Compared to my hair your hair is so dense and full. There is no reason to feel ashamed or embarassed. You are a beautiful young woman. I love my wigs, but when it's awful hot, I don't wearr a wig, I go bald and only wear a hat. IT has taken me years to show myself bald in public. But now I don't care. That is such a big relief and freedom. Gretchen you are also on the war to freedom
Thank you so much for your kind words! My hair loss tends to fluctuate, sometimes being somewhat okay, other times not great, and then really bad. Right now, I think pregnancy has given my hair a bit more fullness at the nape of my neck-thanks, pregnancy! I admire your courage to go bald in public. That kind of confidence is so inspiring and truly liberating. It’s amazing how we all find our own ways to embrace ourselves. Keep rocking your wigs and hats, and enjoy that freedom! 😊🌟
I'm just starting my wig journey. I've watched dozens of videos from you and all of ur wig lady friends, but this has been the poignant for me. Wigs can be fun, but right now while I'm buying my 1st wig I feel vulnerable, and emotional. Thank you for sharing such an insightful video with us. Xo😊
You can do this! And you are allowed to grieve, too. It is a loss, for sure. It’s best to fully feel the loss and not stifle it. There will come a time when you have lots of lovely wigs and you get to choose the way you walk out the door. Your hair will take two minutes to do and it will turn out predictably beautiful each time. Until then, continue to reach out to the wonderful influencers in this community. It’s rare to find such acceptance and assistance these days. ❤️
Oh, I totally get where you're coming from! Starting a wig journey can definitely feel like a big step, and it’s completely normal to feel a mix of emotions. I’m so glad my video could offer some comfort and insight during this time. Remember, it’s all about finding what makes you feel confident and happy. Wishing you all the best on this new adventure! And.. I'm so glad you're here. Thank you for taking the time to comment 🥹💖✨
I was wearing Jon Reneau Drew in shaded praline. If you know it, you know that it is gorgeous. I fell asleep on the plane with my head forward on the tray. When I woke up and flipped my head back, Drew flew off my head, leaving me with my 2-inch-long, fuzzy gray hair out in the world. I grabbed the wig grip out of it, threw it back on my head, and excused myself from the middle seat where I was sitting between two men. I put the wig back on in the bathroom and found an entire row of empty seats to finish out the flight! But. I go to yoga in my natural state quite happily! Thanks for sharing your story and your wisdom with us, Steph. ❤
oh my goodness!!! Thank you, thank you for sharing this story!!! It's like I'm really feeling what you're saying while I read it!!! Drew in shaded praline is indeed gorgeous, and I'm glad you managed to handle the situation gracefully. It’s amazing how resilient and adaptable we can be in those moments. I love that you embrace your natural state for yoga-such a wonderful way to feel free and comfortable. Thank you for sharing your story and for the kind words, and for taking the time to comment🌟💖
Thank you so much 🥹 I guess I’m just used to feeling a certain way with my wigs on. Ever since my hair loss started about many years ago, it was really bad-way worse than it is today. My hair loss goes in waves, but ever since then, I only really feel like myself with a wig on. So, it’s been challenging to go natural lol. Usually, I only go natural around my husband and close family. Anytime I go out, I wear my wigs, so this was quite the day LOL.
Bald lady here. If it’s too hot and humid I won’t wear a wig. Would anyone wear a fur hat in brutally hot weather?! Does anyone judge bald men for not wearing a hat or toupee? No! Comfort and health first! Put on some great earrings and embrace your inner Alopecian! If more women would be brave enough to go out without covering up their head when it’s more comfortable to do so, then it would become much less of a stigma. That being said, I do love my wigs. But sometimes I just want to be comfortable being my authentic self. Stephanie, you are a particularly beautiful woman. You could be completely bald and wear a potato sack and you’d still look gorgeous! PS yes, I have ripped my wig off more than once to avoid heat stroke! 😁
Absolutely, comfort and health should always come first! 🌟 I completely agree-embracing our authentic selves and feeling comfortable in our own skin is so important. I love your confidence and your mindset about wearing wigs versus going natural. And thank you so much for the sweet compliment-you’ve really made my day! 💖✨ It’s wonderful to hear that you’ve found your own balance between wearing wigs and rocking your natural look. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experiences!
I was outside in the front yard trimming bushes. A branch grabbed my wig as I walked past and left my head. I laughed but prayed none of the neighbors were walking or looking out their windows! I wish wigs were like they are now when I was your age. They do give us freedom and confidence and as I’ve aged and become more invisible they have helped me feel younger…it’s sad how we do prioritize beauty in our society and youth. This a great video and I wish I had a daughter like you. Hugs❤
Yes! My husband and I went to the Florida Keys for our 20th anniversary and I powered through the first 2 days. Then we went on a kayaking tour through the mandrake tunnels. I looked at my husband and said I can’t continue and I’m gonna rip it off. It was hot, humid and just a hot sticky mess. Absolutely miserable. He told me to go ahead and I did! I felt so much better! I did have a hat which I did use. No one saw me take it off but they all took a second look like they couldn’t figure out what changed so quickly maybe they did, who knows, they didn’t ask and I didn’t say. I went the majority of the trip with a hat instead of a wig.
You are worthy and we love you regardless! ❤Thank you for sharing. That was a very personal experience. As a fellow alopecian girl who recently started to wear wigs for every public setting, i can feel your streas and anxiety thinking of removing your wig and exposing yourself to the outside. I would do the same exact thing; rushing to the first bathroom, searching for the hairtie, putting on the cap, all of it. Accepting the self is hard. I would love to see more women like us removing wigs in public just like we would a cap. Just no big deal, like a jacket, just removing things you don't need without the added anxiety. That's what i would like.
Living in a hot climate myself & being a hot natured person, I could almost feel the heat as you told this story…😩😂. Honestly no one is ever really paying as much attention to you as you think they are… I love the message of this video. As I try to remind myself, what other people think of me is none of my business!! 🫶🫶
I wore a wig for my vacation at hilton head, even at the pool. It wasn't super hot in october , and with a sun hat on and a wig, i just felt more glamorous. Well, on the last evening i really wanted to get my entire head wet and decide spur of the moment to snatch the wig off and go under. No one was around except my hubby and kids. My four year old is autistic and when she saw the wig come off and get tossed to the beach chair she screamed ,"MY HAIR". People were evidently on their balconies overlooking the pool and they were dying with laughter. 😂
This video is extremely important, to express these feelings is extraordinary and of incredible value. Every woman out there needs to know that no matter the situation they have value and self worth. I agree that having the option of wearing wigs is vital because our society still places a lot of importance in your appearance and we have all been trained to cater to this mentality. I also feel the need to look my best when I am in public, I worry less when I look my best. I am less self conscious. I wish I didn’t but I worry about what people see when they look at me. I want to be seen as confident, stylish and attractive. Especially now that I am in my late sixties, I want people to see I have self respect and value. I applaud your honesty and congratulate you for the realization that you always have value and deserve respect. 🫶🏻💕
Thank you so much for your thoughtful and encouraging words. 🌟 I’m truly touched by your message. I completely agree that feeling good about ourselves and presenting our best can make a big difference in our confidence and how we navigate the world. It’s so important to recognize our own value and to find what makes us feel our best, whether that’s through wigs, style, or simply embracing who we are. Your support and understanding mean a lot, and I’m grateful to be part of a community that values and uplifts each other. 💖🫶
When you said focusing on the inside as much as the outside will 100% serve you well as you become older (which is not as bad as some people tell you) and your face changes so much. You are beautiful, and you look beautiful with or without hair. Gorgeous face!! Gorgeous!❤
Kind of like "wearing makeup today VS not putting on makeup today". Glamming up is super awesome - especially for work, parties, and events... while on other days, your mind can be screaming "no makeup" (I totally get what you're saying)
thank you so much. 🥹 With the hat on, I definitely feel more comfortable because it hides the top of my head. The hair I have poking out at the bottom right now is alright looking for now- thank you, pregnancy!! LOL
Thank you for sharing your vulnerability. That takes amazing courage. The lesson is an important one. You are your amazing self, no matter the hair, wigged or not. I am struggling with this now using toppers to hide my thinning hair. So appreciate you acknowledging that dichotomy of two selfs. We are all much more than our outer appearance. It is your personality and honesty that shine.
❤thank you Steph. Your really helping me . I have the same amount of natural thinning hair as you. And I struggle exactly as you have described the issues us gals wearing wig vs the hot weather occurrences and the self acceptance of just not wearing it for sake of self love and care. Love you like family gal.
Thank you so much for your kind words! 🥰 It means a lot to hear that my experiences resonate with you. Navigating these challenges can be tough, but knowing we're not alone in this makes a big difference. Sending you lots of love and support on your journey. ❤✨
So glad you've given yourself some grace... I live in TX where the Summer heat average is 96-100 degrees F - similar to your stampede experience... Because of this, you will find me with a hat when I do go around town to do errands... I will only wear my wigs for work and for going out to dinner or something like that where the weather is climate controlled LOL. And like you said, it is ok. The important thing is to be comfortable with who we are. ♥
Oh girl. New to wigs here. I fear this moment. One of the first times I wore a wig out in public, I was at my grandma’s funeral and burial. I was up giving her tribute and I was nervous, emotional and flustered. It took ALL I had not to rip it off my head. lol 😆 I love the message and lesson behind this video. 🫶🏼💜
I wish my hair looked more like yours. I barely have any hair on top. My sister gasped one day when I showed her & my heart felt so deflated. 😢 I go in my backyard without a wig but not out my front door. I feel better with a wig. I can relate how you feel, I feel the very same.
I’m 2 people most days 🤪 I work in a dirty construction office so I don’t wear my hair/wigs to work. If I’m going out to dinner afterwards I’ll put on my hair ☺ I live in a sub-tropical climate, so you can imagine the heat 😬 I’m “fortunate” that one of my autoimmune side effects is that I’m cold more often than not. I do get warm sometimes but can power through it. STEPH! You’re pregnant too ~ I’m glad that a potentially awful experience helped you to realize it’s OKAY to not look ‘perfect’ 24-7. Sometimes we just need to give ourselves a little grace 🥰
Thank you, Steph, for this vulnerable and courageous video. Those of us who struggle with hair loss focus so much on moving forward in wearing alternative hair without stopping to appreciate who we are internally and that with alternative hair or not, we are valuable individuals no matter what we have on our heads. Thank you!
Yes! I take group dance classes and social dance. It can be incredibly hot, plus my dance partners sometimes knock or accidentally pull my hair and it feels like it slips. Occasionally I have panicked with the heat or slippage and taken my wig off and stuffed it into my bag. I carry a clip or hair tie with me ALWAYS just in case. On days when I just can’t do the wig because of the heat, I show up and say, “this is the real me!” When someone says my hair is different. I also tell them “you never know what me will show up!” I, like you, can get away with wearing my bio hair if necessary although I don’t feel like myself doing so anymore. I do understand completely how you felt.
Wow, it sounds like you have such a great attitude and practical approach to handling those dance class situations! 💃 It’s amazing how resourceful you are with having a clip or hair tie on hand. I love your “this is the real me!” and “you never know what me will show up!” mindset-it’s such a positive way to embrace and own your look, whether you're in a wig or your natural hair. Thanks for sharing your experience; it’s always comforting to know that others can relate. Keep dancing and being awesome! 🌟💖
I love this video! Thank you for talking about this. I also have ripped my wig off, in the car, and at a party! I definitely agree that we need to wear a wig as long as it feels good and authentic, and NOT wear one if it doesn't. My hair is about like yours and I went to a family event yesterday wig free, and to an appointment today wig free. No hat either. Not one person said anything except that I looked nice.
I’m so glad you enjoyed the video! 😊 I totally get the wig-ripping moments-they happen to the best of us! It’s so empowering to embrace our authentic selves and feel comfortable doing so. Your experience at the family event and the appointment sounds fantastic. It’s great to hear that you received positive feedback and felt good without the wig. Sometimes, the most freeing feeling comes from just being ourselves. Thanks for sharing your story and for the kind words!
Have any of you RIPPED your wig off in public? 😆 Please tell me your stories below!! It is my hope that this can be a place where we come to feel supported, tell stories, have some laughs, all that good stuff. I'm dying to hear from you here in the comment section! 😍
Hello , I’m new to your channel AND WHAT a channel IT IS ! I’m new to wigs ,Brand NEW ! I SO I Appreciate your perspective and Honesty on WIG’S ! I could go on and on but won’t . Just know that this video gave me a new perspective on self confidence and I couldn’t be MORE Grateful So Thank You ! BTW your Gorgeous ,with or without Wig’s …….. BTW ,i’M 75 years old and this Video really and Truly was just Terrific ! Thank You So Much 💗 I’m now going to continue Binge watching the rest of your videos 👏👍💐 A new and grateful subscriber . Sending you All The Best , Patty
You look completely fine with that hair....lol.....if I passed you on the street I wouldn't take note of your hair....good or bad....I get it....but it's your sensitivity....I'm a Virgo, we notice everything....your hair looks fine....lol....really!!!
I’m so glad you enjoyed the video! 🌟 Body positivity and acceptance are such important topics, and I’m happy to hear that it resonated with you. It means a lot to know that the message is making a difference. Thank you so much for taking the time to comment 🥹💗
I always had hair that gets complimented until I turned 60 and it started falling out. With help from a dermatologist I got it back to a fairly presentable condition. It’s not cute by any means, but it’s passable without big bald spots. If you’re someone that is extremely attractive like you are, not looking your best can be hard for you to take. I was the same way. But, somewhere along the way I started putting more time into things about the way I look that I can control, and I try to let those things shine. A fit and slim body. Healthy skin (though a little wrinkled). Nice blue eyes. I just wear a baseball cap or hat or pin in a bun and go on with my day. I realized several times that when I thought I had made big changes to my look, like losing 17 lbs over 3 months, people aren’t looking at you as much as you think. They are wrapped up in their own thoughts and feelings.
My hair is very similar to yours and it never really occurred to me it looks like poo. 😅It is because you used to have long luscious hair that you feel like your hair looks so bad now (whereas I always had short hair& could never really grow it out), but your hair does NOT really look like you have a “problem”, nobody would give it a second thought if you’re just a person on the street or at an event or in any public space. Maybe I’d notice the thinning if I was literally staring down at your head from a certain height but even then wouldn’t think “oh gosh what a terrible situation”. I go out every daywith a similar amount/ thinness of hair and have not yet started wearing alternative hair. I think we just don’t have a lot of hair, and if we want more we can wear wigs but if we go out simply having less hair it still looks “normal” to other people. I’m quite certain of that!❤️ Thank you for the video and your words which make us feel that we’re all in this together and we are all going to be fine.❤️
Thank you so much for your thoughtful message. I’m so sorry if my comments about my own hair made anyone feel self-conscious about their own hair. My use of “poo” was just my way of expressing how I feel about my hair’s transition from having long, luscious locks to dealing with thinning. I’ve always had more hair in the past, so when my hair loss began, it felt like a big change. Right now, my hair is actually coming in waves, and the nape of my neck is a bit fuller than it has been, thanks to pregnancy-so I’m grateful for that! My hair loss has varied over time, and this fuller bit at the nape is a nice surprise. I totally agree that hair can look completely normal and beautiful, no matter the amount. We’re all in this together, and your support means a lot. Thanks again for your kind words and for being part of this journey with me! 💖
Thank YOU!!! I totally get it and didn’t mind the poo comment at all! I’ve said SO many bad things about my own hair - a thousand times. We just need to let our feelings out sometimes! I only meant that I wish you’d feel allowed to wear your hair and for that to be as OK for you as with wigs, choosing to wear either your bio or your alternative hair depending on your mood or the occasion, and not because you feel your thinner hair looks horrible because it doesn’t.❤️ I’ve been really loving your videos and have found them immensely helpful and even healing /soothing. You’re the first person that made me really consider wigs as a happiness-inducing thing in life. I’m sure all your viewers feel the same and am super grateful to you.❤️
I am not someone who can tolerate heat very well on the best of days, but when I was pregnant I swear I felt hot ALL THE TIME. I remember vividly being in a grocery store produce section in January when it was about 22°F outside and this man was staring at me, open-mouthed. He was bundled head to toe in winter wear and I was wearing a maternity t-shirt and jeans. He must have thought I was crazy, but I was like, "I'm finally comfortable!" 😂 I'm impressed you ventured out in that heat at all, let alone in a wig!
First- you’re beautiful inside and out- thanks 1:45 for sharing. I was in Florida in July and kept my wig on in 95 degree (37c) and kept it on so long I got symptoms of heat illness (nausea, headache,etc. big lesson… don’t wear that wig the rest of the trip when on the beach- bandanna and hat did the trick and no one even looked twice!
I do take it off sometimes when I feel uncomfortable. I envy those people that go out with bald head and don't care about what others think. and if I would see you in the street wouldn't think your hair looks bad or anything. it is good that your daughter see you accept yourself as you are ❤
Compared to what I have you have massive hair. But I'm 80 so it's okay. But when I lost my hair I was very young. I have had it happen where my grandson didn't like the wig I had on and he kind of flicked at it. We were at Costco. People everywhere. And my wig flew off. I caught it but I was absolutely humiliated and my grandson felt terrible. He was just a little guy. I thought I would die. I think all of us wig wearers can identify with what you're talking about. And it is embarrassing. I was single, divorced, young and dating. It was awful. Didn't want anybody touching anywhere near my head. So I was always a wreck. I wish I had just been myself and let people know who I was, what I was ,how I was. I lied all the time about my hair. But if they didn't like me for it. Oh well then they weren't Worth it!. Because if someone wants a Barbie doll, that's not me. It's no need to pretend. You are beautiful. Everybody has something. Maybe it's not outwardly shown, but I've been grateful that it was hair loss and not cancer, or diabetes, any health issues, or any number of things. We are so fortunate for the wigs we have. 50 years ago when I started wearing them they looked like wigs. Your story is so helpful to other people who have experienced this. Fact is it is embarrassing.
I live in Florida and have been wearing wigs full time for years. It is no different than wearing a hat to me. I tend to avoid crushing crowds in near 100-degree heat though. It is no place for children either.
I live in Florida and before I lived in Guam(island in the Pacific). It gets hot in both places. I had that feeling I need to wear a wig all the time, but during the hot days I wear my hair maybe with a bun extensions. I feel like me all the time. My hubby loves me in every way, and that makes me feel so good. Girl do you and feel good about you because you are beautiful no matter what. ❤
Wow, that’s so wonderful to hear! 🌟 It sounds like you’ve found a great balance with your hair and your hubby’s support is so heartwarming. I also feel really good around my husband, Dan. He loves my natural hair too, and that makes a huge difference in how I feel. Thanks for sharing your positive vibes and reminding us all to embrace ourselves-whether it’s with a wig, bun extensions, or just our natural selves! =)
It’s so nice to have wigs that have style. I know how you feel. I’d never take it off. My head is bald in spots. Your young you’d look good anyway you lookin. I get out of breath, I would have gone.❤
I've never used a wig before. Btw Steph I sent you an email and still waiting for your reply:) I get used to extensions and those powder hair fibers to cover up the roots and ofc lots of accessories and makeup. But once I was at a rock concert with my best friend, she was very aware of my situation. I had a hair band with hair pieces to cover up my bald spots. I did not know people could be so cruel at that time. In the middle of the concert, the singer jumped into the front seats and we were there. We were screaming like crazy and I could not understand what had happened, suddenly my best friend pulled out my hairband. And she continued to jump (!) and cheer. I swear I saw a grin on her face! I felt so humiliated, I could just sit down in the crowd and try to wear my headband back :( I could not see and touch the rockstar :( and I burst into tears while sitting and hiding in the middle of the crowd. Yeah, she is not my best friend anymore, not even a friend .. After that I gave up hiding it from people and I freely told everyone that I have a hair issue. I told them that I use accessories, extensions, etc. I did not want to be blackmailed by people owing to my weak sides. Besides I did not want to be abashed by those horrible, calculative people around me. Being fearless is power. But now I want a wig to cheer myself up. I am looking for the best first wig for me ...And Steph! You would look gorgeous with anything. You have an amazing husband, a beautiful kid, and a newcomer. A piece of hair does not ruin your beauty. Whatever you decide I will support you!
I agree with everything you said! I live in Kansas in the USA and it is so hot right now. My wigs are killing me right now. My hair is very thin. I’ll go somewhere and I want to take my wig off in the car when I’m driving home. I don’t want people to see me even in the next car! lol. But they probably won’t even notice me.
I totally get it! Kansas heat can be brutal. It’s tough when you just want some relief and feel self-conscious about taking off your wig. I’ve been there too-sometimes I just need to take a breather. Remember, most people are focused on their own lives, so they probably won’t even notice. It’s all about finding what makes you feel comfortable and confident. Hang in there, and take those wig breaks when you need them! 😊💖
Omg yes I’ve been in your place. The difference is I couldn’t bring myself to take my wig off . I came so close to having heat stroke. Not smart! I will never put myself in that situation again. We are having a heat wave in the states this summer. Im staying inside 😅
I’m 69 yo, so a-bit older than you, lol, and I recently cut my hair into a Mohawk. I’ve been wearing wigs for about 1.5 years now. I was up visiting my granddaughters this past weekend and I was told to bring a bathing suit so I knew we were going to go to the pool. Well, needless to say I was NOT going to wear a wig in 95-100 degrees F! So, I donned my huge visor and went to the pool. Normally I would have removed my hat to go into the water but I kept it on, not wanting to expose my Mohawk! I did ok, it was hard, but no one commented or seemed to notice so I got through it ok and now have more confidence to do it again in the future. This was a good test for me because I’m going on a cruise with my husband in October!
Wow, that sounds like quite an adventure! 🌟 I love your spirit and confidence in embracing your Mohawk and finding creative solutions for staying cool. It’s great to hear you made it through the pool day with your visor and that it boosted your confidence for future events. A cruise sounds like such an exciting trip! I’m sure you’ll handle it with the same amazing attitude. Thanks for sharing your story, and I’m cheering you on for your upcoming adventure! 💖🛳
Hey Steph … I love your channel girl … I need your advice … I have a wig that I looooooove Luna by Ellen WILLE I know you have this wig also … I have her in the Bernstein multi shades … and it’s just a little to warm for my skin tone … have you ever toned a wig with alcohol and rit dye? I’ve seen it done but not on these great quality wigs … just wondering if I can “cool” the tone of this beauty slightly so she compliments me more … any advice is appreciated… keep up the great work my friend ❤
Hey there! 🌟 I totally get the frustration of a wig being a bit too warm for your skin tone. I’ve faced that issue before too! I wish I could say that toning with alcohol and Rit dye would be a foolproof method, but unfortunately, I can’t recommend it for synthetic wigs. The materials and processes used in making synthetic wigs can lead to unpredictable results if you try to alter the color yourself. Instead, my best advice is to return the wig and get it in a different color that suits you better. It’s a bit of a hassle, but it’s much safer than risking a DIY color change that might not turn out as expected. I’ve tried adjusting the color before and had mixed results, so I prefer to stick to wigs in the right color from the start. Hope this helps, and thank you for the kind words! 😊
Fook! You did that at the Stampede? I'm not even a Calgarian or even been to the Stampede, but as a fellow Albertan, I'm sorry all the same that you had that experience.
You look perfectly fine without the wig! My first time was hard too. My hair is even so much worse, but if I go swimming or sunbathing I just take it off 💪
I feel your pain! I live in Spain and lost all my hair through chemo... It's like 40 degrees here at moment so I have a wig in plaits in my car with a baseball cap and it goes on to go into supermarket then off again when I get back in the car... I love November -May here but I avoid going out during eves in the summer or having gatherings as I hate being bald in front of others... I don't care at home but just don't feel feminine all make up on then a bald head
During the summer, if I’m going to be outside, I usually just wear a hat or ball cap. It just depends on how hot it is. You honestly look beautiful with your ball cap. Rip it off! As much as I love my wigs, there’s a point it’s not worth it.
Our hair is the same length. Very thin. Frizzy. I’m 53 in menopause. I get so nervous if anyone can even see or think I have one on. I don’t think I could take one off in public. You are so brave!! But I get it! I live in Louisiana
It’s comforting to know that we’re not alone in these moments, and it’s okay to feel frustrated sometimes. Hang in there, and remember, you’ve got support from all of us going through similar experiences! ❤
OMG Steph, it is the worst scenario! Once laying down during a yoga class, my wig just popped off. I freaked! Not sure if anyone saw me, but quickly pulled it back on.
OMG!!! This happened to me too! A few years ago, during a yoga class in a darkened room, I was doing Downward Dog and forgot to wear my wig grip. I was so focused on it that, sure enough, off it slid! The person next to me looked a bit shocked, but I just laughed it off, smiled at her, and quickly put my wig back on. She ended up smiling too, and we carried on with the class. It was definitely a bit embarrassing, but sometimes you just have to roll with it and make the best of the situation! 😂🙈
Hello Steph - I’m in Red Deer and this hot weather I can’t even.. It feels like it’s sucking life out of me lol My old bungalow doesn’t have AC so only basement provide some temporary relief. I can’t even think about wearing a wig in this. I have advanced frontal alopecia and wearing hat or scarf/bandana still kind of works. Watching some daily updates on tv from Stampede I was seriously questioning people’s sanity 😅 Anyway hoping for cool down soon. Just letting you know you are not alone !
Omg, yes! It’s been 105 F and I had on a no permatease, low density wig (Destiny) and I had to yank it off my head because I thought I was going to actually die. I totally understand ❤
I ripped my wig off when I got to the car many times. Baseball cap always in the car. Thank you for being my hero. I am much older than you and I never thought I would get alopecia. Hot Hot Hot and humid here in Florida. Some people know I where wigs, some don't One stranger, a women, asked me if I was wearing a wig. Really? What if I had cancer?
@@dianemarie1174 this literally happened to me the other day with one of my new wigs that I was just testing out. I hadn’t customized it yet.. I was so appalled that she would even ask me that AND she said it in sort of a disgusted way!! 🤦♀️
you brought back memories of the summer I visited Barcelona. I was in very turistic place, waiting my turn to get into a Gaudi building under the sun and wearing a Jon Renau synthetic dark wig, fully hand tied, I had to wear a white hat over it otherwise it was unbereable, felt like it was melting for real, everyone listen, those are the hottest hair pieces you can wear. I finally managed to get into a bathroom and take it off, what a relief.
You are not alone ! i ripped my wig once in public, it started to rain a lot and "i thouhgt i'm not letting my wig gettin wet " i looked around take the wig off and put it in my handbag runnig for my life lol 😅
I've taken off and even tried on wigs with friends in public but in like quiet parks or cafes. I'd never have done that in a huge parade if for no other reason than I might lose it with people moving and partying like that
Yes Ive learnt on hot day leave my hair wet under neath my wig...... oil makes you hot don't do that on hot days....heat escapes through you scalp other tip is tip water on your head if you cant remove your wig Ive done that before but i use synthetic wigs so the style stays in
Lol! I have taken a wig off in public and tried to be sly but nonchalant while doing so. Did it since I had worn it for hours and just wanted a break! Lol😂I think you being pregnant added to your sweaty despair! 😊 yes Steph, wig or natural hair you are good! ❤
It is hot out there. We sat outside at a birthday party for 1 1/2 hours last weekend. The hosts knew I was doing chemo and had placed an oscillating fan near me. I did so so. But getting into our hot car, I whipped my Ignite off so fast I’m surprised I didn’t throw my shoulder out. 😂
Today my head got very itchy while in the car. I live in Arizona and it is very HOT! My wig came off at the stop light and I did not care who saw me. 😂
I LOVE those head covers, women of color wear. My face looks better, the higher the hair the better. Do u think I might be called out in public if I wear one ?
But, it only looks like poo because it's been flattened down by your hat. I think if you'd comb a sidepart in and used product it would be fine. Yes, 37 celsius is about 88 Fahrenheit- I have a little experience with celsius because I've been to Brazil over 7 times- I have to get used to it. I do appreciate your vulnerability. It's a great story. PS. I find it so shocking that today's parents have their newborn bablies and toddlers in the sun with no hat. That's just crazy. In my day, children always wore hats and beanies in the winter. What's your opinion on that?
@@WigsWithSteph I apologize- I was not insinuating that you would do that. I was going to end that comment with, "But I know you wouldn't do that." I should have added that- sorry. ( Start to pay attention to other parents your age and let me know what your observations are. )
You are beautiful in your wigs but anyone that didn’t know you wouldn’t think anything amiss with your natural hair and you still look beautiful, but maybe being hot and pregnant had more to do with your insecurity at that moment. If my hair looked like yours I wouldn’t wear my wig, lol xxx
Thanks for your comment! I have Graves Disease, which causes hair loss, though it tends to come in stages. That’s actually why I started my wig channel-I’ve been wearing wigs for years and have grown to love them. Now, I’m dedicated to helping others who are struggling with similar issues or just want to learn about wigs. Welcome to my channel! If you’re interested in hearing more about my Graves Disease and hair loss story, you can check out my video here: ua-cam.com/video/i6M3pH6nA08/v-deo.html😊
Compared to my hair your hair is so dense and full. There is no reason to feel ashamed or embarassed. You are a beautiful young woman. I love my wigs, but when it's awful hot, I don't wearr a wig, I go bald and only wear a hat. IT has taken me years to show myself bald in public. But now I don't care. That is such a big relief and freedom. Gretchen you are also on the war to freedom
Thank you so much for your kind words! My hair loss tends to fluctuate, sometimes being somewhat okay, other times not great, and then really bad. Right now, I think pregnancy has given my hair a bit more fullness at the nape of my neck-thanks, pregnancy!
I admire your courage to go bald in public. That kind of confidence is so inspiring and truly liberating. It’s amazing how we all find our own ways to embrace ourselves. Keep rocking your wigs and hats, and enjoy that freedom! 😊🌟
I'm just starting my wig journey. I've watched dozens of videos from you and all of ur wig lady friends, but this has been the poignant for me. Wigs can be fun, but right now while I'm buying my 1st wig I feel vulnerable, and emotional. Thank you for sharing such an insightful video with us. Xo😊
You can do this!
And you are allowed to grieve, too. It is a loss, for sure. It’s best to fully feel the loss and not stifle it.
There will come a time when you have lots of lovely wigs and you get to choose the way you walk out the door. Your hair will take two minutes to do and it will turn out predictably beautiful each time.
Until then, continue to reach out to the wonderful influencers in this community. It’s rare to find such acceptance and assistance these days. ❤️
Oh, I totally get where you're coming from! Starting a wig journey can definitely feel like a big step, and it’s completely normal to feel a mix of emotions. I’m so glad my video could offer some comfort and insight during this time. Remember, it’s all about finding what makes you feel confident and happy. Wishing you all the best on this new adventure! And.. I'm so glad you're here. Thank you for taking the time to comment 🥹💖✨
I was wearing Jon Reneau Drew in shaded praline. If you know it, you know that it is gorgeous. I fell asleep on the plane with my head forward on the tray. When I woke up and flipped my head back, Drew flew off my head, leaving me with my 2-inch-long, fuzzy gray hair out in the world. I grabbed the wig grip out of it, threw it back on my head, and excused myself from the middle seat where I was sitting between two men. I put the wig back on in the bathroom and found an entire row of empty seats to finish out the flight!
But.
I go to yoga in my natural state quite happily!
Thanks for sharing your story and your wisdom with us, Steph. ❤
oh my goodness!!! Thank you, thank you for sharing this story!!! It's like I'm really feeling what you're saying while I read it!!!
Drew in shaded praline is indeed gorgeous, and I'm glad you managed to handle the situation gracefully. It’s amazing how resilient and adaptable we can be in those moments.
I love that you embrace your natural state for yoga-such a wonderful way to feel free and comfortable. Thank you for sharing your story and for the kind words, and for taking the time to comment🌟💖
You are seriously gorgeous both ways. I’m not just trying to make you feel better!! You are beautiful.
Thank you so much 🥹 I guess I’m just used to feeling a certain way with my wigs on. Ever since my hair loss started about many years ago, it was really bad-way worse than it is today. My hair loss goes in waves, but ever since then, I only really feel like myself with a wig on. So, it’s been challenging to go natural lol. Usually, I only go natural around my husband and close family. Anytime I go out, I wear my wigs, so this was quite the day LOL.
Bald lady here. If it’s too hot and humid I won’t wear a wig. Would anyone wear a fur hat in brutally hot weather?! Does anyone judge bald men for not wearing a hat or toupee? No!
Comfort and health first! Put on some great earrings and embrace your inner Alopecian! If more women would be brave enough to go out without covering up their head when it’s more comfortable to do so, then it would become much less of a stigma. That being said, I do love my wigs. But sometimes I just want to be comfortable being my authentic self. Stephanie, you are a particularly beautiful woman. You could be completely bald and wear a potato sack and you’d still look gorgeous!
PS yes, I have ripped my wig off more than once to avoid heat stroke! 😁
Absolutely, comfort and health should always come first! 🌟 I completely agree-embracing our authentic selves and feeling comfortable in our own skin is so important. I love your confidence and your mindset about wearing wigs versus going natural. And thank you so much for the sweet compliment-you’ve really made my day! 💖✨ It’s wonderful to hear that you’ve found your own balance between wearing wigs and rocking your natural look. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experiences!
Not gonna lie, made me tear up a little. Such an important message! Thank you, Steph!!! Totally agree. ❤
thank you for your comment 🥹 I'm so glad it resonated with you ❤
Needed this
I was outside in the front yard trimming bushes. A branch grabbed my wig as I walked past and left my head. I laughed but prayed none of the neighbors were walking or looking out their windows! I wish wigs were like they are now when I was your age. They do give us freedom and confidence and as I’ve aged and become more invisible they have helped me feel younger…it’s sad how we do prioritize beauty in our society and youth. This a great video and I wish I had a daughter like you. Hugs❤
Yes! My husband and I went to the Florida Keys for our 20th anniversary and I powered through the first 2 days. Then we went on a kayaking tour through the mandrake tunnels. I looked at my husband and said I can’t continue and I’m gonna rip it off. It was hot, humid and just a hot sticky mess. Absolutely miserable. He told me to go ahead and I did! I felt so much better! I did have a hat which I did use. No one saw me take it off but they all took a second look like they couldn’t figure out what changed so quickly maybe they did, who knows, they didn’t ask and I didn’t say. I went the majority of the trip with a hat instead of a wig.
I can "power through," but I am still mortified - smiling while my body is flooded with stress hormones. You are not definitely not alone.
You are worthy and we love you regardless! ❤Thank you for sharing. That was a very personal experience.
As a fellow alopecian girl who recently started to wear wigs for every public setting, i can feel your streas and anxiety thinking of removing your wig and exposing yourself to the outside. I would do the same exact thing; rushing to the first bathroom, searching for the hairtie, putting on the cap, all of it. Accepting the self is hard. I would love to see more women like us removing wigs in public just like we would a cap. Just no big deal, like a jacket, just removing things you don't need without the added anxiety. That's what i would like.
Living in a hot climate myself & being a hot natured person, I could almost feel the heat as you told this story…😩😂. Honestly no one is ever really paying as much attention to you as you think they are… I love the message of this video. As I try to remind myself, what other people think of me is none of my business!! 🫶🫶
I wore a wig for my vacation at hilton head, even at the pool. It wasn't super hot in october , and with a sun hat on and a wig, i just felt more glamorous. Well, on the last evening i really wanted to get my entire head wet and decide spur of the moment to snatch the wig off and go under. No one was around except my hubby and kids. My four year old is autistic and when she saw the wig come off and get tossed to the beach chair she screamed ,"MY HAIR". People were evidently on their balconies overlooking the pool and they were dying with laughter. 😂
You are gorgeous with or without a wig!! Truly!💕
Ive never said this before lol but what a sweet woman you are. Genuine, and kind. ✌️
This video is extremely important, to express these feelings is extraordinary and of incredible value. Every woman out there needs to know that no matter the situation they have value and self worth. I agree that having the option of wearing wigs is vital because our society still places a lot of importance in your appearance and we have all been trained to cater to this mentality. I also feel the need to look my best when I am in public, I worry less when I look my best. I am less self conscious. I wish I didn’t but I worry about what people see when they look at me. I want to be seen as confident, stylish and attractive. Especially now that I am in my late sixties, I want people to see I have self respect and value. I applaud your honesty and congratulate you for the realization that you always have value and deserve respect. 🫶🏻💕
Thank you so much for your thoughtful and encouraging words. 🌟 I’m truly touched by your message. I completely agree that feeling good about ourselves and presenting our best can make a big difference in our confidence and how we navigate the world. It’s so important to recognize our own value and to find what makes us feel our best, whether that’s through wigs, style, or simply embracing who we are. Your support and understanding mean a lot, and I’m grateful to be part of a community that values and uplifts each other. 💖🫶
When you said focusing on the inside as much as the outside will 100% serve you well as you become older (which is not as bad as some people tell you) and your face changes so much. You are beautiful, and you look beautiful with or without hair. Gorgeous face!! Gorgeous!❤
Kind of like "wearing makeup today VS not putting on makeup today". Glamming up is super awesome - especially for work, parties, and events... while on other days, your mind can be screaming "no makeup" (I totally get what you're saying)
Just your own hair plus the cap looks beautiful. You can feel absolutely confident with that look.
thank you so much. 🥹 With the hat on, I definitely feel more comfortable because it hides the top of my head. The hair I have poking out at the bottom right now is alright looking for now- thank you, pregnancy!! LOL
Thank you for sharing your vulnerability. That takes amazing courage. The lesson is an important one. You are your amazing self, no matter the hair, wigged or not. I am struggling with this now using toppers to hide my thinning hair. So appreciate you acknowledging that dichotomy of two selfs. We are all much more than our outer appearance. It is your personality and honesty that shine.
❤thank you Steph. Your really helping me . I have the same amount of natural thinning hair as you. And I struggle exactly as you have described the issues us gals wearing wig vs the hot weather occurrences and the self acceptance of just not wearing it for sake of self love and care. Love you like family gal.
Thank you so much for your kind words! 🥰 It means a lot to hear that my experiences resonate with you. Navigating these challenges can be tough, but knowing we're not alone in this makes a big difference. Sending you lots of love and support on your journey. ❤✨
So glad you've given yourself some grace... I live in TX where the Summer heat average is 96-100 degrees F - similar to your stampede experience... Because of this, you will find me with a hat when I do go around town to do errands... I will only wear my wigs for work and for going out to dinner or something like that where the weather is climate controlled LOL. And like you said, it is ok. The important thing is to be comfortable with who we are.
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Oh girl. New to wigs here. I fear this moment. One of the first times I wore a wig out in public, I was at my grandma’s funeral and burial. I was up giving her tribute and I was nervous, emotional and flustered. It took ALL I had not to rip it off my head. lol 😆 I love the message and lesson behind this video. 🫶🏼💜
I wish my hair looked more like yours. I barely have any hair on top. My sister gasped one day when I showed her & my heart felt so deflated. 😢 I go in my backyard without a wig but not out my front door. I feel better with a wig. I can relate how you feel, I feel the very same.
I’m 2 people most days 🤪 I work in a dirty construction office so I don’t wear my hair/wigs to work. If I’m going out to dinner afterwards I’ll put on my hair ☺ I live in a sub-tropical climate, so you can imagine the heat 😬 I’m “fortunate” that one of my autoimmune side effects is that I’m cold more often than not. I do get warm sometimes but can power through it. STEPH! You’re pregnant too ~ I’m glad that a potentially awful experience helped you to realize it’s OKAY to not look ‘perfect’ 24-7. Sometimes we just need to give ourselves a little grace 🥰
Thank you, Steph, for this vulnerable and courageous video. Those of us who struggle with hair loss focus so much on moving forward in wearing alternative hair without stopping to appreciate who we are internally and that with alternative hair or not, we are valuable individuals no matter what we have on our heads. Thank you!
Yes! I take group dance classes and social dance. It can be incredibly hot, plus my dance partners sometimes knock or accidentally pull my hair and it feels like it slips. Occasionally I have panicked with the heat or slippage and taken my wig off and stuffed it into my bag. I carry a clip or hair tie with me ALWAYS just in case. On days when I just can’t do the wig because of the heat, I show up and say, “this is the real me!” When someone says my hair is different. I also tell them “you never know what me will show up!”
I, like you, can get away with wearing my bio hair if necessary although I don’t feel like myself doing so anymore. I do understand completely how you felt.
Wow, it sounds like you have such a great attitude and practical approach to handling those dance class situations! 💃 It’s amazing how resourceful you are with having a clip or hair tie on hand. I love your “this is the real me!” and “you never know what me will show up!” mindset-it’s such a positive way to embrace and own your look, whether you're in a wig or your natural hair. Thanks for sharing your experience; it’s always comforting to know that others can relate. Keep dancing and being awesome! 🌟💖
I love this video! Thank you for talking about this. I also have ripped my wig off, in the car, and at a party! I definitely agree that we need to wear a wig as long as it feels good and authentic, and NOT wear one if it doesn't. My hair is about like yours and I went to a family event yesterday wig free, and to an appointment today wig free. No hat either. Not one person said anything except that I looked nice.
I’m so glad you enjoyed the video! 😊 I totally get the wig-ripping moments-they happen to the best of us! It’s so empowering to embrace our authentic selves and feel comfortable doing so. Your experience at the family event and the appointment sounds fantastic. It’s great to hear that you received positive feedback and felt good without the wig. Sometimes, the most freeing feeling comes from just being ourselves. Thanks for sharing your story and for the kind words!
Have any of you RIPPED your wig off in public? 😆 Please tell me your stories below!! It is my hope that this can be a place where we come to feel supported, tell stories, have some laughs, all that good stuff. I'm dying to hear from you here in the comment section! 😍
Hello , I’m new to your channel AND WHAT a channel IT IS ! I’m new to wigs ,Brand NEW ! I SO I Appreciate your perspective and Honesty on WIG’S ! I could go on and on but won’t . Just know that this video gave me a new perspective on self confidence and I couldn’t be MORE Grateful So Thank You ! BTW your Gorgeous ,with or without Wig’s …….. BTW ,i’M 75 years old and this Video really and Truly was just Terrific ! Thank You So Much 💗 I’m now going to continue Binge watching the rest of your videos 👏👍💐 A new and grateful subscriber . Sending you All The Best , Patty
You look completely fine with that hair....lol.....if I passed you on the street I wouldn't take note of your hair....good or bad....I get it....but it's your sensitivity....I'm a Virgo, we notice everything....your hair looks fine....lol....really!!!
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Always bring a fabric headband as back-up in your purse. It would have worked great with your hair down. Less hot thant the hat.
I love this video Steph, and the body positivity and body acceptance aspect to it. I needed to hear this 💛
I’m so glad you enjoyed the video! 🌟 Body positivity and acceptance are such important topics, and I’m happy to hear that it resonated with you. It means a lot to know that the message is making a difference. Thank you so much for taking the time to comment 🥹💗
I always had hair that gets complimented until I turned 60 and it started falling out. With help from a dermatologist I got it back to a fairly presentable condition. It’s not cute by any means, but it’s passable without big bald spots.
If you’re someone that is extremely attractive like you are, not looking your best can be hard for you to take. I was the same way. But, somewhere along the way I started putting more time into things about the way I look that I can control, and I try to let those things shine.
A fit and slim body. Healthy skin (though a little wrinkled). Nice blue eyes.
I just wear a baseball cap or hat or pin in a bun and go on with my day.
I realized several times that when I thought I had made big changes to my look, like losing 17 lbs over 3 months, people aren’t looking at you as much as you think. They are wrapped up in their own thoughts and feelings.
I get you 💯!!! It's a struggle
My hair is very similar to yours and it never really occurred to me it looks like poo. 😅It is because you used to have long luscious hair that you feel like your hair looks so bad now (whereas I always had short hair& could never really grow it out), but your hair does NOT really look like you have a “problem”, nobody would give it a second thought if you’re just a person on the street or at an event or in any public space. Maybe I’d notice the thinning if I was literally staring down at your head from a certain height but even then wouldn’t think “oh gosh what a terrible situation”. I go out every daywith a similar amount/ thinness of hair and have not yet started wearing alternative hair. I think we just don’t have a lot of hair, and if we want more we can wear wigs but if we go out simply having less hair it still looks “normal” to other people. I’m quite certain of that!❤️
Thank you for the video and your words which make us feel that we’re all in this together and we are all going to be fine.❤️
Thank you so much for your thoughtful message. I’m so sorry if my comments about my own hair made anyone feel self-conscious about their own hair. My use of “poo” was just my way of expressing how I feel about my hair’s transition from having long, luscious locks to dealing with thinning. I’ve always had more hair in the past, so when my hair loss began, it felt like a big change.
Right now, my hair is actually coming in waves, and the nape of my neck is a bit fuller than it has been, thanks to pregnancy-so I’m grateful for that! My hair loss has varied over time, and this fuller bit at the nape is a nice surprise.
I totally agree that hair can look completely normal and beautiful, no matter the amount. We’re all in this together, and your support means a lot. Thanks again for your kind words and for being part of this journey with me! 💖
Thank YOU!!! I totally get it and didn’t mind the poo comment at all! I’ve said SO many bad things about my own hair - a thousand times. We just need to let our feelings out sometimes! I only meant that I wish you’d feel allowed to wear your hair and for that to be as OK for you as with wigs, choosing to wear either your bio or your alternative hair depending on your mood or the occasion, and not because you feel your thinner hair looks horrible because it doesn’t.❤️
I’ve been really loving your videos and have found them immensely helpful and even healing /soothing. You’re the first person that made me really consider wigs as a happiness-inducing thing in life. I’m sure all your viewers feel the same and am super grateful to you.❤️
I am not someone who can tolerate heat very well on the best of days, but when I was pregnant I swear I felt hot ALL THE TIME. I remember vividly being in a grocery store produce section in January when it was about 22°F outside and this man was staring at me, open-mouthed. He was bundled head to toe in winter wear and I was wearing a maternity t-shirt and jeans. He must have thought I was crazy, but I was like, "I'm finally comfortable!" 😂 I'm impressed you ventured out in that heat at all, let alone in a wig!
First- you’re beautiful inside and out- thanks 1:45 for sharing. I was in Florida in July and kept my wig on in 95 degree (37c) and kept it on so long I got symptoms of heat illness (nausea, headache,etc. big lesson… don’t wear that wig the rest of the trip when on the beach- bandanna and hat did the trick and no one even looked twice!
Good for You! You are a beautiful young woman! With or without a wig! If people judge that is their problem.
I do take it off sometimes when I feel uncomfortable. I envy those people that go out with bald head and don't care about what others think. and if I would see you in the street wouldn't think your hair looks bad or anything. it is good that your daughter see you accept yourself as you are ❤
In the summer, I wear a hairpiece or baseball cap because I am the same way in the heat. You are beautiful by the way. New subscriber 😊
Compared to what I have you have massive hair. But I'm 80 so it's okay. But when I lost my hair I was very young.
I have had it happen where my grandson didn't like the wig I had on and he kind of flicked at it. We were at Costco. People everywhere. And my wig flew off. I caught it but I was absolutely humiliated and my grandson felt terrible. He was just a little guy. I thought I would die. I think all of us wig wearers can identify with what you're talking about. And it is embarrassing. I was single, divorced, young and dating. It was awful. Didn't want anybody touching anywhere near my head. So I was always a wreck. I wish I had just been myself and let people know who I was, what I was ,how I was. I lied all the time about my hair. But if they didn't like me for it. Oh well then they weren't Worth it!. Because if someone wants a Barbie doll, that's not me. It's no need to pretend. You are beautiful. Everybody has something. Maybe it's not outwardly shown, but I've been grateful that it was hair loss and not cancer, or diabetes, any health issues, or any number of things. We are so fortunate for the wigs we have. 50 years ago when I started wearing them they looked like wigs. Your story is so helpful to other people who have experienced this. Fact is it is embarrassing.
Your natural hair is beautiful, and trust me I'm not completing. Wigs are cute on you, but you are so pretty without them ❤❤❤❤
I get it and I miss my hair and I try really hard to stay out of the heat.
I live in Florida and have been wearing wigs full time for years. It is no different than wearing a hat to me. I tend to avoid crushing crowds in near 100-degree heat though. It is no place for children either.
I live in vegas and absolutely can relate
thanks for sharing this personal experience
thank you for your comment 🥹❤
You don’t have the bald spots and receding hairline I have! Plus your face and body are perfection! You can actually pull off going wigless.
I ripped off my wig at work midshift bartending a few days on a hot, busy night. I went about it confidently and it felt really good
I live in Florida and before I lived in Guam(island in the Pacific). It gets hot in both places. I had that feeling I need to wear a wig all the time, but during the hot days I wear my hair maybe with a bun extensions. I feel like me all the time. My hubby loves me in every way, and that makes me feel so good. Girl do you and feel good about you because you are beautiful no matter what. ❤
Wow, that’s so wonderful to hear! 🌟 It sounds like you’ve found a great balance with your hair and your hubby’s support is so heartwarming. I also feel really good around my husband, Dan. He loves my natural hair too, and that makes a huge difference in how I feel. Thanks for sharing your positive vibes and reminding us all to embrace ourselves-whether it’s with a wig, bun extensions, or just our natural selves! =)
@@WigsWithSteph you are most welcome. Keep doing you girl, and your videos are great. 😊
It’s so nice to have wigs that have style. I know how you feel. I’d never take it off. My head is bald in spots. Your young you’d look good anyway you lookin. I get out of breath, I would have gone.❤
Well said! Thanks for sharing this.
maybe try a cap with hair on it for those extra hot days a white cap with hair as white reflects heat
I've never used a wig before. Btw Steph I sent you an email and still waiting for your reply:) I get used to extensions and those powder hair fibers to cover up the roots and ofc lots of accessories and makeup. But once I was at a rock concert with my best friend, she was very aware of my situation. I had a hair band with hair pieces to cover up my bald spots. I did not know people could be so cruel at that time. In the middle of the concert, the singer jumped into the front seats and we were there. We were screaming like crazy and I could not understand what had happened, suddenly my best friend pulled out my hairband. And she continued to jump (!) and cheer. I swear I saw a grin on her face! I felt so humiliated, I could just sit down in the crowd and try to wear my headband back :( I could not see and touch the rockstar :( and I burst into tears while sitting and hiding in the middle of the crowd. Yeah, she is not my best friend anymore, not even a friend .. After that I gave up hiding it from people and I freely told everyone that I have a hair issue. I told them that I use accessories, extensions, etc. I did not want to be blackmailed by people owing to my weak sides. Besides I did not want to be abashed by those horrible, calculative people around me. Being fearless is power. But now I want a wig to cheer myself up. I am looking for the best first wig for me ...And Steph! You would look gorgeous with anything. You have an amazing husband, a beautiful kid, and a newcomer. A piece of hair does not ruin your beauty. Whatever you decide I will support you!
The true you lives inside you and we see it in every video and it is so beautiful 😊
awe, thank you so much for your kind words! 🥹
@@WigsWithSteph God bless you and your beautiful family 💞
I agree with everything you said! I live in Kansas in the USA and it is so hot right now. My wigs are killing me right now. My hair is very thin. I’ll go somewhere and I want to take my wig off in the car when I’m driving home. I don’t want people to see me even in the next car! lol. But they probably won’t even notice me.
I totally get it! Kansas heat can be brutal. It’s tough when you just want some relief and feel self-conscious about taking off your wig. I’ve been there too-sometimes I just need to take a breather. Remember, most people are focused on their own lives, so they probably won’t even notice. It’s all about finding what makes you feel comfortable and confident. Hang in there, and take those wig breaks when you need them! 😊💖
OMG I live in Kansas too! If you are close to Wichita, in Wichita or heading through town, let me know! 🥳
Omg yes I’ve been in your place. The difference is I couldn’t bring myself to take my wig off . I came so close to having heat stroke. Not smart! I will never put myself in that situation again. We are having a heat wave in the states this summer. Im staying inside 😅
37deg C is very hot! perfectly understandable. At least you only took the wig off 🤣
I’m 69 yo, so a-bit older than you, lol, and I recently cut my hair into a Mohawk. I’ve been wearing wigs for about 1.5 years now. I was up visiting my granddaughters this past weekend and I was told to bring a bathing suit so I knew we were going to go to the pool. Well, needless to say I was NOT going to wear a wig in 95-100 degrees F! So, I donned my huge visor and went to the pool. Normally I would have removed my hat to go into the water but I kept it on, not wanting to expose my Mohawk! I did ok, it was hard, but no one commented or seemed to notice so I got through it ok and now have more confidence to do it again in the future. This was a good test for me because I’m going on a cruise with my husband in October!
Wow, that sounds like quite an adventure! 🌟 I love your spirit and confidence in embracing your Mohawk and finding creative solutions for staying cool. It’s great to hear you made it through the pool day with your visor and that it boosted your confidence for future events. A cruise sounds like such an exciting trip! I’m sure you’ll handle it with the same amazing attitude. Thanks for sharing your story, and I’m cheering you on for your upcoming adventure! 💖🛳
Thx for sharing ur story!😊
awe, thank you so much for your comment!! xo
Hey Steph … I love your channel girl … I need your advice … I have a wig that I looooooove Luna by Ellen WILLE I know you have this wig also … I have her in the Bernstein multi shades … and it’s just a little to warm for my skin tone … have you ever toned a wig with alcohol and rit dye? I’ve seen it done but not on these great quality wigs … just wondering if I can “cool” the tone of this beauty slightly so she compliments me more … any advice is appreciated… keep up the great work my friend ❤
Hey there! 🌟 I totally get the frustration of a wig being a bit too warm for your skin tone. I’ve faced that issue before too! I wish I could say that toning with alcohol and Rit dye would be a foolproof method, but unfortunately, I can’t recommend it for synthetic wigs. The materials and processes used in making synthetic wigs can lead to unpredictable results if you try to alter the color yourself.
Instead, my best advice is to return the wig and get it in a different color that suits you better. It’s a bit of a hassle, but it’s much safer than risking a DIY color change that might not turn out as expected. I’ve tried adjusting the color before and had mixed results, so I prefer to stick to wigs in the right color from the start. Hope this helps, and thank you for the kind words! 😊
Fook! You did that at the Stampede? I'm not even a Calgarian or even been to the Stampede, but as a fellow Albertan, I'm sorry all the same that you had that experience.
You look perfectly fine without the wig! My first time was hard too. My hair is even so much worse, but if I go swimming or sunbathing I just take it off 💪
I feel your pain! I live in Spain and lost all my hair through chemo... It's like 40 degrees here at moment so I have a wig in plaits in my car with a baseball cap and it goes on to go into supermarket then off again when I get back in the car... I love November -May here but I avoid going out during eves in the summer or having gatherings as I hate being bald in front of others... I don't care at home but just don't feel feminine all make up on then a bald head
I can wear a JR Lite wig or Esprit in the heat but no way could I wear Ignite with that permatease. You go girl!
During the summer, if I’m going to be outside, I usually just wear a hat or ball cap. It just depends on how hot it is. You honestly look beautiful with your ball cap. Rip it off! As much as I love my wigs, there’s a point it’s not worth it.
My hair honestly looks like exactly the same as this
Our hair is the same length. Very thin. Frizzy. I’m 53 in menopause. I get so nervous if anyone can even see or think I have one on. I don’t think I could take one off in public. You are so brave!! But I get it! I live in Louisiana
6:02pm July 22nd thank you for this video. I almost hit the point of ripping my wig off. Now I know I'm not the only one. Thank you ❤
It’s comforting to know that we’re not alone in these moments, and it’s okay to feel frustrated sometimes. Hang in there, and remember, you’ve got support from all of us going through similar experiences! ❤
OMG Steph, it is the worst scenario! Once laying down during a yoga class, my wig just popped off. I freaked! Not sure if anyone saw me, but quickly pulled it back on.
OMG!!! This happened to me too! A few years ago, during a yoga class in a darkened room, I was doing Downward Dog and forgot to wear my wig grip. I was so focused on it that, sure enough, off it slid! The person next to me looked a bit shocked, but I just laughed it off, smiled at her, and quickly put my wig back on. She ended up smiling too, and we carried on with the class. It was definitely a bit embarrassing, but sometimes you just have to roll with it and make the best of the situation! 😂🙈
Hello Steph - I’m in Red Deer and this hot weather I can’t even.. It feels like it’s sucking life out of me lol My old bungalow doesn’t have AC so only basement provide some temporary relief. I can’t even think about wearing a wig in this. I have advanced frontal alopecia and wearing hat or scarf/bandana still kind of works. Watching some daily updates on tv from Stampede I was seriously questioning people’s sanity 😅 Anyway hoping for cool down soon. Just letting you know you are not alone !
I live in Phoenix Arizona and just got my first wig. It’s 115 degrees out and I’m about to find out if I resort to ripping my wig off.
Omg, yes! It’s been 105 F and I had on a no permatease, low density wig (Destiny) and I had to yank it off my head because I thought I was going to actually die. I totally understand ❤
I ripped my wig off when I got to the car many times. Baseball cap always in the car. Thank you for being my hero. I am much older than you and I never thought I would get alopecia. Hot Hot Hot and humid here in Florida. Some people know I where wigs, some don't One stranger, a women, asked me if I was wearing a wig. Really? What if I had cancer?
@@dianemarie1174 this literally happened to me the other day with one of my new wigs that I was just testing out. I hadn’t customized it yet.. I was so appalled that she would even ask me that AND she said it in sort of a disgusted way!! 🤦♀️
Your outer self “body” would look beautiful in a buzzcut too, the hat looks good too, I find people don’t really care that much👍✌️
you brought back memories of the summer I visited Barcelona. I was in very turistic place, waiting my turn to get into a Gaudi building under the sun and wearing a Jon Renau synthetic dark wig, fully hand tied, I had to wear a white hat over it otherwise it was unbereable, felt like it was melting for real, everyone listen, those are the hottest hair pieces you can wear. I finally managed to get into a bathroom and take it off, what a relief.
You are not alone ! i ripped my wig once in public, it started to rain a lot and "i thouhgt i'm not letting my wig gettin wet " i looked around take the wig off and put it in my handbag runnig for my life lol 😅
I've taken off and even tried on wigs with friends in public but in like quiet parks or cafes. I'd never have done that in a huge parade if for no other reason than I might lose it with people moving and partying like that
In one way it also reveals some people in life it`s better to avoid anyway.......
Yes Ive learnt on hot day leave my hair wet under neath my wig...... oil makes you hot don't do that on hot days....heat escapes through you scalp other tip is tip water on your head if you cant remove your wig Ive done that before but i use synthetic wigs so the style stays in
Lol! I have taken a wig off in public and tried to be sly but nonchalant while doing so. Did it since I had worn it for hours and just wanted a break! Lol😂I think you being pregnant added to your sweaty despair! 😊 yes Steph, wig or natural hair you are good! ❤
You are beautiful both ways. You can be you anyway you you want.
It is hot out there. We sat outside at a birthday party for 1 1/2 hours last weekend. The hosts knew I was doing chemo and had placed an oscillating fan near me. I did so so. But getting into our hot car, I whipped my Ignite off so fast I’m surprised I didn’t throw my shoulder out. 😂
Hell to the no but props to you ! 😅❤
😂😅😍😇❤
I don't do well in heat. I would get flustered and want to take it off.
I don't understand why you're wearing wigs,your bio hair looks so nice. Unless it's an addiction and you love them? I'm guilty here😊
@@maria.3649 this is why I wear wigs: ua-cam.com/video/i6M3pH6nA08/v-deo.htmlsi=-KceHaYcZ5yF34aj
YOU are beautiful with a wig and without a wig. Full Stop! 😊
Today my head got very itchy while in the car. I live in Arizona and it is very HOT!
My wig came off at the stop light and I did not care who saw me. 😂
LOVE THIS!!!!
Yes I have done the same thing I was event also you did better than me I just ripped mine off and people saw I looked and said OH well shit happens.
I LOVE those head covers, women of color wear. My face looks better, the higher the hair the better. Do u think I might be called out in public if I wear one ?
But, it only looks like poo because it's been flattened down by your hat. I think if you'd comb a sidepart in and used product it would be fine. Yes, 37 celsius is about 88 Fahrenheit- I have a little experience with celsius because I've been to Brazil over 7 times- I have to get used to it. I do appreciate your vulnerability. It's a great story. PS. I find it so shocking that today's parents have their newborn bablies and toddlers in the sun with no hat. That's just crazy. In my day, children always wore hats and beanies in the winter. What's your opinion on that?
@@honeybeejourney I don’t have my baby in the sun without a hat. Her baby skin would burn!
@@WigsWithSteph I apologize- I was not insinuating that you would do that. I was going to end that comment with, "But I know you wouldn't do that." I should have added that- sorry. ( Start to pay attention to other parents your age and let me know what your observations are. )
Heat intolerance and higher levels of anxiety are a part of hypertension and Graves disease
She has diagnosed Graves’ disease, she’s done videos about it.
Wigs are not only for black people but for white women as well. : )
You have hair !!!!
You are beautiful in your wigs but anyone that didn’t know you wouldn’t think anything amiss with your natural hair and you still look beautiful, but maybe being hot and pregnant had more to do with your insecurity at that moment. If my hair looked like yours I wouldn’t wear my wig, lol xxx
Well done for being strong Steph, you are an absolute babe without wigs, just saying.
Yes I think we can all get flustered and being pregnant you will be especially hot 🔥
Totally! I think pregnancy definitely added to this LOL
You are so beautiful.
This is the first time I’ve seen one of your videos. But I’ve no clue what is wrong with your real hair. I’m clueless.
Thanks for your comment! I have Graves Disease, which causes hair loss, though it tends to come in stages. That’s actually why I started my wig channel-I’ve been wearing wigs for years and have grown to love them. Now, I’m dedicated to helping others who are struggling with similar issues or just want to learn about wigs. Welcome to my channel! If you’re interested in hearing more about my Graves Disease and hair loss story, you can check out my video here: ua-cam.com/video/i6M3pH6nA08/v-deo.html😊
You probably pass out.
Be careful being pregnant.