[MY LITTLE OLD BOY] "If i had a kid, he'd be stressed out!" Jong Kook has an obsession (ENGSUB)
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- Опубліковано 18 кві 2023
- Ep.339
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For EVERY example stated by the psychologist to KJK, a scene flashes into my mind😆
What scenes?
@@emerald442 various clips from this show and RM
그러니까 결혼 65세 강박감 종국도 한자에요 돈다벌어 무엇하나요 자식도없어면서 돈벌어서 어디에다써나요 돈은절때가저 가지않음
Seems like his own parent's relationship is the biggest influence on Jungkook's obsessive behavior and tendencies, like most children. It's sad that most parents go their whole lives being unaware that their behavior, as an individual and a spouse, affects their child. Most parents assume that being "good" to their kids (i.e. providing them food and shelter) is enough but they don't understand or purposely ignore how CHILDREN SEE & FEEL EVERYTHING! Not only as a parent, it is very important to show your children what a healthy marriage looks like because their perception of relationships is formed based on that period of their life - so much so, that they can't change any bad habits developed due to their childhood despite being aware of it! Growing up in an abusive household myself, I am hyperaware of my actions and behaviors and try my best to rectify and control such habits. I really hope that Jungkook and others like him are able to self-reflect, heal their wounds and lead a happy life with their partners. Fighting!
I think as a daughter, i may dont have my own family, every parent wants to be perfect in the eyes of their children but let us accept the truth of life that there is no such perfect parent, spouse or a child and its normal to feel like this or any emotion because we are human beings and can adapt the way of life in every different and unique way. Because even psychologists, motivational speakers have their own shadows to struggle with and just happen that survive by just accepting what it is and moving forward with new and positive perception in life .
@@joveechannelthis is very naive to think that everyone has some problems as the level of those problems is the real problem here. A kid that grew up in an abusive household and a healthy one is completely different. No matter how hard you try it’s really difficult and sometimes impossible for you to fight those shadows and beat them. I had these relatives, a very kind supportive family. The mother was so nice to her daughter, always saying nice things to her softly, hugging, kissing and praising her, while my mother didn’t raise us like that at all. I was very touch depraved and criticized all the time. Her father was also mellow with her, while mine was shouting at me and oppressing me all the time. Now she’s happily married with a kid and probably has good friends around her I don’t know because I don’t talk to her now as I’m isolated except work although I was this gorgeous, talented and smart girl once. I couldn’t love myself and ruined my life completely. Now tell me how parents aren’t the main cause our characters, thus lives are shaped.
This is an interesting insight to Jong Kook personality for this episode. I am all for it.
Do you know any other shows like this ?
The way jongkook talked about how much his mother been through and wanting to do what his father couldn’t do for her makes my heart flutter.. thats why he’s always taking her on trips with him🥺
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He always talks about L.A. and now that he mentioned living in L.A. opening his own gym. I feel like this is what his heart wants and just something is holding him back.
Maybe the variety shows like this and running man, how many years is he with these shows? I can just imagine how hard it is for him to part ways with the people he works with for YEARS! OR he can't just leave his parents, especially his mother 😓
I hope he takes a break from work and just spend time for himself. Wishing the best for him! ❤
And according to the fortune teller, he needs to relax on work in order to find love and family.
@@adetolajide ☺เ
I could really see him coming here and even relocating his family
@@adetolajide RIGHT?!! OMG. Maybe the one for him is just around L.A. Who knows? Suddenly I remember the RM members joking about his daughter in L.A. 😂 Maybe that's a sign. 😂
@@gabdominates that would be amazing! He seems to love L.A.! Maybe he feels less stressful there.
The way he quietly gasped and put his hands to his face LOL 12:50 I have never seen him that shocked before
It hits differently when he realized what is that he’s working for and who he is as a person. I feel sorry for whoever he’s dating/planning to date atm because his guilt for leaving everything behind or taking a break is so huge that he cannot pursue her boldly nor his dreams of leaving and owning a gym in LA. Sad but as I always say, we can only hope for the best for him. ❤
He needs someone who's patient and kind, someone who can love him with all his flaws, who can help him heal and leave the past behind. He needs someone who can make him see that if his parents, especially his father doesn't want him to be like this and that his father did what he did because everyone has different ways of surviving. We all know that they don't have much growing up that's why his father is so frugal. He should stop hating his father and blaming him that he's like this because of him. Instead, he should aim to be better that his father without hating the old man.
@@stellamaris9422 but Jongkook doesn't hate is father???
@@ClaireEmilia he obviously holds animosity for his father about what he saw as a child regarding their marriage which he needs to release in order to heal himself and his obsessive behavior
This episode is very interesting! They all should go see these doctors lol
I LOVE THIS SHOW 👍👋👋👋👋!!!! I can tell Jung Kook's mother wanted to cry hearing her son talk about how he hated his father bc of how he treated his mother😢. I will pray Jung Kook starts to live life for himself bc he deserves it👍🥰🙏🤩🤗!!!!
that "what do i live for" 😢
Yes thats worries me , and whats really annoying is that people just love to judge and focus on negative things without care about what he really feels inside
Could you give me a time stamp for this
@@ZA.F.B. Wishing him all the best! I hope he find his purpose soon!
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@@thea.25 thanks
You can tell there is a part of him that really wants to do that, open his own gym in the United States (ie. California), build his business and welcome gym members. This would definitely bring him happiness but as far as a wife and kid(s), he seems "lost" in that respect and just says he's saving for his future but that appears to be more of a distraction versus a goal. He's too obsessed with working out and we all know that. His other passion of singing and appearing in variety shows is what makes him work non-stop. I hope nothing for the best for Jung Kook in the future and have grown fond of him since I started watching him on RM a few years ago.
« It shows that he has the unfulfilled desire for intellect »
😂 I die at this 😂😂😂😂
like i said before, the way he treat his mother already shown that he will treat his wife the same, he said he hate his father doing it to his mother but he also did it with his mother... he literary unconsciously snap when his mother take a little to much paper towel before. he may want to treat his mother differently from his father, but sadly he took over his father behavior deep down in his pocket.
Let just hope for the best , he really doesnt want to end up like his father
@@ZA.F.B. that will be hard, like on this video said, he think what he do is a "just". and he has disposition to control person in his circle, maybe at dating or early marriage he may able to suppressed that mentality, but sooner or later it will shown, a little by little until he release all the brake.
since in his mind what he does is a "just" or right and the other person is wrong. he will start it with a little nagging until to the point he will snap because a little of it. and in a relationship that kind of behavior is tiring, especially to the partner who doesn't have the same mentality.
Therapy will be beneficial for KJK oppa, I hope he continues to find out more about his inner self and help himself overcome his trauma
He doesn't have 'trauma'.
@@skillbopster he did when he was with turbo.
@@skillbopster*You* wouldn’t know anyway
This time KJK's personality was explored deeper and broadcast on national TV hahaha
Come on now!!! Pls get married KJK Hyung. 😂😂
I think this is just for a show because in my opinion kjk is that type of men who doesnt like others to know about his deep personal life so if he really want to go to therapy and speeking about deep personal things , he will not let that happen on TV
@@ZA.F.B. i strongly doubt it.
@@ZA.F.B.Wrong
@@andiuptown1711 whats wrong ?!
Deep stuff...life can be difficult single or married depending on the cards you're dealt. But living life is important single or married.
I was saddened by Jungkook oppa's thinking of that. I hope you find yourself and your happiness😢
this is so interesting the fortune teller told him he'll only find love if he takes a break, but he feels guilty when he's not working which is why he keeps on going. and they all say that kjk doesn't let women in easily, so I can see that when he does, she will be part of that one circle of the people that are his.
This was hilarious and super sad at the same time!😢😅
As trainee clinical psychologist, i can explain something. The psychologist did a DAP test (Draw A Person). this test show individual personality/character and also major points. which could be positive or negative but the drawing shows that character repeatedly. that why psychologist said: all drawing showing obsession.
Kjk should take a rest from all this and to stay away from media that put pressure on him and may made him depressed ( put aside all the critisicing and judging that he is suffereing from ) .... saying " what he is living for " means a lot , we dont know what inside this man despite of his strong image on camera
Even tho we will miss him so much ,we used to see him every week but it is for his health to have some rest and vacation to put that stress aside
I wish nothing but good things and happiness for this hardworking multie talented man
Dude is so similar to me it's scary. I don't have the same obsessions but I'm really thankful he put this out there and it really makes me reflect on what I'm doing in life.
For me i like kjk personality , i mean no one is perfect .. the good things in him r more than the negative things , he is way better than most men who has serious proplems
Kjk that type who care so much about others more than himslef , he spending everything on people that he love , its time to think and care about himself now ... he is so good , as a son , as a friend , as a person and im sure he will do his best to be good as a daddy and husband
I hate how people judging him from a tv show ( that suppost to be for fun ) acting like they know him in person , and please almost a lot of people nagging for something ( for me im nagging for cleaning , is that making me a bad person ! No , there r so many other good things in me ) people love to focus on negative things and make a big deal with it forgeting all the other good things in person
He is so loyal , gentle , kind and romantic man hope he will meet that pure loyal romantic woman that will love him as much as he does , not less because kjk is that type who will do and spend everything on the woman that he love , so hope he will end up with someone who will do the same for him
True. KJK has a good personality even than people who judge him. He scolds, acts strongly but he doesn’t behave badly to other.
What he shows is real not fake. Some artists show on TV which different from their real personality
True..
finally someone who said that I want to say. 😍
Knowing yourself could be interesting, but it could also be sad. Same like jungkook, i've been asking myself the purpose of me living today and what i will become in the future.
i can sooo relate to every single word said in this whole session. having a father like jungkook and seeing my mother suffer everyday . i just want to change my self everytime ( matter of fact that i have gone on my father's feet even though i hate it ) but its just too hard like freaking hard .
i hate to have such a personality but if i try to change it but if i do i just feel like trash . i don't know if my words make sense but this is soo very true in real life
JK. Noticed his mom at a young age. He really has a very good heart. His dad raised him and he respects his father but. JK has built himself in protective mod of his father
What sangmin said about KJK exploding when its not his way is so TRUE LOOOOL. Theres a reason why KJK always be yellin 😂😂
Kjk mother is laughing,but I think herself should pass the ‘freedom ticket’ to kjk as mother that love their son...it’s been too long for keep her son by her side....I think
Thank you for uploadand sharing this episode very enjoy to watch it 🙏🌹.
Super Hugs Kim Jong kook oppa
Jong Koo, o un idol, actor, etc... es el claro ejemplo que puedes tenerlo todo, trabajo, éxito profesional, tus padres, amigos, hacer lo que te gusta como el gym, etc. ¿Pero aun así preguntarte, Para que vivo? ... Ojalá inicie ese proceso de conocimiento de si mismo y busque ayuda profesional, y pueda encontrarse asi mismo..
Me gustó mucho este programa ojalá se repita más
Last part hit me.
why jongkook's personality is so freaking me 😌
I love just his personality and him❤😍
Lol,anyone here watching are going so I'm actually similar to Kim jongkook??? Or am I the only one???
I have the similarities obsession like Jong Kook organized one time i got home from school trip and found my room so clean and i got stress things supposed to be here not there. And about can't throw things i still have my note book when i was elementary school. I can't bare myself to throw it away they have so much history. Read those handwriting some of that i can remember what is the mood and behind the story of it
1. Have desire to control
2. They have their own daily routine, hate when ppl change them
3. A good follower. Cant stand injustice
Shit i have all of these
a lot of high performers struggle with obsessive personalities. great for career success but if it isn’t managed well it can destroy your life outside work
I always pray that kjk find a good woman and accept kjk sincerely and honestly as much as possible..
wow. now I know why I'm single. ouch. weeeeell.
I hope KJK will be able to enjoy, rest and find his new purpose.
Im sure 100% he will nag about tissue usages and other things like he usually do to his friends because its his habit to his wife and kids......
Are you forgot about that he does this only his friends just remember when Apink arrived at his home looked that how his personality. These show's really reuined his image 😊
@@emososze OMG There is too much age difference 😂 GO go go married me
@@emososze it's different bro, Apink it's not his close friends... He even nag to his mother 😅 He once said he only nag to the people he cares.... His future Wife&kids are his family, so that is 99,99% he will nag them soon or later. You can watch old episode of mom diary when he said he will not nag at his wife but keep it that in his mind and "just glare" . That's must be more stressful to keep anger in your mind 😃.
We shouldnt judge person that we dont even know in reality
Also there r so many people nag for something ( im one of them ) thats not mean he is bad , also like i said we dont really know him off camera
@@ZA.F.B. Have I ever called him BAD??? 😅😅😅
The way kjk didn't let sangmin speak and didn't even try to hear him and kept talking even when sangmin try to speak is also one of the condition 😂
Nah, Sangmin shouldn't interrupted in the first place... The psychiatrist and patient was having conversation about some problems, 3rd party shouldn't involve... Sangmin keeps try to make it worst... Luckily the editor didn't put sangmin's footages there....
Or probably sangmin trying to stop jk from explaing how his father treat his mother publicly?? Im guessing here…
I think Sangmin is trying to stop him to talk about his family personal situation, it's private matter after all.
omg he is so me im crying
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Sangmin hyung should date that girl he went on blind date with ...they compliment each other very well .. they look perfect couple 😃
You just marry him
@@jacegarcia835 don't say like dat baby
@@sakekent7679 you like him then marry him
@@jacegarcia835 i just want life to give him a 2nd chance..i mean both of em liked each other dats y..
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i think opening a gym while in korea would be a good start he can even go and film there for one of his kjk gym youtube or my little old boy episode and if he wants he can detach himself slowly and focus on the gym and if he doesn't he can still do both like staying in america and managing his gym for a month they can even film my little old boy in la if some members go to visit i do psychological and i'd like to tell him ik it seems hard the first step is always hard but if you look at it from a different perspective it all seems easy
seeing this,makes my life much more sense.. my father is a control freak,he'll easily flipped out if plans don't go according to his plan. hereditary,we all becomes a control freak.. and my older sis married an extra control freak... 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️.. what a bunch of control freak family we are.. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
awareness is the first step towards progress :)
The question of choosing between mother and wife is not as easy as just saying. You need to really imagine the situation and decide. and it's really hard to choose your partner over parent especially people like jungkook who might think his father might not "save" his mother.
I don’t think it comes down to not saving his mother but realizing that the person you choose as you life partner has to be your priority. Regardless of how bad you can feel for parents or someone that you feel is more helpless. Not having your spouse as your clear priority will only make it worse for everyone involve. I don’t think if we did a survey you would find any couple thriving who put their parents or even kids first.
@@2weird4m3 no I'm not justifying the choice. I'm making sense why he would make the choice. Like I said it's not that easy. Let me give you an example, I am married. But my mother sacrifice her youth, put aside her dream, hold on to bad marriage and bad husband, give her everything literally everything to raise me for 35 years. She literally almost die for me too in an accident. Yes, I have a partner that I choose but I know for a fact that my partner wouldn't sacrifice as much as my mother did. Not even close. People think it's easy to choose but my partner did not work 10 hours on hot street selling food everyday with critical disease, he did not put up being beaten just so I don't taste any. As much as I love my partner, his love could never be half s close as my mother. Now tell me would it be easy for you to choose your partner having seen all of this? I'm sorry but to me, there's nothing greater than mother's love. If the mother is bad, that's a different story but raised by a great mother, it makes sense that it's a hard choice. Mybe because I have an immigrant mother and I'm the first child there's nothing that can makes me feel like saving my partner more than my mother.
@@2weird4m3 again, I'm not saying it's right but it's not as easy as just saying. Atleast people who have seen what I saw in their mother life would be.
yeah! me too! My mom is always first because she always give but not expect any return. I don't have life partner yet. But even if I had, my mom will always be my priority.
This hypothetical question has a simple answer, assuming both wife and mother have the same physical fitness and swimming ability, and everything else is the same, then yes saving wife first would be the correct answer. It means if you decide to get married, you have to give up some things to a certain extent, like your relationships with your parents. (I'm not saying giving it up totally, just to some extent). You wouldn't be able to be as close and attached with your parents as you do when you're single. Like what the psychiatrist says, you choose your spouse, you have the responsibility for your choice. If I feel it's impossible for me to give up, not getting married would be the right answer. I DON'T HAVE TO get married.
Getting married while still prioritizing your parents over your spouse wouldn't be wise.
Every single one that's being said through this video applies to me at the highest level 😅😅😅
A very good talk . I think Jong Kook must have an ephiphany after the session. He asks a very important question : What do I live for ?
He is not a single-minded person, he needs another human being to put a meaning in his life. And that person should be more calm.
aww
When you look purpose of life...and then you realise that's there's a God.
we cant choose our parents, but he needs love care and understanding to help him have the confidence to achieve his dreams.
I wonder if the Enneagram will make it to Korea and become as popular as the MBTI. I think it's more accurate and I think Jong Kook is a textbook Enneagram 1.
omg! I'm just like that, now wonder I like KJK!
The doctors are good looking for their age they seem quite a gentlemen with a strong will 😅
Man, this just confirmed that I have OCD - the organization one especially.
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Interesting episode. Makes you think about your own life and personality traits and styles. It's really hard to change or let people in when you've mostly been single and independent and only depend on yourself. It's also hard for others to let you slowly open up and be open to that because people are not as forgiving as you think they are even though you're trying. It's too hard of work for them. I understand KJK and why he is the way he is (from what we see on TV). He has a goal move to LA, open gym. He can do both! Hire people he trusts to run the gym when hes away and work in Korea...surely he can make it work. I want that for him and to find a spouse who can be that support for him. My only 2 red flags were saving your mom vs wife and "getting involved" in parents tiffs. But those can be fixed upon further reflection. Lol. We all know the answer is save your spouse, esp if you have kids.
I think KJK could always make a sort of compromise..think of it this way..if he moved to LA and opened a gym..running the gym is working..so he could do both.
I mean we all have something we "trap" inside
😢😢😢 me, myself & I .
I also have that problem, so being single is the best for me I think. But people keep ask me to married but I can't say I can't
2:32🐯: every person has problems…
KOOKIE says the truth fact…Just most of the ppl hide their problems n i like how he awareness/straightforward n face the problem n now try to solve it even the Doctor also says personality can change if u check n monitor yourself (the doctor says himself also monitor himself n change his own personality)…
13:31doctor: there's reaction formation too, some ppl become completely opposite…
some ppl still judge him frugal about tissue issue is really shallow minded…he just don't want his MOM waste too much tissue (no need to use 2 piece tissue to wipe a bowl or mouth) n Do ppl know he let his MOM keep his money n even let his MOM use his money buy anything she wants cause he says his Father control his MOM don't let her buy "fancy things" makes his MOM feel sad…he says his MOM is a modern SEOUL woman she like fancy things n i remember he said he saw his MOM cry bcs of this makes him sad So he promise his MOM if he earn a lot money he will let her buy anything she wants n he really hold his promise…n i believe if he really make a promise to himself he sure can adjust his personality if is bcs of his gf/wife n the different between KOOKIE n his father is he have a pure soft sentimental heart he is gentle sweet to woman n i hope he will meet a pure good life partner that he love he deserves a pure good woman who will love him unconditional…
21:03🐯: I'm not materialistic…21:09🐯: "Why i do work so hard?"
21:29🐯: "Why do i live like this every day?"
he suddenly confused his life i think just bcs he seems suddenly feel doesn't have any purpose in life Bcs he's not materialistic He says he work n save money for his future wife n kids but he didn't have wife n kids yet n this seems makes him suddenly feel lost…Praying hard he meet his soulmate soon💘💘🐯🔥🔥
I don’t even care about his marriage. Of course I’ll be very happy if he gets married but I’m more worried about his mental health.
He complained of mental fatigue and how he doesn’t have any purpose in life. I really hope he overcomes those obsessive thoughts( get help if necessary), before deciding to find a partner or get married.
That way he’ll be able to fully commit to his partner and family.
I wish you happiness KJK💕
Me too , i just want him to be ok and happy and i hope he will ignore people who kept judging him ... people r just good at judging without even knowing anything
Thats " what i live for " made me sad and worries
I would have married him (I am very athletic and I am very into sports), but after seeing this...hell no
@@ClaireEmilia it will be unfair to judge him from a tv show ... he has so good things in him than the negative things
@@ZA.F.B. I mean I wouldn’t have the change to marry him anyways, but tell me some good things about him 😅
@@ClaireEmilia yea no one of us have a chance anyway 😆
As i heard from his friends , he is so loyal , he has a kind and warm heart , so gentle , respect women so much , if he loves someone he will do his best for that person , and this thing i find it cute that he like to hug the woman that he loves" he actually said that "
Also i remember haha saying before that "even if kjk mad whenever u say sorry to him all his angry will gone and he will forgive that person , he has a kind heart "
Well thats what i heard from his friends
He is not perfect " no one is perfect " but he is not bad either
I wont judge someone untile i meet him in person and really know him , my life taught me that
Wow, very interesting. It’s crazy to think your living well and working hard but for what purpose. What will you have to show for all the hard work. Very powerful! Not necessarily just for marriage and children but are you living your best life or living your life how you would like to live it to the fullest.
大部分人都會選擇救父母吧，子女>父母>伴侶
Just as I thought when I watched all his videos in Runningman...I was like him but not the hoarding😂
I’m glad we get to see a vulnerable Kim jongkook. But I’m not worried so much because Kim jongkook also realizes he had some kind of obsession, he knows himself a lot. Putting myself in his shoes, I don’t know myself like that..I probably agree with the guy in all black suit, “pick a fight” every time I visit their office during my appointment/session with them. I just want to say this.
I am also not too worried about him! At least he realized his father's mistakes and is becoming aware of doing the same things. Thus, he can avoid him. He just needs a patient partner that really expresses her feelings. This way no misunderstandings occur.
KJK is very famous so its unlikely that these docs didn't already know atleast some of his habits and personality. Would've been interesting if someone that didn't know him came up with the same readings, not sure who doesn't know KJK tho ;)
😮ilkim😮😮
Me realising that I'm obsessive
I can totally relate with KJK 😂😭
Sang min wants to talk so bad lol he's so grabby lmao
Es difícil escucharlo decir todo eso no debió ser fácil para el contar cosas tan importantes y tan privadas , si es necesario que asista a terapias psicológicas, es bueno saber nuestras falencias para poder superarlas o trabajar en ellas, felicito a jong kook por su valentía para exponer su vida de esa manera, un saludo desde Colombia
Sang min can't get a time to talk😂 as they are being too dominant haha. Kim Jong Kook is really the patient. Sorry oppa, Kim Jong min will marry first❤
After watching this I feel like going on a therapy
"I just work"
"Why do I work so much?"
"What do I live for?"
"Why do I live like this every day?"
"I don't want anything"
"Why do I live like this?"
"I want to stop working, go to the United States and open a gym"
Lyric for new song.
I wouldn’t draw a body too but it’s because I suck at drawing realistic hands and I know it will ruin the drawing 😂
The doctors should be a comedian on the running man show
FINALLY, Sungmin sees what I see! It's okay to admit when you have a problem. the worst thing to not acknowledge this problem and want to fix it. People will use "I'm not weird, I'm unique." Believe me there is someone out there exactly like you and the only thing unique about you is your DNA and fingerprints. It takes a real mature person to say, "I have a problem and I want to fix it." Now this doesn't mean taking a pill, it means behavioral modification.
Sangmin really cares about his friends
I am Kim Jong Kook 😅
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People with obsessions will never be able to control it, it's simply a part of their personality and if they try to change it, when they "crack"... such people can never have a community, because they want control, dominance and a strict grip on the obsession... because this doctor is also alone, a presenter who has the same obsession, is divorced, etc., such people really cannot have a community, especially a spouse, and friends suffer to a certain extent and then leave... I was all right , when I once wrote a psychological profile of KJK... in such situations it can happen that one finds a life partner, who by his personality is a subordinate personality, however, it is exceptionally difficult, the proof is his mother, you really think that she is happy and satisfied with her husband who is extremely dominant, etc., she is a lonely woman in the community, that is why she has so much attention from her son, which is really nice, because he sees and feels it, but believe me, people with obsession, a man or a woman, they can never change themselves
Why would ppl choose their partners over their mothers I don't get it for me I would definitely choose my mother first cuz she's everything she did so much for me and still doing...so I don't really get it
Yeah, true.. partner, wife or husband, u can move on and find another person although it will be hard.. but mother, there's only one ❤ the one that giving birth to you only your mom
it's just sick to compare those two things. You choose your partner but you don't choose your mother. It's actually stupid to be "thankful" for you parents, because they brought you into this world. You owe them nothing but they owe you everything
It is just example, psychological example, this question takes into account that both parents are alive and married, the assumption is that your mother is saved by your father (her husband) and you save your wife, because you chose her and she and your children should be your first priority , not your mother. I adore and love my mother more than anything, but my wife and children come first. I was born and raised by my mother, but I chose my wife to spend the rest of my life with. It's normal. It doesn't mean that I don't worry about my mother, but if she was my first, then something wouldn't be right with me.
@@sbenc beautifully said! I love my parents, too but I would always choose my husband first
Would you like it if your partner chooses his/her own over you?
I always try to think this way, “Do unto others as you want them to do to you.” That’s what Jesus said. You get?
I'm very similar to jungkook .
Y el director que dicen de el
22:02 What he's saying is right... I'll agree with him
If I would become his wife. I would ask him if he is really happy and enjoy what he is doing right now. I would tell him, that he could just quit, we could move to L.A, we could open a gym...I could help to run it at the dest are and he could be with the clients. If his parents would be okay for it, I would totally ask them to move with us to the US. Since I know he loves his mother very much. Or at least visit South Korea often to see his family and our friends. If he wanted, he could make occasional appearances in tv shows etc.
Who are these psychologists!
Hyung you caught red handed in one question " who will you save your wife or your mother " the fact that you said that " ask me in private " it looks like you have a girlfriend that year hahahah Congrats hyung be happy... Fuck all of your haters
I think 🤔 one of the psychiatrist 🧑🏻⚕️ the guy in the grey cardigan is Hani’s boyfriend!
Exid Hani's boyfriend 😊 the one beside jk. 😊
oh its hani's boyfriend!
awahhh come to know that im very similar to him T_T
Maybe Jong Kook did not have enough love as an egg. That is quite sad. He seems very defensive sometimes, even with his friends on the show. He is such a kind and loving guy based on his behavior on the other show that I feel sad he is hearing all of this now. I can tell his mom is feeling sad also.
as an egg? What do you mean???
😂😂😂
Oh I think I will save my mother then I can die with my partner. In my opinion it’s unfilial not to save your mother first…?
please always save your mother first
I think you didn't understand the true essence of the question. As the doctor said he will save his wife because he knows his father will save his mom. When a man or a woman gets married the wife or the husband should be the priority. Because if not the marriage will not be smooth . You will understand that when you are married yourself.
On 21:20, Kim's mum like kind of sad for what he say 😢😢
I like Kim jongkook hyung personallaty 😮 he don't need to change himself actually the truth no one can survive with him i mean like his personality. If anyone wanna survive with him so definately he care her most. It's my promise if you don't believe this just wait for that moment. KIM jongkook hyung personallaty or my personality are very similar very very !!! ☘️