How to Overcome Fear in Relationships

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  • Опубліковано 29 лис 2024

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  • @mare2723
    @mare2723 Рік тому +2

    If there’s no fear that we won’t survive without the thing we’re worried we’re going to lose then it’s really easy to manage but if you’re afraid you’re gonna lose your home and you know you can’t hold your own on the streets anymore; it’s hard not to be terrified. And when horrific things start happening to you from the time you’re a baby it’s really hard to trust the goodness of the universe but I’m completely willing to. I hope some good person sees this and invites me into their circle of friends. I live in Northwestern California about 10 minutes from the Pacific Ocean and about 300 miles north of San Francisco.

  • @PaulaWilson444
    @PaulaWilson444 Рік тому +10

    Thank you Todd..❤
    One day hopefully ill be able to get to this state of mind, I've got soo much to heal still, ive had a shocking life. I am doing the work..💚

  • @kevinkemble3718
    @kevinkemble3718 Рік тому +3

    Phenomenal dissertation in just 12minutes 45seconds!
    Thanks Todd!

  • @sidoughty428
    @sidoughty428 Рік тому +4

    Thank you Todd, one more step forward 🙏 x

  • @mare2723
    @mare2723 Рік тому +2

    I’m big into gratitude but the moment doesn’t feel like a gift when you’re fighting to stay alive even though you hurt so bad you feel like you’re standing in flame

  • @Loveisallaroundus-c3k
    @Loveisallaroundus-c3k Рік тому +5

    Further cementing the knowledge in every beautiful message you've already taught me 🙏 it ALWAYS starts from within. You are so appreciated Todd 💚

  • @sabinamock4799
    @sabinamock4799 Рік тому +4

    Wise words. Thank you so much.

  • @nadiamatthynssens5523
    @nadiamatthynssens5523 Рік тому +1

    I shared this beautiful message with my kids. They lost their father 4 years ago. Not all of them have processed the loss already and I hope this can give them some comfort. We keep celebrating his life and the beautiful memories of our time together. Thanks for making us aware and reminding us of the love we all are. ❤

  • @katiepougher734
    @katiepougher734 Рік тому +2

    I found this really helpfull in coming to terms with friendships that have come and gone ...relationships that you imagine happening a deep soul connection ..but it dosnt...helps understand disappointments and longing for ....
    Thank you Todd.

  • @malcolmnicoll1165
    @malcolmnicoll1165 2 місяці тому

    “Remember that when you leave this earth, you take nothing that you have received--only what you have given.”
    -St. Francis of Assisi

  • @messeretdesign1328
    @messeretdesign1328 Рік тому +3

    Thank you❤🦋

  • @LliminalSpace
    @LliminalSpace Рік тому

    Me and my partner are very new to relationships, and we both fear of losing our bond as friends and being together. This helped me a lot ❤

  • @jonathansackley3301
    @jonathansackley3301 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for this great video! I agree with everything you are saying man.

  • @cindyl3916
    @cindyl3916 Рік тому +2

    So wonderfully put together, really needed this! Thank you so much❤

  • @tmking7483
    @tmking7483 5 місяців тому +2

    So beautiful message _ the Jesus message

  • @neetaarora7908
    @neetaarora7908 Рік тому

    Beautiful wholesome wisdom, kind of love for all I'd say, for existence. Loving existence is real connectivity, and makes us joyfully responsible, isn't it?
    Love without object, any recepient is actually becoming love!!
    I really admire and love where it may be coming from... such un-attaching free depth.... thankyou for great insightful significant inspiration that can set life's purpose.... grace.

  • @annavespa4233
    @annavespa4233 Рік тому +3

    🙏🌺 the Spirit-Essence that inhabits all things, is the same in all forms of life, this is Oneness ...
    to recognise the Identity of the Essence (that the Essence in myself is the same in the other being, person or animal etc) is Love ...
    to perceive the Identity of the Essence in all Creation is unconditional, impersonal Love for all beings ...
    this State does not need a personal relationship, but it is a common experience that we need help for carrying on the responsibilities of the daily life, that is why we look for personal relationships ...🙏🌺

  • @zacharymanson6347
    @zacharymanson6347 Рік тому +3

    I understand.

  • @maureenbyrne8951
    @maureenbyrne8951 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Todd 💗

  • @annavespa4233
    @annavespa4233 Рік тому +2

    🙏🌺 a human being has a surface external nature (body, emotions and mind) and an Inner Being, the Soul ...most probably, a relationship based on the surface nature,
    (that is subjected to the law of change), can come to an end, but a relationship rooted in the Soul should not end because the Soul is Eternal and not subjected to the law of change, (the Soul does not betray and does not abandon) ...🙏🌺

  • @julieowens6581
    @julieowens6581 Рік тому +2

    Thank you 💛

    • @Sowenna
      @Sowenna Рік тому +2

      I think I will have to listen to this video every day...

  • @darkangelkate3950
    @darkangelkate3950 Рік тому +6

    Todd, what do you do with memories, good and bad 😢?

    • @ToddPerelmuter
      @ToddPerelmuter  Рік тому +3

      When we are fully present, with no mental distractions, life becomes peaceful and blissful. Sometimes something in the present moment will remind me of either painful or enjoyable, and I try to just witness it and honor it, make a mental note of what I'm carrying with me and what triggers it, and then I just return to the moment. Just using life as a meditation.

    • @darkangelkate3950
      @darkangelkate3950 Рік тому +1

      @@ToddPerelmuter Thank you.

  • @annamaria9899
    @annamaria9899 Рік тому +2

    Beautiful❤

  • @shareerobinson6401
    @shareerobinson6401 8 місяців тому

    I enjoyed listening and a lot of great information

  • @brentroman4265
    @brentroman4265 6 місяців тому

    Needed this, thank you

  • @marklayman8452
    @marklayman8452 Рік тому

    Thanks Todd

  • @palstuart6891
    @palstuart6891 Рік тому +1

    Or being stuck in the relationship and you cannot get out . 💙🙏💯

  • @Sage555n
    @Sage555n Рік тому +2

    What the teacher teaches, teaches them! Were you talking about yourself Todd...just a little? I believe you were.

  • @melissatoni8633
    @melissatoni8633 Рік тому +1

    And also, psst everybody…the One is yourself :))))

  • @Sowenna
    @Sowenna Рік тому +2

    How can one internalise the fact of impermanence? I find that very hard to do

    • @ToddPerelmuter
      @ToddPerelmuter  Рік тому

      That is a great question, and a video will be coming out soon on the topic. But ultimately it's about meditating on this concept, and to practice seeing the constant motion in seemingly stable objects, and expanding our awareness to this constant state of flux.

  • @AstonishedonEarth
    @AstonishedonEarth Рік тому

    And mainly women need to be financially independent!

  • @sisters4ever989
    @sisters4ever989 Рік тому +2

  • @Ikarus_Riding
    @Ikarus_Riding 6 місяців тому

    Background music name?

  • @sofy786
    @sofy786 11 місяців тому

    I know what he us saying but its nice to be loved yes it will end but thats life

  • @christinaleilupo8343
    @christinaleilupo8343 Рік тому

    Amen ❤

  • @mare2723
    @mare2723 Рік тому

    I love your wisdom, generosity and compassion but the sound running behind your words is irritating my brain and distracting from your message