The Truth about Interracial Dating in South Africa
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- Опубліковано 25 сер 2024
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South Africans are very hung up on race. We were only allowed to bring home coloured or white partners - this is how racist my parents, grand parents, neighbours, community was. When my sister rebelled and married her black love my parents didn’t even attend the wedding! Yet what a wonderful husband and father he is that others look up to him.
yhoo that is hecticc. I hope your family now gets along.
This is a sad reality for many, especially non black I've come to learn. In the black community, as much as tribalism may sway opinions of others we still integrate and cross cultures with a lot less push back from family etc. I wish it were just a default setting in humans
That’s because they had whites only water fountains last week.
and how's the relationship with the grandkids (if there are any)? , usually it's those mixed babies that warm people's hearts 💕
I mean everyone over 30 was alive during Apartheid (south African) of course we’re hung up on race…
I was in a flight with a Dutch man who had just finished his vacation in Joburg. He said he went to a braai with a bunch of Afrikanners who were so excited to see him and talk to him because Dutch and Afrikaans are so similar. He said everything changed when his black wife Joined them . The Afrikaans boys suddenly changed when they saw his wife and they started talking less to him and he really didn’t understand because he thought they would be excited for him since they live in Africa but atmosphere became so tense when the black woman joined the braai.
Lmfao! Typical afrikaners. Yeah they don't take too kindly to us blacks hey😄. The English white south african is much more laid back than the afrikaners. Afrikaners will have the audacity to speak Afrikaans to a young black person and get mad when we ask them to speak English, coz we don't speak Afrikaans like our parents who were forced to do so under apartheid, we the youth born after apartheid speak our native languages and English but afrikaaners are living in the past and expect a black to know Afrikaans and they can't even pronounce the clicks in the xhosa language like the English who can
Woooou
Some people are still racist and it's sad coz we all bleed the same blood
@@nhloniphoingqwele5433 unfortunately. Cape Town is the hub or racism in the whole world
I don't think they are prepared to change their general behaviour towards African , now they are using ANC failure to justify their natural toxicity . Western Cape should be independent because the ANC blah blah blah , the need to distance himself from any environment that has black people perpetuating colonial culture of segriggation .
As a black woman with a white fiancé we got so many death stares from black people in Cape Town, people would be rude to us in shops for no reason, it got to the point where we even stopped holding hands in public it was very uncomfortable… truth be told there’s still a lot of racial tension I know it’s hard to overcome the past and move forward but Jesus Christ there’s still a long way to go…
@Bianca Dos Reis this happened to us too. Went on honeymoon in Cape Town a few years ago and people were rude to us as well. Non stop staring and actually made us uncomfortable. This was from all races actually and not one particular group. Never stop holding hands to please others, make them feel uncomfortable with your love for one another ❤️
Shame for me it was white people in Cape Town. A young white guy even stood up and stared at us from all angles, in Stellenbosch a white lady and her daughter stared at us and even asked to take their meal as takeaway. A nice Xhosa gentleman ran out the restaurant and spoke to my boyfriend at the time whose my husband now to say it’s beautiful to witness such. In Cape Town it’s mostly whites who have a problem with us. In Durban everyone from Indian, Coloured, White and Black older men and in Jhb it’s mainly our foreign nationals with a problem. In EC everyone was nice, in Limpopo they asked how to get a white one etc😂
@@leigh4326 it's crazy that people could be like this, you'd think by now we'd have made better progress as humanity
I cant say anyone in my immediate family, friend circles or colleagues who are white would ever death stare a interracial couple. I wonder why a contingent of black South Africans hold such racist views towards white people... Its not cool at all! The mistrust thing is a bit rich at this point hey! But I wish you guys all the best in your relationship, if the love is real who fucking cares man!
@@gstar3569 Thats nice to know 🙂. Black with a capital plus add people or you can call us African when referring to us.
I’m a black South African lady and I’ve lived in london and Canada , I’ve dated everyone I have never had an issue with race in the UK and Canada interracial relationships are common it’s not a big deal, however here in South Africa it’s a big deal to date outside your race ,South Africa still has a long way to go.
True
Around the time when the west was desegregating is when apartheid was starting so you can't compare SA with the UK or Canda. The histories & current circumstances are completely different
@@caesar3909 your point? I did say South Africa has a long way to go.
@@caesar3909 Wich is why the comment was right
Black South African ladies date and sleep with anyone and everyone as long as they pay, so of course you not going to have a problem with interracial dating
The new generation don't care about race, we just date as long as we have feelings for each other we see no problem just the of them who have a problem
I'm a Black SAn woman dating a man of Indian descend. In the spaces we go to, we don't get comments much but when we do, it's always positive. We're making process as a people. 😊
Nobody's gonna bat an eye over that imo. In my experience it's usually whites and blacks together that cause the most sht.
It's difficult between black women and indian men especially if u live in the townships. 💔
Have to be honest , colored and black people share lot of struggles in common.
And being black requires you are a colored person.
The fact is really dislike is sometimes light skinned Middle Easterner can be perceived as White (especially in Brazil , which is very untrue) while it is more appropriate to consider them as BROWN people such as Australia , France or South Africa.
My dad is white, and my mom is white, and I was born, raised and still live in Hillbrow, Johannesburg. My primary school was in the kasi and was practically 90% black with the odd coloured and Indian. So since early, I've only ever found black women attractive. And considering where I live, I'm probably going to end up having mixed kids.
And you know what, that's absolutely ok. ❤
As a person who’s been in an interracial relationship (black and Indian) for 3 years and some change now, in the beginning the “disgusted” “rude” stares would really get to us but now it’s really whatever we don’t pay attention to it anymore and yes it still happens. We’ve even faced racial discrimination in public places.
My friend in Sweden reckons (from the SA society in Stockholm) a cord girl from Upington married a Swede and says she’s more used to it, but when her mum visited, she said people are looking everywhere they go. I also had a card GF in London who visited her Polish BF and said people were positively gawking. It happens I think. Most importantly is, as you obviously can, to live through it. I think if people would act self consciously it could actually kill a relationship. (I have an Afrikaans friend who only dates women up to close to 20 years older than him who’s mother was harping on about “all my friends”, he was saying give them my number if they want to ask me something.😜)
Card or whatever they come up with is my autocue for khullid,, my machine can’t edit on YT, unfortunately.
I'm in a long term relationship with Indian guy I know exactly what you talking about
do you really get stares? I can imagine the older generation but the people in my circles really couldn't care!
Oh gosh I'm so sorry ❤
As someone who is in interracial marriage in South Africa honestly its only young generation that are not racist about it the way people stare at us 🤣🤣🤣I realized they not as open as they say they are one person told me I must think careful of the consequences of my actions 😂😂 haibo why cant 2 humans love each other despite they color I say its the mindset It is really sad I was told once to not teach my kids one of my African languages and he should speak his fathers language its so sick I mean he has the right to learn any language he wants whether its the African or Afrikaans or English language😔
Great video !! Funny, interesting and so relevant ! Loved what the dog had to say😂
Been in an interracial relationship for 18 months ... got a lot of negative stares and a lot of negative comments from black people! We tried to make fun of it. The cultural differences is a big thing to be tollerant of!
I have been in interracial dating almost all of my life. It is surprising that you got a lot of negative from Black people because it is rare to find my people being defeatist about that sort of thing. Yes Black people will stare from curiosity but they rarely utter anything negative. I find that White people are the one's who have a bigger problem seeing and accepting interracial dating. This is something we have discussed with my friends who are also in interracial relations; we noticed that Caucasian families and population are the one's not fully comfortable with the idea.
@@tyali84 more dismissive is something I'm not so sure about. Sure maybe against black people, Indians, Mexicans, especially asians usually want the same thing. Sort of a difference between people talking crap online as opposed to yelling crap in public. In my defense, you are more likely to see a black dude with a white women in public than a white dude with a black girl, when somethings not as common, people have more of a tendency to get mouthy in public.
@@tyali84 I’ve been in an interracial relationship for 6 years now and this is nothing but the truth!
@@yeahyeahwowman8099 Where are you from?
@@vikaphelokazi9096 from California. From that are you gonna form some kind of statement like, well that's a liberal place or something, lol.
As some who has been in an interracial relationship. I believe the cultural divide is the biggest con. Everything else is chilled
Yup
Only a Christian would say such a thing
Yeah I have had plenty "hook ups" so to speak but long term cultural differences make long term less appealing. Maybe if I was actually looking for long term relations even within my own race it would make a difference but right now I am not.
@@euphonie8693 Lots of black girls love white men in South Africa. Trust me the cultural divide doesn't exist except in Politics.
@@suezcontours6653 Great to hear😊
I was watching this video alone then one of my friends joined me he then said it changed his life we decided to watch it on an overhead projector with the whole community. Everyone's life was impacted bro thanks for changing our lives.
Unbelievable
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Was the community king there?
I'm white my fiance is black my best friend is black when my and i woman started dating I lost some friendships she did too but all that did was show us that we are together because we share a bond deeper than being worried about what people think about us in recent times I've noticed that people don't stare as much as they used to anyway be with the person that completes you it doesn't matter what culture they are from
My parents never cared, my grandparents and great grandparents were in inter racial relationships (white, Asian, coloured). What's important in my family is religion
My father is white and is married to a black woman and gave me two awesome and beautiful mixed sisters. My uncle is also white and married to a black woman. If you really like eachother it's 100% fine. I think the reason there is so many people who hold back from interracial dating is because of what others might think like family or friends or even just random people. Also some people don't want their children to be mixed for many reasons. I am mostly attracted to light brown skin that some colourds and indians have. That caramel colour is just so hypnotizing.
“That caramel colour is hypnotising” you just like me fr🤟🏾🤣
Y’all sound like y’all just fetishizing mixed kids
I find that it's mostly older people that are usually hostile towards these kinds of relationships..stemming from the fact that apartheid ended just 28 years ago..even if it ended 100 years ago it would probably still be similar ..as long as there are ignorant people on this earth racism will never stop. Most of us are brought up in racist environments which cause us to become racist ourselves because as children we watch what other people say and do and it affects us as we get older. It is up to us to raise our children in the correct way.
Bro I'm black & one of my closest friends are white & we still get questionable looks in public. Interracial friendships are still quite controversial. Country needs a lot of work culturally.
For real though I'm black and one of my best friends is Indian-Pakistani and some people in my family who are racist always make rude comments about her so we often just go to her house or someplace else
Been married to my Zulu wife for 8 years now. We have 3 beautiful kids. It seems that most people are worried about their family accepting their partner and this usually leads to never taking the relationship the whole way. We luckily have really open-minded direct family.
A 'human' wife not a 'Zulu' wife.
@@lwazivanstaden8571what they were talking about was the ZULU CULTURE and just saying HUMAN doesn't bring the point across
Wow congratulations, wishing nothing but many more years with your partner
"White girls are HOT!", with his zulu accent, i'm cryingggg😭😭😭
He broke my heart 🤣🤣🤣
Interesting video. I think the biggest barriers lie in the history of our country.This has brought about superiority and/ inferiority complexes amongst the races. And past scars and how we grow up influences how we relate to other races which can either hinder or encourage us to explore relationships outside our norm. But I think love is love outside of race or cultural differences.
definitely would encourage black women to date out more. Race loyalty didn't do the black Americans any favours. It's actually used to diminish them.
@@suezcontours6653 WE ARE TOGETHER!! 80% HOW THE HELL DID YOU GET FROM SOUTH AFRICA TO US FBA'S???
@@suezcontours6653 no sorry Suez, this isn’t about race loyalty. Black men in South Africa love and respect Black women. When that discrimination of Black women came through it came from the US with a yo-yo called Da Les but it didn’t take off. I’m married interracially to an American but not because I was never cherished by my own in South Africa. I just happened to meet him overseas at school but other than that our Black love stories aren’t struggle stories. Young Black men become successful and marry young Black women it’s not taboo. I just don’t like how people think to love your own is a fashion statement or loyalty campaign. Angeke 😅 you guys don’t bother the anti-Black squads in our country whom keep to themselves.
Honestly this is not a big deal in the UK, met my white husband in England and been together going 11 years now. We now live in Berlin with our son and have never had any problems.
Interracial dating and marriage in SA is still taboo in many spheres.
But the real determining factor to most would be culture and religion.
hence even if people from the same race would date or marry, it can still be a point of contention to many families because of the cultural differences.
Language also plays a major role😅 sometimes English data bundles run out
I don't think so . I believe the white community really needs to learn to be more human it's 2022 . Calling white girls names ( KfC) k being THE K word . For dating black guys. Also the Afrikaans community is very racist I don't think it's differences In culture or religion I strongly believe it's who they are .
I don’t think it has to do with religion, culture or language barrier. Apartheid never ended, it’s still very much alive in the hearts and minds of whites.
@@nhloniphoingqwele5433 Agree, English can be just as racist just more skilled at hiding it.
The thing is from my experience I actually realised that even though we're different races and cultures they actually are similar and you end respecting eachother much more when you learn about them particularly in black,coloured and indian(Asian) context
My parents were amongst the first for interracial relationships in the 'new ZA' but they just happened to fall in love and embraced each other's culture. They taught me both perspectives. People are still judgemental and assuming. I still think there is comfort in finding someone with the same culture, depends community you grew up in since it gives you a frame of reference of what to look for. It's also easier to embrace someone else's identity if you don't have one of your own.
The other huge issue about interracial relationships especially here in RSA is language. Dating outside your race or culture means you need to meet each other half way when it comes to language. Speaking English all the time is tiring, you don't even express yourself very well... I've been in an interracial relationship before, and I always preferred everyone speak their own language, home language, but you'll always find yourself gravitating towards English.
That is what I would say, yes. I was married to an Englishman from Zim (and you don’t want to think how that lot carried on, no matter I earned more, was better educated, came from a wealthier, educated family-I was Afrikaans basically, though by then practically, but physically a citizen too, British myself). But from my side, that he didn’t share in my SAFFA sense of humour. I had a few African from SA GFs over the years and we got each other’s jokes. And, as you say, my friends found his visits tiresome for having to pack out the half hearted English.
@@christid5838 What are you talking about 😂😂😂
Shocking response... Throwing a bottle at you😢😢😢
@@ThandoKING She's saying that the cultures were too different to work out, it's not as if every person of european descent share the same culture and cultural values etc, so even though they "looked the same" phenotypically speaking, the differences were to great. That's what I got out of it at least.
But then again you do find black people who only speak English or a black person speaks another language that's why I think we need to be a bit more open minded
In my youth which was the early 2000s, I dated a white boy who lived in Hyde Park Johannesburg. He was my first interracial relationship. My family was cool about it except that they didn't want to hang much with us because my family was not fluent in English and the boyfriend didn't speak any vernac either, so the language bearer was the issue. On his side, his mum was super cool, maybe because she was also dating a black biker dude (hahahahahahaha), I loved that woman, may her soul rest in beautiful peace. Unfortunately, after his mom passing, he moved overseas, and I was not willing to move there so it had to end. The only problem were the outsiders, more especially white South Africans. They once threw a bottle at me for dating him.
What's "vernac" ntwana?
@@Calmacalma11 vernac is local /indigenous languages such as Zulu, Sotho, Pedi, etc in South Africa
@@madlokovumngadi5159 That's a disrespectful term, vernacular that is.
@@Nghilifa ok. What is the respectful term?
@@Nghilifa isn't it just the shortened version?
As a young black person in SA, I don't mind dating other races. I don't think the same mindset goes for older generations
You can try colored people.
As a White boy living in Somerset West, I've never dated a White girl.. Love my black but especially mixed girls
I've been in two relationships with black men and two relationships with white men, current partner white, going on 4yrs. We definitely get looks, especially when we travel to the more densely white or densely black areas. Coloured people in SA don't look as much at us with that particular facial expression but you do get some curious looks from them. In all my dating life dating people outside my race (Coloured), I only got one comment from an old white man, but everyone else kept their comments to themselves and were kind nevertheless. So, maybe we're making some progress but it doesn't go completely ignored.
the Quality of your videos is insane........ the editing style keeps me hooked....usually interview videos like this get boring half way through
I think apart from Race and Culture the race politics in South Africa can really affect your relationship if it is not attend to in time.
Those two are also in an inter-height relationship 😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
#banter
To be honest in our country South Africa interracial relationships still gives stars especially where I'm staying in Cape Town
Even though I have always been in school with white people, even at university and have never really experienced much racism except when I was at Stellnbosch university, dating a white South African seems crazy. I don't know I just don't trust the sincerity but I guess it's because maybe I have never met people who were genuinely nice to me. I can be friends with them, but there has been such a divide that I am like no.
Same! We get the most stares and whispers in stellies 🙈
@@kiaranilraj9469 Stellies is hell on Earth for black students apparently
Why do black people apply to Stellies knowing full well that there is racism there???? Because it seems like Stellnbosh is not willing to change the systematic racism there, so why go there??? I’m not trying to be rude or anything, it’s just out of curiosity.
@@nkhensanimakhuba9631 honestly, imagine fighting the academic demons and racism😭😭 yoh Mina I’d never, I’m all for fighting racism but at a safe distance, and you’ll be fighting alone against a group of white people, considering that black people in South Africa are divided, a black person would literally do nothing if they saw a fellow black being terrorised by a white man because it doesn’t affect them
@@nkhensanimakhuba9631 Racicsm is everywhere even at work and that was not going to stop me from studying what I wanted there. In my time there I had 1 racist encounter which was enough and that could have happened anywhere.
The kid at 1:46 😂😂😂 with his eyes wide open and whole chest out: “WHITE GIRLS ARE HOT” 😂😂😂 someone please get him a date ♥️
having dated a black woman the only people who bugged us about dating was black men like 1 in 3 had to make some comment no one else cared
The more the races talk crap about eachother, the harder it will be, end of story. Of course you can fall in love, have your perfect interacial love story, it doesn't erase everything going on around it. It is easy to sit there and say, well it's my choice, so is how everyone else chooses to respond to it.
yup
True, isolation will interfere with your relationship.
People are open to it .It's just that the cultural differences as well as the family reluctance and openness can also be a barrier
Im a black man and I don't see anything more beautiful then our black women and black love and I think we should grow that a bit more because we have had too many issues in our past and we are still trying to find our feet I would love nothing more then to continue growing South African black love and success and seeing more young black people treating and loving each other better."Abame kancane nabelungu PLEASE!".
You’re a black South African man that understands the assignment.
I agree black love should be able to prevail and mend our relationships in our community but in terms of intteracial relationships I think we need to build Solidarity in the communities First between Asians,blacks and Coloureds we need to stop talking bad about eachother especially the elders I can't even invite my brown friends over to my house cause of my parents
Everyone can marry whichever race they want, no one can stop them, we have right to date who we want, I'm not a ppl pleaser 😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣💀wow never thought I would see this happen in South Africa 😂😂💀
Dope video, i love the music too, you should totally do a spottily playlist.
Im white my wife is coloured. We moved from houtbay to St Helena bay. We realised fast that St Helena bay was thee most racist place I've ever been in.
I’m from Cape Town. In a interracial relationship married for 6 years and I promise to this day we still get stared at. It doesn’t even matter which area we are in, we will get those looks. Sometimes people are genuinely confused and then other times people are just out right assholes and pass comments. And then there’s the people that think my husband stole our son because he has a different skin colour and features than his . It’s wild
It is really sad I was told once to not teach my kids on of my African languages and he should speak his fathers language its so sick I mean he has the right to learn any language he wants whether its the African or Afrikaans language😔
@Nadia Domingo Selebedi sometimes the looks are people admiring y'all . I'm indian guy and at 1st it was shocking how many African women were taking an interest in me then after a while of dating 3 African women it just became normal . The cultures are nice , Zulu culture and some other African cultures are similar to mine . I find it's mainly the older people who less accepting or the younger ones like sheep who follow corrupt leaders .
@@millie8311 ignore those people who told you that , teach your kids as many languages as you can . I speak isizulu and some zulus are shocked I can speak their language . I told a Zulu girl her clan praises and she was shocked 😂😂😂 , she said its a shame she knows nothing about my culture . Every time she only asking me to buy her saris , I saw her once with a sari and I thought she was Indian 😂 mean time she's Zulu and no I'm not dating her .
@@millie8311 oh you could even teach them both that way they can even be multilingual and communicate with many people whether in an African language,Afrikaans or English
This Is Beautiful. This Channel Is Amazing. Lets Start A Revolution Right Here And Start Interracial Relationships And See How It Goes.
Man I love the way you striking conversation socially with such unspoken topic big ups bro more success
Awesome video.
I for one will date any woman, regardless of colour, as long as she has the personality I'm looking for.
Personally speaking i am into interracial dating😂i love your edits by the way😊😊Pulling up at UCT soon ...hope to see you
More videos please Noah. Your UA-cam channel is GROWING!
KEEP GOING GUYS, MAKE THOSE MIXED RACE BABIES. THE FUTURE
I think it's easier for people to date or sleep with other races just for bucket list or the experience of it. But when it comes to marriage they prefer their own bcoz they understand their struggles. that's just my opinion
That's a deep point to raise..bucket list vs commitment
Mara for me I'm already mixed so I don't have my own people, so I may as well marry someone of a different race. And anyways, I've always found black women the most attractive, and for me personally I have the best friendships with black girls. Angazi how to talk to white girls
@@Calmacalma11 just imagine arguing in english, nah it doesn't have that vibe lol, try mixed girls also u can understand each other better
@@Calmacalma11 You said your parents were white in another post, but here you say you're mixed, which one is it?
"My dad is white, and my mom is white, and I was born, raised and still live in Hillbrow, Johannesburg. My primary school was in the kasi and was practically 90% black with the odd coloured and Indian. So since early, I've only ever found black women attractive. And considering where I live, I'm probably going to end up having mixed kids."
@@Nghilifa my mom is Korean ntwana. My dad is white
I'm open to interracial dating as long that individual is not born raised in SA
I have lost hope for other races in SA the gutter. That's my opinion
Great content. You thought out the box with this topic👏👏👏
🔥🔥🔥the content I’ve been waiting to consume🔥🔥🔥proper innit
Good video and the editing is so good. Keep it up! W Noah.
noah nooo the hookup little thing for the married man killed me😂😂😂😂
Most of the people in this video are very young and, therefore, very progressive. If you ask older demographics what they think the answers will probably start to differ.
I have travelled the world and 25 years post Apartheid, South Africa still has to be the most racially segregated country I have ever been to.
Love this video we should love whoever we want n love has no colour Thank you Noah good job
That "institutionalized by Kendrick Lamar" beat at the start of the video still slaps 😭
I think south africa got better in terms of interactional relationship cause this new generation i mean 2000s they don't care they date each other as long as they have feelings for each
At this school that i used to got to they were a lot of black n white and indian honestly
ITS THE SIMS MUSIC FOR MEEEEE
Yes a fellow sims player😄
I have the desire to data outside my race, however man outside my race don't approach me. They talk to me, laugh and tell me I pretty but no one has mad a bold move..
If you're talking about white men, they are shy. Many Asian men as well. About others I don't know!
I saw a lot of beautiful women in the video. This one indian girl is stunning.
We don't have this kind of diversity over here.
Greetings from Croatia
This was exciting to watch, of course people are
open to dating outside their races when they're asked versus in reality.
Obviously there's a lot where that comes from...
If a white person said they're not interested in black women at all, people will be quick to classify that person as "racist", totally overlooking preference... I think interracial relationships can be normal if both partners don't make it weird for each other.
That is true. I was in an African expat group in London (was actually the only W one, come to think of it, and the thing was more, I “prefer”…
I keep seeing you on my home page, I might just as well subscribe😂
You’re 🐐ed bro
i like the vibe there. well made video :)
I believe people should love and be with whoever they want to be with regardless of race or culture. If the person has the values you have prayed for then go for it. Life is too short to worry about what people will think. Most people have ended up marrying people who they don't even love or like just to please others. At the end of the day when u are depressed those people that you are trying to please will be busy enjoying their own lives. Love knows no race or culture if its genuine.
Yohhh❤your content is amaazzziiinnnggg🎉
As a white guy, it’s not about race for me but more about someone’s culture. It just happens to be that certain races are more likely to be off a particular culture that may not appeal to me. But if someone actively considers themselves or partakes in my culture then I don’t see race at all
There are no "races" WE ALL are just HUMANS.... just love who loves YOU too......
Being in an interracial relationship myself for over 5 years, white/coloured. Situations/stares/remarks/people will only get you down if you let them. Do you, f@&# the rest. If the person makes you happy, fufilll your needs as a partner go ahead
white and colored? I don't think that counts. You're already mixed with white so.... Coloreds are descendents of the original white settlers.
@@suezcontours6653 now that's some hectic ignorance. Educate yourself friend. You're probably the oak at the braai that makes a fool of himself when he opens his mouth
@@suezcontours6653 👀also descendants of the original black Africans..
Im s black woman with a white Afrikaans man, Black people are too racist towards us, I noticed that blacks can be too racist since got in a relationship with this guy.i thought only whites can be racist but im seeing flames with my own now lol.
A video about my country,thank you!
Well I'ma just go ahead and get it off my chest... Noah, I have a little crush on you my guy😩. Just know that someone somewhere in Botswana really likes you and thinks you're an absolute hottie🥴
I'm a 47 year old white dude. Born in Rhodesia and raised in SA. I wasn't raised in an overtly racist household, I was never told not to bring a black girl home but it was definitely implied. I've never been attracted to non-white women but I also understand that I am a product of my time. It's a lot less of an issue to the younger generation. Doesn't bother me in the slightest. Do what makes you happy. I live in the UK now and its actually quite odd to me. People dont even notice colour in relationships
I hate these topics cause we come last. I hate hearing my people so keen to be with white and colored women only, being with us because they can't get their precious snow bunnies.
They don't want to say it, it's not about culture... it about skin color and the bs attached to it.
Would love to see this at Wits
Okie dokie... here as a young south african who is not in a city...
I never knew there was discrimination against racial couples at all...
Like?? We see it all the time.
I'm white firstly and I grew up in an Afrikaans area, I do take offense when other people specifically don't like white people but like I can understand 100%... I honestly didn't know there was even discrimination ❤😂
Small towns are even worse..what are you talking about?
Nande’s laugh>>>>
Gained yourself a subscriber, content seems very diverse from what I've always seen on the tube.
This is insane !!!! Good job
I'm in an interracial relationship with a German man, we've been together for the last 4 years
the music is phenomenal in this video
kudos to my brother rocking the offerzen shirt 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Am a Nigerian, dating any body that is not an African is an accomplishment over here
That's sad.
shame
No it’s not 😂, stop spreading misinformation
Lie 😂wtf eww
in west africa it is
I don’t know why this came on my feed but thank you. I personally have noticed how blacks are more open to dating other races yet they are the ones that face the most hindrances especially if it gets serious…. ie marriage.I have a lot of mixed family members but my personal opinion is that it shouldn’t happen. My opinion is rather strong though.
As a white girl who has never dated anyone amd has been attracted to every ethnicity I just want to say that everyone is gorgeous
When I was younger I was brought up in a white family till I was in high school then had to go live with my black relatives after then. And dating has always been hard because I was brought up in the white culture yet I'm black so an outsider in both the black and white cultures here in SA. I've honestly just given up on dating because even though I may be attracted to white guys because of my location it's very taboo for white men to date black girls and then when I date black guys then I'm not black enough or they say I'm trying to act white meanwhile I'm just being myself 🤦🏽♀️ so now I can't be myself. It's a serious case of code-switching 😪. Dating is an extreme sport
Why is it taboo? There are white men dating black women all over the world, love has no color
Date middle to upper class black men who are more educated and you won't have this issue, sounds like you're dating black men who are trying to be hood because that's what's promoted via culture(music, movies etc) to represent black people so a lot of people try to conform to fit this narrative sadly.
@@4evahodlingdoge226 Not black enough could mean not traditional enough, not just "hood"
@@yolandatoba5665 Upper class educated black people aren't usually hung up on tradition, I work in a Stem field so most men around me are upper-class science guys who don't care that much for tradition. Not black enough usually means too "white".
Yoh this really resonated with me
I've been in my fair share of interracial relationships and I'm currently in an interracial marriage. Like all relationships it's about compromise, keeping an open mind and having the willingness to teach and learn. But ngl the constant stares and whispers get very annoying also when someone of the same ethnicity think they can "steal" your partner away smh 🙈
As an Austrian living in South Africa with a black fiancé, I have to say it seems there are more interracial couples in my home country than here, despite the fact that Austria is much less racially diverse.
Dude, I was thinking the same thing when I visited Australia, I saw more black/white interacial couples than in South Africa which is crazy because statistically there are almost no black African people in Australia.
Really Good last words ❤
I'm a middle aged black South African and have never ONCE been invited by a white friend/colleague to their homes for a meal!
Do they accept your invites to dinner?
@@papalegba4449 Yes! I've even had white friends who've stayed over at my place. But never been invited to theirs.
@@JohnVianneyPatron Same but the other way around for me💀
@@Elross_ I'm an IndoSAfrican our culture is a VERY hospitable one. Just tell one of your friends you're coming to their home for dinner. They will see it as a compliment rather than an imposition.
Great video man!!🤝
It’s nice seeing y’all ladies taking back the land ✊✊ power to you ladies 🔥🎉
This is the REALEST country
Why’s no one speaking about the height difference between that interracial couple? Crazy! That shocked me more than anything.
Brother I am neither black nor white I am an Indian Hindu Man, and I'm a IT Senior Engineer. I do not like the policy of black and white. We are called wheat in the world. I'm married and my wife is a Orthodox Slavic woman from Russia. she runs Yoga, Ayurveda and Spiritual Academy in China. Im very happy with my wife and my life. My wife is very kind and very hardworking. I met her for the first time at a party in Belarus. She was very interested in yoga and spirituality. She practiced it with me in Rishikesh, India for 2 years. he gave me the first proposal for marriage on her birthday.
I Love My Wife....
She is Last Women of My Life.😘😘😘😘
I Very-Very Love My Christina Slavoxi. 😘😘😘😘
DOPE CONTENT BRO, KEEP IT COMING
i am a white rusisan guy dating a black malawian girl i am doing just fine and i actually know the maputo protocol that's how you defend an african women
come on man only 3 videos please give us more love ur content