spoiled man that has no love for anyone. Empty inside. Ofcourse OP is correct. Over indulgence did breed boredom...that led to drug use. Also...the mother was giving him so much money that he had alot to spare in purchasing drugs. This is a man..that was given everything...which ended up ruining his life because he has no opportunity to build a character of any kind. Just an ampty soul with an expensive apartment...Mercedes...and a bank account fat with dollars. He is very disturbed.
@@ndinashay4662 This mentality is puzzling to me. There are so many kids who were given everything and who never really worked for their possessions but today they are thriving and being great additions to society. This is a person-to-person issue. Wealthy families have been raising wealthy and driven kids for years without experiencing this. There are poor kids who have nothing but still end up killing their parents or family. This situation can happen to anyone when drugs are involved. This poor woman's love being used as a reason for her being killed is really troubling.
@@ndinashay4662 I mean my dear it doesn't mean when you provide your child with everything they need they will always end up like the boy who killed his mom.... That's where my point is at, the boy was cruel but it has nothing to do with what he was given... Cause that will mean those who had nothing and still kill it's because they had nothing.
@@nolubynature9513 even if it’s my son that does it to me (god forbid) I want him under the jail, cos if he can do it to his own mother imagine what he can do to a total stranger??
I have never heard of any parents teaching their children drugs. No one deserves to die like this, it was terrible and justice will be served, but if you know that your son has gone crazy due to drugs then you know he is not in his right state of mind and the things he does are due to the illness. @@unmaskwithbasi8897
That's not true, my brother in-law has committed 2 murders,k*lling his girlfriend and his aunt and a lot of violence act, the court and social workers they sent him to medical checkup and it was found out that he has bipolar, he committed all those crime because of mental illness. He never went to prison, he's taking medication and receiving government grant. It's not about background it's about government workers who knows they're jobs.
The editing alone is too good, the visuals that you provide are impeccable and bring life to the story. And thanks for not using that dreadful horror crime story music on the videos. It allows the story to speak for itself without invoking fear in the listeners. Great work!
People need to know you cannot brag about children, if God blessed you with a good child be greatful privately. Life is too long, I see people bragging about children I shake my head. Be humble stay humble seek for help from outsiders, we cannot do this alone. Seek help even to uneducated people they have best advises more than psychologists.
Very true cc. We pt our child under evil eyes for real by keeping up this posting life. People have honey on the lips but venom in the hearts. We must really be thankful in prayer, privately.
But we can’t leave in fear because of people. We are different and how we handle our situations is different. I don’t find anything wrong when someone post her success or her children’s. If the village wants to get you they come for you even if you don’t post any achievements. My 2 pence😊
As a single parent. I understand her 100%. I get efforts to give him the best that she could. I did the same for my daughter. Others may not agree. I also had an elder brother Victor that developed schizophrenia due to drug use ( cannabis ) somehow it led him to Christianity in the late 1970s when he stopped using cannabis. He had a few crazy stories about being targeted by security personnel and family that wanted to end his life but they were not common. It was just once in a few months or even years. We siblings didn't attach much to it because the comments were in passing, meaning there was never a deep discussion about it My parents however knew and took him to a psychiatrist in the late 1970's. They hid it from us until they died. We siblings never knew that Victor had schizophrenia until after he died in 2003 from diabetes. We always thought that his faith bordered on being a Christian fanatic. We only knew about it from the medical report shared when he died. I remember reading the report with shock where it stated that Victor was a known schizophrenic because he was under treatment for many years. That is when I connected the dots and understood what had happened in Victors life. My father was very loving to us but was somehow verbally cruel to my brother. He sometimes called him Jim Jones despite also being a Christian. After seeing many UA-cam videos about these issues I better understand mental health problems and the social responses. I understand that my father knew that Victor had Schizophrenia cause but could not handle it. I doubt that he linked it to Cannabis use given the era in which it was happening. That is why he was not kind despite being a lovely and loving father. I am so sad about what happened to Hope Zinde and Mark father. They did nothing wrong. They just wanted to give their gifted child the best as so many of us are trying to do. I fully understand how this tragedy could have happened. My sincere condolences to all affected.
Nxese for your loss. But thank you for sharing your experience because it gives essential and critical insights about the effects of drug abuse and how real mental health issues are in our society no matter how ugly it is and was in your life. That’s heavy. You- have my respect. I hope you heal ❤️
I have a mentally ill loved one, and it is hard for everyone in the situation. Cannabis use in itself doesn’t cause schizophrenia. If you mix it with other substances it can affect you mentally however
I still remember this story like yesterday 😢..That guy had everything in a silver platter 😬😬.It’s similar to the Van Brenda story 😢😢😢😢Luckily his father and stepmother got out alive😮
Listening to this the mother did everything she could as a mother and more than she could in the name of love. She died loving. May her soul rest in eternal peace.She fought a good fight.
She truly did. I'm not a parent yet but I've learnt that being one is not easy. Mark had a wonderful life that any child could ever ask for....but he still managed to get himself hooked on drugs - why?
May God comfort the family. This sad story is yet another in the list of endless Proofs that love doesn't set people free, the TRUTH set's free - (1) words of TRUTH and (2) the person of TRUTH. "And You would know the TRUTH and the TRUTH would set you free".
They were dumb for helping him after he killed his own mother. They loved him so much they were blinded!! Sometimes you have to let your children go even when it hurts. He was a drug addiction with mental issues. It’s so sad. His mother was so successful and deserved more. She was a March Pisces like me so I low her heart was so big!!!
@@LollyMadikiza-xw4ok Look into the reasons why you need to have a child first my love. If it is to fill a void, or for that child to take care of you when they are older those are selfish reasons. There is no guarantee that the child will turn out the way you want because children aren’t extensions of ourselves but completely separate individuals. Plus as a woman the responsibility falls mainly on you as most men aren’t really parents in the literal sense. Have a child because YOU want to but don’t have a child for a man. Lastly, be emotionally, financially, mentally ready, it’s really a huge task to take care of another human being for the rest of your life ❤️
@@jumpscare1530 With pics of him and his mom, yoh kuningi! I feel like he knew what he was doing cause he only targeted the parents. His mom gave birth to her killer😩😩
It is Always a Tragedy BEYOND words 💔 when someone is deleted by someone they know but when the culprit is the ONLY son ,of the victim, it is ABSOLUTELY DEVASTATING. Why the family of a murderer chose to include and address a man who deleted HIS OWN mother as a " loving son" just made me lose it COMPLETELY! As parents,we just have to know that, covering the weaknesses/ Faults of our kids WONT make that kid a better person. May her soul rest in PERFECT PEACE(The irony of this loving mother suffering such a fate at the hands of the person she dearly loved, just makes me cry at how cruel fate can be).....
Judging by the symptoms he was experiencing, it sounds like he was suffering from schizophrenia and bipolar which were exasperated by drug use. I say this because my brother has the same condition. So I understand why the family was trying to help him. Fortunately, my brother is not violent . The person truly isn't themselves
@allhaildrewzavic2838 how's your brother doing now?😢....I have a sibling of mine who was also diagnosed with schizophrenia and he's also not violent or anything like that but he keeps on hearing voices and the medication he was given is not helping him with anything...it's been 5 years now..he can't even do anything with his life
I grew up fairly comfortable ne...it isnt...one thing my cousins and I were taught is to remain humble and grateful for all the opportunities we were given.
I met Hope 2 times in hartbeespoort where I was working as a cashier. I remember she appeared to a very warm, respectful and a no nonsense taker kind of woman. I didn't even know who she was professionally 😅 and it was soo sad to find out who she was after the news of her death in pecanwood😢. May she rest well
No matter how well things look from the outside, there’s always more to what meets the eye. From a professional perspective, I have worked with a lot of ppl “who had it all” but were very lonely! Mental illness is a serious pandemic.
Ukutotosa ingane too much has never turned out good for anyone. Even after killing his own mother the family still praised him! What exactly did they think was going to happen? Great video!
I'm triggered everytime I hear or remember this story I'm also the victim of abuse from my son and he even lied to neighbour about our family so that people can feel pity for him and offer him money which he used to buy drug , he used to beat up his younger brother for telling on him and when I called the police I was verbally abused again by the police blaming me .they refused to open a case and said what kind ofa mother calls police on his son.
I've learned over time to look at family situations as a stranger looking in. It helps me to place a safe distance between myself and toxicity. Sad indeed!
The biggest mistake was buying him a car before 21 and an apartment. For those of us that lived at tertiary res, we know how important it is to socialise and create lasting memories with your peers. Having nothing or something at res, allows you to share and create bond with others, mostly importantly realise how privileged you are. The mother did what she thought was right, but forgot one important life lesson in a man’s development, struggles and humility. The lack of vision from the mother allowed all this to happen
Nah but I know you mean well. He would have probably killed her even though he lived at varsity res. Her mom did what all rich parents did ,buying them cars and apartments to make their lives easy and they never killed their parents. It doesn't mean they would lack adversity and remember he went to a private college with kids like him I assume so that makes him relatable in that class ( the upper class). I'm sure he had plenty memories at his varsity and lasting memories with other fellow students in his class or lower class if there were any. Having nothing on other side can make you have motives to do bad things because of peer pressure and envying the life of those who are privileged. Yeah."The Mother did what she thought was right" but we should also not forget the father ,was he a present and active father to help the mother ?🤔 Did he try to father him?🤔 Why was she a single parent?🤔( you can't answer that because clearly she was a single parent like it was said in the video). I bet if he was there the tragedy would have not happened, right? because his vision would have made him a better man. Lastly ,struggles can be detrimental to a development of a man.There is absolutely no reason to suffer in order have humility and being a good man. Also being a parent is hard, it has no manual and you can give more or less to teach your child reality of life to make them better people and they can still choose whatever way they want which doesn't align with what you tried to instill in them.
@@King_T5 woooooow, Woooooowoow, this is so Profound @SpingTeee,I agree with U totally, Strugles doesn't guarantee character, It's just a pity it happened the way it happened. And Posting Ur Child or anyone for that matter doest mean that U r bragging, Ppl r just bitter maaan. Tragedy can happen to u wheather u r posting or private. Let's stop the jeaoulsly maaan HaiBo 😱
We as parents we are in danger because of the love we have to our addicted kids.this is a sad story. My son is a schizophrenia from 2020 to date I'm struggling at the age of 65 ive tried everything and now he hates the family and always blame shifting
Druglords target rich kids because they know that they have the means to purchase drugs. Sometimes when you provide a soft life for your children look out for their behaviour changes.
This terrible painful story. I wish his parents took him to a better University then enrolling him at Varsity College, Especially the Pretoria branch. The environment in Pretoria is very ugly for the youth. May her soul rest in Peace.
These people raised a monster😮😮😮😮. These rich kids book into hotels and guesthouses to binge on these drugs. They are enabled by the allowances that they are given by their parents. The cars the clothing the money the apartments yah money is the root of all evil.😢😢😢
Be a supportive parent, by all means; but it's also important to ensure people are accountable for their own actions and choices. Overprotection then is also a problem in itself. He could've easily taken the life of his dad as well. RIP Hope!🙏
Please if you can do the murder of Constable Francis Rasuge! Thanks so much for sharing our local cases, these are people that left too soon, and should never be forgotten! ❤
The monster that killed Rasuge used to persue me, he'd drive around our house in Unit D Temba looking for me and every time he showed up I'd walk faster and ignore him.... Few weeks later, I saw him on TV that he brutally killed that beautiful Rasuge woman. It was so sad, the thought of everything freaked me out
@@vladz6578it remains one of the most horrible murders of just another beautiful soul... I am so thankful that you are still here with us! May God keep us all safe ❤️
This is a tragic story, hard to believe...a committed mother and parent, gave so much yet the light she carried for his son was grossly overshadowed by the darkness of evil: the dark world of drugs, he got hooked and became a monster that could not recognize the loving mother, father, stepmother, granny...and everyone else who was positive about him. I wonder how the drug peddlers live with their consciences with these tragic stories ...as a result of their *business*
@theplug_truecrime most welcome.. I'm not a fan of crime stories but you tell it so well I'm less freaked out ...yoh .what a cruel world we live in 💔 😢 Keep up the good work
My brother is bipolar, schizophrenic and suffers from depression. He is a heavy alcoholic and refuses to take any of his meds. He had been to rehab and mental hospital on numerous occasions. He gets very violent, when drunk. I have warned my mother numerous times, she refuses to have him permanently committed. I no longer get involved. I'm just waiting to hear that he killed her or my sister.
Oh no❤️❤️❤️😭, please consider showing her the video, so at least she is more aware of possible dangers. I’m so sorry and wish you and your family all the best❤️🙏🏽
Hayi uyayibeka indaba girl and thank you for sharing this has taught me to be careful towards my drug addicted friend I was giving too much affection and letting in my house .🙏🏾
It's drugs!! That crystal method is straight from the devil!! People who use that drug, change forever. What a pandemic. Heart breaking to watch and deal 💔 😢
How though ???? with all opportunities and being the only son with privileges a mother has in store for him 😢 a mother who gave up re marrying again to another man just to chose to love her only son....! I guess he was bewitched .. an evil spirits e teres this intelligent son....! 🎉this is sad 😔
It's only in 2017 that China reviewed their "one man ,one wife,one child" policy after very many years and nothing like that "disease" of only child's happened to an entire race.
You've been quite busy lately. You keep them coming sthandwa, thanks for this great work, you doing a great job bcoz even though these terrible stories are covered by media, you bring us the background and details.
I'm watching all your Videos Sisi and as much as these are very sad and unfortunate story. You're so good at this . Not only I listen to hear what has happened but these stories at the sametime open ones eyes
Sad story indeed, teach your children to be accountable for their actions from a young age secondly teach them the value of money irrespective of how rich you are
POV- I believe this guy has been affected by his parents separation for a very loooooong time and it so happened that the drugs triggered and magnified the anger Ps my sister it's "Limpopo" not "Limpompo" ..... Thank you 🙏
@lydsM I mean why else would he still want to harm his dad and step mom after everything that's happened? And why choose to live with him instead of grandma?
@@dintwemontsho1347 I noticed alot of kids out there blame their mums for divorce and in the end they choose the one who didn't contribute much wether financially, physically , emotionally hence why most parents raise their kids give them almost everything ebe ngwana are I want my dad or mom who left them Iong time ago, i think it's void and one wouldn't know what cause it
Seeing your channel for the first time today. Great story telling, great visuals. You got a new subscriber 🎉. Well done on your excellent work. Sad story indeed.
Sister…I love the rate at which you’re churning the videos out these days😉 I know that I’m guaranteed to find a new video almost on a daily basis. I love it!!! Please consider doing a video of the late Mr Wandile Bozwana. I think that’s a very interesting case.
Read about this some years back...the entire family enabled this boy. How do you buy a Mercedes and an apartment for a student then bail him out and take him home and not have him institutionalized...nah
The presence of materialistic stuff granted to your children doesn't enable them to do anything horrendous. Poor, middle-class & rich people do commit heinous crimes. Has nothing to do the amount of wealth their parents have. Stop being jealous of rich kids. Would you have said the same thing about a poor or middle-class child who committed this crime? And at he was institutionalized. He went to rehab. I'm not justifying anything. I'm saying that you should stop using platforms like these to expose the hate you have for rich people. If I am rich enough, I would have done the same. Took my child to private schools, bought him an expensive car and yes, even bought him his own apartment. STOP HATING & FOCUS ON THE HEINOUS CRIME THAT WAS COMMITTED TO THIS LOVING MOTHER!
Do you understand. In my opinion they took the whole thing too light , they shouldn’t have brought him home immediately they could have taken him in an institution under supervision until he was fit enough to live with relatives. Aah Shem I’ve trust issues I would never leave under the same roof with someone that committed such an offense
First time to see and watch your channel, I’ve subscribed and won’t miss any story. A very sad story that I’m relating to, hope my situation won’t end like this one. Drugs are a problem, worse Cristal meth😭😭😭😭 Continue Resting In Peace Hope
The pressure of parents to want their kid's to be certain people doesn't work! Every person at their own pace and time ,will work. Make your children feel poorer than the neighbour, m(Alon muks) that way they'll strive to work harder
Thank you guys for watching, please feel free to comment video suggestions.🫶🏽
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U the best 👌 ❤
Thank you so much!!!
There's a tiktoker who allegedly unalived his baby mama. Sorry I forgot his name but the guy is albino, he was taken in for questioning not sure how that story is going
@_molebogeng6281 thank you, I’m following the story. Will do a video soon (hopefully)❤️
A cautionary tale about spoiling a child. It’s so sad that she did everything to set him up for success and comfort in life. Yet, she forgot that spoiling a child could be just as damaging as neglecting a child. A balanced approach is critical. He lived in luxury, went to a private school, got a Merc AND an apartment when he went to college. He didn’t have to worry about food or how he was going to pay his tuition or struggle with public transport, etc. There’s an old proverb that says if you want to destroy a person give them everything that their heart desires. Struggle builds character and over-indulgence breeds boredom.
Not really, there's no formula in parenting. If your can afford to give your child a comfortable life u can, as long you see your child is driven. Whatever happened it looks like he was at some point an ambitious boy. I've seen many kids that come from comfortable life succeed, even though they were given everything. Because they would rather work hard than experience poverty.
@@ayandasam2269"Not really" but he killed his mother....the one that gave him so much...too much infact. He was handed everything on a silver platter. He never got to struggle and hence never really learned the value of anything. He was merely an overly spoiled man that has no love for anyone. Empty inside. Ofcourse OP is correct. Over indulgence did breed boredom...that led to drug use. Also...the mother was giving him so much money that he had alot to spare in purchasing drugs. This is a man..that was given everything...which ended up ruining his life because he has no opportunity to build a character of any kind. Just an ampty soul with an expensive apartment...Mercedes...and a bank account fat with dollars. He is very disturbed.
@@ndinashay4662 This mentality is puzzling to me. There are so many kids who were given everything and who never really worked for their possessions but today they are thriving and being great additions to society. This is a person-to-person issue. Wealthy families have been raising wealthy and driven kids for years without experiencing this. There are poor kids who have nothing but still end up killing their parents or family. This situation can happen to anyone when drugs are involved. This poor woman's love being used as a reason for her being killed is really troubling.
@@ndinashay4662so true, nothing here screams mental health. He was controlling and wanted his mother to do more as she did as always
@@ndinashay4662 I mean my dear it doesn't mean when you provide your child with everything they need they will always end up like the boy who killed his mom.... That's where my point is at, the boy was cruel but it has nothing to do with what he was given... Cause that will mean those who had nothing and still kill it's because they had nothing.
broooo im sitting here crying, this guy was so lucky in life he allowed drugs to mess everything up😭😭
😢😢😢eish me too. ! it's hard to be parent sometimes 😕 😪
Bro!😢💔
He got everything
@@sekgabimasobe9690 literally
Imagine a whole head boy with everything available to him and he also he had so much to offer the world....this is so unreal
She gave him life, and he took her life. Such tragedy.
Never ever try drugs, all it takes is just one puff and your life is gone
That's not true used meth for the last time on 17 January 2018 today I can proudly say I haven't used ever since & that's without rehab
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As a parent you can only do so much 😭😭😭 RiP Hope..
Unfortunately as a parent you can also do too much
True..😢
If someone killed my daughter, you’re not my granson, I don’t know you and justice must prevail!
😢and to stuff her body in the boot of the car and go on as if nothing happened 😮
@@nolubynature9513 even if it’s my son that does it to me (god forbid) I want him under the jail, cos if he can do it to his own mother imagine what he can do to a total stranger??
You'll saying that now ,.but it's not You'll in the situation. If he was loving before the drugs that is how they chose to remember him.
@@MoiseDeborah did I teach him drugs?
I have never heard of any parents teaching their children drugs. No one deserves to die like this, it was terrible and justice will be served, but if you know that your son has gone crazy due to drugs then you know he is not in his right state of mind and the things he does are due to the illness. @@unmaskwithbasi8897
I bet if he didn't come from a well off family. He would be in prison serving time. What an unjust justice system
I agree…
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I totally agree with you!
I said the same thing, there's lots of young men in y kasie,who suffered from such condition and committed such a acts,but are serving jail time
That's not true, my brother in-law has committed 2 murders,k*lling his girlfriend and his aunt and a lot of violence act, the court and social workers they sent him to medical checkup and it was found out that he has bipolar, he committed all those crime because of mental illness. He never went to prison, he's taking medication and receiving government grant. It's not about background it's about government workers who knows they're jobs.
What an ungrateful boy mxm
The editing alone is too good, the visuals that you provide are impeccable and bring life to the story. And thanks for not using that dreadful horror crime story music on the videos. It allows the story to speak for itself without invoking fear in the listeners. Great work!
Thank you sooo much Lorraine, I really appreciate this feedback ❤️❤️❤️
Imagine giving your child everything and the ending is all this😢
@nhlanhla...maybe his friends or relatives were jealous & introduced him 2 drugs...we wil never knw
@@LollyMadikiza-xw4ok still want to blame people wow no
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That is why u should never brag about children even when they doing well
Thats the problem black parents overdo it when they have money this child was spoilt senseless
People need to know you cannot brag about children, if God blessed you with a good child be greatful privately. Life is too long, I see people bragging about children I shake my head. Be humble stay humble seek for help from outsiders, we cannot do this alone. Seek help even to uneducated people they have best advises more than psychologists.
Very true cc. We pt our child under evil eyes for real by keeping up this posting life. People have honey on the lips but venom in the hearts. We must really be thankful in prayer, privately.
@@soniadaniels233 my mother used to brag about me and created enemies for me
But we can’t leave in fear because of people. We are different and how we handle our situations is different. I don’t find anything wrong when someone post her success or her children’s. If the village wants to get you they come for you even if you don’t post any achievements. My 2 pence😊
It’s not bragging….we are allowed to be celebrate our winning moments…one man meats is another’s poison..it’s unfortunate he met the wrong crowd
Exactly life is unpredictable
U brilliant story teller, dont stop posting. I hope you get recognised and get a netflix gig ❤
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@@theplug_truecrimelearn to pronounce Limpopo first
@@rorisangmatsiela8975we pronounce things the way we want
Yeses! I knew him as Vice from Hatfield. He had a A45, also met his Mom once. Unbelievable, sad and unbelievably sad 😔. RIP Hope
As a single parent. I understand her 100%. I get efforts to give him the best that she could. I did the same for my daughter. Others may not agree. I also had an elder brother Victor that developed schizophrenia due to drug use ( cannabis ) somehow it led him to Christianity in the late 1970s when he stopped using cannabis. He had a few crazy stories about being targeted by security personnel and family that wanted to end his life but they were not common. It was just once in a few months or even years. We siblings didn't attach much to it because the comments were in passing, meaning there was never a deep discussion about it My parents however knew and took him to a psychiatrist in the late 1970's. They hid it from us until they died. We siblings never knew that Victor had schizophrenia until after he died in 2003 from diabetes. We always thought that his faith bordered on being a Christian fanatic. We only knew about it from the medical report shared when he died. I remember reading the report with shock where it stated that Victor was a known schizophrenic because he was under treatment for many years. That is when I connected the dots and understood what had happened in Victors life. My father was very loving to us but was somehow verbally cruel to my brother. He sometimes called him Jim Jones despite also being a Christian. After seeing many UA-cam videos about these issues I better understand mental health problems and the social responses. I understand that my father knew that Victor had Schizophrenia cause but could not handle it. I doubt that he linked it to Cannabis use given the era in which it was happening. That is why he was not kind despite being a lovely and loving father. I am so sad about what happened to Hope Zinde and Mark father. They did nothing wrong. They just wanted to give their gifted child the best as so many of us are trying to do. I fully understand how this tragedy could have happened. My sincere condolences to all affected.
thanks for sharing, this was insightful
Thank you for sharing your story and the vulnerability. May many learn from both yours and Hope’s story. 🙏🏽
Nxese for your loss. But thank you for sharing your experience because it gives essential and critical insights about the effects of drug abuse and how real mental health issues are in our society no matter how ugly it is and was in your life. That’s heavy. You- have my respect. I hope you heal ❤️
I have a mentally ill loved one, and it is hard for everyone in the situation. Cannabis use in itself doesn’t cause schizophrenia. If you mix it with other substances it can affect you mentally however
Ow so so Sad to hear about Our News reader Mam Hope Zinde I remember her what a Kind and Professional Lady...eyyy
When you said that Mark was included as a “loving son” in the eulogy, I cried coz I know how hard it must have been for the family to say that. 😭💔
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I had to pause for a while when that was said😢.
A loving son. The irony. This is sad. Sadsadsad
I still remember this story like yesterday 😢..That guy had everything in a silver platter 😬😬.It’s similar to the Van Brenda story 😢😢😢😢Luckily his father and stepmother got out alive😮
Listening to this the mother did everything she could as a mother and more than she could in the name of love. She died loving. May her soul rest in eternal peace.She fought a good fight.
She truly did. I'm not a parent yet but I've learnt that being one is not easy. Mark had a wonderful life that any child could ever ask for....but he still managed to get himself hooked on drugs - why?
May God comfort the family.
This sad story is yet another in the list of endless Proofs that love doesn't set people free, the TRUTH set's free - (1) words of TRUTH and (2) the person of TRUTH.
"And You would know the TRUTH and the TRUTH would set you free".
What a tragic story. Sends chill down my spine. Well done on telling it so comprehensively and concisely. No parent should die like that.
They were dumb for helping him after he killed his own mother. They loved him so much they were blinded!! Sometimes you have to let your children go even when it hurts. He was a drug addiction with mental issues. It’s so sad. His mother was so successful and deserved more. She was a March Pisces like me so I low her heart was so big!!!
😢It's so hard to be a parent.
I realised that after I had a child and if I knew that I would not have had a child. It is so difficult. Money makes just a little difference
@@hlengiwemasondo2858 True, if there was a way to rewind. I would not either.
@@NomfundoV8u guys are scaring me bcoz i am praying 4 a child😳
@@LollyMadikiza-xw4ok trust me it is rarely worth it.
@@LollyMadikiza-xw4ok Look into the reasons why you need to have a child first my love. If it is to fill a void, or for that child to take care of you when they are older those are selfish reasons. There is no guarantee that the child will turn out the way you want because children aren’t extensions of ourselves but completely separate individuals. Plus as a woman the responsibility falls mainly on you as most men aren’t really parents in the literal sense. Have a child because YOU want to but don’t have a child for a man. Lastly, be emotionally, financially, mentally ready, it’s really a huge task to take care of another human being for the rest of your life ❤️
The fact that the family supported him after the arrest speaks volumes
That part shocked me😭
Even described him as a "loving son" in the obituary mxm
@@jumpscare1530 With pics of him and his mom, yoh kuningi! I feel like he knew what he was doing cause he only targeted the parents. His mom gave birth to her killer😩😩
@@NomfundoV8😢😢sad 😔 a successful mother for that matter 😢
@@cynthianhlapo6431 Yoh, so successful!
This is fast becoming my favourite channel 😍 the consistency is appreciated!
Thank you so much!!!❤️❤️❤️
Me too❤
wow! this is my first time hearing about this story
Thank you so much for watching❤️🫶🏽
Me too as shocking as it is mom did well
Very interesting story, full of wisdom and knowledge.
It is Always a Tragedy BEYOND words 💔 when someone is deleted by someone they know but when the culprit is the ONLY son ,of the victim, it is ABSOLUTELY DEVASTATING.
Why the family of a murderer chose to include and address a man who deleted HIS OWN mother as a " loving son" just made me lose it COMPLETELY!
As parents,we just have to know that, covering the weaknesses/ Faults of our kids WONT make that kid a better person.
May her soul rest in PERFECT PEACE(The irony of this loving mother suffering such a fate at the hands of the person she dearly loved, just makes me cry at how cruel fate can be).....
Judging by the symptoms he was experiencing, it sounds like he was suffering from schizophrenia and bipolar which were exasperated by drug use. I say this because my brother has the same condition. So I understand why the family was trying to help him. Fortunately, my brother is not violent . The person truly isn't themselves
The drug use was the straw that broke the camel’s back!
@allhaildrewzavic2838 how's your brother doing now?😢....I have a sibling of mine who was also diagnosed with schizophrenia and he's also not violent or anything like that but he keeps on hearing voices and the medication he was given is not helping him with anything...it's been 5 years now..he can't even do anything with his life
Your brother is not violent because he's not on crystal meth, Mark was because he was on drugs.
I hope your brother is doing okay❤
This is heartbreaking 😢
This is true. He really is just sick and can’t even understand what he has done, probably never will. It was not him anymore after the drugs
Sad ending to a strong bond of mother & son. RIP Hope!!!
Was it strong thou. I mean this is what ppl are saying. Only they know the real relationship they had
Oh, I remember this story, how tragic. I hope she's at peace.
Me too💔
And they said money is the answer to all your problems😢
I grew up fairly comfortable ne...it isnt...one thing my cousins and I were taught is to remain humble and grateful for all the opportunities we were given.
Eish😢
I met Hope 2 times in hartbeespoort where I was working as a cashier. I remember she appeared to a very warm, respectful and a no nonsense taker kind of woman. I didn't even know who she was professionally 😅 and it was soo sad to find out who she was after the news of her death in pecanwood😢. May she rest well
No matter how well things look from the outside, there’s always more to what meets the eye. From a professional perspective, I have worked with a lot of ppl “who had it all” but were very lonely! Mental illness is a serious pandemic.
I dont even skip ads because girl u working too hard
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Keep posting about these victims so that we never forget, thank you for your exceptional work 👏
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Agreed. She’s doing a great job! So many life lessons
Ukutotosa ingane too much has never turned out good for anyone. Even after killing his own mother the family still praised him! What exactly did they think was going to happen?
Great video!
She did the best for him. She worked so hard to provide him with a life moat of us would only dream of ❤❤❤❤RIP Hope Zinde
I'm triggered everytime I hear or remember this story I'm also the victim of abuse from my son and he even lied to neighbour about our family so that people can feel pity for him and offer him money which he used to buy drug , he used to beat up his younger brother for telling on him and when I called the police I was verbally abused again by the police blaming me .they refused to open a case and said what kind ofa mother calls police on his son.
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This was the most sad real life story. Drugs are a menace, killing your own mother.
That’s why we should protect Xolani ( Sizokuthola Mojalove
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I also remember this sad story vividly. Very painful that a mother’s life was taken by her son whom she loved dearly and was trying to help.💔
It's over a year since I've subscribed and now your consistency is doing the most 👌😊 Thanks hun😊
I’m making up 😅❤️, that you for watching babe!
Watching the son going through all that must have been the hardest part
I've learned over time to look at family situations as a stranger looking in. It helps me to place a safe distance between myself and toxicity. Sad indeed!
This Chanel has me in a cokehold and welldone on being so consistant. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏽
Us sis😢. I'm here
The biggest mistake was buying him a car before 21 and an apartment. For those of us that lived at tertiary res, we know how important it is to socialise and create lasting memories with your peers. Having nothing or something at res, allows you to share and create bond with others, mostly importantly realise how privileged you are. The mother did what she thought was right, but forgot one important life lesson in a man’s development, struggles and humility. The lack of vision from the mother allowed all this to happen
Struggle wouldn't have changed anything. Go research the Ellen Pakkies story. Drugs are the demon.
So true. Adversity builds character
Interesting, I've never looked at it from that point of view 🤔
Nah but I know you mean well.
He would have probably killed her even though he lived at varsity res.
Her mom did what all rich parents did ,buying them cars and apartments to make their lives easy and they never killed their parents.
It doesn't mean they would lack adversity and remember he went to a private college with kids like him I assume so that makes him relatable in that class ( the upper class).
I'm sure he had plenty memories at his varsity and lasting memories with other fellow students in his class or lower class if there were any.
Having nothing on other side can make you have motives to do bad things because of peer pressure and envying the life of those who are privileged.
Yeah."The Mother did what she thought was right" but we should also not forget the father ,was he a present and active father to help the mother ?🤔
Did he try to father him?🤔
Why was she a single parent?🤔( you can't answer that because clearly she was a single parent like it was said in the video).
I bet if he was there the tragedy would have not happened, right? because his vision would have made him a better man.
Lastly ,struggles can be detrimental to a development of a man.There is absolutely no reason to suffer in order have humility and being a good man.
Also being a parent is hard, it has no manual and you can give more or less to teach your child reality of life to make them better people and they can still choose whatever way they want which doesn't align with what you tried to instill in them.
@@King_T5 woooooow, Woooooowoow, this is so Profound @SpingTeee,I agree with U totally, Strugles doesn't guarantee character, It's just a pity it happened the way it happened. And Posting Ur Child or anyone for that matter doest mean that U r bragging, Ppl r just bitter maaan. Tragedy can happen to u wheather u r posting or private. Let's stop the jeaoulsly maaan HaiBo 😱
We as parents we are in danger because of the love we have to our addicted kids.this is a sad story. My son is a schizophrenia from 2020 to date I'm struggling at the age of 65 ive tried everything and now he hates the family and always blame shifting
Our children are so selfish as if we are owing them
Do you have a support system?
Hello Sisi may you please try SNC and St stem cells.. This is such a touching issue..
I am loving you so much lately 🥺♥️ Queen of consistency!!! Much appreciated ❤
Thank you so much!!🥹
Consistency mama
That’s me!😎😅
She’s been doing the most! May she not disappear 😂
You are such a great orator Sisi. Clear and precise without any weird sounds.
Well done and thank you 🙏🏽
Sad story
She just needs to improve on the pronounciation of our names. It was cringy when she said "Warona" or " Mamelodi"
You are a good narrator.....👌👌👌
Thank you so much 🥹
Druglords target rich kids because they know that they have the means to purchase drugs. Sometimes when you provide a soft life for your children look out for their behaviour changes.
Truth
This terrible painful story. I wish his parents took him to a better University then enrolling him at Varsity College, Especially the Pretoria branch. The environment in Pretoria is very ugly for the youth. May her soul rest in Peace.
These people raised a monster😮😮😮😮. These rich kids book into hotels and guesthouses to binge on these drugs. They are enabled by the allowances that they are given by their parents. The cars the clothing the money the apartments yah money is the root of all evil.😢😢😢
That's true I agree with you
Be a supportive parent, by all means; but it's also important to ensure people are accountable for their own actions and choices. Overprotection then is also a problem in itself. He could've easily taken the life of his dad as well. RIP Hope!🙏
Please if you can do the murder of Constable Francis Rasuge! Thanks so much for sharing our local cases, these are people that left too soon, and should never be forgotten! ❤
Thank you will definitely research it, appreciate the recommendation ❤️
The monster that killed Rasuge used to persue me, he'd drive around our house in Unit D Temba looking for me and every time he showed up I'd walk faster and ignore him.... Few weeks later, I saw him on TV that he brutally killed that beautiful Rasuge woman. It was so sad, the thought of everything freaked me out
@@vladz6578it remains one of the most horrible murders of just another beautiful soul...
I am so thankful that you are still here with us! May God keep us all safe ❤️
You are a gud narrator..all the best my sister much love 😘
Oh my God. I didn't know she passed also so brutally. I loved this lady. Her and Noxolo Grootboom were the face of news for me as a kid.
This is a tragic story, hard to believe...a committed mother and parent, gave so much yet the light she carried for his son was grossly overshadowed by the darkness of evil: the dark world of drugs, he got hooked and became a monster that could not recognize the loving mother, father, stepmother, granny...and everyone else who was positive about him.
I wonder how the drug peddlers live with their consciences with these tragic stories ...as a result of their *business*
Thank you for your hardwork❤ Guys let the views match the likes please🥺
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What a painful story,after all the sacrifices she did for her only son but still at the end she lost her life💔💔💔
Am addicted to this channel…you tell the stories so well
Your voice and narration keeps me glued here...not to talk about the research and eloquence in story telling ! The visuals are too good ....
Wow, thank you sooooo much!🥺❤️🙏🏽
@theplug_truecrime most welcome.. I'm not a fan of crime stories but you tell it so well I'm less freaked out ...yoh .what a cruel world we live in 💔 😢 Keep up the good work
My brother is bipolar, schizophrenic and suffers from depression. He is a heavy alcoholic and refuses to take any of his meds. He had been to rehab and mental hospital on numerous occasions. He gets very violent, when drunk. I have warned my mother numerous times, she refuses to have him permanently committed. I no longer get involved. I'm just waiting to hear that he killed her or my sister.
😢😢😢 eish 😔!
tell the police or get professional help
Oh no❤️❤️❤️😭, please consider showing her the video, so at least she is more aware of possible dangers. I’m so sorry and wish you and your family all the best❤️🙏🏽
Make use Police and Court system so that he knows that there is an upper hand that can deal with his violent behaviour.
Hayi uyayibeka indaba girl and thank you for sharing this has taught me to be careful towards my drug addicted friend I was giving too much affection and letting in my house .🙏🏾
Poor Hope. May she rest in peace😢
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I refuse to believe he is mentally ill 😩 usile in my personal opinion.
It's drugs!! That crystal method is straight from the devil!! People who use that drug, change forever. What a pandemic. Heart breaking to watch and deal 💔 😢
Usile nyhan that spoilt brat
How though ???? with all opportunities and being the only son with privileges a mother has in store for him 😢 a mother who gave up re marrying again to another man just to chose to love her only son....! I guess he was bewitched .. an evil spirits e teres this intelligent son....! 🎉this is sad 😔
@@cynthianhlapo6431 no ways excuses
Usile kakhulu mxm
Thank you for sharing the full story it all makes sense when you present with your full knowledge base. 👍
Many years ago I once heard someone say " Being the only child is a disease in its own", and this has somehow proven itself to me numerously
I'm an only child and I'm definitely not sick. Khaniyeke ezi generalizations eziphambeneyo.
It's only in 2017 that China reviewed their "one man ,one wife,one child" policy after very many years and nothing like that "disease" of only child's happened to an entire race.
@@Vadasca11Ngqo!
@@Vadasca11thank you!!
Generally being the only child of rich people, who are soft is dangerous
Tragic, she was an amazing mother ❤😢
Thank you for covering these stories we really appreciate you ❤️
My pleasure!!❤️ Thank you so much for watching!
You've been quite busy lately. You keep them coming sthandwa, thanks for this great work, you doing a great job bcoz even though these terrible stories are covered by media, you bring us the background and details.
Thank you so much babe ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
You never Dissapoint dear,thank you so much especially with this story ,she was my homegirl down to earth ,always laughing
I am shocked and hurt and angry and not sure how to feel actually. As a mother , I realise how this can happen to anybody. Very painful.
I'm watching all your Videos Sisi and as much as these are very sad and unfortunate story. You're so good at this . Not only I listen to hear what has happened but these stories at the sametime open ones eyes
Frequency on the upload has been at ultimate high. I love it. You are on fire🔥
Sad story indeed, teach your children to be accountable for their actions from a young age secondly teach them the value of money irrespective of how rich you are
Spoiling a child because of wealth and soft parent king usually leads to this.
Thanks for all your hard work & dedication. It definitely doesn't go unnoticed 👏🏽💯💋
🥹🥹🥹🥹🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Thank you so much for this! ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽🫶🏽
He is a danger to everyone.
It’s the consistency for me 🔥🔥
Thank you for the upload. I absolutely love your videos
Thanks for sharing this story. I had no idea the lady was no more.
Please be mindful when pronouncing Limpopo.
I like your content, even though its hard sometimes to watch. Thank you ♥
Thank you babe! ❤️🙏🏽
Just landed on this channel afew days ago and I've been looping the videos
You got a fan from Uganda🇺🇬
🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬 Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for always posting ❤continue please we love these!!
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️, will do ❤️🫶🏽
Great video. Thank you.
Just to correct you and everyone who is not aware, it's limpopo and not "Limpompo", there's 1 m.
Thank you so much for the correction, I’ve noted and apologise for the error❣️
I wish your Chanel could grow more and more... The kind of work you are doing is do good
Thank you so much! Appreciate this!
POV- I believe this guy has been affected by his parents separation for a very loooooong time and it so happened that the drugs triggered and magnified the anger
Ps my sister it's "Limpopo" not "Limpompo" ..... Thank you 🙏
Thank you for the correction ❤️ noted!
I agree with you
@lydsM I mean why else would he still want to harm his dad and step mom after everything that's happened? And why choose to live with him instead of grandma?
@@dintwemontsho1347 I believe he was indeed trying to connect to his dad we don't really know if he was an active father or just pushing finances
@@dintwemontsho1347 I noticed alot of kids out there blame their mums for divorce and in the end they choose the one who didn't contribute much wether financially, physically , emotionally hence why most parents raise their kids give them almost everything ebe ngwana are I want my dad or mom who left them Iong time ago, i think it's void and one wouldn't know what cause it
Seeing your channel for the first time today. Great story telling, great visuals. You got a new subscriber 🎉. Well done on your excellent work. Sad story indeed.
Say no to drugs 💔
Excellent story telling skill.
Thank you sooo much!❤️🙏🏽
Sister…I love the rate at which you’re churning the videos out these days😉 I know that I’m guaranteed to find a new video almost on a daily basis. I love it!!! Please consider doing a video of the late Mr Wandile Bozwana. I think that’s a very interesting case.
Thank you for watching, I don’t know they case but will definitely research it. Thank you for the recommendation 🫶🏽❣️
By the way…I’m always referring people to your channel on my whatsapp posts. Excellent stuff🔥
😂😂 But 'Limpo-mpo' is killing me 😅. Great video sis. Keep em coming 🎉🎉
😭😭😭😭😩😩😩Please guys forgive me 😅…I will never make the mistake again 🏃🏽♀️💨
And thanks for watching babe❣️
this boy was never loved he was just a measurement of accomplishments 😢what a sad ending
Or he was loved u can't predict someone even loved ones
How do you know?
Read about this some years back...the entire family enabled this boy. How do you buy a Mercedes and an apartment for a student then bail him out and take him home and not have him institutionalized...nah
The presence of materialistic stuff granted to your children doesn't enable them to do anything horrendous. Poor, middle-class & rich people do commit heinous crimes. Has nothing to do the amount of wealth their parents have. Stop being jealous of rich kids. Would you have said the same thing about a poor or middle-class child who committed this crime? And at he was institutionalized. He went to rehab. I'm not justifying anything. I'm saying that you should stop using platforms like these to expose the hate you have for rich people. If I am rich enough, I would have done the same. Took my child to private schools, bought him an expensive car and yes, even bought him his own apartment. STOP HATING & FOCUS ON THE HEINOUS CRIME THAT WAS COMMITTED TO THIS LOVING MOTHER!
That is what I was also thinking, they spoilt and enabled him!
Do you understand. In my opinion they took the whole thing too light , they shouldn’t have brought him home immediately they could have taken him in an institution under supervision until he was fit enough to live with relatives. Aah Shem I’ve trust issues I would never leave under the same roof with someone that committed such an offense
Totally agree
Real parenting not for sissies
You re a gud narrator much love from Zambia
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Much babe!❤️
I am loving the consistency🥰😍, your delivery on these cases is on another level❤🔥💥
Thank you so much 🤗
I intentionally watch advertisements so to support your channel....❤
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Nna I've been camping here the whole day, catching up on your previous video's.
Than Boom out of the way...😂😂😂 The new video drops❤❤
Lol😅🫶🏽❤️
Same. Ive been binge watching
The Devil goes around roaring like a Lion seeking to devour souls 😢 guard yourselves people with prayer and the word
Well said prayer is everything
And this is why I’m never having kids,gave him everything,but still decide to kill you,I’d give my things to strangers and relatives
PLEASE GIVE ME😂😂😂😂I'M A STRANGER.
I have a bad feeling about this, the is more to this story.
I have a feeling Hope knew his son very well but protected him.
First time to see and watch your channel, I’ve subscribed and won’t miss any story.
A very sad story that I’m relating to, hope my situation won’t end like this one.
Drugs are a problem, worse Cristal meth😭😭😭😭
Continue Resting In Peace Hope
The pressure of parents to want their kid's to be certain people doesn't work!
Every person at their own pace and time ,will work.
Make your children feel poorer than the neighbour, m(Alon muks) that way they'll strive to work harder
kids can be so ungrateful am debating having any mschew🤦🏻♀️
Please don’t have them if you don’t want to. It’s overrated and a lot of work. Societal pressure can be a detriment to our decision making at times.
It’s so sad😩😩😩
@@theplug_truecrime I wasn’t even aware that she had passed, this is so sad indeed.
This child is the devil himself 😭😭
He has schizophrenia, this is one person who truly was not of sound mind and I think he can be afforded grace