My Journey and First Time Experience | Vaginismus

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  • Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
  • This video is about my experience with Vaginismus. Not a lot of people know about this condition. I found out about this an year ago. If you are suffering something similar, please consult a gynecologist.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 3,7 тис.

  • @Swasti1
    @Swasti1  3 місяці тому +2742

    How are you guys doing btw?

    • @Jeetharth
      @Jeetharth 3 місяці тому +48

      fine and you?

    • @yadjthe5872
      @yadjthe5872 3 місяці тому +52

      Not so well doing Ca 😅

    • @Swasti1
      @Swasti1  3 місяці тому +73

      @@Jeetharthpretty good 😊

    • @Swasti1
      @Swasti1  3 місяці тому +66

      @@yadjthe5872all the best 👍🏽

    • @nijwmkamado2666
      @nijwmkamado2666 3 місяці тому +38

      World Cup jitgaya accha hu😂

  • @dead-channel6842
    @dead-channel6842 3 місяці тому +4844

    your confidence is out of this world to be talking openly about these personal topic you have the repect

    • @vandeindiaofficial
      @vandeindiaofficial 3 місяці тому +51

      Cartoon video is given her a big level of confidence 😂

    • @What_are_u_doing_here
      @What_are_u_doing_here 3 місяці тому

      ​@@vandeindiaofficial still jo log ushko real mae jante hongay, vo bi to dekhe hongay video.

    • @JethiyaChampakGada
      @JethiyaChampakGada 3 місяці тому +15

      Views, Clout

    • @dead-channel6842
      @dead-channel6842 3 місяці тому +38

      @@JethiyaChampakGada essa immature reply Dene se kya fayda re😑

    • @JethiyaChampakGada
      @JethiyaChampakGada 3 місяці тому +6

      @@dead-channel6842 likes ka fayada

  • @saloni357
    @saloni357 3 місяці тому +1281

    The fact that she also talked about childhood sexual abuse and its damaging consequences really earned my respect. Stay happy and healthy, dear

  • @parthkalra8851
    @parthkalra8851 2 місяці тому +57

    you have earned my respect for bringing up issues like this and spreading awareness in such a fun and casual way , hats off ❤❤❤❤

  • @ashleylobo7090
    @ashleylobo7090 3 місяці тому +3078

    I can understand girl. My current bf is suffering from Erectile Dysfunction and although now he is very chill with his problem. But a few months back he was a super sad dude cause his ex was spreading rumours about him and exaggerating his condition. I'm so glad you are spreading awareness. These conditions should be normalised so that people can focus on solutions rather than the problem. ❤

    • @Gjjbbi
      @Gjjbbi 3 місяці тому +205

      You need to be praised for still being his partner ❤. I wish he gets well soon

    • @ashleylobo7090
      @ashleylobo7090 3 місяці тому +174

      @@Gjjbbi Nah dude! You think I'm praiseworthy but irl I'm with him cause he is the most amazing human one could ever have. ❤️

    • @Gjjbbi
      @Gjjbbi 3 місяці тому +76

      @@ashleylobo7090 I know apni tarif mana krni chahiye taki ghamand na aa jaye. But this time you deserve to be praised and you have to accept it. Tum uski ex ki tarah chhod sakti thi, but still you are with him even after knowing the truth.

    • @ashleylobo7090
      @ashleylobo7090 3 місяці тому +44

      ​@@Gjjbbi Thank you for being kind.❤

    • @a-google-user07
      @a-google-user07 3 місяці тому +15

      my best wishes to you and him

  • @anitaudmale5531
    @anitaudmale5531 3 місяці тому +1234

    Gurl raised the most Serious Problems in society in Such Funny and effective way. Women fr😭💜✨

    • @Agnivesh_007
      @Agnivesh_007 3 місяці тому

      Ig women sleep with multiple men before marriage

    • @adityachauhan8141
      @adityachauhan8141 3 місяці тому +10

      most serious?????....

    • @wakawaka166
      @wakawaka166 3 місяці тому +1

      Ya 16-17 saal mai
      Ladkiya nibbi ban chuki hai ​@@adityachauhan8141

    • @Tan-t1v
      @Tan-t1v 3 місяці тому

      Yeah let people die of hunger, homelessness , war but we’re gonna talk about vagina because it’s the “most serious” problem in society right now smh

    • @Pixy_dustt
      @Pixy_dustt 3 місяці тому +4

      ​@@adityachauhan8141 well you need to take care of your sexual health too...people made it a taboo....that's why so many kids (irrespective of gender) face 'bad touch' without knowing what's happening to them

  • @sayemisalive
    @sayemisalive 3 місяці тому +31

    My respect for Swasti 📈⬆. Talking openly about these personal topics is really hard on the internet when you live in a country like India, but you still did it. Got mad respect for you, bro.

  • @annoynommus
    @annoynommus 3 місяці тому +1582

    My girlfriend also struggled with vaginismus in the past. She confided in me that she was se*ually abused during her childhood, which is why she isn't mentally and physically ready for s*x. As someone who always craved sex and was somewhat addicted to it in past relationships, it was quite difficult for me to resist at first.
    Sometimes I thought about just going on a chill date and F*ck someone else. But my inner conscience wouldn't let me do that.
    Fast forward to today, my girlfriend and I are living together with all the love and intimacy. She trained her mind and body to accept me, and I changed myself from a sex addict to a supportive partner. Her vaginismus really helped our relationship become more trustworthy and soulful. I'm quite impressed with my inner changes as well because I didn't do anything wrong despite thinking about it.
    We are happy together now.

    • @mvksh
      @mvksh 3 місяці тому +127

      real man you have my respect

    • @212letliveonearth
      @212letliveonearth 3 місяці тому +65

      thats so sweet brother , wish you happy memories ahead

    • @loveyourself-n6y
      @loveyourself-n6y 3 місяці тому +196

      You're giving me red flag vibes no matter how sweet and cute you tried to look
      "Once a fboy, always a fboy.….

    • @simranChoudhary-ic4qt
      @simranChoudhary-ic4qt 3 місяці тому

      ​@@loveyourself-n6y same

    • @rakshanreddy
      @rakshanreddy 3 місяці тому +14

      ye toh kuch jyada hi wholesome ho gaya, bohot bohot badhai ho

  • @HIM.622
    @HIM.622 3 місяці тому +2359

    Bro my parents were right next me during the intro 💀

    • @varuni3017
      @varuni3017 3 місяці тому +90

      hell nahh💀💀

    • @sayhanwadud6172
      @sayhanwadud6172 3 місяці тому +52

      What did they did💀

    • @naturelover888
      @naturelover888 3 місяці тому +79

      Title me likha he - my first time 🙄

    • @HIM.622
      @HIM.622 3 місяці тому +55

      @@naturelover888my parents walked in on me right as the intro started 💀🙏

    • @HIM.622
      @HIM.622 3 місяці тому +131

      @@varuni3017my mom gave me a weird look and my dad looked like he raised a failure 💀💀💀

  • @LeechRelax
    @LeechRelax 3 місяці тому +1135

    Bhai sux before marriage ko yeh log itna normalise kyu kar chuke hai 😢

    • @lavanya348
      @lavanya348 2 місяці тому +404

      Because what two consenting adults do behind closed doors is not anyone's business

    • @_Chocolate_123
      @_Chocolate_123 2 місяці тому +194

      Kyuki ye hamesha se normal tha

    • @AlifHasan-bx1ew
      @AlifHasan-bx1ew 2 місяці тому +105

      Western culture

    • @AlifHasan-bx1ew
      @AlifHasan-bx1ew 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@_Chocolate_13so ur gonna marry a girl who slept with 10 other men😅

    • @Sage-f5t
      @Sage-f5t 2 місяці тому +3

      ​@@AlifHasan-bx1ewnope, it has been around in India for a very long time. In Christianity it's a sin to have intimacy with anyone before marriage. Maybe you condescending Indians need to change your views and stop being racist

  • @imamistakebro
    @imamistakebro 3 місяці тому +882

    i fucking jumped when i saw the title, i was convinced i was suffering in solitude, this disease singlehandedly robbed me of my self confidence. i was heartbroken thinking i ruined mine as well as my boyfriend's first time but he stayed right beside me. doing what he does best making me feel secure and at peace. i love you rudraksh!
    kudos to you disha for having the courage to talk about such a private topic :)

    • @reetikkumar1453
      @reetikkumar1453 3 місяці тому +9

      Happy for you didi ❤

    • @Comedy_Aspirant
      @Comedy_Aspirant 3 місяці тому

      Bot haina😂

    • @kritikshah
      @kritikshah 3 місяці тому +6

      My first time hooking up with someone failed because she had this issue. But I took the blame on myself. My finger was barely getting in. But I really was assuming the worst. Gladly, I don't have ED. But I think she shouldn't have blamed it on me.

    • @imamistakebro
      @imamistakebro 3 місяці тому +5

      @@kritikshah hey, don't be worried buddy, people tend to project their insecurities.
      this disease makes any type of insertion impossible. this has nothing to do with you. you are not in the wrong here.
      i know she might be frustrated, but that doesn't give her a free pass treat you like crap/blame it on you. be supportive, but do take a stand for yourself when required. keep safe :D

    • @kritikshah
      @kritikshah 3 місяці тому +3

      @@imamistakebro I agree.. and I am having no issues regarding the same now. But it is hard to not blame yourself if you are inexperienced😅

  • @Swasti1
    @Swasti1  3 місяці тому +4968

    My greatest cumback

  • @Surya_Kiran_K
    @Surya_Kiran_K 3 місяці тому +21

    We love a queen who is educating people and spreading awareness abt things people shy away from talking due to societal constraints which are full of BS , you go girl you are an inspiration to lot of us youth

    • @Agnivesh_007
      @Agnivesh_007 3 місяці тому +15

      Inspiration??she was trying doing it while she was 21... I'm following her for 1-2 years yet I would say this is not how someone inspire youth

    • @MrSaxobeat020
      @MrSaxobeat020 3 місяці тому +11

      ​@@Agnivesh_007 So? it's people's bodies, their choices. If you want to stay virgin, then definitely go ahead. But how can you be angry at a random stranger for not being a virgin? 🤣

    • @Mdhulika-pv5nm
      @Mdhulika-pv5nm 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@Agnivesh_007
      She's not saying have sex at 21. She's talkin' about her medical issue. That's inspiring.
      People like you miss the point.
      Pehle judge karlo bsdk

    • @Agnivesh_007
      @Agnivesh_007 2 місяці тому +5

      @@MrSaxobeat020 I never cursed her...I just said my opinion....Idk how people can do anything with their bodies but the same "people" has the right to give zero opinion...I literally said facts....counter it with facts rather than excuses...I would still say it is not how someone inspire youth

    • @Naruto-d2
      @Naruto-d2 23 дні тому +1

      @@Surya_Kiran_K femboy spotted

  • @sun-111
    @sun-111 3 місяці тому +280

    Hey never thought I’ll be talking about this but here goes nothing….When I was really young I was subjected to the idea of sexuality too early as it was the primary way of people “cursing” at me (being called gay and trans as a gali when I was 6-😀🥲) and then I was even molested which made me sexually frustrated . When ever I tried to explore myself I realised that I could never open my self to it..This video made me realise what the problem was…but I’d also like to share what I did to help myself out……the MOST IMPORTANT PART IS TO HAVE A SUPPORTIVE PARTNER ..I’m still virgin but he helped me relax and not tense up and now I can feel that my body opens up better…so yea if your feeling something similar try being kinder to your body for the psychological part of this condition coz the trauma of your past can effect everything about you…but if it get worse pls go for a checkup…..and once again thanks swasti for bringing awareness to such a topic…lots of love to you girlies!

    • @johnkim6574
      @johnkim6574 3 місяці тому +10

      I hope you are healthy now......
      And I don't understand why people still use gay or trans as an insult.

    • @Perfection....
      @Perfection.... 3 місяці тому +3

      Good job recovering from all that

    • @qwertysharma6451
      @qwertysharma6451 18 днів тому +2

      Good job recovering from trauma and respect for ur partner. It really feels good seeing that there are still many good people in world

  • @rishabhsingh357
    @rishabhsingh357 3 місяці тому +534

    Damn, man. I never really understood why sex is so overhyped.
    Now look while i do think one should either stay pure or wait till marriage. It is stills one's personal choice and one shouldn't be shamed if they haven't had sex.
    Remember guys sex and intimacy is not just a pleasure tool its a personal responsibility of your own body, also your own hygiene.
    Stay safe

    • @darkscorpio1910
      @darkscorpio1910 3 місяці тому +48

      Finally some one said it

    • @Straykids.2018.
      @Straykids.2018. 3 місяці тому +40

      Wouw these sweet humans really exits😭🩷

    • @rishabhsingh357
      @rishabhsingh357 3 місяці тому +38

      @@Straykids.2018. i really just want to tell people that while sex and all is overblown and really made to be like some symbol of adulthood or something, it is also one's own responsibility of there own bodies.
      While i don't wanna shame for anyone who hasn't had sex i am also praising those who are either responsible with it or wait till a good time, like marriage.
      Overall just want people to stay healthy and take accountability of there own actions instead of simply doing it cuz of society.

    • @defective_29
      @defective_29 3 місяці тому +8

      ​​​@@rishabhsingh357Par broo log to yahi bolenge ki koi nahi mila isliye ye gyaan de rha hai
      Hardly anyone is virgin till marriage in this generation

    • @kritikapandey4726
      @kritikapandey4726 3 місяці тому +33

      so true bruhh sex is soo overhyped , having a good emotional bond is hard to find but definitely a keepsake. I too feel like waiting till marriage suits me more , but i never really felt that having sex before marriage is wrong as long as ur responsible

  • @Maanjiro_g
    @Maanjiro_g 3 місяці тому +174

    its good that a girl can talk about her sex problems to spread awareness but i kinda am oppose to sex before marriage, it has serious consequences.

    • @staticpower9721
      @staticpower9721 2 місяці тому +12

      Yeah

    • @SoumodeepBar-x9s
      @SoumodeepBar-x9s 2 місяці тому +7

      Yes

    • @lavanya348
      @lavanya348 2 місяці тому +5

      consequences like? except unexpected pregnancy

    • @staticpower9721
      @staticpower9721 2 місяці тому +1

      @@lavanya348 Consequences when girl have multiple partners before:-
      You should consider the risk associated with it:-
      1. Due to multiple partner she may have some STD(HIV) or skin infections.
      2. She might have some recorded video or photos which might trouble you/your reputation in future.
      3. Using pills for birth control will definitely create hormone imbalance in her body which trouble you to have babies.
      4. She is marrying you just because of her family pressure OR you have a handsome salary but may be she is still having emotional attachment with her ex and after marriage it will be converted to adultery.
      5. Girls who had physical relationships they are very irritated, hyper and noisy in nature. You have to put more effort to do simple things.
      6. As this is not the first time, she will not have any interest on you, as she will have expectations of at least 30 mins where u wont even last 30 seconds when ur a virgin, so her expectations will be high.
      ***And the most important point is - before marriage her PARENTS(planned, visited, managed time, removed evidences of her previous relationships) to do all this, after marriage what is the guarantee that she will not cheat you and do the same again.
      So now decide...
      Whether boys should marry a virgin girl who never been in a relationship before OR a non-virgin girl who have one or three or five(God knows how many relationships she has been in with in the past)

    • @SoumodeepBar-x9s
      @SoumodeepBar-x9s 2 місяці тому

      @@lavanya348 don't ask us go Google it

  • @Numdig
    @Numdig 3 місяці тому +342

    Vaginismus is a condition that isn't talked about enough, so it's refreshing to see someone openly discussing their experience. It's important to raise awareness about how it affects both physical and emotional health.

    • @urankumarsingh2027
      @urankumarsingh2027 3 місяці тому +2

      Jay Jay Shree Ram
      Government must make rule that without marrying someone , no one can have sex using condom even they are BF or GF or anybody else

    • @urankumarsingh2027
      @urankumarsingh2027 3 місяці тому +1

      Jay Jay Shree Ram
      Government must make rule that without marrying someone , no one can have sex using condom even they are BF or GF or anybody else

    • @Numdig
      @Numdig 2 місяці тому

      @@urankumarsingh2027 It's the 21st century, not the 18th. Consensual sex between adults, whether they're married or not, is their personal business. Trying to control that is outdated and absurd. Stop trying to impose archaic views on modern society.

    • @Numdig
      @Numdig 2 місяці тому

      @@urankumarsingh2027 It's the 21st century, not the 18th. Consensual sex between adults, whether they're married or not, is their personal business. Trying to control that is outdated and absurd. Stop trying to impose archaic views on modern society.

    • @Numdig
      @Numdig 2 місяці тому

      @@urankumarsingh2027 It's the 21st century, not the 18th. Consensual sex between adults, whether they're married or not, is their personal business. Trying to control that is outdated and absurd. Stop trying to impose archaic views on modern society.

  • @bleep0004
    @bleep0004 3 місяці тому +534

    Thanks for spreading awareness on this. I am kinda of surprised there is no cure for it. It is kinda of blessing in disguise as you can enjoy a childfree livestyle. Good luck!

    • @Swasti1
      @Swasti1  3 місяці тому +125

      It is curable. It just takes a lot of patience.

    • @mi-kyong423
      @mi-kyong423 3 місяці тому

      abe bina sex kiye kaise rahungi mein?

    • @bleep0004
      @bleep0004 3 місяці тому +12

      @@Swasti1 Good luck. Hope you don't lose patience.

    • @Hershe264
      @Hershe264 3 місяці тому +13

      But some people do want kids.

    • @sooyasribbon3757
      @sooyasribbon3757 3 місяці тому +8

      You do know that some people want kids right?

  • @SpookyKritik
    @SpookyKritik 3 місяці тому +273

    Dude, Props to you to have the heart to talk about this topic! People need to know that medical conditions such as this exists and they need to not be scared and consult a doctor for proper treatment!
    Also, The fairy dust punchline was op! 😂

  • @Azulagirlboss
    @Azulagirlboss 3 місяці тому +31

    This was very bold of you to share the most personal experiences. I could never.

  • @fanzy1012
    @fanzy1012 3 місяці тому +1521

    "choti choti cheejein" wheels must be crying 😭

    • @Swasti1
      @Swasti1  3 місяці тому +294

      I didn’t mean it that way 😅 but ab video dekhke wesa he lagra hai 😂

    • @itachi_uchiha_7721
      @itachi_uchiha_7721 3 місяці тому +8

      fr 😂😂

    • @anayaa664
      @anayaa664 3 місяці тому +3

      ​​​@@Swasti1
      You finally posted after a year ❤😂

    • @AlwiyaSheikh
      @AlwiyaSheikh 3 місяці тому +3

      lol where was this line?

    • @fanzy1012
      @fanzy1012 3 місяці тому

      @@AlwiyaSheikh watch it again give er sum watchtime come on

  • @Ayush_Tiwari._.
    @Ayush_Tiwari._. 3 місяці тому +234

    Hopefully you'll get fine soon swasti, as a boy even we should know about this! Thank you for having guts and making video on this topic! Hopefully you'll get well soon!
    Big fan❤

    • @Swasti1
      @Swasti1  3 місяці тому +35

      So nice of you

    • @Gjjbbi
      @Gjjbbi 3 місяці тому +10

      ​@@Swasti1I learnt about this for the first time. Thanks for sharing this. I hope you will be fine super soon. ❤

    • @Mahiii778
      @Mahiii778 3 місяці тому +3

      ​@@Swasti1 justice for ayush he deserves a heart

    • @Ayush_Tiwari._.
      @Ayush_Tiwari._. 3 місяці тому +1

      @@Mahiii778 it's okay haha

    • @SudhanshuKumar-b7o
      @SudhanshuKumar-b7o 27 днів тому

      ​@@Ayush_Tiwari._. here your heart ❤ 😄🤣

  • @aniriex
    @aniriex 3 місяці тому +35

    I have tears rolling down my eyes. I never thought someone would actually talk about this EVER. I havent watched the video yet, but I’m already feeling so overwhelmed just by reading the title.

  • @AniketYadav-eu2gx
    @AniketYadav-eu2gx 3 місяці тому +277

    2:10 the amount of trauma you had been through is immeasurable yet you decide to take a stand for men in one of your old videos, more power to you sis 🛐💪🏽and this video is enlightening for everyone irrespective of their genders

    • @urankumarsingh2027
      @urankumarsingh2027 3 місяці тому +1

      Jay Jay Shree Ram
      Government must make rule that without marrying someone , no one can have sex using condom even they are BF or GF or anybody else

    • @harjasx
      @harjasx 2 місяці тому

      ​@@urankumarsingh2027give me a single reason why?

    • @mdmahian8401
      @mdmahian8401 2 місяці тому

      ​@@urankumarsingh2027is gaandhi jagah peh apni bagwaan ka Naam lekar use chota mat karo.

  • @sayedabdulmalequeahmed4189
    @sayedabdulmalequeahmed4189 3 місяці тому +17

    I mean, it just feels weird and great at the same time because not everybody shares their personal stories and problem like this and you are doing it and I really appreciate you that you're talking about your problems openly and it would definitely help other people and it definitely made me aware, and if anything happens to someone and you just made me aware so thank you for that, and really proud of you and keep working on yourself

  • @mangalamsharma8571
    @mangalamsharma8571 3 місяці тому +25

    It takes a lot of courage to talk about your body and your condition and especially if it comes as an eye opener for so many others out there. Lots of love and support to you and keep making videos that you love. I hope one day every guy understands this and no girl has to feel suppressed or ashamed of their body. Love and let love. Take care💕💕

  • @delusionalunicorn5324
    @delusionalunicorn5324 3 місяці тому +101

    This almost sounds like my story. I'm 28 from Bangladesh. Have been following you for a long time. Refreshing to see someone openly talking about it with such humor. Thank you. ☺️

  • @sangitaekka
    @sangitaekka 3 місяці тому +73

    Fantastic, fantastic, fantastic! Just 2 days back, I was googling the same stuff about me, but I am an asexual, and I assumed it's just one of the perks of asexuality. But hats off for making this content! Shows how underresearched female bodies are!

  • @Hubskubs_1445
    @Hubskubs_1445 2 місяці тому +20

    When u feel strict parents are god gifted ❤

  • @artwithsaya
    @artwithsaya 3 місяці тому +62

    So glad that this topic is being spoken about. Gynaecologists in our area also destroy the concerns for women regarding these issues. Ik so many women who prefer to go through that unbearable pain in order to not GO TO the doctors because the judgement, disregard and mistreatment are real.

  • @yadjthe5872
    @yadjthe5872 3 місяці тому +62

    This video was really informative these types of videos actually requires guts to be uploaded it on social media but love you swasti you always make these kinds of videos which really helps people that's why I am following you since a long time I have really learnt many things from your experiences and thank you for coming back after 1.6 years now please don't switch to short form content as long form is definitely your thing yes I know it takes time as you also do a job but please if you can then do upload long form content more often than your shorts videos as these types of videos really helps to get informed and learn about something important and new
    and yes you are good in elden ring just continue it 😁💖.

    • @urankumarsingh2027
      @urankumarsingh2027 3 місяці тому +1

      Jay Jay Shree Ram
      Government must make rule that without marrying someone , no one can have sex using condom even they are BF or GF or anybody else

  • @harbingerOmen
    @harbingerOmen 3 місяці тому +8

    fuckig love the confidence this is the kind of influencers India needs not the ones who idealise western culture but the ones who show some things are normal and not trying to dismiss our culture entireky

  • @simp703
    @simp703 3 місяці тому +92

    Hey Swasti! I just wanted to say that you're really brave for addressing your situation especially as an Indian (yk, the local judgemental people xD). And I'm so sorry that happened to you in past. You're such a brave person.

  • @yadjthe5872
    @yadjthe5872 3 місяці тому +328

    We are so back baby long form content after 1.6 years 💪🏼💪🏼
    Love you swasti 😘

    • @Swasti1
      @Swasti1  3 місяці тому +40

      😭

    • @yadjthe5872
      @yadjthe5872 3 місяці тому +9

      Hey why are you crying 😂

    • @xeno122
      @xeno122 3 місяці тому

      @@yadjthe5872 you stupid or what ?

    • @shanzeyz
      @shanzeyz 3 місяці тому

      @@yadjthe5872 That's not crying 😭🤡

    • @atindermaan1
      @atindermaan1 3 місяці тому

      ​@@yadjthe5872 khushi ke ansoo hain

  • @Dr.Suryakant.NSahoo
    @Dr.Suryakant.NSahoo 3 місяці тому +178

    One life one women da!!!
    -Aj bhairav (the Alpha king)

    • @Dr.Suryakant.NSahoo
      @Dr.Suryakant.NSahoo 3 місяці тому +9

      So it's not wrong to expect from partner too😢

    • @samfisher9562
      @samfisher9562 3 місяці тому +14

      ​@@Dr.Suryakant.NSahoo I dont think with that haircut even one woman is coming near him

    • @dikvijaysingh5896
      @dikvijaysingh5896 3 місяці тому

      ​@@samfisher9562 you clearly don't know Indian woman
      Chapris with this cute slay puss all day I've seen it myself

    • @rggrrggr290
      @rggrrggr290 3 місяці тому +13

      @@Dr.Suryakant.NSahoo true , one life one women also she must be virgin before marriage

    • @personanongrata8690
      @personanongrata8690 3 місяці тому

      No one is a virgin ​@@rggrrggr290

  • @vishnupeketi7596
    @vishnupeketi7596 3 місяці тому +37

    That was pretty informative. Never knew such a condition exists. Thank you Swasti. And you're back! Glad you're back.

  • @goutambhumij2869
    @goutambhumij2869 3 місяці тому +176

    4:50 , was unexpected 😅

  • @raeisdone
    @raeisdone 3 місяці тому +9

    you are literally so brave! Keep going. Issues like these are rarely addressed. Kudos!

  • @Blafur
    @Blafur 3 місяці тому +147

    Phir wahi sax sux ki baate 😂, But yarr really proud of you ki tum is topic ko itna khul ke bata rahi ho and awareness spread karrahi ho ❤

  • @SayanHalderChad
    @SayanHalderChad 3 місяці тому +218

    3:52 "khul Ja Sim Sim"😂🤣🤣

  • @HardikSaluja-eu2oq
    @HardikSaluja-eu2oq 3 місяці тому +120

    I am 16M and this is disturbing how people can't control their sexual urges and Celebrating how they lost their virginity at such a young age.
    I personally think an individual should marry a perosn who has similar body count as yours.
    Maybe I am too young to discuss about stuff like this when I hadn't got exposed to these things
    Idk ppl will probably gonna call me boomer or mock me but I will stay honest with my morals

    • @Phych0path
      @Phych0path 3 місяці тому +24

      🗿🗿🗿

    • @say_me755
      @say_me755 3 місяці тому +20

      Well i m as well 16 ... and kinda think like u

    • @JustDhurb
      @JustDhurb 3 місяці тому +2

      Swati randi bachii

    • @Hecatemoonlight
      @Hecatemoonlight 3 місяці тому +3

      Hv a same thinking like u 👍

    • @DARK-FOSTER
      @DARK-FOSTER 3 місяці тому +18

      New generation lack the power of conquering themselves they just do whatever they like .... I'm 15 btw

  • @nabajitbhowmik1233
    @nabajitbhowmik1233 3 місяці тому +58

    Being a boy, I cannot able to feel your problem.
    But
    ₹2000 ka fee really
    It's painful😔

  • @DOCps
    @DOCps 3 місяці тому +46

    Kudus to you for openly discussing this matter and spreading awareness 👏🏻.

  • @nareshdelmi9524
    @nareshdelmi9524 2 місяці тому +10

    👏Your parents must be proud of you. They indeed raised you well and really taught you cultural values

    • @SomeoneKnowledgeable
      @SomeoneKnowledgeable 2 місяці тому +5

      Lol what cultural values?😅

    • @nareshdelmi9524
      @nareshdelmi9524 2 місяці тому

      ​@@SomeoneKnowledgeableNo physical relationship before marriage

    • @The-Manga
      @The-Manga 2 місяці тому

      ​@@nareshdelmi9524What do you mean? She was willing to have sex, but because of her vaginismus, she couldn't

    • @notevencalm
      @notevencalm 2 місяці тому +4

      ​@@The-Manga sarcastic comment

  • @firebro4675
    @firebro4675 3 місяці тому +30

    love is not for just SEX or something
    - love is for emotional connection, understanding bla bla bla

    • @gauravsathe6374
      @gauravsathe6374 3 місяці тому +1

      Bro i was searching for this comment 😂😂 and i only found one

  • @Swasti1
    @Swasti1  3 місяці тому +520

    Like share subscribe 👍

    • @FAN-GF
      @FAN-GF 3 місяці тому

      Story time video jldi laana next time 😅

    • @Comment_king_akshay
      @Comment_king_akshay 3 місяці тому +5

      Ok kardiya ab iske badle aaj gaming ka live stream karna

    • @PowerlessCreature666
      @PowerlessCreature666 3 місяці тому

      Next video ek saal baad?

    • @UCHIA-ITACHI941
      @UCHIA-ITACHI941 3 місяці тому

      Swastiiiii reply iam ur biggest fan 🎉

    • @XG-HNAM
      @XG-HNAM 3 місяці тому

      Done 😊

  • @priyanshiverma8560
    @priyanshiverma8560 3 місяці тому +115

    Props to you for talking on this topic🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @Mankiratsinghsehra
    @Mankiratsinghsehra 3 місяці тому +53

    Welcome back Swatiii
    Thank you for educating people about this

    • @urankumarsingh2027
      @urankumarsingh2027 3 місяці тому

      Jay Jay Shree Ram
      Government must make rule that without marrying someone , no one can have sex using condom even they are BF or GF or anybody else

  • @AYUSHKUMAR-yw7hj
    @AYUSHKUMAR-yw7hj Місяць тому +13

    I don't know it is only me or others too don't like the idea of pre marital sex. I think sex is more than just a physical craving and should be done with a partner you are engaged with.

  • @WiIdcard.
    @WiIdcard. 3 місяці тому +22

    Animation was awesome and you are funny as hell... Thanks for educating more people about this and keep up the good work :)

  • @leantowardsgood
    @leantowardsgood 3 місяці тому +64

    I jumped after i got your notif finally you are back and and thank you for speaking on vaginismus and making people aware . Love you a lot Swasti

    • @Swasti1
      @Swasti1  3 місяці тому +4

      Thank you so much 😊

  • @mrnameless4443
    @mrnameless4443 3 місяці тому +12

    PHYMOSIS IN BOYS IS EXACTLY THE SAME CONDITION, THE OVERSKIN DOESN'T MOVE BACK AND FORTH.

  • @Crestfaaaallllen
    @Crestfaaaallllen 3 місяці тому +28

    Thank you for sharing this informative video♥. And And "jaldi wahan se hato" was legit epic🤣🤣🤣

  • @ankandas8891
    @ankandas8891 3 місяці тому +25

    Now this was something I didn't knew before watching the video. Welcome back again after so long and thanks for sharing your story with us and spreading awareness about this condition 😇

  • @Ram_priyansh
    @Ram_priyansh 3 місяці тому +35

    Everyone should wait until marriage for sex , otherwise you will be locked in the sense of grief, because after sex oxytocin is released which makes you bonded to your partner and if you make sexual relationship with many partners then even after marriage you can't forget them , and you will not able to make that special bond of attachment with your husband/wife. You will not satisfied with your life if you make many sexual partners...

    • @Agnivesh_007
      @Agnivesh_007 3 місяці тому +19

      Chill buddy after treating This condition...she is gonna get in relationship with atleast 4-5 boys and do it with everyone lol

    • @Sahil_9192
      @Sahil_9192 3 місяці тому +16

      ​@@Agnivesh_007lol bro uski baaton se aise hi lgra
      Aj toh respect khtm ho gyi

    • @peteck007
      @peteck007 3 місяці тому

      ​@@Agnivesh_007 मुंबई का कल्चर बहुत ओपन हैं.. अवंती नगराल, वृद्धि पातवा इन्होंने भी इससे पहले बात की है इस पर खुलके बाकी देश के दूसरे इलाके कितने भी मॉडर्न क्यों न हो जाए पर इन मुंबईवालो जितने तो बिलकुल मॉडर्न नहीं होंगे..

    • @VirajYeager
      @VirajYeager 3 місяці тому

      ​@@Agnivesh_007😂

    • @JustDhurb
      @JustDhurb 3 місяці тому

      😂 in jesi larkio ko slut kehte hai​@@Agnivesh_007

  • @swapnils616
    @swapnils616 3 місяці тому +118

    aree swasti zinda hai

  • @asmitmishra9707
    @asmitmishra9707 Місяць тому +33

    Ab ladkiyaan bolengi past doesn't matter🌚🌚🌚

    • @AYUSHKUMAR-yw7hj
      @AYUSHKUMAR-yw7hj Місяць тому +5

      True. I would never engage with such girls.

    • @Naruto-d2
      @Naruto-d2 Місяць тому +7

      It shows their character 😂

    • @katrinapoly
      @katrinapoly 25 днів тому +1

      @@AYUSHKUMAR-yw7hj you wont get one 🤣

    • @Yennefer-bg9hb
      @Yennefer-bg9hb 23 дні тому +7

      Past always matters specially for girls..
      They never forget the guy with whom they experienced everything for the first time

    • @tyrantvijwa8367
      @tyrantvijwa8367 14 днів тому

      ​@@katrinapolyu should worry about urself after w#*ring around taking people D's for fun. When it comes marriage phir wahi cycle wali kahani 🤡🤣😂

  • @samratchakraborty3107
    @samratchakraborty3107 3 місяці тому +21

    its great to say such bold topic openly without hesitation ,i think it might help others to understand their partners prospective.
    .

  • @brokenedits10
    @brokenedits10 3 місяці тому +13

    Following you since you had 1k subscribers. Really came a long way. Im proud you could openly talk about this and I hope its gets better. Good luck

  • @rheashetty7059
    @rheashetty7059 2 місяці тому +6

    I think the gynecologist dealt with your problem quite poorly. I hope she atleast sat you down and had gave you an idea of what was going on with you. Even after going to an expert you had to depend on google to understand the issue. That says so much! No wonder this is not talked about. But its so refreshing to see someone being so open about their experiences. I'm sure people will find this helpful :)

  • @vidushiqt
    @vidushiqt 3 місяці тому +20

    Bro this video is so educational as well as entertaining love it 😂💞

  • @pranjalrawat8069
    @pranjalrawat8069 3 місяці тому +7

    really appreciate your confidence , and spreading the awareness , I have a gf and she takes a lot of stress because many valid reasons . People don't talk about mental health and stuff like this , we get so confused because of it but in real life it's really very normal

  • @AdrNEditzAMVs
    @AdrNEditzAMVs 3 місяці тому +5

    THE BGMMMMMMM!!!!!!!!! That jotaro theme bought so much nostalgia

  • @gauravmandhyani4260
    @gauravmandhyani4260 3 місяці тому +8

    Salute yaar how you openly talked about this topic not going to vulgar yet in a very normal entertaining way and the way you writed real comeback and salute once again for such a brave topic and confidence improvement dikh rhi h

  • @digvijaysketch7936
    @digvijaysketch7936 3 місяці тому +10

    Man this is seriously so brave of you. Keep up the great work!🙏

  • @Kingsssssssccc
    @Kingsssssssccc Місяць тому +16

    Sex before marriage is wrong

  • @vivekpandey1110
    @vivekpandey1110 3 місяці тому +74

    2:10 So sad to that know you were a victim of sexual abuse💔 and i hope that you will soon recover from this condition. I rarely comment on a youtube channel so i wish you all the very best!!! and of course keep growing and keep making unique content like this🤙🤙

    • @saitamathecoder1386
      @saitamathecoder1386 3 місяці тому +3

      Could you explain sexual abuse in this context
      Like did she involuntarily have sex with someone in childhood? Is that what sexual abuse is?

    • @MohammadNuman938
      @MohammadNuman938 3 місяці тому +6

      ​​​​@@saitamathecoder1386 sexual touch etc. without permission of a person is known as sexual abuse

  • @lookslikerudra
    @lookslikerudra 3 місяці тому +32

    0:14 okkeyy WHERE IS MY HEADPHONE... 🤥😶‍🌫

  • @jyotsanakirad7139
    @jyotsanakirad7139 3 місяці тому +27

    As an indian girl talking about vaginal health/problem in front of people seems like social crime ,really appreciate your afford to speak confidently about it

  • @enokle127
    @enokle127 3 місяці тому +44

    4:46 was hilarious 😂😂

  • @anubhavforall
    @anubhavforall 3 місяці тому +8

    Good to learn about stuff :)I feel so happy to have girls around me openly talk about what they are experiencing and feeling and i get to know them more. Thats nice , thats courageous and should be the norm .

  • @___Monkey___D.___Luffy___6
    @___Monkey___D.___Luffy___6 3 місяці тому +3

    You're very brave to discuss your personal thing in public
    You're a great person
    I feel proud to be your subscriber 😌

  • @gwsnkiwi
    @gwsnkiwi 3 місяці тому +7

    yay ur back!! I think this is super normal especially if your not fully relaxed and aroused, i understand your situation is different tho, I'm so sorry about what happened to you, you deserve so much better💓

  • @AyushMaurya-zr2yu
    @AyushMaurya-zr2yu 3 місяці тому +9

    crazy!! talking about this and being indian at the same time respect 100+

  • @metaphoricallyalive8109
    @metaphoricallyalive8109 2 місяці тому +2

    I wasn't aware of this. I'm glad to have learnt more. I hope you get better in the future!

  • @k_v9
    @k_v9 3 місяці тому +36

    crazy how girls can be so open about this, but if a boy openly says ki "mere khara nhi hota" it'd be over for him.

    • @Tsuyurikanao734
      @Tsuyurikanao734 3 місяці тому +20

      Bolne ka way hota hai😂

    • @gwsnkiwi
      @gwsnkiwi 3 місяці тому +17

      that's a complete lie💀

    • @k_v9
      @k_v9 3 місяці тому

      @@gwsnkiwi how so?

    • @gwsnkiwi
      @gwsnkiwi 3 місяці тому +18

      @@k_v9 if a guy made this exact same video, there would be tons of support, why would it be over for him?

    • @k_v9
      @k_v9 3 місяці тому

      @@gwsnkiwi 🤦‍♂🤦‍♂

  • @junaidgfx
    @junaidgfx 3 місяці тому +25

    Swasti guts hein tum mein itna openly personal life ka btaya

    • @junaidgfx
      @junaidgfx 3 місяці тому +10

      This is the proof that how little we know about our body because of that taboo things

  • @idk_google_it
    @idk_google_it 3 дні тому

    Thank you for talking about it openly ❤️ you have my respect girl

  • @sinpi4086
    @sinpi4086 3 місяці тому +15

    😭 finallllyyyyy aaa loongggg videoooo....thanksss swasstiii

  • @Fateyyma
    @Fateyyma 3 місяці тому +60

    3:08 broooo😭😭😭😭😭
    I love this woman😂❤

    • @PrabhavFulara
      @PrabhavFulara 3 місяці тому +1

      My fav part... can't stop laughing

  • @sameer0704_
    @sameer0704_ 3 місяці тому +2

    Thanks for raising this serious issue and awaring us from this condition... Hope everyone like you will cure it.. ❤️

  • @nordlyssrlys6945
    @nordlyssrlys6945 3 місяці тому +8

    I'm a medical student so I have to say this...
    What the doctor said to u about "It can wait coz u don't have a boyfriend", it's wrong...
    It denies a patient's autonomy...
    Autonomy is one of the 4 main pillars of medical treatment, so yeah, she had no right to just brush It off

    • @digvijaysinhvaghela5442
      @digvijaysinhvaghela5442 2 місяці тому

      No vro , understand she doesn't need that in perticular moment or situation,gynec just give suggestion and not to deny treatment but delay it🦭👍🏻

  • @triggeredmahi2007
    @triggeredmahi2007 3 місяці тому +17

    Didn’t know about Vaginismus. Thank you for the info❤

  • @KaranAnimations
    @KaranAnimations 3 місяці тому +10

    Entertaining yet Informative👍

    • @Swasti1
      @Swasti1  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you Sir 🙏🏽👍🏽

    • @Satisfying-Facts-Official
      @Satisfying-Facts-Official Місяць тому +1

      Karan animation but 2 likes....
      Kya baat hai 💀👏

    • @googlu6579
      @googlu6579 Місяць тому

      Bhai tera bhi tight hai kya

  • @luffygamer683
    @luffygamer683 3 місяці тому +34

    I feel heartbroken, i hope you'll get cured soon 🙌

  • @Deku06
    @Deku06 3 місяці тому +7

    Great video..loved the way you put it in a light and interesting way and yet it was so informative😁🙌

  • @varunpant668
    @varunpant668 3 місяці тому +2

    Tip: Find a man who does not leave when things get awkward rather help you out.Been in a similar situation so telling. Hope best for your future. May you find the one

  • @Lawdasur_Reflex
    @Lawdasur_Reflex 3 місяці тому +61

    5:08 SAX SUX🤑🤑👆🏻😈🗣️💯🥵🔥🔥🥶🥶

    • @godlevi
      @godlevi 3 місяці тому +8

      Noti hora bkl

    • @Lawdasur_Reflex
      @Lawdasur_Reflex 3 місяці тому +3

      @@godlevi :3

    • @JustDhurb
      @JustDhurb 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@godlevislut kehte hai in jesi larkio ko

  • @Spyboyok
    @Spyboyok 3 місяці тому +10

    Hope you recover soon 👍🏻
    Very informative video for ignorant boys like me 😅

    • @spyBot10
      @spyBot10 3 місяці тому +2

      Hi found you

  • @mikeboss2003
    @mikeboss2003 2 місяці тому

    Totally appreciate your context,
    Girls do go through many problems.
    But can't or rather won't (because of the societal pressure) let anyone know their stuffs .
    I am glad to see some who have this amount of confidence.❤❤

  • @Mehunpanoti
    @Mehunpanoti 3 місяці тому +33

    Aha Aha I Think Maybe This Is Oky But Having Sex Before Marriage Or as an teenager 😅 I mean i can't fit in this generation

    • @peteck007
      @peteck007 3 місяці тому +3

      बहुत सारे लोग करते हैं, पर बताता कोई नही हैं

    • @say_me755
      @say_me755 3 місяці тому +4

      Bro .. even i also cant fit in this generation

    • @rggrrggr290
      @rggrrggr290 3 місяці тому +6

      same , L log , virgin till marriage W

    • @personanongrata8690
      @personanongrata8690 3 місяці тому +4

      Virginity is a social construct. Life is more than a social construct. Your value comes from your work and your personality not your sexuality. If you keep thinking like this you will never learn to think for yourself.

    • @rggrrggr290
      @rggrrggr290 3 місяці тому

      @@personanongrata8690 lol , "virginity is a social construct" , do you even understand what does social construct mean ? how can virginity be a social construct , i mean if i were to marry a woman , and she already had sux with someone , i will still respect her but not marry her , sex releases oxytocin which makes special bond and develop deep feelings about partner , why not marry the one u had pre-marital sex with ?

  • @LetsgoD_
    @LetsgoD_ 3 місяці тому +4

    OMG THANKS FOR MAKING THIS VIDEO SOME UNCOMFORTABLE THINGS GOT CLEARED!!!!✨😭💗

  • @ramdulareshukla1305
    @ramdulareshukla1305 22 дні тому +7

    This is fucking hilarious why they are making it normal for our coming generations 😢😢

    • @ark_6_9_
      @ark_6_9_ 11 днів тому

      Kya farak padta hai

  • @viniomedy3599
    @viniomedy3599 3 місяці тому +9

    Girl hands off to you covering most serious topic in so easy way

  • @priyamadhikary6994
    @priyamadhikary6994 3 місяці тому +11

    Me and my bf we were trying to have sex since 2019 but just like you, I had extreme pain and my pelvic muscles used to get tighten. So after searching in Google and going through my real source and gynecologist videos I got know it's Vaginismus but mine was quite psychological since my vagina didn't show any physical symptoms like irritation, burning sensation and all. But then I did pelvic floor exercises for Vaginismus and meditations. And Holllaaa, this year we finally did it!!! We are dating since 9 years now and he has been my constant support throughout this journey. He was more patient than me❤🧿...Hope you get such a partner too❤

    • @sujayparamanik6997
      @sujayparamanik6997 Місяць тому

      So you guys are married now?

    • @Yennefer-bg9hb
      @Yennefer-bg9hb 23 дні тому +1

      Sad for your future husband

    • @Griffith_1802
      @Griffith_1802 21 день тому

      ​@@Yennefer-bg9hb😂😂

    • @Yennefer-bg9hb
      @Yennefer-bg9hb 21 день тому +2

      @@Griffith_1802 Another reason for men not to get arrange marriage ...
      Because the arrange marriage market is full of these second hand used products.

    • @Griffith_1802
      @Griffith_1802 21 день тому

      @@Yennefer-bg9hb what if the guy isn't virgin too ?

  • @watchassassin
    @watchassassin 3 місяці тому +1

    Sis this takes a lot of confidence to be speaking about these topics in India, where talking about sex and sexual health is considered taboo. Hats off to you 😀😀

  • @reezoo_2.0
    @reezoo_2.0 3 місяці тому +20

    And I am a 20 saal ka londa, watching this without any reason.

  • @SAADBUZZSAWrrr
    @SAADBUZZSAWrrr 3 місяці тому +18

    Old swasti 😎🗿🍿
    New swasti💀💦🤡

    • @SomeoneKnowledgeable
      @SomeoneKnowledgeable 2 місяці тому +6

      The comment I was looking for 🗿🍷

    • @SaurabhSingh-js2sb
      @SaurabhSingh-js2sb 2 місяці тому

      Yeah pls shut ur mouth.. it's about her personal life. It's none of ur business

    • @DARK44413
      @DARK44413 2 місяці тому +1

      @@SaurabhSingh-js2sb oh u are here too 😂 yeah he is right if u don't like his comment then don't bark here like my friend dog.

    • @Jyotsna-ix5zl
      @Jyotsna-ix5zl Місяць тому +4

      Old swasti is same as new swasti. Just cuz she choose to talk about things that you think is vulgar doesn't make her a completely different person.
      A lot of girls probably suffer from this issue it's better to raise awareness.

    • @AmeyVikram16
      @AmeyVikram16 Місяць тому +1

      Arre Arre bhago, ligma male ji aaye hain !!

  • @strikopath8633
    @strikopath8633 3 місяці тому +5

    I just wanna add a point that penetration isn't the only way of having sexual pleasure. People experiencing this must try various other ways like oral sex, mutual masturbation, intimate cuddling etc. If you partner is suffering from vaginismus, try clitoral stimulation. If you keep the intimacy going, eventually penetration might happen, combined with medical procedures this might be the way to go, and in some cases prolonged intimacy alone is enough.

    • @peteck007
      @peteck007 3 місяці тому +2

      तुम्हें क्या लगता है इन्होंने ट्राई नहीं किया होगा? कर लिया होगा फिर piv वाला करना चाहते थे पर हो नहीं पाया

    • @Agnivesh_007
      @Agnivesh_007 3 місяці тому

      Iska to kuch pta nhi...maybe 69 krte honge hr din😂​@@DEMON-uj7zf

  • @satyen4659
    @satyen4659 3 місяці тому +14

    Look who is back 🙀🙀🙀good to see you back😁
    After video--- damm,it needs courage to talk about such topic,swasti🙌