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КОМЕНТАРІ • 272

  • @sparklesparshi108
    @sparklesparshi108 6 місяців тому +547

    Liz and Tam posted on same day!!!! That's a treasure ❤❤❤❤

    • @farhanakhanam5852
      @farhanakhanam5852 6 місяців тому +10

      I was thinking the same

    • @rbags934
      @rbags934 6 місяців тому +2

      Who’s Liz?

    • @nelcif699
      @nelcif699 6 місяців тому

      @@rbags934She’s an self development UA-camr like Tam her channel is thewizardliz

    • @Ary-vr1pu
      @Ary-vr1pu 6 місяців тому +10

      @@rbags934the wizard Liz : )

    • @Podcastantimatcha
      @Podcastantimatcha 6 місяців тому +1

      Yess

  • @claryfray2737
    @claryfray2737 6 місяців тому +38

    You're an inspiration!!
    Looking at your life makes me feel like even my dreams can come true

  • @karlas7037
    @karlas7037 6 місяців тому +7

    I am much older than you but your videos are helping me so much! I am so grateful I found you and so happy you and your bf are having this amazing journey :)

    • @Leverne-c1h
      @Leverne-c1h 6 місяців тому

      Oh my word just wnt to say that than I changed my mind I'm also older but I feel like she's my new bestie!😂😊

  • @deborahostmo
    @deborahostmo 6 місяців тому +4

    I love the drive you have :) I admire people who design their life to what makes them happy

  • @agi_angle
    @agi_angle 6 місяців тому +5

    am i the only one who was just stunned by Tam's beauty when she took out the last roller😭😭😭😭😭Miss Kaur is so gorgeous❤💘😻😻😻😻

    • @Leverne-c1h
      @Leverne-c1h 6 місяців тому +1

      😂❤ me too girl

    • @agi_angle
      @agi_angle 6 місяців тому

      @@Leverne-c1hrightttt

  • @NatalieOpelVlogs
    @NatalieOpelVlogs 6 місяців тому +2

    Hey Tam I took a self love year in 2023 and just got a boyfriend a month ago. We have been friends awhile before that but never dated each other. I just wanted to say how powerful that year made me feel!

  • @ranoqosimjonova6891
    @ranoqosimjonova6891 6 місяців тому +3

    Watching u became my obsession ❤ cant tell u how much of an influence uve been on my life. Ily so much.

  • @Miss.S.S
    @Miss.S.S 6 місяців тому +1

    You’re actually inspiring me, I was scared to move out alone, I love living with my family as an Indian girl. But everything you talking about I can relate to, and your giving me to confidence to try new and kinda scary things ❤

  • @ShenayaKodithuwakku
    @ShenayaKodithuwakku 6 місяців тому +1

    One thing that always had within me was like, “oh my god, uttering my manifestations earlier! It’ll not happen. It’s not good to utter!”. But here she is, Tam, saying her manifestation of moving to London (which I wish to may it become trueeee very soon😘😘😘❤❤❤!!!) to us and having the confidence of being so certain that it’s gonna happen somehow. And I, still don’t understand how to lest it😢.

  • @stefij.2799
    @stefij.2799 6 місяців тому +1

    Everytime i watch your videos i get SO motivated and happy, and i just want to thank you for that ❤ your vibes are just WOW

  • @RimshaNaqvi-gq3ui
    @RimshaNaqvi-gq3ui 6 місяців тому

    WE NEED MORE Q/A chatty sessionss!!! loved knowing more about my biggest role model xx

  • @dilektasiroglu5450
    @dilektasiroglu5450 6 місяців тому

    I am in love with the positive energy she has (and she spreads)

  • @jochellevalenzuela4879
    @jochellevalenzuela4879 6 місяців тому +1

    This video of yours is so right timing! I can relate with the self-perception thing especially right now, in college I'm having a hard time to renew my self-identity because I have this bad self-image about myself which is about me, always making mistakes leading me to second-guess myself and making me feel I can't do any responsibility.
    I know that I need to change my self-perception first but right now, I'm having a difficulty to change it but I know eventually, I will overcome this and become the version of myself that act on her desires and acquire responsibility because I know that I can confidently do it. I'll just have to do the work and it will take time but it's fine.
    Anyways, I love you Tam! Thank you for sharing your story to us! Love your love story with your bf, I kinda want to create a story out of it ❤

  • @chemnpsych
    @chemnpsych 6 місяців тому +1

    I LOVED THIS and i love you Tam u give me hope that i can heal completely within a year or two

  • @SuperCoffee36
    @SuperCoffee36 6 місяців тому

    Amazing Tam. I am so grateful to come across your content. Must be a universal thing 🙏🏻

  • @sofialherani
    @sofialherani 5 місяців тому

    🎉🎉 congratulations on the move to London!! You’re going to be so close to where I live, I hope I bump into you one day 😅❤🫶🏼🙏🏻

  • @SeungahLexi
    @SeungahLexi 6 місяців тому +4

    London you better be ready for a queen 👸🤩❤❤❤

  • @arushi9371
    @arushi9371 6 місяців тому +16

    Hey Tam, I really love your videos. Keep growing!!
    Here is an alternative viewpoint to marrying early. (Disclaimer: I am not condemning those who wish to get married late that is your personal choice)
    1. marrying early is NOT a 'disservice' to you and your future partner. see if you are living with a person day and night you grow with each other and most of your values and opinions are changing together and into the same thing, so it is not like you both will grow completely different from each after the huge change in your personality. This comes from my view on marriage. I see it like growing and finding life together.
    2. biological clock does matter.(for those who want children) there is a reason why we stop having children naturally after an age. Never think that humans know better than mother nature plus wouldnt you like to maximise the time you get to spend with your children?
    Lastly,(not particularly directed at Tam cuz she didnt say anything about this)Marriage is not a jail. If marriage feels like something that will snatch your independence then you need to change your views on marriage or the person you are considering to marry.Please make sure you do a proper research on this and then decide on your own
    These are my views, thanks for reading this far. And Tam you have really improved my self love and growth as a person. Love you always❤

  • @aditisrivastava6172
    @aditisrivastava6172 6 місяців тому +2

    she's the prettiest ❤

  • @AnkithaChalla-y1p
    @AnkithaChalla-y1p 6 місяців тому +2

    Yaaayyy I am waiting for thiss finallyyyy!💫 I love your Content TAM

  • @diyaparmar613
    @diyaparmar613 6 місяців тому

    Your energy is so positive after watching your videos i feel really really positive and happy thank you tam love you ❤

  • @vadhanasjournal
    @vadhanasjournal 6 місяців тому

    Gurrl!the energy you pass on is enormous ♥️keep inspiring

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt82094 6 місяців тому +4

    Obsessed with your beautiful look ❤

  • @Shruti-go7sk
    @Shruti-go7sk 6 місяців тому +2

    Tbh queen excited for your boook and love you so much ❤❤❤

  • @reiika_
    @reiika_ Місяць тому

    Tam is like the big sister i never had

  • @saanvisapaliga878
    @saanvisapaliga878 6 місяців тому

    YOU ARE SOOO PRETTY!!!🥺🫶🫶🫶

  • @sangeetabhandarkar7635
    @sangeetabhandarkar7635 6 місяців тому +1

    Girl! Listen to me! YOU NEED THIS! 23:44

  • @monikakumari8009
    @monikakumari8009 6 місяців тому

    Lovee youuuu gurll . Thank you for your efforts to put this vid for us ❤️

  • @nicoletamotatu1086
    @nicoletamotatu1086 6 місяців тому

    it’s a good day when tam posts on the vlog channel🤭❤️

  • @esmuyangana
    @esmuyangana 3 місяці тому

    I know I'm watching this video late but your hair looked amazing here!!! ❤️

  • @29soph
    @29soph 6 місяців тому

    You’re like my big sis, although I’m way older than you🩷🤣 Congratulations on the new plans! See you in London girly! 🏙️🎉 x

  • @kiji84
    @kiji84 6 місяців тому

    23:45 Like yes gurlll you are really reallyy a great inspiration💞

  • @imyour_angxl
    @imyour_angxl 4 місяці тому

    love u girly

  • @Urfavegranolabar
    @Urfavegranolabar 6 місяців тому +1

    I appreciate you so much ❤❤

  • @lpcas
    @lpcas 6 місяців тому

    ily tam

  • @leah6805
    @leah6805 6 місяців тому +1

    I needed this vid, I’m moving into my first flat. I’ve got a job interview in a few hours and watching this as I get ready. I feel like I’m in this wonderful (but scary) transformation. You give me so much comfort that everything is going to be ok and the universe has my back

  • @oliviakret2151
    @oliviakret2151 6 місяців тому

    Your headaches when you get like that.❤❤❤❤

  • @klal2358
    @klal2358 6 місяців тому

    The hair is givingggg

  • @kourtneyj77
    @kourtneyj77 6 місяців тому

    More of these videos please ❤, what blusher are you using x

  • @user-christiexz
    @user-christiexz 6 місяців тому +1

    I’m in 10th thank you tam for being my bigger sister I wanted 🥹

  • @xnm2754
    @xnm2754 6 місяців тому

    More of these ❤❤❤❤

  • @baharsorosh3083
    @baharsorosh3083 6 місяців тому

    It's like a real girly date with u😭🙏🏻

  • @Billiethegoat
    @Billiethegoat 6 місяців тому

    Can you mention the makeup products please 🥺

  • @mariaz3250
    @mariaz3250 6 місяців тому

    I love and appreciate your sincerity... Best wishes..

  • @daisychahil8375
    @daisychahil8375 6 місяців тому

    Loved it 😊

  • @pakhi3053
    @pakhi3053 6 місяців тому

    Babe!!!! You are sooo beautiful ✨❤
    And uk i also think that on this self love journey how the hell i am becoming so beautiful😂❤❤
    Love ya universe 🌌❤

  • @g_factking
    @g_factking 6 місяців тому

    You're so pretty

  • @xTenshiAi
    @xTenshiAi 6 місяців тому

    Whats the lip colour you used? I love it!!

  • @rjmb0ra
    @rjmb0ra 6 місяців тому

    28:03 can you pls share these podcasts/your fav podcasts that changed ur life?? ❤

  • @Itsjosant
    @Itsjosant 6 місяців тому

    Thanks for every advice that you give to us ❤ you are an amazing person 🫶🏽

  • @queen.m.jewels
    @queen.m.jewels 5 місяців тому

    can you please do a move in vlog when you move in with your boyfriend❣❣❣❣❣

  • @popliticallyyours
    @popliticallyyours 6 місяців тому

    Oh my god I literally went through the 3-4 months phase too 😅😂

  • @Postcastshorts01_10
    @Postcastshorts01_10 6 місяців тому

    Tell more about parents....

  • @holliemaples3999
    @holliemaples3999 6 місяців тому

    Can you talk about how much you paid for rent in your flat 😇 I’d love to compare with US prices 🫡 & where you live if you’ve already moved out LOL

  • @Clara-gc5mz
    @Clara-gc5mz 6 місяців тому

  • @KrissyFizzle
    @KrissyFizzle 6 місяців тому +114

    "I don't need to bring them down when they're literally already at rock bottom" PLEASE THIS LINE 👏🏾👏🏾❤️

  • @affys_world
    @affys_world 6 місяців тому

  • @eyes1168
    @eyes1168 6 місяців тому +118

    I love this relationship story where both parties are actively working on themselves and being brave and strong, I hate how traditional gender roles make it seem like "that's the man's job" when we are all responsible for our own growth. Keep it up legend!

    • @xnm2754
      @xnm2754 6 місяців тому +2

      Yess

  • @simplygalaxy9463
    @simplygalaxy9463 6 місяців тому +63

    I loved hearing your love story about you and your partner, it’s like the universe planned for you guys to be together 💕💕

  • @miragge1
    @miragge1 6 місяців тому +55

    The way she's talking about her partner genuinely shows what a meaningful connection these two have ❤ makes my heart so full ❤

  • @AskThesky
    @AskThesky 6 місяців тому +57

    The way my mood switches instantly whenever I get a "tam kaur uploaded a new video" notification. She really makes everything better❤

  • @kaushikikapoor9329
    @kaushikikapoor9329 6 місяців тому +154

    Girl i have a board exam tmr! wish me luck

    • @PaarishaGupta
      @PaarishaGupta 6 місяців тому +9

      Me tooo dude..good luck

    • @vanshitasharma8130
      @vanshitasharma8130 6 місяців тому +10

      Good luck y'all 💕💕

    • @sensualpovs
      @sensualpovs 6 місяців тому +6

      Good Luck i also have it tomorrow ❤

    • @bestiiejenn
      @bestiiejenn 6 місяців тому +6

      Me too i don’t have boards but I have finals good luck to us

    • @kaushikikapoor9329
      @kaushikikapoor9329 6 місяців тому +4

      goodluck! @@bestiiejenn

  • @LifeofKaytie
    @LifeofKaytie 6 місяців тому +84

    “I don’t need to try and bring them down when they’re already at rock bottom”
    This is so true🔥

  • @rbags934
    @rbags934 6 місяців тому +27

    I met my husband when I was 21 and married at 32. Zero regrets. Also yes my 20’s had huge growth but I actually found my 30’s equally challenging… if you have that mindset then you never stop learning or growing ❤

  • @hh-qy8zt
    @hh-qy8zt 6 місяців тому +16

    NGL I kind of teared up when you talk about your parents. Thanks for being so vulnerable with your audience

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 6 місяців тому +20

    Can't wait for 100K Subscribers Tam ♥️♥️♥️

  • @SarahKhan-q4q
    @SarahKhan-q4q 6 місяців тому +16

    Tam, to say that you have transformed my life would be an understatement.. you have helped me soo much in becoming a better person and have motivated me to get my shit done😆
    I really look up to you and I am obsessed with your productive videos. You're my role model🖤🖤

  • @wasabiblue
    @wasabiblue 6 місяців тому +19

    i love this woman so much

  • @Selfdevelopmentstuff_
    @Selfdevelopmentstuff_ 6 місяців тому +7

    Got Surprised to know 2 things about you
    1) You don't know about Parents
    2) You don't want kids
    And i completely understand each one and relate tooo
    Love u myy big sister from 🇮🇳

  • @anacristinalandaverde
    @anacristinalandaverde 6 місяців тому +10

    I would LOVE if you could make a video about starting a yt channel/ becoming a content creator, the struggles + mental blocks you've had to overcome with that, some tips and tricks, mental shifts, etc. I know that there's a million videos on that already on yt but I value your wisdom and opinions so much it would be amazing to see a video like that from you!! ❤❤❤

  • @lailaandrade4801
    @lailaandrade4801 6 місяців тому +10

    I loooove this!! I love listening to our girl talk while doing makeup together- I would love more of these videos!!

  • @ashrafoonnaazkw8790
    @ashrafoonnaazkw8790 6 місяців тому +6

    Ur love story could be turned into a novel or a movie ❤

  • @YouAreRichh
    @YouAreRichh 6 місяців тому +12

    Je l'aime! Elle est tellement inspirante purée !

  • @RRRR-ro7ex
    @RRRR-ro7ex 6 місяців тому +9

    Your video just came on point, i am solo dating rn and i was watching your other vlogs ! they really motivate me

  • @alvkotn
    @alvkotn 6 місяців тому +7

    Your voice is so entertaining to listen to,along with your life changing advices. Thank you for what you're doing to help young women! Much,much love and wish you luck in your projects! ❤

  • @sweeteainthesummerr
    @sweeteainthesummerr 6 місяців тому +6

    love the twinkle in your eye when u talk ab your bf! it's what you deserve.

  • @HKAMILAH
    @HKAMILAH 6 місяців тому +2

    I never knew of the relationship with your parents. I grew up in a domestic violence household and don't speak with my family. It's challenging, and I feel judged by people who know but don't understand. I would love it if you could make a video on how you deal with this situation; I think it would be helpful to so many people.

  • @rjmb0ra
    @rjmb0ra 6 місяців тому +6

    i needed this rn!!! ❤ i LOVE LOVE ur grwm chatty vids sm

  • @lusicousc
    @lusicousc 6 місяців тому +2

    I’m am over the moon you will be a Londoner soon. Congratulations to you both moving to my home city! You deserve the world and more my angel and fellow Libra empress!!! Ps: Islington area is a great place in London with excellent transport links to all of London. Best area in North London close to other london gems like Angel, Hampstead Heath, Camden, Kings Cross etc ❤

  • @MissMarvelous28
    @MissMarvelous28 6 місяців тому +2

    really resonated with what you said about not jumping into marriage!

  • @yumikoyuzuru
    @yumikoyuzuru 6 місяців тому +3

    i can't believe i got to be here early last summer and watch this woman grow. feels like she's my best friend and i just feel so proud and i know she's proud of us

  • @vanshikamishr369
    @vanshikamishr369 6 місяців тому +1

    Why do you want to move in with your boyfriend

  • @hazelfrancix
    @hazelfrancix 6 місяців тому +2

    You light my heart idk how but u make me feel better and inspire me to grow love you so much keep smiling ❤

  • @suhanahatwal1204
    @suhanahatwal1204 6 місяців тому +3

    Love you so so much💗😭

  • @ashrafoonnaazkw8790
    @ashrafoonnaazkw8790 6 місяців тому +2

    Tam honestly u look like a fairy with this hairstyle, just attach wings now ❤.

  • @TP_Diaries
    @TP_Diaries 6 місяців тому +3

    Wake up Tam's posted!!! 🤍

  • @ammlikescookies631
    @ammlikescookies631 6 місяців тому +2

    LA PLUS BELLEEEE i love you, you’re so inspiring 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷

  • @DuaYousef-n7z
    @DuaYousef-n7z 6 місяців тому +3

    I just love her 😭🩷🩷🩷🩷

  • @n.hemavathi3451
    @n.hemavathi3451 6 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for sharing your questions with us. I can relate something from my life to your life. You have always inspired for everything.
    You are so cool!

  • @cinamoroll130
    @cinamoroll130 2 місяці тому +1

    her relationship story is actually SO cute and it reassures me so much too

  • @KrissyFizzle
    @KrissyFizzle 6 місяців тому +1

    First question about living alone - thisss
    I can't wait to move out for this exact reason, the peace that you get paired with the fact you can just do everything on your own time line
    I relish for the day when this is my reality 😩❤️

  • @vanessaprincesssa
    @vanessaprincesssa 5 місяців тому +1

    So much wisdom was shared in this video ❤ Especially about not letting your gender or where you are from define you or your personality or life in general, or your career. I needed that! ❤ Tam you are a Queen 😊

  • @lilianulika
    @lilianulika 6 місяців тому +1

    Such an insightful and gem packed q&a ✨️ Self Obsessed is literally my number 1 podcast, I was wondering if you could make a video on your main channel about your top podcasts to listen to about self growth and also entrepreneurship, that would actually be so helpful and amazingg❤

  • @user-ub4zt2eg7b
    @user-ub4zt2eg7b 6 місяців тому +1

    Taylor Swift and you keep me sane, thank you girl❤

  • @siddhidhore2964
    @siddhidhore2964 6 місяців тому +2

    You don't know di how much I love you ❤

  • @Leverne-c1h
    @Leverne-c1h 6 місяців тому +1

    Hi girl love watching you talk to us and doing your make up honey what can I say? Love you keep on shining ❤

  • @woffee_8
    @woffee_8 6 місяців тому +1

    Both my mothers (Liz and Tam) are mothering today💞✨

  • @helena..20032
    @helena..20032 6 місяців тому +1

    Girllll ❤❤ I love you !!! Could you do a video on your glow up and a financial career video andd how to work hard in school and college ? Lots of love to you . Your videos inspire lots of girls so thank you !!!🎉

  • @aayushibhattacharya6518
    @aayushibhattacharya6518 6 місяців тому +1

    I love this Q&A session wid uh...
    Love you alot tam...
    Really grateful that universe has send you in my life...
    Thankyou tam ❤

  • @humaira2347
    @humaira2347 6 місяців тому +1

    girl i work in canary wharf so if you move here i might bump in to you and omg i would love to meet you !!!