This young generation. We both work I come home clean, cook, school activities and take care of three kids. He would take the kids to doctor appointments and grocery shop.
From my 10years of marriage, women always give back the same energy men give to them. The man needs to man up and talk regularly to his wife. show her more love and buy her surprise gifts.
😂😂Sister calm down you don’t talk to Men like that is our responsibility to look after the house if the man wants to help you they can help you what you have to talk to your husband with respect
😢Dan, you need to😮 be fair with😢 women's too, don't side with this particular fool, I beg❓ She'd been washing cloths and dishes for over 4 ➕ years straight without complaint. Him/husband did it only for 3-4 days complained and run away the house because, he thought it was too much helping around the house❓ Is he really serious olga❓ Marriage is 50/50 a team work❗ I don't care where you live or where you are from. If your wife is her hands are tied doing something, and the baby is crying, husband is not doing anything, he must get up and pick up the pikin, and atend to the child, it's almost a mandatory things to do. No guys, especially Africans, house work it is not only limited to women's only❓ Now days, women's are equally educated as our men, they can go out and work just like the men's. However, out of respect for their husbands, even though, they preferred to go out and work, they chose to stay home and make their husbands happy. That doesn't mean they can not go out and work. Many women's are doing it now in our society. The main point here is, marriage is a compromise thing that is based in partnership union. That means, with understandings, it shouldn't be men's and women's things. It should be ours, and together, for our family 👪 I could go on and on on this subject, but I will end it here, and I hope 🙏 you do things together, with encouragement from wife to husband, and husband, without shaming, putting her down, or demanding, every house work from your wife, by lending hands, your marriage would be super good, and try it, and it works.😊😍
I love the young man. This is the wisdom my great grandfather gave me and he is applying it. Women are just like that, if you offer helping hand they'll order you like their kids. Exchange roles😂
Really, man and woman should work together in a marriage. Hubby need to assist the wife before she goes into a state of depression. She is slowly complaining that everything is too much for her and he is not listening or looking at things from her end. This is not time to be Macho. He can agree on things to help her with. This will go a long way. It is not about Feminism, it is about sanity.
People really don’t understand or care about the medical or mental health of their spouse. “This is Nigeria!” “So what?” Women suffer hard labor in all countries and it does not matter what culture! There are medical reasons why a woman seems tired or off when it comes to manual work. She maybe suffering with low iron in the blood, post partum depression, stress, sleep deprivation many causes that have nothing to do with disrespecting their husband., as reasons why she is exhausted or experiencing mood swings. Society is wicked with casting judgement on women when they hear the husband complain that she is lacking attention or flat out fail to complete house chores. When a person is physically, emotionally and mentally exhausted ask how they are feeling instead of calling her names, drawing evil conclusions that she is showing her true colors etc.
Exactly what I was thinking she literally stays at home watch the baby cook and do house chores that could be depressing her and it’s not helping that her partner thinks that he shouldn’t help out because he brings in the money and then he has a sister in the house disrespecting her… all of those things will make any woman feel differently about the person they married
Did she say she have mental health problem this sounds like a person who stays home and watch foreign upper class movies not Middle class oo Where is this young man parents to come get their Son
This girl is crazy. You expect a man to come from work and wash his clothes. Means she doesn't wash for this man. What do you do the whole day????????????
This girl has no single respect I pity this guy. Look at the way she is talking in the present of another person and she's calling her husband sister house help
If she is at home and he is working out to provide understand men do different hard jobs they won’t tell u they come back tired but won’t want to complain but you will be home whole day watching drama movies and leave work for your husband to come back from work and help u with chores get out nonsense woman
I wonder if you are a man or woman I am a man living alone and house work ain't easy plus she has a child you think that is easy he should help with the house work what little he can do bringing in money isn't all you realized that he refused to trade places with her Nonsense
@@user-xo2rg6bp6r i don't think you understand both judgment, the woman say his husband have been doing it, but you know how so people take advantage of something, because of that she self don't want the marriage again, for your own view which work that lady have at home, calling the guy sister househelp because the guy sister visit
Woman you're home so what's your problem with one child to take care of you're complaining istop and go take care of your house before you chase your husband in another woman arms
I will forever respect my wife after watching this piece. God bless you my sweet Grace.
This young generation. We both work I come home clean, cook, school activities and take care of three kids. He would take the kids to doctor appointments and grocery shop.
From my 10years of marriage, women always give back the same energy men give to them. The man needs to man up and talk regularly to his wife. show her more love and buy her surprise gifts.
Buy her whaaat marriage na bribe???
😂😂Sister calm down you don’t talk to Men like that is our responsibility to look after the house if the man wants to help you they can help you what you have to talk to your husband with respect
She is disrespectful to her husband, even if she leaves the marriage to get married to another man she will still complain.
😢Dan, you need to😮 be fair with😢 women's too, don't side with this particular fool, I beg❓
She'd been washing cloths and dishes for over 4 ➕ years straight without complaint. Him/husband did it only for 3-4 days complained and run away the house because, he thought it was too much helping around the house❓ Is he really serious olga❓
Marriage is 50/50 a team work❗ I don't care where you live or where you are from. If your wife is her hands are tied doing something, and the baby is crying, husband is not doing anything, he must get up and pick up the pikin, and atend to the child, it's almost a mandatory things to do.
No guys, especially Africans, house work it is not only limited to women's only❓
Now days, women's are equally educated as our men, they can go out and work just like the men's. However, out of respect for their husbands, even though, they preferred to go out and work, they chose to stay home and make their husbands happy. That doesn't mean they can not go out and work. Many women's are doing it now in our society.
The main point here is, marriage is a compromise thing that is based in partnership union. That means, with understandings, it shouldn't be men's and women's things.
It should be ours, and together, for our family 👪
I could go on and on on this subject, but I will end it here, and I hope 🙏 you do things together, with encouragement from wife to husband, and husband, without shaming, putting her down, or demanding, every house work from your wife, by lending hands, your marriage would be super good, and try it, and it works.😊😍
This woman na waaa. May God help us oooo. I can stay with such a woman
Solution is WASHING MACHINE... SIMPLE
Washing machine Will make her to be lazy
I love the young man. This is the wisdom my great grandfather gave me and he is applying it. Women are just like that, if you offer helping hand they'll order you like their kids. Exchange roles😂
People dey compare man like woman oyibo wome dey loyal to their man
This young lady is the problem in her marriage and she should go and get more sections in the purported marriage counselling.❤from Manchester.
Really, man and woman should work together in a marriage. Hubby need to assist the wife before she goes into a state of depression. She is slowly complaining that everything is too much for her and he is not listening or looking at things from her end. This is not time to be Macho. He can agree on things to help her with. This will go a long way. It is not about Feminism, it is about sanity.
People really don’t understand or care about the medical or mental health of their spouse. “This is Nigeria!”
“So what?”
Women suffer hard labor in all countries and it does not matter what culture! There are medical reasons why a woman seems tired or off when it comes to manual work. She maybe suffering with low iron in the blood, post partum depression, stress, sleep deprivation many causes that have nothing to do with disrespecting their husband., as reasons why she is exhausted or experiencing mood swings.
Society is wicked with casting judgement on women when they hear the husband complain that she is lacking attention or flat out fail to complete house chores. When a person is physically, emotionally and mentally exhausted ask how they are feeling instead of calling her names, drawing evil conclusions that she is showing her true colors etc.
Exactly what I was thinking she literally stays at home watch the baby cook and do house chores that could be depressing her and it’s not helping that her partner thinks that he shouldn’t help out because he brings in the money and then he has a sister in the house disrespecting her… all of those things will make any woman feel differently about the person they married
Did she say she have mental health problem this sounds like a person who stays home and watch foreign upper class movies not Middle class oo
Where is this young man parents to come get their Son
@@jeanettewilliamsbrown2958Really
If you didn't miss him then why are you here then looking for him 😂😂 bad mouth
This girl is crazy. You expect a man to come from work and wash his clothes. Means she doesn't wash for this man. What do you do the whole day????????????
The both os them is not ready for married
Plan your work and rise up early each day so you can rest
This girl is paying much attention to stupid advice from her bad friends, tell her to change her attitude
this girl nor ready to stay husband house
She her to respect her husband
Girl u are the one to wash ur husband child and ur clothes. If she help u it doesn't meant that he will be doing it every day.
This is you don't know how to talk at all , and you want him to be helping you.
This girl has no single respect I pity this guy. Look at the way she is talking in the present of another person and she's calling her husband sister house help
This guy should take a walk away from this marriage because the lady has another plan.
I can never fine house work hard
First here 😂😂😂😂hi lucky Dan watching from Namibia ❤
My dear, your RUDENESS, is really of the most high, please try and go for marriage counselling,
Buy washing machine and some other things to help her with house chores but her mouth is too sharp anyway it’s age
If she is at home and he is working out to provide understand men do different hard jobs they won’t tell u they come back tired but won’t want to complain but you will be home whole day watching drama movies and leave work for your husband to come back from work and help u with chores get out nonsense woman
This girl is very senseless
I wonder if you are a man or woman I am a man living alone and house work ain't easy plus she has a child you think that is easy he should help with the house work what little he can do bringing in money isn't all you realized that he refused to trade places with her
Nonsense
@@user-xo2rg6bp6r i don't think you understand both judgment, the woman say his husband have been doing it, but you know how so people take advantage of something, because of that she self don't want the marriage again, for your own view which work that lady have at home, calling the guy sister househelp because the guy sister visit
God have mercy upon us Amen Amen 🙏❤️
Lazy woman
She seems lazy
One child o
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Woman you're home so what's your problem with one child to take care of you're complaining istop and go take care of your house before you chase your husband in another woman arms
And she has house help call her sister in law house help
Arrogant disrespectful girl.
Mama na train her well
You program leader Nigeria so what must you talk like you are a big fool in Nigeria