can we just appreciate the set design and lighting for a moment??!? WOW the way each side is able to encapsulate each of their personalities and colours while still blending effortlessly together omgggg my eyes are blessed
LITERALLY It's not been a long time since I've watched both their content but I looove their chemistry. And the set ? Gorgeous. Poki and Lily ? GORGEOUS TOO
my only critique is I think Lily needs a background feature to balance out poki's side, maybe even the same one but painted or an extra sheer curtain in lilac with lilies sewn on or something similar to represent lily's side. I think it will balance both sides they've created. It looks so cute and cozy though
Small point of constructive criticism. I think the pace camera swapping is a bit high. Lily will be sharing an opinion or telling a story, and whenever Poki agrees or offers a small affirmation like "That's so true!", the camera swaps to her. Blended with their high paced conversational style, the podcast ends up feeling like a wild tennis match that's rushing. I always think following how a head might view the conversation is a good rule of thumb, staying on Lily until Poki adds something substantial to the story, or the flow of conversation moves to her side. I also think the wide angle is underused.
i agree! i love the vibe of the podcast but the camera flips were a little jarring at times. an example of a podcast who does it well is trash taste, i've always subconsciously noticed how nicely selective the camera swaps feel. i like the analogy you used too, "how a head might follow a conversation" is a good way to put it.
i agree. also, if its just two people on an episode would a split screen view work well too? maybe the person whos not talking doesnt want the pressure of the camera still being on them.
their convo around 1:16:52 is actually a real phenomenon and it’s called high context/low context cultures! essentially high context cultures (like japan) rely a lot on context clues to interpret communication like body language, facial expression, tone, pausing etc to convey implicit meaning. and then low context cultures (like germany) do the opposite and are very direct with their words. and then even within the same language, you can have higher context cultures (deep south) vs lower context (new york) differences as well! super interesting to read about
I've noticed this too, moving from the Pacific Northwest to New England. The west coast is very context-heavy, and often passive-aggressive. The east coast is much more direct, and it's honestly refreshing. If someone on the west coast talked the way east coasters do, it would come across as very direct and even rude, but I've just had to get used to the fact that direct doesn't mean rude here - they literally just mean exactly what they say.
before i started watching i be like: "oh this will be so funny bcs of poki and lily's contrast but vibe at the same time." episode starts: "so we wanted contrast." i loved it. your chemistryyyy
the way you guys bounce off of each others’ energy is so refreshing to see!!! can’t wait for the future eps! literally my fav duo ever im so glad this happened 🫶🫶
As a german, I can agree: If I want to go out to eat something nice, I don't go eat german food. It usually is like an italian, greek or asian restaurant. But german bread is very good, dare I even say one of the best.
As a german, I can safely say that our food is mostly nothing special, with the exception of our bread.The one thing Germans reliably say after returning from abroad is "The food was great, but they have no proper bread there."
okay so like the idea of lily's "code with me" thing my fav thing to have in the background sometimes is "come with me to work a cafe/in the kitchen" videos, I'm a cook so like that kind of noise put me in a flow state and i just love looking at my tv and seeing someone like create something amazing, rather that be foam art in a latte or someone putting finishing touches and details on a plate. 10/10 would recommend
This is such a banger podcast. It feels chaotic in the best way. Like anything can come up and it feels impossible to guess what topic is coming next. It's so natural and free flowing.
this was not on my 2024 bingo card but im SURE GLAD IT'S HERE!!! omg this felt so girls girl sleepover coded im genuinely so excited for this podcast to make it to 100 eps and for yall to get that tattoo.. like this podcast abt to be the best thing ever
I'm not really a podcast person but I am sold! Just watched the whole thing. I love this and will be tuning in. Debated even trauma dumping/asking for advise. I feel like because you both have such different takes that something like that could be a good segment. Anyway looking forward to the next episode!
i'm so sad Poki received backlash for her Trash Taste episode :((( I was so excited when she was a guest. I've been a Trash Taste fan since day one and i never thought part of the fandom was that toxic. It would be nice to have both Poki and Lily back on Trash Taste :)
@@randomassname_ Just Poki being herself. It's a shame really because Lily seems really nice and I watch all her other stuff but there's no way I can watch here in this
As much as I loved DTA I loveeeee love love poki and lilys dynamic and this is such a BRILLIANT idea… so so proud of how much this podcast is progressing, such a gorgeous set and two beautiful pookies
i really enjoyed when lily was in poki's podcast n always liked their interactions and dynamic; so i thought if they had a podcast it'd be soo good. AND IT FR HAPPENED
I'm so happy for this content. I've been following both for years and always admired their friendship. Loving and respectful to each other. They are not together all the time but always know how to act around each other anyway. Totally admiring their relationship honestly. I love you both so much and wish you u two best for podcast and life 🤍🤍🤍
I've only seen both of your content as it pops up in my feed (I never followed just because I never got around to it and I'm not super into gaming content all the time, but I liked both of your personalities when i saw your vids) and I really love this podcast! Both of you seem super cool, and poki's story about her contract negotiation between twitch and youtube was super cool to hear
ya know, i m glad i came across this on IG reels, cuz Im in LOVE with the audio quality. it just sounds SO GOOD. also its cool that it involves some of my favorite content creators too.
Poki really is a genius business woman talking about how she negotiated up the Twitch offer to the same as the UA-cam offer while staying in the platform she loved!
This is everything I’ve needed and more. I’m an avid Yard, Chuckle Sandwich, and Fear& listener and I’ve been all caught up on their content and am so happy to have a couple of high energy girlies to listen to! You two bounce off of each other so well and compliment each others personalities! If you guys ever have an advice segment I have such a juicy and in depth relationship situation that you guys would just EAT UP and I’d love to hear your thoughts hehe. Cant wait to see where the pod goes and to listen in(:
im so excited for this podcast! im thinking of sour patch kids poki and lily. the set design is soooo lovely, i feel like both their confidence creates this safe and cozy space. also, Lily, i got your necklaces and earrings from bisoulovely. i love them.
This is a banger podcast! i love both your contents so much, and to see you come together with something so fun and enjoyable to listen to it brought me into the podcast world :3 i never really cared for them before but i am certainly along for this ride! Keep up this vibe!!!! i love it!
Holy yaaay Pokimane and Lilly Pichu, you both made such a chill, brand new, but wild podcast show and boy, it's truly soo cool to see both of you yapp various topics, i am confidend that your newest podcast show will be a massive sucsess in here (FYI, i cannot wait to see more of it, both in topics, and hopefully in guests) 😍😻🤩❤🙌😉🎙️🎚️🎛️🍬🍋🌸💮🐵🐸
What an incredible and hilarious dynamic between these two. Not even 30 mins into this episode and already looking forward to them hopefully doing a full year 😁
Loved Poki on the Yard and found this through that and it definitely delivered! Happy to now have a few eps that I can marathon through as well! (Approaching 30 and having baby fever is real and relatable from a guy standpoint too, I feel like me and friends around me who never really thought of that stuff before are now suddenly thinking of stuff like that more and more)
Shows how complimenting each others personalities goes a long way! :) If you can start grasping why the way you do things and can tell the understanding! So cool! :) Great perspective, you would be surprised how much this new found introspection will bring encouragement to others!
been watching you two make content for a really long time, and this feels super natural. It's definitely been a long time coming. J'espere que tu parles francais un peu cheque fois c'est vraiment drole. Thank you and much love from Canada!
Conclusion for prof. Poki: the set up has so much potential aesthetically and i hope yall upgrade it in the future. Its so cute but with good marketing it could hit real hard like the foundation saur gewd.
The sweet and sour logo as a neon sign in that style in the background with the sweet in orange and the sour in purple would be such a nice touch! LOVED this podcast btw keep it up :D
The fact that astrology is fake but as a scorpio, like Lily, I too have an affinity with tauruses. Scorpio and Taurus are on opposite sides of the zodiac wheel making them complete polar opposite and called sister signs. They say even though scorpio and taurus are completely different they want the same things. They just go about it contradictory to each other. Scorpio/Taurus are the most similar sister signs so it’s funny how you all opened this podcast. I’m so excited to listen to y’all yap it up. Much love xoxo
Poki is pure chaos and it works so well😂 both of you are incredibly fun to listen to and watch, and this is my first introduction to Lily. The side comments and sarcasm towards each other is really fun to listen to you two play off of each other. All I ask for you guys is to continue to be yourselves. Your “flaws” make you unique and that’s what makes it fun. I hope you guys keep this going as long as you want to. I certainly enjoy it
As a German (from Bavaria) I have to say the food take is crazy to me, but I respect it. I think German food has a big variety and some of my favourite dishes (ofc because I grew up with them), but also a lot of classic dishes that I hate. It’s very hit or miss.
I needed this! I used to watch Trash Taste but I'm a bit too girly for it, then another new podcast but I'm not that of a drama queen and this is PERFECT. I liked both of you already.
OMG I LOVE POKI AND LILYS ENERGY IN THIS PODCAST AND UPCOMING ONES, but hey you guys did ask for trauma dump and here it is. I am writing to seek advice on an issue that has been impacting my personal development and self-awareness. Over the past 18 years of my life (almost 19, as I will be turning 19 on September 21st), I have come to realize that I have been constantly altering who I am and what I like to align with those around me. For instance, with my best friend, who enjoys a lot of spicy food, I have been pretending to enjoy it as well despite my low tolerance for spicy flavors. My motivation behind this pretense stems from a fear that if I do not share her interests, she might stop talking to me or speak negatively about me behind my back. Many people have identified this behavior as "The chameleon effect," which describes how individuals unconsciously adapt their preferences and behaviors to fit those of their social circle. This tendency has led me to a point where I am uncertain about my own interests and identity, as I have been so focused on mirroring others’ likes and dislikes. Although I am aware that therapy could offer significant help, my status as a college student makes it challenging to commit to therapy sessions due to financial and time constraints. Therefore, I am seeking alternative methods or advice on how to discover and solidify my own interests and overcome my insecurity. Could you provide some guidance or suggest strategies to help me in this journey of self-discovery and personal growth?
Some stuff that helped me is going on solo dates. Like, quite literally going out to eat alone or to a park alone or something. And while doing so, internally talk to myself as if I'm talking to a friend. It really helped me figure out my own voice. I also tend to try to see myself from an outside perspective. Like, the way I act or talk or anything, I try to see it from a different perspective snd ask myself if I like that version of me The biggest thing that helped was not caring what others think of me. Letting my internal thoughts come out so that I can learn which filters I needed to set. I now stim audibly and sing songs I like and just do things I know make me, me. Life is a constant learning who you are. Don't give up. I'm almost 30 and still am figuring out life. ❤
wine about it and fear& are the only podcasts i keep up with anymore and i won’t lie… i think this one is getting added to the rotation. im actually really sad that there isn’t a backlog to binge
Hii poki, hii Lily, I just wanted to say thank you for giving me something to look forward to every week from now on. I've been a fan of y'all since wayyy back when the entire og OTV were still streaming league tgt. So this podcast is def giving nostalgia that just hits differently.❤️❤️❤️ I hope all your upcoming podcasts will always be fun to film.
this actually makes me so happy!! i love your energy together, ever since the spicy noodles video i enjoyed you both just talking :) can't wait for the next week episode :D
I love this so muuuch, the chemistry they have is crazy, for real 2 of my favorite content creators personality wise, couldnt help but smile all the way through❤
This makes me so happy and the vibes are ~immaculate~, very demure, very modest. Honestly feels like I'm with the girlies sipping tea as they yap about life, it's amazing
This was awesome 😎 I’m adding this to my weekly routine ❤ Poki sticking to her guns of honesty is so sweet but also low key insane 😂 I was cackling the whole time
YIPPPEEEEEEEEEE
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YIPPIEEEEEEE
YIPPPEEEEEEEEEE
YIPEEEEEEEEEEEEE
YESSS THEY HAVE AMAZING CHEMISTRY I WAS HOPING FOR SOMETHING LIKE THIS!!!
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I dreamed of this. Can't believe it finally happened 🥰
ME TOOOO OMG THE DAY HAS COME!!!!!
YES AGREED
can we just appreciate the set design and lighting for a moment??!? WOW the way each side is able to encapsulate each of their personalities and colours while still blending effortlessly together omgggg my eyes are blessed
Yeah, I agree. Everything about the podcast is visually pleasing, and the 1st episode was really planned out well
LITERALLY It's not been a long time since I've watched both their content but I looove their chemistry. And the set ? Gorgeous. Poki and Lily ? GORGEOUS TOO
Pretty pastel princess vibes 💖
my only critique is I think Lily needs a background feature to balance out poki's side, maybe even the same one but painted or an extra sheer curtain in lilac with lilies sewn on or something similar to represent lily's side. I think it will balance both sides they've created. It looks so cute and cozy though
@peacho8110
I agree! That'd bring even more continuity to the duality aspect that they're trying to portray 😽
Small point of constructive criticism. I think the pace camera swapping is a bit high. Lily will be sharing an opinion or telling a story, and whenever Poki agrees or offers a small affirmation like "That's so true!", the camera swaps to her. Blended with their high paced conversational style, the podcast ends up feeling like a wild tennis match that's rushing. I always think following how a head might view the conversation is a good rule of thumb, staying on Lily until Poki adds something substantial to the story, or the flow of conversation moves to her side. I also think the wide angle is underused.
i agree! i love the vibe of the podcast but the camera flips were a little jarring at times. an example of a podcast who does it well is trash taste, i've always subconsciously noticed how nicely selective the camera swaps feel. i like the analogy you used too, "how a head might follow a conversation" is a good way to put it.
I agree, good point
Yep , when someone's going on a story you keep it on them. When it's a quick back and forth you do the wide shot
i agree. also, if its just two people on an episode would a split screen view work well too? maybe the person whos not talking doesnt want the pressure of the camera still being on them.
Wide shot. That's the key, if both are talking for a while it should a wide shot so we don't have to go bouncing around.
So true, Poki's 2nd birth into content, watching her thrive with her new cooking series with QT with podcast with Lily. Poggers
Cooking series?
I think the cooking with QT was a one time thing?
@@lizzyborden6538 nah she said its a series and the next cooking stream will be at her house in her stream tosay
after the spill your guts video this is EXACTLY what i was needing in my life !!! YESSS
i prayed for times like this
we all did too 🙏✨
To rhyme like this
their convo around 1:16:52 is actually a real phenomenon and it’s called high context/low context cultures!
essentially high context cultures (like japan) rely a lot on context clues to interpret communication like body language, facial expression, tone, pausing etc to convey implicit meaning. and then low context cultures (like germany) do the opposite and are very direct with their words. and then even within the same language, you can have higher context cultures (deep south) vs lower context (new york) differences as well! super interesting to read about
bro it's so interesting YIPEe to cultural differences
I've noticed this too, moving from the Pacific Northwest to New England. The west coast is very context-heavy, and often passive-aggressive. The east coast is much more direct, and it's honestly refreshing. If someone on the west coast talked the way east coasters do, it would come across as very direct and even rude, but I've just had to get used to the fact that direct doesn't mean rude here - they literally just mean exactly what they say.
before i started watching i be like: "oh this will be so funny bcs of poki and lily's contrast but vibe at the same time." episode starts: "so we wanted contrast." i loved it. your chemistryyyy
Holy parasocial
@@Osaaamaaa lol what
@@Osaaamaaa how?
I really hope this blows up for y’all, I think this might be life changing for me
the way you guys bounce off of each others’ energy is so refreshing to see!!! can’t wait for the future eps! literally my fav duo ever im so glad this happened 🫶🫶
As a german, I can agree: If I want to go out to eat something nice, I don't go eat german food. It usually is like an italian, greek or asian restaurant. But german bread is very good, dare I even say one of the best.
one of the best?nah g the Best
So so excited for this pod!!! I've been following you both for 10 years and you both are still some of favorite content creators ever! YIPPPIEEE!!!!!
Also love the set, it's so cozy and cute :')
As a german, I can safely say that our food is mostly nothing special, with the exception of our bread.The one thing Germans reliably say after returning from abroad is "The food was great, but they have no proper bread there."
Let’s agree to disagree, cause we definitely have good traditional food or at least in the south
German Cheese Spätzle goes hard tho. And currywurst
never tried German bread, need to try it out now
the sausage is next level though
Curry Wurst and Wiener schnitzel though 👀
the aesthetics of Lily and Poki compliment each other; the outfits, their background when the camera pans on their side
okay so like the idea of lily's "code with me" thing my fav thing to have in the background sometimes is "come with me to work a cafe/in the kitchen" videos, I'm a cook so like that kind of noise put me in a flow state and i just love looking at my tv and seeing someone like create something amazing, rather that be foam art in a latte or someone putting finishing touches and details on a plate. 10/10 would recommend
This is such a banger podcast. It feels chaotic in the best way. Like anything can come up and it feels impossible to guess what topic is coming next. It's so natural and free flowing.
Literally smiled the whole episode
Wasn’t a podcast person but I am now 💀
this was not on my 2024 bingo card but im SURE GLAD IT'S HERE!!! omg this felt so girls girl sleepover coded im genuinely so excited for this podcast to make it to 100 eps and for yall to get that tattoo.. like this podcast abt to be the best thing ever
1:20 Lily is NOT beating the allegations...
Hassan has to see this
you two were always my favorite duo in otv i'm happy to have a podcast for the girlies
“he browses youtube shorts”
“I don’t know what that says about him” 😭😭😭
They just don’t get it-
I'm not really a podcast person but I am sold! Just watched the whole thing. I love this and will be tuning in. Debated even trauma dumping/asking for advise. I feel like because you both have such different takes that something like that could be a good segment. Anyway looking forward to the next episode!
i'm so sad Poki received backlash for her Trash Taste episode :((( I was so excited when she was a guest. I've been a Trash Taste fan since day one and i never thought part of the fandom was that toxic. It would be nice to have both Poki and Lily back on Trash Taste :)
Woah what happened?
wait why did she get backlash?
@@randomassname_ Just Poki being herself. It's a shame really because Lily seems really nice and I watch all her other stuff but there's no way I can watch here in this
I love how the background and colours are so personal and fitting!
As much as I loved DTA I loveeeee love love poki and lilys dynamic and this is such a BRILLIANT idea… so so proud of how much this podcast is progressing, such a gorgeous set and two beautiful pookies
Very excited for the shrek episode
i really enjoyed when lily was in poki's podcast n always liked their interactions and dynamic; so i thought if they had a podcast it'd be soo good. AND IT FR HAPPENED
all those flirting for years between these two was to come to this moment right here 😩
I'm so happy for this content. I've been following both for years and always admired their friendship. Loving and respectful to each other. They are not together all the time but always know how to act around each other anyway. Totally admiring their relationship honestly. I love you both so much and wish you u two best for podcast and life 🤍🤍🤍
Poki's switch up from english to aggressive french was craaazyyy 😭💀
we need to go reverse and have trash taste feature as one of the guests on this. that’d be the “banger” episode we all want.
I've only seen both of your content as it pops up in my feed (I never followed just because I never got around to it and I'm not super into gaming content all the time, but I liked both of your personalities when i saw your vids) and I really love this podcast! Both of you seem super cool, and poki's story about her contract negotiation between twitch and youtube was super cool to hear
OMG!! My two goats yapping it up every week? 🐐
such a W honestly 💅💅
23:35 poki pulling the astaghfirullah card was so funny wallah😭
ya know, i m glad i came across this on IG reels, cuz Im in LOVE with the audio quality. it just sounds SO GOOD. also its cool that it involves some of my favorite content creators too.
Poki really is a genius business woman talking about how she negotiated up the Twitch offer to the same as the UA-cam offer while staying in the platform she loved!
Wahoo! Poki and Lily podcast!!! :D
This is everything I’ve needed and more. I’m an avid Yard, Chuckle Sandwich, and Fear& listener and I’ve been all caught up on their content and am so happy to have a couple of high energy girlies to listen to! You two bounce off of each other so well and compliment each others personalities!
If you guys ever have an advice segment I have such a juicy and in depth relationship situation that you guys would just EAT UP and I’d love to hear your thoughts hehe. Cant wait to see where the pod goes and to listen in(:
I love how both the dogs went over to Lily to sleep. So cute~ my new favorite pod cuz doggos
im so excited for this podcast! im thinking of sour patch kids poki and lily. the set design is soooo lovely, i feel like both their confidence creates this safe and cozy space.
also, Lily, i got your necklaces and earrings from bisoulovely. i love them.
Omg finally a channel where lily and poki just yap about whatever and open them selfes 🙂😚🙂
This is a banger podcast! i love both your contents so much, and to see you come together with something so fun and enjoyable to listen to it brought me into the podcast world :3 i never really cared for them before but i am certainly along for this ride! Keep up this vibe!!!! i love it!
The way I subbed SO FAST 🧡💙
THE DUO WE'VE BEEN WAITING FOR
OMG I'M IN LOVE WITH THIS PODCAST!
YOU TWO HAVE SUCH A GOOD CHEMISTRY ♥
I love the set design, all the details ♥
The light in each ♥ so cuuuuute ♥
Holy yaaay Pokimane and Lilly Pichu, you both made such a chill, brand new, but wild podcast show and boy, it's truly soo cool to see both of you yapp various topics, i am confidend that your newest podcast show will be a massive sucsess in here (FYI, i cannot wait to see more of it, both in topics, and hopefully in guests) 😍😻🤩❤🙌😉🎙️🎚️🎛️🍬🍋🌸💮🐵🐸
What an incredible and hilarious dynamic between these two. Not even 30 mins into this episode and already looking forward to them hopefully doing a full year 😁
goated combo, so excited to add this to my new weekly rotation of podcasts 💕
Loved Poki on the Yard and found this through that and it definitely delivered!
Happy to now have a few eps that I can marathon through as well!
(Approaching 30 and having baby fever is real and relatable from a guy standpoint too, I feel like me and friends around me who never really thought of that stuff before are now suddenly thinking of stuff like that more and more)
Shows how complimenting each others personalities goes a long way! :) If you can start grasping why the way you do things and can tell the understanding! So cool! :) Great perspective, you would be surprised how much this new found introspection will bring encouragement to others!
been watching you two make content for a really long time, and this feels super natural. It's definitely been a long time coming. J'espere que tu parles francais un peu cheque fois c'est vraiment drole. Thank you and much love from Canada!
Conclusion for prof. Poki: the set up has so much potential aesthetically and i hope yall upgrade it in the future. Its so cute but with good marketing it could hit real hard like the foundation saur gewd.
This is legit THE podcast I've been waiting for my whole life, the energy is UNMATCHED, looking forward to new ep!! 😍
i am so excited had been manifesting this one for years 😭
The sweet and sour logo as a neon sign in that style in the background with the sweet in orange and the sour in purple would be such a nice touch! LOVED this podcast btw keep it up :D
20:34 LILY HAD POKI STUN-LOCKED 😂😂😂😂
This was such a fun listen while working 😂 lookin forward to the next one 💪🏻
Plz don’t quit this podcast im addicted
This was so good idk y but it managed to capture my attention and I usually struggle watching longer content videos
The fact that astrology is fake but as a scorpio, like Lily, I too have an affinity with tauruses. Scorpio and Taurus are on opposite sides of the zodiac wheel making them complete polar opposite and called sister signs. They say even though scorpio and taurus are completely different they want the same things. They just go about it contradictory to each other. Scorpio/Taurus are the most similar sister signs so it’s funny how you all opened this podcast. I’m so excited to listen to y’all yap it up. Much love xoxo
Aw hell yea! more lily podcasts! :O
already loving this
Poki is pure chaos and it works so well😂 both of you are incredibly fun to listen to and watch, and this is my first introduction to Lily. The side comments and sarcasm towards each other is really fun to listen to you two play off of each other. All I ask for you guys is to continue to be yourselves. Your “flaws” make you unique and that’s what makes it fun. I hope you guys keep this going as long as you want to. I certainly enjoy it
So exited to see where this goes! Will be in the pod rotation now
So excited!!! Let's gooooo! Love this collab!!! They so cute and fun~
I always loved hearing poki talk and do a podcast and I LOVE THIS DUO PLLLLSS KEEP DOING THIS
Wahoooo best duo podcast
I'm so happy you two are doing more things together!! Excited for the future of this channel. ^^
As a German (from Bavaria) I have to say the food take is crazy to me, but I respect it.
I think German food has a big variety and some of my favourite dishes (ofc because I grew up with them), but also a lot of classic dishes that I hate. It’s very hit or miss.
GIRL I LOVE THAT IM GETTING MORE OF THIS DUO'S CONTENT!!! LOVE!!!! EXCITED FOR 100 EPISODES!!!!
YIPPIEEEE Poki and lily podcast!!! Let’s gooo! What a beautiful friendship ❤❤
I needed this! I used to watch Trash Taste but I'm a bit too girly for it, then another new podcast but I'm not that of a drama queen and this is PERFECT. I liked both of you already.
I clicked on the thumbnail and in a blink of an eye, an hour and a half have passed
I literally love you guys so much. You’re awesome together and this is a great concept!!
looking forward to tuning innn 🫖💝
Okay I'm excited for this! Gonna be tuning in for all the episodes
OMG I LOVE POKI AND LILYS ENERGY IN THIS PODCAST AND UPCOMING ONES, but hey you guys did ask for trauma dump and here it is.
I am writing to seek advice on an issue that has been impacting my personal development and self-awareness. Over the past 18 years of my life (almost 19, as I will be turning 19 on September 21st), I have come to realize that I have been constantly altering who I am and what I like to align with those around me. For instance, with my best friend, who enjoys a lot of spicy food, I have been pretending to enjoy it as well despite my low tolerance for spicy flavors. My motivation behind this pretense stems from a fear that if I do not share her interests, she might stop talking to me or speak negatively about me behind my back.
Many people have identified this behavior as "The chameleon effect," which describes how individuals unconsciously adapt their preferences and behaviors to fit those of their social circle. This tendency has led me to a point where I am uncertain about my own interests and identity, as I have been so focused on mirroring others’ likes and dislikes.
Although I am aware that therapy could offer significant help, my status as a college student makes it challenging to commit to therapy sessions due to financial and time constraints. Therefore, I am seeking alternative methods or advice on how to discover and solidify my own interests and overcome my insecurity.
Could you provide some guidance or suggest strategies to help me in this journey of self-discovery and personal growth?
Some stuff that helped me is going on solo dates. Like, quite literally going out to eat alone or to a park alone or something. And while doing so, internally talk to myself as if I'm talking to a friend. It really helped me figure out my own voice.
I also tend to try to see myself from an outside perspective. Like, the way I act or talk or anything, I try to see it from a different perspective snd ask myself if I like that version of me
The biggest thing that helped was not caring what others think of me. Letting my internal thoughts come out so that I can learn which filters I needed to set. I now stim audibly and sing songs I like and just do things I know make me, me.
Life is a constant learning who you are. Don't give up. I'm almost 30 and still am figuring out life. ❤
I hope they discuss this! It would be fun! So here to boost comments
I recently just started watching and tuning in to lillys streams cause of her tekken and street fighter interests now im here 😂
This was genuinely so good! Looking forward to more!
The corner decorations are so cute and fit each other's aesthetic!!
Why is this like ASMR? They both have the most soothing voices.
wine about it and fear& are the only podcasts i keep up with anymore and i won’t lie… i think this one is getting added to the rotation. im actually really sad that there isn’t a backlog to binge
IM SO HAPPYYYY!!!
THIS IS THE BEST THING EVER
Honestly this just feels like I’m on face time with friends, it’s so enjoyable to listen to
1:21:06 I honestly think its the cultural difference (french/korean). I love it its so fun
I never knew I needed this so bad, I'm so invested 😭
Yipppeeee !!! Cant wait for more love it so much ❤
I loved this! I usually have trouble listening through a whole podcast in one sitting but I was locked in for this one. Can't wait to hear more!
Such a great duo!! 🫶🏼
47:02 for anyone out of the loop of that, the person she was talking about was Alinity
Hii poki, hii Lily, I just wanted to say thank you for giving me something to look forward to every week from now on. I've been a fan of y'all since wayyy back when the entire og OTV were still streaming league tgt. So this podcast is def giving nostalgia that just hits differently.❤️❤️❤️
I hope all your upcoming podcasts will always be fun to film.
this actually makes me so happy!! i love your energy together, ever since the spicy noodles video i enjoyed you both just talking :) can't wait for the next week episode :D
Literally just reminds me of me and my best friend i love these vibes omg
Lily doesn't sleep on short kings. She sleeps with one.
This might be the first time im watching/listening to an entire podcast
I love this so muuuch, the chemistry they have is crazy, for real 2 of my favorite content creators personality wise, couldnt help but smile all the way through❤
I hope y'all clip Poki talking about the economy bc that was life changing. "Demand and... what was the other one called?" 😂👍
i am fucking OBSESSED truly hope this podcast continues as long as possible, i love this duo so much🫶🏼
This makes me so happy and the vibes are ~immaculate~, very demure, very modest. Honestly feels like I'm with the girlies sipping tea as they yap about life, it's amazing
This was awesome 😎 I’m adding this to my weekly routine ❤ Poki sticking to her guns of honesty is so sweet but also low key insane 😂 I was cackling the whole time
Adding to my list of podcasts ❤