Yes! Thinking that once I decluttered I would never have to really do it again. But things worm their way in 😆 so it has to be more of a lifestyle habit to get rid of things
so beautiful: "the money was not wasted when you give the item away - it was wasted when you bought it and never used it." What an amazing switch of perspective! I spent the money... to bless someone with something they need, are happy to get, and will put to good use 🙃 This will help me immensely to let go of most of the things I am still storing to someday sell... ☺(blushing...)
I was feeling pretty good about myself until the “wanting to sell everything vs. donate.” 😅 But your point is SO true! The waste was spending the money in the first place. So now I chose to find a way to bless someone.
Looking forward to taking the digital detox challenge...going to set my sights on a one month challenge and see how that goes first. My spouse and I recently started parking our phones in the same space where they "live" (in a cupboard out of sight but where we can still here them ring). Just parking them there has reduced our online use and reduced stress/getting sucked in/being distracted/time suck etc. I think it's so important to pay attention to how we feel; not just material things we acquire or with food,/drink, but also with other things we consume-music, movies, the news! Thanks Jessica, I'm inspired to try decluttering digitally!
Yes, I just tried to sell stuff on FB and it was a waste of time. Just donated all yesterday to a local charity. I am still learning but you get better at decluttering the more regularly you do it and as you evaluate each life season for you and your family❤
Minimalism is something you do for the peace of mind. You define it based on what you want from your life. There are no rules or patterns to follow. You decide how you wanna create that space for yourself.
Thank you for this video!!! Great points especially liked the #2. Im 54 and live in a cold climate and enjoy the outdoors so the things I would hold onto are not the same things someone else would. I guess the thing I need to work on is how to organize those things. 😀
Thanks, Jess! I am "watching with my ears" as I am going through a clean laundry basket, along with a pile for regifting (to folks who have other colors/designs of my previous regiftings) & a kitchen trash bag for donations. 😊❤
Wow! I love your Videos❤❤ its so true. I am overwhelmed right now with all my stuff. I moved 3 Months ago in a smaller place and "still" (yes I also have a time problem.. 😂) not finished. Your Videos are helping a lot!❤
Such a fantastic video I have made these mistakes as well! Just uploaded a heap of things to marketplace and thought why am I bothering with this I have to redownload FB for it as well donating today ❤🎉
I wish I learned that the container could be a natural stuff boundary. For examp!e, the toy box fits a certain amount of toys and that is all we do. We don't buy another toy box.
So I’ve recently repurchased several things I’ve decluttered in the past 😬 everyone is always like “you’ll never regret decluttering!!” but I find that’s not always the case. How can I find more of a balance? Of course I will say that 80-90% of what I’ve decluttered I do NOT regret. I guess there’s a small price to pay to have a simple, minimalist home ❤
Ive experienced this! There have definitely been things, but it's a small minority. I'm not sure if it's ever going to be perfect, maybe over time we get better at making those decisions?
I understand. The minimal mom (you tube) says to allow yourself $100 per year to buy what you may have decluttered and need to re-purchase. But the benefits of decluttering far outweigh the possibility of needing to re-buy. Hope that helps!
I've done several yard sales in the past as my daughter was outgrowing toys and clothing but I've only sold a couple of bulky items online because it works out to have the buyer help remove it from the home. Now, I just donate clothing to churches that have their own little thrift shop and other items go to fundraisers held by a local animal rescue.
I’m definitely struggling with trying to sell as much as I can. I’ve got loads of things listed on vinted and marketplace and have given lots away to friends, charity and people in the local community. My house isn’t really cluttered, it’s my attic space. Things I’ve kept hold of for years like the boys toys, birthday cards, piles of photos, sports equipment, computer consoles, books, dvd’s and so on. Maybe I’ll give myself a cut off, 2 more weeks of selling then the rest gets donated ❤
I think I have a medium! Its hand wash only so i assume if you do that it will last. it definitely feels on the more sturdy end because it feels almost corduroy. Definitely not the light cotton that tears easily. I def wouldn't machine wash though!
Is there anything you wish you knew??
Yes! Thinking that once I decluttered I would never have to really do it again. But things worm their way in 😆 so it has to be more of a lifestyle habit to get rid of things
so beautiful: "the money was not wasted when you give the item away - it was wasted when you bought it and never used it." What an amazing switch of perspective! I spent the money... to bless someone with something they need, are happy to get, and will put to good use 🙃 This will help me immensely to let go of most of the things I am still storing to someday sell... ☺(blushing...)
I was feeling pretty good about myself until the “wanting to sell everything vs. donate.” 😅 But your point is SO true! The waste was spending the money in the first place. So now I chose to find a way to bless someone.
So true about selling. Such a drag
it really is haha
Looking forward to taking the digital detox challenge...going to set my sights on a one month challenge and see how that goes first. My spouse and I recently started parking our phones in the same space where they "live" (in a cupboard out of sight but where we can still here them ring). Just parking them there has reduced our online use and reduced stress/getting sucked in/being distracted/time suck etc. I think it's so important to pay attention to how we feel; not just material things we acquire or with food,/drink, but also with other things we consume-music, movies, the news! Thanks Jessica, I'm inspired to try decluttering digitally!
ahh excited for you on this journey!
Yes, I just tried to sell stuff on FB and it was a waste of time. Just donated all yesterday to a local charity.
I am still learning but you get better at decluttering the more regularly you do it and as you evaluate each life season for you and your family❤
totally agree!
Minimalism is something you do for the peace of mind. You define it based on what you want from your life. There are no rules or patterns to follow. You decide how you wanna create that space for yourself.
Thank you for this video!!! Great points especially liked the #2. Im 54 and live in a cold climate and enjoy the outdoors so the things I would hold onto are not the same things someone else would. I guess the thing I need to work on is how to organize those things. 😀
Ahhhh i sooo freaking love decluttering and minimizing stuff out of my appartment!! I´m still going strong
I love it!!
I love how you include clips of your life, makes us connect with you more❤️
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Your videos are so relevant! Real food for thought. Thank you!
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The shopping part. ❤❤❤
Thanks, Jess! I am "watching with my ears" as I am going through a clean laundry basket, along with a pile for regifting (to folks who have other colors/designs of my previous regiftings) & a kitchen trash bag for donations. 😊❤
You got this!
Wow! I love your Videos❤❤ its so true. I am overwhelmed right now with all my stuff. I moved 3 Months ago in a smaller place and "still" (yes I also have a time problem.. 😂) not finished. Your Videos are helping a lot!❤
So true about digital clutter
This is sooooo relatable 😱😱🌸
This is exactly what I was searching for this morning! Thank you!
youre welcome!
Great video, thanks for your ideas
Great post. Thanks for sharing.❤
Such a fantastic video I have made these mistakes as well! Just uploaded a heap of things to marketplace and thought why am I bothering with this I have to redownload FB for it as well donating today ❤🎉
I wish I learned that the container could be a natural stuff boundary. For examp!e, the toy box fits a certain amount of toys and that is all we do. We don't buy another toy box.
So I’ve recently repurchased several things I’ve decluttered in the past 😬 everyone is always like “you’ll never regret decluttering!!” but I find that’s not always the case. How can I find more of a balance? Of course I will say that 80-90% of what I’ve decluttered I do NOT regret. I guess there’s a small price to pay to have a simple, minimalist home ❤
Ive experienced this! There have definitely been things, but it's a small minority. I'm not sure if it's ever going to be perfect, maybe over time we get better at making those decisions?
I understand. The minimal mom (you tube) says to allow yourself $100 per year to buy what you may have decluttered and need to re-purchase. But the benefits of decluttering far outweigh the possibility of needing to re-buy. Hope that helps!
I'd love to hear how you addressed your spending habits if you were willing to share! That's an area that I need a lot of work/healing in!
yes! I ahve a video titles "how i broke my shopping addiction" that covers it all!
Yes all so true!
You are looking great today
I've done several yard sales in the past as my daughter was outgrowing toys and clothing but I've only sold a couple of bulky items online because it works out to have the buyer help remove it from the home. Now, I just donate clothing to churches that have their own little thrift shop and other items go to fundraisers held by a local animal rescue.
yes i can see how much better it is to sell those large items in person!
I’m definitely struggling with trying to sell as much as I can. I’ve got loads of things listed on vinted and marketplace and have given lots away to friends, charity and people in the local community. My house isn’t really cluttered, it’s my attic space. Things I’ve kept hold of for years like the boys toys, birthday cards, piles of photos, sports equipment, computer consoles, books, dvd’s and so on. Maybe I’ll give myself a cut off, 2 more weeks of selling then the rest gets donated ❤
I know this is not the point of the video… but your dress is gorgeous! Wondering if you know where you found it? ❤
Fantastic
If it does not sell more than 20-30 bucks I don't even bother and just donate it, it's so much energy and you never get the stuff out of your house...
so true!
How well is the dress from neuroflora? I would love higher quality dresses . Hows the sizing
I think I have a medium! Its hand wash only so i assume if you do that it will last. it definitely feels on the more sturdy end because it feels almost corduroy. Definitely not the light cotton that tears easily. I def wouldn't machine wash though!
Donating versus selling. Agree. HUGE DRAIN. And keeps the clutter in place. AND makes another whole category of clutter.
yes!
Sorry still got my sleep where on well something like that just wanted you to no , I'm single live alone