AITA For Not Telling My Ex~Wife that I Reversed My Vas*ctomy
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- Опубліковано 26 сер 2024
- AITA For not telling my ex-wife that I reversed my vactomy
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Just a jealous ex trying to meddle and assert dominance. I love the reverse script of “my body, my choice.” Seems like he was smart to divorce that crazy witch.
Jealous ex wife will surely have an impact on your new marriage and kids.
What kind of an impact will that have?? It's not like they'll be loved a lot less now. That excuse is BS
What major impact on their lives? sounds like Ex is upset that he won't "uphold agreements" they made while married and expected him to be passively subservient to her.
Major impact of having their first step-sibling.
But then, she didn't get her tubes tied, so maybe she's just mad that she wasn't the one to provide her kids with a sibling... or maybe it destroyed her narrative that "you don't have a sibling cause daddy isn't man enough" Either way, it is hypocritical.
OP's body his choice. Jen's mad she's just a baby mama & not an ex wife who exclusively has his kids. Her using the kids to be nosey is pathetic.
@@Maninawigit's not a step sibling it's a half sibling and it doesn't affect them
@@JustinAdamson270 you're right on both cases. I got my terms mixed up trying to word it as perceived by the ex wife.
Your ex is just worried about her kid's inheritance, them getting a smaller slice of the same size pie, since its cut into more pieces now. Just tell her:
"My body, my choice."
If he is paying her child support that can also be affected.
It's literally none of her business, and she has no need to know. I'm wondering why the kids even wanted to tell the ex.
Because they were happy and excited and wanted to tell exiting news to their other parent
Nta. His body his choice. The ex has no business with him.
Imagine him demanding to know whether ex wife is using birth control
Well, now we know *why* they're divorced... What a friggin' lunatic.
NTA it seems like the only reason op got the vasectomy in the first place was because of ex wife
It’s got NOTHING to do with your EX
His body, his choice. She, being a woman, doesn't even have the right to have an opinion over a man's body.
Grown folks business is Grown folks business.
2:27 she's definitely jealous, also she thinks her kids will get lesser inheritance
exactly...
She’s talking about it like she had a choice in the matter
Wow, a good example of my body my choice.
2:27 Ooh, good point about the money
I can not help but put some of my own thoughts in Post like this....
I had to do something to make it (fun/entertaining/provide more info./learning stuff myself) while editing....
I hope its not that distracting...
The vasectomy was her idea. Then you got divorced. The reasons for the vasectomy were over, and he can reverse if he wants. Tell ex to butt out.
Lol from the title I assumed OP reversed vasectomy to get his ex pregnant. Then I would have said he's the AH (despite the "his body his choice" argument). But this is about a clear-cut case of NTA as possible! Of course, he doesn't have to inform his ex wife that he's reversing his vasectomy lol!
"despite the "his body his choice" argument" - Ty, gonna use this in the future.
@@VRDejaVu Haha I was being ironic, as if the genders were reversed and a women made an autonomous decision like that, we all know full well that "her body her choice" would be brought up unanimously!
@@tombrady5587he would not be the ahole even if he did get her pregnant she can say no to sex
@@JustinAdamson270 Yeah, I mean in the context of him sleeping with her and purposefully not using protection on the guise that he's had a vasectomy. That would make him the AH. That's what I assumed the story was about from the title.
It’s not going to impact the kids whatsoever. This is a simple case of where she thought she’d be the only woman to have OP babies, but now that OP’s partner’s pregnant, it’s now hitting her that she’s no longer the only woman who has OP’s children. It’s mainly just jealousy & her ego being hit. My neighbor is like this with her 1st baby daddy. She thinks it’s some kind of trophy to be the only woman who gave birth to his two (only) children, when in reality no one really cares. They think just b/c they had their babies that the man will give them some sort of special treatment. I don’t really know how to explain it.
This has quickly become my fav reddit YT channel as I rarely find stories that sound fake.. My only gripe is the little yellow notes at the bottom you throw in.. Bro you gotta leave them up for longer than a blink lol.. Idk who you think can read them that fast but it ain't me.. I almost always have to rewind back to read it.. Leave it up for like 5-10 secs for at least enough time to pause and read it, as its often times a great point, informative, or funny as hell..
With that sad this Op shouldn't even be entertaining his ex wife on this.. He should simply ask her how is this any of her business?....
FIRST OF ALL....Thank You for your Kind Words and Being a Awesome Long Time Supporter of the Channel....
about the Stories not sounding Real... Well I Pick and Chose the Best Post while I can to fill the Daily Video Post on YT... but AT the end of the It's One Man YT Channel So..... I have To Speed Read and Edit Video as fast as I Can, in fact I don't even Proof Check My Videos : THE TIME CRUNCH....
so yes Sometimes Few Fake Stories Sneak in here and their...
SORRYYYYY!!!! I'm working on it
and Lastly about the Golden Text (that's what i called called them at least 😎😎😎 )
as i told you above it's not fun when all you do is speed run everything while making videos.... so as comic relief (for myself mostly) I sometimes tends to post/wrote whatever i was currently thinking at the time in the video...
even now I'm having hard time believing that Some of you Wonderful People are Enjoying that and are Complaining about it's Short duration... haha 😅😅😅
I'll do something about it though...
PS : I know it's Long Rant... Sorry...
Tl;Dr : THANK YOU FOR YOUR KIND WORDS
You must be blind if you think any of these sound real in any way
NTA. Why this kind qustion even comes up? In AITA sub.
That is none of the ex's business, she is just jealous, bitter and main character wannabe.
Anyway, OP is letting women decide for him way too much considering his body like;
Ex doesn't want anymore kids: "Hey get a vasectomy."
OP: "Okay."
New wife: "I want kids, reverse your vasectomy."
OP: "Okay."
Like if ex didn't want more kids, she could've get her tubes tied or simply use BC or even easier to use condoms or avoid having sex during the ovulation period.
Men should do vasectomy only when they want it and need it not because someone else suggest it.
Soooo… “my body my choice” is not for men. Got it.
I read the title and missed the ex bit and i was coming in assuming he may be an ah for getting his wife pregnant when he got a vasectomy 😅
Nta
That's not his baby you cant reverse a vasectomy and how would a pregnancy affect adult children
@@JustinAdamson270 yeah... 70% of vasectomies are reversible and 2/3% reverse on their own... That is why when you have one, you are followed for the next 6 months.
If you don't know, don't make stuff up.