Rejecting Rejection | Joyce Meyer's Talk It Out Podcast | Episode 60 | Special Guest-Christine Caine
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- Опубліковано 24 тра 2021
- We’ve all been through deep hurts and rejection that we never saw coming, and they usually lead us to questions like:
Does Jesus actually understand what this feels like?
Can I truly recover from the pain and rejection I’ve experienced?
Is there a way to become so stable that I’m not shaken when people reject me?
Any of these sound familiar? Girl, you’re in good company, and if you’re ready to know the answers, TUNE IN. Today, Ginger, Jai, and Erin welcome Joyce and special guest Christine Caine to the set for a powerhouse conversation where they unpack the nitty-gritty details of how you can begin to heal from rejection.
Get ready to be encouraged, challenged, and reminded of God’s unconditional love + acceptance.
P.S. After the recording, Joyce shared that she really felt this episode was anointed to help people, so we can’t wait for you to hear it!
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Joyce Meyer, one of the world’s leading practical Bible teachers and New York Times best-selling author, shares encouragement and advice to help us enjoy our daily lives.
With a heart to share Christ and love people, Joyce’s messages help people in all walks of life to grow in their faith, learn to study the Bible, find healing from the wounds of life, get answers to life’s questions and encounter the love of God in a powerful way.
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I'm a 40 year old guy and I know some of the guys may think that Joyce's talk it out podcast is for women only, simply because it's only women on the panel. But for any of the men feeling that way you shouldn't. I really enjoy and get a lot out of the talk it out podcast. But sometimes I think a lot of men feel like the only way they can get something out of this is from a men's group or man teaching them God's word. And that's not true because God uses all types of people men and women to help us.
Good for you!!!
Amen!! The word of God does not have a gender. It is powerful for all. Smart man!!
We're happy to hear that this podcast has been a blessing to you! 😊 -Team JMM
Sir....that is WONDERFUL!!!!! I have learned most of my Christian lessons from men, and this Podcast is a breath of fresh air. I love that you are open to learn from women. We ALL can learn wisdom from one another in a powerful way as long as we are open to it. Praise God for you and your honesty and willing to learn the love of God from those who are willing to teach!!!!
It takes wisdom and maturity to have this view
almost 3 years ago, at almost 22 years old i almost took my own life. I was abused as a kid, broken, depressed, anorexic, bulimic, suicidal. I went in & out of psych units like it was a game of tic-tac-toe. Suicide watch. I was on enough Antidepressants to kill a horse. I hated myself. I wanted out. I wanted the pain to stop. The gaslighting* to end. *(when a psycho makes a sane person question their own sanity, and thus think they themselves are the insane one).
I wanted power. I got into witchcraft. I thought it would give me the identity i wanted, to be set apart from people who hurt me. It only made me sicker. Sicker. Thats what it did to me.
The doctor said id never get well. That i would suffer severe Chronic Manic depression, and never be well, that id be stuck on antidepressants all of my life.
I would plot suicide on a daily basis, binging and purging my food as often as opening and closing a door. The pain was too real. People choked me. Assaulted me. Told me i was ugly, i felt worthless. Nothing ever got better. Then my mother died. The (1) & only soul who ever loved /emotionally supported me was removed from the earth. I was stuck living with people who broke me, ruined my identity, thus causing me to hate God. I thought God hated me, that he was just like the ones who tortured me, a family of abusers, who cover up all their actions with the mask of religion. I didnt know that God is on my side. I didnt know that Jesus would Love and Defend me, and fight for me and that He later would heal me, rescue me from Family. The ones who caused me pain. The ones who choked me for wearing a necklace.
I moved out after family threatened to throw all my belongings on the front yard, and have me permanently institutionalized in an insane asylum, when they were the ones who caused my mental illness via abuse.
They blamed me for the abuse they did to me.
To take my life in an insane asylum when they were the ones who made me suicidal.
Next morning i spoke with my dead moms parents who let me live with them.
I stayed on the antidepressants, prescribed. But they only made me sicker. I got deeper and deeper into witchcraft, thinking it was a solution. But it made me even more suicidal. Self hatred was inescapable.
I decided i was going to kill myself. I was going to take all my pills.
But then Jesus stepped in. I didnt die. I surrendered my life to Jesus to make me well and heal me.
The deity i blamed for me being abused wanted to heal me. He Was fighting for me and Loved me all along.
He wanted to love me. He wanted to give me His Heart.
😭 HE LOVES ME. JESUS. LOVES. ME .
Jesus miraculously healed me - i am off all drugs and dont need them and i dont have any mental illnesses. I work a job and am totally healed , full of joy.
I’m now a born again Christian, who wants the entire world to know that ❤️JESUS WANTS TO HEAL YOU
HE. LOVES. YOU.
Nuff said. ❤️
Wow, what an amazing testimony. Continue to spread your testimony so others can heal just like you did. Obviously God gets the glory but you have a testimony that will heal many. Be bold and continue to spread God's love all around you. God bless and much love ❤ Keeping you in my prayers 🙏❤
I'm so happy for you what a relief.
So proud of you 💕
So happy for you.. God bless you
I have gone through same situation....
I can understand you totally....
Please pray for me......
Ladies, never apologise for going on and on. These discussions are divine! I love your rawness, vulnerability and honesty!!!!! Please keep these coming. Your honesty is so refreshing. You ladies are such a blessing! Thank you so much for these talks. 💚💚💚💚
I agree with you. I needed This podcast, so much, because I
Needed to hear from others, who have been Rejected in their own life.!
I was greatly Blessed and I Thank You, so much, and I Thank God..! 😂
My life has been a Layer cake of rejection since I was born. But I was saved and un rejected through the love of God
Amen 🙏
God bless you Melissa 💗💗💗
May the love of God abound in your heart. Sending you a hug. 💞💞💞🤗🤗🤗
What if you feel rejected by God
@@sophiyabhoire1341 God loves you. Ask God to show you and tell Him how you feel. He is faithful, love, and God keeps His promises. Believe in Jesus and find a good church and talk to the pastor or person who loves the Lord Jesus to set you in the right direction.
Christine Caine is the one here who is outstanding at expressing in an articulate and intelligent way an understanding of the underlying issues. The others look on in awe as she speaks and they should because whilst Joyce is your everyman teacher who speaks in plain language....Christine is on a whole new level. She sees the nuances the others cannot express.
MAN'S REJECTION IS GOD'S PROTECTION!!!! That Word always reminds me when I am rejected by people!!!
Watching this episode showed me that as I went through my divorce that God was always with me leading and guiding me. That the separation I have experienced from certain relationships was because God wanted me to depend on him fully and trust the promises in his word that God will never leave me or forsake me.
Amen!
Amen Amen 💗💗
God bless you all for this healing 🙏 ❤ 💖 💕
Your comment really reminded me that what the devil means for evil God can use for good. He is a restorative God. I’m so grateful. Thank you.
@@ladybugauntiep m
Please join me in prayer for all brothers and sisters in Christ praying for the lost to get saved praying for all those in need of prayers in USA and all around the world God bless you all
God bless you and your community 💗 I pray for all brother and sister of christ and for everyone around the world who hasn't seen him yet. I pray for their salvation 🙏🏼 also I pray for all Sri lankans, Jesus be with us..🌹
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I was raised to believe that women couldn’t get along. Now watching these women honor God and bond opposed to compete is so healing.
Isn't it wonderful
Jesus Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures and that he was buried and that he rose again the third day praying for everyone everyday God bless you all
Amen
Amen
Christine really hit the nail on the head. To receive a true powerful change we have to go over the teachings hundreds of times. Once or twice is not enough. Every day going over teachings without skipping a day, then years later we can see a major powerful change. It more than worth it!!!
so true! thanks for the reminder
💯 so true
When I feel this rejection, I think of Jesus that died on the cross for me. What love..lovr we are all feeling today
Truly I still go through feelings of rejection at age 68 but I just thank God I am aware of what it is! Love what Christine said! Calling rejection her Achilles’ heal!!! I can so relate!! And it is so true it brings me straight to God!!!!
😊🙏 We're glad to hear that this episode with Christine blessed you! -Team JMM
Me too! same age as you, but we keep pressing on don't we! God is good, He loves us and is taking care of us
@@charityquinmusic Amen 🙏🏼 God is good and there's no dark side in him/// 💟
Ladies, I wish you were on EVERY DAY!!!! I have to say, I particularly have to thank Ginger for inspiring us more mature ladies. I have to thank Erin for helping me relate to my daughters . But I have to thank Jai for her transparency over her divorce. I had an illness that caused me to become disabled. My husband literally abandoned me into a nursing home/ rehab center. I thought I was there to get strong enough to live at home again. However, my husband didn't want to deal with my disability. My mother helped and covered for my husband and a "friend" of mine to have an affair which resulted in a child. I not only felt rejected and betrayed, but completely abandoned. Hearing Jai express her feelings with her situation opened my eyes in a HUGE way. I stopped feeling like less of a Christian for feeling the way that I did. You let me know I wasn't the only one that felt the way that I did. I buried the way I felt bc I was afraid it would ruin my witness. I was afraid I was weak and wrong . Jai, I am not divorced yet, but hearing you and watching your "grace under fire" has given me the courage and confidence to move forward. You are not only so beautiful physically, your spiritual beauty is awe inspiring to me. Ladies, I love and pray for you. All of you have inspired me more than you will EVER know!!!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!!
Good message from God sisters in Christ. What I use to work at the Doctor office i felt like I was by myself no friends everybody was talking about me I felt rejected than I went to another job and felt rejected but did not know God was making me stronger and I spent more time in the word and God was really using me. Please continue to keep me in prayer.
Bless you dear sister 💞
I’m totally crying like a baby but I understand a lot of things that I didn’t before, so grateful that the Lord loves me enough to deal with me😭❤️💯
Thank you lovely ladies for the VERY helpful talk.🙏🏼
🤗 We are grateful to hear that this episode blessed you, Katrina! Know that it doesn’t matter how wounded you are when you come to Jesus for help. He paid the price for your healing (Isaiah 53:5). We encourage you to check out bit.ly/2E9DMrY and bit.ly/2eOBtPP. We hope they are a blessing to you in this season. We are praying for you! -Team JMM
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Thank you for the resources encouragement and prayer,
I pray that the Lord blesses the works of your hands so that y’all may continue to spread Gods message in this world that needs it!
Oh I love this programn😂
It feels good to my soul to know that can stop condemning myself for not getting over rejection. When I talk about it openly I feel like no one experienced rejection and I fell shame. When I am here listening I feel like it's ok to heal and heal in my time
Rejection is so powerful that it can take us all the way back to childhood and make us feel childlike and helpless. It can still make me feel like when I was a child and the little girls at school suddenly decided they didn't want to talk to me anymore. And I was left with that lost feeling where I had so many questions and no answers. I only had to rely on myself to move forward. I couldn't make my mother make those girls like me. I had to rely on myself to grow and become strong. Thank God that now as an adult I can recover instantly but it definitely can still tap into those feelings. You can't make anyone like you if they don't want to. But the beautiful thing about these times is that these are the moments you become so strong and start to rely on God. If they don't like you or want you then God does not want them in Your life. Simple as that.
Well said...childhood memories are powerful...they still make me cry...but that can be another level of healing
"I'm watching social media and thinking the enemy is having a field day. He comes into the garden, Shame and Rejection..BAM - GENESIS! It hasn't changed. Just how it looks as changed" "we might be helping someone" - YOU DID🙏
I pray that Joyce Ministries is able to post these videos regularly. The level of healing and encouragement that I am able to achieve through this channel is amazing.
Deep just what I needed to hear and understand to trust God through these rejections. Learning the lessons when I come out on the other side of this. Amen!
🙌🙏 Jesus paid the price for your healing (Isaiah 53:5). We encourage you to check out bit.ly/2E9DMrY and bit.ly/2eOBtPP. We hope they are a blessing to you in this season. We are praying for you! -Team JMM
I pray everyone that has been hurt or rejected will not memorialize the pain and allow the lesson to make you better, stronger and compassionate.
When you forgive the pain goes , the enemy has no power over you when you forgive
That's right Mischa and forgiveness is really a blessing for us.😁
Thank you
Yes ma'am!!!!
Absolutely
But u cannot forget I did all that I'm still left with the horror effects of what abuse did to me frm my parents then x partner who brainwashed my kids against me it's no fun even after forgiving u don't magically feel great
I pray that the will of God be done in our lives, prayer and seeking the will of God is the only way to get anything right! Bless you
This message is so powerful and so encouraging
This is a blessing for me. God bless you richly in Jesus mighty mighty name Amen 🙏
Amen
You can tell Jay is hurting because of her marital journey. Please let her go thru the process as long as she.needs to. Just be prayerfully and patient with her during g this time. She is helping so many people as she is being transparent. We.luv ya ms jay!!!!
I am going through much mixed emotions currently, with many job rejections (I am 54 years old and that is a problem in the employment phere, in many fields in South Africa) I thought I was strong at receiving over 100 job rejections, this week I could not handle the rejection and it opened up a vault of emotions :-( ! Plus losing my sister and my furbaby last year doubled that depressive emotional state! A very Blessed and Dear friend of mine referred the Podcast to me, and I am so grateful! I cried whilst watching this as the rejection resonated with me. I actually questioned God why did God cause Pain to my Folks, broken as they lost a child! Ms Joyce Meyers answered that question as I was asking mine here in South Africa today, 22 January 2023! Thank you for a Divine Podcast, i truly needed to hear these beautiful words of encouragement about our Good God! Love and Prayers from South Africa!
This is so wonderful and I love Christina on the episode. She’s got a great way of talking and explaining. It really speaks to me, this whole episode. Thank you Lord for leading me to this
We're happy to hear that you enjoyed this episode! We loved having Christine on with us too! Blessings! -Team JMM
All glory to God 🙏🏼
Jesus was rejected and He still gave his life for us. I have come to understand that even when “friends” don’t call me or invite or make me part of something I still will be there when they need me. I think of it this way, the Holy Spirit is always here for us but we have to invite Him for Him to be present, but He loves us all the time even when we don’t call him. So let’s love each other and be there for each other when they need us even when they are not for us, we are to be an example and know that we are never alone because we have God but not everyone does, but they can find Him through us!!!
Good morning everyone, I pray that each and everyone of you have the most beautiful day! May God bless you all beyond your biggest dreams. Much love from Shawnee Oklahoma
Amen
15 years ago my dearest closest friend stopped talking to me.. became almost hateful. I was in shock and tears. Tried to confront her several times and she said it was nothing.. just another path she was on. I now find out bad words were said about her that she assumed was me… never happened but now she was embarrassed and remained distant. I finally got over all and it actually made me stronger in many ways.. in other relationships but mostly with myself! Sadly at 53 she was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. Crazy… she forgot the hate and I’m now her close friend again. Never thought I would get a glimpse of my dear friend ever again. I now help with some of her care taking. God bless and always keep your focus on Him and the written word and not on earthly ways.
Absolutely incredible. I love the part where they said “ not all pain is bad” and that we need to be honest with God about how we feel about him..
Hello Joyce , thank you for teaching and sharing . I had a sad childhood and had rejection and fear . Abba daddy adopted me into His family on June 18th 1989 and He has never ever left me or forsook me . I am eternally grateful to Jesus for dying for me .
Ooooh this was amazing. This healed me so much! Amen
Christine Caine did a fantastic job of explaining rejection and the dangers of it becoming an idol of self pity. We're going to face rejection but we have to dig deeper in Christ. There is such liberty in Jesus.
Yes, I've been praying for my ex and his life. I'm moving forward now. No more denial.
Renuka from India
Jesus bless u all. At this moment of extreme hurt i am going through ur msg has been propelling fuel towards jesus. Thank u all
God is everywhere praise God praying for everyone everyday God bless you all
Wow... This really changed my life. I’ve been battling with not wanting to get hurt or to hurt others, because I don’t want to go through the pain. And it’s been so heavy on my heart... I really feel like this episode set me free today. It helped me understand my feelings more and it almost feels like God gave me peace through listening to you. Today I’ve never been more sure about what I need to do. I’m ready to go through the pain... and I’m ready to allow God to go deeper in me and heal me.
Know that it doesn’t matter how wounded you are when you come to Jesus for help. He paid the price for your healing (Isaiah 53:5). We encourage you to check out bit.ly/2E9DMrY and bit.ly/2eOBtPP. We hope they are a blessing to you in this season. We are praying for you! -Team JMM
@@joycemeyer thank you JMM. Today is the first step for me... it’s been really hard, but I trust our God to do exceedingly and abundantly more for me. Love you guys ♥️ thank you so much for praying for me... I really need it. God bless
I'm in the same boat Joyce the Lord told me he was going to raise me himself. Someone I'm in love with walked out on me and stopped talking to me after I told him I love him. I tried not to focus on it but yesterday I let myself feel it and let it go. I know the Lord has plans for us it's just a process of the Lords timing but it still hurt and I had to pray that spirit off of me
Yes, I'm not popular, Jesus went through the pain and will allow me to succeed and rise above it.
Best female round table since the last supper!!! Healing to the max!!! Thank You God for these ladies and this moment💖
I have found that true leaders and true allies are rare. I pray that God keeps all my allies alive and gives me more nurturing mothers in Christ.
SO many gems in this podcast!! Thank you for sharing about your different experiences with rejection. So often it can feel like we are the only ones going through these things. I really needed to hear this tonight as it has been something I've been praying about a lot lately. This was a direct answer to prayer, not only about rejection but also about God setting us apart for a season, and how striving to have a tribe, can become an idol in our life. Thank you.
🙌🙏 -Team JMM
I'm so glad that I ran across these podcasts...... They're really helping :) God bless.....
We're happy to hear that, Helen! -Team JMM
This was up til yesterday I had to surrender. So I can unlearn these patterns and get to the root! Doorways of pain! Pain humbles you.
Rejection is so painful indeed, I went through it but God's grace and mercy I overcome. Thank you Joyce.
I love these talk it out sessions. They are about real life situations with real life resolutions. I especially look forward to hearing from Sister Jay. She is so genuine and passionate about her real life situations. She shares her moments of weakness that we can all relate to. Thank you so much and may God bless all of you 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Best episode!! Please continue to go deep!
We're so happy to hear that this episode blessed you! 😊🤗 -Team JMM
I love Joyce so much! I am so thankful to God to have her in my life! Thankful to her husband Dave to hang in there while God was working with Joyce! Lots of kisses and blessings to her and all around her! ❤️
God has created us for Acceptance.
Rejection never leaves us feeling great about ourselves, but from my own personal experiences, I've come to learn that God uses rejection to sharpen me and to grow me in areas that I never thought that I'd be able to progress in. A greater level of capacity to uphold the mantle of God has always been produced whenever I've experienced rejection. This has always been the case for me. Through rejection, I've learned that He takes the foolish things to confound the wise. Never think it strange concerning the trials of rejection or anything that presents itself as an opposition to how we thought things should have turned out. Rejection is the tearing away of what does not line up with the will of God for our lives.
Yes Joyce, i don't need the validation from people as much as i need from my Lord Jesus first. Dying to my flesh
I have a precious (elderly) friend. A warrior beyond warriors that prays with me. We keep going to the cross, over and over. Im getting stronger...yay!
That is a good question. How/why is it we can be triggered and feel like we are back in our teens. I am going to turn to God and ask of the infinite intelligence that is the Holy Spirit to dig up any and all old injuries for a full and permanent recovery!!
I struggled with that for years. I began attending celebrate recovery at my church a couple of years ago and have found so much healing in so many areas. I pray God shows you what you can do to begin healing from the pain.
Amen sister Jasmine I'm there with you too
Rejection is so hard! I have lived it and still living it! As Joyce is saying we will struggle with this until we go to heaven. I was rejected in my mother’s womb. I was rejected by my father and while I was in school and still now in my adult life. I need to remind myself to forgive. It is a battle! Thank you for this word of wisdom🙏
I was also rejected in my mother's womb. She attempted abortion many times but rhe hospitals she visited discouraged her and told her ro give birth to the child she is carrying.
This really set me on a very rough road in life. But the beauty is that it keeps taking me back to God and my relationship with Him grows daily
So I'm journalling as I'm learning and listening to this show and at the bottom of my journal page I am always treated to the Lord's Word. And as usual, He doesn't dissapoint. My piece of scripture says: "And we know that all things work together for the good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to His purpose." Rom 8:28
And so it's a random next page in my journal, with a scripture quoted on this show by Joyce and I was led to this video as I feared rejection for the next step I am about to take in my life and God is SO SO Good because He always speaks through His word. I Love Him. Praise God
My first step....marrying my plans to God's will with music, teaching, and ministry. My first small step is making studying (not just reading) His Word a weekly habit at the least.
If you're reading this, know that God loves you unconditionally and you are not alone 🌈 Keep going 🙏🏼
I saw an old friend the other day. Before I knew it, I disappeared. I felt bad because they were a good friend and they may have wondered why I ignored them...Well now I am aware that it's the root of rejection. I rejected them first before they could reject me. Thank you for the encouragement....there is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus.
This morning, I was listening to a podcast about rejection. It helped me think about the rejection from my dad and brother in a new light. Maybe they felt I did not love them so they had to reject me. That gives me compassion. Knowing God will never reject me, that I don't have to believe everything people tell me about myself is so comforting. I also pray that those I have wounded will be healed and know GOd's love for them.
I need this video SO much. Rejected from past church believe in shunning, past husbands, and jobs let me go cause did not fit in due to age and skin tone. So lonely and people laugh all the time at me ; family, children, relatives and coworkers. I stay by self it is easier. But pray, books, gospel and Christian music helps me soothe . Thank you Ms Meyers!
I love Talk it Out 😍😍😍 Everyday I look forward to this so THANK YOU SO MUCH
I pray for that tribe...but Jesus is sustaining me.
True feeling…. When He’s working us out, that pain reminds me that He’s right there. He’s working it out with me.
The quiet times feel a bit “maddening”… almost a test season reminding me that there is another level of rejection to be dealt with.
You don’t have an idea of how much this talks had helped me
Jais daughter is so brave, I need to try to be better about saying something when people are saying things that arent right.
Yes. People are hurt because we lack the courage to speak the truth or defend those who are unable to do so for themselves. Blessings!
@@vedawattieram15 Thank you and God bless you Ma'am.
Our young ppl need our prayers DAILY!!! They have it harder than I could have ever imagined. I had my young teenage nieces come visit me from out of town. They all excitedly went to church with me. The sadness hit me when we went to lunch after. Three young girls that haven't had time together for over a year. But instead of jubilant giggles that I would have had with my cousins in my youth, it was stone silent. They had no idea how to interact. All 3 wanted to stay on their phones on social media. We were in a wonderful opportunity to be "social " in person. I finally made them out their phones down and "visit". Sadly, unless I continually sparked the conversation, there was none. These beautiful young ladies had no idea how to enjoy their time together. Us older folks need to intercede in prayer for all of the younger generations.
@@karengillespie1181 I'm actually 14 and I get it completely, it's really hard for me to talk to people who I feel like might judge me, but its definitely something we should pray for and strive to change. I do get annoyed when people are just on their phone instead of trying to interact. We need prayer.
I am going through a very long season of separation. I do believe that it is lasting so long because I was not exactly cooperating with God's will for quite some time. I am new to the acceptance of Jesus Christ in my life. I feel so completely brought together and also torn apart all at once. I do know everything will be better than fine on this path, but it does still inflict some pain upon me - growing pains I guess you could say. Today in particular, I am in some heavy pain from feeling rejected by my very close groups of friends. I am either being left out completely or just not as included as everyone else. It is exactly as they said in regard to when you begin to get better and do better, people alienate you. I sought out this advice not knowing that this video would be so spot on, so thank you so very much for helping me through today. This truly lightened the weight off of my heart. I feel God led me here and I am glad I followed.
The pain goes only when you truely let go of what ever it was that caused it in the first place come to peace with that and all will be well again 🥰pray everyday for he is good and hes truely listening never leaving us God bless you all 🕯🙏💞
Amen. He never forsake us 💗
This was the DREAM TEAM podcast!
Jai, Erin, Ginger, Joyce AND Christine!!!
Love, love, LOVE!!!😍😍😍
something when you are rejected, it is the person who rejects you who is reflecting the scars that they have suffered on to you. It has nothing to do with the person being rejected at all.
This is accurate and I agree with you completely!
John was there when Jesus was hangin on the cross. He agreed to take care of Mary, the mother of Jesus. Also, Mary Magdalene was with Mary, mother of Jesus. There were some solid friends that were with Jesus to the end. Praise God fir the chosen and solid few.
Almost a year later and I found this broadcast just at a crucial time when I'm dealing with humiliation and rejection by a friend of over 20 years. It has made me feel ashamed of Myself, "othered", the "what's wrong with me?" record suddenly popping up, the isolation and silence from others I considered friends. Just being ignored as if I didn't exist. As a child I was orphaned and later rejected & abandoned by siblings. Into adulthood abused, rejected and abandoned by in-laws.
I'm 67 years old and have watched friends and acquaintances being stripped away during this pandemic and have faced serious personal issues alone with no girlfriend I can really talk to. BUT GOD. I learned so much thru this talk today.
"Man's rejection is God's protection."
"There's purpose in going through accepting the ebbs and flows of relationships and understanding that things come to an end."
"I can still walk in victory despite rejection."
"Our biggest mistake is that we always equate pain with being bad and it's not."
"God doesn't make people mean so that they hurt us but He will use them to make you better."
Being thankful for people rejecting me because God is using that rejection for His divine purpose.
"Sometimes I need isolation, just me and God."
"Isolate spiritually to connect with God."
God has ALREADY done a major Restoration in my life but He's currently using this pandemic to draw me to Himself. Like Joyce, I can truly say that I'm not sorry that I was orphaned and abused because I'm a v-e-r-y strong person and having gone through what I have has made me the person that I am today. And I like that person.
I now understand that what I'm currently experiencing is a divine appointment with Jesus Christ and that He is leading me into another new and exciting time of life. My Restoration is continuing and that He will provide me with new friends and new connections in His time.
"I can still walk in Victory despite rejection." What a GREAT witness to the Power and Love of our Mighty God.
This was POWERFUL! I'd never heard about the idol of community and tribe, but it inspired me to repent and embrace what God is currently doing in me. Thank you ladies for your humility and honesty and faithfulness.
So good!!!! Thank you! The question why God allows suffering is probably the biggest in the world and your answers were spot on! Thank you, Jesus!
I was married to an alcoholic for 13 years and God used me through a recovering alcoholic and we became awesome friends. Amen
I want to see this conversation just between Joyce and Christine. Those two women are so profound
Stay rooted in His word....go to scriptures that heal us. Proverbs and Psalms
I recently went through a rejection from a romantic relationship with someone who had come into my life at a vulnerable time after beign abandoned by my husband less than a year before. And it has left me feeling like I am not good enough, and like I just don't need to trust anymore men.
@miss rdgrs Amen, thank you for your words. I know it was the enemy taking advantage of that situation to bring me down. But thank God that He loves us so much and sees the attacks and comes and minister to us and restore our joy and confirms how loved we are.
You are good enough and yes the devil is attacking you making you feel your not good enough. Remember Jesus died on the cross for you. Why???..... Because He loves you that much. Seek God in this moment and pursue Him not other relationships. Our love should come from our Father first then mankind. Also, I was in a very abusive relationship and had many relationships before and after that failed. What started the healing is when I started praying for my ex. I prayed for his salvation and for him to be blessed. Also forgave him. So seek God intimately and start forgiving and praying for your exes. God bless and much love ❤ Keeping you in my prayers 🙏❤
@@MM-ty8cm Yes! Amen!
This show came on my youtube page at the right time I been struggling with rejection all of my life I always felt so different like nobody wanted to be my friend are talk to me like a best friend but I am grateful that in the future God will bless me with the right people in my life.
You don't know how much I needed this conversation about rejection, but also you made me realize that I'm okay in knowing that if it's just me and Jesus I'm good. He is my safe place, but I also know when He pushes me out of comfort for His purpose ❤
This message has touched on literally EVERYTHING that I have experienced and am experiencing now. God is so faithful to always give us what we need of we trust Him for it. I love Jesus!!!! Whoever is reading this, God bless you and remember that God has a plan and He loves you completely. ❤
Joyce you remind me of myself. I use to think God for my problems because it keeps me closer to God. I would love to be on one of your talk shows I have so much to share.
I got so many aha moments as Oprah Winfrey says!! One of them was “ god won’t send you out to the public until you are good” because he first needs to deal with us so we won’t hurt others. This touched my heart!!! And really had me think of all god has been doing in my life!
Pain is the touchstone of all spiritual progress!So I must be growing. Leaps and bounds. Or bounds and leaps. Whichever you prefer either way. It's called being catapulted and I'm grateful and I'm thankful and I'm humbled by all of this. With what the Lord is just done in such a short period of time within me.
I am totally familiar with rejection...I grew up feeling rejected by family and friends!!!! I used to always wanted to be accepted and it was so painful!!!! Now I know God accepts me and that is all that matters !!! Amen?!!!!
Amen💗
I love how Christine really emphasized the truth & the power of the gospel. Jesus nailed rejection to the cross as well
Hallelujah I've been set free and delivered.I have the victory in Jesus Christ.
Watching and listening to these powerful women of God, I've experienced everything they're talking about; and now I can go back into a deeper place to get healing in certain places in my life; sometimes I can feel the hurt, anger, rejection, and feeling stupid to let other's use me as I gave too them; especially in my marriages; so not only that God has blessed me with a good man who is now my husband, and at time's, I put him in a place where I was hurt from my ex husband's; but he's so understanding and loving, he encouraged me, speak life to me, and show me that he is not them; do for me I'm allowing God to help me by talking out everything I've been through to Him, so He can heal me in Jesus Name 🙏🙏🙏
Not only from my ex husband's, but from family members, church folk's, and friend's as well
This blessed me so much....it's what is happening to me at the moment and it's hard.....but I believe it's my Father that wanted me to hear this so I hear and know am not alone even now........
This conversation is an answer to my prayers.
I just joined the conversation Thank you For your time to listen.
Good NEWs to set us all free! Thank you Joyce for your obedience and willingness to serve God! Been following your teachings since 1996!! God, the Holy Spirit is our counselor! God is soooo faithful and sooo Good! Cathy
Christine Caine is a powerful woman!! Thank you Jesus for her ministry 🙏
Yes!!!! I do that! Reject people before they reject me! So it doesn’t hurt as bad! Reacting to things that haven’t even happened yet!
Wow. I really need to make a list of things I've been rejected from. I am very much a loner out of fear. I can truly relate my school years where I was never goid enough. Yes...I back off people before I feel rejected. Thank you all
God spoke to me and told me to always go to the root of the problem ....with all the bad things I was experiencing....God showed me that I was mad at them but he spoke to me & actually showed me the root of their problem & why they were hurting....then showed me how to intercede in prayer for them & confess life, healing & deliverance in their lives .....God knows everything ...and sometimes we don't understand why people are hurting us.....but God does ! Loved this podcast! Go deep in God or go home.....God Bless all of you !
Thank you for sharing that with us! We're so glad to hear that this episode blessed you! -Team JMM
You're right - the devil is having a field day - his time is short so he's doing everything he can to kill, steal, and destroy - rejection is just another ploy of his to create pain and doubt about our worth. But to God we are His child and a precious treasure! Praise God for this!
I am having to learn the love of Christ all over and not be angry at God for my suffering
Makes me feel...not worthy,. Underminded. But, thank you Jesus, He has a plan for me that I will prosper. I hold on to this ...He truly loves me with pain and all. I've learned to focus on Him. I have wisdom, humbly texting. AMEN 🙏
Yes Christine, He's not from this world so He's with us because we are in the world... but not for long .
Christine Cain's right on with Jesus, as our healer and the destroyer of the works of the enemy! Yes, Jesus loves me this I know! Beautiful song! To God be the glory!