As long as it's a part two with a proper and good mother who understands Ben is only 5 years old and can be easily influenced by other people. She shouldget over herself and love her child properly as she should😢😢
These cold, cold men who love deeply but act so badly to the object of their affection. How could Lawrence expect Julia to care for and spend a lifetime with him when he treated her with such distain and neglect? She'd have to be a mind reader to see his true feelings. Appreciate your presentation of this nicely encapsulated story.
Nah, it's just an excuse for him to blame his failure in THIS case. He had his eyes on Miranda even after marriage, remember? The moment he step into the cheating route, his marriage with Julia starts to ruin. Also some opinions said "He just need a chance". Well he got his marriage days of chance already, and he waste it badly. All left are arrogance and pride.
Its really funny how everyone hates FMC but clearly dont find any fault in the ex husband for her poor treatment and the fact the child she gave birth to showed her so much disrespect for just being a normal parent. Its no wonder she left. Id leave this trash too. She was forced to have a child without consent and treated like an outsider afterwards. No one deserves that. Ex is a piece of trash. Anyone who has a mistress when they already have a wife is cheating. Especially if they are treated like a wife when they arent one. Spoiled brat just wanted a mom who spoiled him like the rest of his family and the family wanted this too. They made that bed and now they need to sleep in it.
Bruh the child is spoiled yes but he's 4.....when the hell do you take the opinion of a 4 year old seriously. The fact that she rejects her own child because he's spoiled and doesn't know any better is ridiculous to me. If anything I would have tried to fight for custody for my baby. So I can get him away from his father's influence and try to teach him better morals.
@@REIL2LYFEthat is the biggest miss conception that everyone has about children that they don't know better but actually they do they just like getting people to do what they want the reason they stop is when people put their foot down and tell them no and when it is long enough they grow out of it if not well you know the results
@@REIL2LYFEhe was the heir of the family, i don't think they would let her take him. and even then he was a spoiled brat who willfully asked for a factory. do you think she was capable of raising him? he was only able to stay for months because he wanted her love so badly. if she had taken him away then, he wouldn't have loved her.
@@REIL2LYFEas far as we know this woman had no way in fighting her ex’s rich family. You think a rich family is gonna let their heir be taken, especially by someone they looked down on? I mean, fight yourself to bankruptcy all you want but that’s not gonna help. Best to leave it alone.
Why does everyone keep saying she should have taken the child with her . do u really think he would go with her he didn't wanted her as his mom and wht else do u expect from her she was already broken who would tolerate their husband having a lover outside and the kid loves that woman and want her as mother. She did a good thing and she still kept relation with him invited him to the wedding which means she was there for him
That child was what 4 yrs old I believe. A stage where he is barely starting to understand his emotions beyond basic instincts. He was spoilt yes but wasn't late to teach him right. Atleast she should have put up a fight for him but she did not. I know I would turn the world upside down for my flesh and blood. The very understanding that ur mother did not abandon you or fought for u is a big thing for a child. Parents are there to protect you from yourselves too. I was a menace when I was young, towards my mom, she never put up with my BS but never gave up as time passed I grew up I matured. And now that child has gone cold in heart, who might never understand what it means to love the right way. He would be insecure and needy for love rest of his life.
Wow, sad story. I feel Julia's life improved and she deserved her happiness. Glad she stood up for herself and didn't allow them to hurt her anymore. Sometimes you may want to forgive someone but they will devalue you and continue to be abusive if you forgive them.
Lol he was sober but called another woman's name?? Trash and delulu Also did nothing for her - whether it was to defend her against his elitist family or compensating her fairly for the divorce. Poor kid tho - was really hoping for a reconciliation epilogue between mother and son. I'm sure some of it happened since he was at the wedding and the new step dad treats him well. Anyway ty for the story!
It's crazy the everything was Lawrence's fault. He assualted her, got her pregnant, married her, cheated on her, turned their son against him, then acts like the victim at the end. I don't blame her for not wanting her assualt child. She went through hell and the child was nightmare.
What kind of love is this of Lawrence that he can't admit & cheated her, unfair towards her, slept with her without consent, abandoning her & left her on birthday, cause her grandmother death, made her go through the hardship of pregnancy alone , didn't protect her from verbal abuse from his family and marianda.
Ummm I dont think she abandoned Benjamin though . In the end her second husband even have relationship with Ben and she even invite Lawrance to dine together with saying " Ben is waiting outside why wouldn't join us " . If she really did cut ties with him they wouldnt have ounce of connections and Benjamin wouldnt be there in her wedding with the programmer. Listen 37 :15 to the end
Forcefully raped by the person you had a crush on and that exact same guy along with his partner in crime also became your grandmother's murderer, gave birth to a mistake and all three made your life a living hell(Not yet including the other family members). that's just horrible and that's just an understatement. Thankfully, the grandmother of that family cared deeply about you and showed genuine affection towards you.
How I see it, the family would take the child from her. She had to leave for her well-being. She doesn't want entanglement with in laws or ex. She thought they would be a family with the other woman as a wife/mother. Life is complicated, better to live alone than in a toxic home.
FL won't accept her son's apology, which is kind of too much for me. He was 4 years old, and at that age, he couldn't make any reasonable decisions. 4 years old can't even wear his own clothes. A kid throwing a tantrum is quite common and they need their parent's guidance for this. I can accept that if the son decides to live with his father because he is a teenager. Even if so, why doesn't she respect her kid's choice? The ML is confusing.... I think it's better to make him so drunk that he accidentally rapes FL. To make him not, that's means he is in love with SFL but is so attracted to FL physically that he decided to rape her??? Coz for me, that he treats her badly and divorces her without any alimony means that he doesn't love her. I hope these writers stop using "accidental rape" as the plot for MCs to be together. Coz, no matter how the perpetrator looks, rape is still rape. It will give the victim trauma, both mentally and physically. How mean is it to make the victim marry the perpetrator. These writers are setting double standards, since the perpetrator is handsome and rich, FL wants to marry him... What if he is an old dude or an ugly one?
@@dihydrogenmonoxide7056 The one who took everything from her is ML, not the son. So, I agree if FL can't forgive ML, but the son is innocent... Again, why she can't? My Dear, the son is still looking for her under the table, that is how much the son doesn't understand his actions. Even doesn't understand the meaning of divorce. And I salute him for still looking for his childish Mommy even though his father tried to brainwash him.
@@moshicute2201 I did say it's not about the son. It's about mom's trauma. He looks like HIM. He ACTS like HIM. And he's a product of SA. Only a rare, special person could overlook all of that. Mom doesn't blame him logically, but imagine what it would have looked like if she kept him around. Feelings are not always logical. I would not abort, but I personally don't know if I could keep an SA baby, and I wouldn't want to hurt him/her because my trauma brain resented his existence, especially if there was absolutely no consequences to the perpetrator, except that he HAD TO marry me. Sometimes the best acts of love look counterintuitive to outsiders.
@@dihydrogenmonoxide7056 Exactly! He SA'd her multiple times that night and she was forced to overlook it, forced to keep the child b/c she couldn't hide the pregnancy, forced to marry the gr@p-ist only to lose her beloved gma due to HIS inability to keep it in his pants and hold up appearances! Forced to give birth to the product of her SA the same day her gma dies, then forced to endure years of emotional and psychological abuse at the hands of not just her original assaulter, but it's byproduct as well! It's a wonder she lasted as long as she did! While she may seem cruel, the reality of it is that she had to cut ties so that she could heal. I mean, it took her what, 14 YEARS to remarry? That alone should show that she had been through some ish.
LOVE this! LOVE LOVE LOVE this. Moral of the story: Kick the cold idiot to the curb(fml) and learn to appreciate the ones in front of you( ml). ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ More stories like this rather than sacrifice, abuse, leave, then going back when they promise change.
Yeah, but it hurts a lot when you are already suffering and you have a broken heart and when you are living for your child only. Then it would hurt you immensely. 😢😢 Don't you think ?
@@kajhaelynn she was heart broken standing on last strand of hope(her son).but when he said he hated her she lost it all and viewed both father and son in the same picture.
The kid is 4 or so right? When do you take a 4 yr old seriously. If anything I would have fought for custody to teach him better because obviously his father's influence is ruining him. She threw her child away so easily so.....kinda hard to feel sympathy for her in that moment.....for me at least.
@@kajhaelynnher son literally treat her like stranger. She was way so heart broken by everything and her only source of hope literally say he dont want her as mom and only realized that she gone after 3 days she left. He was spoiled so bad and she leaving him would at least make him realized he was wrong. But i think they reconcile since he was in good relationship with his stepdad and did come to her wedding.
So did he not cheat.? Julias grandma saw them kissing.. thats where theres no turning back for them... And this guy had 8 whole years to realize idk how much time he needed to realize they need to treat the people they love good..
From this story i learned one thing always express your feelings to the one you love instead of trying to push them away and in that pushing process hurt them miserably and for benzamin the kid I really don't have anything to say to be honest 😶 Lawrence lost everything cause he was pushing her away instead of accepting his feelings for her and showering her with his love But he chose to cheat with his ex girlfriend I like this story and this kind of story where female leads not give second chance But I like second chance stories too but not those where cheating happened But sometimes still I felt bad for Lawrence he realised his love for female lead really late and lost her for forever One thing I liked about him that he never married again after knowing he love FL❤ When you really love someone their is no way you can marry someone or move on and if you can that only means you were never in love So if you can move on then give your self chance to find the real love of your life Because people who left is just passer by not the one meant for you 😊
do you regret it? YES I do regret listening to this heartbreaking story. Lack of communication in a relationship can really ruin one. dang this story is dang painful huhu
This story really got under my skin. That kid better be like Damien Thorn if you expect us to understand why mum is so cold to him. What actually happened? one day he came home and wanted his dad's mistress to be his mommy, come on now, are we to believe he just thought this up himself \_(-_-)_/. It's probably the mil, cause she kept telling fl how unworthy she is and then after the divorce she's reminding the kid who his mum is, we don't know much else about her but that's truly foul behavior. Also did the ml ever actually like the fl? the kid was the one running after his mum and wanting to be in her life again, dad was just a background character with that one 💛 to 💛 scene being the only instance of him not being vindictive, he's so ew. And dad what the hell was that speech to the kid, dude what !? Also I kinda don't hate the other woman, in fact it feels almost like fl was more the mistress even though she was the wife, her granny was also terrible for using her like that but she didn't make things better after so I struggle to sympathize. I have *questions* author person, the direction of your story smh
How is the FL the mistress? He was the one ho had s3x with her. And he even admitted he had feelings for her. And if she's the mistress why didn't he marry the other woman after divorce. She left him.
For those bashing Julia for abandoning her son, in the epilogue we get to know that Lawrence was sober that night and he graped Julia knowing full well what he was doing. So Julia is an SA victim, and she unfortunately concieved Benjamin whose birth is accompanied by a traumatising grief & loss (of her grandma) and a very painful labour. So in her marriage the only happiness she had was her son who loved her but i think Benjamin was taught to say what he said as other commentors mentioned that Benjamin was just 4 years old when the divorce happened, so emotionally she thought 'my only hope, my son too doesn't love me so there is nothing holding me from leaving this marriage' and she left. Perhaps she should have thought that her son was too young to know better and Ben looking a lot like his father did not help matters and ig she kinda associated him (she can't take Ben with her as other commentors already mentioned power and influence of Jiang family so being in contact with him means still be in reachable distance to her ex and his toxic family) with heatbreak and pain. People make mistakes and in the end Benjamin and Julia reconciled as he was present at her wedding. So yes there was (from what we know of) a 4 year seperation.
And the saddest one in the story is Benjamin. The unwanted son. How a mom abandoned him due to his tantrums. He still a child. And the father that has no empathy for him. 😢
I kinda feel same....he was a kid with too much resources but amount of dislike the mom has for him kinda shows that she is taking out the frustration of her husband on the kid
julia's hatred towards Lawrence was understandable but why hate the child? why giving him cold shoulders? can a little attention too much to ask? Hate me or not but I truly hate Julia for this one. she may think that benjamin's only throwing a tantrum but she already know how benjamin stayed for 3 months in her hometown just to be with her. she really can't see her son's efforts to be close to her and i hate her for that
Worst thing is abandoning your own child, so even if your ex was awful and your 4 year old also was awful the child would not know what it was doing. That is difficult to listen to.
So these officials in the train know NOTHING about this lady - and yet they readily give abandoned girl into her custody? Yeah, no. My suspension of disbelief isn't strong enough. Had to drop.
She showed her ID and then also adopted her legally bruh... And also the kid was willing to go with her.. that should be something.. In the end, it's just a story
bruh the ex was BAD and female MC suffered a lot but her leaving her 4 year old CHILD it is just like the women who abandoned that her child in the train!!! like seriously? don't forgive that dumb ex but your child? whose whole life will be ruined because he threw tantrum when he was 4 is RIDICULOUS
The little boy preferred the mistress, and with all the husband's money, do you think he would even let her think of taking her child. I understood that from the beginning.
Then what!? Would you really suffer just to stay with a child who will only give you a hard time because he is being influenced by others? Realistically you can't even change his mind to like you unless you start spoiling him too cus no matter what she says even the child can see she has no worth in the household... Do you really think the child would grow up with correct morals after all that spoiling? She would have suffered eternally if she stayed
I understand the FL even if she wanted to go with the kid the family wouldn't have allowed it ...and seeing all that FL went through in that house , I'm glad she got out She literally lost her grandma due to this psycho
Tbh realistically I don't it's possible for mothers who loved their children to turn this cold to their children. Though it's also true that he not only disrespected her and hated her, he was like the last straw amongst all the hatred she was already recieving. To top it, no matter how much she had tried to change him, as long as there were people closer to him who influenced him against her, she could never have changed his mind and would eventually have to give up on him anyways. But still that indifference doesn't seem to be possible in reality.
I feel bad for Ben. I understand that he said he wanted ex-husbands first love as his mom but he was 4 years old and had a tantrum. I also understand that she would never be able to take Ben away because of how much power ex-husband had but to hate or dislike a child is crazy. He is literally a child begging that his mom loves him. A child is going to be hurt his whole life because two grown adults couldn’t express their emotions.
First of all I don't understand why she would do something like that I mean I understand she wanted a new life and to get away from all the drama especially after getting divorced but she did not have to abandon him I mean yes he did hurt her but he's just a child he's not supposed to understand that, kids don't fundamental think like adults do so when she says he's just like his father he's nothing like his father because he's just a child. And then leaving him just to find another child to take in like that's just Petty because now you have the child thinking you abandon him and let's stop and think for a moment as the child grows older that moment will always stay with him and that's going to mess with his mental health because he's always going to think it was his fault for her leaving. I mean I can see pros and cons on both sides of the story like let's be honest here she shouldn't have done that, the situation could have been a whole lot better than what it turned out to be. I mean she got her happily ever ending but the way she got happily ever ending was just cold. Like I'm not trying to be sympathetic for Lawrence but think about the child like for real
I was prepared to dislike Julia after giving her son the cold shoulder. Kids say a lot of things that they don't mean. Looks like they reconciled and reconnected later though. I'm glad. That little boy crying for his mom broke my heart.
1st of all IF HE had fallen for her from the very 1st time he should have persuaded her And 2nd FMC didn't take her child cause when your own blood and flesh who you gave birth and took care of said those vile things like wishing someone else as his mother it hurts no matter how much you said she is cold or something but it hurts when she gave birth to him and it hurts listening those accusations
Husband is trash for cheating but MC is also trash for expecting a 4 year old child to understand what was going on. Clearly he was probably manipulated but the fact she just abandons him shows that she is a jerk. Idc what the rest of you say. A 4 year old is not the same as a 12 year old nor a teenager.
A young child has no concept of what is going on. While I agree with her leaving, her not keeping a door open for her child is gross. Or maybe she couldn’t accept a child of rape.
There are a lot of stories here that do not make sense but this is the one I hate the most. Julia is an awful mother. Lawrence should stop existing, honestly, but Julia... is not much better that him. I feel so bad for Benjamin. He has 2 awful parents yet his mom's side of the story is being romanticized as if it makes sense to blame a child for an impulsive thing he said while influenced by his awful dad and the manipulative mistress?? I wanna scream my complaints about this story to someone gosh, and i need a story where Benjami ditches his parents 🙄🙄
I understand that she hate Lawrence because he is detestable but it's disappointing that she Abandoned her child knowing the he was brainwashed and was just a Child at 4 years old that couldn't even know what is right and wrong. She chose to be a mother of a stranger but she abandoned her own child with his evil father. What a selfish. Wow.
Nah this story is trash, Benjamin was a child who didn't know better instead of fighting the father and the other woman how could she just abandon her own child, also it isn't easy to adopt another child, trash story.
How would she fight the ex and his mistress when they were so rich and she only had limited amount of money in her bank account. Benjamin would have left his father and his rich lifestyle and went with her?
@@antara.dhibar8686right and not just that I had at the beginning it’s made clear that both son and husband don’t care for her and rather the mistress be the new mother and new lover. And how sad and depressing it made her feel that they chose someone and why it couldn’t ever be hurt. And no way shape or form is she being cruel to him? She’s just simply keeping her distance. After all, he stated he wanted a new mother and he got one. It’s not her fault. She’s trying to protect herself from the harm that his father caused and yes, he’s a kid, but that didn’t make it less painful
@@angelgon06 Again. See? You're just repeating the same thing even when you're agreeing. How was she not cruel? He just wanted a new mother? He always wanted a new candy too. She never gave him that right? She herself said it.
Why don't you make a story out of it when she goes back in past after dying at old age , she remembers everything and tries to stay as far from him as possible what she doesn't know is that he also remembers everything about pass and does everything to be with her trying to avoid the same mistakes. Plzzzzzzzz..........................
He thought she would be with him forever however he treats her so, behaved that horribly not taking care of her feelings and letting her burden with this ugly marriage!! The child is innocent.. It's adults that had teach him all that crap.. Overall nice story.. Just names changed, it's Chinese story I guess
Bêcame a mother... Is really something that kill your soul hearing this... Go, see him always Tell How bad you are and How good others are.. can way to see How much you can still acept and love
I kind of live nd hate towards FL... Love coz she stood on her ground nd a strong women nd Hate coz she just abandoned a 4 yr old child only coz he saud some stuff that really hurt her... She is seas the lady who has abandoned that little girl in the train... Bith lady is same... Hiw could she do that to her own fudding child... Ya he said some stuff that really hurt you but i think mother love is way more then this so called hurt feelings... I mean common he is just just 4 yrs old...😒😞
I don’t understand why FL has to treat her son like that. I mean he was a child saying those things. I felt bad for Benjamin. Both parents not wanting him.
Lawrence raped Julia ,course her grandma death and blame her for ruining his relationship with his first love and still have the audacity to ask for a remarriage? Wow
She can't teach her kid right from wrong, people around her were spoiling her kid and made her feel like an outsider, it's emotional self - preservation
@@babyteano1977he was a young child not a teen or adult. She as an adult knows this. It comes off as parenting ishard so i quit. She 100% should not allow her ex into her life but her young child is a different story.
Child choose mistress. Beginning of story showed it. She did not have enough $$$ to take him w/her. Still she could have petioned court for visitation w/son. How was she able to adopt daughter?? sorry my American mindset opinion.
Well she put a lot of effort to raise him even during the pregnancy and she in during verbal abuse and he saying those words is hard for any mother . she was also a victim of r $!#/p . also she did forgive him but didn't want anything else
She had nothing left to give. He took her everything. Of course, this is primarily the father's fault. Ben just suffers the consequences of everything the father did: from rape to divorce.
Even I didn't like the fact that she did not forgive her son! ...... I don't understand how she thought a 3 year old kid can decide on what he want and what he doesn't....... She even did not forgive him even if he showed his sincerity this is simply called cruelty rather than being a victim
You try to deal with a kid that tells you they don't love you, that they don't want you and that they want the women that hier father is cheating with to be thier mom over and over and see how you feel
Shitty morale? She is just stopping love him, thats all. She did not hate him nor unforgive him. She knew that even if she is gone, benjamin wouldnt be mistreated nor unhappy. That is why she's gone so decisively.
@@mommymeow6455 not just that at the beginning of the video it was made clear that her son and her husband both loved or wanted someone else another female in their life. Don’t really know how to explain it if that was the best wording or not but basically they didn’t really care for her, but wanted someone else to fill whatever void a mother figure for the son or lover for the husband. She just decided that she would accept it and she also made it clear to that. At first it would make her sad, so she detached herself. Which in all honesty I can kind of understand who would want to go through that pain of your husband and child that you wanting someone in your place and not you.
@@mommymeow6455 he's 4... She made it seem like it was his spoiled bratish behaviour and rejection of her that made her abandon him. That's some petty BS ...
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As long as it's a part two with a proper and good mother who understands Ben is only 5 years old and can be easily influenced by other people. She shouldget over herself and love her child properly as she should😢😢
Yeah, please, less stories with abortion, child abandonment or abuse! 😢
Is there any manga with the same story like this??
What's the title please ?
These cold, cold men who love deeply but act so badly to the object of their affection. How could Lawrence expect Julia to care for and spend a lifetime with him when he treated her with such distain and neglect? She'd have to be a mind reader to see his true feelings. Appreciate your presentation of this nicely encapsulated story.
He loved deeply? He was cheating on her and her grandmother died because of this as well. His family mocked her as well.
@sandeepKumar-wd4mx Should have used a qualifier such as "profess to..."
Title of the story please
Frr nah bhay she deseced better fr
Nah, it's just an excuse for him to blame his failure in THIS case.
He had his eyes on Miranda even after marriage, remember? The moment he step into the cheating route, his marriage with Julia starts to ruin.
Also some opinions said "He just need a chance". Well he got his marriage days of chance already, and he waste it badly.
All left are arrogance and pride.
Its really funny how everyone hates FMC but clearly dont find any fault in the ex husband for her poor treatment and the fact the child she gave birth to showed her so much disrespect for just being a normal parent. Its no wonder she left. Id leave this trash too. She was forced to have a child without consent and treated like an outsider afterwards. No one deserves that. Ex is a piece of trash. Anyone who has a mistress when they already have a wife is cheating. Especially if they are treated like a wife when they arent one. Spoiled brat just wanted a mom who spoiled him like the rest of his family and the family wanted this too. They made that bed and now they need to sleep in it.
Bruh the child is spoiled yes but he's 4.....when the hell do you take the opinion of a 4 year old seriously. The fact that she rejects her own child because he's spoiled and doesn't know any better is ridiculous to me. If anything I would have tried to fight for custody for my baby. So I can get him away from his father's influence and try to teach him better morals.
@@REIL2LYFE I understand that she eventually accepted it
@@REIL2LYFEthat is the biggest miss conception that everyone has about children that they don't know better but actually they do they just like getting people to do what they want the reason they stop is when people put their foot down and tell them no and when it is long enough they grow out of it if not well you know the results
@@REIL2LYFEhe was the heir of the family, i don't think they would let her take him. and even then he was a spoiled brat who willfully asked for a factory. do you think she was capable of raising him? he was only able to stay for months because he wanted her love so badly. if she had taken him away then, he wouldn't have loved her.
@@REIL2LYFEas far as we know this woman had no way in fighting her ex’s rich family. You think a rich family is gonna let their heir be taken, especially by someone they looked down on? I mean, fight yourself to bankruptcy all you want but that’s not gonna help. Best to leave it alone.
Why does everyone keep saying she should have taken the child with her . do u really think he would go with her he didn't wanted her as his mom and wht else do u expect from her she was already broken who would tolerate their husband having a lover outside and the kid loves that woman and want her as mother. She did a good thing and she still kept relation with him invited him to the wedding which means she was there for him
Exactly
That child was what 4 yrs old I believe. A stage where he is barely starting to understand his emotions beyond basic instincts. He was spoilt yes but wasn't late to teach him right. Atleast she should have put up a fight for him but she did not. I know I would turn the world upside down for my flesh and blood. The very understanding that ur mother did not abandon you or fought for u is a big thing for a child. Parents are there to protect you from yourselves too.
I was a menace when I was young, towards my mom, she never put up with my BS but never gave up as time passed I grew up I matured.
And now that child has gone cold in heart, who might never understand what it means to love the right way. He would be insecure and needy for love rest of his life.
She just leave because she knew she can't win. Ben is an heir after his dad, there's no way her ex's family let it happen. It just a waste of time.
Woah this is the first time the female lead leaving permanently the toxic ex husband. Well done to the writer
Yep i was hoping they don't end up together like typical romance stories. But it also shows my issues from how much I felt bad for Lawrence and ben
So, lawrance was rapist who even had an extra marital affair, so there is only evil.. no love
Wow, sad story. I feel Julia's life improved and she deserved her happiness. Glad she stood up for herself and didn't allow them to hurt her anymore. Sometimes you may want to forgive someone but they will devalue you and continue to be abusive if you forgive them.
Lol he was sober but called another woman's name?? Trash and delulu
Also did nothing for her - whether it was to defend her against his elitist family or compensating her fairly for the divorce.
Poor kid tho - was really hoping for a reconciliation epilogue between mother and son. I'm sure some of it happened since he was at the wedding and the new step dad treats him well.
Anyway ty for the story!
It's crazy the everything was Lawrence's fault. He assualted her, got her pregnant, married her, cheated on her, turned their son against him, then acts like the victim at the end. I don't blame her for not wanting her assualt child. She went through hell and the child was nightmare.
How did his family didn't slap the sht outta him when he was talking so cruelly to ben is beyond me
What kind of love is this of Lawrence that he can't admit & cheated her, unfair towards her, slept with her without consent, abandoning her & left her on birthday, cause her grandmother death, made her go through the hardship of pregnancy alone , didn't protect her from verbal abuse from his family and marianda.
Who needs enemies when you have a husband like that💀😭😭😭
@@missnanasupernova sooooooooooo damn true
Ok so it was nonconsensual. I was a little confused at that part. Her leaving both father and child makes sense.
Ummm I dont think she abandoned Benjamin though . In the end her second husband even have relationship with Ben and she even invite Lawrance to dine together with saying " Ben is waiting outside why wouldn't join us " . If she really did cut ties with him they wouldnt have ounce of connections and Benjamin wouldnt be there in her wedding with the programmer. Listen 37 :15 to the end
Forcefully raped by the person you had a crush on and that exact same guy along with his partner in crime also became your grandmother's murderer, gave birth to a mistake and all three made your life a living hell(Not yet including the other family members). that's just horrible and that's just an understatement.
Thankfully, the grandmother of that family cared deeply about you and showed genuine affection towards you.
Its good to see that she eventually forgave the son but it’s sad we didn’t get to see her do so
The problem is they spoil then when they’re Benjamin’s age, and that’s how you get another Lawrence.
The husband didn’t want to be miserable alone so he hurt his son by trash talking his mon😂
It's too late for him now regrets don't matter
It's such a good plot. It's FINALLY some sense in a flash marriage novel🎉
She described their one night as him torturing her all night. Then, in the epilogue, he says he wasn't drunk.
And this is why we all love Mr. Darcy. He fixed his mistakes FAST🤣
Yes indeed, spot on 😊
How I see it, the family would take the child from her. She had to leave for her well-being. She doesn't want entanglement with in laws or ex. She thought they would be a family with the other woman as a wife/mother. Life is complicated, better to live alone than in a toxic home.
Yep. Sticking around grasping the thin thread of hope is wasting your life. I know many women who did, they're miserable
FL won't accept her son's apology, which is kind of too much for me. He was 4 years old, and at that age, he couldn't make any reasonable decisions. 4 years old can't even wear his own clothes. A kid throwing a tantrum is quite common and they need their parent's guidance for this. I can accept that if the son decides to live with his father because he is a teenager. Even if so, why doesn't she respect her kid's choice?
The ML is confusing.... I think it's better to make him so drunk that he accidentally rapes FL. To make him not, that's means he is in love with SFL but is so attracted to FL physically that he decided to rape her??? Coz for me, that he treats her badly and divorces her without any alimony means that he doesn't love her.
I hope these writers stop using "accidental rape" as the plot for MCs to be together. Coz, no matter how the perpetrator looks, rape is still rape. It will give the victim trauma, both mentally and physically. How mean is it to make the victim marry the perpetrator. These writers are setting double standards, since the perpetrator is handsome and rich, FL wants to marry him... What if he is an old dude or an ugly one?
It's not that she won't. It's that she CAN'T. She has nothing left to give them, not even hate. They took everything out of her.
@@dihydrogenmonoxide7056 The one who took everything from her is ML, not the son. So, I agree if FL can't forgive ML, but the son is innocent...
Again, why she can't? My Dear, the son is still looking for her under the table, that is how much the son doesn't understand his actions. Even doesn't understand the meaning of divorce. And I salute him for still looking for his childish Mommy even though his father tried to brainwash him.
@@moshicute2201 I did say it's not about the son. It's about mom's trauma. He looks like HIM. He ACTS like HIM. And he's a product of SA. Only a rare, special person could overlook all of that. Mom doesn't blame him logically, but imagine what it would have looked like if she kept him around. Feelings are not always logical. I would not abort, but I personally don't know if I could keep an SA baby, and I wouldn't want to hurt him/her because my trauma brain resented his existence, especially if there was absolutely no consequences to the perpetrator, except that he HAD TO marry me.
Sometimes the best acts of love look counterintuitive to outsiders.
Well said. Glamorized abuse is so common in romance stories
@@dihydrogenmonoxide7056 Exactly! He SA'd her multiple times that night and she was forced to overlook it, forced to keep the child b/c she couldn't hide the pregnancy, forced to marry the gr@p-ist only to lose her beloved gma due to HIS inability to keep it in his pants and hold up appearances! Forced to give birth to the product of her SA the same day her gma dies, then forced to endure years of emotional and psychological abuse at the hands of not just her original assaulter, but it's byproduct as well! It's a wonder she lasted as long as she did!
While she may seem cruel, the reality of it is that she had to cut ties so that she could heal. I mean, it took her what, 14 YEARS to remarry? That alone should show that she had been through some ish.
LOVE this! LOVE LOVE LOVE this. Moral of the story: Kick the cold idiot to the curb(fml) and learn to appreciate the ones in front of you( ml). ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ More stories like this rather than sacrifice, abuse, leave, then going back when they promise change.
I get cold shoulder to the ex but its still your birth child... bit extreme considering most kids say this at least once in their lives
Yeah, but it hurts a lot when you are already suffering and you have a broken heart and when you are living for your child only. Then it would hurt you immensely. 😢😢 Don't you think ?
@@soniagupta6347what does that have to do with treating your child like a stranger?
@@kajhaelynn she was heart broken standing on last strand of hope(her son).but when he said he hated her she lost it all and viewed both father and son in the same picture.
The kid is 4 or so right? When do you take a 4 yr old seriously. If anything I would have fought for custody to teach him better because obviously his father's influence is ruining him. She threw her child away so easily so.....kinda hard to feel sympathy for her in that moment.....for me at least.
@@kajhaelynnher son literally treat her like stranger. She was way so heart broken by everything and her only source of hope literally say he dont want her as mom and only realized that she gone after 3 days she left. He was spoiled so bad and she leaving him would at least make him realized he was wrong. But i think they reconcile since he was in good relationship with his stepdad and did come to her wedding.
Am glad she didn’t allow her son to guilt trip into getting back with Lawrence
So did he not cheat.? Julias grandma saw them kissing.. thats where theres no turning back for them...
And this guy had 8 whole years to realize idk how much time he needed to realize they need to treat the people they love good..
From this story i learned one thing always express your feelings to the one you love instead of trying to push them away and in that pushing process hurt them miserably and for benzamin the kid I really don't have anything to say to be honest 😶
Lawrence lost everything cause he was pushing her away instead of accepting his feelings for her and showering her with his love
But he chose to cheat with his ex girlfriend
I like this story and this kind of story where female leads not give second chance
But I like second chance stories too but not those where cheating happened
But sometimes still I felt bad for Lawrence he realised his love for female lead really late and lost her for forever
One thing I liked about him that he never married again after knowing he love FL❤
When you really love someone their is no way you can marry someone or move on and if you can that only means you were never in love
So if you can move on then give your self chance to find the real love of your life
Because people who left is just passer by not the one meant for you 😊
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They must be born in hell to call this love at all. Sorry to say if this is the so called love then its better to live without love😂
As a guy this is fucked up
I am girl and it is still fucked up
Lmao surprised to see a guy stick around till the end
do you regret it? YES I do regret listening to this heartbreaking story. Lack of communication in a relationship can really ruin one. dang this story is dang painful huhu
lack of communication!? the ex was a unredemiable trash that's all! no talking would have fixed him up.
This story really got under my skin. That kid better be like Damien Thorn if you expect us to understand why mum is so cold to him. What actually happened? one day he came home and wanted his dad's mistress to be his mommy, come on now, are we to believe he just thought this up himself \_(-_-)_/. It's probably the mil, cause she kept telling fl how unworthy she is and then after the divorce she's reminding the kid who his mum is, we don't know much else about her but that's truly foul behavior. Also did the ml ever actually like the fl? the kid was the one running after his mum and wanting to be in her life again, dad was just a background character with that one 💛 to 💛 scene being the only instance of him not being vindictive, he's so ew. And dad what the hell was that speech to the kid, dude what !? Also I kinda don't hate the other woman, in fact it feels almost like fl was more the mistress even though she was the wife, her granny was also terrible for using her like that but she didn't make things better after so I struggle to sympathize.
I have *questions* author person, the direction of your story smh
How is the FL the mistress? He was the one ho had s3x with her. And he even admitted he had feelings for her. And if she's the mistress why didn't he marry the other woman after divorce. She left him.
This all started with noncon, so...
ngl I cried a little when Ben was forced to leave while crying for his Mom 🤧
why am I only seeing this???
I’ve heard this on a different channel but this one is a tad bit better translated so😅🤷♀️
For those bashing Julia for abandoning her son, in the epilogue we get to know that Lawrence was sober that night and he graped Julia knowing full well what he was doing. So Julia is an SA victim, and she unfortunately concieved Benjamin whose birth is accompanied by a traumatising grief & loss (of her grandma) and a very painful labour. So in her marriage the only happiness she had was her son who loved her but i think Benjamin was taught to say what he said as other commentors mentioned that Benjamin was just 4 years old when the divorce happened, so emotionally she thought 'my only hope, my son too doesn't love me so there is nothing holding me from leaving this marriage' and she left. Perhaps she should have thought that her son was too young to know better and Ben looking a lot like his father did not help matters and ig she kinda associated him (she can't take Ben with her as other commentors already mentioned power and influence of Jiang family so being in contact with him means still be in reachable distance to her ex and his toxic family) with heatbreak and pain. People make mistakes and in the end Benjamin and Julia reconciled as he was present at her wedding. So yes there was (from what we know of) a 4 year seperation.
And the saddest one in the story is Benjamin. The unwanted son. How a mom abandoned him due to his tantrums. He still a child. And the father that has no empathy for him. 😢
I kinda feel same....he was a kid with too much resources but amount of dislike the mom has for him kinda shows that she is taking out the frustration of her husband on the kid
@@Somyaevexactly my point.
benjamin ????? weird way to spell julia.
@@st.godlessnesserm???
Wow, the art is absolutely gorgeous, who draws these and are they from this novel?
These are Ai
Yep. AI art. That is why the hair, age, gender, etc aren't consistent.
Damn.... This story was both sad and beautiful 🥹🥹
I am happy for julia
Lawrence did it to himself… must be on the spectrum
Not all people on the spectrum are like this! Rude!
Why is it that in every "this kinda" story it always ends badly for 1 person 😂😂
I like this story thank you x
I’m can’t believe a mother can do this to small children unbelievable.
So she hated a 8 year old boy for something he did at the age of 4?
The ex-husband might be a bad guy, but she ain't no angel
Right!?! That’s a child and her child wth did she forgot what kind of environment he was raised in.
she shouldn't have stayed in a guys home and he forced her she should have him arrested
Cannot blame the child. He's innocent.
Please let me help with thr voice over work! Great stories but...i'd love to bring that 🤌🏽 to these characters
ai doesn't need to be paid for.
julia's hatred towards Lawrence was understandable but why hate the child? why giving him cold shoulders? can a little attention too much to ask? Hate me or not but I truly hate Julia for this one. she may think that benjamin's only throwing a tantrum but she already know how benjamin stayed for 3 months in her hometown just to be with her. she really can't see her son's efforts to be close to her and i hate her for that
Worst thing is abandoning your own child, so even if your ex was awful and your 4 year old also was awful the child would not know what it was doing. That is difficult to listen to.
Never take a woman for granted
Never take anyone for granted
So these officials in the train know NOTHING about this lady - and yet they readily give abandoned girl into her custody?
Yeah, no. My suspension of disbelief isn't strong enough. Had to drop.
She showed her ID and then also adopted her legally bruh...
And also the kid was willing to go with her.. that should be something..
In the end, it's just a story
Thats how villains are made.
Now thats a happy ending 😭 atleast for julia and that matters the most
If do much jelous then what was he doing with her .... 41:41 so called extra marital affair?
my name is feli too😂😂i got scared when i suddenly hear he say my name
bruh the ex was BAD and female MC suffered a lot but her leaving her 4 year old CHILD it is just like the women who abandoned that her child in the train!!! like seriously? don't forgive that dumb ex but your child? whose whole life will be ruined because he threw tantrum when he was 4 is RIDICULOUS
The little boy preferred the mistress, and with all the husband's money, do you think he would even let her think of taking her child. I understood that from the beginning.
@@lindaroane3344Yeah 😢
Then what!? Would you really suffer just to stay with a child who will only give you a hard time because he is being influenced by others? Realistically you can't even change his mind to like you unless you start spoiling him too cus no matter what she says even the child can see she has no worth in the household... Do you really think the child would grow up with correct morals after all that spoiling? She would have suffered eternally if she stayed
Both of these so-called parents were horrible to Ben. I would not be surprised if he had deep-seated abandonment issues.
I understand the FL even if she wanted to go with the kid the family wouldn't have allowed it ...and seeing all that FL went through in that house , I'm glad she got out
She literally lost her grandma due to this psycho
Wow ❤❤❤ just loved it
These kinda guys are scary. They treat you like crap and then manipulate you to feel bad/love for them
Both parents of Benjamin are horrible I’ll say that much.
Wow it really was soo great love this story❤
Tbh realistically I don't it's possible for mothers who loved their children to turn this cold to their children. Though it's also true that he not only disrespected her and hated her, he was like the last straw amongst all the hatred she was already recieving. To top it, no matter how much she had tried to change him, as long as there were people closer to him who influenced him against her, she could never have changed his mind and would eventually have to give up on him anyways. But still that indifference doesn't seem to be possible in reality.
I feel bad for Ben. I understand that he said he wanted ex-husbands first love as his mom but he was 4 years old and had a tantrum. I also understand that she would never be able to take Ben away because of how much power ex-husband had but to hate or dislike a child is crazy. He is literally a child begging that his mom loves him.
A child is going to be hurt his whole life because two grown adults couldn’t express their emotions.
First of all I don't understand why she would do something like that I mean I understand she wanted a new life and to get away from all the drama especially after getting divorced but she did not have to abandon him I mean yes he did hurt her but he's just a child he's not supposed to understand that, kids don't fundamental think like adults do so when she says he's just like his father he's nothing like his father because he's just a child. And then leaving him just to find another child to take in like that's just Petty because now you have the child thinking you abandon him and let's stop and think for a moment as the child grows older that moment will always stay with him and that's going to mess with his mental health because he's always going to think it was his fault for her leaving. I mean I can see pros and cons on both sides of the story like let's be honest here she shouldn't have done that, the situation could have been a whole lot better than what it turned out to be. I mean she got her happily ever ending but the way she got happily ever ending was just cold. Like I'm not trying to be sympathetic for Lawrence but think about the child like for real
No.
I love your story!😘
I was prepared to dislike Julia after giving her son the cold shoulder. Kids say a lot of things that they don't mean. Looks like they reconciled and reconnected later though. I'm glad. That little boy crying for his mom broke my heart.
1st of all IF HE had fallen for her from the very 1st time he should have persuaded her
And 2nd FMC didn't take her child cause when your own blood and flesh who you gave birth and took care of said those vile things like wishing someone else as his mother it hurts no matter how much you said she is cold or something but it hurts when she gave birth to him and it hurts listening those accusations
Husband is trash for cheating but MC is also trash for expecting a 4 year old child to understand what was going on. Clearly he was probably manipulated but the fact she just abandons him shows that she is a jerk. Idc what the rest of you say. A 4 year old is not the same as a 12 year old nor a teenager.
So... He is too prideful + emotionally constipated to admit that he likes her? That's rough buddy... 😂
Is there is 2nd part of this story?
This is so wrong and immature to have grudges against own child. Child doesn't know what it says. And I mean it.
A young child has no concept of what is going on.
While I agree with her leaving, her not keeping a door open for her child is gross. Or maybe she couldn’t accept a child of rape.
I'm not freaking EDWARD CULLEN to read your mind and understand you. 😮💨😒
name please.
Sooo no communication😅
There are a lot of stories here that do not make sense but this is the one I hate the most. Julia is an awful mother. Lawrence should stop existing, honestly, but Julia... is not much better that him. I feel so bad for Benjamin. He has 2 awful parents yet his mom's side of the story is being romanticized as if it makes sense to blame a child for an impulsive thing he said while influenced by his awful dad and the manipulative mistress??
I wanna scream my complaints about this story to someone gosh, and i need a story where Benjami ditches his parents 🙄🙄
I understand that she hate Lawrence because he is detestable but it's disappointing that she Abandoned her child knowing the he was brainwashed and was just a Child at 4 years old that couldn't even know what is right and wrong. She chose to be a mother of a stranger but she abandoned her own child with his evil father. What a selfish. Wow.
i could hate the ex husband.. but to reject my own flesh and blood.. i wont..its too much, selfish.. just let the kid see her as a mom, thats pitifull
Nah this story is trash, Benjamin was a child who didn't know better instead of fighting the father and the other woman how could she just abandon her own child, also it isn't easy to adopt another child, trash story.
Agree
How would she fight the ex and his mistress when they were so rich and she only had limited amount of money in her bank account. Benjamin would have left his father and his rich lifestyle and went with her?
@@antara.dhibar8686right and not just that I had at the beginning it’s made clear that both son and husband don’t care for her and rather the mistress be the new mother and new lover. And how sad and depressing it made her feel that they chose someone and why it couldn’t ever be hurt. And no way shape or form is she being cruel to him? She’s just simply keeping her distance. After all, he stated he wanted a new mother and he got one. It’s not her fault. She’s trying to protect herself from the harm that his father caused and yes, he’s a kid, but that didn’t make it less painful
@@angelgon06 Again. See? You're just repeating the same thing even when you're agreeing. How was she not cruel? He just wanted a new mother? He always wanted a new candy too. She never gave him that right? She herself said it.
El niño tenía 4 años, 4!!!
Is this a novel? If it is a novel, the name, please.
This same story is on Drama Stroy but the names were changed.
What’s the name
Why don't you make a story out of it when she goes back in past after dying at old age , she remembers everything and tries to stay as far from him as possible what she doesn't know is that he also remembers everything about pass and does everything to be with her trying to avoid the same mistakes.
Plzzzzzzzz..........................
there's a lot of that
Feel like a manhua plot
What's the name please?
Its called love story but after looking thru couldn't find one its so dismal in here
The MC is the third party. 😂
He thought she would be with him forever however he treats her so, behaved that horribly not taking care of her feelings and letting her burden with this ugly marriage!! The child is innocent.. It's adults that had teach him all that crap.. Overall nice story.. Just names changed, it's Chinese story I guess
Is there any Manga/ comic with same plot or story
How did you make this? It is goof
Umm how can one change her birthday?
No way a mother would stop loving her own child for something like that.
Some people literally abuse their child just for existing so why do you it's not possible to stop loving a who's product of r***?
Bêcame a mother... Is really something that kill your soul hearing this... Go, see him always Tell How bad you are and How good others are.. can way to see How much you can still acept and love
I kind of live nd hate towards FL... Love coz she stood on her ground nd a strong women nd Hate coz she just abandoned a 4 yr old child only coz he saud some stuff that really hurt her... She is seas the lady who has abandoned that little girl in the train... Bith lady is same...
Hiw could she do that to her own fudding child... Ya he said some stuff that really hurt you but i think mother love is way more then this so called hurt feelings... I mean common he is just just 4 yrs old...😒😞
I don’t understand why FL has to treat her son like that. I mean he was a child saying those things. I felt bad for Benjamin. Both parents not wanting him.
Lawrence raped Julia ,course her grandma death and blame her for ruining his relationship with his first love and still have the audacity to ask for a remarriage? Wow
She changed her birthday?
Wdym u love her and not drunk at that time but still clinging to miranda. Lmao
Spoiler alert:
That rich kid is side character.
This is such a bad story, Benjamin was just a kid.
She gave him trauma.
She can't teach her kid right from wrong, people around her were spoiling her kid and made her feel like an outsider, it's emotional self - preservation
@@babyteano1977he was a young child not a teen or adult. She as an adult knows this. It comes off as parenting ishard so i quit. She 100% should not allow her ex into her life but her young child is a different story.
Child choose mistress. Beginning of story showed it. She did not have enough $$$ to take him w/her. Still she could have petioned court for visitation w/son. How was she able to adopt daughter??
sorry my American mindset opinion.
@@lorrainelomotan1366She atleast shouldn't be that cold towards him.
The child himself choose his father mistress, so they don't deserve her period
I dont like that she left and didnt forgive her kid, hes a child smh
Well she put a lot of effort to raise him even during the pregnancy and she in during verbal abuse and he saying those words is hard for any mother . she was also a victim of
r $!#/p . also she did forgive him but didn't want anything else
She did forgive the kid though.... She invited him to her wedding which means the kid was in her life one way or the other
She had nothing left to give. He took her everything. Of course, this is primarily the father's fault. Ben just suffers the consequences of everything the father did: from rape to divorce.
Even I didn't like the fact that she did not forgive her son! ...... I don't understand how she thought a 3 year old kid can decide on what he want and what he doesn't....... She even did not forgive him even if he showed his sincerity this is simply called cruelty rather than being a victim
You try to deal with a kid that tells you they don't love you, that they don't want you and that they want the women that hier father is cheating with to be thier mom over and over and see how you feel
What is this a webtoon ? Or a manhawa
Benjamin is a young kid thats some shtty morals for a mother unable to forgive a kid who was 4 yrs old
Shitty morale? She is just stopping love him, thats all. She did not hate him nor unforgive him. She knew that even if she is gone, benjamin wouldnt be mistreated nor unhappy. That is why she's gone so decisively.
@@mommymeow6455 not just that at the beginning of the video it was made clear that her son and her husband both loved or wanted someone else another female in their life. Don’t really know how to explain it if that was the best wording or not but basically they didn’t really care for her, but wanted someone else to fill whatever void a mother figure for the son or lover for the husband. She just decided that she would accept it and she also made it clear to that. At first it would make her sad, so she detached herself. Which in all honesty I can kind of understand who would want to go through that pain of your husband and child that you wanting someone in your place and not you.
@@mommymeow6455 he's 4... She made it seem like it was his spoiled bratish behaviour and rejection of her that made her abandon him. That's some petty BS ...
I think they did reconcile, as in the end Benjamin had good relationship w his stepfather and Julia also called him Ben.
@@peekakuchu6878 he kinda was spoiled. If he want candy, he got a candy factory and there is something else for another factory as well.