These Two Are Killing Me! | The Boyfriend Episode 9 REACTION!

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  • @99_butterfly
    @99_butterfly 4 місяці тому +103

    I love the way you are able to read shun and the reasonings behind what he does. Too many ppl are not empathetic towards these real people.

    • @coolkizz7211
      @coolkizz7211 4 місяці тому +21

      True because they treat these people like characters in a series

    • @FeinFeinFeinn
      @FeinFeinFeinn 4 місяці тому +13

      realll they dont even know how to empathize shun's perspective. they really thought this show was some kind of series or what lol!!!

    • @raginikumari2876
      @raginikumari2876 4 місяці тому +6

      'Real'. Yes, that's what I wanna hear. He was being himself throughout this REALITY show. It's not A DRAMA or something where people expect him to be without any fault. I liked Shun more than anyone bcoz he never pretended and was straightforward always.

  • @ruruharuma4292
    @ruruharuma4292 4 місяці тому +99

    I love how he always defend Shun like "atleast Shun ______" 😂😂😂 Dont worry, we will always love how crazy he is. 🥰🥰

  • @nthncrdn
    @nthncrdn 4 місяці тому +158

    Ikuo's confession after all that "t-shirt dilemma" is kinda opportunistic ngl it feels strategic

    • @abbyk9678
      @abbyk9678 4 місяці тому +31

      everyone just came to the conclusion that he had good intentions but i’m not buying it. why would he be trying to fix their problems one minute if he was then going to trash talk shun to dai the next minute and try to get with him

    • @nthncrdn
      @nthncrdn 4 місяці тому +17

      @@abbyk9678 Exactly. I really don't wanna be that person and want to give him the benefit of the doubt but this confession is not it. The way it was even a comparison between Shun and himself is disappointing. It left a poor taste in my mouth.

    • @lovelickyx
      @lovelickyx 4 місяці тому +6

      ​@@abbyk9678 me personally, if I knew someone I liked was already talking to someone, dating or not, I wouldn't try to get in between them. Ikuo also knows that they kissed. But I also get that it's a dating show, and so far he hasn't had anyone like him back he was probably desperate.

    • @c.yz.1660_daishun
      @c.yz.1660_daishun 4 місяці тому +6

      Indeed. He has been suspicious since the beginning for me. Peak red flag raised, when he confessed to Dai after saying he has a crush on kazuto.. And then knowing that Dai and Shun had kissed, and that they fought but had made up: knowing all that and still confessing. I totally lost respect for him at that point..all his attempts to 'try' to patch Dai and Shun's relationship before, were actually his way of trying to break Dai and Shun apart. He's a snake.. Sneaky one at that.

    • @bavarianunicorn66
      @bavarianunicorn66 4 місяці тому +6

      ah thank you! l thought l was the only one who think he was sus. All l know is that eventhou it's a dating show, most of the boys hold their "bro code" very loyal, even the Kazuto's harem 😅🙈 But Ikuo not only trying to "be a hero", meddling into DaiShun bussiness, he actually confessed to Dai the day after! l dunno it just did not seemed genuine to me how he wanted to "help" them. It feels like he wanted to impress Dai and the rest of the casts with his "initiative". But l guess none of them bought his sht tho. You can read how they left him as Dai fumed n at the end only Alan actually shows him he's sorry for what ahd happens. The rest like Taehoon did say to Dai tht Ikuo was only meant to help, but to me it only looks like they tried to calm him down.

  • @forkji3077
    @forkji3077 4 місяці тому +149

    trust me that “imma treat you better” letter shit gave me the ick 😭 if you wanna confess then confess… there’s no need to be like oh i can be better for you than him like shut the eff up pls 💀

    • @c.yz.1660_daishun
      @c.yz.1660_daishun 4 місяці тому +7

      @@forkji3077 right.. 'Treat Dai better?' My ass.. All he showed to Dai were things that he knew Dai would like. I'm sure he had some bad habits that he kept hidden, cos his sole aim going into the show seemed like to get a hook up by crook or by hook. Of course he would only show all the great things about him.
      Everybody else seemed to look for a genuine relationship that would last, even if it's not lovers relationship: whereas Ikuo was hell bent on looking for a lover.
      And for him to say that he will treat Dai better implying that Shun was treating Dai bad (even though he knew Dai and Shun had made up) , was so not cool.

    • @2ndtry85
      @2ndtry85 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@c.yz.1660_daishunSecond sentence makes so much sense. He asked Dai how his ex lovers were on that picnic.

  • @colette9127
    @colette9127 4 місяці тому +18

    "The dumbest thing you can do in this house is like Shun or Dai." A word!!! 🫱🏼‍🫲🏽😂😂😂😂😂

  • @shabitsaessa7324
    @shabitsaessa7324 4 місяці тому +55

    Dai did end up wearing Shun's shirt when they said goodbye to Gensei😭😭😂

  • @taehung8172
    @taehung8172 4 місяці тому +47

    Whoever is gonna call Shun toxic is speaking from a place of privilege. First of all: (especially the 3rd and 4th one )
    1) his moves are defensive mechanism : Imagine being a baby or a kid who knows that no one will be there for him, and the only one who is going to protect him in this scary world is himself. Being an orphan is way harder than growing in bad environment.. he was alone in this world..
    2) He must have been surprised that some people fall in love at first sight. That's why he wanted to know if Dai was serious or if it was just a temporary feeling. He wanted to understand why Dai liked him. That's obviously because he never experienced unconditional love. He never experienced being cared for; he was abandoned. That's why, when Dai love-bombed him, he was uncomfortable and wanted space and to be just friends. It’s not his common sense-his common sense is fight or flight.
    3) Shun made an incredible effort because, at first, Dai wasn't his type. (I’m pretty sure most of us have a type, and it's hard to give someone who isn't our type a chance.) He didn't want to give Dai hope that he would be with him or interested in him just because Dai had a crush on him.
    4)Dai's lifestyle before meeting Shun... I know he's a green flag and the most amazing, patient person, but wouldn't you feel uncomfortable if someone confessed their feelings to you and then, a few minutes later, called Usak hot, wanted him on the show with them, and wished for a body like his?
    Wouldn't you be concerned if you saw a naked picture of the person interested in you being used on dating apps? And remember, you're looking for a partner to build your future with, and you have to make a decision within a month and a half. Shun is serious about his relationships, as you can tell from his dating history, unlike Dai, who was ready to hook up even if he isn't emotionally invested. You know that he hooked up with Alan just because he found him attractive.
    This alone would raise concerns for someone like Shun, who doesn't want someone to be interested in him just because they find him hot. He wants to be loved for who he is, not just as a temporary excitement. Have you seen the unreleased video where they describe jumping from 0 to 1 or 100? That will explain a lot about their personalities and why they both acted the way they did.
    "Shun wanted to make sure he would be safe with Dai because he knows that if he falls, no one will catch him."
    5) He grew and became better. He was afraid because he knew that when he falls in love, he will fall hard. That's why he was stopping himself from falling in love with Dai, trying to find reasons to prove himself wrong-that he doesn't deserve love and that it was just a phase. That’s why he was testing him.
    6) You can tell he is neurodivergent. For example, he gets overwhelmed by noise, which is expected because of where he grew up or how he considered not wearing a t-shirt as rejection sign or something would lead to rejection in the future . Any way let's be kind and an understanding people because we have no right to judge a person we know nothing about him or about the demons in his head especially if that person is aware of his problems and is working on himself to be better 💙

    • @xiaxiqinger
      @xiaxiqinger 4 місяці тому +2

      exactly!!! i 💯 agree with you

    • @kylamhaemallari6561
      @kylamhaemallari6561 4 місяці тому +1

      Oh wow. You described number 4 so well. I don’t know how to put into words the emotions and opinions I have with shun but this comment NAILED it. This just summarizes shun’s behavior 💯

  • @tatacooky9251
    @tatacooky9251 4 місяці тому +151

    The whole show's mood revolved around Mr.Nakanishi's mood swings 😆 When he was happy,everyone was happy.when he was moody, the whole house got tensed.. He is such a drama queen 😆 I love him 💜😆

  • @busisiwembewu5351
    @busisiwembewu5351 4 місяці тому +86

    Side note but the show needs to make compilation of TAEHEON , SHUN AND RYOTA just messing about and joke around. I want to see their friendship.

    • @krizel2447
      @krizel2447 4 місяці тому +8

      Yes!!!! And jap people were calling Taehon and Gensei like gyaru!!! And they themselves said they are like besties!! Also I badly need to see what are the scenes where Shun and Ryota just joke around like Kazuto said!!! Ughh so much missed content!! Also Alan dancing here and there like everyone said in basically all their post-show interview?? 🥲

    • @Yoiiii-qp6jx
      @Yoiiii-qp6jx 4 місяці тому +2

      Right? I'm upset they didn't show us their bestie moments!

  • @janvirathore9713
    @janvirathore9713 4 місяці тому +59

    Honestly his confession more felt like him showing that he can be superior to shun like you have totally 200 percent right to confess but invade someone relationship and criticize him , like who are you to judge him ,the only person who has that right is only dai because that affects him and it's upto him what actions he takes please express your feelings as your by not belittle someone where you don't even know their life 1 percent and saying I can treat you better like that man gonna see anyone other than his man

  • @mpolynice30
    @mpolynice30 4 місяці тому +12

    The way shun and dai closed their eyes at the picking and also shun had a grip on dais leg lol

  • @exekyute
    @exekyute 4 місяці тому +11

    I binged through your reactions today and have really enjoyed your commentary. I really appreciate finally hearing that someone else is reading Shun's behavior the same way I have. Also Ikuo frustrated me so much in this episode too. First with injecting himself (whether it was with good intent or ulterior motives, it's impossible to say), but also with the content of his letter for Dai. Half of the letter was putting Shun down to try and make himself seem like the better option, which finally decimated any interest I'd had in his participation in the house.
    Anyway, I'm really glad I found your reactions today and will be looking forward to the next ep reaction and the reunion (should you react to it too).

  • @genesisramos4533
    @genesisramos4533 4 місяці тому +32

    I got THE BIGGEST ick from Ikuo after this episode, I understand that he’s on the show to find love but bro you clearly see that Dai is pretty much in a relationship already and for you to go on and confess and not just that, for you to go and push someone down is fucking crazy to me, I don’t understand how people are defending him, that was a very snake move.

  • @kylamhaemallari6561
    @kylamhaemallari6561 4 місяці тому +21

    Ikuo confessing just after dai and shun made up gives me rage. Probably because I’ve seen scenarios like this in real life, it’s very calculated and they were just waiting for something to go wrong so they could swoop in🤦‍♀️

  • @flipstring5766
    @flipstring5766 4 місяці тому +15

    im always so amazed by how much you verbalized my thoughts and opinions to every episodes when i watched it 😭😭 thats why i enjoyed watching your reaction, it made me remember how and what i feel during that moment!! love the videos

  • @Ghazalwluv
    @Ghazalwluv 4 місяці тому +31

    Ngl your commentary is gold haha

  • @Barbghos
    @Barbghos 4 місяці тому +32

    I totally agree with your view of a lasting relationship. I mean how can lovers not argue?? Idk some ppl have this unrealistic idea of couples always being lovey dovey. That's not true. DaiShun will be together for a long time because they argue.

    • @c.yz.1660_daishun
      @c.yz.1660_daishun 4 місяці тому +4

      AGREED! I can say this for sure.. Cos I've been married for 23 years and we have had our own fair share of quarrel and fights. For two people to stay together, we have to be able to understand that neither of us are perfect, and understanding that, we will be able to support each other through thick and thin.
      So Dai and Shun will be together for a very very long time.

  • @thismanjeonghan
    @thismanjeonghan 4 місяці тому +32

    Always so exciting to see you in my notifs! I hope you watch the 7 months after and the 9 months after videos by Netflix Japan

  • @FeinFeinFeinn
    @FeinFeinFeinn 4 місяці тому +15

    that is where the start of how Dai was able to appreciate the little things or gestures. Shun taught him thattttt lmaooo he grew up on his own and doesnt even know whats right or wrong plus his surrounding before was so toxic it affected him so much also the familial love wasnt there in Shun's growth so i can never make judgements to Shun.

  • @tytojess8628
    @tytojess8628 4 місяці тому +11

    I'm enjoying your empathy for the men on the show. I've seen too many people voicing very strong opinions about what's going on without realizing they're only being shown some of the narrative that's been cherry picked by the editors to tell a very specific story. As someone who is significantly older than everyone on the show, I can see where all of them are coming from. Shun is my favorite because he can't help but be "real" about his feelings. I honestly see a tiny hint of spectrum behaviors from him which I find endearing. Also, if you go from the belief that they actually did hook up that night, Shun's sensitivity doesn't come out of left field. Dai is a little bit of a player from Shun's perspective. He does dating apps. He hooks up for casual encounters. He's different in front of others than he is in private sometimes. This is also a show, so motivations can be suspect in general. Some men can be very attentive and promise the moon just to get a person into bed and once that's accomplished they move on. Add to that, we don't know what Dai was smoking in that hookah and there were bottles of wine scattered around. I can see plenty of reasons to be insecure and need assurance. Shun just chose something from his past experiences to serve as a symbol and Dai didn't get it.

  • @seulgixsus
    @seulgixsus 4 місяці тому +10

    Love how you are on Shun’s side and yes I don’t fck with Ikuo either. Man is shady as hell😂 don’t talk shit abt my boy like he didn’t do shii to you at all

  • @NadejdaC
    @NadejdaC 4 місяці тому +8

    It seems like Shun has a fear of abandonment, like he is afraid of being left by a loved one. Dai is good for Shun in this regard because Dai feels ok with himself and he loves Shun unconditionally (it will help Shun feel secure). Totally agree that arguments help every couple understand each other better and go through situations. ❤

  • @slayespa
    @slayespa 4 місяці тому +29

    I saw the confession coming but it still left me astonished. My face was expressionless like Ikuo 😐 No 😐

  • @NanyangVlog
    @NanyangVlog 4 місяці тому +6

    21:39 at first I thought so too but then Ikuo next action had made me feel like throwing him under the bus 😮‍💨
    he got a hidden agenda was basically summed it up

  • @tatacooky9251
    @tatacooky9251 4 місяці тому +31

    36:13 Shun be like : 🗿

  • @FenyalovesSTRAYKIDS
    @FenyalovesSTRAYKIDS 4 місяці тому +7

    16:25 that's so true lol, like come one, they're not looking at anyone else really

  • @TonyIgnatova
    @TonyIgnatova 4 місяці тому +9

    Ikuo literally said "i could be a better boyfriend than him"😅

  • @bumblebee4923
    @bumblebee4923 4 місяці тому +18

    This ep gave me such anxiety istg😂 Dai has been such a savior...like seeing him , I know he will fix it, whatever it is , he will fix it😂

  • @marycox2040
    @marycox2040 4 місяці тому +4

    Shun has never had a family background . He has never had love towards him. He sees life differently. Dai hopefully will show him the love he never had. He has never had warmth. Children grow with love and nuturing around. Shun appears not show emotions because as again he was given that. People who are emotionally not in tune and Shun past experience shows. So I hope Dai and Shun show their love for each.

  • @Lunatic_Chori
    @Lunatic_Chori 4 місяці тому +5

    Shun's action may be funny or cute for others but still many of his actions have actually hurt Dai.. Even when Dai was talking to Alan he had tears in his eyes... Which actually broke my heart.. He definitely love Shun very much.. I love shun and i found him cute and yeah there's no fault of Shun as he had a past trauma but still i feel Dai suffer a lot. I truly love his patient,love, understanding in the show.. He's definitely a standard guy...I adore him in the show very much he was definitely my fav.contestant❤ i love both and i hope they stay loving eo forever... 🎉

  • @tatacooky9251
    @tatacooky9251 4 місяці тому +14

    I'm back ❤ Was waiting for this reaction 😎

  • @brendaniela12
    @brendaniela12 4 місяці тому +15

    I feel like the way he confessed was not the most ideal. I understand that he wanted to show his feelings, but comparing his actions with Shun’s and how he would treat Dai if he would choose him was kind of messed up. Because if this was something Dai did not want he would have stepped away from Shun himself. And it’s just words. Promises can be made by anyone, but this needs to be proven with actions. And you are right. This was not a good choice to fall for one of the guys that is already in an established couple. 😂 I really like your reactions and your way of thinking. Please, when you finish with episode 10, can you please react to The Boyfriend watch party that is on Netflix Japan where the guys get together to watch the first 3 episodes and afterwards also on Netflix Japan the 1 hour livestream where the hosts that comment meet the guys for the first time and they interview them. That happened I think last week and I am sure you would like it. 😊

  • @teetee74122
    @teetee74122 4 місяці тому +9

    I think Ikuo always liked Dai , but backed off when he saw how invested Dai was with Shun. However, seeing how they're always in this toxic state (Ikuo's observation) he was like "I can love you better" lol.

  • @blackdiary4109
    @blackdiary4109 4 місяці тому +2

    Again we literally had the same reaction 😂 I cant wait for the last episodes and the live chat reaction 😂❤

  • @FenyalovesSTRAYKIDS
    @FenyalovesSTRAYKIDS 4 місяці тому +2

    36:55 exactly! With His Man it feels almost forced also because of the very short time so there's that pressure too

  • @Armyalwayswithbts
    @Armyalwayswithbts 4 місяці тому +3

    I knew ikuo had feeling from the moments he enter the house just kazu came coz everyone in house already knew about shun n dai so ikuo might have step back

  • @dearbkpp1792
    @dearbkpp1792 4 місяці тому +4

    I enjoy your reaction so much!!!

  • @hfuksvihkusDHvih
    @hfuksvihkusDHvih 4 місяці тому +18

    pls pls pls react to the 9month after 1hr live as well after the show ends 🤭🤭

    • @Luuziya
      @Luuziya 4 місяці тому +1

      Yeah 😂😂🤭🤌🏻

  • @kreebeanjewel
    @kreebeanjewel 4 місяці тому +9

    2 more vids left.. We are getting a reaction for the reunion right?

  • @ekinekin3970
    @ekinekin3970 4 місяці тому +17

    Haha..lets just be honest as adults...there is no way in hell and heaven they can stop after that intense kiss and the long wait. iykyk
    about ikuo, i think its fair for him to confess since this is a dating show. but whats annoying is when in a way, he's saying he is better than Shun. bro, thats giving me the ick and i think Dai sense that too. i agree with u its nvr a good idea to be a 3rd person when 2 person are having issues, especially if u hv feelings for either of them.
    enjoying your reactions and insights on a lot of things.

    • @2ndtry85
      @2ndtry85 3 місяці тому +1

      Dai sensed everything ikauo was doing during their tshirt argument, i haven't seen Dai having a strong reaction to anyone else in this show, he was really angry when ikauo tried to meddle their business.

  • @notyourcupoftae
    @notyourcupoftae 4 місяці тому +6

    Watch him getting angry on some dumb reason man prediction is getting out of hand 😂😂😂😂 also i am not against ikou confessing his feelings to dai what really seem off to me is , for him putting Shun down and try to show himself as a bigger person. it's lowkey giving baby i can treat you better by Shawn mendas 😂😂😂 but anyways i think he is just too young to put word correctly ......

  • @justaninfiredperson
    @justaninfiredperson 4 місяці тому +4

    I feel like they definitely fought after watching the episode. Lol

  • @armiinas5774
    @armiinas5774 4 місяці тому +3

    You really presented what I wanted to say while watching this episode, like I HATE IKUO hahahah he really is annoying, he has no capacity to interfere in DaiShun's business. As Dai said, I will solve this problem, but I let Shun think and I also give myself time so as not to emit negative emissions to Shun. And look how he said in his letter that he will make Dai happier, what does that mean? Do you think Dai is unhappy with Shun? That's their feeling and only they understand

  • @ecytb7042
    @ecytb7042 4 місяці тому +8

    the confession of ikuo to dai was suss to me i was like ohhh so you did all that for THAT bruuh

  • @roszitazin7967
    @roszitazin7967 4 місяці тому +5

    T shirt saga😂

  • @lizzien5846
    @lizzien5846 4 місяці тому +3

    Why would Shun look for permission from Dai to reveal the kiss if they actually had sex?? It’s obvious they didn’t.

  • @busisiwembewu5351
    @busisiwembewu5351 4 місяці тому +3

    Episode 6 and 9 are my favourite, in terms of the turmoil and drama aspect . I don't agree with how shun handled that t shirt thing and I don't like how he compared it to his ex , like how the hell would Dai have known that but I'm glad they had the conversation and cleared in like two minutes. I also like how Dai said , im not going to keep running to you every time we have an argument .

    • @Kiya-cj9ml
      @Kiya-cj9ml 4 місяці тому +1

      It was a transaltion error he didn't compare it with his ex many native japanes vewers already said it, he got h8 for no reason

  • @pppexplorer
    @pppexplorer 2 місяці тому

    One of the things I enjoyed about this show is the ability of the cast members to really *listen* to each other during conversations. I'm not sure if this is representative of Japanese culture in general. 👍🏽
    In many North American reality shows, the cast members constantly interrupt and shout at each other during their discussions, which I am tired of at this point.

  • @Me_YouForever
    @Me_YouForever 4 місяці тому +1

    Man i like you and i like your accent and tone voice 😂 i cant wait for the last ep reaction ..and can you do it for the reunion ep to

  • @tatacooky9251
    @tatacooky9251 4 місяці тому

    The last episode would be peaceful 🥰

  • @josereyes-fd1qp
    @josereyes-fd1qp 4 місяці тому +1

    I hope you also react to the reunion that was uploaded on YT and not just in your own time.

  • @cindybowser2673
    @cindybowser2673 4 місяці тому +4

    This show IS Dai and Shun and so much better than His Man.

  • @FenyalovesSTRAYKIDS
    @FenyalovesSTRAYKIDS 4 місяці тому

    they've really grown

  • @boyyob987
    @boyyob987 4 місяці тому

    thank you again trolltek love uuu

  • @katiegrossman2338
    @katiegrossman2338 4 місяці тому +2

    I feel like shuns behavior is really similar to what you sometimes see in kids who’ve been in bad situations when they start acting out. It’s a test of limits and how far they can go before the care/love that they’re told is never going to change does change. Like you say you really care for me but are you still going to do that when I push this boundary. How far do I have to push before you start acting the negative way I expect you to.

  • @tatacooky9251
    @tatacooky9251 4 місяці тому +6

    39:13 bro you skipped the most hilarious part of this episode 😆

  • @ottffss
    @ottffss 4 місяці тому +1

    I need you to react to the live where all the participants and commentators are 🙏. The live is on the Netflix Japan UA-cam channel.

  • @FenyalovesSTRAYKIDS
    @FenyalovesSTRAYKIDS 4 місяці тому

    3:00 bro same haha idk what to believe anymore but it's fine haha

  • @kpopstan6835
    @kpopstan6835 4 місяці тому

    I am curious what happened to your discord? I can no longer access it😭

  • @alinazimmermann9165
    @alinazimmermann9165 4 місяці тому +2

    Are you going to watch the live stream of the show with was filmed I think 8 monts after the show? It is on youtube and has eng subtitles.
    Sorry, for my English it is not my first language.
    Thank you so much for your reactions they are really fun to watch 🤗

  • @reemzzkhatun4480
    @reemzzkhatun4480 4 місяці тому +1

    Loving your reactions, please react to the next video ASAP lol

  • @studymaterial.4505
    @studymaterial.4505 4 місяці тому +7

    I always don't like Ikuo behaviour

  • @Dobsrb
    @Dobsrb 4 місяці тому

    Not saying thay did it.. but there were only one camera in the room and this show was rated 13+ also there is a clause in the contract mentioning what they consent/ don't consent to be aired usually..

  • @tenribuanah9984
    @tenribuanah9984 4 місяці тому +3

    I'm glad we already here (episode 9), but im gonna miss your reaction 🥺🤧
    don't forget to react another content from the boyfriend oke (just search it i don't wanna gave spoiler 😅)

  • @Wtfammy
    @Wtfammy 4 місяці тому +1

    Non of them in this episode was trying to help Daishun…even I didn’t like the way Alan was talking about Shun

    • @pscsquad8219
      @pscsquad8219 4 місяці тому +4

      Yes they were bffr shun is a headache let’s not lie am sure they were all sick of his mood swings n the way he treats dai which was understandable y’all act like shun is this baby who can do no wrong I like him,but he was a headache sometimes.

    • @slayespa
      @slayespa 4 місяці тому +11

      Nah Alan was a real one he helped

    • @frida.svt.17
      @frida.svt.17 4 місяці тому +3

      @@slayespaUr the only right one here rn