Payakap to All of You !!!! ❤❤❤ Someone here requested for a Part 2 of Our story . Well, TULOY ang buhay whenever may BUBOG . We AIM to THRIVE and not merely survive . We have so much Love to Give - so PUSH !❤❤❤. LIVE LOVE and LAUGH . Eat Pray Love Sleep Eat Move LOVE Palaging may LOVE !!!! ❤❤❤❤❤ Be ready for the part 2 . HOPE .
Ms. B, If you have chance and time try to visit Padre Pio National Shrine here in Sto.Tomas Batangas! Pray, hope & don’t worry! ❤ Thank u for sharing your fertility journey.
Miss B, my husbands pamangkin here in the US may endometriosis, it took them 3 years nagkababy. They found a very good doctor here malapit dito samin and they went through IVF, first attempt buntis agad. She had the panganay at 39 yrs old and they did another IVF last year and have another girl. Even her bff who had 7 miscarriages, got pregnant right away. They found this doctor who is way cheaper than any other fertility doctors here.
Sending love and prayers to this difficult journey with your husband. I understand this journey. You are brave that you're able to do this together this far with this treatment. God is in charge in all of this. Just disregard those people that doesn't help at all. Whatever would it be, the important is you and your husband are this together with Faith. God bless.🙏🙏🙏
Hello po! Overwhelming po ang prayers and Support ninyo ! Am i brave . Natakot din ako to share but during my prayer i read the Bible verse ( sa dulo ). Let us continue to encourage and PRAY For each other . Every day is a miracle . Thank YOU for being mine Today 🙏 Thank You For your prayers ! I Pray For You ! And pagdasal natin lahat Ng may bubog ❤❤❤
Hi po sissy Bernadette. We waited 14yrs po bago po ako napreggy. Salamat po ke God at sa nag hilot skn na kapitbahay ko po dito sa Pasig ❤ God is good po and dont lose hope po. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Sorry to hear na walang nabuo. I can relate on your situation po my endometriosis then po ako then the Doctor suggested to do IVF on our last can Doctor found a fibroid. So I saw a gynaecologist and suggested I need hysteroscooy and biopsy. So I have that done then MRI scan and they will decide to do a surgery before transferring the embryo. Happy for you and your husband and the fury baby. ❤️❤️❤️
I really feel the pain nung sinabi niya na masakit pag tinatanong bat wala pang anak 😢 moral lesson to people to be more compassionate and sensitive when asking questions to people na trying to concieve. You dont know their struggles and pain
Same here, hurtful, or sabihin pa bakit ayaw mong mag anak? Sarap jombagin. I had 1 failed ivf too.. yung ipon namin napunta don. So depressing talaga.
16 yrs of waiting kami Ms. B, gone through a lot also with 8 OB Gynes, napagod na din ang katawan ko sa mga tests.. tumaas na din ang tolerance ko sa pain coz all i wanted is to have a child.. at wala naman makitang abnormalities or cysts..i had 1 miscarriage kaya nandun ang hope na magbubuntis pa ako. Finally, after early retirement from work, i conceived normally without any medical help @42 y.o. Our son is now 15 yrs. old and will celebrate our 31st yr Wedding Anniv on Oct. 3. I will include you in my prayers🙏.. nandyan SYA palagi, in HIS time😇God bless you❤
Sa lahat ng babaeng may pinagdadaanang hirap sa pagbubuntis.. isang matinding yakap para sa inyo.. naway haplusin ng dyos ang mga sinapupunan at puso nyo.. grabe saludo ako sa inyong mag asawa.. talagang ginawa nyo ang lahat para magka anak.. kung mtuloy man po ang surrogacy.. ndi man ikaw ang magdala sa sinapupunan.. ndi yan kabawasan sau bilang isang babae.. sana po maging successful ang last embryo nyo..
Isa dn ako doon 18 married wala dn akong anak ok pa rn kami ng asawa k masakit n walang anak na kaya k naman bumuhay yng iba nga maraming anak hnde naman kaya buhayn
Unfair tlga ang mundo yong mga tao na kayang magpamilya hirap magkaroon ng anak. Pero yong hirap magpakain ng maraming anak ang bilis manganak haist. Still thankful kasi nabigyan ako ng isang anak kahit from day 1 hanggang sa panganganak ko ay kalbaryo ang pinagdaanan ko . Praying for you madam in God's will mabiyayaan kayo ng babies. 🙏
Brought me to tears...I'm turning 36 now. Going 6 years of being married. It's very frustrating.Honestly. Its hurting especially when they ask you "d ka parin buntis?". We're still trying..Prayers to all woman who is feeling the same way.This video is very helpful..Thank you for sharing.
same here po..im 37 na this coming april..i have a 14 y.o daughter but until now di parin sya nasusundan..i dont know why..wlaa po kasi extra budget para makapagpa check up sa ob
Hindi lahat pwedeng maging ina,pero hindi lahat nagkaroon din ng mabuti at mapagmahal na asawa. you are still blessed miss B that you have each other,your asawa loves you so much.
You're blessed with a good loving asawa, as you addressed him so if God will bless you with another child that will be a great, wonderful gift from HIM🙏
I am a nurse myself, but I will attest here that it is not a joke what a woman or an aspiring mother to go through fertility process. It is very exhausting for the patient physically, emotionally and financially, specially for those who tried the process then failed, then tried and failed. It is really heart breaking and painstaking for the woman who is really hoping and expecting for at least a child. It is very evident that Ms Bernadette went through countless blood tests, injections, scans, etc. Thanks Ms Bernadette for sharing your story and journey courageously. You are empowering other women not to give up in praying and hoping for God's blessings in God's perfect timing. I believe many women are facing the same issues today.
Your right po talaga maam😢..I'm so sad watching the story of Ma'am Bernadette ..coz we are praying to the Lord to have a baby too...we're 3 yrs in marriage already and I'm 40yrs old now..but still I'm thankful to God that my husband encourages me not to be discourage .that's why am so touch by the story and what you have told..Sana ipagkaloob pa ni God ang aming hiling.God bless u po
@@lizgratesimplemixvlog..kung mjo npaaga po kya ung pagpursige nya to have a baby...possible nagkaron pa c mam b khit isa? Tanong po ung sa akin mam...wla po mlisya
@@miragonzales6060 kahit at 20s or early 30s pa mag try si Mam Bernadette kung noon palang may problem na same scenario parin pagdadaanan niya po talaga... madami na akong friends na may mga issues din pero mga bata pa, kapatid ko rin nagtatry wala pa syang 30s dami rin niya issues.. wala po sa edad issues ng mga babae ang mga sakit natin sa Ovary na karamihan di naman natin ginusto..kahit healthy lifetstyle kapa. kaya mahirap talaga maging babae rin..lalo na kung married kana at gusto niyo magka anak tapos hindi madali.💔
I have a son and he's 21 yrs old ryt now. I'm already 45 yrs old and my wife is 44. I'm still wanting to have one pa sana. But when I watch your video I prayed to God na siguro okay na ung anak ko. And yung dinadasal kong another child is sa inyo na lang ibigay because you really deserve it. I will include you and your husband in my prayer na sana magka anak na kayo. GOD Bless po Mam.
Can you imagine the struggle of this couple super draining, tapos tatanungin ka ng mga tao "Bat wala ka pa anak". People need to stop asking those stupid questions and should start saying "I'll pray for you".
I can relate to you Ms. B. Ang dami ko ding naging struggles before ako magkababy. I have same problem with you ung blocked fallopian tube both sides so i thought i can’t get pregnant normally. I had an operation ung parang clinear ung isang side ng tube ko coz the other side was totally blocked kaya no chance, but God is so good to us. I was preparing already for In Vitro pero nung hinihintay ko ung Menstrual period ko para mastart na ung procedure, God gave us already the chance to become a parents and i was very happy when i saw the two lines in PT but then after 6wks i bled then i was really depressed after waiting for so long, di pa pala yun para samen but everytime we wanted to try IVF again then suddenly i became pregnant normally again after 1 1/2 mos of my miscarriage. It was the greatest blessings that we received this year 2023 i gave birth to my beautiful baby and she’s turning 8 mos in Sep 15. I hope and pray for all the people who struggling to have babies coz i now the exact feeling. Sana maging successful po ung procedure nyo. I pray for the best for you & your husband. 💕
Hi Bernadette, I rarely leave comments in YT but somehow your vlog came upon my attention. I was in your shoes 21 yrs ago. Our infertility journey was 8 long years. I was diagnosed with PCOS, had myomas, a fibroid and endometriosis. Not only that, my husband is also suffering from low sperm count. Probably from the physical stress of his ulcerative colitis. After 3 cycles of hormone treatments in preparation for the sperm wash program and intrauterine insemination (or assisted insemination) I got pregnant. Only it was a blighted ovum, which was terminated via methotrexate. It was devastating. That almost sealed it for us. There were also mounting pressures from those around us to just quit and accept our fate. Though that experience crushed us, we decided to give it another go. Along with the hormones that I inject myself, I was also taking metformin and low dose aspirin. After 3 mos, I finally got pregnant. Our son is now in college. More than 2 yrs after giving birth to him, we decided to try our luck again. I was given six mos to prepare myself, physically and emotionally for another round/s of hormone treatments. But guess what? Even before the 6 mos were up, I got pregnant again. Our daughter is now turning 18 this October. I know its very daunting, exhausting and almost seemingly hopeless. But there is faith. A year before we had our son, I took up crocheting. I created booties, baby buntings, and even blankets. For me, it was my way of making myself believe it will happen. A baby will be wearing my creations. And it did. I shall pray your journey will end with a bundle of joy in your arms!
I got married at the age of 21, 2 miscarriages, 30 years old na byoda ako. At 39 years old nagka boyfriend, and god is so good, nabuntis ako at 39 years old, now im 41 and may son is 2 years old. Ang ginawa ko sinurender ko na lahat kay god kung ano man ang para sakin. At naniwala ako na, e gigive ni god sa perfect time lahat na na e pray mo. Kaya keep on praying lang po and gods perfect time ur prayers will b granted. ❤❤❤❤
Iba- iba talaga journey nating mga babae bilang asawa..I realized I am so blessed that after 3 miscarriages..after 6.5 of waiting...Nabiyayaan din ako ng 2 anak..5 yrs.apart.Yung ginawa mo Mam Bernadette sa Manila Doctors ay pinagdaanan ko rin..Dun din ako nagpagamot noon..Kay Dr.Lim naman ..kasabay ko nun si Ms.Sharon Cuneta..kay Frankie..Mahal ang gamutan na yan..Kaya huminto rin ako dahil naubos na savings namin..Pero lam mo.dinaan ko sa dasal at kung ano anong sakripisyo..And finally...without my knowing sa una e buntis na pala ako...at after 5 yrs..binigyan uli ako..At ang pinaka sorpresa sa akin ay ..I had a normal pregnancy....then..kahit CS silang dalawa ay napakabuti ng Lord sa buhay ko.37 at 42 ako nun..Miracle babies ..yun tawag ng OB ko dahil nabuntis ako ng normal kahit alam nya ang case ko..Thanks be yo God😭😭😭
We have been married for 13 years and like you wala pa din kaming anak. But my husband and I agreed that we are ok and happy. Ang anak ay bonus. Let us continue trusting the Lord for His grace is always sufficient in our weakness. Mahigpit na yakap Ms Bernadette from another Bernadeth❤
Oh sa tagal nyo na po na 13 Or 14 years na wala pa anak God’s will be done. Continue to be faithful. Maybe He allows things for redirection. …. To test our faith na kahit meron o wala we worship amd honor our Lord God. ….. or you will become a blesaing to parent a deserving orphan. Orphan means wala nang parents. Namatayan ng magulang o may relatives pa sila pero yun mentorship and inconsitional love bilang parents ikaw panga ng makpahprovide. God will move po if lahat ng ways ay ginawa mo na let God’s auper natural ways and redirecting ways according to His will prevail …. ….
Hello Ms. Bernadette! You had exactly the same condition with my wife, we are married for more than 16 years now, unfortunately we are not blessed with kids. My wife had an Endometriosis in 2007 after we got married. And in 2012 she undergone surgery due to ovarian cyst, so they removed her right ovary. And they discovered that her Fallopian tubes are blocked. In 2015, we tried IVF, but it is not successful. In 2018, she had her 2nd surgery due to multiple mayoma. And in 2021, during pandemic, She undergone her 3rd surgery, TABISO or removal of all her reproductive organs. According to our OB, her uterus is already swollen and has cancer cells already, so they need to remove it. She is only 41 years old during this time. Now we are very thankful because we are still blessed with so many things, we are living our life to the fullest, enjoyed traveling together and creating memories. I salute and love my Wife so much for surpassing all her trials.
Waited for my twin boys for 15 long years via IVF.. #ivfsuccess.. to all couples who are still waiting for their miracle to happen my prayers are with you 🙏
3 years of trying na po kami ng asawa ko na makabuo ng baby,ngayon lang sobra din ang pain na naramdaman ko umabot narin po sa point na inaaway ko na ang asawa ko,why is this happening to us. But then napanood ko po itong vlog mo po na ito Ms Bernadette 😢 despite of everything hindi kayo nawalan ng pag asa ni asawa. Napaka strong mo po mam. Ramdam ko po yong pagiging strong and brave mo kahit disappointed kana po sa mga results ng test. Big hug po sa ating mga TTC women. Pls. pray for us din po ❤😢🙏☝️
I salute you Ms.B for sharing your journey, "Childlessness does not define you as a person; it is simply a part of your life story.” “Do not let infertility or childlessness overshadow your achievements, talents, and worth as a person.”
❤ 15yrs married and 25 yrs together and wla din po kaming anak ng husband ko. i have pcos and hanggang pills lang to correct my hormones.. we dont have means financially in doing fertility and infertility test, so hanggang pangarap na lang yung magka baby.. I hope not having children will not make us less worthy😢 nkaka inspire yung ganitong vlogs❤❤
PCOS is not the reason. A lot of women with PCOS have children. Try glutathione-high dose, CoQ10, Folic Acid. Do fasting 16-18 hours a day. Dont lose hope.
Yun n nga ung problema nting walang pera.. pra mag under go ng ganitong procedure mahal di ntin kaya.. 25 years n ko walang anak.. hirap sa isip at puso.. hanggang pangarap na lng at dasal sa dyos.. miracle na lng pag asa ntin.
Ate B. 19 years na po kami ng asawa ko, sad to say 3 beses po ako nabuntis tapos nagtataka po ako bakit malaglag po ang baby ko kaya pala may pcos po ako e ngayon naging myoma na kaya hindi kumapit ang baby till now hndi na po ako nabuntis pero accept na namin yon ang plan cguro ni god, para sa amin pro hndi parin kmi mawalan ng pag asa ❤
I’m praying for you I know what you’ve been through. I had an ivf but wasn’t successful then after 5 years I got pregnant naturally but was an ectopic so I lost my one fallopian tube as it burst during my operation. After 18 months I never expect I get pregnant again naturally and now I’m 9 weeks pregnant at age 41 and so far everything is so good and I’m praying and never stop thanking GOd
20 years with my husband. Waited for 15 yrs I finally get pregnant but my baby died after 3 months due to premature delivery at 6 months. Please don't lose hope. I am also on my 40s and still positive of having a child
relate po tlaga ako sa inyo maam Bernadette mahirap po tlaga umasa lalo nat may edad na tau,Ako nga po 34 yrs old na nag asawa at pinapalangin ko po nun palage na magbubuntis na ako dahil medyo matagal na kaming nagsama ng mister ko,Ginagawa ko po nun nagsimba lang po ako sa quiapo at humalik ako ky poong nazareno at pinahid ko ung panyo ko sa paanan nya at syang pinahid ko po sa tyan ko,sabay wish na sana mabiyayaan ako ng isang supling,isang pagkakataon po nagpunta din po akong Saint clair bumili po ako ng itlog at nag alay po kami dun at nagsimba,at naghulog po kami dun ng isang papel at nagwish na sana bigyan kami ng kahit isang supling,God is good po tlaga dininig ng panginoon mga panalangin ko,..ngaun po may anak na kami 3 yrs old boy..Thank u Lord❤
..our prayers, to both at sa lahat ng nahihirapan magkaanak..don't lose hope.. gawin niyo lang all the advises... Sana Lord, yakapin mo itong mag asawa & their desire to have bb..☺️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
Don’t lose hope, I have endometriosis too and 6 OBs said only IVF can make me pregnant, but I became pregnant and I already gave birth to a healthy baby boy ❤️
I hope me too maam..sana maging successful din ang ivf ko..marami din kasi problem ang matres ko..yesterday sana naka sched na ako for cys aspiration pero out of the country ang ob ko.
Heart warming story, 13 years of marriage and also we don't given a chance to have a child. Recently got total hysterectomy surgery because of my endometriosis and ademayosis. Both my husband and I accept our fate and move forward . I always thanks to God that I have blessed with loving and supported husband ❤️. Huge hug🙏❤️
Same tayo 13 years of marriage wala kaming anak pero ok lang naman saaming mag asawa na walang anak marami nga diyan may mga anak pero tumanda na nag iisa at iba nag aalaga bonus nalang yung may mga anak na mag aalaga sa mga magulang pag tanda dahil may mga sarili na silang pamilya.yung iba naman sa halip na umaba pa ang buhay napaaga dahil sa inaaway ng anak .pero kung magkakaanak naman palakihin ng mabuti na may takot sa Dios.
Sana ganyan ang live in partner ko kaso gusto nya talaga magkaanak kasi lagi kaming LDR kasi nasa abroad ako lagi. Yan ang pinag aawayan namin ang magkaanak. Lgi nya akong iniinsulto kasi dw baog dw ako eh wla pa nga sya nakapagpacheck up at ako nakapatingin na akong ng OB dati healthy naman dw matres ko. Ang sya lng kasi ngapapa inject sya ng knya baka nasira na.. bahala sya sa buhay nya kung maghahanap man sya ng iba total d naman kami kasal. Ipapasa Diyos ko nalng lahat. Tanggapin ang katotohanan my anak man o wala bsta masaya lng buhay
Loves u Mam Bernadette. Sayang tlaga 'coz u have a very loving n responsible hubby but wat matters most is that u truly love each other. May God bless u both even just once. U deserved it. I' m 63 now n have 5 blessing kids. They're all professionals n still loving n taking care f me. Am a widow for 8 years now. Just be happy n thank GOD always. Am an ofizmate f Mario Dumaual wayback 1980's. Shippibg cya n me s brokerage firm. Trans Orient Shipping.
Bakit po kailangan mo mag total hysterectomy. Ano po ba symptoms mo? Gusto ko lang Po mag share ng experience ko sayo. I am also advised by my doctor to have it, but I declined. Pero in my case marami po akong anak. Since I had my first period in my teens I always had very painful cramps, and I would also get so weak and would throw up. I would explain to my mom and female siblings, but no one really tend to understand or get what was I talking about dahil sila never have anything like mine maybe just headaches here and there when they have there period. I have skipped normally 3-4months, but a couple times I skipped about 10 months. I don't know when will I get it because there is no exact pattern and that how irregular I was. So growing up I know there was something wrong, and I suspected that I was not able to have children, but not confirmed until I asked my doctor. She said that normally that's the case I either have a very hard time conceiving or I can't get pregnant, but for obvious reasons it is not true to me because I was able to have many children. But in my opinion as soon as you have one it is easier for your body to have more. I was not diagnosed for such a long time because I want to talk about reproductive stuff because of embarrassment. My period pain was worst than giving birth naturally without the help of any pain relievers or painkillers. In a scale 1-10 giving birth was 4/10 but my period pain was at least 9-10/10 normally and sometimes no words to expressed. I told my husband that I can give birth 12 times and it would not bother me because it was a piece of cake.
A fellow infertility warrior and ivf survivor here. Its a special kind of hell on earth.. but I hope you have all the love and support you need during this time. My journey ended with a miracle and im sending you baby dust hoping you get yours too. All the best❤
Yung iyak ako ng iyak habang nanunuod nito. I understand the struggles Ms. Bernadette. I’m lucky that my husband supports me all the time! God is good all the time! All the time God is good!
Still reading your Messages , and your Stories . PRAYING for YOU all. To those who are in this journey - I urge You to read the sharing of other couples ❤ I am encouraging couples to get checked , for women out to take Care of your Body. And Pray for Miracles !!! A Miracle Can take many forms ha . Bless all our hearts and our marriage ❤❤❤ praying That we be OPEN to God’s UNIQUE Plan in Our lives !
Hi Bernadette. Thank you for sharing your fertility journey. It's so moving... I was crying while watching this because it reminded me of my own fertility journey. I really pray that all will be well with you. Please try to see Dr. Violeta Celis of Asian Hospital and Medical Center. I was my fertility doctor. I feel something better is about to happen 🙏🙏🙏
We pray for your hearts Ms. Bernadette. I am glad that despite of being in this situation, you have found a wonderful and selfless partner. Infertility has been our challenge too, we have been trying for 3 yrs before we were gifted our first born. However, we lost him few days before I was supposedly induced. It's only been several weeks for us, but we will continue to heal, pray and later on try again. I hope more people would be kinder and open about this hurtful challenge. Perhaps, your little Molly have already met my boy Raizen in heaven.
😢 me too gusto korin mag pa consult about my situation kase po ang sakit kapag nasasabihan na bat ang tagal niyo na mag asawa pero wala parin kayung anak😢. Sana po matulungan niyo rin po ako.
15 yrs together and married kami ng hubby ko, wala parin kaming supling pero we’re stronger ever parin. Kung iibibigay welcome if hindi naman salamat parin. I am with you in your journey. Masakit pero need tanggapin para sa kapayapaan ng puso’t isipan. God bless you both ❤
Sending hugs and prayers to all of us who are struggling to have kids. This journey is never easy and no one can measure the physical, financial, emotional roller-coaster ride in this journey. I am 40 now and currently on my 8th IVF cycle. Hubby and I have been trying to conceive for 9 years. God bless to all of us🙏🙏❤️❤️
I know how you feel po Ma’am Bernadette. It took almost 15 years before ako nagkababy. I had PCOS kase kaya nahirapan din mag conceive at ilang hospital/Doctors pinuntahan to get help. Please don’t lose hope. Miracles do come true. Have faith in God🙏❤️ Prior my IVF procedure, I went to “ Birhen Manaoag.” (Pangasinan) umiyak sa kanya, nagtirik ng kandila at nagdasal ng taimtim. After couple of months, God granted my prayers po. Thank you Lord❤️ And a year after that, didn’t expect na magkababy pa ako natural way of pregnancy. Now I have 3 years old daughter & 1 year old son. We are so lucky din kase very supportive mga asawa natin. Praying for your journey po. May God be with you always. I’ll share you my favorite bible verse po. Matthew 7:7
Parang dinurog yun puso ko syu kasi kahit di kita kilala i can feel how beautiful your heart is sana mabigyan ka ni lord ng baby akhit trough surogacy.❤
I feel you talaga maam. Mas malala pa sakin.. 7yrs kong e na antay mag ka baby.. Binigay nman ni God sakin I got pregnant pero nag ka miscarriage pa dn ako hndi daw lumaki fetus .. Another stress na nman another pain. After 1 year from my miscarriage na buntis ulit ako. Nakunan na naman.. I been through a lot of pain physical and emotional yong iisipen mo lahat ang sakit2 na hndi ko nman cguro deserve.. Dn I got pregnant again running 3 months.. Akala ko yon na ang saya saya ko, pero ang saya nag stop the last check up ko parang sinakluban ako ng langit.. Pregnant dw ako pero walang baby na buhay sa loob. Dba ang sakit2 sa puso.. The pain the stress I been going through that time Doble. Until now kong ma alala ko lahat yong nangyari sakin na iiyak ako ng sobra.. Kaya I feel you maam.. Just pray pa rin po & stay strong. God will make a way for everything.
Hi ma'am hindi man kita kilala personally pero i will include you po with my prayers ❤️ thank you for this video po and yuong courage na meron kayo sa pag share ng video na ito. I hope na dinggin ng panginoon ang panalangin at bigyan kayo ng isang anghel sa buhay nyo pong magasawa. ❤❤❤❤❤
News Anchor ng TV Patrol si Ma'am Bernadette kabayan. Napakabait, very humble na tao kaya deserve niya ang mabiyayaan ng anak. I will join you in praying for her and her hubby🙏
Ms.Bernadette naiyak ako s story m😥lahat ng bagay may dhilan,ang mhalaga sinubukan nyo lhat ng way para mag kaanak at hnd nyo sinukuan❤❤ang Panginoon marunong yan basta wag k lng bibitaw,issama ko kaung mag aswa s Dasal ko,hhilingin ntin yan s Ina ng Awa,Godbless u wag kaung ssuko❤❤🥰🥰
Kaya nyo po yan ako po 35 yrs old nung nanganak sa 1st baby ko then 38 sa 2nd baby ko yung friend ko early 40s nagkaron din po ng isang anak...pray lng po...yn po pray ko na mgkababy every time pupunta ako sa church n first time kong pinuntahan.yung bago ako pumasok sa church ngwiwish n po ako...thank you Lord 🙏🙏🙏
😭😭😭 i feel you Ms B… been trying to get pregnant for 13 yrs. 2 failed IVF. Im 40 yrs old now and trying our last attempt with natural 3 cycles. My first cycle got terminated at day 5, and now they took only one egg on my 2nd cycle. Praying the embryos to survive. ❤❤❤
I can so relate to your story Ms. Bernadette. You and your husband are doing a great job. I will pray for your journey. I went to that journey before I had our miracle rainbow baby after 12years of marriage (he is 2yo now, Praise God). Went to several doctors too , underwent RID tests and treatments, went to St Francis weekly for treatments and prayed hard that God will continue to lead us to the right people who can bring us to His plans whether a baby or whatever He wants us as husband and wife. I was crying hard watching your vlog as it brought me back to everything we went through. And I know God will give the desires of your heart soon. Just keep that faith. Hold on to that faith, and do your part and God will do the rest. Hugs and kisses to you 🤗😘
Hi Ms. B! I want to commend you for having the courage to share your story. We've been trying to conceive for 13 long years already. Ang dami naming pinagdaanan until I found out that I am in pre-menopousal stage at the age of 37. It was the most painful thing I've ever heard from our infertility doctor saying that having a child in our case is impossible since my husband too has a low sperm count. Now we are still happily married and living our dreams in Canada. May lungkot paminsan minsan pero pinili naming maging masaya for as long we have each other and with God as the center of our relationship. God bless you and ur asawa!
Hello ma'am. Just wanna share my story po. I was 37 when I got pregnant. Matagal din kasi before naging ready si husband for a baby, so I waited for him. Nung sinabi nya out of nowhere magbaby na raw kami, I was so happy. But then reality strucked me, at age 37 egg production drastically declines. Not only that, yung quality ng egg are not as good as sa mga younger females. So we tried. after the first 3 months I became frustrated. Every night umiiyak ako. And I realized what went wrong was that my ovulation at 36-37 years old came early at 10th-11th day of my cycle monthly (it should be on the 14th day of 28 day cycle or 16th day of 30 day cycle). So yung eggs na yun apparently are immature at hindi maganda ang quality. Bukod doon, mentally and physically stressful ang work ko. 7 months more of trying, I ate a lot of omega rich foods and folate rich foods. Supplements. Tried to avoid stress. I was actually really frustrated and angry and losing hope. Then after 10 months of trying, my PT came out positive! I gave birth at 38 years old. My daughter is 17 months now. I hope we can have another 1, fingers crossed. I'm praying for every couple who are trying to finally conceive one day.
@@xtinm.9002 sa ovulation po usually in a 28-day cycle, day 14 ang ovulation. Kapag 30-day cycle, around day 16 ang ovulation. In those days, maganda ang quality ng egg cells kasi matured na. Kapag nag ovulate ka earlier than that, chances are hindi pa maganda ang quality ng egg cell Kaya it may or may not be fertilized. Kumbaga sa fruit, alanganin pa.
I just had a surgery recently bilateral salpingectomy because both of my tubes are blocked i was heartbroken. Our only way to get pregnant now is thru IVF. To all the women who are going through infertility kaya naten 'to!!! May pag-asa pa mhiii...❤❤❤
As i am getting older. To be honest ang skit tlga ung tatanungin ka ng "kylan ka mgbubuntis? " we also experience it. Atleast coming from you na kilala amin na kilalang tao same ng senario. But now lets spread the word. Na keep on being positive . And think about god has better plan among our plans. ❤❤
Dont give up. I'm a nurse and can relate 100% on your story coz we have the same. Im older than you now i have healthy boy. I tried everything and did not give up.
I feel you Miss Bernadette, I went to KATO too, last year, i tried IUI, 4× unsuccessful, I am in my early 40's... I only cling to God to give me and hubby a miracke baby.😢🙏 Never lose hope🙏
This vlog brought tears to my eyes..kung sino pa yung willing magkaanak sila pa yung deprived. I will be praying g for you and your husband. Don't pressure yourself, in God's time darating din ang inaasam asam ninyo..love you,guys!
My greatest failure as a Woman and a wife, Ma'am Bernadette, is not being able to conceive, but my husband constantly reassures me that we are going to be alright. With or without a child, things are still good. We're still trying, and your story gives me even more hope. I gave it all to the Lord. Many thanks po! Cheers to our Bubogs and I know it will all be worth the pain❤
Dr. Manalo is really one of the best po! I’ve worked with her almost 2 decades ago as a newby nurse and assisted in some of the miracles! Life is full of surprises, God always has a perfect time! You’ll never know when it will happen, God has a plan 🙏
Lumipat kami sa Kato Clinic after 5 failed attempt sa ibang clinic sa awa ng Diyos may twins kami now ;) pregnant kami with Twins ❤ sa unang attempt namin with the help of Doc. Perillo of Kato Clinic @Bernadettesembranochannel
Nakakainspire ka po ate B❤️❤️kami po ni asawa ko po 21 years ng married at wala pa ding anak pero hindi po sya naging hadlang para hindi maging masaya ang aming buhay bagkus mas lalo pa kaming tumibay dahil dito❤️❤️🤗🤗Hindi lang sa pagkakaroon ng anak masasabing magiging kumpleto ang mag asawa basta masaya at kuntento kayo sa isa't isa ay magiging masaya ang Buhay..... Keep Smiling Ate B🤗🤗
This vlog is close to home.we also went thru in vitro .all my tests were ok but my husband wasn't. I was already 37 years old when we tried IVF,but failed.the process was painful,but more on the emotional part.with all the hormones injected to me,I experienced mood swings. my husband was so sad when the IVF failed but I told him that I married him because I love him and not for anything else.we may not have kids,but its enough that we have each other.thank you miss B for sharing your story.not all women can have kids,so other people should be sensitive enough to stop asking why others can't have one.Good luck and God bless you miss B.🙏🙏🙏
I was compelled to take a moment to pray for your healing and journey Ms. Bernadette. You are a good person. God knows your pain and will heal you in Jesus’ Name.
Magkakaanak kayo at hindi lang isa, i will pray for you. Be ready kasi its a surprise. I prayed for Pauline Sotto and Kris Bernal...soon ikaw naman. Wait lang tayo kasi GOD is good. I know the feeling. Ako din ay halos maubos ang tubig ko sa katawan noon kakaiyak but God heard my plea. Dont lose hope
Hindi nasusukat ang pagiging ina or ama sa pagkakaron ng anak. Mam Bernadette wala pa man po kayong anak pero kayo po ng husband mo ay isang inspirasyon sa maraming pamilya. We are here praying for you.God bless po.
I know how you feel Ms. B. I’ve been in your place more than 20 years ago. Had 5 miscarriages and my 6th became our blessing, now our son is 22 years old. I went through all the medical and laboratory exams that you went through. Immunotherapy and all. Injections everyday for nine months when I was pregnant and a lot more laboratory exams through out the term. Blessedly we were cared for by our OB Dr. Efren Domingo (who is a reproductive immunologist too). I am touched by your braveness and faith. Just keep on believing and our dear GOD always bless us with what will be better for us as a person and as a family. Thanks for sharing your story, this will help other women be informed of what other options and medical treatments they can have if they are facing the same challenges and situations. May our dear GOD bless you and your family always 🙏
I cried watching this video. My wife and I lost our 2nd child last year and sobrang sakit. Watching your video po makes me thankful din for what we have. You both inspire us po and I pray God to bless you because you deserve it. Sending our love ... Leo & Aiko
Former VM Orange Aguinaldo is a great husband. You and him are a great pair because you are both loving, humble, caring and nurturing. Your journey together is full of blessings. Stay happy as a couple for you have inspired a lot of couples too with your inspiring story. God bless you, always. 🐬🍀🙏🌟🎋🌾🦄🎎
Naiyak ako grabe😢😢😢..sobrang relate ako ako sa mga pinagdaanan mo..me and my asawa 7 yrs kme kme trying to conceive a baby..Ang bait Ng asawa mo..grabe ung support ❤❤❤.. through God's miracle..mgkakaroon din Ng bunga ang lahat Ng hirap at sakit..madaming luha man at kabiguan ang meron tayo ngaun..pasasaan bt malalampasan din🙏🙏🙏..laban lng Po tayo.❤❤❤
That got me, did I really tried hard enough? Now I'm going to make a goal to see a fertility doctor at 35. Thank you miss Bernadette. Keep inspiring people.
Pray lang Po ng pray, because God is good. In due time Po you might get what you really asking for. Just minimized stress and try your best to be healthy. Also Po being to skinny or overweight, messes up our hormones. Over working and over exercising can also cause hormonal imbalance. I know there are not much science and scientific studies about womens reproductive health, because women are not even included in any health studies until lately. I myself have suffered from hormonal imbalance all my life, and was never diagnosed. My doctor said that I should a hard time or should not be able to get pregnant if was to diagnose me when I to her all my symptoms, but I have children so it was not true for me. Now that I am older I still suffer from a lot of symptoms due to hormonal imbalance and my doctor told me that is should get hysterectomy, but I declined. We don't know wether God's answer is no or wait, sana Po wait. Mag ask Po Kaya na ipagpray kayo ng mga Mahal nyo sa buhay and your church. God bless you Po and give you what you heart is truly longing for
27 yrs of being together, just the 2 of us pa din but no regrets kahit sad but we understand. Just being happy and surrounded with people na very supportive to us.
I had an Endometriosis too Ms B, had it removed and told na di na mgkakaanak but after a year I got pregnant and she is turning 10 years old before the year ends. You will be a mother, I will pray for that day to happen. You are blessed in so many ways.Dont feel less bcoz you are more more❤
Thank you for this Miss Bernadette, naramdaman po namin hindi kami nagiisa at pinakita niyo po na dapat hindi kami mawalan ng pagasa. Sabi niyo nga po sa napanood kong interview niyo “It’s okay and it will be okay” ❤
Got married three years ago and few months ago I got diagnosed with endometriosis. I am taking hormones to help with painful period. I also have fear of not getting pregnant in the future. My husband is very understanding and we have decided to accept our fate, whether we become parents or not. 💗
I wish you both love and to have a happy and successful IVF… your story is very inspiring. I myself had infertility issue and now i’m 44 and we just had a successful IVF last June… God always give in HiS perfect time🙏 baby dust to you😘 you will be in my prayers
Im diagnosed with endometriosis. Had miscarriage (twins) but we keep on trying. Went through fertility work ups - sperm banking, IUI and countless ovulation pills. We paused and prayed so hard. Miraculously, after 6 yrs we got pregnant naturally and we have a healthy baby boy. Praying that you will receive your miracle. ❤
Hi Ms. Bernadette I would like sana to share my “infertility “ and “fertility” story with you. From middle east to US and finally here in Philippines. Anyway, don’t lose hope. Have faith and keep going. God is really good, all the time ❤️🙏🏻❤️ I’m 53 years old now with 3 kids. God can make impossible to possible. I will pray for you too 😇
Minsann kc nakakainis na , nakakadepress o nakakafrustrate yong mga tanong ng tao or ga kamag anak mo na., bakit hanggang ngayon wqlq pa rin kayo anak. Matagql na kayong kasal. Siguro daw ako ang baong or yong asawa ko daw ang my problema. Sabi ko my rndometriosis kasi ako. Pero hindi nan kc nila naintindihan kong ano yon. . Minsan nga kinukutua pa kami na mahina daw tpos sabay tawa. Ang sabi ko sa kanila para tumigil in Gods plan or in Gods time.
I have endometriosis, adenomyosis and pcos. Nag change po ako ng lifestyle during pandemic nag vegan po ako. Luckily i got pregnant po, and now i have 2 kids. Wag mawalan ng pag asa. Praying for u and ur hubby 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I have children, but your story....tumatagos sa puso. Praying for your last embryo na siya ang makatanggap lahat ng kalakasan. Para makita pa namin ang small bernadette na karugtong ng journey na ito. See you soon little bernadette your mom and dad deserves you.
I am also battling with endometriosis. Sobrang naiyak and naispire ako sa story mo Ms. B. Sobrang daming pinagdadaanan ng mga katulad natin. Physically, emotionally and mentally drained. We don’t have the financial ability para magpacheck up sa kato or even sa immunologist. Prayers and faith lang din talaga kinakapitan ko. Si Lord lang talaga ang nakakaalam ng lahat.
❤❤❤ I also went through those roller coaster emotions during my infertility treatment abroad. After 6 years of trying, we had our one and only miracle child. She's now 17 years old. I wish people particularly our relatives, will be more compassionate and considerate to all women who experience infertility issues. Please do not mock or make fun of their struggles✌️💞 God bless your family, Ms. Bernadette.
Naiiyak ako habang pinapanood. Kahit last year pa eto sana magkaanak kyo ma’am kahit isa lng twins na agad. God bless you both. I’m from Baguio but living in the US for years. Hugs from my family and God🙏🏻
Sa salamat doc ko napanood si Dr Rogelio Mendiola.kayo po mam ang nag interview.2013 ako nagpunta sa kanya.Salamat at nagkababy kam.Ang daming mga tests akala namin mag AI dahil yun ang advised pero alam mo God is so good.Nakabuo kami naturally..hindi ako nawalan ng pagasa that time.I pray na magkababy na po kayo❤
Just new to your channel, Ms. B. I'm not a mother, but I feel it hurts. What more to be in your place. 🥺 I can see your good heart. May God still continue to do miracles for you and your husband. Jesus loves you both. ❤ God will make a way when there seems to be no way. Our God is a miracle worker.
Sa Taiwan lang po May magaling na fertility hospital since 1985 pa naitayo. May mahigit 30k successful IVF’s. Last year 1.3k ang matagumpay na ipinanganak through IVF including me at 42yo. May 6 na myoma tinanggal bago ang implantation, bumalik ang myoma during pregnancy, mag 8 months na baby boy ko, may 6 embryos pa kami natitira so malamang aalisin ulit ang mayoma pag gusto ko ulit magkaaanak. Lee Women’s hospital, 39 countries ang nagpuounta dito. Madaming pinoy couple din ako nakikita. Malapit na mura pa. Naiyak ako sa video na ito, relate sobra.
Deserve nyo magka anak ni asawa mo bernadette mabait kayong mga magulang at mapagmahal...god pls hear my prayer para po sa mag asawa ni bernadette sana po triplets na ang maging baby nila..❤❤❤ in jesus name i pray..amen😊
Yes deserve nila magkaanak dahil mababait nga sila subalit may dahilan marahil ang Diyos kung bakit hindi pa sila pinagkakalooban.Ang sukatan naman ng pag ibig ng mag asawa ay hindi lamang sa may anak sila o wala..Ang halaga ng pagiging babae ay hindi lamang nasusukat din sa kakayahan ng pagsilang ng anak.Toxic din na ugali ng pilipino ay magtanong ng mga ganyang klase ng tanong.."kailan kayo mag aanak?" Bakit ayaw nyo pa mag anak?" Hello people! Pls be sensitive naman po sa mga pagtatanong.Isipin din na may mga bagay na masyadong personal na hindi na dapat pang itanong kahit pa gaano kaclose sa iyo ung tao...Naiirita lang ako sa mga ilang comments akala mo ganun kadali mag anak..Ayan sa mga Maritess,so alam nyo na ang dahilan?Gamitin din po ang braincells bago magtanong.
God bless your journey Miss B! Nothing is impossible with God.. 10 years din po bago kami biniyayaan. 3 years working out with an Infertility Doctor with no luck at all. Di nagmamature yung mga follicles ko despite medications. I just pray everyday and lay hands on my puson area that he will soon bless us with our greatest wish. And now, I have a 1 year old.. Keep chasing!
Miss Bernadette I feel your pain,I’ve been through yours but still He said it’s not time yet,leave it up to HIM feels better if you surrender,we can only do so much but there’s still someone up there who will decide.My husband and I were married for 27 years.we’ve been through the ups and downs of infertility.IUI,IVFs.we have 3 angels in heaven.I turned 50 this year.we’ve already accepted but still hoping for miracle.We started to adopt in the orphanage there in Philippines,(orphanage)we’re here in US been 2 years process is so slow.Still praying for HIS approval.but we surrender everything to HIM the Lord 🙏be a great mom to ur fur baby(mine just passed away 16 years hard ).Your not alone with your journey.God bless you and your husband keep the Love strong happy anniversary❤️
In God's perfect time Ms. Bernadeth ibibgay ni Lord hindi man sayo manggaling mas may magandang plano c Lord na ibibigay sayo 🙏🏻 Trust his time 🙏🏻🙏🏻 nag try din kami 1 embryo di rin naging succesful at dina naulit dahil wala ng perang gagamitin all my savings nung dalaga ako naubos na sa check up and all😭😭 and na stress po ako dahil di matanggap ng asawa ko kaya yun nagkaroon siya ng iba😭😭 but you know after 3 yrs may biglang dumating na anghel ng buhay ko she already 2 yrs old this coming Dec 8 regalo ni Mama Mary Immaculate ConCeption sa araw ng feast day niya dumating sa amin c Mariela ❤️ diman siya galing sa katawan ko pero higit pa yung saya, ligaya at pagmamahal ang binigay ni Lord sakin. Lahat ng pain na dinaanan ko stress at depression si baby Mariela lang ang nagbigay lunas ❤️❤️❤️super happy and blessed ako. Thank you God, thank you Mama Mary ❤️🙏🏻❤️.. Ms. Bernandeth God bless you po.
Naiyak ako sa part na umiyak ka Ms. Bernadette.Yung iba grabe ginagawa s baby.yung iba gustong gusto mabiyayaan.sana tlga bigay ni lord ang hiling nyo mag asawa 🙏
Wala ako masyado masabing advice. The pain of not being able to have a baby is not only physical and biological, but more on emotional, psychological, and for others even financial. It is so emotionally draining. I was in the same situation 14 years ago. I conceived via IVF, ny doctor was Dr. Greg Pastorfide. My daughter is now 14 years old. In my prayers, ang pinanghahawakan ko that time ay ang sinabi sa bible na walang baog . I told God, Sya lang ang nagbibigay buhay at maski ano pa ang situation ko, He just has to will it and i will conceive and have a baby. Don't lose faith, sa times when i lose faith or my faith falters, I ask God to help my faith. God bless you both. I hope you would soon have a baby.
It reminds me of my sister. Sya hirap ding magbuntis saka meron sya thyroid problem. Pero salamat sa Panginoon at finally nag buntis sya at take note tatlo na po anak nya ngayon sunod-sunod po sila tatlong lalaki hehe. Sobrang saya ko po sa kapatid ko. Sana po kahit wala po kayong baby stay happy parin po.❤❤❤
Im a single mom and thankful ako kht magisa God sustained me na maging matatag para sa anak ko watching this video mas lalo akong ngpasalamat sa Dyos na pinagkatiwala Nya saken ang isang buhay na masasabi kong anak dahil hindi lahat madaling magkaroon ng anak talagng proseso ang pinagdadaanan Ms.B mas lalo kang maging inspiration sa ibang kababaihan na nagbuntis pero pinapalaglag o kaya nmn paganak itatapon lang sa video ito makita nila na ung buhay na pinagkatiwala sa knila ay alagaan.Isang mahigpit na yakap Ms.B amd to your supportive husband...Godbless your family
Payakap to All of You !!!!
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Someone here requested for a Part 2 of Our story .
Well, TULOY ang buhay whenever may BUBOG . We AIM to THRIVE and not merely survive .
We have so much Love to Give - so PUSH !❤❤❤. LIVE LOVE and LAUGH .
Eat Pray Love
Sleep Eat Move LOVE
Palaging may LOVE !!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
Be ready for the part 2 . HOPE .
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Ms. B, If you have chance and time try to visit Padre Pio National Shrine here in Sto.Tomas Batangas! Pray, hope & don’t worry! ❤ Thank u for sharing your fertility journey.
Miss B, my husbands pamangkin here in the US may endometriosis, it took them 3 years nagkababy. They found a very good doctor here malapit dito samin and they went through IVF, first attempt buntis agad. She had the panganay at 39 yrs old and they did another IVF last year and have another girl. Even her bff who had 7 miscarriages, got pregnant right away. They found this doctor who is way cheaper than any other fertility doctors here.
Sending love and prayers to this difficult journey with your husband. I understand this journey. You are brave that you're able to do this together this far with this treatment. God is in charge in all of this. Just disregard those people that doesn't help at all.
Whatever would it be, the important is you and your husband are this together with Faith. God bless.🙏🙏🙏
Hello po! Overwhelming po ang prayers and Support ninyo ! Am i brave . Natakot din ako to share but during my prayer i read the Bible verse ( sa dulo ). Let us continue to encourage and PRAY For each other . Every day is a miracle . Thank YOU for being mine Today 🙏 Thank You For your prayers ! I Pray For You ! And pagdasal natin lahat Ng may bubog ❤❤❤
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All the best po. Si Lord bahala so kahit anong mangyare kalma lang
Hi po sissy Bernadette. We waited 14yrs po bago po ako napreggy. Salamat po ke God at sa nag hilot skn na kapitbahay ko po dito sa Pasig ❤ God is good po and dont lose hope po. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Sorry to hear na walang nabuo. I can relate on your situation po my endometriosis then po ako then the Doctor suggested to do IVF on our last can Doctor found a fibroid. So I saw a gynaecologist and suggested I need hysteroscooy and biopsy. So I have that done then MRI scan and they will decide to do a surgery before transferring the embryo.
Happy for you and your husband and the fury baby. ❤️❤️❤️
Lord Jesus, please open the womb of this woman and grant her with a healthy baby.. In Jesus' name, Amen
I really feel the pain nung sinabi niya na masakit pag tinatanong bat wala pang anak 😢 moral lesson to people to be more compassionate and sensitive when asking questions to people na trying to concieve. You dont know their struggles and pain
Relate much tapos sasabihan kang magbuo ka muna ng anak ng officemate . It really hurts!
Same here, hurtful, or sabihin pa bakit ayaw mong mag anak? Sarap jombagin. I had 1 failed ivf too.. yung ipon namin napunta don. So depressing talaga.
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16 yrs of waiting kami Ms. B, gone through a lot also with 8 OB Gynes, napagod na din ang katawan ko sa mga tests.. tumaas na din ang tolerance ko sa pain coz all i wanted is to have a child.. at wala naman makitang abnormalities or cysts..i had 1 miscarriage kaya nandun ang hope na magbubuntis pa ako. Finally, after early retirement from work, i conceived normally without any medical help @42 y.o. Our son is now 15 yrs. old and will celebrate our 31st yr Wedding Anniv on Oct. 3. I will include you in my prayers🙏.. nandyan SYA palagi, in HIS time😇God bless you❤
Sa lahat ng babaeng may pinagdadaanang hirap sa pagbubuntis.. isang matinding yakap para sa inyo.. naway haplusin ng dyos ang mga sinapupunan at puso nyo.. grabe saludo ako sa inyong mag asawa.. talagang ginawa nyo ang lahat para magka anak.. kung mtuloy man po ang surrogacy.. ndi man ikaw ang magdala sa sinapupunan.. ndi yan kabawasan sau bilang isang babae.. sana po maging successful ang last embryo nyo..
Amen.kaya ayaw kong magjudge ng madaming anak dahil pangarap ko yun
Thank u po ❤
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Isa dn ako doon 18 married wala dn akong anak ok pa rn kami ng asawa k masakit n walang anak na kaya k naman bumuhay yng iba nga maraming anak hnde naman kaya buhayn
Nkakaiyak..nag flashback lahat ng journey ko to fertility but failef.
Unfair tlga ang mundo yong mga tao na kayang magpamilya hirap magkaroon ng anak. Pero yong hirap magpakain ng maraming anak ang bilis manganak haist. Still thankful kasi nabigyan ako ng isang anak kahit from day 1 hanggang sa panganganak ko ay kalbaryo ang pinagdaanan ko . Praying for you madam in God's will mabiyayaan kayo ng babies. 🙏
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Kaya nga, just like Heart, hirap din magkaanak.
Brought me to tears...I'm turning 36 now. Going 6 years of being married. It's very frustrating.Honestly. Its hurting especially when they ask you "d ka parin buntis?". We're still trying..Prayers to all woman who is feeling the same way.This video is very helpful..Thank you for sharing.
Mabubuntis rin kayo.ako nabuntis 36 yrs old
Same here😭😭 im turning 36 next month and married for 7years yet wala pa ding anak😥😥
Same here 36 yrs old, 2019 nkunan until now trying prin 😢😢
same here po..im 37 na this coming april..i have a 14 y.o daughter but until now di parin sya nasusundan..i dont know why..wlaa po kasi extra budget para makapagpa check up sa ob
@@veronicaescobar1618gusto mo parin sundan sis? my daughter turned 10 na.. I dont know if dapat ko pa ba sundan since big na sya😢
Hindi lahat pwedeng maging ina,pero hindi lahat nagkaroon din ng mabuti at mapagmahal na asawa. you are still blessed miss B that you have each other,your asawa loves you so much.
Tama po. Aq dn hindi nabiyayaan ng anak, nakutya p ng mga kaanak ng ex q, masakit makarinig ng d maganda baog dw Kaya pinalitan ng iba😢
Nakunan siya dati.. Ang name ng baby niya ay Olivia.. Baby Molly ang nickname
You're blessed with a good loving asawa, as you addressed him so if God will bless you with another child that will be a great, wonderful gift from HIM🙏
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I love you Idol❤❤❤
I am a nurse myself, but I will attest here that it is not a joke what a woman or an aspiring mother to go through fertility process. It is very exhausting for the patient physically, emotionally and financially, specially for those who tried the process then failed, then tried and failed. It is really heart breaking and painstaking for the woman who is really hoping and expecting for at least a child. It is very evident that Ms Bernadette went through countless blood tests, injections, scans, etc.
Thanks Ms Bernadette for sharing your story and journey courageously. You are empowering other women not to give up in praying and hoping for God's blessings in God's perfect timing. I believe many women are facing the same issues today.
Your right po talaga maam😢..I'm so sad watching the story of Ma'am Bernadette ..coz we are praying to the Lord to have a baby too...we're 3 yrs in marriage already and I'm 40yrs old now..but still I'm thankful to God that my husband encourages me not to be discourage
.that's why am so touch by the story and what you have told..Sana ipagkaloob pa ni God ang aming hiling.God bless u po
@@lizgratesimplemixvlog..kung mjo npaaga po kya ung pagpursige nya to have a baby...possible nagkaron pa c mam b khit isa? Tanong po ung sa akin mam...wla po mlisya
@@miragonzales6060 kahit at 20s or early 30s pa mag try si Mam Bernadette kung noon palang may problem na same scenario parin pagdadaanan niya po talaga... madami na akong friends na may mga issues din pero mga bata pa, kapatid ko rin nagtatry wala pa syang 30s dami rin niya issues.. wala po sa edad issues ng mga babae ang mga sakit natin sa Ovary na karamihan di naman natin ginusto..kahit healthy lifetstyle kapa. kaya mahirap talaga maging babae rin..lalo na kung married kana at gusto niyo magka anak tapos hindi madali.💔
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Don't be frustated it is the will of GOD! I'M also childless. Malungkot pero tanggap ko na. 😊❤
I have a son and he's 21 yrs old ryt now. I'm already 45 yrs old and my wife is 44. I'm still wanting to have one pa sana. But when I watch your video I prayed to God na siguro okay na ung anak ko. And yung dinadasal kong another child is sa inyo na lang ibigay because you really deserve it. I will include you and your husband in my prayer na sana magka anak na kayo. GOD Bless po Mam.
Can you imagine the struggle of this couple super draining, tapos tatanungin ka ng mga tao "Bat wala ka pa anak". People need to stop asking those stupid questions and should start saying "I'll pray for you".
I can relate to you Ms. B. Ang dami ko ding naging struggles before ako magkababy. I have same problem with you ung blocked fallopian tube both sides so i thought i can’t get pregnant normally. I had an operation ung parang clinear ung isang side ng tube ko coz the other side was totally blocked kaya no chance, but God is so good to us. I was preparing already for In Vitro pero nung hinihintay ko ung Menstrual period ko para mastart na ung procedure, God gave us already the chance to become a parents and i was very happy when i saw the two lines in PT but then after 6wks i bled then i was really depressed after waiting for so long, di pa pala yun para samen but everytime we wanted to try IVF again then suddenly i became pregnant normally again after 1 1/2 mos of my miscarriage. It was the greatest blessings that we received this year 2023 i gave birth to my beautiful baby and she’s turning 8 mos in Sep 15. I hope and pray for all the people who struggling to have babies coz i now the exact feeling. Sana maging successful po ung procedure nyo. I pray for the best for you & your husband. 💕
Hi Bernadette, I rarely leave comments in YT but somehow your vlog came upon my attention. I was in your shoes 21 yrs ago. Our infertility journey was 8 long years. I was diagnosed with PCOS, had myomas, a fibroid and endometriosis. Not only that, my husband is also suffering from low sperm count. Probably from the physical stress of his ulcerative colitis. After 3 cycles of hormone treatments in preparation for the sperm wash program and intrauterine insemination (or assisted insemination) I got pregnant. Only it was a blighted ovum, which was terminated via methotrexate. It was devastating. That almost sealed it for us. There were also mounting pressures from those around us to just quit and accept our fate. Though that experience crushed us, we decided to give it another go. Along with the hormones that I inject myself, I was also taking metformin and low dose aspirin. After 3 mos, I finally got pregnant. Our son is now in college. More than 2 yrs after giving birth to him, we decided to try our luck again. I was given six mos to prepare myself, physically and emotionally for another round/s of hormone treatments. But guess what? Even before the 6 mos were up, I got pregnant again. Our daughter is now turning 18 this October. I know its very daunting, exhausting and almost seemingly hopeless. But there is faith. A year before we had our son, I took up crocheting. I created booties, baby buntings, and even blankets. For me, it was my way of making myself believe it will happen. A baby will be wearing my creations. And it did. I shall pray your journey will end with a bundle of joy in your arms!
this made me cry
I got married at the age of 21, 2 miscarriages, 30 years old na byoda ako. At 39 years old nagka boyfriend, and god is so good, nabuntis ako at 39 years old, now im 41 and may son is 2 years old. Ang ginawa ko sinurender ko na lahat kay god kung ano man ang para sakin. At naniwala ako na, e gigive ni god sa perfect time lahat na na e pray mo. Kaya keep on praying lang po and gods perfect time ur prayers will b granted. ❤❤❤❤
Iba- iba talaga journey nating mga babae bilang asawa..I realized I am so blessed that after 3 miscarriages..after 6.5 of waiting...Nabiyayaan din ako ng 2 anak..5 yrs.apart.Yung ginawa mo Mam Bernadette sa Manila Doctors ay pinagdaanan ko rin..Dun din ako nagpagamot noon..Kay Dr.Lim naman ..kasabay ko nun si Ms.Sharon Cuneta..kay Frankie..Mahal ang gamutan na yan..Kaya huminto rin ako dahil naubos na savings namin..Pero lam mo.dinaan ko sa dasal at kung ano anong sakripisyo..And finally...without my knowing sa una e buntis na pala ako...at after 5 yrs..binigyan uli ako..At ang pinaka sorpresa sa akin ay ..I had a normal pregnancy....then..kahit CS silang dalawa ay napakabuti ng Lord sa buhay ko.37 at 42 ako nun..Miracle babies ..yun tawag ng OB ko dahil nabuntis ako ng normal kahit alam nya ang case ko..Thanks be yo God😭😭😭
We have been married for 13 years and like you wala pa din kaming anak. But my husband and I agreed that we are ok and happy. Ang anak ay bonus. Let us continue trusting the Lord for His grace is always sufficient in our weakness. Mahigpit na yakap Ms Bernadette from another Bernadeth❤
Dapt ininject nlng sa ibang ba2e.kong hnd k poyde
Veryyrue...14yrs of married no kids til now 🎉
Hope god will give u both very soon… just pray for it.
Oh sa tagal nyo na po na 13
Or 14 years na wala pa anak
God’s will be done.
Continue to be faithful. Maybe He allows things for redirection.
…. To test our faith na kahit meron o wala we worship amd honor our Lord God.
….. or you will become a blesaing to parent a deserving orphan.
Orphan means wala nang parents. Namatayan ng magulang o may relatives pa sila pero yun mentorship and inconsitional love bilang parents ikaw panga ng makpahprovide.
God will move po if lahat ng ways ay ginawa mo na let God’s auper natural ways and redirecting ways according to His will prevail
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@@newuser4025paladesisyon ka😂Let them decide.
Hello Ms. Bernadette! You had exactly the same condition with my wife, we are married for more than 16 years now, unfortunately we are not blessed with kids. My wife had an Endometriosis in 2007 after we got married. And in 2012 she undergone surgery due to ovarian cyst, so they removed her right ovary. And they discovered that her Fallopian tubes are blocked. In 2015, we tried IVF, but it is not successful. In 2018, she had her 2nd surgery due to multiple mayoma. And in 2021, during pandemic, She undergone her 3rd surgery, TABISO or removal of all her reproductive organs. According to our OB, her uterus is already swollen and has cancer cells already, so they need to remove it. She is only 41 years old during this time. Now we are very thankful because we are still blessed with so many things, we are living our life to the fullest, enjoyed traveling together and creating memories. I salute and love my Wife so much for surpassing all her trials.
Hugs to your wife and to you sir.. continue loving each other po. Hanga po ako sa inyo 2 sa strength nyo.. godbless you both po
Waited for my twin boys for 15 long years via IVF.. #ivfsuccess.. to all couples who are still waiting for their miracle to happen my prayers are with you 🙏
magkano po nagastos nyo sa ivf at ilan taon na po kayo..
3 years of trying na po kami ng asawa ko na makabuo ng baby,ngayon lang sobra din ang pain na naramdaman ko umabot narin po sa point na inaaway ko na ang asawa ko,why is this happening to us. But then napanood ko po itong vlog mo po na ito Ms Bernadette 😢 despite of everything hindi kayo nawalan ng pag asa ni asawa. Napaka strong mo po mam. Ramdam ko po yong pagiging strong and brave mo kahit disappointed kana po sa mga results ng test. Big hug po sa ating mga TTC women. Pls. pray for us din po ❤😢🙏☝️
I salute you Ms.B for sharing your journey, "Childlessness does not define you as a person; it is simply a part of your life story.” “Do not let infertility or childlessness overshadow your achievements, talents, and worth as a person.”
Very well said.
You’re still lucky and very fortunate to have a husband like yours. Naiyak ako sa journey mong ito
❤ 15yrs married and 25 yrs together and wla din po kaming anak ng husband ko. i have pcos and hanggang pills lang to correct my hormones.. we dont have means financially in doing fertility and infertility test, so hanggang pangarap na lang yung magka baby.. I hope not having children will not make us less worthy😢 nkaka inspire yung ganitong vlogs❤❤
Pwede din po mag ampon
PCOS is not the reason. A lot of women with PCOS have children. Try glutathione-high dose, CoQ10, Folic Acid. Do fasting 16-18 hours a day. Dont lose hope.
Prayers for you❤❤❤
Pcos is very easy to cure meron may mga cases n may pcos na nabuntis dn in due time mam
Yun n nga ung problema nting walang pera.. pra mag under go ng ganitong procedure mahal di ntin kaya.. 25 years n ko walang anak.. hirap sa isip at puso.. hanggang pangarap na lng at dasal sa dyos.. miracle na lng pag asa ntin.
Ate B. 19 years na po kami ng asawa ko, sad to say 3 beses po ako nabuntis tapos nagtataka po ako bakit malaglag po ang baby ko kaya pala may pcos po ako e ngayon naging myoma na kaya hindi kumapit ang baby till now hndi na po ako nabuntis pero accept na namin yon ang plan cguro ni god, para sa amin pro hndi parin kmi mawalan ng pag asa ❤
I’m praying for you I know what you’ve been through. I had an ivf but wasn’t successful then after 5 years I got pregnant naturally but was an ectopic so I lost my one fallopian tube as it burst during my operation. After 18 months I never expect I get pregnant again naturally and now I’m 9 weeks pregnant at age 41 and so far everything is so good and I’m praying and never stop thanking GOd
Thanks for sharing your story. ❤❤❤
20 years with my husband. Waited for 15 yrs I finally get pregnant but my baby died after 3 months due to premature delivery at 6 months. Please don't lose hope. I am also on my 40s and still positive of having a child
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True always think positive less stress trust in God.. ❤❤❤
relate po tlaga ako sa inyo maam Bernadette mahirap po tlaga umasa lalo nat may edad na tau,Ako nga po 34 yrs old na nag asawa at pinapalangin ko po nun palage na magbubuntis na ako dahil medyo matagal na kaming nagsama ng mister ko,Ginagawa ko po nun nagsimba lang po ako sa quiapo at humalik ako ky poong nazareno at pinahid ko ung panyo ko sa paanan nya at syang pinahid ko po sa tyan ko,sabay wish na sana mabiyayaan ako ng isang supling,isang pagkakataon po nagpunta din po akong Saint clair bumili po ako ng itlog at nag alay po kami dun at nagsimba,at naghulog po kami dun ng isang papel at nagwish na sana bigyan kami ng kahit isang supling,God is good po tlaga dininig ng panginoon mga panalangin ko,..ngaun po may anak na kami 3 yrs old boy..Thank u Lord❤
..our prayers, to both at sa lahat ng nahihirapan magkaanak..don't lose hope.. gawin niyo lang all the advises... Sana Lord, yakapin mo itong mag asawa & their desire to have bb..☺️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
Don’t lose hope, I have endometriosis too and 6 OBs said only IVF can make me pregnant, but I became pregnant and I already gave birth to a healthy baby boy ❤️
howw
I hope me too maam..sana maging successful din ang ivf ko..marami din kasi problem ang matres ko..yesterday sana naka sched na ako for cys aspiration pero out of the country ang ob ko.
maam,,magtatanung lang kung mahal ba maga IVF?
how did you get pregnant if your taking orals pills
Heart warming story, 13 years of marriage and also we don't given a chance to have a child. Recently got total hysterectomy surgery because of my endometriosis and ademayosis. Both my husband and I accept our fate and move forward . I always thanks to God that I have blessed with loving and supported husband ❤️. Huge hug🙏❤️
Same tayo 13 years of marriage wala kaming anak pero ok lang naman saaming mag asawa na walang anak marami nga diyan may mga anak pero tumanda na nag iisa at iba nag aalaga bonus nalang yung may mga anak na mag aalaga sa mga magulang pag tanda dahil may mga sarili na silang pamilya.yung iba naman sa halip na umaba pa ang buhay napaaga dahil sa inaaway ng anak .pero kung magkakaanak naman palakihin ng mabuti na may takot sa Dios.
Sana ganyan ang live in partner ko kaso gusto nya talaga magkaanak kasi lagi kaming LDR kasi nasa abroad ako lagi. Yan ang pinag aawayan namin ang magkaanak. Lgi nya akong iniinsulto kasi dw baog dw ako eh wla pa nga sya nakapagpacheck up at ako nakapatingin na akong ng OB dati healthy naman dw matres ko. Ang sya lng kasi ngapapa inject sya ng knya baka nasira na.. bahala sya sa buhay nya kung maghahanap man sya ng iba total d naman kami kasal. Ipapasa Diyos ko nalng lahat. Tanggapin ang katotohanan my anak man o wala bsta masaya lng buhay
Loves u Mam Bernadette. Sayang tlaga 'coz u have a very loving n responsible hubby but wat matters most is that u truly love each other. May God bless u both even just once. U deserved it. I' m 63 now n have 5 blessing kids. They're all professionals n still loving n taking care f me. Am a widow for 8 years now. Just be happy n thank GOD always. Am an ofizmate f Mario Dumaual wayback 1980's. Shippibg cya n me s brokerage firm. Trans Orient Shipping.
Bakit po kailangan mo mag total hysterectomy. Ano po ba symptoms mo? Gusto ko lang Po mag share ng experience ko sayo. I am also advised by my doctor to have it, but I declined. Pero in my case marami po akong anak. Since I had my first period in my teens I always had very painful cramps, and I would also get so weak and would throw up. I would explain to my mom and female siblings, but no one really tend to understand or get what was I talking about dahil sila never have anything like mine maybe just headaches here and there when they have there period. I have skipped normally 3-4months, but a couple times I skipped about 10 months. I don't know when will I get it because there is no exact pattern and that how irregular I was. So growing up I know there was something wrong, and I suspected that I was not able to have children, but not confirmed until I asked my doctor. She said that normally that's the case I either have a very hard time conceiving or I can't get pregnant, but for obvious reasons it is not true to me because I was able to have many children. But in my opinion as soon as you have one it is easier for your body to have more. I was not diagnosed for such a long time because I want to talk about reproductive stuff because of embarrassment. My period pain was worst than giving birth naturally without the help of any pain relievers or painkillers. In a scale 1-10 giving birth was 4/10 but my period pain was at least 9-10/10 normally and sometimes no words to expressed. I told my husband that I can give birth 12 times and it would not bother me because it was a piece of cake.
Try nio po mag gfoxx elixir and lowcarb lifestyle by dr.grave rojo ❤
A fellow infertility warrior and ivf survivor here. Its a special kind of hell on earth.. but I hope you have all the love and support you need during this time. My journey ended with a miracle and im sending you baby dust hoping you get yours too. All the best❤
Yung iyak ako ng iyak habang nanunuod nito. I understand the struggles Ms. Bernadette. I’m lucky that my husband supports me all the time!
God is good all the time! All the time God is good!
Still reading your Messages , and your Stories . PRAYING for YOU all. To those who are in this journey - I urge You to read the sharing of other couples ❤ I am encouraging couples to get checked , for women out to take Care of your Body. And Pray for Miracles !!!
A Miracle Can take many forms ha . Bless all our hearts and our marriage ❤❤❤ praying That we be OPEN to God’s UNIQUE Plan in Our lives !
Hi Bernadette. Thank you for sharing your fertility journey. It's so moving... I was crying while watching this because it reminded me of my own fertility journey. I really pray that all will be well with you. Please try to see Dr. Violeta Celis of Asian Hospital and Medical Center. I was my fertility doctor. I feel something better is about to happen 🙏🙏🙏
We pray for your hearts Ms. Bernadette. I am glad that despite of being in this situation, you have found a wonderful and selfless partner. Infertility has been our challenge too, we have been trying for 3 yrs before we were gifted our first born. However, we lost him few days before I was supposedly induced. It's only been several weeks for us, but we will continue to heal, pray and later on try again. I hope more people would be kinder and open about this hurtful challenge. Perhaps, your little Molly have already met my boy Raizen in heaven.
Try nyo po Mam Bernadette Castor oil pahid s puson
😢 me too gusto korin mag pa consult about my situation kase po ang sakit kapag nasasabihan na bat ang tagal niyo na mag asawa pero wala parin kayung anak😢. Sana po matulungan niyo rin po ako.
15 yrs together and married kami ng hubby ko, wala parin kaming supling pero we’re stronger ever parin. Kung iibibigay welcome if hindi naman salamat parin. I am with you in your journey. Masakit pero need tanggapin para sa kapayapaan ng puso’t isipan. God bless you both ❤
Do what Korina did might also happen to you
Were on the same boat sis...payakap...
Hugs to you ❤❤❤
Sending hugs and prayers to all of us who are struggling to have kids. This journey is never easy and no one can measure the physical, financial, emotional roller-coaster ride in this journey.
I am 40 now and currently on my 8th IVF cycle. Hubby and I have been trying to conceive for 9 years.
God bless to all of us🙏🙏❤️❤️
Wow 8th so anu poh un ung 8x na un lhat failed
I know how you feel po Ma’am Bernadette. It took almost 15 years before ako nagkababy. I had PCOS kase kaya nahirapan din mag conceive at ilang hospital/Doctors pinuntahan to get help. Please don’t lose hope. Miracles do come true. Have faith in God🙏❤️ Prior my IVF procedure, I went to “ Birhen Manaoag.” (Pangasinan) umiyak sa kanya, nagtirik ng kandila at nagdasal ng taimtim. After couple of months, God granted my prayers po. Thank you Lord❤️ And a year after that, didn’t expect na magkababy pa ako natural way of pregnancy. Now I have 3 years old daughter & 1 year old son. We are so lucky din kase very supportive mga asawa natin. Praying for your journey po. May God be with you always. I’ll share you my favorite bible verse po. Matthew 7:7
I’m an OB-GYNE nurse, I admire your strength and faith. I will pray for you and your husband. Nothing is impossible with God.🙏🏼
Im crying but God has other plans for you Ms.B. this maybe is what is best for you but there could be miracle. God bless Ms.B. and to the Asawa.
Parang dinurog yun puso ko syu kasi kahit di kita kilala i can feel how beautiful your heart is sana mabigyan ka ni lord ng baby akhit trough surogacy.❤
I feel you talaga maam. Mas malala pa sakin.. 7yrs kong e na antay mag ka baby.. Binigay nman ni God sakin I got pregnant pero nag ka miscarriage pa dn ako hndi daw lumaki fetus .. Another stress na nman another pain.
After 1 year from my miscarriage na buntis ulit ako. Nakunan na naman.. I been through a lot of pain physical and emotional yong iisipen mo lahat ang sakit2 na hndi ko nman cguro deserve.. Dn I got pregnant again running 3 months.. Akala ko yon na ang saya saya ko, pero ang saya nag stop the last check up ko parang sinakluban ako ng langit.. Pregnant dw ako pero walang baby na buhay sa loob. Dba ang sakit2 sa puso.. The pain the stress I been going through that time Doble. Until now kong ma alala ko lahat yong nangyari sakin na iiyak ako ng sobra.. Kaya I feel you maam.. Just pray pa rin po & stay strong. God will make a way for everything.
Omg! So heartbreaking💔
Ohhhhhh I’m crying. Lord,please bless people like me and Ms. B with a healthy baby soon.
Hi ma'am hindi man kita kilala personally pero i will include you po with my prayers ❤️ thank you for this video po and yuong courage na meron kayo sa pag share ng video na ito. I hope na dinggin ng panginoon ang panalangin at bigyan kayo ng isang anghel sa buhay nyo pong magasawa. ❤❤❤❤❤
sana matuloy na itong attemp mo ngayun dasal kalang kasama mo ako sa dasal❤❤❤❤
Ipagdadasal ko na biyayaan ka ni Lord ng anak.
News Anchor ng TV Patrol si Ma'am Bernadette kabayan. Napakabait, very humble na tao kaya deserve niya ang mabiyayaan ng anak. I will join you in praying for her and her hubby🙏
Ms.Bernadette naiyak ako s story m😥lahat ng bagay may dhilan,ang mhalaga sinubukan nyo lhat ng way para mag kaanak at hnd nyo sinukuan❤❤ang Panginoon marunong yan basta wag k lng bibitaw,issama ko kaung mag aswa s Dasal ko,hhilingin ntin yan s Ina ng Awa,Godbless u wag kaung ssuko❤❤🥰🥰
Been married for 7 years, 35 years old and we are still waiting to have our own generation. 🙌 When the time is right, He will make it happen!
Praying for you miss B naiiyak ako 🙏 😢 💓 😞
Kaya nyo po yan ako po 35 yrs old nung nanganak sa 1st baby ko then 38 sa 2nd baby ko yung friend ko early 40s nagkaron din po ng isang anak...pray lng po...yn po pray ko na mgkababy every time pupunta ako sa church n first time kong pinuntahan.yung bago ako pumasok sa church ngwiwish n po ako...thank you Lord 🙏🙏🙏
😭😭😭 i feel you Ms B… been trying to get pregnant for 13 yrs. 2 failed IVF. Im 40 yrs old now and trying our last attempt with natural 3 cycles. My first cycle got terminated at day 5, and now they took only one egg on my 2nd cycle. Praying the embryos to survive. ❤❤❤
I can so relate to your story Ms. Bernadette. You and your husband are doing a great job. I will pray for your journey. I went to that journey before I had our miracle rainbow baby after 12years of marriage (he is 2yo now, Praise God). Went to several doctors too , underwent RID tests and treatments, went to St Francis weekly for treatments and prayed hard that God will continue to lead us to the right people who can bring us to His plans whether a baby or whatever He wants us as husband and wife. I was crying hard watching your vlog as it brought me back to everything we went through. And I know God will give the desires of your heart soon. Just keep that faith. Hold on to that faith, and do your part and God will do the rest. Hugs and kisses to you 🤗😘
Hi Ms. B! I want to commend you for having the courage to share your story. We've been trying to conceive for 13 long years already. Ang dami naming pinagdaanan until I found out that I am in pre-menopousal stage at the age of 37. It was the most painful thing I've ever heard from our infertility doctor saying that having a child in our case is impossible since my husband too has a low sperm count. Now we are still happily married and living our dreams in Canada. May lungkot paminsan minsan pero pinili naming maging masaya for as long we have each other and with God as the center of our relationship. God bless you and ur asawa!
Hello ma'am. Just wanna share my story po. I was 37 when I got pregnant. Matagal din kasi before naging ready si husband for a baby, so I waited for him. Nung sinabi nya out of nowhere magbaby na raw kami, I was so happy. But then reality strucked me, at age 37 egg production drastically declines. Not only that, yung quality ng egg are not as good as sa mga younger females. So we tried. after the first 3 months I became frustrated. Every night umiiyak ako. And I realized what went wrong was that my ovulation at 36-37 years old came early at 10th-11th day of my cycle monthly (it should be on the 14th day of 28 day cycle or 16th day of 30 day cycle). So yung eggs na yun apparently are immature at hindi maganda ang quality. Bukod doon, mentally and physically stressful ang work ko. 7 months more of trying, I ate a lot of omega rich foods and folate rich foods. Supplements. Tried to avoid stress. I was actually really frustrated and angry and losing hope. Then after 10 months of trying, my PT came out positive! I gave birth at 38 years old. My daughter is 17 months now. I hope we can have another 1, fingers crossed. I'm praying for every couple who are trying to finally conceive one day.
ako din po 12yrs na rin ni partner nag ectopic ako at 2016 tas this year lang i was diagnosed TP2 diabetis...and we lived life to the fullest nlng din
@@SashaPomeranianwhat do you mean po hindi pa immature ang eggs? Ako kasi lately short cycle na like 12days nalang
@@xtinm.9002 sa ovulation po usually in a 28-day cycle, day 14 ang ovulation. Kapag 30-day cycle, around day 16 ang ovulation. In those days, maganda ang quality ng egg cells kasi matured na. Kapag nag ovulate ka earlier than that, chances are hindi pa maganda ang quality ng egg cell Kaya it may or may not be fertilized. Kumbaga sa fruit, alanganin pa.
@@SashaPomeranianany tips po like vitamins you take or foods to boost yung quality ng eggs natin?
I just had a surgery recently bilateral salpingectomy because both of my tubes are blocked i was heartbroken. Our only way to get pregnant now is thru IVF. To all the women who are going through infertility kaya naten 'to!!! May pag-asa pa mhiii...❤❤❤
Let’s pray for couples ❤❤❤
Kaya mo yan and be strong. Went through 6 years of ivf in the US. My ivf baby is 4 years old now
As i am getting older. To be honest ang skit tlga ung tatanungin ka ng "kylan ka mgbubuntis? " we also experience it. Atleast coming from you na kilala amin na kilalang tao same ng senario. But now lets spread the word. Na keep on being positive . And think about god has better plan among our plans. ❤❤
Dont give up. I'm a nurse and can relate 100% on your story coz we have the same. Im older than you now i have healthy boy. I tried everything and did not give up.
I feel you Miss Bernadette, I went to KATO too, last year, i tried IUI, 4× unsuccessful, I am in my early 40's... I only cling to God to give me and hubby a miracke baby.😢🙏 Never lose hope🙏
This vlog brought tears to my eyes..kung sino pa yung willing magkaanak sila pa yung deprived. I will be praying g for you and your husband. Don't pressure yourself, in God's time darating din ang inaasam asam ninyo..love you,guys!
My greatest failure as a Woman and a wife, Ma'am Bernadette, is not being able to conceive, but my husband constantly reassures me that we are going to be alright. With or without a child, things are still good. We're still trying, and your story gives me even more hope. I gave it all to the Lord. Many thanks po! Cheers to our Bubogs and I know it will all be worth the pain❤
Dr. Manalo is really one of the best po! I’ve worked with her almost 2 decades ago as a newby nurse and assisted in some of the miracles! Life is full of surprises, God always has a perfect time! You’ll never know when it will happen, God has a plan 🙏
Agree !!!!
Lumipat kami sa Kato Clinic after 5 failed attempt sa ibang clinic sa awa ng Diyos may twins kami now ;) pregnant kami with Twins ❤ sa unang attempt namin with the help of Doc. Perillo of Kato Clinic @Bernadettesembranochannel
How much po gastos sa procedure
hello po... tanong lng po.... mgkano po ang ivf? 16yrs na din po kc na wlang anak
magkano po ang ivf
@@hyacinthvillegas6431sa US mam sa akoa sis half million sa atoa kearta
Saan po ang kato Clinic?
Nakakainspire ka po ate B❤️❤️kami po ni asawa ko po 21 years ng married at wala pa ding anak pero hindi po sya naging hadlang para hindi maging masaya ang aming buhay bagkus mas lalo pa kaming tumibay dahil dito❤️❤️🤗🤗Hindi lang sa pagkakaroon ng anak masasabing magiging kumpleto ang mag asawa basta masaya at kuntento kayo sa isa't isa ay magiging masaya ang Buhay..... Keep Smiling Ate B🤗🤗
Good sharing this po. Encouragement to be strong po. Laban po talaga!
Tama po ❤
This vlog is close to home.we also went thru in vitro .all my tests were ok but my husband wasn't. I was already 37 years old when we tried IVF,but failed.the process was painful,but more on the emotional part.with all the hormones injected to me,I experienced mood swings. my husband was so sad when the IVF failed but I told him that I married him because I love him and not for anything else.we may not have kids,but its enough that we have each other.thank you miss B for sharing your story.not all women can have kids,so other people should be sensitive enough to stop asking why others can't have one.Good luck and God bless you miss B.🙏🙏🙏
I was compelled to take a moment to pray for your healing and journey Ms. Bernadette. You are a good person. God knows your pain and will heal you in Jesus’ Name.
Magkakaanak kayo at hindi lang isa, i will pray for you. Be ready kasi its a surprise. I prayed for Pauline Sotto and Kris Bernal...soon ikaw naman. Wait lang tayo kasi GOD is good. I know the feeling. Ako din ay halos maubos ang tubig ko sa katawan noon kakaiyak but God heard my plea. Dont lose hope
Pls include me in your prayers din po ❤
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Hindi nasusukat ang pagiging ina or ama sa pagkakaron ng anak. Mam Bernadette wala pa man po kayong anak pero kayo po ng husband mo ay isang inspirasyon sa maraming pamilya. We are here praying for you.God bless po.
True❤very well said
I know how you feel Ms. B. I’ve been in your place more than 20 years ago. Had 5 miscarriages and my 6th became our blessing, now our son is 22 years old. I went through all the medical and laboratory exams that you went through. Immunotherapy and all. Injections everyday for nine months when I was pregnant and a lot more laboratory exams through out the term. Blessedly we were cared for by our OB Dr. Efren Domingo (who is a reproductive immunologist too). I am touched by your braveness and faith. Just keep on believing and our dear GOD always bless us with what will be better for us as a person and as a family. Thanks for sharing your story, this will help other women be informed of what other options and medical treatments they can have if they are facing the same challenges and situations. May our dear GOD bless you and your family always 🙏
I cried watching this video. My wife and I lost our 2nd child last year and sobrang sakit. Watching your video po makes me thankful din for what we have. You both inspire us po and I pray God to bless you because you deserve it. Sending our love ... Leo & Aiko
Former VM Orange Aguinaldo is a great husband. You and him are a great pair because you are both loving, humble, caring and nurturing. Your journey together is full of blessings. Stay happy as a couple for you have inspired a lot of couples too with your inspiring story. God bless you, always. 🐬🍀🙏🌟🎋🌾🦄🎎
Praying for you Miss B..hope God will give you the unexpected miracle soon❤❤naiyak naman ako sa episode nA to..ang bait po ng asawa nyo Miss B❤❤
Naiyak ako grabe😢😢😢..sobrang relate ako ako sa mga pinagdaanan mo..me and my asawa 7 yrs kme kme trying to conceive a baby..Ang bait Ng asawa mo..grabe ung support ❤❤❤.. through God's miracle..mgkakaroon din Ng bunga ang lahat Ng hirap at sakit..madaming luha man at kabiguan ang meron tayo ngaun..pasasaan bt malalampasan din🙏🙏🙏..laban lng Po tayo.❤❤❤
As someone who is suffering from infertility, I am crying with you, Ms Bernadette. May our prayers be answered in accordance to His will 🙏
That got me, did I really tried hard enough? Now I'm going to make a goal to see a fertility doctor at 35. Thank you miss Bernadette. Keep inspiring people.
Pray lang Po ng pray, because God is good. In due time Po you might get what you really asking for. Just minimized stress and try your best to be healthy. Also Po being to skinny or overweight, messes up our hormones. Over working and over exercising can also cause hormonal imbalance. I know there are not much science and scientific studies about womens reproductive health, because women are not even included in any health studies until lately. I myself have suffered from hormonal imbalance all my life, and was never diagnosed. My doctor said that I should a hard time or should not be able to get pregnant if was to diagnose me when I to her all my symptoms, but I have children so it was not true for me. Now that I am older I still suffer from a lot of symptoms due to hormonal imbalance and my doctor told me that is should get hysterectomy, but I declined. We don't know wether God's answer is no or wait, sana Po wait. Mag ask Po Kaya na ipagpray kayo ng mga Mahal nyo sa buhay and your church. God bless you Po and give you what you heart is truly longing for
Reading this while telling myself that me and my husband will try harder next yr
27 yrs of being together, just the 2 of us pa din but no regrets kahit sad but we understand. Just being happy and surrounded with people na very supportive to us.
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I had an Endometriosis too Ms B, had it removed and told na di na mgkakaanak but after a year I got pregnant and she is turning 10 years old before the year ends.
You will be a mother, I will pray for that day to happen. You are blessed in so many ways.Dont feel less bcoz you are more more❤
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Thank you for this Miss Bernadette, naramdaman po namin hindi kami nagiisa at pinakita niyo po na dapat hindi kami mawalan ng pagasa. Sabi niyo nga po sa napanood kong interview niyo “It’s okay and it will be okay” ❤
Got married three years ago and few months ago I got diagnosed with endometriosis. I am taking hormones to help with painful period. I also have fear of not getting pregnant in the future. My husband is very understanding and we have decided to accept our fate, whether we become parents or not. 💗
Don't lose hope ma'am Bernadeth.i know God will answer and give what you are longing for.💟🙏
I wish you both love and to have a happy and successful IVF… your story is very inspiring. I myself had infertility issue and now i’m 44 and we just had a successful IVF last June… God always give in HiS perfect time🙏 baby dust to you😘 you will be in my prayers
I FEEL YOU MS BERNADETTE… HAVING A CHILD IS A BONUS IN COUPLES RELATIONSHIP,NOT HAVING A CHILD IS ALSO A BLESSING GOD HAS PERFECT REASONS❤❤❤
Im diagnosed with endometriosis. Had miscarriage (twins) but we keep on trying. Went through fertility work ups - sperm banking, IUI and countless ovulation pills. We paused and prayed so hard. Miraculously, after 6 yrs we got pregnant naturally and we have a healthy baby boy.
Praying that you will receive your miracle. ❤
Hi Ms. Bernadette
I would like sana to share my “infertility “ and “fertility” story with you. From middle east to US and finally here in Philippines. Anyway, don’t lose hope.
Have faith and keep going.
God is really good, all the time ❤️🙏🏻❤️
I’m 53 years old now with 3 kids. God can make impossible to possible.
I will pray for you too 😇
Minsann kc nakakainis na , nakakadepress o nakakafrustrate yong mga tanong ng tao or ga kamag anak mo na., bakit hanggang ngayon wqlq pa rin kayo anak. Matagql na kayong kasal. Siguro daw ako ang baong or yong asawa ko daw ang my problema. Sabi ko my rndometriosis kasi ako. Pero hindi nan kc nila naintindihan kong ano yon. . Minsan nga kinukutua pa kami na mahina daw tpos sabay tawa. Ang sabi ko sa kanila para tumigil in Gods plan or in Gods time.
How old are you po nong nagkaroon ka ng 1st baby ?
I have endometriosis, adenomyosis and pcos. Nag change po ako ng lifestyle during pandemic nag vegan po ako. Luckily i got pregnant po, and now i have 2 kids. Wag mawalan ng pag asa. Praying for u and ur hubby 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I have children, but your story....tumatagos sa puso. Praying for your last embryo na siya ang makatanggap lahat ng kalakasan. Para makita pa namin ang small bernadette na karugtong ng journey na ito. See you soon little bernadette your mom and dad deserves you.
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This is touching mommy feels so much love with your message to miss Bernadette and made my day as well.cause everyone deserves a called Family 😢
Isang mahigpit na yakap para Kay ATE B. ❤️❤️
Hugs po sa lahat ng mga kagaya nating gustong magkababy🥰🥰🙏🙏🙏🙏
Hugs po. Same tayo but we have to move on po..stay happy
I am also battling with endometriosis. Sobrang naiyak and naispire ako sa story mo Ms. B. Sobrang daming pinagdadaanan ng mga katulad natin. Physically, emotionally and mentally drained. We don’t have the financial ability para magpacheck up sa kato or even sa immunologist. Prayers and faith lang din talaga kinakapitan ko. Si Lord lang talaga ang nakakaalam ng lahat.
❤❤❤ I also went through those roller coaster emotions during my infertility treatment abroad. After 6 years of trying, we had our one and only miracle child. She's now 17 years old. I wish people particularly our relatives, will be more compassionate and considerate to all women who experience infertility issues. Please do not mock or make fun of their struggles✌️💞 God bless your family, Ms. Bernadette.
Praying for your baby in the future mam bernadette. Sana makahanap ka ng mag surrogate sa baby nyo 👏😇
Naiiyak ako habang pinapanood. Kahit last year pa eto sana magkaanak kyo ma’am kahit isa lng twins na agad. God bless you both. I’m from Baguio but living in the US for years. Hugs from my family and God🙏🏻
Sa salamat doc ko napanood si Dr Rogelio Mendiola.kayo po mam ang nag interview.2013 ako nagpunta sa kanya.Salamat at nagkababy kam.Ang daming mga tests akala namin mag AI dahil yun ang advised pero alam mo God is so good.Nakabuo kami naturally..hindi ako nawalan ng pagasa that time.I pray na magkababy na po kayo❤
I hope and pray that Lord grant your prayers Ms. B, you and your husband deserve a blessing from Him🙏❤
I'm praying for your journey Po Ms B. Sana dinggin ni Lord lahat ng prayer's mo. You deserve to be a mother. Magiging Mabuti ka pong Ina😊🙏😇
Just new to your channel, Ms. B. I'm not a mother, but I feel it hurts. What more to be in your place. 🥺 I can see your good heart. May God still continue to do miracles for you and your husband. Jesus loves you both. ❤ God will make a way when there seems to be no way. Our God is a miracle worker.
Sa Taiwan lang po May magaling na fertility hospital since 1985 pa naitayo. May mahigit 30k successful IVF’s. Last year 1.3k ang matagumpay na ipinanganak through IVF including me at 42yo. May 6 na myoma tinanggal bago ang implantation, bumalik ang myoma during pregnancy, mag 8 months na baby boy ko, may 6 embryos pa kami natitira so malamang aalisin ulit ang mayoma pag gusto ko ulit magkaaanak.
Lee Women’s hospital, 39 countries ang nagpuounta dito. Madaming pinoy couple din ako nakikita. Malapit na mura pa.
Naiyak ako sa video na ito, relate sobra.
Deserve nyo magka anak ni asawa mo bernadette mabait kayong mga magulang at mapagmahal...god pls hear my prayer para po sa mag asawa ni bernadette sana po triplets na ang maging baby nila..❤❤❤ in jesus name i pray..amen😊
Kaya nga Po..For sure they will raise a good,kind and successful child...May our Lord grant all their favors to have a child 🫰🙏
Yes deserve nila magkaanak dahil mababait nga sila subalit may dahilan marahil ang Diyos kung bakit hindi pa sila pinagkakalooban.Ang sukatan naman ng pag ibig ng mag asawa ay hindi lamang sa may anak sila o wala..Ang halaga ng pagiging babae ay hindi lamang nasusukat din sa kakayahan ng pagsilang ng anak.Toxic din na ugali ng pilipino ay magtanong ng mga ganyang klase ng tanong.."kailan kayo mag aanak?" Bakit ayaw nyo pa mag anak?" Hello people! Pls be sensitive naman po sa mga pagtatanong.Isipin din na may mga bagay na masyadong personal na hindi na dapat pang itanong kahit pa gaano kaclose sa iyo ung tao...Naiirita lang ako sa mga ilang comments akala mo ganun kadali mag anak..Ayan sa mga Maritess,so alam nyo na ang dahilan?Gamitin din po ang braincells bago magtanong.
God bless your journey Miss B! Nothing is impossible with God.. 10 years din po bago kami biniyayaan. 3 years working out with an Infertility Doctor with no luck at all. Di nagmamature yung mga follicles ko despite medications. I just pray everyday and lay hands on my puson area that he will soon bless us with our greatest wish. And now, I have a 1 year old.. Keep chasing!
Miss Bernadette I feel your pain,I’ve been through yours but still He said it’s not time yet,leave it up to HIM feels better if you surrender,we can only do so much but there’s still someone up there who will decide.My husband and I were married for 27 years.we’ve been through the ups and downs of infertility.IUI,IVFs.we have 3 angels in heaven.I turned 50 this year.we’ve already accepted but still hoping for miracle.We started to adopt in the orphanage there in Philippines,(orphanage)we’re here in US been 2 years process is so slow.Still praying for HIS approval.but we surrender everything to HIM the Lord 🙏be a great mom to ur fur baby(mine just passed away 16 years hard ).Your not alone with your journey.God bless you and your husband keep the Love strong happy anniversary❤️
In God's perfect time Ms. Bernadeth ibibgay ni Lord hindi man sayo manggaling mas may magandang plano c Lord na ibibigay sayo 🙏🏻 Trust his time 🙏🏻🙏🏻 nag try din kami 1 embryo di rin naging succesful at dina naulit dahil wala ng perang gagamitin all my savings nung dalaga ako naubos na sa check up and all😭😭 and na stress po ako dahil di matanggap ng asawa ko kaya yun nagkaroon siya ng iba😭😭 but you know after 3 yrs may biglang dumating na anghel ng buhay ko she already 2 yrs old this coming Dec 8 regalo ni Mama Mary Immaculate ConCeption sa araw ng feast day niya dumating sa amin c Mariela ❤️ diman siya galing sa katawan ko pero higit pa yung saya, ligaya at pagmamahal ang binigay ni Lord sakin. Lahat ng pain na dinaanan ko stress at depression si baby Mariela lang ang nagbigay lunas ❤️❤️❤️super happy and blessed ako. Thank you God, thank you Mama Mary ❤️🙏🏻❤️.. Ms. Bernandeth God bless you po.
I agree the husband's support, understanding and participation r very vital here. 👍🙏❤️
Actually teared-up with this episode. Praying for you both. You guys are indeed Blessed. I know the decision to have a child is not ours but HIS.🙏
Naiyak ako sa part na umiyak ka Ms. Bernadette.Yung iba grabe ginagawa s baby.yung iba gustong gusto mabiyayaan.sana tlga bigay ni lord ang hiling nyo mag asawa 🙏
Wala ako masyado masabing advice. The pain of not being able to have a baby is not only physical and biological, but more on emotional, psychological, and for others even financial. It is so emotionally draining.
I was in the same situation 14 years ago. I conceived via IVF, ny doctor was Dr. Greg Pastorfide. My daughter is now 14 years old.
In my prayers, ang pinanghahawakan ko that time ay ang sinabi sa bible na walang baog . I told God, Sya lang ang nagbibigay buhay at maski ano pa ang situation ko, He just has to will it and i will conceive and have a baby.
Don't lose faith, sa times when i lose faith or my faith falters, I ask God to help my faith.
God bless you both. I hope you would soon have a baby.
Naiyak talaga ako habang nanunuod laban lang ms B kaya mo yan ,ipgdasal ko din mgkabuo na kyo ng baby 🙏🙏🙏
Sobrang swerte po ng magiging baby niyo kasi kayo ang magulang niya. Don't lose hope Ms. Bernadeth. Magkakaroon din kayo ng baby soon❤❤❤
Praying for you Ms Bernadette don't loose hope one day twins will be on your way claim it 🙏
It reminds me of my sister. Sya hirap ding magbuntis saka meron sya thyroid problem. Pero salamat sa Panginoon at finally nag buntis sya at take note tatlo na po anak nya ngayon sunod-sunod po sila tatlong lalaki hehe. Sobrang saya ko po sa kapatid ko. Sana po kahit wala po kayong baby stay happy parin po.❤❤❤
Im a single mom and thankful ako kht magisa God sustained me na maging matatag para sa anak ko watching this video mas lalo akong ngpasalamat sa Dyos na pinagkatiwala Nya saken ang isang buhay na masasabi kong anak dahil hindi lahat madaling magkaroon ng anak talagng proseso ang pinagdadaanan Ms.B mas lalo kang maging inspiration sa ibang kababaihan na nagbuntis pero pinapalaglag o kaya nmn paganak itatapon lang sa video ito makita nila na ung buhay na pinagkatiwala sa knila ay alagaan.Isang mahigpit na yakap Ms.B amd to your supportive husband...Godbless your family
I feel you po Ms. Bernadette 😢.. 10 years na din po kami wala parin kaming baby😢. Still hoping and praying na sana magkaroon din kami ng baby.