I genuinely don't want to become like my parents. I don't want dad's behaviour and don't want a partner like mom. Only a child having this issue can really get the video completely.
I m nt one of those girls. Thanks to my parents nd my family environment ( I never want me nd my partner to be like them, specifically like my father) . Though I m 21 nd never been in any romantic relationship but observing my parents , environment nd my friends I slowly realized that whole relationship depends on passion , mutual respect nd understanding . We should prefer character more than someone's face nd their charm. Edit - some people r commenting me on still being single as if it is something weird... lol . To those people- guys focus on ur life . I m happy being single , don't worry for me .
Yep your upbringing is pure and good wish more girls think like you as well as guys,most of the modern day relationships at young ages are purely based upon looks,charms and sex
Good girls are also busy. That's why boys are not getting good girls and complaining all the time. Just wait yr. Do struggle, make a good career, become a mature and strong person and then you'll definitely get a best person just like you.🙌
This thing, 'relationship with parents defining the way our mind grows' is real. I mean, I've grown up in an environment where my parents were super strict regarding things like studies and behaviour. I was not allowed to cry and be stubborn for any and every thing. And, I like those kids or people who're having good educational mind according to their age. One example is, I had memorised tables till 30 while I was 4½ aur abhi mere chhote chhote cousins 12 se aage tak ka yaad hi nahin kar paate hain, and I get annoyed at this.
Lol annoyed why? Tables 10 tak bhi yaad rahe toh bohot hai. Mereko khud ko 12 tak hi paata hai. Woh alag baat hai 12th mein do baar fail kia maths mejn
They like bad boys because they are immature. It's easy to influence and impress an immature person with that cool dude and being daring attitude. Once they become mature they rarely make this type of mistakes.
@@kumaraayush Yes. I have seen a lot of cases in my Teenage days. Some are still trapped with them and bas jaise taise living their life. Some are starting again their life and many more.
My dad is an alcoholic and he abuses my mom most of the time. Don't worry, my mom gives head to head competition to my dad. In my entire life, Father and I never had a good tea talk. So basically he never responded to my emotions. While my mom is really caring and obsessed of me( which turned out be toxic in many ways). Both are short tempered and I'm completely opposite of them. I'm very calm and composed. I'm almost 24 years now and they still keep on fighting for simple reasons. I literally laugh whenever they start to abuse each other and I trust me, others would have been in depression if they had such parents. My brother and sister also quite short tempered. But I'm completely different. Seems that they adopted me..... Out of box 😭😂😂😂😂 POV: Two people are flirting with each other in the reply section.🫠💀
You're such a gem... It's quite difficult to live in toxic environment.... But you're calm and completely opposite, which shows that you're a mature and sensible person... Kudos to you... ✨ and, just be the way you are.... :)
My Father died one month before i wos born Never got a chance to spend 5 minits also with my father but my mom is a super hero she brought us up very well alone women But sometimes when I see other children's parence i miss my father whom I have never seen
Many girls are being diplomatic. Let me tell you the real thing. The main thing is that being nice and having a gentle behavior has always been a feminine trait. Men always were made to show themselves as rough tough, cold hearted type, bossy type. Sakth! This is in-built in girls psyche. So when they see a boy ,who is a nice guy, has a gentle personality, wo unhe kam mard lagne lagte hai. Because soft and kind attitude ladki se hi expect krte hai log. Ladko se ni. Ladke kre toh Wo manliness ni dikhti ladkiyon ko Phir unme. I have heard girls saying - AREY BHUT LADKI TYPE HAI. And this sentence is enough for girls to simp after BAD BOYS. Therefore they go after those bad boys, fuck boys type jo pair ki juti banake rkhe, ekdum harshness ke sath behave kre, kabir singh type, because that's how women have always been treated so they think its obvious. Ladko ko aise hi hona hi chiye. But its too late when you realise that having a nice guy is such a blessing ❤️ P.S- not all girls are like this. But as bad as it might sound, majority aisi hi hai. Atleast maine apne life me jitna dekha hai, out of 10, 8 girls are like this.
@ayushhhhhh not mine. Some of my frnds experience definitely. I am Madly in love with a guy who is really nice, soft spoken and gentle. Islee maine kaha na. Its a blessing ❤️
Most sane girls usually like good guys bro. If someone wants an abusive alcoholic person as their life partner they clearly have some serious issues. I never knew there was something like this, girls liking bad boys? In my school the girls wouldn't even talk to the so called "bad boys" and there was like this invisible segregation of bad boys and girls from the good boys and girls group.
7:01-10:21 Best. We don't know ourselves. We need to know ourselves, we need to make good relation with ourselves then only we can make good relationships with others. 👍👍👍👍
if a girl's dad is perfect.... he would give same values and qualities to his daughter and for her judging a boy by the qualities of her father is fair enough
Not necessary...first of all nobody is perfect N 2nd even if parents are pure soul Children can be worst evil So even if father is very gentle n kind hearted doesn't matter girl will be like that Our lives more influenced by past incidents....
My mom dad ran away from their home and married at the age of 18 after that my dad changed completely he didn't want any responsibility so the condition in our house was very bad everyday there were abuses domestic violence . This does affect indirectly and I realised it way late after being with 2 toxic guys, your subconscious mind chooses such guys who are similar to ur dad somehow.
@@Shikshit_xd actually my mom's family was orthodox she was not treated properly . There was always a discrimination between my mom and her brother. So when she met dad she thought she'll be away from this hell but instead she got herself in another hell.
This is super mess my one friend is super selfish very mean he just uses girls for physical needs and leave them approximately 50 girls there are many we know only 50 still girls write letters for him......and he is in serious relationship still he want physical encounters what say??? Sab golmaal hai good boys nice boys are useless according to girls!!
Exactly,, when you belong from a healthy and loving family, you develop high standards in love and relationships. The best way to love yourself is the high effect in your life.
Self Improvement pe dhyaan do baaki sab chize apne aap aayengi ig nature hi matter karta hai good boy bad boy toh sab humne hi banaya hai, being a good human being is the most important thing humility kindness aur humbleness honi cahiye mann meh baaki jisko pasand karna hai vo karega jisko nhi karna hai vo nhi karega good boy bad boy toh sirf bas humne hi banaya hua hai nature aur personality matter karti hai aur kuch nhi bhagwan ne sabke liye koi na koi banake rakha hai ❤️
my parents relationship is good. They respect and understand each other. Ofc Indian parents don't show pda, but yeah they care about each other. I had so much differences with my dad because we are different and have different opinions. And he was emotionally unavailable. but he is a good man, respect everyone and has been my biggest support system in very unexpected time. I always thought every relationship is as good as my mom and dad's, but i was shocked to find out that it is not true. Listening about my friends' abusive households just breaks my heart. So i am not going to settle for any person who is not as good as my dad.
Well said, bohot ladkiyon ko achhe ladkon kidar hi nhi hoti aur koi achha ladka bhi miljae toh use chood kar kisi aur toxic ladke se relationship mein rehti hai aur jab abuse karne lagjaye toh sara ilzam us toxic ladke par hi jaata hai, not on that girl who willing went into that relationship
Girls dont like bad boys.girls like men, boys are boys with toys. Theres a difference between toys lover and men with aim and ambition. Paisa is important on different level. 😂
Only issue is we live in society (family,gf/bf,friends,ur dog etc) which is need driven. They only choose to be with u only because u provide something that they need n vice versa. Solution - ur choices should be choice driven not need driven
I'm adult man now but for me my dad is super dad. I never show my affection toward him and neither he does but he loves me a lot and I also love him a lot and for me my mom is like soul and I can't even imagine my life without them. But apne sehi kaha jab mai chota tha mere papa ko maar ne baare mei bhi sochta tha 😅😀😀. But pyaar bhi karta tha. Actually ab papa bilkul soft hogya hai pr paihle rough aur tough insaan the haa pr mummy ko hamesha free hand de rakha the aur almost hamesha maa ka decision final hota tha pr ham bache pr rough and tough aur haa mere bahen pr nehi bas mere pr.
Thanks! Your psychology is damn amazing. Literally I never falls in such relationships but I solve many problems of my friends. The friends who are stucked in toxic relationship. And yeah, let's goo finally I found a good video on UA-cam. Anyways, there's alot to tell. Loved your channel and keep up the good work! 🙌🏼
was missing father taking me out for motorcycle rides...i miss em...also my entrance exams coming..i was just crying but wait!!! i could go for a walk on my own!!!! feel goood. thankyou
This comment section is real gold. Most young people have their own issues in family yet they choose to be on the better side of being/wanna be in their relationships. Hope you all end up with better partners & stay a good human
👉👉‼‼Idk why but I have this experience that good guys always finish last but that wont stop me from being good and respectful towards women because it is like a responsibility to us and fate would change soon🙌❤❤
Dear ma'am presenter, I must write ✍🏼 to state that since the age of 12 I have witnessed so much of Domestic violence between 2 very Ambitious, professionally successful {late} parents(each very focused on his/her carrier) that I am still Unmarried @ age 49🤷🏻♂️।।।And yes; I tried talking to my father if he had some reasonable life expectations from me. But 👎🏽 No. Hence here I am. Still all scared, bruised from my Past.... I have looked after my younger sister all there Yrs. though.. Thanks for this nice presentation 👍🏼. I will SAVE & cherish it forever.
Exactly guys too want girls who'd take care of them like their moms. This becomes even more complicated for girls if the boy's mom was emotionally unavailabile growing up, or was too strict. They end up seeking that motherly love.
Very accurate and the way she narrates makes it more interesting 💗! Thanks to my understanding of Indian language I understood what she says and I think India makes better UA-cam than our western countries 🙏 !!
Grew up in not so good environment....my father was there with us but never got any emotional support and my mom used to discriminate so never got any support from parents....but I am trying my best to be my best version and give all support to myself which I wanted from my parents.
Leave everything behind. Just acknowledged the way she talks and her action. It's soo funny like when she says at 6:35 "yeh kya nikla, choojsa", at 5:44 "I'm Lily...."🤣🤣 i didn't expect this much from a RJ
Talking to father is as difficult as talking to girl for many boys in such case this type of video only can help. Thank you for making such video and this anchor in big brainco is best female anchor of all looking ahead for more videos in this type of complex and genuine topic
Mhm.. Ig I'm the only rarity here for not having faced such father issues. But on the other hand, i ended up facing mommy issues. My mom was by far the worst parent actually. She has the typical orthodox mindset that girls need to do everything bla bla. Doesn't let my bro in the kitchen to work etc. And I hate that
3:40 गलती है। हम गलत पैदा हुए, immature पैदा हुए ये हमारी गलती नहीं। पर वैसे ही रह जाएं ये गलत है। हमारे पास ताकत है कि हम खुद को बदल सकते हैं, एक समझदार और बेहतर इंसान बन सकते हैं।🙂
Beaing an adult child there is lot of expectations from child by the parents ro sacrifice for theirs younger siblings are sometime frustating, and also sometimes it you feel so biased. What your younger siblings are doing, are ok for them but if u do the same it becomes the matter of concern or offensive. Since childhood I just have seen my parents finding drawback in me although beening most available at the time they need. Oppoising even the smallest decision like doing pony, going outside the house, choosing career of my own, and many more which is normal things for my siblings and no one opposes them. These all thing make child distance from their parents .. why so high expectations 🥺
Wow.. I just realised one thing... growing up, my dad was indeed a lot dependent on my mom. And I too was brought up in such a way that I must be protective over my baby bro, like a 2nd mom. I ended up attracting such people only. Who rely a lot on me as I was raised to be a pretty reliable & independent kind (long story short: a nice, polite girl). So I had trouble asking for help & such. Now Ig I need to change that
For people who want want to know more about Oedipus Myth. This was taken from a greek play called Oedipus. He was abandoned by his parents when they came to know from the oracle that he would kill his own father. Baby Oedipus was taken in by the king and queen of another kingdom. Growing up he heard rumors of how he was adopted. He went to the oracle to know the truth and she said that he would kill his father and marry his own mother (why even go to oracle?) Then fearing he would be faced with that situation, our Oedipus runs away and yes you guessed it right, goes to the kingdom of his real parents and kills his real father due to his ego. He becomes the king because he defeated a monster and obviously gets the queen of the land i.e. his real mother. And yes, he had 2 kids with her.
It Doesn't matter what girls like, bad boy or good boys. . . . My Kings don't change yourself for a girl focus on yourself. Remember :- A King doesn't need a Queen to be a King. A King need a Kingdom to be a King
@@THEWAY1820 dude have you watch full video I dont think it shows any wrong about men. It is just general perception that how parent impact there child
As I have seen my dad is really nice dad to me he does everything for me as I'm the only daughter he have also I was born after mom had her first miscarriage so I was very loved by my dad and my grandparents but the things I hate is that mom deserve to be more loved and respected!!! Mom does everything for my dad and my grandparents she never talk back or complain. And they take that as granted!!!! I feel like they should have been thankful to mom for doing so many things for us .. being housewife is even more harder than independent women. She can't say anything because she is not financially independent women. She can't complete her studies because my maternal grandmother used to be very sick and my mom had to do everything. She had to take care of the house and cook too at young age . Whenever I imagine all this everytime I feel I was just lucky that I had opportunities to become financially independent and chase my dreams. She got married at the age of 18 whereas my dad was 25 . She was too young but she didn't had any option she had to be matured because of situations. She was best daughter who took care of her mother. Nowadays I got so busy I couldn't talk with her or spent time with her ... She would have felt scared at that age so she never complaint and use to listen whenever my grandparents scold mom . I do feel sorry for her . My dad never abuse my mom but still I guess he don't show that much affection she deserves. My mom and dad both have gone through their own struggles and I respect that but they made themselves so strict emotionally and mentally that now they don't show any emotions . They talk very practical because of which I have to force myself to be strong and think practically hiding all the pain and emotions. I can't get that emotional affection and care . I need someone who can encourage me . Who can say it's okay to cry and not to pretend to be strong. Someone who can support me emotionally and understand mental health issues. Being strong is good thing , being pratical is also good thing but that doesn't mean we have to stop feelings things and gave emotions less value. We all are humans and feeling emotions is part of us and it's valid .
Being confident is not synonymous as being bad. Confidence ain't bad. Everyone should be confident irrespective of their gender. But be confident to boost your self-esteem and not to please anyone. Stop with the BS. Smh 🤦♂
Girls want their partner who resembles their "father's image"...but in my case, it's totally opposite..honestly my father is super toxic, abusive and dominating. I will also aware in the future that if a person resembles my father's image then the person is not made for me. I just want a person who respect me and my decisions...that's all I want !!
My dad is a true gentleman,but I didn't had an emotional connection with him(because he was away earning in abroad for providing us a better life), and I fall in love with an extremely toxic, insulting, egoistic and possessive guy (although I broke away from that loope, n he is a much better person now), but I am still wondering why I chose him because I can't agree with your logic.
This makes so much sense now. Because i met someone like my father. He had the same patriarchal mindset, he does have a modern thinking but just for a show. He had similar behaviour like my dad like doing things that he's adviced not to do and always ready to fight, and he's kinda narcissistic too. My dad do have some good qualities and he was the same but can't be good partner because of many things. Like there a saying that my dad believes in "women needs to sacrifice in order to adjust". And once that guy said almost the same Also my dad was quite handsome in his time so maybe my mom just accepted because of that. Because i also stayed with that guy for like 10 months just because he's too handsome 🙂
Girl you have to break this chain and become the "exceptional" one. Even my father is just like this but I always want to be in a "good guy's" relationship, so you need to change this trait in you !!
Exactly. My dad was actually pretty avoidant type. He'd hide a lot of things from my mom so that would make my mom a lot suspicious of him. I ended up pulling such guy also. Tho Ik the reality of my father as he shares that often with me & my bro, but hiding things from your spouse will def make them trust you less. Also that he had a lack of respect for my mom. And that kinda showed by the way he treated my mom. I ended up with such a guy also. He shared a few things with me in the beginning but also ended up distancing himself. He'd share a lot less, so I'd constantly doubt him. Also that we were just dating, not in a committed relationship so it made me question his loyalty a lot. In the end he broke things off. He had same kind of tendencies like my dad. Also that yes he looked a lot like my dad but fun fact: I saw a pic of his mom & my gosh, my side profile matches a lot with his mom. Guess he too ended up falling for a girl who looked like his mom, or well atleast a motherly girl lmao as I do have those tendencies tho honestly that's just the reliable big sister in me.
So guys, it's appreciated to learn your crush's father's personality first before your crush's. Atleast it could help to know what the hell she is actually 🙂
That’s a really great video I really love the way you are representing the video sarcastically , relatable way and the script 💯 really enjoyed watching it and the facts are also on the point
Daddy issues is the reason why women prefer us tall people,when they were a kid they would have had to look up to her father which is like an authoritative figure,and for men 190cm+ most girls have to look up to us Being tall gives so much head start in dating life
When was the last time you hugged your dad?
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he's dead .
last month when he was going................T-T
when i was in nursery ;]
Nice idea
Yesterday
I genuinely don't want to become like my parents. I don't want dad's behaviour and don't want a partner like mom. Only a child having this issue can really get the video completely.
So true
Ri8 Jeenav... not all can get this
I never thought that many ppl were having the same problem. It is sad to hear this but now I don't feel alone🙂
Fell sad for your parents 🤦🤦
Haha i can relate,my only dream is to get a job abroad and get settled there
Why *nibbi* likes bad boy?
*nibbies
Je baat 😂🤙🏻
Legend
Bsdk pura video tu dekhle
😂👌🏼
And the same is true for BOYS as well. We want someone who is emotionally available for us.
Hum pehle hi emotionally unavailable hai, saath wali bi esi hui toh zindagi andhkaar mei badal jayegi
Emotionally as well as physically 😎😉😎
@Tina Tere jaisi soch wali ko waise hi milne jaynge.
@Tina don't generalise it for everyone
@The New Aethist neo-atheism is a scam.
Neo atheism = Abrahamism - God
I m nt one of those girls. Thanks to my parents nd my family environment ( I never want me nd my partner to be like them, specifically like my father) . Though I m 21 nd never been in any romantic relationship but observing my parents , environment nd my friends I slowly realized that whole relationship depends on passion , mutual respect nd understanding .
We should prefer character more than someone's face nd their charm.
Edit - some people r commenting me on still being single as if it is something weird... lol . To those people- guys focus on ur life . I m happy being single , don't worry for me .
I'm wholeheartedly in your club
Perfect woman 🤞
That’s my description …lol
Yep your upbringing is pure and good wish more girls think like you as well as guys,most of the modern day relationships at young ages are purely based upon looks,charms and sex
You thought so but when you are in romantic relationship and not pretending any action of your then notice you take things differently
Good boys are busy and focused on their career 😉😉
Sigma rule #101
Good girls are also busy. That's why boys are not getting good girls and complaining all the time.
Just wait yr. Do struggle, make a good career, become a mature and strong person and then you'll definitely get a best person just like you.🙌
Girls or boys, good or bad, me being a gender-fluid and bi is completely confused: should I act like my dad or my mom?
@@S-tx2lk ngl u got us in the 1st half
Never ignore goal for a hole 😁
This thing, 'relationship with parents defining the way our mind grows' is real. I mean, I've grown up in an environment where my parents were super strict regarding things like studies and behaviour. I was not allowed to cry and be stubborn for any and every thing. And, I like those kids or people who're having good educational mind according to their age.
One example is, I had memorised tables till 30 while I was 4½ aur abhi mere chhote chhote cousins 12 se aage tak ka yaad hi nahin kar paate hain, and I get annoyed at this.
Same pinch bro 😅... My parents too had craze for making me learn tables till 30
@Nitish Singh bhai ek 4 saal ke bachche ko ye bol ke dekhna😅😅
आई एम बेड बॉय 😎😎 एंड आई प्राउड .. बहुत सारा बंदी मुझपे मरती हैं 😎🤗🤗
Lol annoyed why?
Tables 10 tak bhi yaad rahe toh bohot hai.
Mereko khud ko 12 tak hi paata hai.
Woh alag baat hai 12th mein do baar fail kia maths mejn
Instead of getting annoyed at a kid for not being able to memorize tables it's better to teach them abacus or mental math which will help them alot.
They like bad boys because they are immature. It's easy to influence and impress an immature person with that cool dude and being daring attitude. Once they become mature they rarely make this type of mistakes.
Bro bad boys ka matlab pata hai?
Jo bohot din nhi nahata vro , wo hota he bad boy 😂😂
@@kumaraayush Yes. I have seen a lot of cases in my Teenage days. Some are still trapped with them and bas jaise taise living their life. Some are starting again their life and many more.
It's hard to physically intimate with shy boys that's why 😎😉😎
Rgt bro
I'm a good boy and I'm proud of it....
Boyfriend banoge
@@parikhan2505 😂
@JETHIYAA terese pucha kisine?
Beta masti nahi :p
@@parikhan2505 😅
@@parikhan2505 😆😆
I like the person who are very caring and loyal 💞
Inbetween not all the girls are same.
Those who are very loyal prefer doggy style according to latest NASA research 😎😉😎
i am smelling financial indepence from u...
My dad is an alcoholic and he abuses my mom most of the time. Don't worry, my mom gives head to head competition to my dad. In my entire life, Father and I never had a good tea talk. So basically he never responded to my emotions. While my mom is really caring and obsessed of me( which turned out be toxic in many ways). Both are short tempered and I'm completely opposite of them. I'm very calm and composed. I'm almost 24 years now and they still keep on fighting for simple reasons. I literally laugh whenever they start to abuse each other and I trust me, others would have been in depression if they had such parents. My brother and sister also quite short tempered. But I'm completely different. Seems that they adopted me..... Out of box 😭😂😂😂😂
POV: Two people are flirting with each other in the reply section.🫠💀
Oh ..what a family 🤣
You won't believe but very relatable with me as well
You're such a gem... It's quite difficult to live in toxic environment.... But you're calm and completely opposite, which shows that you're a mature and sensible person... Kudos to you... ✨ and, just be the way you are.... :)
More power to you, deepak!
@@MRANALYSISSCIFACT broo me as well ✊
An understanding guy, a guy who tries to communicate when something goes wrong rather than ignoring and being in so called ego is far better.
Never been in a relationship because I am scared of being with a toxic person and being chained by responsibility 🤣...
Me not a Toxic Guy😁
@@vedantsingh2602 vo sab thik pr agr ye teri didi nikli to ?😶tuzse badi hui to 😂
@@hello-jt9jc Koi baat nahi..mere liye acceptable hai
@@vedantsingh2602 bhai tu kitna single hai 😂?
Tuze dekhke vo meme yaad araha hai
Bs ldki hona or jinda hona 😂
@@hello-jt9jc Mere Family me Love Marriage aur Badi Ladki Dono Allowed Hai..Mere Maami Khud Badi hai Mama se😁
My Father died one month before i wos born
Never got a chance to spend 5 minits also with my father but my mom is a super hero she brought us up very well alone women
But sometimes when I see other children's parence i miss my father whom I have never seen
Sorry bro
5:41 did not expect jethalal😂😂😂
Many girls are being diplomatic. Let me tell you the real thing. The main thing is that being nice and having a gentle behavior has always been a feminine trait. Men always were made to show themselves as rough tough, cold hearted type, bossy type. Sakth! This is in-built in girls psyche. So when they see a boy ,who is a nice guy, has a gentle personality, wo unhe kam mard lagne lagte hai. Because soft and kind attitude ladki se hi expect krte hai log. Ladko se ni. Ladke kre toh Wo manliness ni dikhti ladkiyon ko Phir unme. I have heard girls saying - AREY BHUT LADKI TYPE HAI. And this sentence is enough for girls to simp after BAD BOYS.
Therefore they go after those bad boys, fuck boys type jo pair ki juti banake rkhe, ekdum harshness ke sath behave kre, kabir singh type, because that's how women have always been treated so they think its obvious. Ladko ko aise hi hona hi chiye.
But its too late when you realise that having a nice guy is such a blessing ❤️
P.S- not all girls are like this. But as bad as it might sound, majority aisi hi hai. Atleast maine apne life me jitna dekha hai, out of 10, 8 girls are like this.
🤭🤭🤭
faxx
@ayushhhhhh not mine. Some of my frnds experience definitely. I am Madly in love with a guy who is really nice, soft spoken and gentle. Islee maine kaha na. Its a blessing ❤️
Wtf is kam mard ??
Wow well explained 🙏✌️
I'll rather be a good guy and be single for life than changing what I am.
_Maaf karna behenji hamse na hopayega_ 😭🙏
That's my guy same dude.
Chad
Most sane girls usually like good guys bro. If someone wants an abusive alcoholic person as their life partner they clearly have some serious issues. I never knew there was something like this, girls liking bad boys? In my school the girls wouldn't even talk to the so called "bad boys" and there was like this invisible segregation of bad boys and girls from the good boys and girls group.
Chad
True man, pehle toh aisi ladkiyan toxic ladkon ke sath relationship mein rahengi aur baad mein bolengi woh mujhe respect nhi karta hai, all men are same, blah blah blah
7:01-10:21 Best. We don't know ourselves. We need to know ourselves, we need to make good relation with ourselves then only we can make good relationships with others. 👍👍👍👍
Absolutely. I'm saying from experience.🙂
if a girl's dad is perfect.... he would give same values and qualities to his daughter and for her judging a boy by the qualities of her father is fair enough
Nobody is perfect🤧
He might be perfect for that girl🥱
Not necessary...first of all nobody is perfect
N 2nd even if parents are pure soul
Children can be worst evil
So even if father is very gentle n kind hearted doesn't matter girl will be like that
Our lives more influenced by past incidents....
My mom dad ran away from their home and married at the age of 18 after that my dad changed completely he didn't want any responsibility so the condition in our house was very bad everyday there were abuses domestic violence . This does affect indirectly and I realised it way late after being with 2 toxic guys, your subconscious mind chooses such guys who are similar to ur dad somehow.
Sigma rule never left your parents for any one
@@Shikshit_xd actually my mom's family was orthodox she was not treated properly . There was always a discrimination between my mom and her brother. So when she met dad she thought she'll be away from this hell but instead she got herself in another hell.
Much power to you G ,hope your doing well in life and don't have an effect of this on your life !!!
There are much more things than such stuff in life
This is super mess my one friend is super selfish very mean he just uses girls for physical needs and leave them approximately 50 girls there are many we know only 50 still girls write letters for him......and he is in serious relationship still he want physical encounters what say???
Sab golmaal hai good boys nice boys are useless according to girls!!
Good to know you see this pattern now make wise judgement
Exactly,, when you belong from a healthy and loving family, you develop high standards in love and relationships. The best way to love yourself is the high effect in your life.
The way she spoke and brought the entire topic . Ekkis topo ki salami banti hai💛😌
Self Improvement pe dhyaan do baaki sab chize apne aap aayengi ig nature hi matter karta hai good boy bad boy toh sab humne hi banaya hai, being a good human being is the most important thing humility kindness aur humbleness honi cahiye mann meh baaki jisko pasand karna hai vo karega jisko nhi karna hai vo nhi karega good boy bad boy toh sirf bas humne hi banaya hua hai nature aur personality matter karti hai aur kuch nhi bhagwan ne sabke liye koi na koi banake rakha hai ❤️
well researched! btw RJ Palak, i like your charisma
my parents relationship is good. They respect and understand each other. Ofc Indian parents don't show pda, but yeah they care about each other. I had so much differences with my dad because we are different and have different opinions. And he was emotionally unavailable. but he is a good man, respect everyone and has been my biggest support system in very unexpected time. I always thought every relationship is as good as my mom and dad's, but i was shocked to find out that it is not true. Listening about my friends' abusive households just breaks my heart. So i am not going to settle for any person who is not as good as my dad.
Well said, bohot ladkiyon ko achhe ladkon kidar hi nhi hoti aur koi achha ladka bhi miljae toh use chood kar kisi aur toxic ladke se relationship mein rehti hai aur jab abuse karne lagjaye toh sara ilzam us toxic ladke par hi jaata hai, not on that girl who willing went into that relationship
Girls dont like bad boys.girls like men, boys are boys with toys.
Theres a difference between toys lover and men with aim and ambition.
Paisa is important on different level. 😂
toys changes with age 😂😂
@@sayantanbiswas9702 😉
@@sayantanbiswas9702 dolls replaces with dilldos 😉😎😎
The akshay theory !! 😂
Then the same men regret after marriage, because they ultimately come to know Girls want to marry a lifestyle not a person :-D
Only issue is we live in society (family,gf/bf,friends,ur dog etc) which is need driven.
They only choose to be with u only because u provide something that they need n vice versa.
Solution - ur choices should be choice driven not need driven
I'm adult man now but for me my dad is super dad. I never show my affection toward him and neither he does but he loves me a lot and I also love him a lot and for me my mom is like soul and I can't even imagine my life without them. But apne sehi kaha jab mai chota tha mere papa ko maar ne baare mei bhi sochta tha 😅😀😀. But pyaar bhi karta tha. Actually ab papa bilkul soft hogya hai pr paihle rough aur tough insaan the haa pr mummy ko hamesha free hand de rakha the aur almost hamesha maa ka decision final hota tha pr ham bache pr rough and tough aur haa mere bahen pr nehi bas mere pr.
It’s not per say bad boys , but more of rich , successful, assertive and dominant men . It helps if you throw good looking into the mix
Thanks! Your psychology is damn amazing. Literally I never falls in such relationships but I solve many problems of my friends. The friends who are stucked in toxic relationship. And yeah, let's goo finally I found a good video on UA-cam. Anyways, there's alot to tell. Loved your channel and keep up the good work! 🙌🏼
Commenting is free btw and you're literally paying for no reason
Especially in offline video chats
@@SouravPlaysOff It's a rare concept called "SUPPORTING the channel"
Kaise paid comment kiya koi Bata mereko
@प्रणव हरेंद्र कुमार झा oh thanks brother
Wow... The way she's explaining is very fun and clear.... Real RJ
was missing father taking me out for motorcycle rides...i miss em...also my entrance exams coming..i was just crying but wait!!! i could go for a walk on my own!!!! feel goood. thankyou
So if you want your crush to love you
You can do some research on her father and try to act like him 😂
Then someday that crush says
Deep down daddy 😎😉😎
@@कनिष्क-घ9थ 🗿
When you use 100% of your brain 😳
@@कनिष्क-घ9थ oooh omfoo 🤣😂😂😂😘😂😵🔥
This comment section is real gold.
Most young people have their own issues in family yet they choose to be on the better side of being/wanna be in their relationships.
Hope you all end up with better partners & stay a good human
Such a great energy!
The way you say everything...... Wowwwwwww..... So chill n great 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
👉👉‼‼Idk why but I have this experience that good guys always finish last but that wont stop me from being good and respectful towards women because it is like a responsibility to us and fate would change soon🙌❤❤
Dear ma'am presenter,
I must write ✍🏼 to state that since the age of 12 I have witnessed so much of Domestic violence between 2 very Ambitious, professionally successful {late} parents(each very focused on his/her carrier) that I am still Unmarried @ age 49🤷🏻♂️।।।And yes; I tried talking to my father if he had some reasonable life expectations from me. But 👎🏽 No.
Hence here I am. Still all scared, bruised from my Past.... I have looked after my younger sister all there Yrs. though..
Thanks for this nice presentation 👍🏼.
I will SAVE & cherish it forever.
RJ Palak - so so so proud, can’t wait for you to dominate long form content 💪❤️🚀
Thank you all
Because of you
Exactly guys too want girls who'd take care of them like their moms. This becomes even more complicated for girls if the boy's mom was emotionally unavailabile growing up, or was too strict. They end up seeking that motherly love.
Very accurate and the way she narrates makes it more interesting 💗! Thanks to my understanding of Indian language I understood what she says and I think India makes better UA-cam than our western countries 🙏 !!
Grew up in not so good environment....my father was there with us but never got any emotional support and my mom used to discriminate so never got any support from parents....but I am trying my best to be my best version and give all support to myself which I wanted from my parents.
this is something many girls had to hear , I hope they understood this video and start developing their character by them self
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Leave everything behind. Just acknowledged the way she talks and her action. It's soo funny like when she says at 6:35 "yeh kya nikla, choojsa", at 5:44 "I'm Lily...."🤣🤣 i didn't expect this much from a RJ
Talking to father is as difficult as talking to girl for many boys in such case this type of video only can help. Thank you for making such video and this anchor in big brainco is best female anchor of all looking ahead for more videos in this type of complex and genuine topic
Mhm.. Ig I'm the only rarity here for not having faced such father issues. But on the other hand, i ended up facing mommy issues. My mom was by far the worst parent actually. She has the typical orthodox mindset that girls need to do everything bla bla. Doesn't let my bro in the kitchen to work etc. And I hate that
I like how she approaches the things !!
In my childhood, due to the pressure of my parents, I did not develop properly, so I am very scared and underdeveloped in real life. 😭😥😢😓
3:40 गलती है। हम गलत पैदा हुए, immature पैदा हुए ये हमारी गलती नहीं। पर वैसे ही रह जाएं ये गलत है। हमारे पास ताकत है कि हम खुद को बदल सकते हैं, एक समझदार और बेहतर इंसान बन सकते हैं।🙂
Loved this! Looking forward for more videos based on Daddy issues. Also loved how Palak conveyed this. ❤️
This was over the top speech
Please be carefull and light while speaking
Like other speakers .
Beaing an adult child there is lot of expectations from child by the parents ro sacrifice for theirs younger siblings are sometime frustating, and also sometimes it you feel so biased. What your younger siblings are doing, are ok for them but if u do the same it becomes the matter of concern or offensive. Since childhood I just have seen my parents finding drawback in me although beening most available at the time they need. Oppoising even the smallest decision like doing pony, going outside the house, choosing career of my own, and many more which is normal things for my siblings and no one opposes them. These all thing make child distance from their parents .. why so high expectations 🥺
Wow.. I just realised one thing... growing up, my dad was indeed a lot dependent on my mom. And I too was brought up in such a way that I must be protective over my baby bro, like a 2nd mom. I ended up attracting such people only. Who rely a lot on me as I was raised to be a pretty reliable & independent kind (long story short: a nice, polite girl). So I had trouble asking for help & such. Now Ig I need to change that
I can relate with this alot 😢😭
Listen Acharya Prashant to know yourself better. When you'll know yourself then only you can change or control yourself.
Thanks Palak Didi. You organized and explained the content in an endearing manner.
Out of the box topic... That's why I love BigBrain Co. ❤️
Marvellous work!
Excellent 👌🏻 Greetings from Scotland 😊 Have a great day everyone 🌻
You deserve subscription, palak you are Awesome, keep growing.
NOW THIS WAS SOMETHING NEW
GREAT WORK BIGBRAIN CO.
she is such a great what can i say narrator / speaker ... i am amazed !
Vdo was very entertaining nd very good....... BTW ur team chose very good topic
We all are kids in an adult shells. The way we treat our inner child defines how we treat ourselves.
As a girl a respectfully disagree. I would rather end up with a Circus Clown who respects me and makes me happy rather than being with a abusive CEO.
Do it then tell us
@@DeepakSahani-dx5bm okay now find me an abusive CEO first ?? You got some senses or something i was just giving an example
@@winterpromise2523 yep good luck , I hope u do what u say
Lies.. 🤣
@@winterpromise2523 itna jhoot matt bolo behen
For people who want want to know more about Oedipus Myth.
This was taken from a greek play called Oedipus. He was abandoned by his parents when they came to know from the oracle that he would kill his own father. Baby Oedipus was taken in by the king and queen of another kingdom. Growing up he heard rumors of how he was adopted. He went to the oracle to know the truth and she said that he would kill his father and marry his own mother (why even go to oracle?)
Then fearing he would be faced with that situation, our Oedipus runs away and yes you guessed it right, goes to the kingdom of his real parents and kills his real father due to his ego. He becomes the king because he defeated a monster and obviously gets the queen of the land i.e. his real mother. And yes, he had 2 kids with her.
Great ... Bring more of such psychological analysis .. 👍🏻👍🏻
Palak is such a personality. Loved it. ❤️
Good girls likes bad boys
So bad girls likes good boys ? 🥴🤣
😂🤣
well yeah 😂😂
No... I am a good girl and i like good boys instead of bad boys.
@@riddhi6355 hame boyfriend banalo na 🥺
@@mukeshhastamaitunwala8732 oooohh 🤣😂😂😂😱😱😵🤯
Very very thankyou for this best video, and next video recommend from my side take next video on trust! TRUST PLZ thank u
Being a psychology student...Freud ki theory itni easily first time explain krte hue dekh 😂😂...great🙌✨
Palak one of the best Host on Big Brain.. 👍🏻cool delivery of knowledge
Ye mummy wala shaddi ka baat sab mai nhi hota ha i respect both ☺️
Accurate,loved every bit
It Doesn't matter what girls like, bad boy or good boys.
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My Kings don't change yourself for a girl focus on yourself.
Remember :- A King doesn't need a Queen to be a King. A King need a Kingdom to be a King
sigma gang 🙌
on every video This channel has diff* thumbnail and diff* topic but all it ends on how men are bad toxic, how man are wrong and how women are right..
@@THEWAY1820 dude have you watch full video I dont think it shows any wrong about men. It is just general perception that how parent impact there child
GigaChad
And what is your kingdom money and success and when both does not makes you happy what about then ?.
As I have seen my dad is really nice dad to me he does everything for me as I'm the only daughter he have also I was born after mom had her first miscarriage so I was very loved by my dad and my grandparents but the things I hate is that mom deserve to be more loved and respected!!! Mom does everything for my dad and my grandparents she never talk back or complain. And they take that as granted!!!! I feel like they should have been thankful to mom for doing so many things for us .. being housewife is even more harder than independent women. She can't say anything because she is not financially independent women. She can't complete her studies because my maternal grandmother used to be very sick and my mom had to do everything. She had to take care of the house and cook too at young age . Whenever I imagine all this everytime I feel I was just lucky that I had opportunities to become financially independent and chase my dreams. She got married at the age of 18 whereas my dad was 25 . She was too young but she didn't had any option she had to be matured because of situations. She was best daughter who took care of her mother. Nowadays I got so busy I couldn't talk with her or spent time with her ... She would have felt scared at that age so she never complaint and use to listen whenever my grandparents scold mom . I do feel sorry for her . My dad never abuse my mom but still I guess he don't show that much affection she deserves.
My mom and dad both have gone through their own struggles and I respect that but they made themselves so strict emotionally and mentally that now they don't show any emotions . They talk very practical because of which I have to force myself to be strong and think practically hiding all the pain and emotions.
I can't get that emotional affection and care . I need someone who can encourage me . Who can say it's okay to cry and not to pretend to be strong. Someone who can support me emotionally and understand mental health issues.
Being strong is good thing , being pratical is also good thing but that doesn't mean we have to stop feelings things and gave emotions less value. We all are humans and feeling emotions is part of us and it's valid .
RJ Palak Deserves to Be In Films🌟
Thanks to cover this very unique topic...
this channel always comes with great and knowledgeable topics......
I dont like my father and i always wanted to date someone opposite of my father..But eventually I'm dating someone who reminds me of my father
Dump his ass. Trace your patterns. Heal. Good luck! :)
Beautifully explained the complex concept, thankyou Palak 🙏
this was very entertaining and also informative...well done bigbrainco😇👍
Everything was good in the video...but the way she explained each and every point.....she stoles my heart ❤️. She is amazing 😍
Jokes apart Girls just like confident boys, and all so called bad boys never lack in that field, so yep be confident and u gonna rock…. 🔥🔥✨
Being confident is not synonymous as being bad. Confidence ain't bad. Everyone should be confident irrespective of their gender. But be confident to boost your self-esteem and not to please anyone. Stop with the BS. Smh 🤦♂
I have closed the loop.
Our blood ends with me. ✊🏻
Girls want their partner who resembles their "father's image"...but in my case, it's totally opposite..honestly my father is super toxic, abusive and dominating. I will also aware in the future that if a person resembles my father's image then the person is not made for me. I just want a person who respect me and my decisions...that's all I want !!
Good guy is not typical nerdy as yiu have shown, they are normal, stylish and smart
Amazing ❤️... always important topics ❤️😌... Thanks a lot ❤️
This is the best video of big brain co 🤩
Full of energy !!
BigBrain coming with community posts related to dreams, lucid dreams ; superstition
Also BigBrain : _WHY GIRLS LIKE BAD BOYS?_
Perfectly balanced , as all things should be 😁😁
Yeh sab doglapan hai 🤣😂😒
I like her man... Full of Expressions
My dad is a true gentleman,but I didn't had an emotional connection with him(because he was away earning in abroad for providing us a better life), and I fall in love with an extremely toxic, insulting, egoistic and possessive guy (although I broke away from that loope, n he is a much better person now), but I am still wondering why I chose him because I can't agree with your logic.
Too good I enjoy a lot... learning as well
This makes so much sense now. Because i met someone like my father. He had the same patriarchal mindset, he does have a modern thinking but just for a show. He had similar behaviour like my dad like doing things that he's adviced not to do and always ready to fight, and he's kinda narcissistic too.
My dad do have some good qualities and he was the same but can't be good partner because of many things. Like there a saying that my dad believes in "women needs to sacrifice in order to adjust". And once that guy said almost the same
Also my dad was quite handsome in his time so maybe my mom just accepted because of that. Because i also stayed with that guy for like 10 months just because he's too handsome 🙂
Girl you have to break this chain and become the "exceptional" one. Even my father is just like this but I always want to be in a "good guy's" relationship, so you need to change this trait in you !!
Exactly. My dad was actually pretty avoidant type. He'd hide a lot of things from my mom so that would make my mom a lot suspicious of him. I ended up pulling such guy also. Tho Ik the reality of my father as he shares that often with me & my bro, but hiding things from your spouse will def make them trust you less. Also that he had a lack of respect for my mom. And that kinda showed by the way he treated my mom. I ended up with such a guy also. He shared a few things with me in the beginning but also ended up distancing himself. He'd share a lot less, so I'd constantly doubt him. Also that we were just dating, not in a committed relationship so it made me question his loyalty a lot. In the end he broke things off. He had same kind of tendencies like my dad. Also that yes he looked a lot like my dad but fun fact: I saw a pic of his mom & my gosh, my side profile matches a lot with his mom. Guess he too ended up falling for a girl who looked like his mom, or well atleast a motherly girl lmao as I do have those tendencies tho honestly that's just the reliable big sister in me.
10:03 BEST WORDSSS!❤
I loved Palak ❤the way she delivered the whole content 😆awesome one yrr. Excellent Excellent Excellent 👏🏻 👌 👌 👍🏻 👍🏻
And hey palak you are so chill bro. I like your style and confidence. You are amazing yr
So guys, it's appreciated to learn your crush's father's personality first before your crush's. Atleast it could help to know what the hell she is actually 🙂
Absolutely loved itttttttt mam 😘waiting for more
My sister tells us she wants to have a relationship like our parents with her future husband
That’s a really great video I really love the way you are representing the video sarcastically , relatable way and the script 💯 really enjoyed watching it and the facts are also on the point
Daddy issues is the reason why women prefer us tall people,when they were a kid they would have had to look up to her father which is like an authoritative figure,and for men 190cm+ most girls have to look up to us
Being tall gives so much head start in dating life
💀 lame
Really good video.. there can be more to come on such topics 👍