Falling in love with someone you can never be with.
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It's even worse when you see them every single day.
it is :´(
It really is
Shit YESS
School?
DocZero yes omg 💔
*Depression has joined the chat.*
*Anxiety has joined the chat*
Anx: Heyy. Whatcha thinking bout?
I would like that but you’re on 200 and I can’t handle 201
My friend doesnt believe that I have depression because she said "you're still young, and you cant be depressed you're always happy"
So what if im faking it?
"And plus people with depression doesnt tell it to anyone"
You're my fucking bestfriend and you said we can fucking share our feelings to eachother ofcourse im gonna tell you that
"pft, you arent depressed shut up. It just really easy to say 'i wanna die', but look! I dont wanna be dead. Stop faking it"
shes real fucking stupid and doesnt understand how I feel
@@cmemed1657 I'm 25 and depressed and sucidical. I feel that I'm out of place and unwanted
Anxiety is textin
Falling in love with someone while you watch them fall in love for someone else is a different kind of pain.
It's the worst pain I wouldn't even wish on my enemies 😢
😢😢 that's the point ,when you start feeling ,life is worthless
😢😢😢
This
You can say that again. The pain is unbearable 💔💔💔
The worst feeling isn't being alone, it's being forgotten by someone you'd never forget.
Damn bro this hits
It's true...they've made such an impact in your life. You don't want to feel they're just getting in with theirs and you mean nothing.
Ans knowing they are happy with someone else why you think about that person each and every day even after so many years. 😔😔😔😔
It’s been two years since walked out of my life with him. She probably hasn’t thought much of me if at all and Ive shed so many tears for her.
MY EX GOT INTO DRUGS AND BAD RELATIONSHIPS, WE WERE ON AND OFF FOR 6 YEARS THEN 14 YEARS APART AND TALKED TO HER ON THE PHONE, SHE DIDNT REMEMBER WHAT I LOOKED LIKE BARELY REMEMBERED THE 6 YEARS OF US, NEVER FORGET ONE THING BOUT HER, STILL CANT
Falling in love with someone you can never be with is very painful. You can do nothing about it except, accepting the reality and move on with your life.
Mechamule haha
A True Love Official absolutely right
A True Love Official im going thru it with a guy friend. I like him but i know for sure he doesnt like me that way which i accept but what makes it more painful is that he talks abt the person he ACTUALLY likes to me and tells me all abt her and she sounds like an amazing girl and im so happy for him. Im not suprised im not the one but i still wish i was the one.
Nessa Gladys love is heaven only for those who know, how celebrate pain
A Gay Has No Name what, I don’t get it sorry..! ?
And just enjoy pain I feel that love so painful thing but we just need to learn, how we can celebrate it ...!
I choose to love you in silence…
For in silence I find no rejection,
I choose to love you in loneliness…
For in loneliness no one owns you but me,
I choose to adore you from a distance…
For distance will shield me from pain,
I choose to kiss you in the wind…
For the wind is gentler than my lips,
I choose to hold you in my dreams…
For in my dreams, you have no end.
Rumi
Wow
it hurt to me read this
😭😭
Damn this is deep
Kar3n love is hurt like disease
Love hurts, loving the wrong person destroys you.... And meeting the right person at the wrong time kills you.
I wish I seen this 9 months ago.
Amen to that.
Neither do. Not loving God destroys and kills you.
OMG - So relatable
currently have that right person wrong time situation, i can only hope that the pain will one day go away
Honestly, there is a beauty in not being with someone you love. Albeit tragic, and stark, but beautiful as well. To survive these things, you can survive anything.
Absolutely love your comment!
@@araucana1976 The love ain+t hugs and kisses and sex, as this world presents. /be not deceived nor naive.
What is unknown life fact? - parenthood is GOD given and love is not LUST.
John 15:13
Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
About being single:
1 Corinthians Chapter 7 KJV
32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:
33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife.
34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.
35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.
Gosh I hope. 🥺
Survive for what? We’re all gonna die someday anyway, what good is it to survive it? There’s nothing but more pain and more disappointment, and losing more pieces of your already broken heart. Let’s just get it over with
@lucasyoder22 eh people get over it
Hell most people fall in love a few times
I had a crush in high school nothing happened overtime I forgot about it
Now I'm in a relationship with someone I love who loves me ... and I'd say that's alot more beautiful then a one sided love
Along with if you don't tell that person hoe you feel ... well your an idiot xD
Talking from experience
*after 1 eye contact with that cute cashier at the drugstore*
Ankine Apardian so go for him! Why is that an impossible love situation in your opinion?
Nourhan Salloum Bruh it's a joke..like a brief eye contact and polite smile with a stranger and suddenly you're all dramatic and in love 😂
Hahahahah XD
that person will Drug you!
Ankine Apardian it happens.
That title gave me feels. We all have that one person, don’t we?
I do, her and I work together (Now I know what people say about work relationships) but her and I just connect so well, I make her laugh, she always gives me a happy smile when she see's me, always sits with me. But she has a boy friend, sometimes I feel like she knows that I like her, and sometimes I feel like she feels the same for me, but she is a good girlfriend and won't run off, I can respect that of course, but then, how much I would give for it to be different
I keep falling for my high school ex. He's moved on to a lot of relationships and I'm still single. My current crush doesn't even know I exist. 😢
so fricking true!
yes
Kris LaWho yes
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Yes, dr.porass. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place.
Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
He's constantly talking about killing someone.
He's violent. Anyone reading this
Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
Is he on instagram?
Yes he is dr.porass.
There was this girl, perfect in every way, the star of my darkest night. I still remember the first time she confessed to me, even though she was 3 years older, i couldn't sleep that night. I'd always say that i was going to be there for her no matter what, and wrote poems for her and did the best i could since we were long distance. But we were a world apart, neither of our families would accept each other, and the more time passed by, i realized she would never be able to be happy with me. To this day, i think of her smile, and her eyes, and really hope she finds someone who can keep her happy. The pain never subsides, does it? It just becomes numb at a point.
Jesus Christ heals depression and anxiety
@@yertsomeI met whatever God is on a mushroom trip, he certainly does!
I feel you, man. I just experienced this today. I confessed my intentions to this girl that I've been interested in for the last 9 months.
Today, I finally asked her out, and it turns out that she's married. I feel like such an idiot, but I genuinely didn't know that she is married.
She is beautiful, kind, and has an amazing, calming aura. Perhaps the 'ideal' woman in my eyes. I've come to accept that she isn't meant for me. It hurts, but I must move on.
Unfortunately the pain never goes away. You just learn how to live with it over time.
You never unlove someone. You just learn to live without them.
It's one of the worst feeling when you realise you can never have the person you love. Men suffer the same but usually suffer in silence.
you're right. hurting so bad inside, it sucks
Same
+newstateonline I highly agree with you on that one, the feeling is.. soulbreaking.
yeah, I Literally Feel my Chest Hurt :(
newstateonline I agree, some women like to smile and laugh to mask the pain.
"Don't ask me to fall out of love because if I could , I would but I don't want to"
More like: "Don't ask me to fall out of love because if I could, I would." (But I'm unable too)
And Ik this is a quote from the video but still^
wish it was easy :(
:===( why do I choose these choises I do
Don't ask me to fall out of love because if I could, I would BUT I DON'T WANT TO FALL OUT OF LOVE! Like I can't imagine living without being in love with him.
Never cried for anyone like this in life. But still I don't regret meeting that person. If it's not in fate, I'd still always have this feeling for that special someone.
I related to this video a few years ago, Now I’ve been with my soulmate for 2 years, I promise it gets better
@@lilmelodyy awww 😢
Honestly this is really well said...
For me, when i see this person i just feel the world seems more beautiful, but at the same time, i'm proud of myself that i'm not delusional, and i'm not obsessed with them, i even appreciate the person they are with...
We cannot be with them, but it doesn't mean we can never be with someone we want to be with
I'm a little late to this post but, I feel this. Never cried so much over for anything, and then this person came into my life and now must walk out 😢
@@arthurlihar786Same. Still crying.
Nothing is more painful than loving someone who will never love you back. Even if you're on good terms with them
One sided love can mentally destroy you...😥💔
It's the only kind of love, besides platonic love, that I've ever known.
@@ruisenor8993 I'm sorry to hear that:(
I know
Very true
😞
I wish no one falls in this kind of love. It consumes you and it breaks you
Well i did and i really don't want anyone to feel Like that
Yes u r right. But love just happens. No one searches/ tries to find it. U just feel good and strongly attached to someone and really want to marry her, take care of her and always keep them happy. U can't even see them shedding a drop of tear. It really hurts u 😢
im 13 and hes 19
the person who kept me alive is fictional
Been a few years...... what can one do..... smoke it away, drink it away, work it away.... you can;t delete the feelings you got for someone when they gave you so much to feel :/
Agree
Trying to forget someone you love is like remembering someone you never met. Impossible.
I have seen this video 2 years ago when I was going through my breakup. I remember I cried whole night. Now when I see it today fearing that I will feel the same today .But I didn't feel a single emotion today. Time really makes you numb.
whats the name of this movie ?
Not for me
Not allways...
The moment when u tell to ur self "i wish i never met this person" but ... u know u just lied to ur self...
Truth...
Yeahhh true😭😭😓
I know
😔
Universal truth 😔
"I'm never the one." That's me in a nutshell.
That hit me too
This whole thing is me in a nutshell
Me too 😥
@@hiroda459 I know how you feel. I honestly feel like my sister always is the one she doesn't even have to try to be she is
Same.
This year makes 50 years since I first saw her. We have been through too much to list here. Her mother said I was her first choice, unfortunately I was anything but for her father. Our paths crossed many times over the years and about 6 years ago she called me to have lunch. We talked for hours and finally when I was about to leave, she said, "I want to tell you I love you". We still have not been able to work things out, due to illness, my illness, but I can tell you, I love her more today than I ever thought I could. Even if we never are together, loving her and knowing she loves me means everything to me.
if the concept of another life is real, i hope the both of you get to be together. i'd really like to know about your story though, that's if you're comfortable with it. hope you have a great life ahead.!!
❤️❤️❤️
😮😮😮 wow. Touching))
Thank you for sharing your beautiful story.... Touches my heart. I wish you both the best of luck, and health, and enjoy everyday of having this great love in your lives. 💙
What's worse is falling in love with someone who falls in love with you at the same time, no chasing each other, but then that other one completely changes their mind and walks away, and you are left with a crumbling heart, and the other doesn't care. I wish I had never had this situation happen.
I've had this exact situation happen. It's been 2.5 years since the breakup with a second attempt 1.5 years ago where she flip flopped again but still wanted to be casual friends but I couldn't, and about 9 months since last contact where I told her to never contact me again. I get it. I wish I never met her. It's a long road to no longer feeling that pain but if you set your mind away from that person, time will remove the pain. Let the past die, kill it if you have to. Push forward and you'll get another chance at love when it's all gone.
Jesus Christ heals depression and anxiety
That's exactly what happened to me many years ago. It broke my heart. I've had trust issues ever since.
Yeah, I'm leery, too... But, I'm still going to try again, but with more open eyes, and more guards up, and more openness from me of what happened in the past to explain why I am leery in the first place. Good luck to you, my friend... @@JO24499
Thirty years have gone by, and I still think of him everyday....thirty years!
Wow lol I’m here wondering if she still think of me after 1 year but she’s in another relationship.. do u think it’s still possible that she does? Fuck no 🧐 oh ain't that some shit 😂😂😂😂
No , that is obsession move on .
@@novaisrael8028 same, i wanna know if he does?
I understand. It's my fifth year running...
Wow
"I like dreaming about you
Because in my dreams you are always mine"
Tht hit me hard
But then you wake up. And you want to cry lol
@@anastasiarose5683 true😂😂
😭😭😭
Fake
Nothing hurts more than not being with the person you love
Here’s something that hurts more: having that person marry you then betray you by cheating then take half of your money and leave with someone else while giving you the finger.
You are right...I can imagine that... I think you've seen things like those...
Exactly. 😢
This is exactly what is happening right now. The friendship growing into a deeper bond and knowing that it will never go into something more. Makes me even question if I want to continue the friendship with her. The more I hear about her love for this other guy, the more I crumble into pieces. After all I’ve done for her knowing I can’t ever be more than friends with her. The connection, the bond, beyond anything I’ve ever had. She’ll never know and understand the pain and yet I stand strong with a smile on my face being her friend and doing everything for her, and in the end I can’t ask her out I can’t even tell her how I feel. Why would I? It would ruin the friendship and it would never be the same. I have to keep it hidden and pretend I don’t love her when I really do. This video makes me cry. And a lot of things don’t normally make me cry.
In the same shoe can feel ur pain... I'm feeling sleepy but not able to close my eyes from watching this video in loop all night 💔
give her a simple card & a flower. write out everything about your feelings and give it to her. don't care about the consequences. just being honest to her. i believe your sincerity will touch her heart. in my life, i had someone who i dearly love & patiently wait for him. but, day by day, year by year he never said anything about his feeling. i'm so tired, truly tired for waiting the things that'll never happen to me. so i left him, walk away & forget him. a year later, he got married with someone else. after he got married i understand my decision were right. he never in love with me. it's just me...
but after 7 year passes, suddenly his mother come to me and tell me about her son. her son asked the question through his mum, why i left him? she said her son so deeply in love with me. but because i left him, she push her son to get married. as he live in sadness & heartbroken after i left him forever. and know i realized, somebody truly love you but the things is man never have a courage to tell about his feelings. and woman always wanted a man say out loud about his feeling. if he never say that, for us this man is not man enough to us. that's woman type. tell about your feelings out loud. or else you will get heartbroken like my ex. remember, a sincere person only come once in a lifetime. never let the chance pass by you. you will never get that chance again. i hope you will get what you want. if not, i wish you will heal & your heart will go on. stay strong buddies 💖🌹
I hope she realizes who she has in her life as a friend. Suffering out of love for someone says alot about you. Hope you find someone who appreciates you and falls in love with you for that. Stay strong as I know your pain .
@@flowersephia923u also please go and meet him and tell him whatever u feel for him and be together and happy if ur not married or engaged . Lots of love and best wishes to u don't know why I felt very bad. Bye
@@aishwaryabhakhna8751 thank you for your comforting words. such a delightful advise to me. yes, I'm still single, not even married neither engaged to anyone else. but he already had a wife. i don't like the idea to pursue him after what I'd been told by his mum. but, your advice quite true. perhaps, this is a closure for both of us. to clear things up & to let go everything that overwhelmed in our heart. maybe, this is our fate. fated to fall in love but not fated to be together. i already let him go. and i know someday i will fine my own happiness. my heart will go on, even i loved him for a lifetime. i will let him go, forever. right now, i just wish that he live happily ever after with his family. and his sadness & love because of me will wash away & someday he'll be able to stand up again without me anymore. this is the reality of life, not all the things we want & dreamed of will come true. not everyone will get their happily ever after
& not everyone will have a happiest ending like Cinderella and Prince Charming
love meant to break us into a million pieces 🥀 🍂
when you love someone so much, but you know that you'll never be the one-that they'll always love someone instead. that feeling is one of the worst feelings in the world
Yes..
:(
Exactly.....
Yup goin through for past 2 years evry single ni8 nd now its ni8 3:37 am yp
m e l o d y yup
m e l o d y that’s the exactly feeling I have ... 3 years of this pain and it will go on forever..
Unrequited love, the most painful emotion on the heart.
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@1besieged🌸sigh - being love bombed, then scammed out of your savings/possessions because you're blinded by the love bombing and then being ghosted is right up there with unrequited love😟😕😢😦😶
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@@SunMoonShadow I got out while the getting was good, and I left him 2X actually, I know he won't be pulling no dirty deeds on the next women he tries to scam on.... nope.
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@@1besieged 🌸😆😆You shiny soul! You're my hero, bless you 👊😄👍💕🙆💞24/10/2020@18:11
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It can even be a killer for some if not many people.
@@SunMoonShadow I do gold digging, I go out with guys if they like spending on me. I love luxurious restaurants.
The rejection of the person that doesn't love you back isn't what hurts. It's the long process of dealing with the pain of forcing yourself to see why you were wrong about them and letting go that really hurts. It's slow and agonizing, but eventually, you become stronger for it.
Unsettled childhood issues will always make us settle for less including fall for someone who will never available for us and very much not compatible for us.
I pray before God that everyone in this world gets to marry the person they love. 😣
I’ve been praying for a while now and I’m gonna continue even cuz she friend zoned me. I’m 14 but I really hope that someday, we might end up together in the future if god allows.
ADARSH DIVYAJYOTI
Ameen.
Not just they love but they love them back :)
yes but if it doesn’t work out after you prayed it’s because God has a bigger and better plan for you. He has someone better for you OR He just knows what’s truly right for you.Trust Him. God bless.
The problem is often times it overlaps
Never knew one sided love could be this painful.
Two sided love is worse.
Well Nunya, it is. And I can say this from experience.
That profile pic lol
It is, it's a combination of excruciating, stinging and numbing pain. All of those. It's the pain that makes you question everything, literally everything.
@@nasuhanazri3396 exactly. It's never ending
Falling in love with someone you can never be with is very painful. You choose to accept that, support them, love them without ever being able to tell them, give them your all without upsetting their life.
I think I'm experiencing genau that in the future. He's married, but is worried about me, he wants to hang out in another city for a whole day. Is he falling for me? Because I already am and I csnt stop thinking about him. Hes perfect. We argue we smile laugh we kiss we love. He's my paradise from this cruel world. Its not fair. Why💀
I fell in love with another woman who happens to be my friend and the only person who gets me in this world. We’ve both had difficult journeys. To be honest, I couldn’t have survived the past year without her kind words. I can never tell her how I feel but I’m grateful for her friendship.
❤
it’s hard to be in love with someone you can’t have because you’re waiting for them to fall for you, but they’re waiting for someone they can’t have to fall for them.
yeah..we same situations...
The cycle of love
It's difficult and the most devistating feeling. ... As the time have jss paused
Yahhh
Exactly the situation im in
Welcome to the broken hearts club 💔💫
Thanks ..
Where do I sign up
Been here for years..don't think i'd leave one day..
😞😞
Join the club everyone.
Love is a risk, well worth taking. It’s better to have loved than to have never loved at all.
The way to get over a crush like this, is get to know the person 😁
Yeah lol😂
You know it's love when all you want is that person to be happy , even if you're not part of their happeinss .
@Ronnie Moore
I said those exact words to the man I was leaving. It still hurts, but my heart was in the right place
@@LightandLove73 I said the same thing to the guy but I cannot leave. How do you deal with it?
Bon Bon
I cry a lot, and I don't deal with it well. I'm in another relationship, and I still miss him. It took everything in me to tell him it's over, but we're both healthier apart 😔
I'm praying for you, sending love and strength to you ♥️
@@LightandLove73 thank you so much for your kind words. I left him, I cried myself out too. I still have love for him but my heart is no longer in the same place. Wishing you all the success and happiness in the world ❤️
what if you're hurt in the process
if it were choice who would choose this kind of love, so i wish we never met, but, we did 💔
Carlene by Olivia Pope 💔
I would never take it back because even though it hurts so much it is also the most wonderful thing that has ever happened to me. I wouldn't take it back because I love her.
maria help me please..... what is this movie name?
"did you love him much?doesn't matter, my all wasn't enough" It never heals..You just live with it...sad story...20 years and counting...
I felt this way about mr. Spock when I was 7 years old. When my dad told me he was married in real life and far, far too old for me, I climbed up a tree and cried for 45 minutes 🙃
What’s ironic is that we fall in love with people we can never be with, but in the process, completely ignore people we can actually be with
Yes, that is called settling and it will leave you just as harmed later in life when you will constantly wonder why you were so insecure on your own that you settled when you realize at 60 something that you would have been happier on your own. I know so many people who have, and they regretted it as long as they lived once they understood that settling for someone they liked a lot cut off any hope of finding real love. I am mid sixties and have been alone, no longer even in the market, not for a long time, but I am glad I lived it the way I did rather than settling for security, companionship, or sex. Because when you are staring at that dirt nap headed your way you will also know that life would have been nothing without hope.
@@markwalker3499 That’s not always true. One can move on without being married to the love of their life in their lives. I did.
Shit that's me
that they ignore is me.....
As the saying goes: love is blind and I dare to say lust only makes us more.
Much love,
~ Mila
One of the worst feelings In the world is being heartbroken by which a relationship only happened in your head. Because how or when do you know it’s over, when it never even started ;(
I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️♥️♥️
He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯💯
Whtsaap him**
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Now, this hits differently
I have to see her every. single. day. My life has changed drastically in the past few months and I'm arguably at my highest point thus far. I don't think I've ever felt lower.
Not sure how youtube felt I needed this today - but I did.
I had a highschool girl best friend, that I took way too long to finally reveal feelings and to try. The next day, I panicked and said we shouldn't be together. For the next few years, we never felt the same for each other, at the same time. When I wanted us to be together, it wasn't the right time. When she did, I was at a different stage, dating someone else. When I finally revealed again after college, it was too late. She was already dating someone else seriously.
She is now happily married (at least it looks like it) and has a kid. We will never be together. Are we meant for each other? Probably. But, a higher power (and my foolishness) never allowed it to happen. We can't call each other, confide, celebrate life milestones, lightly joke about not keeping in touch, or bringing each other's favorite drinks . A road not taken you could call it. I'll always have my guys, family, friends, but I'll be reminded of not having this person in my life every once in a while.
If you've still a chance to be with someone - give it your all. You'll always regret not doing so. You can keep dating, get married, have a family, but some days it will break you - the love with this person is not a reality in this life or the next.
ya'll need memes
XD
Exactly 😂😂😂
*y* *e* *s*
Adrian! Lmao
I would be dead by now without memes
"I try so hard and I'm never the one."
:(
x
High-key been feeling that.
From the kne and only Caroline Forbes
:/ almost 4 years ago my ex took my 1 and 1/2 year old daughter whike 5 months pregnant with my son and left me for a so called friend that just got out of jail and lives with his mom and I was trying to help get a job by driving him around to apply. (he is now in jail for life without parole) so she gets strung out on drugs and bounces around living in a van and apparently the back of tire shops and wherever but nobody could track her down. So a 24 days ago her mother contacted me and told me she had emergency temporary custody and asked if I wanted to be in their lives and I said of course. I spent everyday that weekend all day playing at the park with them it was great. So for the last 3 weeks I have talked to my kids and her almost every day and my transmission went out on my truck so I couldn't see them again as soon as I would have liked but we had a 4 way phone conference with the mother, her mother, myself and the caseworker. Amanda went off and isn't even eligible for custody due to drug charges. So me and her mom Patricia had agreed that she wanted me to have full custody of both of them and we made a plan with the caseworker and everything. Well Tuesday I get a call from the caseworker saying their is a custody hearing in 2 days and I can't reschedule. I tell everyone I can't be there or I'll get fired I had to have more notice than that I can't afford to lose my job that's detrimental to the kids and everything. Well they awarded her mom full custody and I have no visitation rights. I've cried so many tears over these years that when I got to see them I was happier than Ive ever been. Her mom has a history of drug use and a criminal record as well as living with her 80 something year old moms boyfriend and she is on bad health also. Its terrible.if you can this has crushed my soul. This is a level of pain I didn't know existed. And I hit a semi head on both of us doing 55 or 60 on purpose.
x yeah i dont try so I guess thats the problem?
That pain cuts and hurts so deep it becomes overwhelming. Life.
To all the people who are sad and unhappy...this is not a comforting comment but rather a fact
No one can always be sad so there's always happiness after sadness and vice versa so just don't get too much into ur thoughts and stay healty
I hate how relatable this is but at the same time I love it.
Chicken Nuggets yep. I feel the same
Chicken Nuggets I met someone on the internet and I didn’t believe he was 13 so he showed me what he looked like and I was like “OMFG HES FRICKEN CUTE”
nějaká Nikča øøf well this person posted a picture a year ago and someone asked what one was him and he said who he was and he looked his age but we talk a lot and he’s really kind And we have a lot in common *me 12* 13 In 4 weeks I’ll be the same age as him lmao 😂
same
Chicken Nuggets I feel the same
" I tried so hard and I'm never the one." -this hits me hard in the heart.
Sounds like a skill issue, become better.
@@jokerpilled2535 you sound like an asshole
So true
Me too...
@@jokerpilled2535 That's a very vague advice. You are not helping, you're just telling someone to get better
Have you ever seen someone in public that you never knew but felt a instant connection with that person like if they were your soulmate , true love at first sight and it hurt knowing you will never see them again... If you ever feel like this when you see someone be brave approach them politely start a conversation with them you never know they might feel the same way, you just need to spark the flame 🔥❤️
Falling in love with someone you can never have, this suits well for the second female leads..🌸
Damn not even flex tape can fix this damage.
"Wow ThAtS a LoT oF dAMagE"
e_ris_ gian_g how about some more ;(
Your profile pic is everything
too much heart damage
this isnt something to joke about
Whoever watches this video has gone through or is going through the pain. I pray to god that you get the power to move on. May god bless you.
Her name is Helen we work at the same place I love her very much for she's very beautiful and very much an angel
Please yes I swear 😞💔🙏🏼
I’m going through this right now. And sometimes the pain is unbearable. I know that I have to walk away but I can’t. I still hope that some day he’ll love me back.
@Rukayat Bola i dont want that person back..i just wanna cut out the feelings.
Thank you.
As if heartbreak and loss weren't bad enough, she told me that I never mattered all that much to her, and that I was just some guy. I honestly feel more hurt by that than the overall rejection.
A harder thing is to have the person you love but to have your love die before your eyes and no matter what you do the love is gone the spark isn't there
It just surprises me that how many people go through the same feelings but no one in the world knows about it.
Neelam khalil preach
Because were so conditioned to make like everything's alright instead of showing it. Like "civilized" people.
It's worst when you know you love each other, but because of certain circumstances you can never be together. You where meant only to cross paths but never to stay.
😢😔💔 I love him so much it hurts.
Even I am also having the same pain.It 's more painful wen u see him almost every day. U both want to say a lot but u hv to go.I wish I cud hv met him earlier or may b never😢
@@priyakachhap8559 😢💔
I’m in love with someone who lives in a different country and has different culture. We met when I visited his country. It’s so painful and beautiful at the same time. The worst part is that he loves me to but we can’t get each other.
It hurts so much because I can’t stop loving and missing him. I can’t let him go.
@@hiphopismylifeoldschool8331 same, he's from another continent too
I feel you too. 😭🥺 We were just meant to cross paths and forget one another. His actions made me fall in love with him.But I know that its wrong cause he belongs to someone else.Why does he have to do that?
Love is Not painful. Attachment is.
I fell in love with someone when I was 16yrs old, he left and got married had children, so did I, and when we met for the second time we were married, years after my husband passed away at a young age and he got divorced, we met again and I still felt that love for him. I still cant marry him its against the will of God so we see each other everyday and just hold hands and chat❤
Why is it against the will of God?? What is the point of holding hands and chatting then?))
Everytime I see him, I think of us being together. But I know deep inside, it's never going to happen 😔
Same :)))
Omg same😭😭💔💔
Same...
Ugh same
I'll never get over this one girl. It will take paragraphs but damn. She's too perfect for me
This has over 5 million views. It blows my mind and gives me a strange sense of comfort to know that there's millions of people who share the same painful way of loving
I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate
He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay
Whtsaap him"**
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@@meshachogan2473 hey man just listen to helecopter helecopter 🚁🚁🚁 song and everything will be restored 👍
This is one of the hardest a things I’ve faced as a man in all honesty.. loving someone you can’t be with is the single most frustrating thing. It feels like that void just won’t be filled by anything. Forgetting that person is an injustice to them but remember in them brings an unbearable pain that you don’t wish on anyone.
Do not confuse love and happiness. While they are certainly not mutually exclusive, they often times exist alone.True LOVE for someone has nothing to do with someones reciprocation.
You should revel in their happiness irregardless if that happiness includes you.
Love has become a fantasy that exists in everyone's wishlist but in few fates.
That....is terrifyingly true. I do like to imagine we all find happy endings to forfill our lives. But that may be just blind optimism. But it is optimism nonetheless.
@@chebaca8 reality is anything but optimistic.
@@jokerpilled2535 no
One hundred percent true....Love is our life but we live without the one whom we love.
I think you are going through same situation as I am
Falling in love with someone you can never have hurts, especially when you knew since the beginning that it was never going to happen, but at the same time, it is beautiful because in a way, it makes you human, of course at first when you look back you feel stupid and lonely and sad but when you really reflect on it it just means that you feel everything you needed to feel , you're human, and we can't choose who we fall in love with.
So dont worry, the pain will pass and you will see this experience as something that made you grow
True
I actually think it's worse when you had this flicker of hope in the beginning and then you understand that it'll never happen
@@iichittaphon9170 why that now damn
@@iichittaphon9170 what happened it didnt take place
at the same point some won't like bieng grown up if the way is that hard as it is 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
The silence speaks more sometimes
Never thought liking someone you cant have is this painful.
Been there. Gone through the excruciating pain. The effort to hide the silent tears from the world and still show a brave face in front of everyone.
You phrased that as if you managed to put it behind you. If so, I really am glad for you. It is an awful feeling. But please! Please! How exactly did you get over it? This thing is voraceously eating away at whatever's left of my mind and soul. It has been for the past 4 years now. All I now want is for it to stop, I don't even care for her to love me back anymore. It's worn me out...
MadViewer01 yes I have come out of that phase, consoled myself by many words and situations. I consoled saying everything is temporary in this world, even if he would have been together with me today while dying I have to go alone from this world and one day that day would come so why am I mourning when we all know that nothing is constant. So cheer up and make yourself that busy that you don't even get time to think about her.
MadViewer01 just start loving yourself dude. Honestly thats the best remedy.
Cruel world. Love yourself first then others!
MadViewer01 don't you just hate it that there are people who get over so effortlessly. You and I appear to be on the same boat. How I cope is by keeping myself busy and I try my best to avoid these kinds of videos. Also I do find solace in meditation. There are several videos on here on healing. You can search them. Healing binaural beats or healing hypnosis. Something like that. May not work for everybody but it helped me. Do give those a try.
it's sad that falling in love is basically giving someone a loaded gun pointed at your heart but trusting them not to pull the trigger but when they do pull it you wish that they would have aimed at your head😭
Majida Moh honestly so true
@@anisahchowdhury3302 I love my best friend more than anything in the entire world even if we are just best friends she just means the world to me
i get what you’re trying to say, i really do. but assuming you were talking about dying, wouldn’t you die whether or not the gun was pointed at the heart or head? 😂
That's such a beautiful and heartbreaking metaphor
@@stacy4486 I agree
Falling in love with someone you can never have really does hurt, especially when you get to know them and find out what kind of person they are, however all you can do is move forward, work on yourself, and come to terms with it, it doesn't mean you will not find someone tht will love you the same way,
Love hurts when only one is in love-Rick Springfield
Do you know what is more painful?. YOU CAN'T CHOOSE WHO TO FALL IN LOVE WITH
And it hurts like hell.😭😭😭
P B you literally said what I’ve been wondering for the past month now. There’s this girl who friend zoned me after 4 years of me working up the courage to tell her how I feel. At the same time that my heart is telling me to move on, it’s also telling to not let go in case there’s hope and that I can’t just let go after having loved her for four years. I don’t want to live life like this but moving on seems like something impossible rn for me
Pick one out of a hat n there you go
David Laranjeira just telling her is way better than not because if you tell her how you feel even if she doesn’t feel the same it’s 10 times better than a lifetime of regret
😫😫😫
I wonder how many times someone has fallen in love with me, or just something *simple* about me that they love, but never told me.
And imagine: You have been in someone's mind countless of times before. Perhaps someone is thinking about you *right now.*
Spoopy Lee i always wonder about these stuff
Spoopy Lee or nobody is actually thinking about you and you just think that everybody likes you and you trust ppl who you think you actually are friends with one day they will just turn their back on you without any reason so you just give up on thinking and imagine that someone will ever like you
사나한 gay
Scaro I don’t have a dad
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A day can't pass without seeing him or hearing his voice . Although it hurts more than I could ever explain. Not seeing him hurts way worse
Her not having a choice made it more painful than doing it willingly
Time heals every pain , I loved a person for more than 9 years and it was totally one sided....he never got to know about my feelings until I shared with him...I became late. When I confessed my feelings in front of him he shared that he is in relationship with someone else. That time I felt totally devastated...but now I don't think about him all the feelings fade away with time. this teenage love gave me a story and a skill how to unlove a person.
The love you can never have is the most intense and heartbreaking kind of love you'll feel
Yet it’s the most pure... everything you do for this person is out of pure love nothing else . You only want them to be happy
very true!
Ikr
True 💯
Your only making yourself miserable & feeding their ego. Most likely a narcissist. Run for your life!
@@topkat8268 Run and don't stop! There sure are a lot of narcissistic bastards in the world. I give up on love.
I seen a girl who kept staring at me, and I think she was going to approach me, but never did. She was SOOO beautiful. I should've just been a man and went up to her myself. I can barely make up her face in my head, but in my heart, I know she's just so beautiful. I will never forget the feeling I had when I saw her face. If only I could time travel!!!😭😭😭 I daydream in class, and it's her I think of. Then, when I try to ACTUALLY think of her and remember her face, I can't. I just can't😭. And it just hurts SOOOO much to know I'll never see her again smfh
Never say never. I hope you two find each other again some day.
so u liked her looks?
Yearbook dude
I feel you man
I fancy my best friend and I love her more than anything in the world even if she prefers just for us to be best friends and I will always be there for her always i just wished we could be more than just friends 😢😢😭
What’s worse?
Loving someone who’ll never love you back or watching someone you love dearly slowly lose interest in you?
I guess some of us are never destined to choose and be chosen. It hurts💔
8 years has passed... And I'm still thinking about him
I feel so sorry for u
I feel you girl, Me too. It’s almost been 9 years for me and it hurts to think of him w anyone else. :(
Fatima I'm in the same boat and TRUST ME I don't want to do this to myself... Literally, if I could forget about him I would.
I don't think anyone wants to be fixated on someone this long without being corresponded. IT HURTS
Dont the feelings fade away? How is it possible is beyond me
How long did u date for?
I hate that pain...... you actually feel your heart breaking.
No One. Yes it does. I hope whatever pain you're going through that you heal from it. And have a beautiful 2018❤❤❤💙
It hurts so bad when you told that person everything and now you are just strangers with memories
Biggest pain ever when you finally get the courage to say to that girlfriend that you love her and she says that she see you as a big brother. 😭 it’s now more as 22 years ago and I can still remember it as yesterday how her words killed my ❤
_"I wish I never laid eyes on him"_
Joanna Κat me too
Joanna Κat me too😭
Happy to meet him, but he will never be mine. So I'm hoping to stay alone with me until the end of my life 😭😭😭
Fahad ibn Iqbal I know but I can't forget him. It's more than three years since I met him. Everyday my love grows through I can't help it
SAMEE
“I wish I never laid eyes on him.” I felt that and I couldn’t hold back the tears 😭
Tell me about it :(
Samantha Jones this is too true.
"When you both know you love each other but can't have eachother" ," right person wrong time" is what I went through today. I like this guy alot. He is THE SWEETEST of all. He treats me so well, believes in me more than I do. I confessed him today. Turns out he feels the same too but wasn't ready to be in a relationship because he thinks I deserve better and isn't in the right state to be with a person like me. So, we decided to stay as close friends. It's new to me. It was my first time confessing, being true to my feelings, not pushing myself away. And it was my first " right person, wrong time" . I don't really know how I am gonna move on
You did. But you don't believe in love anymore
Love != attraction. The difference is everything.
Many men won't admit this. But even us men "some of us" pine for a woman we can't have. It's been such for myself for over 30 years . I went on with life But she will always be the one that got away.
RFKFANTS67 I feel you bro. Me too. It's been seventeen years but I still think of her every now and then. I know she's settled down and happy and that makes me happy also because I still love her and always will.
J Bro you really love her :) I know it’s hard but I just feel like being happy for her happiness is such a pure form of love. Your family needs you too, and you can be happy for them :)
J Bro wow... but don't you ever feel like it's worthless? And have you dated anyone since then? Just curious about your lifestyle in this case..I sorta know a person that I hope doesn't end up this way..
Men pine for women more than women pine for men bro.
By a large margin.
You've gotta be a true G to get women pining for you.
"Don't ask me to fall out of love because if I could I would." This hits so hard.
I thought this was a woman thing.
I'd like to know too, how do you stop? Without losing your mind?
@@charlesmagne1316 Internalized patriarchy check.
@@Melinda8162 You just know when it stops when you start working on yourself, make it about you, you're the one loving, you're the one capable of love.
@@misterkevin_rs4401 Thank you. It's probably more my fault. I fell so hard for him. And I don't see it ending too soon. But, I'll just have to accept what happens and yes it is hard.
"If you can't be with the one you want... love the one you're with."
True pain is neither a cut nor a broken bone. True pain is making memories with someone you love, then watching that someone you love fade into a memory.
That’s deep…
My heart hurts.
Lame
Cynical Wizard bruh
Fetishes is this love at first sight? damn no? ok 😆
Same
Makes me laugh when hot young women, literally the most valuble person on the plannet in terms of being given value and stauts at birth are complaining like this, this shit isnt for you, this shit is for men and possible very elderly women and heavily disables women only, for you, your just determined to feel sorry for yourself, i was about to say you can have more love and sex and offers within 5 mins of going out and doing nothing than all men in their entire lives dedicated to learning attraction to women, but its not even that, you dont even have to go out, you just need to post a comment on youtube and people are fallig over you ! i cant stand this victimhood modern women portray themselves in, your good ! you have everything, your life is easy beyond belif your a young pretty woman, its like prince harry or prince william complaining they cant get a date to a man like me who has never had anyone been rejected by everyone right up until middle age ! you just dont get how easy you have it and it makes my blood boil because theres people out there (99.99999 men) who will die alone live aline never have anyone, EVER, thats something women literally cant understand, and your moaning when all it takes for you is one youtube comment ! man life is sick ! i hope to god your never in a serious accident and lose all your looks and are wheel chair bound, but to be honest not even that would teach you how a lot of men feel because youl still be a lot better off because you will have experienced love and sex and affection, a ot of men never have, never will have anything but rejections from all women all the time, thats a fear that grips you at night, it kills a lot of young men too, and i understand why they are killing themselves at such an alarming rate,its this power gap between women having literally everything, you can have any man you ever see, that like maybe you can have 20 000 men a day with zero effort, weras a man might not get a woman in say 80 years of being alive, and its kiling men, its so sad, its outrageous and it must stop , sadly it wowntt stop because men are too afraid to complain and they are rightly scared if you complain as a man, your destroying any chance you ever have of a woman because women not only victim shame those men, but because there are soooo many hungry men they can afford to isolate him completly ! so you cant complain, you hav e a monopoly and its fucking outrageous ! literally you have everything and men have nothing and its one of the most important things on the plannet, its linked to the survival of our species and you have been given everything and me as a man have been born utterly wrthless and will continue to be worthless unless i can prove myself, non of you women ever hav e to do any of that becaue of your privelidge ! women check your privelidge, mens privelige is a 2% pay increase womens is being given the most valuble thing on the planet and have made men to be the most worthless thing on the plannet !
I’m in physical pain. I wish I never met him, because I can never have him.
I'm in the same boat. I hope we both can move on. When I found out he was married and had a sweet kids, I felt like being sick-I actually went into the fetal position, I was so upset. I've never had such a strong reaction to anyone like that in my life. I can never have him--he is so madly in love with his wife.
@@laura2372 you fell for a lying cheater. Get out ASAP. Even if he divorces her, he will cheat on you. Don't stay in these abusive relationships
@@topkat8268 Thanks for your smart and caring advice. Your so right--life is too short! Your a smart person-thanks again and take care!
Relax.. Chill out... Nothing can beat time. You'll move on...
I feel you .
I know the guy is in love with me and I'm also in love with him . I know we can never be together it's hard to accept the fact and it's even harder to let him go. It hurts every time I walk in and pretend not to see him . I know I'm hurting him but I have no way out of this .
It hurts but what can we do about it .
We we're meant to fall in love with each other but not to stay together 😔😭💔
Isn't it just perfect? What a statement "I tried so hard and I'm never the one"!
"Don't ask me to fall out of love because if I could I would." 💔
The person that is right for you will never turn you down. There is no such thing as unrequited love, only illusion.