Black Americans Living Abroad, the TRUTH | 2nd Year in Lisbon

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  • @sjw4life546
    @sjw4life546 11 місяців тому +13

    Being African American, I hold no illusions about the negativity others at home and abroad have for me. At this point, I'm looking for a country that has affordable accommodations, quality low cost health-care, safe, with good infrastructure.

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому +1

      Hey there sjw, you have a lot of options. I would start with a list of wants and needs. Then do as much research on the objective features of each country; general cost of living, healthcare quality and costs, tax scheme, ease of residency VISA, and if interested a pathway to permanent residency or citizenship. Here are some other resources that might help your journey: bit.ly/OBUresources

  • @EE-zf1lw
    @EE-zf1lw 11 місяців тому +6

    I enjoyed watching the video of Christmas in Lisbon. Love Lisbon’s outdoor markets. Merry Christmas. Thanks for sharing😊

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому

      Glad you enjoyed it, we love the markets here too. That was one of the selling points for s. Europe. We were here in 2018 during the holidays and we loved all of the festivities.

  • @live.life.on.purpose
    @live.life.on.purpose 11 місяців тому +3

    Aww. 🥰 Y’all are such a loving couple. Hope your mom gets better soon. 🙏🏽

  • @quitefrankly6815
    @quitefrankly6815 11 місяців тому +4

    I differ from the comments regarding Africans not viewing us as brothers and sisters. I have traveled to 7 African countries and have received nothing but warm welcomes and invitations to relocate there. I have now even formed a business partnership there. As with anything, everyone is entitled to their own opinion based on their experience and needs.

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому +7

      That has not been my experience, unfortunately. But as we said we're not talking about EVERYONE on the Continent. We were very well received in SA - no surprise because of their recent history. And as we said, we know African Americans who love living on the Continent. But not only have we experienced less than hospitable treatment, we know others who were treated as "others" and/or walking wallets. No place is perfect - because people reside there. 🤣

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому

      I would love to be incorrect, but unfortunately that has NOT been my experience. For the immigrants that I know, they told me how they felt about African Americans when they first arrived in the states. they were afraid of us and didn't think that we had a true culture, morals, or work ethic, etc. These are the words that THEY USED. The misinformation put out by the ubiquitous US media is global - so of course they believe what the media says about us. After living in the US for a while - many change their minds about us and realize they've been lied to. But some, who stay only within their community, continue to look at us with suspicion.

  • @RoughRider757
    @RoughRider757 11 місяців тому +5

    I love you guys. You keep it real and plain spoken. And you are living an exampled life. And thank you for that. I'm a Black American and I swear it's wonderful thing to be evolved and true to myself. I haven't decided which country will be my next home but it will be in Europe. And I'm considering France, Portugal and the Netherlands. I want to be where I fit it. Thank you for being great examples.

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому

      Hey there Rough Rider, thank you so much for watching and for adding to the conversation. 💕. I would start with a list of wants and needs. Then do as much research on the objective features of each country; general cost of living, healthcare quality and costs, tax scheme, ease of residency VISA, and if interested pathway to permanent residency or citizenship. Here are some other resources that might help your journey: bit.ly/OBUresources

    • @RoughRider757
      @RoughRider757 11 місяців тому

      @@OurBlackUtopia You guys are an example of God's favor. Thank you for your input and kindness. I haven't ruled out Portugal. To tell you the truth I need to do a few trips to Europe capitals before making up my mind. Many places on paper can look like the best fit. Only way to know for sure is to try a place on and see how it fits.
      Thanks again.

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  10 місяців тому +1

      You're absolutely right. Make sure you also look at the tax scheme, and time to permanent residency or citizenship. Also look to see if there are Black or POC expat/immigrant Facebook groups - these folks will help soften your landing. 😉

    • @RoughRider757
      @RoughRider757 10 місяців тому

      @@OurBlackUtopia Thank you for your response.

  • @ang2733
    @ang2733 11 місяців тому +2

    Merrry Christmas 2nd year in Lisbon! Thank you for all the blessings you share with us!

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому

      Awww thank you! - hope your holiday season has been delightful.🥰

  • @cocotheglobetrotter
    @cocotheglobetrotter 11 місяців тому

    I returned from Lisbon 2 days ago. It's a beautiful place with lots of history. I did make mention of the gravity. I want to visit again because there's so much I didn't get a chance to see in 6 days.

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому +1

      Hey there, Thank you so much for watching and for adding to the conversation. 💕. We learned on our first international trip that the American version of a vacation is not NEARLY enough time. 6 days is fine on a resort that you never or rarely leave. But in a cosmopolitan city like Lisbon - after 1 month we hadn't scratched the surface. 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @Blissful-es1kk
    @Blissful-es1kk 11 місяців тому

    Thank you for being honest. It's so important to live wherever you feel most comfortable.

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому +1

      Hello Blissful, thank you so much for watching and for adding to the conversation. 💕 - indeed - we only get one shot at this thing called life - live it to the fullest.

  • @scarletdvore1459
    @scarletdvore1459 11 місяців тому +1

    Merry Christmas in your wonderful new life!!

  • @yokotastrong3902
    @yokotastrong3902 11 місяців тому

    #replay great episode. Merry Christmas and happy new year!!🎆

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому

      Thank you Yokota! 🥂 Boa Ano Novo & Feliz Año Nuevo 🎊 to you too! (sorry for the delay in responding YT - always flags comments that start with a hashtag 🤷🏽‍♀️)

  • @carold2370
    @carold2370 11 місяців тому

    Happy Holidays OBU!! So sorry to hear about your mom praying for her to have a speedy recovery. 🙏🏽

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому

      Thank you Carol - there is no recovery from a life of bad decisions followed by current bad decisions. 😢 Just hoping that once I get her into assisted living, the last part of her life is better than it would've been. 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @lucindanobles7728
    @lucindanobles7728 11 місяців тому

    Hi Halisi & Rick, this was a really nice video for your 2nd Christmas in Portugal. Well done & Merry Christmas and Happy New Year 🎉

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому

      Awww, thank you. 🥂 Boa Ano Novo & Feliz Año Nuevo 🎊 to you too!

  • @odessamarieclay6199
    @odessamarieclay6199 11 місяців тому

    Have a merry and and happy

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому

      Awww, thank you! To you too 🎅🏾

  • @scarletdvore1459
    @scarletdvore1459 11 місяців тому +1

    Very nice… I like it!

  • @PTFighterBras
    @PTFighterBras 11 місяців тому

    Hi guys. You have "urgent care" in some Centros de Saúde (local Healthcare centers) where you can adress non emergency care

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому

      Hey PT, thank you so much for watching and for adding to the conversation with more information 💕. That's good to know - we will have to identify some for future reference.

  • @goldenwriter5089
    @goldenwriter5089 11 місяців тому

    It's so refreshing to hear such a sound discussion about Africa. As much as it may hurt our feelings, Africans don't owe us fellowship. There has never been a unified Africa. We are definitely "new Africans," but we will never again be continental Africans. We finally have to embrace what the Maafa made of us and build from there.

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому

      Hey goldenwriter - unfortunately you're right. Obviously not ALL Africans on the continent think of us as 100% "the other" - but too many do. Everyone who wishes should experience the different countries on the continent - and see how it feels to them. For us it was hit and miss.

    • @goldenwriter5089
      @goldenwriter5089 11 місяців тому

      @OurBlackUtopia I completely understand. My husband and I are looking forward to learning more from you guys about Portugal. I thoroughly enjoy all of your videos. Portugal looks like home. Thank you!!!

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  10 місяців тому

      Awww, thank you 🥰 and thank you so much for watching. Let us know how else we can help your journey. In the meantime here are some resources that might help: bit.ly/OBUresources 😁

    • @goldenwriter5089
      @goldenwriter5089 10 місяців тому

      @@OurBlackUtopia thank you!!!

  • @sheaintsaying
    @sheaintsaying 11 місяців тому

    Happy Holidays from Beverly in the future! I loved your video; reminds me of my time at the Christmas Markets in Germany a few years. 🙂 Anthony and I are expecting to be there in Lisbon this March, and we will be looking forward to reaching out and making contact with you. if you would like anything in particular gifted from here (Sacramento), let me know; I think you have our email from our consultation this past summer. Yes, Yoga for couples; we try for at least 3 times per week, but once is could, too! 🙂Feliz Ano Novo!

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому

      Hey Beverly, as always, thank you so much for watching. Send us an email a few weeks before you arrive and if we're in town we'd love to meet up. Thank you for offering to bring something from the States. Unfortunately, we have to go back next month so we will be bringing back a few things that are too expensive here or hard to find. By the time you're getting ready to come - we will know if we've forgotten anything. 😆. Looking forward to seeing you two IRL

  • @evelyngolden2272
    @evelyngolden2272 11 місяців тому

    If you look at the Patient Bill of Rights, at the end, it asks if they can have right to see your test results and who else su h as insurance company, relative, etc., in the U.S. We just usually sign it without reading it and this is what gives out doctors the rights to see your records.

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому

      Awww, that makes sense. Not only that when I got tests and other clinics, they always asked who to send the results to. Here, I leave with most of the results in my hand. 😳

  • @ralparkin
    @ralparkin 11 місяців тому

    I was there!!!!

  • @evelyngolden2272
    @evelyngolden2272 11 місяців тому

    The main reason I didn't retire to the Continent of Africa is because of the distance from family in the U.S. but I regularly visit and am headed to South Africa in February 2024. I live in the Central American country of Panama.

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому +2

      Hey Evelyn, will we see you in SA while Exodus Summit is there? We will be there too, though I don't have a tix to the meetup.

    • @evelyngolden2272
      @evelyngolden2272 11 місяців тому

      @OurBlackUtopia Yes, I will be there. I have a ticket for the meet-up.

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  10 місяців тому

      I do too, now. See you in SA

  • @R1M1r1m1
    @R1M1r1m1 11 місяців тому +1

    If you don't go to the areas with abject poverty in the US, why would you do that anywhere else? I advise people to go see for themselves areas that they are interested in including some of the 50 plus countries in Africa. No two are alike and you may be surprised.

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому

      You cannot avoid it in some countries - there's to much of it. Abject poverty in the US looks a lot different - unless you're in the rural south so far a way from the major highways that most never come in contact with you. Homelessness not withstanding - abject poverty in the US doesn't tend to mean a makeshift house with no electricity or plumbing. It's too much and at this point in my life I cannot take the stress of seeing people who look like me having to live that way and I'm too tired to fight for change. That's what the US does to its people...it wears us the 🤬 out.

  • @gayledurham3812
    @gayledurham3812 11 місяців тому

    Hello Halisi & Ric, my daughter and I are here in portugual visiting from the USA and Germany until Jan 1 how do we connect to folks and activities while here?

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому

      Hey Gayle, join the FB groups to see what's going on and where the parties are. Black in Portugal and POCs in Portugal are the main ones. Next time, let us know before you come and perhaps we can have coffee. 😉

  • @R1M1r1m1
    @R1M1r1m1 11 місяців тому

    I didn't know California had rolling blackouts. Interesting. I thought the US was supposed to be all of that and a bag of chips.

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому

      Hmph - 😤 Yes, they had rolling black outs in the early part of this century. Just triflin'

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому

      Funny, have you ever noticed that bag of chips has more air than Chips!😎

  • @embracethejuander5033
    @embracethejuander5033 11 місяців тому

    Hello lovely people. We will be in Portugal in September. Can we buy you dinner to indulge us in moving abroad? I'm trying to relocate my 70 year old mother to somewhere better.

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому +1

      Olá Embrace the Juander - send us an email, hello@ourblackutopia.com, a few weeks before you arrive and if we're in town we would be happy to have coffee or break bread. 🥰

  • @PHYLSWATCH
    @PHYLSWATCH 11 місяців тому

    I TRIED TO SHARE THIS ON FACE BOOK AND MY ACCOUNT WAS INACTIATED!?! wow SENSORSHIP OF WHAT FOR wHAT?

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому

      Meta is a hater - I wouldn't use FB if I didn't have to. 🤦🏾‍♀️ Thank you so much for watching and trying to share our content. Let us know how else we can help your journey. In the meantime here are some resources that might help: bit.ly/OBUresources 😁

  • @TraceyEdwards-y3l
    @TraceyEdwards-y3l 11 місяців тому

    Q What about Whole Foods, target, Walmart? Are they in Portugal? I think I know the answer...lol!

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому +5

      Absolutely not. In the city, there's no room for huge stores like that. Here the cottage industry is alive and well and you just have to walk your neighborhood to find all of the hidden gems where you can find what you need. Some will look like a mom and pop version of the Dollar Store - but we can find everything that we need within walking distance.😉

    • @evelyngolden2272
      @evelyngolden2272 11 місяців тому +1

      Hola! Feliz Navidad from Panama.

  • @autobotdiva9268
    @autobotdiva9268 11 місяців тому

    i want to visit Lisbon but afraid of the long flight with a 4th grader...smh

    • @OurBlackUtopia
      @OurBlackUtopia  11 місяців тому +2

      Take an overnight flight - that way, they will sleep the majority of the time. You will arrive in Lisbon in the morning ready to explore. 😉

    • @rashadd3403
      @rashadd3403 11 місяців тому +1

      Quick thought: Your fear could perhaps be sheltering the child from an opportunity that begins a lifetime of learning, character, and growth.

    • @autobotdiva9268
      @autobotdiva9268 11 місяців тому

      @@rashadd3403 that's cute