Heart to Heart♥ When Marriage Gets Hard - Couples & Fighting

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  • Опубліковано 21 жов 2024

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  • @Cheyra
    @Cheyra 10 років тому +24

    Don't know really why I'm watching this in not even married nor do I have a boyfriend! But, I think this kind of stuff is important to know when I grow up and get married and all that stuff. By the way your husband has kind of a cool accent! It's like Korean and Australian mixed together! Love your videos always and I will be praying for you 😊

    • @Fancynancytv
      @Fancynancytv 10 років тому

      that's why I watched it too!! haha I was just curious...think the advice will be useful for the future ;)

    • @brittanybradley5389
      @brittanybradley5389 9 років тому

      Same ^^

  • @meejmuse
    @meejmuse  12 років тому +1

    Thank you hun, I absolutely loooove Melbourne, I'd so move there if I could :) You guys are blessed with amazing friendly people, classy culture and great shopping!

  • @meejmuse
    @meejmuse  12 років тому

    Thank you so much! Your words are so kind and gentle :)
    Wish you all the best,
    Jen & Will

  • @meejmuse
    @meejmuse  12 років тому +5

    Everybody is beautiful and deserves love, including you :) If you ever find yourself at a place of dissatisfaction, just turn it back around and work on raising the quality of your own personality and character! By doing this, you will also raise the standard of quality in the people who are attracted to you, and thus your future husband/wife. I wish you the best.

  • @KimberlyHimeKu
    @KimberlyHimeKu 9 років тому +3

    I don't know if this counts, but I've been with my boyfriend for over 5 years. All of the points you said was true.
    Most big fights were caused by small problems, and either caused more by misunderstanding or, ego.
    We're also still young, still waiting for the right time to get married. Because like any Asian, he still lives with his parent.
    Your husband is already matured, unlike my bf, still on the process. But it's been a vast progress though.
    I've seen him changed for the better. Hopefully, we could be a happy couple like you two in the future :P

    • @zeadaltaee
      @zeadaltaee 4 роки тому

      Saw your comment just now
      I hope that you're a happy couple now.

  • @seatbeltbunnyc
    @seatbeltbunnyc 8 років тому +2

    This was so touching and the advice you both gave was so heartfelt and genuine. Thank you for making this wonderful video, ❤ I hope you'll make more videos like this with your husband.

  • @meejmuse
    @meejmuse  12 років тому

    Thank you dear.. It really makes me happy to hear that. Never give up on it, instead be positive and expect something beautiful, because it truly is! All the best xox

  • @judedress
    @judedress 12 років тому

    the most beautiful, meaningful and inspiring video i have ever experienced here.... thank u so much jen and william for this one..made me cry.

  • @buicamtu4
    @buicamtu4 9 років тому

    I loved this video and I love how real you guys are with us. I started watching your videos within the last month and realized that I had seen you husband does my makeup tag when it came out!!

  • @Hopeforthehopelesst
    @Hopeforthehopelesst 11 років тому

    The description too. So encouraging and awesome reminder about vows of unconditional love :)

  • @Rosumisorimu
    @Rosumisorimu 12 років тому

    I can't come up with words for how beautiful this video was! And what a two exemplary people you are!
    I honestly wish you all the best in your life!!!!

  • @meejmuse
    @meejmuse  12 років тому

    Yay thank you Mel! It's always the best to keep everything open in marriage, working your way through it together as a couple. It can get tough, but I enjoy it! I also think it's the only way to get closer and closer to each other every day =) All the best sweetie!

  • @raininghard
    @raininghard 12 років тому

    Whao... It's so beautiful to see 2 people who knew they were soul mates at such a young age and are very mature. I hope to find my soul mate and have a loving relationship like your's!! Wishing you the best in all you 2 do! Thank you for these vlogs and talks!!

  • @andreiaferruginni11
    @andreiaferruginni11 12 років тому

    I loved the video, very good talk about it! Some people think that marriage is only theory, think you can know what a marriage is only by what others say, but not quite ... marriage is living , giving, understanding, acceptance, and love.

  • @meejmuse
    @meejmuse  12 років тому

    No need to feel bad about it, you should be proud of yourself! Don't ever settle for less, wait for the right person^^

  • @alexandraccym
    @alexandraccym 9 років тому +13

    I have a question. Many couples have told me that the longer they've been together, the feelings for each other is not so lovey dovey as you first fall in love but more of loving each other because you've chose to be together for the rest of your life. Is that true? I don't know if I make sense here but I hope you understand what I'm trying to say.

    • @deliciouscolours
      @deliciouscolours 5 років тому

      Hi. I know it's been 3 years but I still wantes to reply. It depends on the couple. If both people are humble and have an attitude of gratitude you will always value imensely the fact that this person is there by your side no matter what, if the couple is a good match together and are each other's best friends and there is chemetry between them then the lovey dovey phase will evolve but it will never end. Of course there are ups and downs in every relationship and days where we are not in a very good mood and seasons when life is more challenging but in general it will not end if the couple makes an effort to not be just partners in life but to date each other and value each other.

  • @vyvien1955
    @vyvien1955 10 років тому

    this is the first jen`s video that i watch!!! time really flies, it`s already 2.5 years ago...

  • @Sincerelyleekhang
    @Sincerelyleekhang 10 років тому

    I really appreciated this video. Its a great reminder to all of us that with the bad, always comes the good. I would love to see more videos like this from you two. Very inspiring! Xoxo new Subbie ❤️

  • @jaskaur7885
    @jaskaur7885 9 років тому +1

    Thank you so much for making this video Jen, this was really great advice. It's great that you've been able to be so honest. I'm beginning to realise that relationships may not be happy all the time, but that's not necessarily a bad thing. I got into my first big fight with my boyfriend (of 6 months, he's Korean) yesterday and it was because he wasn't honest to me about something he was worried about, and I got upset with him for not talking about it to me. We've apologised to each other but I still feel a bit sad. This video has helped me feel much better so thank you! :)

  • @chaithras714
    @chaithras714 7 років тому

    You guys make me cry, how cute are you two! 😍
    You make me wanna believe in true love. Love you, Jen 😘💜

  • @meejmuse
    @meejmuse  12 років тому

    I'm so glad if it has helped even one person in their relationship struggles^^ Thank you~

  • @WYtjai
    @WYtjai 12 років тому

    I havent seen this video yet, but Will do for sure! I subscribed to you when you Did THE husband tag and said you two met in the church! Just reading the description of you making me really happy to see how you show people how God works in your marriage. What a great testimony! So people got to Know this lovely Father. We love, because God Loves us first. God bless you two! ^^

  • @Gorillagal247
    @Gorillagal247 12 років тому

    you guys are so cute and beautiful together :) I've never been in a relationship, but this video did address a lot of stuff my friends hve bin going thru...thank you for being kind and considerate enough to make this for your subscribers :) -x

  • @rustybobbbypins
    @rustybobbbypins 11 років тому

    oh man. you guys have no idea how much this helped. you guys kinda remind me of myself n my boyfriend. thanks alot for this, and i pray that both of you have an amazing n blessed marriage forever. :)

  • @meejmuse
    @meejmuse  12 років тому

    Oh dear, that's a hard one.. It's such a shame when a couple who is in love with each other separates because of in-law situations. My only advice for you is to think about your love for him, and determine yourself not to give up or let yourself lose him over this. The trouble with his mum will get better some day, with effort, but divorce is permanent.. So keep pressing through it!! I'm here cheering you on

  • @LourdesLuu
    @LourdesLuu 12 років тому

    So beautiful , made me cry, I found it the best advice!!!, Greetings from Mexico!! Love you Thanks so much for sharing all this with all of us
    God bless you both

  • @pandemoniumsan8047
    @pandemoniumsan8047 11 років тому

    wow you guys are such a beautiful couple, your so loving and happy.
    thanks, this video made me a little envious, but at the same time really happy ^u^
    btw i totally cried when i heard his song. wow it was really well done and sweet of him.

  • @meejmuse
    @meejmuse  12 років тому

    Thank you, we're glad to hear that! xx

  • @meimei633
    @meimei633 12 років тому

    thanks jen:) I've had 2 5yr relationships & I've learnt that you cannot "know" a person until u've been with them for a few yrs. Over the years their walls+layers will unravel to you & you'll see all their sides & not just the side they want you to see. I think its not so much growing as a couple as it is getting to know them and learning to adapt. It took me 3 yrs each for things to settle into a comfy routine so pls girls you can't judge what a marriage will be like in only a couple of years.

  • @mel388
    @mel388 12 років тому

    aww jen i finally had the time to watch this video. it's so encouraging and inspirational for me really. I've recently got married and oh gosh though i've been dating my husband for about 4 yrs before marriage and we see each other almost everyday, but i must say marriage life is indeed more than what i expected. However, i'm glad my hubby and I always trash things out to resolve our differences and it really helps brings us further. so looking forward to your next Heart-to-Heart!

  • @bianomokee
    @bianomokee 12 років тому

    not that i just got realll excited and rann to get my earphones when i saw this new video out
    i lovee you guys, the relationship of you two is seriously the kind i look up to.

  • @RockingPuccini409
    @RockingPuccini409 12 років тому

    I can relate to just about everything you guys mentioned and I couldn't agree more especially about keep 'fighting' and relying on God for guidance. Great video. :)

  • @happygirlkj
    @happygirlkj 12 років тому

    You guys are very sweet together!!! Congratulations on your anniversary!

  • @susanannlopez
    @susanannlopez 12 років тому

    Thanks, great vid.
    Looking back on my 22 year marriage (I'm American and my husband is Australian and we live in Europe) I think that the most important thing is for each person to have the welfare of the other person foremost in their minds. Whether this is in helping them achieve their dreams, encouraging their success and continuing self improvement). When this works then the other bits fall into place. Oh yes, also being right is the least important thing-and say I'm sorry and mean it...

  • @aligrandi13
    @aligrandi13 12 років тому

    OMG!!! Soooooo wonderful video!!! ♥ Such wonderful Couple! Love you two sooooooo much! Both of you are Amaising sweet wonderful Persons!! Thank you for this wonderful video, such great words :) All is GREAAAAT!!! Best wishes ♥♥♥

  • @LienhhlovesschuuXx
    @LienhhlovesschuuXx 11 років тому

    how much effort, not only me but my boyfriend have put into what we have. We didnt give up on our first heartbreak by the other. And we didnt break it up after one huge fight. Patience, commitment and understanding is a huge thing to keep things working. Tears are never non-existent in a relationship, its whether you decide to learn from it or be bitter about it is what makes a huge difference ^^

  • @meejmuse
    @meejmuse  12 років тому

    we are honoured sweetie.. thank you

  • @Missbeky736
    @Missbeky736 12 років тому

    I understand you! I've lived the same thing when I was 15 years old and it was hard but now I'm 18, I'm still with my boyfriend and my dad got over my realtionship after one year :) So let time do its magic!

  • @NightingalesSong
    @NightingalesSong 12 років тому

    Your Hubby is so funny xD... "hmm rainbow."
    Thank you for this video. My relationship is rather complicated right now so it was really nice to see this video, it helped a lot. :)

  • @LienhhlovesschuuXx
    @LienhhlovesschuuXx 11 років тому

    This video made me subscribe.
    Im 16, turning 17 this year and i have a boyfriend a year older. We have been in a relationship for nearly 3 years (030410). We have been through many lows, and in many honeymoon stages. We have finally started to greatly understand each other and learning to become one ^^ many tears have been shed by each other's and other's words. Being doubted by society and all. But both of us have put all our heart into this, not to mention effort. This video made me remember -

  • @NinyGirlForever
    @NinyGirlForever 12 років тому

    I love your relationship

  • @myanhtran191
    @myanhtran191 12 років тому

    just subscribed to your channel after watching this video :) you two are so sweet and thanks so much for sharing us this video.i think i have learned a lot from you guys :) wish you and your husband all the best :) thank you x

  • @scsweetie09
    @scsweetie09 12 років тому

    This really encouraged me... I hope you guys make more.

  • @simplicityJ143
    @simplicityJ143 12 років тому

    Awww. Yet again, congrats on the 5th anni ! You guys should wear a couples outfit next time haha.

  • @1stladybebe
    @1stladybebe 12 років тому

    You guys really inspire me in relationship. Actually, i don't believe marriage at young age. But seeing u & husband makes me happy. May u & your hubby going through this lovely journey happily ever after. :))

  • @Gabriellaskonto
    @Gabriellaskonto 11 років тому

    oh pleaaaaase dont ever delete this video, Beause I want to see it again when i get married, because the tips were awesome !

  • @kokobeau
    @kokobeau 12 років тому

    he always looks so funny, i love seeing him will look into his channel!

  • @SILzimb
    @SILzimb 11 років тому

    Very courageous to put this on youtube - dealing with family is what is very difficult for me.

  • @mchong1993
    @mchong1993 12 років тому

    you guys are such a beautiful, cute couple. this video was very encouraging, thank youu

  • @chibistk
    @chibistk 11 років тому

    I'm getting married later this year. This video's convinced me to subscribe! (It's the first video of yours I've seen!)

  • @4fun20
    @4fun20 12 років тому

    would really love to see more of you and your husband's video :)

  • @MsJabbaTheHutt
    @MsJabbaTheHutt 10 років тому

    I got married young as well and youre SO right about everything. we are in the first year of marriage and omg...its so hard. :'( thank you for making this video.

  • @joys24joys24
    @joys24joys24 12 років тому

    I think your relationship will shine for others =) thank you for posting this video

  • @rakhmanien
    @rakhmanien 11 років тому

    i love the way you both stares to each other while talking :)

  • @babyoaaasis
    @babyoaaasis 12 років тому

    You are guys are such a beautiful couple

  • @Coco7542278
    @Coco7542278 12 років тому

    Such a lovely couple!!! Maybe some videos to maintain a healthy happy relationship?

  • @starfirechik
    @starfirechik 12 років тому

    wow you guys seem very happy and that rainbow wad so pretty (; I wish you the best in your marriage !

  • @icysparks2007
    @icysparks2007 12 років тому

    I always feel so relaxed when I listen to you both talk to me :D

  • @4fun20
    @4fun20 12 років тому

    you guys look so good together...wish you all the best :)

  • @yiZEnE
    @yiZEnE 12 років тому

    I came across ur videos n couldn't help but to think that I really really love ur scarf and sweater! Where is it from? I am now subscribed ㅋㅋ

  • @meigsa
    @meigsa 12 років тому

    You're an example of happiness ! I hope my boy and I will be like that in 5 years, even thought he is only 19y-o ~ haha

  • @helenofchoi
    @helenofchoi 12 років тому

    You guys are such a cute and lovely couple! Congrats and this is great advice:]

  • @funnytachi
    @funnytachi 10 років тому

    Amen! Thankyou for this vulnerable video!

  • @elizajyieetha4057
    @elizajyieetha4057 11 років тому

    you guys look good together!

  • @lipstickneyeshadow
    @lipstickneyeshadow 12 років тому

    you seem like such a lovely couple. but wow married already for 5 years, surprised me :) God bless you both.

  • @VeryMarriedShow
    @VeryMarriedShow 11 років тому

    Yes...marriage is SO hard! My husband and I are junior high school sweethearts and have been married for nearly 6 years and it is still hard. Honestly, without modeling Christ's love to each other and without having God as the center of your marriage.. and trust me I have tried doing it "my way".. it is just THAT much harder to get through the rough patches. This was a great video and truly was a loving reminder for me, yet again, the importance of being more like Christ :)

  • @cjoungnshoon
    @cjoungnshoon 11 років тому

    남편분 정말 자상하시네요 지굼 저도 남자친구랑 너무 힘든 시간을 보내고있는대 이 비디오에서 하신말슴듣고 힘이나여 그리고 남편분 뮤비에 노래까지 희망을 어더가여 감사해여

  • @meejmuse
    @meejmuse  12 років тому

    Hearing that sooo often these days! =)

  •  11 років тому

    I'm from Ecuador and I love your videos!

  • @judith09alez
    @judith09alez 12 років тому

    aww! one of the sweetest things :') God bless your relationship!

  • @alicilera
    @alicilera 12 років тому

    aww u two are soo sweet tog! very sincere and relevant advice given.. my bf and i are exactly like you guys! he is introverted and he tends to process things internally, whereas i just almost say out everything that is on my mind and it was a teething process when we were getting together, but now - we kind of calibrate around our personalities and know each other's pattern.. LOL.

  • @lcl1010
    @lcl1010 12 років тому

    I really like this video so much...so happy for you two...i think it is a blessing to meet our soul mate in life...currently...i am still waiting for my Mr.right...but i will keep the advices in mind...it would be very helpful;)

  • @June_Gemini08
    @June_Gemini08 12 років тому

    A double rainbow on your 5th Year Anniversary! :) when i was around 19, i told myself that i wanna get married before i turn 25... but now it just scares me but at the same time i always think that i don't wanna get too old before i wanna do it. lol

  • @DoctorMadeME
    @DoctorMadeME 11 років тому

    Aww, the two of you are such a cute couple

  • @lephanskiiez
    @lephanskiiez 12 років тому

    AWWW this video is so cute :) All the best to the two of you

  • @xAutumnKiss
    @xAutumnKiss 12 років тому

    jen this is truly beautiful and u have a wonderful hubby. i know i said this many times but i mean it =D btw am curious are u wearing any type of circle lens?

  • @innaportokalii
    @innaportokalii 12 років тому

    i just had a fight with my bf , this video popped up on the related videos sections and i feel like youre my salvation

  • @simplicityJ143
    @simplicityJ143 12 років тому

    Well I hope this isn't intrusive, but I thought it'd be cool if you lovely couple can get footage of how your daily lives are like , so we can have a glimpse on it's rundown lol. I bet it's super BUSY !

  • @meejmuse
    @meejmuse  12 років тому

    Cooking vlog coming soon! (OPPA IS COOKING :D :OOO) hehe

  • @psychecupids
    @psychecupids 11 років тому

    Great couple.
    Happy watching your videos.

  • @luvskincare
    @luvskincare 12 років тому

    Thank you jen. This is lovely.

  • @XxsnowflakexX100
    @XxsnowflakexX100 12 років тому

    ahh u guys r amazing and such an inspirational couple!

  • @minimalistmin
    @minimalistmin 12 років тому

    Such a lovely video :) Thanks and god bless~!

  • @beryosa
    @beryosa 8 років тому +1

    it was very helpful. Thank you guys

  • @grizzlybear1313
    @grizzlybear1313 11 років тому

    my husband didnt cry wr having tough situations right now .. wr always fighting ... and wr still on adjustment stage.... wr married for more than a year now .. i felt .. like giving up .million times... esp if wr fighting ..

  • @itsmeberryz
    @itsmeberryz 12 років тому

    i was watching this with my bf last night LOL we've been together for only 2 months and we fight sometimes :P thanks for sharing ur advices Jen :)

  • @BlackHeart0727
    @BlackHeart0727 12 років тому

    I'm not marge but i'm watching this .. i've been engaged but things made change my made marring young is very hard to do but Thank you for posting this ^_^ you guys are amazing

  • @meejmuse
    @meejmuse  12 років тому

    aww thank you > <

  • @MissSuz1989
    @MissSuz1989 12 років тому

    You are beautiful! Just happened to come across this video . Well said :)

  • @LiahYoo
    @LiahYoo 12 років тому

    Favorite,

  • @jung-wonguo3211
    @jung-wonguo3211 8 років тому

    Thanks so much for sharing this! I hope you guys will have more of these hearts to hearts especially with your 7 year mark coming up! :D My fiance and I have been so lucky to have sort of "grown into adults" in our church, because the leaders are so open and generous in helping and equipping couples. But I know without them, i would have been at a total loss of how to love my fiance well! I'm so lucky that I get to honour this relationship that God has bless me with, by learning from all these leaders around me. but I know that so many people don't have this kind of help around them. And it could be so much better!! Thank you for sharing and encouraging us into being faithful to our seasons and into gaining some perspective. \o/

    • @jaenicia
      @jaenicia 8 років тому

      it's so good to have a church community that prays and guide you and yr fiance through these. Wish this is happening to me and my bf too. Unfortunately, I've been having problems with my church and my bf (who is a catholic) is not so into these. Still praying that God will walk us through this time, praying for both our spiritual growth.

    • @jung-wonguo3211
      @jung-wonguo3211 8 років тому

      oh man, that's so tough! Well I pray that you guys can have a good, thorough conversation and find yourselves on the same page! And that in all seasons, God will be your constant friend you can turn to >

    • @jaenicia
      @jaenicia 8 років тому +1

      +Jung-Won Han haha well, don't even know how to start that. But thank you for your prayers (much needed). 😀 Nice talking to you!

    • @jung-wonguo3211
      @jung-wonguo3211 8 років тому

      it was great connecting with you! :)

  • @Faithlee11
    @Faithlee11 12 років тому

    Please do more videos with your hubby!!

  • @againstthetimes
    @againstthetimes 12 років тому

    You got married 4 years ago?? You're so young! But you're so cute together and I can't wait to find my person. I hope my dude is great as yours.

  • @Emberleyish
    @Emberleyish 12 років тому

    OMG the advice is helpful, happy 5 years anniversary, Ive went through 4relationship and non of them past through 3months.its just sadden me a lot every time i think of it.
    i agree the point you've mention,there's hardly people who thinks marriage and relationship is better.As single at most of the time its a very lonely road when im facing the worse time of my life.
    i would totally love to watch more of your advice on relationship.btw what do u think about a guy that is younger in relationship?

  • @95LisaLee
    @95LisaLee 12 років тому

    Omg you guys are sooo cute together -3333 언니 오빠 정말 멋있어요 :) well me and my boyfriend arguing alot but my bf always says sorry first! I mean i think in a relationship we should give up our 자존심 and we should be honest to each other and always there for them. Thank you for your lovely video it really helped me alot -3333 xoxo from canada

  • @internetgirl100
    @internetgirl100 12 років тому

    Ohh my god!! A double rainbow. Woohhhh....

  • @janetchoi21
    @janetchoi21 12 років тому

    you're such an adorable couple

  • @vivianl2680
    @vivianl2680 9 років тому +1

    at 0:12 I've been there. When i was lining up for ThatKpopShop lol. It smelled amazing because there was also a cafe. :)

  • @hipPoPiing
    @hipPoPiing 12 років тому

    if you don't mind, when ddi you get married? you guys are so perfect for each other!! :)

  • @meejmuse
    @meejmuse  12 років тому

    Haha there really is no reason apart from we both wanted to =)