Pile-3 you have nailed it again!! I was a people pleaser, overgiver to anyone and everyone. Had many realisations lately and understod a lot about my patterns and working on my own self. You described the person as he is. You are incredible💕
How tf do we heal this parent wound? I feel so lost. Just wanna give up. Life on this planet has just been constant pain, suffering and struggle. I dont really see the point anymore…
You're so right with Pile 3, so don't hold back. I'm not offended. 😂 My parents failed me, but I still want a partner to give me the love and support my parents never did. It would be a weird dynamic to most, but that's what I want. I'm not going to stop wanting that. It could be unrealistic, but that's what I want. I know that will make me happy. As for the person in this reading, I know we can't be together romantically. In my fantasy, the person I spend my life with doesn't do me dirty and would have said all the right things unlike my ex lover. I'm trying to be the best I can be, so I don't mess it up if I find what I'm looking for. Yet, I'm lonely and want a person to take that feeling away. I've always felt alone and want someone who understands that level of emptiness and desire for more than singlehood. I miss how nice it felt to be adored, attractive, and wanted. He was my home and still is, but I also understand we were enabling each other's issues and triggering each other in the past. I'm not sure if I'll ever find my person, but I'm open to it still happening. I thought it was my TF until he ruined everything. I'm still hurt by the whole thing, yet I'm not stuck on us being together. We won't work out snd I don't care about that. It doesn't fit my fantasy anymore, but I did genuinely care for him. I did love him. Why can't we be there for each other and heal r great friendship? I'm more than capable of being friends, yet he would be my shoulder to cry only. Until I find my person, I would like to lean to my TF for support. He craves my support too. Problem is, I know he wants more than that when I'm still angry like you don't get to have me like that. U were supposed to be different. U failed and you're denied access. For good.😂 If he hasn't changed. How can we be in each others lives? How can we not fight when we want different things from each other now? I feel like he's being too selfish and unreasonable like I'm perfectly fine with u doing u as long as u respect our bond and me, but he can't say the same. I get angry he's still in that arrogant mindset. I really don't want him. I'm just tired of being alone and this connection being tossed in my face like I must address it. Him and I are going to be stuck in this loop until he decides to grow up and I find my person I guess. I guess when we both do. 🤔 I feel like we need to both be good before my future dream man steps into my life. 😂 so yeah, i feel frustrated that I'm not living my dream of a mom, wife, and a nurturing lover already.
Pile 3: My experience exactly! I’m sensitive, I’ve been working with my inner child. I love my parents and understand that they have done their best considering. It’s still difficult to heal what you can’t necessarily see. I’ve held my ground with him. It’s a very awkwardly intense connection without ever being able to say we’re in a relationship… but still have a heart for him… it’s so sad. I’ve been following your channel for a while and you always are on point! Thank you for channeling! 💛✨🕊️
Thank you for the reminder in pile 3 that I need to stand up for my highest good and rescue myself. I know that deep down but I think I'm also scared of moving forward. This current version of me is so bitter at the universe for putting me through so much shit for the past 3 years in every aspect of life. I don't feel anything as intensely as the anger of knowing I've been treated so unfairly. I know how to get out of this, but I don't know if I'm capable of it. I just pray that I have the willpower to see through to the end of this karmic cycle.
I understand the interpretation of the dynamic that can be created from our past traumas, but not everyone’s reactions to those traumas are the same. The way you deliver a blanket statement without recognizing that not all of us want to dwell or wallow within it. Knowing this truth, you beat a dead horse. You don’t consider the people who haven’t replayed or allowed themselves to succumb to that dynamic, given the triggering from this type of relationship. All I’m trying to say here is, you play the same key for a little too long and then call it confronting.. without allowing people to acknowledge that truth and just moving on without dwelling in a scenario where everyone is at complete different stages
#1 no more BS, eighter he comes as a MEN, grown up and clean or I am fine without, no more dimming my light or "Jesus Christ Syndrom", helping the drowning one, swim on your own, God gave you all you need, use it❤
pile 3💯 yes i m sensitive. but it doesn't mean i will accept anybody. i never got love .parents cheated on me everybody cheated on me. if that peson cheated on me its a normal thing for me i m used to it.
I like the realization aspect of this question. It gives...I dunno. An extra level of nuance. I'm about to watch now. I'm going to pick 2, but use 3 as a clarifier . THE ARIES
Pile-3 you have nailed it again!! I was a people pleaser, overgiver to anyone and everyone. Had many realisations lately and understod a lot about my patterns and working on my own self. You described the person as he is. You are incredible💕
Why are we living the same life ...dead on the description I could have as well written it my self...so proud of you keep it up❤❤❤❤❤❤❤...😊
Love your help 😢with my situation ! 30:00
How tf do we heal this parent wound? I feel so lost. Just wanna give up. Life on this planet has just been constant pain, suffering and struggle. I dont really see the point anymore…
You're so right with Pile 3, so don't hold back. I'm not offended. 😂 My parents failed me, but I still want a partner to give me the love and support my parents never did. It would be a weird dynamic to most, but that's what I want. I'm not going to stop wanting that. It could be unrealistic, but that's what I want. I know that will make me happy.
As for the person in this reading, I know we can't be together romantically. In my fantasy, the person I spend my life with doesn't do me dirty and would have said all the right things unlike my ex lover. I'm trying to be the best I can be, so I don't mess it up if I find what I'm looking for.
Yet, I'm lonely and want a person to take that feeling away. I've always felt alone and want someone who understands that level of emptiness and desire for more than singlehood. I miss how nice it felt to be adored, attractive, and wanted. He was my home and still is, but I also understand we were enabling each other's issues and triggering each other in the past.
I'm not sure if I'll ever find my person, but I'm open to it still happening. I thought it was my TF until he ruined everything. I'm still hurt by the whole thing, yet I'm not stuck on us being together. We won't work out snd I don't care about that. It doesn't fit my fantasy anymore, but I did genuinely care for him. I did love him. Why can't we be there for each other and heal r great friendship? I'm more than capable of being friends, yet he would be my shoulder to cry only. Until I find my person, I would like to lean to my TF for support. He craves my support too. Problem is, I know he wants more than that when I'm still angry like you don't get to have me like that. U were supposed to be different. U failed and you're denied access. For good.😂
If he hasn't changed. How can we be in each others lives? How can we not fight when we want different things from each other now? I feel like he's being too selfish and unreasonable like I'm perfectly fine with u doing u as long as u respect our bond and me, but he can't say the same. I get angry he's still in that arrogant mindset. I really don't want him. I'm just tired of being alone and this connection being tossed in my face like I must address it.
Him and I are going to be stuck in this loop until he decides to grow up and I find my person I guess. I guess when we both do. 🤔 I feel like we need to both be good before my future dream man steps into my life. 😂 so yeah, i feel frustrated that I'm not living my dream of a mom, wife, and a nurturing lover already.
Pile 3: My experience exactly! I’m sensitive, I’ve been working with my inner child. I love my parents and understand that they have done their best considering. It’s still difficult to heal what you can’t necessarily see.
I’ve held my ground with him. It’s a very awkwardly intense connection without ever being able to say we’re in a relationship… but still have a heart for him… it’s so sad.
I’ve been following your channel for a while and you always are on point! Thank you for channeling! 💛✨🕊️
Sending you a hug ....🤗🤗🤗🤗 I know the feeling... Choose pile #3 as well.
pile 2, you are so correct about us both purging right now thank you 🫶🏼
Wow! Pile 1 resonated with me 💯 %. You’re amazing!
Pile 1 - Resonated well. Thank you very much! 💛
Thank you for the reminder in pile 3 that I need to stand up for my highest good and rescue myself. I know that deep down but I think I'm also scared of moving forward. This current version of me is so bitter at the universe for putting me through so much shit for the past 3 years in every aspect of life. I don't feel anything as intensely as the anger of knowing I've been treated so unfairly. I know how to get out of this, but I don't know if I'm capable of it. I just pray that I have the willpower to see through to the end of this karmic cycle.
Pile 1, so spot on! thank you so much!
Pile 2...From month I'm in love with the song "Beggin'" by Maneskin...When i heard it for the first time, I thought immediately about him...
I understand the interpretation of the dynamic that can be created from our past traumas, but not everyone’s reactions to those traumas are the same. The way you deliver a blanket statement without recognizing that not all of us want to dwell or wallow within it. Knowing this truth, you beat a dead horse. You don’t consider the people who haven’t replayed or allowed themselves to succumb to that dynamic, given the triggering from this type of relationship. All I’m trying to say here is, you play the same key for a little too long and then call it confronting.. without allowing people to acknowledge that truth and just moving on without dwelling in a scenario where everyone is at complete different stages
#2 😊😊❤❤ can you do a Karma reading please 🙏🙏🙏🎉🎉
As always 100% spot on!
#1 no more BS, eighter he comes as a MEN, grown up and clean or I am fine without, no more dimming my light or "Jesus Christ Syndrom", helping the drowning one, swim on your own, God gave you all you need, use it❤
pile 3💯 yes i m sensitive. but it doesn't mean i will accept anybody. i never got love .parents cheated on me everybody cheated on me. if that peson cheated on me its a normal thing for me i m used to it.
pile 2 💕
I like the realization aspect of this question. It gives...I dunno. An extra level of nuance. I'm about to watch now. I'm going to pick 2, but use 3 as a clarifier .
THE ARIES
Pile 1 🙏❤️
Pile 1
I think the sound is off?
It’s on
U always get tired picking up this souls energy 😂