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  • @BTheStory
    @BTheStory  4 місяці тому +14

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  • @AbsoluteJ-uu2tz
    @AbsoluteJ-uu2tz 3 місяці тому +30

    “Emotions are a signal, not the problem”. That hit!!

  • @CHAMBVRS
    @CHAMBVRS 4 місяці тому +69

    I LOVE these talks....they give me the illusion of actually talking to a profitable investor.

    • @BTheStory
      @BTheStory  4 місяці тому +3

      Nice thx for watching chambvr

    • @dragonflydreamer7658
      @dragonflydreamer7658 4 місяці тому +6

      I have never met a successful person who shops at walmart for cloths but its funny every million air trader looks like that's there fashion statement.

    • @CHAMBVRS
      @CHAMBVRS 4 місяці тому

      @@dragonflydreamer7658 lol I think its because they have a strong understanding economics and finances...clothes arent a great investment lol

    • @BigWickTraders
      @BigWickTraders 3 місяці тому

      😂

    • @ReggyCharles
      @ReggyCharles 2 місяці тому

      @@BTheStory wow what a stupid interview. A bunch of fuc king stupid questions. good job you clitoris.

  • @yafriz
    @yafriz 3 місяці тому +8

    33:55 this is going to change my trading and life to a whole different level

  • @jamielima2440
    @jamielima2440 3 місяці тому +10

    Mental Game of Trading, must be on your reading list.

  • @traderstevo9553
    @traderstevo9553 2 місяці тому +2

    Tendler is the GOAT of psychology. Lots of nuggets in this one- will watch again

  • @RajuPatel-y2h
    @RajuPatel-y2h 3 місяці тому +2

    Thanks!

  • @dagr8s815
    @dagr8s815 3 місяці тому +3

    Man it makes a lot of sense to record your live sessions talking through your thoughts and then treating them like game tapes reviewing them later to get better at performance I'm definitely going to be doing that

  • @ROMAN-oy5ju
    @ROMAN-oy5ju 4 місяці тому +6

    Jared Tendler is one of my favorites. I listened to his book 4 times

    • @marklambert2712
      @marklambert2712 4 місяці тому

      does he only have one?

    • @ROMAN-oy5ju
      @ROMAN-oy5ju 4 місяці тому

      @@marklambert2712 "The Mental Game of Trading"

    • @BTheStory
      @BTheStory  4 місяці тому

      Great book indeed

    • @FiveBetFold
      @FiveBetFold 3 місяці тому

      The mental game of poker as well. I read that one about ten years ago and it was the most beneficial book I've ever read.

    • @nicholassergiacomi4823
      @nicholassergiacomi4823 3 місяці тому

      @@FiveBetFold and a part two of that book

  • @remickn
    @remickn 3 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for bringing Jared to talk. Every interview he gives is truly unique. He always manages to bring a lot of small but valuable insights about trader’s mindset.

  • @sandrapanditcook8688
    @sandrapanditcook8688 3 місяці тому +1

    Great interview! So important to get a handle on fomo, and Jared provided very effective tips!

  • @zacksmith3507
    @zacksmith3507 3 місяці тому +10

    Man, the bit at 12 mins is very much me. Last week I watched a chart for 2-3 hours waiting for a setup. I ate lunch outside for 10 minutes and came back in and it was well underway, done even. I lamented to my gf that I made a mistake. As an outsider, she easily thinks of it how Jared does, but it took me a while of self talk to accept that it was just how it is and that it wouldn't be the last time the setup occurred and wouldn't be the last time I miss it and likely get annoyed with myself.

    • @Jemer-324
      @Jemer-324 2 місяці тому +2

      You're on the right track, brother. Your self awareness already puts you ahead of the game. Keep growing, and someday every mistake you've ever made will be a lesson you can use to help others.

  • @mathias_411
    @mathias_411 4 місяці тому +1

    This is pure gold. Your interviews are really great and I'm sure everyone can take something from them. Thank you!

    • @BTheStory
      @BTheStory  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you Mathias!

  • @rk_t
    @rk_t 3 місяці тому +35

    You shouldn’t be competitive with your results.. you need to be competitive with your execution.. makes you look into your trading a different way

  • @tinaaa9480
    @tinaaa9480 3 місяці тому +1

    The way in which he combats fomo is unique. Time to implement this into journaling. ❤

  • @WayneTheWolf
    @WayneTheWolf 3 місяці тому +1

    What a great video! I’ve been really diving into trading phycology and this ties it allllll together.

  • @DannyT3_
    @DannyT3_ 4 місяці тому +1

    Always appreciative of the content, but love the increase in production levels. I see you bro

    • @BTheStory
      @BTheStory  4 місяці тому +1

      Thanks brotha. When we get the opportunity to meet face to face. We try. Thx 🙏

  • @marklambert2712
    @marklambert2712 4 місяці тому +6

    Alex, I am so glad I stumbled across this video. I have been studying and trading for 2.5 years now and I have watched several interviews that you have done. I am finally starting to understand all of it and I am finally in a position to pour everything I have into it. I know that one day you and I will be sitting across from each other and we will be having a conversation about my journey and bouncing ideas off of one another. I have lost 10k in the past trying to trade being over confident. I have passed and blown several Apex challenges. I have watched countless hours of videos and listened to podcasts to learn more and when I finally figured out I had to get a handle on my own brain, well it started to change. There's only 2 things ive ever done in my life consistently, and only about 2 years ago, gym and trading. I look forward to watching more interviews.

    • @BTheStory
      @BTheStory  4 місяці тому

      Love it Mark! Thx for watching the show over the years! I Appreciate it!

  • @HakunaAmil
    @HakunaAmil 3 місяці тому +2

    Wow 🤩 awesome interview 👏🏼👏🏼. Great questions and amazing insight. I’m happy to say I’ve done some of things he talks about(journaling). I’m working on keeping the internal temperature cool and calm. Also been hitting the Sauna at the end of my trading session, or once I’ve met/fail my daily goal. It helps. Anyway thanks you for everything. God bless you 🫶🏼

  • @Chartpinter
    @Chartpinter 3 місяці тому +3

    Jared is a real OG! His book Put me on the game..

    • @PrinceJaredJ
      @PrinceJaredJ 3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you buddy. Nice seeing another Jared as I don't come across my name often.

  • @luciane.j
    @luciane.j 4 місяці тому +2

    Wow, I loved the video, thank you! This is a great topic!

    • @BTheStory
      @BTheStory  4 місяці тому

      Thank you too Luciane!

  • @Alaski
    @Alaski 4 місяці тому +18

    The analogy of taking a break after an argument with the wife is a good one, also the wife is the market.. she's always right! The sooner you accept this fact the better :)

    • @BTheStory
      @BTheStory  4 місяці тому

      SOOOOOOOOO TRUE LOOOOOOOOOL

    • @leeali4096
      @leeali4096 3 місяці тому

      A typical emasculated American men's view of the world.

    • @remickn
      @remickn 3 місяці тому

      And if I am a girl trader, the market is my husband? When will you boys understand that there are so many professional female traders out there these days, that any gender ralated jokes are not in fashion anymore.

  • @AbdulAli-ku9he
    @AbdulAli-ku9he 3 місяці тому +2

    This video is GOLD ❤❤

  • @stevebennett625
    @stevebennett625 2 місяці тому +1

    Excellent video!

  • @TraderCOP
    @TraderCOP 3 місяці тому +2

    Jared Tendler is the goat of trading psychology

  • @masteryi8752
    @masteryi8752 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for this video. It's really helpful and it's going to the core of problems. I like it more than Mark Douglas book.

  • @devinmiddleton6773
    @devinmiddleton6773 3 місяці тому +1

    Didn’t watch the video yet but came to say I bought his book “The Mental Game of Trading” and it legit changed my entire mindset within 6 months. After almost a year now, my psychology is the best it’s ever been during the worst month of trading I’ve ever had this September 🙄 but I’m not even worried about it just trading my set up. The intro was crazy hearing him say “6 months” cause I’m like 👀 dang how’d he know? 😂

  • @bradleeandrebeccajenkins6078
    @bradleeandrebeccajenkins6078 3 місяці тому +1

    I needed this video, thanks!

  • @_abhishekhonparkhe_
    @_abhishekhonparkhe_ 3 місяці тому

    Great Informative Content Man keep up the good work 💯

  • @chilatelover
    @chilatelover 4 місяці тому

    Nailed it again Alex! Great content. Love the end. Once you internalize what you need "you can never unlearn it". East Dallas let's find coffee over charts!

    • @BTheStory
      @BTheStory  4 місяці тому

      NIIIIIICE East D?

    • @chilatelover
      @chilatelover 4 місяці тому

      @@BTheStory yes! Near White Rock!

  • @rupy620
    @rupy620 3 місяці тому

    Great video.
    I have made so many emotional mistakes on trading. So costly.
    I’m taking a break 😂😂😂.
    Definitely writing down what I have done wrong. Wrong.Self analysis.

  • @tamslean
    @tamslean 4 місяці тому +11

    I find it hard to lose a trade then have to wait a long time to find another one
    I find it hard to see a trade play out that i didnt take but thought about
    I need to understand there are periods of high probability that occur only a few times
    My job is to wait for those high probability periods and capitalize with minimal risk
    Taking 50/50 trades with a larger TP than SL will ALWAYS result in failure over time
    Taking a trade that isnt a well assessed trade goes against everything I'm trying to do
    Price moves ALL THE TIME and my job is to find the least risky trade within those movements

    • @BTheStory
      @BTheStory  4 місяці тому +1

      Thx for sharing Tam.

    • @strobe9
      @strobe9 4 місяці тому +5

      "Taking 50/50 trades with a larger TP than SL will ALWAYS result in failure over time"
      That is incorrect

    • @alesperutka8538
      @alesperutka8538 3 місяці тому +1

      @@strobe9 Agree, I dont see this statement as truthful or valuable. However I really like other ones.

    • @strobe9
      @strobe9 3 місяці тому

      @@alesperutka8538 I believe they meant larger SL than TP

  • @darwinmolina8531
    @darwinmolina8531 3 місяці тому

    Good way to finish my day after a loss with gold today. Thank you. it really hit me when he said ... bad what id a losing trade was just like a bad pass... "

  • @yoginacharya2150
    @yoginacharya2150 3 місяці тому

    Great thoughts from great coach 🙏.

  • @moishelappe8976
    @moishelappe8976 4 місяці тому

    Wow good talk.
    One of your best one's.

  • @damonlrice
    @damonlrice 3 місяці тому

    Really good interview B

  • @Najmu651
    @Najmu651 2 місяці тому

    Thanks for the video

  • @Jolley185
    @Jolley185 3 місяці тому

    You asked really great questions ❤

  • @Stockafella
    @Stockafella 3 місяці тому

    Great Vid My Man!!

  • @lsmith1869
    @lsmith1869 4 місяці тому

    100% accurate! This advice will save you thousands!

  • @ashritharun7313
    @ashritharun7313 3 місяці тому

    Jared speaks my mind out!

  • @chunkironchest
    @chunkironchest 3 місяці тому

    Really good stuff.

  • @ilkinhasanov6337
    @ilkinhasanov6337 4 місяці тому

    Great content!

  • @sblive7239
    @sblive7239 3 місяці тому +1

    Great interview, this coach is a wealth of knowledge.

  • @stelzalol
    @stelzalol 4 місяці тому +1

    The Mental Game of Trading by Jared is one of the best books on trading i've ever read. If you want to be successful do yourself a huge favour and read/listen to it early on in your career.

    • @BTheStory
      @BTheStory  4 місяці тому +1

      great book indeed!

  • @onmegrind3291
    @onmegrind3291 4 місяці тому +1

    Wheres the link for his checklist?

    • @BTheStory
      @BTheStory  4 місяці тому

      Check out description. Should have his website there.

  • @CryptoMomentum
    @CryptoMomentum 23 дні тому

    If 70% believe they are above average, it's not 70% that are overconfident, it's 20%

  • @tradingarsenal9767
    @tradingarsenal9767 4 місяці тому +7

    Does he even trade? I know he's well-educated and established in the poker/golf scene... and now trading... but I think I remember him talking about not trading.

    • @HX3ne
      @HX3ne 4 місяці тому +5

      Probably not but if there’ is good information then it doesn’t matter

    • @chilatelover
      @chilatelover 4 місяці тому +3

      Nope. Not a trader but an elite athlete mental coach

    • @BTheStory
      @BTheStory  4 місяці тому +1

      Thx for watching!

    • @kohosalmon3637
      @kohosalmon3637 3 місяці тому

      no he doesn't . he said I do not trade because I know what skills are needed to be a great trader and I don't have theses skills . this is why trading is 100 percent skill based/process based event . you will hear young traders say trading is 80- 90 percent psychology .this is false . if that was the case Jarred would be the best trader around .

    • @DocHoliday0007
      @DocHoliday0007 2 місяці тому

      @@kohosalmon3637I believe he is able to offer advice on trading because trading and no limit texas holdem poker are very similar and in my opinion trading is easier ( once you have customized your system to fit your trading style ) you have to stay the entire session at a poker table where as in trading you set your profit targets. In retrospect, let me back up and say trading was easier for me to understand because I was already used to feeling high pressure situations as well as learning how to manage my bankroll. I came in knowing what it felt like to make all the decisions and still lose so much money in one hand. Once I discovered leverage trading, I took a break from poker because its much easier to disassociate your emotions in trading through setting take profit points.

  • @donecaan
    @donecaan Місяць тому

    Historically the test I felt the worst about I did the best and the test I felt the best about about I did the worst end score.

  • @zer0gravity184
    @zer0gravity184 17 днів тому

    Sounds like you're doing this interview in the Bronx with all the sirens blaring in the background. 🚨🚑🚒🚓🚔🔊😁

  • @FXM3
    @FXM3 4 місяці тому +4

    1:26 that middle finger threw me off

  • @vellam8766
    @vellam8766 Місяць тому

    4:20 sums up what fomo is

    • @BTheStory
      @BTheStory  Місяць тому

      YUUUUUUUP or are you saying 420? ;)

    • @vellam8766
      @vellam8766 Місяць тому

      @@BTheStory Ya. I paused before writing that.

  • @NycAgent47
    @NycAgent47 3 місяці тому

    Jared is the man im reading his book the mental game of trading it's awesome

  • @Unpack
    @Unpack 4 місяці тому

    What is the best platform you do trading?

    • @BTheStory
      @BTheStory  4 місяці тому

      I do it on Das through Cobra Trading, and I use ToS

  • @briancsmith11
    @briancsmith11 20 днів тому

    Good stuff

  • @davidhannan7702
    @davidhannan7702 4 місяці тому

    great video

  • @bjnowak
    @bjnowak 3 місяці тому

    This is my day every day. 😝

  • @SUPERrrCHRIS
    @SUPERrrCHRIS 4 місяці тому

    Got a spotify?

    • @BTheStory
      @BTheStory  4 місяці тому

      It should be on spotify, search "BTheTrader" bthetrader.com/

  • @TillyTheDon
    @TillyTheDon 3 місяці тому

    As it turns out, I still can't handle losses. I lose all confidence. I thought I was past that stage.

  • @vikasgupta1828
    @vikasgupta1828 4 місяці тому

    Thanks

    • @BTheStory
      @BTheStory  4 місяці тому

      Thx for watching a couple back to b ack!

  • @sandeep-ra0-1
    @sandeep-ra0-1 3 місяці тому

    More dangerous than FOMO is ROMO - Regret Of Missing Out

  • @RelatosdeRiqueza
    @RelatosdeRiqueza 3 місяці тому

    I disagree with the idea that FOMO is always irrational. Sometimes it's just a gut feeling that pays off. 🤔

  • @Unpack
    @Unpack 3 місяці тому

    We’ve seen many interviews you’ve done with other traders. When will we see a step-by-step demonstration of your trading process, such as how you start your day and execute transactions? We’d really like to see your approach to trading.

  • @adnanadnan-nc9rz
    @adnanadnan-nc9rz 3 місяці тому

    turn on the lights when you are interviewing

  • @thegamerboneless2864
    @thegamerboneless2864 4 місяці тому +1

    You don’t have to trade to understand statistics and probability. The emotions are the same.

  • @SniperTrader2023
    @SniperTrader2023 3 місяці тому

    Gotta love them youtubers that tell someone on their show that they will link their stuff in the description and then don't. Now that must be FOMO.....LOL

  • @jackreacher1097
    @jackreacher1097 3 місяці тому

    another great guest, thanks. Some fb from me, maybe you and most of the people will not agree with me, maybe not . please let the guests speak without any interruption unless really needed, avoid saying yeah, oh, aha ... It will be better for them and for the audience. And the worst is when you start to laugh very loud, starting almost shout and even the speach becomes incomprehensible (not in this episod, the guest was too serious). Chat with traders, IU, Desire to trade - they may be inspiartion for you . thanks for your work.

  • @koumoua2516
    @koumoua2516 24 дні тому

    There's always another trade...repeat 10x

  • @美股US30
    @美股US30 3 місяці тому

    非常好,很好的分享,

  • @tradingarsenal9767
    @tradingarsenal9767 4 місяці тому

    I met a guy that was cool w/him before the trading book. Was cool to see his growth after release.

  • @merapunjabanimation
    @merapunjabanimation 2 місяці тому

    Ambulance 🚑 🚨

  • @gemmataylor4868
    @gemmataylor4868 2 місяці тому

    i doubt every trade tho

  • @SophieMihalko
    @SophieMihalko 3 місяці тому +1

    A lot of what he says applies more to men than women

  • @bee444skate9
    @bee444skate9 3 місяці тому

    Damn he said you as the trader is compromised. Ouchhh that's true

  • @Elias-rb7ee
    @Elias-rb7ee 12 днів тому

    The real highly successful traders are the ones yoi don't know about. They stay far away from the public eye.

  • @yordanyozunasantos7928
    @yordanyozunasantos7928 28 днів тому

    This is not a very good title. I believe you should change it. Maybe like” this man teach you how to be a better trader using psychological edge”

    • @BTheStory
      @BTheStory  27 днів тому

      oh thx for sharing that!

  • @mlc5810
    @mlc5810 3 місяці тому +1

    I dislike the video because entire 40 mins no valuable informations. Only about emotions and so on. Of course emotions are hard part, but he did not mention how to get better …
    Also he is just promoting his coaching and coaching as best option.

  • @FlexingJoe
    @FlexingJoe 3 місяці тому

    this is great video! Jared never disappoints, but this video title is TERRIBLE!

  • @digitalnukes
    @digitalnukes 4 місяці тому

    !!!!!!!!!!

  • @Samuel10463
    @Samuel10463 2 місяці тому

    How do I journal my 600 trades a day?? Total BS.

    • @BTheStory
      @BTheStory  2 місяці тому

      auto-import?

    • @Samuel10463
      @Samuel10463 2 місяці тому

      @@BTheStory OK, and then do what with this massive almost random data? Ummm thanks, I guess...

  • @anshuman5331
    @anshuman5331 3 місяці тому

    Women are more self aware buddy

  • @Julio836
    @Julio836 3 місяці тому

    What a crock of ish

  • @juakin-qw8vi
    @juakin-qw8vi 4 місяці тому +1

    I lost over 200k because of FOMO, and now I'm 20k in debt. Should I just quit.
    Do you guys think that there are people who are not built to trade?

    • @BTheStory
      @BTheStory  4 місяці тому

      Man sorry to hear this brotha. Trading is not easy at all but I mean that is up to you on if you should quit. I'm not one to tell anyone this. Especially after just reading a short text on a comment without knowing their entire story. THx for watching tho!

    • @tradingarsenal9767
      @tradingarsenal9767 4 місяці тому

      It sounds like you can't afford to risk capital at the moment if you're $20k in debt. What I'd recommend is going to SIM trading where you don't risk any capital, while you stack your income/savings. AT THE WORST, I would trade futures prop firms like Apex Trader Funding (Coupon "ARSENAL" gets you 80%-off right now, lol!)
      But yeah, I highly recommend you DO NOT put your money at risk until you can afford to lose 100% of everything you're putting in.

    • @juakin-qw8vi
      @juakin-qw8vi 4 місяці тому

      @BTheStory thank you for the effort you put on here. Yes, trading is really hard. I wish big success to anyone who is in this journey because if you make it, you'll be upon most of us here

    • @leger205
      @leger205 4 місяці тому +2

      I have been trading for over 10 years now. I thing I would advice you on is start with a micro size trade. I trade the futures market and if I have 5 losses in a row, I step back to see whats wrong or I start trading a micro like the MES in future. If I can't make money on a micro size trade how would a large trade make me money? Probably just loose more. Start very small until you start making profitable trades. More profit then losses has kept me in the game all these years. Yes I trade full time and love it.

    • @HX3ne
      @HX3ne 4 місяці тому

      @@leger205I love to hear that you trade full time, I just started trading full time and I’m a measly 2 years in to my journey . I certainly do not have it all figured out and am always fighting my mental, but by focusing on bettering my trading every day almost all day long, I know I will make it. If you don’t mind replying, what were your biggest hurdles to becoming profitable?