GET PAID! How I got out of the 'Friend Zone' as a 4th Line (8 Money-Making Tips)!

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  • Have you gotten 'friend-zoned' in your business where people want to be your friend but not to pay you?? It's extremely frustrating!!! Come to the "GET PAID mini-masterclass! How I got out of the 'Friend Zone' as a 4th Line (8 Money-Making Tips)!"
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    00:00 Introduction to the Friend Zone in business
    02:47 Why you are in the Friend Zone
    07:00 How it feels to be in the friend Zone
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 73

  • @ShivaniBaghel
    @ShivaniBaghel 3 місяці тому +2

    This is such a wonderful video, Karen! I can sense how uncomfortable this topic is for you, and as a line 4, I know how it feels deeply to speak about these things SO openly because of all the judgement that's been around for all our lives for having boundaries - oof, thank you for your radical honesty! Appreciate it so much

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you Shivani! I appreciate you seeing/understanding why this is vulnerable. It's difficult to understand and put words to!

  • @danielwerner7898
    @danielwerner7898 4 місяці тому +3

    I can really relate to the business friend zone. Even as a 5/1 profile, people whom I have contacted to see whether they'd want my services have sometimes wanted to connect on a personal level, chat, and put attention on me, even though my intention was for it to be the other way around! Good to get some answers to the question, "How do I get out of this again??" 🙂

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  3 місяці тому +2

      Ah yes... that makes sense...I guess in your case you can go further into the leadership energy of the 5...as the saviour and the Investigator expert energy. Just move more into the expert on both sides of the profile. It's helpful to realize that you're probably too relatable and need more of the expert so people want to buy. Also, I wonder if this could be because you are approaching people you know...when you're better off as a stranger of consequence.

  • @ksy4747
    @ksy4747 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for sharing this! I am still in relative baby stages of my business, but I can already see this coming up as a real issue. I am 2/4 manifestor.

  • @HighPriestessEnergy
    @HighPriestessEnergy 3 місяці тому

    Epic video! It’s not just u feeling this way. A lot of successful people feel exactly this way and are unapologetically this way. I for one stopped having “friends” for the most, with a couple exceptions, and now ppl can hire me as coach.
    There has to be an even or fair exchange of energy.
    Shine on 🐦‍🔥

  • @skirbappeal
    @skirbappeal 4 місяці тому +3

    Discerning for reciprocity in everything is huge!! Love this Karen

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 місяці тому

      I love that "discerning for reciprocity". Thanks Sarah!

  • @Meditations_with_Ilze
    @Meditations_with_Ilze 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for this session. This topic is so essential for me. Your truth is so inspiring! Creating a clear offer has always been challenging as I mutate and grow and learn and everything changes again and again. But I will find a way and seems like it will be something different than I have been doing all these years of guiding mediations for individuals and groups. It is much easier to go on IG stories sharing some friendly information about the sunny hiking day than talk about my expertise and deep reflections about life. Also every time I share something meaningful from my Soul, I kind of feel that people do not get me 🤔 Maybe I have not the correct auditory and that's why UA-cam environment starts to feel attractive for me :) Thank you for doing what you are doing. You ar an ispiration of how to live authentic life 💜

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 місяці тому +1

      Yes. I feel that there is so much we could unpack together about how you can effectively bring your gifts to the online world and share your light in a fruitful way. It’s not straightforward (yet) because you need to find your unique way that works for you!! You are an incredible light so I know it will happen as long as you keep committed /devoted to it . Xoxo

  • @pingwinek512
    @pingwinek512 2 місяці тому +1

    Great wideo!

  • @chandahope
    @chandahope 4 місяці тому +2

    4/6 MG the struggle is real! Just normalizing this by talking about it is really helpful 💗

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 місяці тому +1

      Yes it is real 😅! Yes, I think talking about it is helping!

  • @ReFutureYourLife
    @ReFutureYourLife 4 місяці тому +2

    I relate to this. (1/4 Reflector) A friend had a consultation with me, said I was too expensive, but wants to make sure I'm on the calls for the group we're both part of so he can "share things with me that the others don't understand". It's challenging and a great opportunity for me to keep my boundaries.

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 місяці тому +1

      ick. This is unpleasant. Being in masterminds and groups is a mine-field for this. All of those requests for free youtube advice came from people in my mastermind that I was a part of...and that's also where the crickets came from ! Yes. It is a great opportunity for you to keep your boundaries...especially embodying the divine feminine as you do. I wonder about how to navigate what spaces you put yourself in and how you show up there. I'm sure it's a rich exploration! I appreciate you!

  • @user-oj1iq3ji6c
    @user-oj1iq3ji6c 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for talking about this! I'm a 6/2 and it still is helpful.

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 місяці тому +1

      You’re welcome!! My pleasure!!!

  • @consciouseducationcoach
    @consciouseducationcoach 4 місяці тому +3

    100% resonates and the story of my life ...until I stopped and sat quietly on the roof watching and feeling...I'm looking forward to hearing your thoughts on this Karen. You always are authentic and it is powerful 💪🙏❣️

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much! I have noticed some fears coming up about the stuff I'm sharing in this video so it feels like a new level of exposure. I'm looking forward to it. I appreciate the support!

    • @consciouseducationcoach
      @consciouseducationcoach 4 місяці тому +1

      @@karenmcmullenStuff comes up, but look at you, it doesn't stop you! It makes you magnificent unique and so special!! You are truly an inspiration to everyone who watches your channel because of this very courage to be vulnerable! You are expressing exactly what many of us can't right now! It's your superpower! You are wonderful ❤️ Keep going Karen!! You got this! I can't wait to hear what YOU have to say! You earned the badge of COURAGE 🏆 and we love you for being ALL that magic ✨✨✨✨❤️

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 місяці тому

      Awh! Thank you! I suppose that is true. It feels less epic than that… just like my following my path I guess!

  • @zc4258
    @zc4258 4 місяці тому +3

    2/4 Manifestor. My hermit has taken over for years....I CAN be friendly...but more so, I have this natural repellant where most don't approach to be my friend....but STILL want free info. from me.

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 місяці тому +1

      What an interesting conundrum. 😅 so they don’t want to be your friend… just get free info. Hmm 🤔 and you’re here to make an impact but you’re in hermit-mode. Tricky!!! I am wondering on the whole how empowered you feel as a manifestor?

    • @M00NWITCH
      @M00NWITCH 4 місяці тому +1

      I'm a ManiGen 2/4 who has always struggled exactly with that.
      I've been on my hermit stage since 12/24/2016.

  • @intelligentbody
    @intelligentbody 4 місяці тому +1

    Just re-listened and took notes!
    Coming out of a long period of illness and soon will start engaging again on social media. This talk is sure helpful for me at this time.
    Thank you for sharing your genius Karen!

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 місяці тому +1

      How fun that you relistened and took notes. I am really so sorry to hear that you've been sick. I am sending you so much love!

    • @intelligentbody
      @intelligentbody 4 місяці тому +1

      @@karenmcmullen 🙏🏼♥️

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  Місяць тому

      💗

  • @sanjaavramovic
    @sanjaavramovic 4 місяці тому +1

    4/6 Emo MG been in business for 6 years and have worked with friends a lot!! It’s so helpful to hear you share about all of this! Thank you Karen! ❤❤

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 місяці тому +1

      That is amazing 🤩! So it sounds like you haven’t had problems with this. What is your industry?

  • @heatheroconnell2431
    @heatheroconnell2431 4 місяці тому +2

    I love the first tip! You have to be a relatable expert. I feel this is true of being a teacher as well.

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  3 місяці тому

      Yes...totally! Thank you to Callan Rush...she drilled that into us.

  • @cynthisizer290
    @cynthisizer290 4 місяці тому +1

    Yes, this is definitely such an issue 😫. luckily I get to work with you! I cant wait! (Will msg you back soon)

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  3 місяці тому +1

      Amazing to see you here. I can see this with you because your friendliness is through the roof!! But DAMN you're an expert.

  • @CedricHoussin
    @CedricHoussin 4 місяці тому +2

    Wow, I'm 4/6 emo mani/Gen and it's such a pattern in my life. Thanks for this wake up call.

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 місяці тому +2

      I’m so glad that you are receiving this wake up call! You’re welcome!

  • @rixiedennison8181
    @rixiedennison8181 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you! This is a great topic !

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 місяці тому

      Hi Rixie!! I appreciate you being here!! It's so lovely.

  • @rixiedennison8181
    @rixiedennison8181 4 місяці тому +1

    I love that idea. Create an offering.

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 місяці тому +1

      Yes! It’s so simple! But soooooooo effective!

  • @IsabelRising22
    @IsabelRising22 4 місяці тому +2

    Yes being CLEAR in your gifts is 👌🏼💯🙏🏼

  • @milyanaion
    @milyanaion 4 місяці тому +2

    I am a 1/3 but I totaly resonate with this. I have gathered so much knowledge and wisdom and I want to honor that and the time and energy! 💖

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 місяці тому +1

      Amen!! Yes!!! I think this topic is really relevant for emissaries of light of all kinds!

    • @milyanaion
      @milyanaion 4 місяці тому +1

      @@karenmcmullenyes! for emissaries of light, for catalysts for change!

  • @synesthesia7511
    @synesthesia7511 3 місяці тому +1

    This is why I can’t handle being around 4th lines too much. They seem so unauthentic. It just seems like they only want to be nice to you transactionally and not actually to be a friend.

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  3 місяці тому

      Interesting take away.

    • @synesthesia7511
      @synesthesia7511 3 місяці тому +1

      @@karenmcmullen sorry, let me clarify a bit. I totally agree that good boundaries are necessary and it is unacceptable to acknowledge people to do labor for you for free. I totally see where you are coming from. I do find extroverts or people who are friendly with everyone to be off putting though because I am such a hermit. I find it disingenuous.

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  3 місяці тому +1

      Thanks for further explaining. I have heard similar sentiments from other people about 4th lines. I can see what you mean and I experience the same feeling when I meet really charming people.

  • @rixiedennison8181
    @rixiedennison8181 4 місяці тому +1

    MY friend circle is quite small too.

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 місяці тому

      how interesting. I might not have known that about you!

  • @charlottespooner833
    @charlottespooner833 4 місяці тому +1

    Yes this is exactly the situation I find myself in. Emotional Mani 4/6.

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 місяці тому +1

      Ok awesome! I can’t wait to hear what you get from the class!

  • @4rtyfitnessandyoga
    @4rtyfitnessandyoga 4 місяці тому +1

    I’m a 6/3 and I knew because I was so lucky to meet you in person and had a personal reading of my chart!!And one of my problem is exactly get payed properly for my job as a coach!!

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 місяці тому

      Hi beautiful Angela!!! I am so happy we met and thank you for participating here 😍I am excited for you to get paid well for your EXTRAORDINARY EXTREME level of expertise and experience. You are fricking exceptional at what you do. I have some ideas that I didn’t address in this video I will message you about this. Xoxoxo

  • @rixiedennison8181
    @rixiedennison8181 4 місяці тому +1

    YES!

  • @intelligentbody
    @intelligentbody 4 місяці тому +1

    Bravado of youth prior to awakening. Sure do remember that!

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 місяці тому +1

      lol....you do! It's so good to see you here Christa! I love you so much~

    • @intelligentbody
      @intelligentbody 4 місяці тому

      @@karenmcmullen❤

  • @Manifestoronaplain
    @Manifestoronaplain 4 місяці тому +2

    You did great🌸

  • @estherarends
    @estherarends 4 місяці тому +1

    OMG this is so relatable.
    I hope I can actually make it to this session live. With the time difference I am not 💯 sure. I trust that if I need to be there, I will 😉✨
    Looking forward to receive some insights on this frustrating topic, hahaha.
    Love from a 4/6 emo manifestor from The Netherlands.

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 місяці тому

      It’s so good to see you here!!! We met in Sadona right? You’re the dance person! That was probably 7 years ago! Yes, please let me know how this resonates and thanks for participating. 😍

    • @estherarends
      @estherarends 4 місяці тому +1

      Yes we did!! So good to see you here. Love your videos.

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 місяці тому

      @@estherarends that is so cool Thank you so much. I love how small the world is. It's so magical.

  • @rixiedennison8181
    @rixiedennison8181 4 місяці тому +2

    I just gave away 2 consultations on how to lead a retreat :(

    • @karenmcmullen
      @karenmcmullen  4 місяці тому +2

      Yes! This is so much an indicator that you are being seen in your expertise! So it is very simple. Just create an offering around it. I think it's genius!

    • @rixiedennison8181
      @rixiedennison8181 4 місяці тому +2

      @@karenmcmullen YES!!

  • @rixiedennison8181
    @rixiedennison8181 4 місяці тому +2

    Friends?