Why Do Women Test Men? | How To Pass Her Tests and Make Her Choose You Over Other Men
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- Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
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When you meet a woman for the first time, the woman doesn’t know if you’re strong or weak, stable or unstable, secure or insecure. And even though she might enjoy your company and find you physically attractive, a woman won’t have a measure of your true strength until she’s tested you.
Every time you pass a woman’s test, you move one step closer to proving your value. This is why you must never get frustrated when women test you. Instead, you must view a test as a healthy challenge that must be handled the right way.
If you eliminate weak responses from your repertoire, you’ll find it that much easier to pass a woman’s tests whenever you encounter them. To make it easier to deal with women in times of conflict, it’s always useful to ask yourself one important question: am I acting in a way that’s insecure, or am I acting in a way that’s confident?
Any actions that come from a place of fear and insecurity must be eliminated and replaced with actions based on strength and confidence. To project strength and confidence, it’s useful to keep the following guidelines in mind:
- Don’t try to control her.
- Never beg, plead, or cry.
- Never ask for forgiveness.
- Never become aggressive.
- Avoid showing signs of jealousy.
- Never make a woman your top priority.
- Don’t try to reason, explain, and apologize.
- Don’t chase her with messages and phone calls.
- If she withdraws her attention, never chase her.
- Remain indifferent to her emotions and moods.
- Take the focus off the woman and focus on yourself instead.
- Deflect rude, disrespectful behavior with humor and indifference.
One question that often comes up is whether women consciously test men or not? The answer is both yes and no. A woman is always testing you, and she’s always looking to get a measure of your strength to see how you handle yourself in difficult situations.
If you react with weakness and insecurity, a woman will pull away from you and continue to test you until she either loses all attraction for you or you shore up your weakness and she comes to realize that you’re high-value and it’s safe for her to continue to invest her emotions into you.
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Chris Canwell
When you become stoic, you pass all test with ease
Being stoic is really hard, but that's the fact. Detach to attach
@@qaylarceus8385 it can be challenging but just fake like you dont care, works the same way. Lol
@@lokey987 yep i do that alot and it drives her crazy 😂
None of the chick magnets I know allow themselves to be tested. They stick to jokes and communication they find exciting and if the girl walks away they don't care. Often the girl comes back to try to prove that she's exciting, engaging and able to flirt.
1. don't control her
2. Don't beg/cry
3.Never ask for forgiveness
4. Never become aggressive
5. Avoid showing sign of jealousy
6. Never make her your top priority
7. don't try to reason/apologize/explain
8.Never chase her with phone and chats
9.never chase her if she is cold with you
10. Remain indifferent with her mood and emotions
11.Take focus on yourself
12. Deflect rude behaviour with humor
They should teach boys this stuff at school.
rajat verma the hero we need
@@coolhani10 🤣🤣🤣😂😂
@@samiershovo move on. She will come one day ,if she will not then someone better will enter in your life . Try to get out of her contact through social media or any other medium, till the she will contact you . And be happy 🙂
@@samiershovo if she will not then I wish you will get better then her . Even you know you deserve better than her
When women test you, behave like u don't care.
Better yet, don't care
@Tennessee Country boy 😂
Just move on, who the fuck is she for you to go through her tests?
Plenty of pretty women who don’t test and have healthy communication skills that also appreciates softness in a man.
If she test me I’m out
Always be willing to walk away
And spin plates.
even tho you love her?
@@oobibab9572she don’t love u if she makes u jump through hoops, move on and find a good woman
You are really making a difference man, by helping out other men who still believe in Disney romance and even people like us who want to know more about attraction and relationships.
I'm being tested right now by this girl she suddenly act cold , distance and ghosted me on text but i went this same pattern over and over again so i know that this girl is testing me so cut off contact with her and walk away like a men its not the first time i'm doing this but before this its really work on her she came back and start texting me again so set a date with her and have fun quality time but this time she doing it again.Men don't get rattle by these type of girl they comeback when she see you act calm and confidences just focus on you life,go to the gym and improve your self great work chris love you video keep it up.
Please use punctuation in your text. Having one big sentence makes your message incoherent.
@@AkosM It was very breathtaking
Maybe some of you gentlemen's would like to shared yours success stories on women??
If a woman does it over and over call her out on it then walk away. She will be pissed tell you off. Ignore her when she tells you off wait till she contacts you. If she does it again do the same thing except make it longer till you contact her. The test will stop trust me.
Vertigo101 youre 36. U should know all women are crazy
It's so much easier to just let a woman prove herself. Let her do all the work!!!
1. Don't be needy
2. Don't be desperate
3. Don't seek approval or validation
4. Don't qualify yourself
5. Don't over apologize or for small things
6. Don't show weakness/low status
7. Don't compare her with other girls in a bad way
8. Don't self-deprecate
9. Don't make ultimatums
10. Don't make excuses
11. Don't beg
12. Don't be a victim
13. Don't get defensive
14. Don't get emotional
15. Don't show defeatedness
16. Don't complain
17. Don't feel the need to explain yourself
18. Don't blame others
19. Don't bring problems
20. Don't get attached
21. Don't care
22. Don't ask permission
23. Don't make half-assed plans
24. Don't show vulnerability
25. Don't supplicate
26. Don't put her on a pedestal
27. Don't brag
28. Don't give up
29. Don't expect anything
30. Don't gloat
31. Don't repeat yourself
In other words turn yourself into a cocker spaniel and roll over...jeez!
Lmao
too much information
... and don't do other 99 things🤔
lBloodyl smh once I fuck a woman I don’t care about if I did this and that to lower her attraction for me. She can go kick rocks
I’m getting tested right now. I’ve gone over your book several times, and I feel like I’m going to past her tests this time around. I had never realized how much I fucked up back then lol.
So yesterday my girl texted and complained that I'm too dominant and it scares her, and then she threatened me to break up.
So I texted her back and said that she can leave.
And she choose leave.
Now I'm in the phase of No Contact. Women's behaviour truly like a cat.
Update guys.
So today I met her, she talked what's her issues while I keep myself calm, keep the atmosphere fun and not affected with her emotion.
We close the date with kiss.
We're back together.
@@qaylarceus8385 well played brother ,well played 👏💪👌✌
U sir is a legend
She will come back. Mark my words.
Qayl Arceus - Did not read the update. Knew it, well done my man
When she knows you can righteously leave, she becomes inclined to righteously stay
I lost her ..its been 3 months but i am still in pain
But got a great lesson
Shini Gami quit Simping. It wasn’t ur pussy it was just ur turn. Keep it movin and improve yourself
It shows that you invested too much into her. Never do this. I was a victim of this years ago. Girls should never be a priority in your life, they should just be an added bonus that if you didn't have wouldn't make any difference.
The moment you show weakness it’s not if it’s when you are gone
I have done all of these things,that i shouldn’t done.
😂😂😂Sorry bro... Start detaching. Run!
KSiiiX Bro,im still together but she wanted to break up 8 times from me,and everytime i was reason,that we are still together i dont know what the hell its going on but i dont want loosing her.
Stay calm bro, dont panic. Dont beg her. Just follow if she want a break up with calm. And show u can live without em. Start pull away.
Ya, all of us
🤣🤣
I did all of these mistakes 😂😭
when u stop caring about her and meet her again she will be attracted again women are so fucking weird
I passed tow of the most tesed that woman make :
1. She realise that i really love here from all of my heart..
2. When i realized that she really don't need me l walk away like nothing is happened and i start working on my self again...
To be honest i act needy and weak many time because i really can't control my emotions when she pulls away.. and now i moved on...
Guys the power of moving on after you showed all of your love , make her realize how strong you are and she will trying to chase you again , specially if you are a good quality man..
"Deflect rude and disrespectful behavior with humor and indifference"... Horrible mistake. If a woman disrespects you, check her IMMEDIATELY. It's a turn off to women when they violate you and you let it slide. Disrespect doesn't get better.
Very correct, I was about to say the same.
I think the creator meant with humor to take the power away from her insults by disqualifying her in a humorous way. Does an Alpha start being aggressive for every puny insult?
Man help the gal I want is disrespectful to me
@@MrB_003 that means she is low value
MadBros like she disrespects me coz I’m ov low value or she disrespects me coz she is ov low value
Also take into account this: If she does become distant, doesn't talk to you for a few days...Think about what she might be doing with that time. She might be involved with another man for all you know, and if she is she isn't likely to tell you. Don't bother with a woman who does that. What do they add to your life? You're just an option in their eyes.
You spin plates , you don't take them seriously ever and you just use them for sex and fun if you have spare time and money, if you don't you just focus on getting ahead in life.
OНИKC red pill af
@@nobody-hr1lo abso-fucking-lutely
The most important thing for men to learn is the compliance test aka the "shit test". I learnt this, how to identify compliance tests and how to respond appropriately and things have never gone so well with women in my life.
Chris Canwell, kindly teach men how compliance tests escalate as women lose attraction for a man to the point they completely stop when he fails more & more of them. They also escalate during the first interactions with a woman as she seeks to figure out whether he's bold and confident.
A woman won't shit test men she has no attraction to or once she's totally lost attraction to him.
Had a situation where a woman and I were fine for a long while and then one day, boom, it all exploded because I didn’t keep my cool. Lesson learned. When a woman gets emotional and tests you, just stay centered and cool.
So be indifferent and uninterested which women complain about also.
I've concluded that woman are insane 🤷🏽♂️
@@ksiiix1399 along with most of the world around you.
Just let them reach out to you
Lol this is absolute GOLD. It’s hard to find raw truth in the web these days. Bravo 🎉
Thank,u practically it pays off...not all time but most of times cause sometimes "it's not all about you" develop attraction best channel 💜
I love your videos .. always get hyped up when they come out. You keep it short and simple. Keep up the good work
Bro , i did more than 11 mistakes .
And now my heart is broken .
We all make mistakes in the beginning. Learn from then and improve.
... One of the most valuable videos on the whole of UA-cam ! 👏
The things He mentioned not to do are the things which i have already done. Shit !!!💔
That's why is better to be with a women with high interest over you so you can be more confident and won't be trying to prove your value to her. Only deal with a women who sees you as her number 1 option.
The 12 Commandments! I have found The Holy Grail of the Develop Attraction channel at long last.
This was the *GOAT* man!
The more i learn about women ..the less i want one
LOL
You have to act like you just don’t give a shit to keep the women interested, and if you don’t give a shit, why even fucking be in a relationship?
I wish you read the audio book! Hopefully in the next one.
I’ve been talking to this one girl for a couple weeks now and things have been going pretty smooth overall.. planning dates, flirting, etc.. Just yesterday out of the blue she told me that she started talking to a guy that she used to talk to and wanted to see how it went and that she’d get back to me if things change. She’s also away on a family vacation which leads me to think that she may be testing me... I believe I handled the situation the right way and after responding in a cool manner I’ve gone no contact. anyone else think this could be the case?? I have a strong feeling that she’s testing me especially with how well things were going beforehand
Any updates?
Tyler Miller absolutely nothing so far... it’s been about 4 days now and she’s supposed to be coming home tomorrow. Stand by for updates
@@crispbcn you're not her priority, you're just the last resort for her... You deserve better man! Plenty of women in the world that would treat you as a priority!
Good luck 🙏🏼
Anes yeah it’s been a whole week now and still nothing so that’s pretty much what it is. Thanks though I appreciate it 👌🏻
Just tell her be happy with ur choice and move on.. Time is important than a woman
Too much trouble always doing for her, we men are the prize, what about what we want?
You are not the prize when you are selling yourself short.
So helpful for me 👍👍 I need more n more videos like this
It's true women always tested men I've been experience with all these before . thanks once again love to see the animation character
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Thank you for your work. You so right with you book about woman. Have You created them, that you know them so right? :-)
How can you recognize between a test and disrespect/lack of interest?
Just at the right time. I needed that.
Chris’ speech can be summarized in a single command: Don’t be needy.
GREAT CONTENT
Can’t believe this entire is about how bad I’ve messed up for the past 39 years. Fuck!! But it’s all good, I’m 40, more stable and better position for this knowledge and practice. 💪🏾
Thank you for ur free advice sir. Great lesson. love guru!
NEVER NEVER NEVER EVER BECOME AGGRESSIVE. PERIOD.
Does no fap really help in women attraction?
In my experience it helps a lot.
Bhai.. Aisa kuch ni hota..
Whats fap?
For me it helps me alot. I make more solid eye contacts with attractive women comparing to last time. I used to look weak by avoiding solid eye contacts.
Now I feel myself changed alot, the way i talk to women, not putting her on the pedestal anymore. Instead, I will make myself a prize for her to chase.
If she rejects.... Welp... There is plenty of fish in the sea.
@@saufong88 thanks mate
A woman told me via online chat, that she won't tell me about something over chat, but in person. Is this a test? Because now I feel obliged to take her off to the side next time I see her (in a social setting) and ask her about that thing she wouldn't tell me about. Or my other option is to not even ask about that thing and let her take the lead. It's not as though I need to know about that thing, I can live without knowing about it.
dont ask, dont care, take it as a sign she just want to see you
@@incassable cheers man, it's difficult to know what to do. Women are patient so I'll be patient too, and try to not focus on only her.
So, be a Thomas Shelby in life
I understand the other points, but I dont really see the reason behind points 7 and 12.
7. Why cant we reason if she does something completely wrong at all? Should we just laugh at it and leave?
12. Should we just laugh at it and be indifferent if what she does is rude? Why shouldnt we tell her if it isnt right at all? Should we just leave her if she does that several times?
Thanks
I asked myself that too and i guess, because women tend to think more emotionally rather rationally, so even you are right and reason with her it wouldn't end good. I think you can try to reason and look how she responds, does she seem open minded or willing to understand it? Then go on, if not just say ok or whatever..
Thanks
Thanks for the support, I appreciate it!
Now 25 days my gf was test me, she pull away and she always looking my little mistake and complaining she don’t want to talk in phone, and i will try to be happy and let her go with happiness
I told her i know you want to break and i know you have a bf now, i said okay i let her go
If you act like this you will become her pet and she will eject you. Be calm, principled and focused, if that's not good enough for her walk away.
"Don't try reasoning with her" solid gold
Humour or indifference for disrespect or walking away???
The entire guidelines can be summarized in just one:
#11: Take the focus off the woman and focus on yourself instead.
Finding a right partner or giving a test paper in which he have to pass if fail she will leave or take another test..its better give a bigger test to boost your career.. if women really genuinely want a guy in her life she doesn't care about taking test or u pass or fail in her test.. she just want u with her rest of her life this feeling comes form inside not by taking test. So so concentrate on own work she will definitely support you irrespective of all odds and situation.
Just don't move, she will stay with you
One question what do you get from passing her test
Please make your book available in playstore dude🙏
Good video 👍👍
im guilty of foregiveness
Unless it's a blood test or test for a job, I have no time for tests.
You forgot walk away power
But, why?
After no contact for 2 months My ex asked me after a breakup that do i like her, i thought that she was onto me and then I have made the classic mistake by saying i love you, i ruined everything she instantly become cold and distant.
How can i build mystery and uncertainty again with her.
I stopped texting her
Suggest me what would fit perfectly in my situation..
You should've fixed a date bro
I think i must increase my SMV first..
Find another one and focus on yourself
Continue with no contact and keep working on yourself whether that be through new hobbies, going to the gym, advancements in career, becoming more charming/charismatic ect. This will net you attention from new women which will make you forget about your ex.
On the off chance she messages you again or you see her again one day (which has happened to me years after breaking up with an ex) she will feel that mystery and uncertainty again because you're a different man now. The answer is always look after yourself.
Hope this helps ✌
@@xDR4GONSCOP3x thanks bro.
This is the best video
Very nice video
This one Is fucking GOLD! Listen up, guys! This guy knows what’s up.
Great vid! And I love how straight forward and to the point it was.😊 Thank you for your contributions to the well-being of the human race! Haha No, but
What if you do this things and your girlfriend reclaims that you dont provide her enough attention and time, because you are working for develop yourself and reaching your goals?
She is testing you don’t give in. Many of us have given things up for a women it has almost always been a mistake. Remember women are never happy if you have gave her that attention she would complain you are smothering her.
Previous december my girlfriend told me that i neglect her, that she feels alone in the relationship,that i dont care about her being in bad mood etc.Unfortunately by this time i did not know about these fking tests and i started be a nicer version of me.And from that day on all started getting miserable for me as she became a woman who rarely had mood for sex,she was distant and bored,even when we had sex i could sense that she is doing it just to keep me around.Never change a thing that she complains about.I learned my lesson.
This is what mental point of origin means
So how do you effectively differentiate between when she's testing you and when she's using (friendzoning) you?
I got a test today
00:40
you save my life ♥️
Never ask for forgiveness?
What if she pulls away? I'm most likely overthinking this, but I want to know, if she pulls away should you instantly pull away as well? Because I feel like that is somewhat showing that what she did, affected you. So what can I do? Obviously still being sweet and so on is counterintuitive but to completely remove it. It will look like you're butthurt. Can someone solve this? Thanks in advance.
You do and you spin plates.
Man! Where were you Mr. Canwell with this advice decades ago? I’d be married with kids by now!
All these test are meaningless because it will nvr cease. Once a test is passed your successful but with women it’s a constant nag fest. In the old society, a women’s test was ostracized and kept in check but in this gynocentric society, it’s encouraged so women keep doing it.
By using "Fractionation"... it will snap her out of her test mode...
Nice 👍
How do men test women ?
Men simply do not shit test women.
Then how are you supposed to get that woman??? No I don't mean just any women, that one woman who's been testing you! How do you keep how invested?
We shouldn't be tested
Yes but it is what it is
Everyone tests everyone.
@@diegom-a7970 nah you just a simp that accepts bad female behavior
@@murphsviews you probably do because you are sick in your mind. I don't.
Lol, I've done most of these mistakes.
all things covers in one video
men: the 150 rules to deal with her
women: do whatever you feel like
This is true
really attractive male but i never really had the right social skills to build onto relationships .. lol even genuine connections with male friends .. never was really successful. Only if I had a real life coach .. but in actually reality not just the internet . It would really push me for the better
So......just ignore her?
Just don't give a F***! Perfect!
Why is the comment section always full of 'pros'?
what's the name of this animation program?
If a girl says to you that you are my brother. Is this also a test? Should we ask her to clarify this?
Thanks
Chris
Ask her to kindly fuck off
Isaac Jacob loll she’s putting u back into that friendzone, walk away bro
@@siddharthnaik2361 kindly?
@@fouinylantigua5701 walk away ? Or should I say no. I don't want to be your brother or friend either?
Isaac Jacob just walk away don’t stay in contact with her , she knows already that u want her , show her u got other option, if u keep it this way she ll friendzone u forever, you too responsive
Is there a time when you should put her in her place rather than walking away and acting indifferent? Not with violence, I mean strong body language and telling her to watch her mouth. What do you think?
Females don't respect a man's words, they respect his actions
All these tests. That’s why men have dens with beer and ballgames!
My buddy secret was Xanax. It made him not have a care in the world.
After seeing this vid. I realized I failed so she friend zoned me and I don’t want it help
disappear and comeback indifferently
Men don’t take the test. Leave them alone, make your money, and leave them with their cats!
Wtf CAN i do them...
Double text Gang where you at?! 🤩🤩🤩